Unraveling the Complexities: Dating, Relationships, and the Controversial World of Birth Control

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's tricky.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
I say parents should be licensed, so you should
cannot have a child unless youget a license so so so what do
you think about these Male birthcontrols coming out and now men
can like get vasectomies?

Speaker 1 (00:15):
No, but it's not the second me, but I'll take.
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
I'm not.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
I'm not sold on the vasectomy thing.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, I don't know why Are you done having children
?
Yeah, but it's always nothinglike the option, though.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
You know what I just don't want to be backed into a
corner.
Let's just say I'll just justsay one day out I could be like
70 years old and some I get someyoung chick and she might you
know, I want you to have a baby.
Why?
You never know I don't, but Ilike the.
I like the options though.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
We're into on boundaries.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
What about that doctor that had that said save
millions of millions of sperm?
let's what you call them sperm.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
It's just sperm.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
Any save them like he and then.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Didn't that doctor impregnate many women?
Which is So?
now you have people out here inthe world who are siblings
biologically and we don't knowwhat's happening.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
That is horrible, horrible.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
You do not need that option.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
No, you see you taking a drone way and I believe
in you.
Start messing with stuff.
You could screw something up.
Matter of fact, one of my umthis is my co-workers.
He had a vasectomy the firsttime was messed up.
He was kept bleeding out of it.
He couldn't he couldn't get anerection so he had to go back
and correct it.
So I just he said it's theworst pain in his life He said

(01:44):
he would be through is the worstpain He had erection for.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
he said like two weeks and it was blood coming
out of it.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
They had to go back and correct it and he that
sounds like a big pee pee, apersonal problem.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
Sounds like a big lawsuit It's just I don't know,
i just can't, i can't see myself.
just I'm not gonna say I won'tdo it, it's just a lot of it's
like a lot that goes into it.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Okay, but what about the male birth control?
Would you do that?

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, I would do that We're all talking about.
Maybe lice doesn't have anylingering effects.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
Why women birth?
female birth control haslingering effects.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Oh, yes, it does now he.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
G-rex, like you don't say I never knew.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
I don't know, i guess I could do it.
I mean, i'll do it.
Yeah, it's not, it's not thatserious.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Well, i say a woman, since a woman has a right to
choose right and she, no one hasto carry the baby and all, like
she, this is her thing, like we.
Just we just participate bysupplying the sperm on Occasion
but this is really y'all thing.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
But what if a woman doesn't want to be on birth
control because of the lingeringeffects?

Speaker 1 (03:05):
And you don't want to have kids, i'm assuming?

Speaker 2 (03:07):
you don't want to have kids.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Oh.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
See, you would pull out every time.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
I pull out.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, mine, mine is yeah mine is a fully effective.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
What are my boys?

Speaker 2 (03:29):
He don't believe it.
He's a true.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
He said you a punk if you pull out my boy.

Speaker 5 (03:33):
He never pulls out how many kids it got Three.
He got three.
He got three He knows that.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
He knows that.
He knows of.
My husband says the same thing.
He's like only losers pull out.
I'm a loser.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't want to pull out.
It's like I'm trained, i'mpretty mature, pull out.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Sometimes, I pull out like, oh shit, I wasn't ready.
No man, listen.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
I would do, i would do the um burqa todo, that's
that.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
I don't do male birth control.
What is?

Speaker 3 (04:05):
it just appeal Oh Oh, morning after.
The morning after is perfect.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah why not just morning after boom?
Yeah, but there's no affect,they should just sell it like
there are no effects.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
But That kind of defeats the purpose if you
always do in it and then have toalways take the morning after
pill.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
How I mean how it's like drinking my you might as
well go on birth control.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
Yeah, you might as well go on birth control once.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, you might as well do birth control, Yeah but,
but.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Birth control has the side effects morning after this
well, we ain't supposed to takeit daily, though, so we don't
know, Take it every day Tic Tacslike believe heavily, yeah, so
every day.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
I don't know I know somebody took the morning after
pill.
I still got pregnant Oh but Ithink holy shit but they say it
doesn't like if you are alreadypregnant, because it's like
maybe they didn't know It's a 72hour window, right.
So if you go, the longer you gotowards that 72 hours is the
possibility that you are alreadypregnant.
So if you take it in, you'realready pregnant.
It's not effective.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Too shit.
It's like chasing that sperm.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
You know, being that you're good, you want to say
something before I say this.
This by going to turn into aholding subject.
Okay okay, it may not justthink about.
You know you got.
It's a lot of depression in theworld.
People feel like they lonely.
I know this is a very off topic, but I just thought about
because of the sperm thing,Don't you know, we all have won
something?
at one point We was that oneegg there when at one sperm.
Yeah, you know you was thewinner at one point.

(05:42):
I love it out of millions.
It's not, there's not like it.
So you know, you know, youplayed a lot of philosophical.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
You feel like we were meant to be here.
It was meant to be, we werewinner sperm.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
That's right.
Think about it in my line.
Wait egg and sperm, though,right Well there was only one
egg.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yeah, you look at you .
Still you was that person orthat one that made it.
So I mean, that's just deep.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
For the world.
Let's go.
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
So let's talk about date night.
Date night.
I've been couple questionsbefore we even get into that.
Who here likes to date?
Because you can't reach me,listeners can't see you like to
date Answering like today.

Speaker 5 (06:34):
I like.
I like many dating.
What's that?
Yeah many, many dating.
It's like You know someonethat's there temporarily, you
know you, you date, you do yourlittle thing and then you move
on and do it all over again.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
I didn't know that had a name.
I Thought that was differentname for that.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
It's not a hoeing.

Speaker 5 (06:54):
No, I didn't say anything about sex I.
I said dating like I like men.
I do like many data.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
I like going on dates .

Speaker 5 (07:03):
You know, I like many people like the whole dating
thing too.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
I guess the challenge of trying to impress that
person on a consistent basisbecause when you want you get
them, you know you're not reallythinking about trying to
impress them, but that challengeof trying to impress them all
the time is, think about thedate like going out.
Doing things doing things makethem smile, having the
conversation, because theconversations in the beginning
is always the best You know.

(07:27):
You first getting into the sidein dating a new person.
You're on a phone for hours andyou like, like a little kid,
getting falling asleep on thephone and stuff.
And then you know you grow outof it.
But that an issue part is thefun, is the fun part of it.
I think if I had to change it Iwould just be a dator.
I would just date, also havesex, and probably one to the
next person, and just date againand just.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Also would enjoy a mini date, many dates.
Many dates Many dating Whatabout you.
Do you like the day?
I don't mind dating.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Okay, do you like the whole event of it?
Do you like like you know?

Speaker 2 (08:06):
I like flirting.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
So you like, before the date, you like to get the
date.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
I like, i like flirting.
I would prefer to flirt, andthen I don't.
I don't like to invest my timeinto things That are not worthy.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
What makes them worthy, though I mean?

Speaker 2 (08:22):
I guess you have to date to find out if they're
worthy right.
It's just a matter of I don'tknow I it takes time.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
So how do you know, how do you trust your instinct
when it comes to getting a date?

Speaker 2 (08:33):
because listen, i don't know.
I've said at my life veryconsistently to work right now.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
You know a reason why I asked that because you know
you get people that say, makethat statement about finding the
right person, and let's justsay you haven't found the right
person, so that's a lot ofmistakes that you made.
So what does?
how does that go for your?
Yeah, i don't see your ego, butyour confidence about, about
dating.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
I don't think it's about.
Can you trust yourself?
That's what I mean.
Um, no, yeah, you can trustyourself.
I do believe this any.
Anytime you date someone, right?
Any person you meet bringsInfluence into your life, right?
So you meet somebody.

(09:15):
There might be something like Idon't really like that, i know
I don't want that in the personthat I'm with, or I know I like
that, I'm gonna bring thatforward, or I know you, you
learn a little bit more aboutyourself.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
So that means so you're basically saying that
That person might be that stepto get to your real person.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
I think so Yeah.
So I guess, there's purpose inin many dating.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
There you go many many dating purpose.

Speaker 5 (09:39):
No, it's no purpose for me.
It's like I Like you, let'shang out, and then you know,
someone else might come alongand catch the mind.
And Let's hang out, do the samething.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
So it's a physical thing with you initially.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
Hmm, no, is it physical, is it?

Speaker 3 (09:54):
just no pressure.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Like we're just gonna go with the flow and see what
happens.

Speaker 5 (09:57):
Oh, so it's definitely physical.
Okay, oh shit, like I, likedamn You're sexy, i want to hang
out with you, and then we hangout.

Speaker 4 (10:05):
That's probably why you many days because you get
sick of them and they don'texcite you anymore.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
Yeah, pretty much pretty much.
I like.

Speaker 5 (10:14):
I like the options and the variety.
So just cuz I like stop hangingout with them, doesn't mean
it's like forever, like I willthey come back around?
Yeah, so you're not chill withsomeone.
Yesterday we hung out and stufflike that and We haven't seen

(10:35):
each other in like months.
But you know there's been otherpeople in between and We fell
back like it was nothing and Iprobably won't see him again for
another couple months, so, butthere'll probably be somebody
else that I was actuallysupposed to go on a date today
with somebody else, so but it'sconfusing though, because if you
initially tracked into him cuzphysically and then you fell off

(10:55):
and then you go back, what isit?
It's not that we fell off, it'sjust that.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
I.

Speaker 5 (11:01):
Just like the variety ?

Speaker 2 (11:03):
is there an understanding like?

Speaker 5 (11:07):
Yeah, I mean for the most part, yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
You ain't gotta convince me.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'm just I'm asking questions.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
Everyone is an adult.
We all know what's happening.
Fuckin it Yeah it's just insane, you fucking.

Speaker 5 (11:20):
I mean Yeah, i mean for you know, for the most part
hopefully gets to that.

Speaker 4 (11:29):
But I mean, that's what he stopped many dating when
they won't give it up.

Speaker 5 (11:34):
Always get it.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Thank you, danny, got it ordered from the expensive
part of the way exactly, i don'tknow.
So I Think the dode, the datingthing, because when I was
younger it was date.
You want to date because youwouldn't get any pains.
But I think as I got older Ijust like the whole The romance
of it.
I guess, i don't know, thatsounds silly, or no the whole
the whole romance of it, likethe, you know the taking her out

(12:02):
and holding the door andsmiling and getting that first
crush on the person and I'm nottalking about Once you fall in
you start liking a lot.
I mean the crush to crush to meis the part I like, you like to
crush.
I don't like that.
I'll be like each other.
We like the anticipation right,that's like the crush part, like
I'm crushing on you but, then,once we start liking, each other
like I don't want to like youthat much.

(12:22):
I just want to crush on you.
But I like, i like this, i likethe suspense.
I like a person where We go outand date and I want to do it
again the next day.
They're like no, and so youwon't date them again until like
a week or two later.
And so it gets.
It keeps you coming likechasing them.
I guess.
I guess I'm giving out all theclues for women.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Yeah, but God, maybe you shouldn't date them
consistently.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
Give them a little bit.

Speaker 2 (12:46):
You want to miss them ?

Speaker 3 (12:47):
sprinkle little sprinkles, little spring.
Yeah, let's say calledassaulted.
What do?
you do What about you to me,what you think about dating.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
Well, i think it's well.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
As a married person, i'm just taking this all because
I we not married stuff.

Speaker 4 (13:03):
So I don't really care for dating, really like,
just like you know, It's a wasteof time.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
I also think, like guys Let's be real here for
women I think that the qualityout there is not great.
Like, like if for us It becomesa waste of time eventually.
Like I think there are betterquality women for you guys to
date than there are good qualitymen, because the good quality

(13:30):
men are usually taken.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Not tend to disagree with you.

Speaker 4 (13:34):
Well, i think that, like you know, it's for us as
women There are so manystandards that we are correct,
requesting right exactly,Exactly you.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
That's what I'm gonna say.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
Yeah.
So it's like Like Six of us arefighting for one guy, correct.
So that's why it seems likethere's a whole bunch of like
cheating and all that going on,which more and more now recently
, guys are saying I'm datingeverybody.
Yeah right, i'm.
They're not lying about it.
So it's like women are moresaying they're okay with that
type of situation, but I'm not.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
I don't think it's a shortage of men, i just think
the women's standards are toohigh.
I don't want to bring backKevin saying these stuff, but
sometimes you guys, thestandards, you guys like I know
women, that's up in damn air.
They're 50s and not marryingstuff.
Because they got, they want,they want to get a hit all of
the checks with it, with the guy, and sometimes you got to take
away them checks as years go by.

(14:30):
I think every year you shouldtake away like okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
He ain't got to have a six family.
Agree with that.
I think that we again we dohave a lot of high standards.
We want a guy that like fits amold, that can, that's gonna be
able to fit in with our family,that's gonna be financially
secure, that's gonna look good,that's gonna be.

Speaker 3 (14:49):
We don't want to show it, guys, we want to talk right
, i was just gonna say that Iknow a lot of guys out there
That's sure it has got it going.
and one woman look at him, saysI don't care, he got six
figures, he got, he's smart.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
He's everyone's taller than me, so I'm like They
say everything but.
But he's too teachers.
But I don't think it's wrongfor a woman to have confidence
in what she knows.
And and that goes hand-in-handwith about people wasting time,
right, you know what I'm saying.
Like, i'm not gonna waste mytime on everybody who wants to

(15:21):
give me a date right, Right Iget that, but what so, when it
comes to confidence?

Speaker 3 (15:25):
when do your confidence like?
when do you put it away?

Speaker 4 (15:28):
Well, when you obviously you click with people,
you can't like be overlyconfident, but you and you have
to be approachable.
But certain things you didn'tknow, you're like why waste his
time?
because I know that Ipersonally would not entertain
it.
See, it's about wastingpeople's time.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
Yeah, i agree, but I think so, i think I'm very big
on like energies, right, peoplebring energies into the table on
, you know, and I think thatwhen you vibe with someone, you
vibe with someone like and sothose, those, those High
expectations and high standardsYou're like, okay, maybe I can
cross this one off of this oryou know what I mean, because
you just vibe with each otherand that's who you spend your

(16:03):
time with, that's who you kindof Invest into a little bit
because that feels worth yourtime.
But like shit dating, and likeI've, i was told recently I had
been dating defensively BecauseI had like I was just fighting
cuz I was like God, like I don'twant to waste my time with you,
but you're like continuing tobother me.
You're not, you're not gettingit.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
I think there's a lot of women, Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
I know, i know more.
It's like you could do bad byyourself.

Speaker 4 (16:32):
Yes, and that's so so .

Speaker 5 (16:35):
I know like we can make it.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
Yeah Yeah, i'm cool with many dating.
that sounds great.
But relationship wise, i knowit's time to leave a
relationship when I feel likewhen I was single I was so much
better off, correct?
That's oh shit, yeah, when youknow what it makes me feel like
what enhancements are youbringing to my life?
If I was living my best life asa single person, why do I?

Speaker 4 (16:58):
need but it's also to say you doing stuff out of
habit Correct, you know what I'msaying like you're with the
person because it's like, okay,it's been whatever, how many
years, and like now it's a habit, like.
But to go back to your point,like we were talking about the
crush, men don't understand thatyou still have to chase and
date Like ten years down theline.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
Ten years down the line.

Speaker 4 (17:18):
You know what I'm saying?
because you have to keep us,just like women have to upkeep
themselves.
And You got to be looking right.
You still got to do what yougot to do when you got that man.
You still gotta be doing that10 years later.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
You still want them to speak into the microphone 10
years later, right, correct?

Speaker 3 (17:33):
But they don't always do it consistently.
Oh, no, no.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
But when you but like I said, you do have women that
do it consistently Correct Orfive times a week.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
I see it completely differently.

Speaker 4 (17:41):
Well, let's hear.
I see it completely differently.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
I know he was warming up.
I had to say he did.

Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm sitting here, i'm like, ok first of all when I
think about so, check this out,first dates.
Let's go to first dates,because I'm a connoisseur, so I
always say let's just Are you onbumble?
Let's have.
Let's have coffee, right,because I am not going to some
elaborate dinner with someonewho I'm really just trying to
feel out whether we're together.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
They always want to go on this elaborate dinner.

Speaker 5 (18:08):
Yeah, true.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Right And and like of course they're not going to pay
, they're not going to offer topay, which you know.
Ok, i'm fine with that.
But I say let's do a littleintroductory meet.
We have a drink or we can gohave coffee, whatever, and it's
always a problem Like, well, i'mworth more than a.

Speaker 4 (18:23):
You're looking at these.
You're looking at it.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
I don't think that that's a problem.
I think before you, before youmake a decision to sit at a
dinner table with somebody.
You want to know if you canhave a conversation with them
Right, so I think coffee is theperfect date.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
Do you think most women think that's for the 30
and up?
They probably don't, they don't, they definitely don't.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
Because, you're right , there's this list of standards
and because, let's be honest,right And I know, i know that
you're a connoisseur of firstdates and you're like an anomaly
to them, to the male population.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
I mean right.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
And.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
I know, Oh shit.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
That's the missing link.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
OK, you are the missing link.
No, we need you to tell us thesecret.

Speaker 2 (19:02):
You tell us the secrets, but most, most women
like like statistically mostwomen right now are making more
money than men.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
That is true.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
Correct, right.
And so women are like all right, i know what I bring to the
table.
Can you at least take me out todinner?
Shit, right, so.
So that's that's the frame ofmind that they're coming from.
But I see both sides.
I don't want to sit at a dinnertable with someone I can't have
a conversation with.
I think coffee is perfect, and Ithink that the second date
shouldn't be dinner either.

(19:32):
Right, we should meet up forlunch sometime, or we should go
on a walk or something like that.
I don't know.
Get on the boat, right,something something like that
Right, and then maybe third orfourth date could be dinner,
because again make it worth mytime.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
Make me feel like I want to spend time with him.
I want to get him, to get toknow him a little more.
That, to me, is what datingshould be.
It's just that exchange ofenergy and exchange of
conversation and exchange ofgood vibes.
Yeah.
But, that's, that is rare.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
It is Okay On both sides.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
Yeah, it is, it is, It is.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
I totally agree with that And I think that women you
know, and I was I was listeningto some other things, so some of
the complaints that you haveabout men I see in women as well
.
For example, you know you getthe ring right.
So we're a little bit pastdating now, but you get the ring
.
And all of a sudden, everythingthat got you to get that ring
goes away.

Speaker 4 (20:27):
But listen, that's true.
That's not always a completelyfair assessment, Okay.

Speaker 1 (20:32):
Not 100% of anything is ever, Not even 98.
So stop No no, it's at least70% of the time.

Speaker 4 (20:38):
I agree, it is 70% of the time.
I mean everything you did.
I give you an example ofsomeone I know.
Okay, so they're married Andtheir husband is used to what
before they had kids?
having sex pretty much everyday, seven days a week, multiple
times.
Okay, then you have a familyand you have kids.
They have soccer practice, theyhave softball practice, you

(21:01):
know all of these things, andyou can only have sex four times
a week.
The husband complains becauseit wasn't like it was before we
had kids.
This is my friend that I'mdiscussing.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
If his sex drive is high, what does he supposed to
do?

Speaker 2 (21:17):
Jack off in the bathroom Like all the other
women think that's like thathelps.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
I mean, but this is what I'm saying, but you take
that right And it's technically.

Speaker 4 (21:26):
Yes, it's less than before we had, but it's like
four days a week, are youserious?

Speaker 2 (21:33):
But here's.
Here's what I think about that.

Speaker 3 (21:36):
I don't think is that the sex goes down.

Speaker 2 (21:38):
But I think that once children come into the mix,
you're wrote like so usuallythat's taking everything right,
driving these kids everywhere,fucking, feeding their asses.
That was the woman's argument,all of this stuff And by the end
of the day, you want her tohave sex with you.
She's tired, correct?
What are you doing to help herwith?

Speaker 3 (21:57):
all this.
I do understand that.
But when it, when the guys, ifyou're doing a traditional home
and a guy's providing doing allthis stuff, he can't slack.

Speaker 4 (22:03):
And he can't slack and say well, that's what my
friend's husband said.
He was like when I don't feellike doing something, the
mortgage still gets paid.
Facts It's true, though It istrue.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Like.
So you just basically said weget a woman should get a pass
before, whatever's going on.
But we got to keep that samestandard going from the day one.
But okay, let's just say yougot one because I'm very
successful, i'm making money andall this stuff.
But soon we get married, hadkids.
I'm saying you know what?
I don't want to make that muchmoney anymore.

Speaker 2 (22:30):
Let's downgrade to apartment, let's you're not
going to like that, but sheworking to and doing right and
all of that other stuff, becausethat's a deal If you're all
you're doing is working And likethere's no even distribution of
what's going on here, Right?

Speaker 3 (22:44):
But what I'm saying is, if he's, if he's bringing a
hundred and from day one and shestarts offering the hundred
until they start having kids andall that stuff.
But she only could bring sevento one children.
But I get.
No, i get that, i understandthat.
I'm just saying but we, i don'thave room.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
It's not even just, but y'all can't even just say
the kids and then less sex.
It's all those other piecesthat matters.

Speaker 4 (23:09):
But even if you go from seven to four like No, no,
forget this.

Speaker 1 (23:13):
If going from seven to four is probably tolerable,
at least for some men, but now,when you're going from my
beautiful wife to now, i comehome and she's in disarray all
the time and there's no dinner,you know it's, the atmosphere is
not loving and warm, and all ofthat is now gone.
Well, that's a hundred percentcorrect.

Speaker 4 (23:32):
I agree with that.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
And so that's back.
I'm back to the 70%, so 70% ofthat is happening.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Well, that's happening because she resents
him for something She wants toput.
no, she's resenting him forsomething.
Probably because he wants sexseven days a week and he's not
helping her with the truth, Soyeah, so y'all don't think the
drive changes just a little bitafter you say I do from a woman.

Speaker 4 (23:52):
It does It does Okay.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
It definitely does I don't know.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
I've never said I do.
I can say I'll make my besteffort I do, but I do.
I'll make my best effort togive you sex seven days a week.

Speaker 3 (24:07):
But I think it goes both ways, both ways.
I'm just, i just I just feellike some women.
I was watching this YouTubething and it was talking women
was talking about oh, the guygot to do this guy gotta do that
.
And the guy was like okay, youwant this traditional guy, but
we don't get traditional women.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
You know you still got this.

Speaker 3 (24:23):
You still got women that some don't want to cook,
Some think they too independentto do this or do that.
Now you want me to help youwith the kids because
traditionally, if you go by,traditionally, the husband
doesn't help with the kids.
But you want me to be atraditional man, but you don't
want to be the traditional wife.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
So you got, if you want to take one.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
You got to have, you got to take it all.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
Here is the other thought that I have, and I
remember going through somethingin my hairdress.
My hairdress is a friend ofmine, a guy, and he said you
know every, every married womanthat sits in my chair is unhappy
, she has miserable, she neverenjoys sex with her husband, so
sex is for him.
She don't get any satisfactionout of it.

Speaker 4 (25:03):
When a woman has sex with a man, it's always for him.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
It's always for him right.

Speaker 1 (25:07):
That's probably true most of the time.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
Most of the time, yeah, and so when you then marry
someone and because let's talkabout it right, because men get
comfortable too, and he's like,oh, that's mine, i'm entitled to
that, right.
So I'm getting that anywayuntil he feels satisfaction and
release and he's not worriedabout what happens there.
So why should she want?
What is she getting out of theexchange?

Speaker 3 (25:30):
I don't know, oh, look, look, look, i got nothing
to say now A roof over her headright.

Speaker 1 (25:36):
God did not make this thing all balanced and stuff
like that for.

Speaker 2 (25:40):
No For.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
But I do, i do think that the act of sex like because
, remember, some cultures treatsex as a means to an end, it's
only to create Right.
I mean, yeah, there's some joyin doing it, but it's But
Western civilization.
We treat sex as you know, thiseuphoria thing that happens to
could result in having a baby.
So it's a whole differentdynamic, right.

(26:02):
But in reality, i mean, sex isa means to an end and there may
not be pleasure on both sides.
That's just the way it'sdesigned, right.
But the man, the man has tohave that right, That's critical
Right It is.
And so the woman is kind ofcreated to be his Partner in
that that whole concept.
So hopefully she enjoys it, butif she doesn't, that's you know

(26:23):
, that's something that could bepsychological too.
Right It could be something inthe mind.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
But I mean, but even look at most relations that
break up on people guys cheat.
The first thing he says why,why are you cheating?
You have sex with me.

Speaker 4 (26:35):
Was it having sex with me.

Speaker 3 (26:36):
Right, i'm going to you, don't got to beg him.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
No, no, no, no no, no , no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
, no, no, no, no no no, no, no,no, no no no no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no no no, no,no, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
And my wife is backing that thing up every
night.
Yeah, i don't, i don't, i'm,i'm, i'm, i'm be honest with you
, yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
I'm subway.
If she was, if, if your wife isdoing what she has to do.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Do not going to you're not going to have.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
Trust me, you ain't going to have no energy to cheat
, even if you wanted to.
Right, i'm gonna be silent.
I've never had a penis before,i don't know.
I come home at night.
Not only am I treated withbeautiful meal or whatever, but
then, before we go to bed, weget some quality time, even if
it's a half an hour.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
Kids go to sleep.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Quickie.

Speaker 3 (27:21):
But I'm evil right.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
But just think about that.
I wouldn't have energy or timeor whatever.

Speaker 3 (27:27):
He's right, you're not gonna have no energy, even
if you thinking and you're like,i ain't gonna be able to do it
though, cause you're just allout.
Your body only produces acertain amount of sperm anyway.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
This reminds me of.
I saw this meme or somethingand it was like from the 1960s.
They were looking in a book andit was like things to make your
husband happy, make sure thekids are quiet when they get
home.

Speaker 3 (27:49):
Oh, I see that This sounds like Gag them little.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Make sure the food is on the table nice and hot, And
we're at 2023.

Speaker 3 (27:58):
Honestly, i know we're in 2023, but what we guys
ask?
I don't think we ask for a lot.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
I don't think that's a lot.
It's not really a lot.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
Cause you gotta.
If you cook every day, yougotta eat anyway.
Right, if I wasn't here yougonna cook, but here's the
kicker, you want men to bemonogamous.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
Men are not naturally monogamous, right?
So if you want a man to bemonogamous, that means you gotta
be every woman, and that's thehard part for women to
understand.
God really made men to have.

Speaker 4 (28:25):
Man can be monogamous or not like polygamous, but I
let me do it too.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Oh wait hold on See, okay, see, that's not your
nature.
No, you don't know, that's notthe whole nature.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
You can't do whatever you want.
Whatever, man, i'm done now.
We're about to qualify for 2023.
We'll both do what we want.

Speaker 4 (28:41):
Next topic.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
next topic What's the problem?
Ain't no problem, less minidates as a married couple.
This is not called a mini tomini.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
This is not called mini to mini.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
Right, This is one to mini, not mini to mini.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
You got all these rules in shit, so back to the
dating thing.
This is why.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
I'm set up my life in a certain kind of way to just
work You're like.

Speaker 4 (28:59):
this is why I don't waste my time.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
Whatever.
So back to the dating thing.
So what is like a red flag foryou when it comes to dating?
Like, just think about yourworst date.
What happened to you?
Like you know what?
this is bullshit.
I'm done with this person.

Speaker 4 (29:16):
When they talk about their ex.
Oh, I hate this so much.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Yeah, that's a big one.
I don't Don't be saying you'rereally old bro.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
Right, they're not old man.
One And two Words like a littleselfish.
They shouldn't matter Yeah.

Speaker 3 (29:27):
That's such a turn off.

Speaker 4 (29:28):
So that's the I'll be ready to be like no, I'm good,
I don't care.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
That's why I don't want to waste my time, okay, so
I gotta be more than just that.

Speaker 4 (29:35):
You said what is a red flag?
I just gave one.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
You don't have any more red flags.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
I gotta think.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
I had one.

Speaker 4 (29:42):
There's no print in the Grace Web Band.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Huh, That's a big red flag.
You know what?
Listen.

Speaker 3 (29:47):
No listen.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
Listen.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
I was reading something to the paper.
I'm going to the paper.
I read something I don't need aI don't need a-.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
I think you're already out of show.
I don't have a good-byes cover.
You can't You can't go by thatthough.

Speaker 4 (30:04):
He's a grower, not a shower.
No, I need to see something.

Speaker 2 (30:07):
Right, like in a show , please Let's make the other
girls jealous.
Come guns blazing.
I agree, right.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
You're stupid, You know you could always brush up
against it, just to make sure.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
Right, you never know .
Some guys tuck it in the back,some guys tuck it between their
legs As a customer standard.

Speaker 4 (30:26):
Right, You could have a jack strap.

Speaker 3 (30:27):
Right, what the fuck?
Some guys are not proud of thatThey don't want.
No intention.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
Well then they're not my energy.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
Okay, right, it's all about energy.
It's all about energy.
Y'all are full of shit.
I can't.

Speaker 3 (30:41):
So if you're full of shit, you're full of shit.
If you came to your house hardalready with his gray sweat
pants, you would look at himlike a creep Right It's a
problem.
Maybe when I was 20.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
You'd be like come here, Susio, All right, Susio
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (30:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I can't.

Speaker 2 (31:03):
Priorities, guys, priorities, okay, you asked.

Speaker 4 (31:07):
Now not listen that non-imprint as a red flag.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
Okay, don't waste my time.
I think a red flag for me islike when I can tell you're
being like not sincere and it'sjust you're just being
dishonored Like you're justbeing insincere, like we're
grown, let's just be honest.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
Right.
So how do you know that though?

Speaker 2 (31:29):
You just met the person You don't know.
How do you know that It's allabout energy?

Speaker 1 (31:34):
See, that's anecdotal .
You gotta know You can't justassume This is dating.
This could be the man of yourdreams.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
And you could it, though Does he exist?
Of course, is he an ice-life orsomething?
He's there, he's there, hedefinitely exists.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
You are beautiful, bright, intelligent.
One of the heat is there I am.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
I am sassy and classy .

Speaker 4 (31:55):
Yeah, and bad assy And bad assy, probably a little
more sassy than classy.
No, excuse me, i got her, i'mjoking, i'm joking.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
I'm joking, i'm joking, i'm joking, i'm joking,
i'm joking, i'm joking.
You just set yourself up forthat.
Fine, i'll give you that.

Speaker 3 (32:07):
I think a red flag for me was I had a lot of good
days, but this is one day thatwent on.
She was talking about herselfin one thing, but I could deal
with that.
She called the waiter over andshe already had mine.
She already had steak andlobster, right, it seemed like
she went to the most expensivething on the list because she
just went down the list and thenpicked it.

(32:28):
So then she called the waiterover and she was like I like to
order, like I forgot my name.
It was like a little steakdinner And I was like, but I
said, you hungry still?
She said, oh no, i'm orderingsome for my daughter, lord of
mercy.
So I'm thinking in my mind oh,you must be on another.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Just a check.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
Right so he's like you just added to the check,
she's like you just added to thecheck.
I was like in my mind, i waslike you know what, i'm gonna
pay for it, cause this is gonnabe the last date.
I'm like, how do you like, howdo you do that Like?
and she's like, oh, you know, ijust you know, cause, since I'm
not home, when she's like,since I want to date with you
and I'm not home, i'm notcooking, i'm not able to cook
for my daughter, so I want tobring, make sure she gets
something to eat.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
I was like that little bitch, I don't give a
shit like that.
Got nothing to do with me.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
But I was like you know what Right.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
I was like you know what I'm just gonna pay for it
and just be done with her.
I was like cause, i was, i wasdone.
I was like you.
How do you want to tell me whatI'm going to pay for?

Speaker 2 (33:17):
You know what I used to do in my in my twenties, when
I was dating in my twenties.
Y'all are, I don't know, y'allmight roast me, but when.
I would go out on a date with aguy I would offer at the end.
I'll offer, i'll pay half.
You want to split the bill?

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Man.
I love a woman like that.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
But dammit, if you, let me pay half that bill, right
, right right, we're not goingout again.
I appreciate that, i reallyappreciate that, but I
appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (33:35):
Yeah, if you offer.
If you offer, i'm good Becauselook.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
I'm not looking for a gold digger.
And think about it.
A lot of women today arelooking for security And I think
a man's job is to provide andprotect right.
Those are the two piece.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Well, glenn, you want to go out for some coffee,
let's go, let's go, here you go.
No, maybe a drink.

Speaker 3 (33:51):
I'm going to have a drink.
I'm going to have a drink.

Speaker 4 (33:53):
Ah, that's good.
It's a good dinner, stakin'lobster.

Speaker 2 (33:55):
You already know my vibe.
Maybe you ordered for the stepkids and your cousins.

Speaker 1 (33:57):
This is what I was talking about friends dating the
same guy.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
We fuck around and dating G-Mac at the same time.

Speaker 4 (34:04):
Everybody, everybody dating G-Mac.
I feel like I'm dating thisbaby.
He only took over coffee, butthe thing is like.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
I think Tyson hit a big, big point Like this is this
really weird line between a lotof women got you know, some
women got their own right, sothat's cool.
It's this thin line ofunderstanding what woman is
really about the security andthe money side of it, right,
they're really more focused onthat than they are about the
relationship.
And where are we really going?
And if your attention is likesplit, i can tell.

(34:34):
I can tell quick.
So like but how do you tell It'sthe conversation, it's the way
it goes, it's what we talk about.
Is it materialistic kind ofconversation?

Speaker 2 (34:44):
That's what I say about being insincere.
Right?
Those are the things you cantell genuinely.
Okay, then I can get that.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
Yep, i can get that Absolutely.
I mean, if you're going to talkabout material, like when I
talk, i want to talk on a vibe,i want to talk about life, i
want to talk about experiences.
And if you want to talk aboutthe mall and you want to talk
about, you know, louis Vuitton,like I could tell, like there's
something there.
Even though you got your own,you know, you still especially a

(35:10):
woman that has her own becauseshe definitely don't want to go
lower, right, so she wants tonot even hire.
So you in a man you caughteither way, like you know, you
pulling somebody up orsomebody's, you're equal and
they still going to try to.
So it's very, very complicated,but I think money and finances
is a big deal in today's world.

Speaker 3 (35:28):
It is.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
So cheating number one, and then money and finances
.
Those are the two things thatcollision courses.

Speaker 3 (35:36):
Yeah, I mean, I mean that's the most relationship,
Sex and money most relationship.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Damn, damn, and I hate to say it's sex too,
because sex should be theeasiest thing in theory.

Speaker 4 (35:48):
Well, i think it's the cheating part.
Well, the cheating side right.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Stepping out, but shouldn't a man be able to okay?
no, i've been not good.

Speaker 3 (35:57):
No, no, no, no, no, go, go, go, go, go, come on.

Speaker 5 (35:59):
Let's start, let's start.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
World War five.
I think Okay, so damn.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
I hope nobody's listening to this Not yet.

Speaker 3 (36:09):
Are we in line?
Are we in line?
Are we in line?
This is not Glenn Mac, by theway.

Speaker 2 (36:12):
This is not Glenn Mac , by the way.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
This is Antoine.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
So if some of the greatest men in the world and
whatever cheating really meansbut some of the greatest men in
the world fell victim to that,how can you expect us little
peons not to also fall victim?

Speaker 2 (36:32):
to cheating.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
Like is it even possible?
So let's think of one of thegreatest men in the world that I
know.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
Let's say I don't want to slander his name.

Speaker 1 (36:39):
But let's just say some of the greatest men you
guys know fell victim tocheating right Or extramarital
affairs, or whatever the casemay be.
Ron Luther King, jesse Jackson,i was going to say him, but how
can you expect Lulule?

Speaker 4 (36:51):
me.
I don't think it's aboutactually like maybe if it was
something that was said ahead oftime like this is how I want to
run, could you have to respect,right, somebody's like position
?
If you were like, listen, youtell your potential.
I'm not looking for just one, ineed two, maybe three and she

(37:12):
gonna run the other way.
Well then you find that, but lether decide.
You might get an answer thatyou were expecting or you might
keep going and getting a bunchof people that run away till you
get that one that's like yes,i'm into that, i'm down.
You know what I'm saying.
So it's about being able tochoose.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
But he does love his girl.
So so y'all think men can'treally really love you,
unconditionally love you, andmess with somebody else.

Speaker 4 (37:38):
No, I think that we.
But I'm saying like it would bean even better situation if it
was just something that was puton the table from the beginning.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Well, we don't have an intention of doing it from
the beginning.

Speaker 4 (37:47):
Yes, you do.
No, you guys are built likethat.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
I think most men that say I do really believe that
they are never going to touchanother woman again.
I really honestly believe that.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
I do, i believe that.

Speaker 4 (37:57):
I think, they think they.

Speaker 2 (37:59):
I mean you go into it .

Speaker 4 (38:00):
It's a beautiful because the, the wife, is lying
about.
That's why you believe her life, that she's going to have sex
with you.

Speaker 3 (38:09):
Right basically.

Speaker 1 (38:09):
And she's going to cook.
Let me tell ourselves She'sgoing to cook and she's going to
have.

Speaker 2 (38:13):
She's going to have, i love her At least once a month
, because let me ask a questionWhen you get, when you get
married, is that, do your mindframe like, like ownership, like
now I own this person.

Speaker 4 (38:25):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
And like I mean thank you Like now like their body
belongs to me And I'm entitledto it all

Speaker 2 (38:31):
the time.

Speaker 3 (38:32):
I think so You think you entitled, but you're not
entitled because you don't getit Right.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
It goes the opposite direction of what you thought.
Right, they're in lies, thefirst set of problems.

Speaker 4 (38:41):
Somebody's talking about them because he think he
own this shit And he be overhere all the time in the space
OK.

Speaker 2 (38:47):
Get it daddy.

Speaker 3 (38:50):
Oh, but do you do you ?
do you give in though?

Speaker 4 (38:52):
Of course, because I'm not fucking happy.

Speaker 3 (38:54):
Well, not, but see a lot of women don't give in
though.
That's the, that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
That's the problem.
You're a good wife.

Speaker 4 (39:00):
I know.
But you know what.
You know what killed me, though.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
You know what you?

Speaker 5 (39:06):
know, what came about you women?

Speaker 3 (39:08):
Yeah Be.
You'll be like oh, i got to dothis, i got to do that, not for
nothing.
Most guys are done within 15minutes, so it's not really
taking that much time out ofyour busy schedule But we want
to come to know you don't If youtalk about I don't want to have
sex because I'm dealing withthe kids I'm about to get dirty
baby.

Speaker 4 (39:24):
You about to take a whole nother shower If I take a
whole, nother shower.

Speaker 2 (39:28):
You have to make or heat up the hot.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (39:30):
I can't, i need some.

Speaker 3 (39:31):
Well, no, but are you dealing with the kids?
Are you telling me no, becauseyou're dealing with the kids.
That's the two different things.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
You want me to engage in this.
I want to come as well.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
Man, but some women are so gosh, some women are very
hard to come.

Speaker 4 (39:46):
They are.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
I mean, i don't know whether it's psychological or I
don't like Well what?

Speaker 2 (39:51):
is it Bigger?

Speaker 1 (39:52):
well, I do this and then you got to like, make sure
my Well, that's what you have todo.

Speaker 3 (39:58):
And it got the three count, the three to do this You
have to know your.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
You have to know what someone you should know her
body, you should know exactlywhat.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
No, sometimes women don't even know they body Stop
it.

Speaker 4 (40:09):
No, but I'm saying, when you're married to someone,
you should.
You should really.

Speaker 2 (40:12):
I don't know the point You are sexually engaged
with someone for a period oftime.
You know their body.

Speaker 3 (40:17):
You know they body?
Do you know how to get homefrom here?
Yes, ok, but that's still you,wouldn't you want to walk it
though, right?

Speaker 2 (40:22):
No, it's too far, ok, exactly.

Speaker 3 (40:24):
So I know her body, but it takes too long to get
there.
Why would I want to do it?

Speaker 1 (40:28):
That's fucked up.
You guys are, i mean, if youtold me honestly if you could
tell me that if I do these fivethings, you're always going to
come.
I do it on heartbeat, but for aman, all you got to do is last
for X amount of time And I'mgoing to come right with you.
It's got to be.
If you could tell me these fivethings, i'll do it every time.
But if you tell me just just alittle, come on, just don't stop

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, that is forever.

Speaker 5 (40:54):
Yes we write.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
We write if it's doing forever, Something ain't
right Like you know, it ain't me, i'm doing what you say, you
guys take 15 minutes.

Speaker 4 (41:03):
If you're doing it right, it could take me five,
Like what?

Speaker 1 (41:06):
the fuck.
Well then, that's that's.
That's what I have, yet to seewhere it's consistently It's got
.

Speaker 4 (41:11):
You know, they know exactly what they, if I know
that something's going on likeand you can see that your man is
like ready to like be done,then you got to hurry up and do
what you got to do.
Do what you do, you know what Imean, but I say get yours
because like a race first onewins.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
You better get your.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
You better get your Quick, but I still got to get up
and take care of the kids.

Speaker 4 (41:32):
No, I still got to go in the bathroom and use my
vibrator to get off, but youcan't go get yours.
And then by the time you getback, he sleep Right.

Speaker 1 (41:39):
But wait, i'm going to say this once again sex is
for men.

Speaker 5 (41:44):
Right.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
Sex is for men, y'all .

Speaker 2 (41:46):
Are we going back to?
are we?
are we about to like do thehandmaid's tail here?
This is what I'm feeling, likeWe're going to like Gilead.

Speaker 4 (41:53):
But they're speaking the truth.
I mean, it is because most ofthe time women have sex they
don't come.
Guys, i enjoy sex but, but but.
I enjoy.

Speaker 3 (42:02):
You're also looking.
Yeah, i don't think.
I honestly don't think you guysfeel what we feel, because we
feel chasing that high right Dowe do, you do it because, you
want to get that high.

Speaker 4 (42:11):
Yes, but then you never get it, so you keep
chasing it.
So you know.

Speaker 3 (42:13):
The problem is, you women look at sex as equals.
We're not equal when it comesto sex.
It's not.

Speaker 4 (42:19):
Sorry.

Speaker 3 (42:19):
Our feeling with you weak feels totally different
than what y'all feel.
Because if if you felt what wefeel, you will be acting the way
we act, exactly You don't.
You guys could go weeks withoutit and be OK.
We cannot go weeks.
We could.
We could barely go a daywithout it.
So that tells me that we sex isdifferent from.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
For us It's just it's just natural, and I hate to say
this, but Gilead is a man.

Speaker 5 (42:39):
Right Wrong with you, but think about it.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
Think about all the things guys do for sex.
Women, you don't do all thatfor sex.
That means it's good We havewhat it is.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
It's like the magic key.
We don't have to do all of that, like we got pussy, like what
I'm saying is.

Speaker 3 (43:03):
But what I'm saying is sex to you guys.
You guys say you know organsfeel good to you, but I don't
think it feels like we fail, noway.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Because if it felt like we would be chasing it, you
will be on it all the time.
You dive on me right now Allthe time Like I want to die.
But I want to.
So if somebody shows up, Sohave you ever heard?

Speaker 3 (43:22):
Have you heard of anybody?

Speaker 4 (43:23):
Have you ever heard of others Have?

Speaker 3 (43:25):
you ever heard of any females getting a kuchi sold up
and killing themselves?
Absolutely not Guys, no, infact the statistically, when
something wrong with a guy'spenis, they're more likely to
commit suicide.

Speaker 4 (43:38):
Good is dead.
That's because you guys havefucking problems.

Speaker 3 (43:41):
No, I'm telling you, the sex to us is different.
That's weird.

Speaker 4 (43:45):
Your sex is like.
Your sex is like.
Let's not be.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
Alcohol.

Speaker 3 (43:48):
Our sex is like heroin.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
That's not front Listen guys, I've never had a
penis.
I'm not arguing this with you.

Speaker 1 (43:54):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
I'm not going to argue this with you, right, i'm
not.

Speaker 3 (43:57):
The evidence is there .
You can't argue it.
Evidence is there.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Evidence is there.
I'm just speaking for, formaybe it's not equal, but I'm
just saying if married men wantsex all the time, make us come,
make us worth our while, helparound like And again, i've
never been married, right, icould just say once I say I do,
i'll make me, you're the sexywhen you come into your man.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
But I think, well, i think what I was saying up
behind you, baby.

Speaker 2 (44:22):
I think what I would, what I was saying and what
you're saying is kind of thesame.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
But OK, I would wonder if you are that guy that
don't have to make his wife comeevery single time.
you fuck her But she stilldon't want to have sex all the
time.
It's someone out there that youcould make him come in less than
30 seconds.
Right, but they still don'twant to have sex every day.
So that goes to show that youdon't feel sex the way I feel it
, because I want to, and when Icome I want to feel that same
feeling 10 minutes later.

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Give me Let me rest.
If I'm not so, i could go again, if I'm not so, i could keep
going.
I would try to screw into myshit.
Don't work, no more.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
You, you, women are not going to do that, you
wouldn't be like I'm dry, idon't want to do it, no more.
Let's just stop, let's do it,Let's do it.

Speaker 3 (44:59):
We could do it next Friday, No guys?

Speaker 1 (45:01):
no, guys Talk like that.
God, i don't know We play.
Can we do it like 10 minutes,like we wait, like me some eggs
and let's go drink some waterand do it again Right, we get a
sugar rush.
But here's how I would describeit Men, sex, women making love.
Right, we can, i mean it, don't.
You don't have to really evenlike her per se.

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It's sex Women, they want tomake, they want to make love,
they want the they want all ofyou know all this, you know
things, peripheral stuff aroundit.
They want that which isperfectly fine too, like if a
man is in love he probablyenjoys a lot of that stuff too.
But but we can just as easilytake that hat off, that the
making love hat, and put on thesex hat and boom, boom, boom,

(45:44):
boom, 10 minutes dry and we out.
And women can't do that Womennot not some women can, but all
women can't just put on the bangbang hat.
They can put on the make love.
That's, that's what they wantto be, and so I'm sorry, just
sex is just not equal?

Speaker 3 (45:59):
It is not.
And you know what?
I was reading the article.
I don't care, i remember it was, it was just random.
So they were saying how, evenif you look at the gay community
, you get two gay gay men andtwo, two lesbians.
And they said, statistically,the two gay men are more
physical and sexual than the twolesbian.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
That, that's science, that's science.

Speaker 3 (46:23):
So a lesbian relationship, and you tend to
talk to them as more of aemotional type of thing.
The emotional attachment is not, it's not based off of sex.
It's some lesbian that I heardthat don't even even engage in.

Speaker 2 (46:33):
I've heard about lesbian sex.
Women can come nonstop.
Men can only come once.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
What How?

Speaker 2 (46:39):
Who told you that You need a break?
Oh, no, no, I see you say.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
So yeah, that's true, yeah, right, yeah, yeah, yeah
which is a miracle.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
I'm like, oh God, that must be so amazing that you
can just come over Over.

Speaker 2 (46:50):
It is pretty amazing, But you know what?

Speaker 4 (46:52):
But it is No sometimes it's the point where
you're like, OK, that's enough.
No, but it's it.

Speaker 3 (46:59):
But it proves my point, but it proves my point
though.
But it proves my point then,because if you guys could come
multiple times, like that andstill no, it proves my point.
It proves my point, if you guyscould do multiple comes back
and back.

Speaker 4 (47:13):
It's different, though, and then and and be OK.
But if I came like that back toback.
I would like.

Speaker 1 (47:18):
I would die, like I would be so drained I would too,
if there was no thing.
So God did it perfectly Right.
He said, man, once you come,you got to, you got to sit down.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
You got to sit down.
You're going to faint.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Right, you got this woman unsatisfied and have a
seat Right.
Go to sleep, she will go useher vibrator until you're ready
to start this up again.

Speaker 4 (47:40):
It's time for you to go to sleep, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
God was a little biased in that guy.
I don't know God, i can'tquestion.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
But he's a little bit biased, but he knows what he's
doing, he knows exactly whathe's doing.

Speaker 1 (47:53):
Thank you, brother, but it's true.

Speaker 3 (47:57):
But you know, it's just so.
The whole the whole datingthing is all we all know is it's
a sex game, a sex game, game offive.

Speaker 5 (48:04):
No, I mean not always , Not always, Oh here you go.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
Come on, Twan, give it up.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
You've been very quiet.
Please give this your Excuse me.
Let me clear my throat.

Speaker 4 (48:17):
No pun intended.
You know that.

Speaker 5 (48:23):
But yeah, i mean not always.
I do enjoy the going out andyou know, hanging out and vibing
and stuff like that.
It doesn't always have to bethat, but there are some people
that I've, you know, dated andI'm like like we need to get the
fuck out of here and like oh,but there's others that I just

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enjoy the company?

Speaker 3 (48:48):
Yeah, but maybe the attraction is not there because
you're not attracted to them.
Then I can see.

Speaker 5 (48:52):
Oh I, I ain't going to hang it with them if I'm not
attracted.

Speaker 1 (48:56):
So are you saying that you have never, with
someone who you weren't reallyattracted to, never crossed that
line and went on anyway?
I don't believe that.
even if you weren't, so there'sattraction.

Speaker 5 (49:08):
And then of course I mean you.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
We call it a step in on landmines.

Speaker 3 (49:13):
You never step on a landmine.

Speaker 5 (49:15):
Right, look, it's hard to explain.
So I've gone on dates whereI've been attracted.
We vibe very well, doesn'tnecessarily have to.
Sometimes I'm not even thinkingabout that with them because
the vibe is just there and Ijust like you know being around

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them.
But there's others, like theone I chill with last night,
like We can keep our hands offeach other.

Speaker 2 (49:42):
You got to have it Just can't Like.

Speaker 5 (49:44):
I, instantly, when I see him, is like I'm already,
like, already there, like, ok,dinner's over, let's, you know,
go back.

Speaker 4 (49:54):
I've had that before.
Yeah, i understand, but don'tyou got it, don't.
So, don't you got it first,first, don't you got it tasted
first, before you were able toknow that.

Speaker 3 (50:03):
What did you want?
Theoretically, i don't knowabout that No both.

Speaker 2 (50:08):
So, from a male perspective.

Speaker 1 (50:10):
No, i can see it And know that I want it.
After I get it, I may say thatwas right, but but just seeing
it and knowing what I like andit connects Man, you know but I
don't.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
I mean at least, at least for me.
I don't.
I don't go out on dates oranything that I'm not already
one in anyway.
I didn't.
Just think it's a waste of timeIf I don't, if I'm not looking
at you and want you already.
I don't want to go out on adate with you because there's
nothing you could say So, let mechallenge that.

Speaker 1 (50:35):
Ok, and you, you are knowing, you, you?
but but let me.
So.
Let's say there's someone youweren't 100% attracted to, you
weren't necessarily vibing with,but you just wanted to smash
for whatever reason.

Speaker 3 (50:48):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Yes, yes, i do it.
Okay, that's what Changi isLike.
I don't, that's not, you know.
Yeah, it don't have to be thefull pack, it don't have to be
the full pack.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
See, i don't have that many.
I mean I got standards.
They got to be at least a sevenand above.
But other than that, like.
I mean like because in my mind,going into it, i'm not that
fully attracted to it, so I knowthat that's probably gonna be
the only time that we do it.
You know, i mean in case thesex is good.
It might kind of be like a sidetype of thing, but as far as me
dating and having that samefeeling, i might even go on

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dates with you, but I might havenot had that feeling on the
inside I don't know if youunderstand what I'm saying Had
that feeling like, like I wantto be here.
Like I'm here because I'm justchecking the box.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
Because you know we have.

Speaker 3 (51:30):
I don't know, i don't know.
That's my young self and myyoung body.
I don't know, i don't know.
Honestly, i mean, it soundsshallow, like you tend to find
these people that It doesn'tsound shallow, it sounds silly.
No, it's not really silly,except if you're not doing
anything.
You're single, you're not doinganything.
Okay, if you're mini datingYeah, you're mini dating, like
you know, like, so I can't Youshould not waste time.

Speaker 4 (51:49):
Right, you're wasting time.

Speaker 2 (51:51):
I don't even.
I want to say You're not,you're feeling time, Feeling
time feeling.

Speaker 3 (51:54):
You know feeling needs and stuff like that,
because it is people out therethat you not attract to
whatsoever.
But the sex is like amazing.

Speaker 2 (52:02):
Oh, my God.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
And those are the persons like you want to keep
them around so much.
Like yeah, the sex is good, butI'm just not really attractive.

Speaker 1 (52:08):
But I need to keep you around because that's just
And you do just enough to keepthem around.
Keep them around just enough.
It's sad.
it's sad, i mean, i have afriend with benefits like that.

Speaker 5 (52:17):
Like I don't see us dating.
I don't see.
When I look in like from arelationship perspective, do I
see us together?
No, But yeah, The physical partis The sex is good.
You are fucking amazing.
Yeah, exactly, So yeah.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
But I would just wonder let's take it back to-.

Speaker 5 (52:39):
Versus the other person that like there's
chemistry, like there's likechemistry back and forth, like
we just can't keep our hands onit.
Do I see myself with him?
Yeah, i can possibly see myselfwith him.
Versus the other dude is juststrictly physical, like it's
amazing, let's do it.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
So let's take that guy let's take that guy that's
strictly physical and that'swhat everybody you.
Take that one person that'sstrictly physical.
You're not really like.
You don't really feel him likethat.
As far as the end it looks wise.
They just met your sexual need.
Can you see yourself with them?
Can you be like?
you know what The sex is soamazing?
Chim got nothing else that Iwould like.
That's called Digmatized, thenyes, That's a good word.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
Think about it.
Think about it because Thinkabout it because If I had that
kind of effect, thoughDigmatized.

Speaker 3 (53:28):
Because we sitting here, glenn and I and Antoine,
we're sitting here talking abouthow we need, we got these needs
and we put sex at a high needAnd wonder if you have that one
girl that looks like apterodactyl but she's on fire
when it comes to sex, Like she'sgoing down on you every day.
she's sexing every day.

Speaker 5 (53:47):
It's just hard.
It's the image thing, like do Isee?

Speaker 3 (53:50):
you next to me.

Speaker 4 (53:51):
No, i have to look good.
Yes, i have to look good withyou Like, are we going?

Speaker 5 (53:54):
out to social gatherings with friends and shit
and family.
Do I see you next to me?

Speaker 2 (53:59):
No no no.

Speaker 5 (54:00):
I don't, it just would have to be a physical
thing.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
I think some people serve their purpose.
Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 5 (54:11):
Don't get me wrong he tries to.
I think he's He wants moreWithout saying it.
So we're not speaking right nowbecause he got mad at me.
He's been throwing some crazyshit out like oh you know, why
don't you massage me?
I'm like what the fuck?
you talking about massage?
you This ain't no romantic shit,this is purely physical, Or why
don't you do this?
Why the fuck?
so I'm trying to get him to saywhat he wants to say, like if

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you want more, it doesn'tfucking say it.
So he's not even speaking to meat all, because I wouldn't give
him a fucking massage.

Speaker 3 (54:41):
What kind of massage do you do with the massage's?

Speaker 5 (54:42):
dick or No?

Speaker 4 (54:43):
no, no, no.

Speaker 5 (54:43):
You're a-.
You're only dick is gettingmassaged as mine number one
Secondly no, he went like aregular massage and I'm like
what the fuck I said?
I worked all day too.

Speaker 3 (54:56):
I said shit you should fucking give me a massage
you're like the fuck.
Wait.
So he got mad because wait.
So that's normally something afemale would get mad, but he's
switching.
He's trying to play twodifferent roles.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
Yeah, yeah, I don't get it yeah he's putting two
different roles.

Speaker 5 (55:13):
I don't know if he wants more, like at this point.
could we've been messing aroundfor I don't know couple of
years now, like two years maybe,off and on?

Speaker 3 (55:22):
And he got mad because you didn't.
You said no, i'm not massagingyou.

Speaker 5 (55:25):
Yeah, i'm like the fuck.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
I said you should massage, give me a fucking
massage, You're dating thatwhole thing is over, like the
honeymoon phase, you guys arethe whole relationship, because
that probably you know what andyou probably won't admit it that
probably would have been cutein the beginning, because if he
would have asked you that for amassage, you probably would have
did it in the beginning in therelationship Now that you got-.

Speaker 5 (55:43):
No, this is the strict physical one.

Speaker 3 (55:47):
Oh, okay, oh so he's trying to make love.

Speaker 5 (55:49):
Oh yeah, he's doing extra, I'm fine, but admit it.
Then say, hey, why don't we trygoing date, or blah, blah blah.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
Because he knows you're gonna say no.

Speaker 5 (55:59):
Don't.
I'm giving you shit, I'm givingyou the opportunity to say what
you have to say.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Shoot your shot.
Say what you have to say.

Speaker 5 (56:06):
Don't fucking do stupid shit.
Oh, you should massage me, giveme a massage.
Oh, my back hurt and all theshit.
No, if we just fucking that'swhat we're doing, i'm not doing
no extra shit.
Like you're coming over to dowhat you need to do and then you
leave it.

Speaker 3 (56:20):
Yeah, he was testing you, he was trying to see what
could, because once you massage,he'd be like oh, he massaged me
, Oh, let's go out on a date now.
So he's trying to see how muchaffection he's given you.

Speaker 4 (56:29):
But, just like you said, come out and say the shit,
just say it wait.

Speaker 5 (56:32):
Well, i mean, i'm much older, so that's probably
probably what the issue is.
But I'm giving you opportunitybecause I'm asking questions
like like, what are you talkingabout?
Like, what do you mean?
You know?

Speaker 3 (56:47):
and nothing.
So maybe that's what peopleshould do when they go out on
dates.
We should.
Before we start this date, letme just show you what I want.
Let me show you what I'mwilling to give.

Speaker 2 (56:56):
This is why we have coffee first, right, i guess?

Speaker 3 (56:58):
so I guess those are coffee talks For dinner, for
dinner, you know what thatactually, Glenn, you said that I
was laughing, but that might besomething Like go out, let's go
for a walk.

Speaker 1 (57:09):
A couple of times, Oh man, i would love that Just go
into the walk, nice walk in thepark When we could talk.
We could just talk Some of mybest first dates was like a nice
walk in the park really gettingto know the person
understanding.
You know likes and dislikes,but you know if you do it over
food.
Now it's like now everybody'strying to be on their best
little behavior.

Speaker 3 (57:28):
Make sure to use the right knives.
They use the right knives andknife fork.
Okay, this is the salad fork.
I can use this until I havethat meal.

Speaker 2 (57:35):
It's just, it's a lot of pressure right, Like I'm
paying for this meal.
I might have to see this guyagain.
He paid for this expensive meal.

Speaker 5 (57:43):
Like you know, it's just a lot of pressure,
applebees, right, you know what?
If that, okay, let me ask youthis?

Speaker 3 (57:50):
Does the place matter to y'all?
Like, if this say to the guythat he said you know what?
I'm gonna take you to BostonMarket, would that matter?
I'm gonna do it.
It would matter.
I think it would matter.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
Let's be honest, it would matter if we go, if we do
coffee, we do a park or walk inthe park, and then you take me
to like, like Right, if we'redoing this preliminary stuff to
decide if you're gonna invest ina dinner, then hopefully you'll
put some thought that you saidthat invest in a dinner I love
that.
Definitely is investment and nowif we're just going like

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straight, just straight up date,or you know what I mean Like
okay, fine, applebee's orwhatever, like a first date or
whatever, fine, you don't haveto go hard.
But I think if you're, ifyou're doing the preliminary
stuff to get to know the personand try to see how you vibe, so
what do you mean?

Speaker 3 (58:34):
What do you mean is what do you mean effort?
because a person like me islike I'm gonna go to Applebee's
not because it's cheaper andthey like that.
I'm gonna go there because it'sthe food is good.
So I'm gonna go wherever thefood is good.
So if it happens to be acheaper places and then cheaper
place because me, because Ithink women, when you think like
, oh, he took me to hisrestaurant, he paid $300 on me,
that really doesn't meananything like like, but if I

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thought about I'm going to thismeal because you know what you
We went on these long walks washaving coffee.
You talked about how you wasreally conscious of what you eat
.
I want to go here because themeals are better.
It's cheaper, but it's better,right?

Speaker 2 (59:07):
If I, if we went out for coffee, we went walking on
Through the park or whatever, wehave a conversation.
I tell you.
You know what, glenn?
My favorite food isMediterranean food and if you
put that effort into sayingfinding a Mediterranean
restaurant, i don't give a shitabout what the price is right
you paid attention to thatdetail.
That's what's important that Isee that that is paying

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attention to you deserve that,yeah, i think

Speaker 1 (59:29):
that's especially if you pass, if you pass the coffee
test correct you know, ifyou're good with going out for
coffee and you like, oh sure,that's brilliant, we can go have
drinks or whatever and that'sokay with you.
That shows me that you're youknow, you're not you know It's
not all about what you can getinitially, especially because we
don't really know each other.
It's about let's compromise,let's see if there's a vibe and

(59:49):
we can go from there.
That man That's worth itsweight and gold.
You kind of see a lot about aperson just simple.

Speaker 2 (01:00:02):
You know what?

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
this day and age.
It's not about because you seethe, the best-looking girl, get
she doing you get the Aliciakeys.
Oh, you know Beyonce beencheating on so I Don't think
it's about the catch.
I really want to think aboutthe catch.
I think it's about what iswhat's going on in that moment
with that person, that guy.
Because And because I right nowme thinking, i said now
whatever cheater over y'all inmy mind I say no but much you,

(01:00:25):
but once I get with her, Men areas faithful as their options,
right And but I also think it'sabout circumstances and we had a
.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
We had an episode about this right like do all men
cheat?
I think, at some point.
I don't think that all mencheat in every relationship.
It depends on how they'refeeling fulfilled in that point
in time.

Speaker 3 (01:00:41):
I'm going to disagree with you because I know I'm
more guys than you probably do.
Okay, i believe that every guycheats.
I just think when you get a guythat don't cheat is because he
just ran out of cheating.
He's don't want to do it nomore.
But I guess I've just just myfirm believe.
I have not.
I'm not, he passed the stage heeither passed the stage or he's
on.
He's on, he's hibernating, orsomething like that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:01):
I don't know, i'm not .

Speaker 3 (01:01:02):
I want to say that because I don't want people to
you know, but I'm be honest withyou.
I Had, i thought I met a guythat didn't cheat and then when
that person cheated, i just knewIt.
Guys cheat like it, just yeahlike what you want.
You know, i know guys that don'tcheat on a wise right now, but
I know that he cheated in thebeginning.
So it just, it just a matter.

(01:01:22):
He just ran out of options orjust don't, he just got tired of
doing it.
But I just, i believe all guyshave not met a guy yet.
I swear to God, i've not met aguy yet.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
Well, to my future ex-wife.

Speaker 3 (01:01:35):
I.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
Ties have got a point , i think.
I think cheating is Man.
Cheating is like a weird musclethat every man has that Usually
will get exercise for right forthat right.
It just, it just happens, evento the best men that have the
best intention, that love theirwives or girlfriends to death.
It's just something, that's agene that you can't get out of

(01:02:01):
you, and when you don't, it's,it's, it's almost like you're in
this space that says, you know,the world kind of freezes and
yet in that part of it like that, that part that makes your
drive and desire It just freezesfor some point in time, i don't
know how, and it's very, verysmall percentage, but but.
But that's the case.
Now You can also, you know, bevery.

(01:02:21):
You can deny yourself, right,you can.
You can say I will not go outof this lane And I'm gonna do my
very, very best to stay in thislane, but, man, it's gonna be
pulling you hard.

Speaker 3 (01:02:30):
Yeah, it's definitely .

Speaker 1 (01:02:31):
Well, you know only the only the super, super, super
, super slim elite can survivethat.

Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
But yeah, i mean I do .
I believe that all guys cheatedon, no, but I believe that they
either got caught one time andhe just couldn't.
Days like that was the worstexperience.
I don't want to do it again,but they always want it and so I
don't know.
If I'm thinking about it, doyou think it's cheating?
if I'm thinking about it, isthat cheating to you?
like I'm your man and I'm justthinking about fucking you, just
your sister can't be.

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
It can't be your sister.

Speaker 3 (01:02:59):
Yeah, i wouldn't want to know those thoughts but
wonder if I'm gonna tell you, doyou, would you consider that
cheating?

Speaker 2 (01:03:03):
you find it disrespectful, don't okay?
Well, what I'm trying?

Speaker 3 (01:03:07):
to say is that a lot of guys a lot, a lot of guys.
I know I'm not gonna say a lotof guys think about their, their
, their wives, sister, but a lotof guys, a lot of guys, always,
they're constantly thinkingabout cheating.
Yes, so you know to me, ifyou're thinking about it, then
you probably could do it, butthey should be given.

(01:03:28):
You put your mind to anything,but a man should be given credit
for.

Speaker 1 (01:03:32):
For if a man is his, his natural proclivity is the
cheat, but he denies himself 95%of the time that should be
that's.

Speaker 3 (01:03:40):
That should be good count right now.

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Here's the here's the here's the bombshell.
I think women cheat just asmuch as men, and let me tell you
why.
Okay, because if a woman, if awoman cheats with a man, there's
never a time that that man isgoing to tell.
That's always gonna be a secret, that's always kept.
Yes, do it in the office, in a,in a side room or whatever.
That man will always keep thatsecret.
On the other hand, when a mancheats with a woman, the woman

(01:04:04):
has the tendency to run out andtell, and that's how things get
on this stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:04:10):
The house was like loose lip.
She's right, i think.

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
Women cheat just as much as I do too and we just
don't know about it, because itnever leaves.

Speaker 3 (01:04:19):
Right and in.
The men will never tell youthis, because women's got
selective.
They got selective memory,though, because they they could
tell you about all the guys thathe didn't In past, but they the
guy that they had sex with lastweek.
They forgot about them becausethey didn't like.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
They didn't like the sex.
They like because they don'tcount it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
I can't count.
I'm not even on my list.
I didn't even go on my list.
The sex wasn't good.

Speaker 3 (01:04:54):
I heard a girl told me before that the sex wasn't
good and that's why I don'tcount.
And she was dead-ass here.
She's like oh, i should, i hadsex with, but that don't count.

Speaker 4 (01:05:01):
I would agree with that.
Well, that's what I'm saying.
So, women so.

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
Mac is on or something.
Women, i think women, women.

Speaker 3 (01:05:21):
You guys a trifle.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
I can't, i can't, you guys, you guys are trash Every
time I talk to y'all it pulls mefurther, further away from
marriage.
That's what y'all know.
That for the record.

Speaker 2 (01:05:39):
I feel the same way about talking to you.

Speaker 4 (01:05:42):
I'm disgusted right now.

Speaker 2 (01:05:46):
I have seen that on your face actually I have
glanced over and you're like.

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
Like what is like.
Do y'all live in a fantasyworld?
No okay, so what do you like?
What do you think?
What do you think it is like?

Speaker 1 (01:06:02):
Please do tell me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:03):
I'm just curious, like what do you think, what do
you like?

Speaker 1 (01:06:05):
what are your thoughts about?

Speaker 4 (01:06:06):
like guys are cheating and I think People, if
they're gonna cheat, i think itjust just like Glamis saying
like we're not equal.
That's how most men think likeI'm above you, i should be able
to do what I need to do, cuz.

Speaker 3 (01:06:22):
I don't think, i don't think he meant it like
that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
No, I really didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
What nobody would have articulated like that.

Speaker 4 (01:06:29):
So I just mean that like design, like nature.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
Design is sex is not an equal thing, right, it's not.
I mean, men Desire it more andthey probably get a better
feeling than women.
It's just the way nature isright.

Speaker 4 (01:06:44):
This is.
That's a natural, to go to mypoint.
It was good for the goose,should be good for the gander.
I agree, that's all I'm sayingThis women's I think.

Speaker 2 (01:06:52):
I think women now in 2023, want Egalitarian
relationships.

Speaker 1 (01:06:59):
Yes, that's why we got, men don't.
That's why we got.

Speaker 4 (01:07:02):
That's why we got that man can't imagine in their
brain, correct, sharing theirwoman.
But we're supposed to imaginein our brain sharing our man,
correct?

Speaker 1 (01:07:11):
That's.
That's why we got blurredgenderism.
Now, right Like it's.
It's kind of turning into athere is no sex anymore, like
meaning gender sex is just like.

Speaker 4 (01:07:20):
I was, like you, talking about the woman.
That's correct.
There is no sex.

Speaker 1 (01:07:30):
My god.

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
I think that more, most women want egalitarian
Relationships, but I do thinkthat that has a lot to do with
just like where we are right.
When we talk about women makingmore money, like I think in the
1960s, men were the providers,like you had different gender
roles, and now you have womenthat are Are the breadwinners,
and then you have men that wantwomen who are traditional and

(01:07:51):
and so that needs to beestablished in the beginning Of
a dating relationship or aserious relationship, like are
we gonna be traditional?
Are we gonna be egalitarian?
and then we need to figure thatout.

Speaker 1 (01:08:02):
I think You can't be that careful, because every
culture is not like that.
Like if you look at an Asianculture, that's not the case.
If you look in the most of thewhite culture, that's not the
case.
It's really the, the black,maybe Hispanic cultures, that
that's the case, where women arejust becoming so much more.
And that's a whole nother storyof how that's happening.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
I think it's American , i think for Latin culture is.
I think it's pretty.
Men are the providers and womentake care of home.
We women, latina women, arebred to take care of their men.
It's just in my householdgrowing up.
I did all you know yeah.
I was responsible for chores,and while my brother was also
responsible for chores, hedidn't have as much of an impact

(01:08:45):
if he didn't do?

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
I did.

Speaker 2 (01:08:47):
Yeah, it was different You know, if a man
comes to my house, if I'm, if Ihave a Entertaining, and my
father and my brother come to myhouse, those are the first
people that I'm serving right?
You know, here let me serveyour plate and I think that we
are, we're just bred that way.
So I think, at least for Latinoculture.

Speaker 1 (01:09:03):
Yes, good point, that's a good point.
Culture is a big.

Speaker 3 (01:09:07):
Yeah so what did y'all take away?

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
Stay single baby And mini date mini date.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Mini date like mini dating he's over here, quiet,
living his best, fucking yeah.

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