Ep 150 “They Know That You Can”

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I shortened the original title of this which was "it's not that they think that you can't, it's because they know that you can!".

I got this idea because in some recent situations and recent jobs, I kept getting a lot of 'pushback' and vitriol and haters for no good reason.

I always go out of my way to be respectful and kind. And I'm always professional.

Due to this vitriol, it made me think..."is it because they think that I'm stupid?" or "do they think that I'm dumb?" And "why are they talking to me so disrespectfully?" "I'd never talk to them the way they're talking to me.".

It's a form (it's always a form) of disrespect, suppression and oppression (with underlying racism and/or sexism).

When I realized "Oh! It's not because they think that I can't do the job or do "xyz", it's because they know that I can".

Because there is no call for it (no reason for it). No reason for any of this vitriol. SMH.

If you ever second guess yourself and think "Oh no, they think that I'm stupid or incompetent or dumb!".

They don't.

It's not because they think you can't, it's because they know that you can and are completely capable and they're (for lack of a better word), hating on you because of this.

Also, they want to feel like they're better than you and smarter than you which is where the pushback and suppression comes from. If they can suppress you and make you second guess yourself, then they've won.

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