No Regerts!

Join us for a fun and engaging episode as we cover a range of topics, but things take a more introspective turn when FancyCat (and her gold studded Starbucks tumbler) asks Shawn about his life regrets. Tune in for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 2 (00:10):
We are back in the booth and I'm Sean Booth and
thank you guys for tuning in.
Wherever you're listening from,maybe you are from Hopkinsville
, kentucky, that's north ofTennessee.
If you're looking at a map, ormaybe you're from Lake Charles
If you're looking at a map, ormaybe you're from Lake Charles,
louisiana, that would be southof Tennessee, I believe Sam Cat
or Yakima Washington, all theway out on that west coast

(00:34):
towards the north.
We are here, we are live.
We are in Nashville, tennessee.
We got Easton in the buildingand to left we've got fancy cat.
Fancy cat, bougie cat.
She's sitting here sipping onher gold Starbucks mug.
It's like the same size as aStanley, very sparkly and, yeah,

(00:58):
very fancy.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Welcome fancy cat thank you for having Such a
pleasure to be here with myplastic, very mundane Starbucks
tumbler.
I bet that thing costs $40 atleast.
No, god, no, it was like $15.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Easton, we're going to put you to work right away.
Can you pull up Starbucks'website right now?
Probably $25.
What ounce is that?
This is a 24-ounce.
Okay, probably $25.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Right now and probably 25.
What ounce is that?

Speaker 2 (01:32):
this is 24 ounce, okay, probably 25 bucks, I'm
gonna say 40, 42.
I bought it, so I know how muchit costs, okay, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
So I'm so glad that you're gonna explain it to me,
that's good um.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
The first one that is available is on amazon.
It's called a starbucks goldstudded tumbler.
2022 Fall Winter Holiday BlingEdition, 24 ounce.
On Amazon it's $69.99.
Wow.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
Yeah, I didn't buy it there, I bought it at Starbucks
.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
Quadruple the price yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
That's a rip-off.
Don't get that.
You could go to the store andget them.
They have them in silver andthey had green pink.
I just like gold, baby yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Well, you look great, your hair looks great today.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Are you being serious ?
I'm being serious.
I like it.
Oh, thank you.
It's actually four days old andI was feeling the exact
opposite.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Really.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Yeah, I was like, oh well, this is going to have to
do for today.
Couldn't bring myself to washit.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Looks great.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Thank you.
Yeah, I'm trying to just go forthe more natural vibe, you know
.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
I like the natural vibe, I've realized.
I like the curly hair too.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
Yeah, it's here's.
The thing, though, is that if Ihad curly hair, we'd be talking
about something different, butI have some sort of like wavy
curly.
The problem is that I haveabsolutely no idea what it's
going to do.
It could be the best hair dayof my life, or I could look like
I stuck my finger in anelectric socket.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Well, it's kind of like your life you have
absolutely no clue what it'sgoing to do or where it's going
to go.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
It's a pretty fun ride.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, what do you got in that cup?

Speaker 3 (02:46):
Water.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
All right, here we go , we are off.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Am I on the stand?

Speaker 2 (02:52):
You're on the stand right now, had a fun golf
tournament and what Folds ofHonor with our buddy, chuck
Wicks, and I don't know if yousaw my story, but he was
cheating out there on the courseand he was.
There's like a live scoreboardand Chuck is not the best golfer
and so you can update yourscores and all of a sudden,
chuck Wicks, his team is at like20 under through 14.

(03:15):
I'm like Chuck.
I know this isn't true, but itwas for the Fools of Honor.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
He cheated at a charity golf tournament.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Correct, yeah, that's good, that's a good Footfalls
of Honor.
So he cheated at a charity golftournament.
He cheated at a charity golftournament correct there.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Okay, yeah, that's good, that's a good look.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Yeah, he didn't end up winning, which is good, but I
played in that tournament Idon't know how many years now
and it's impossible to winbecause I don't know if you've
played in any golf tournamentswhich you haven't.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
I have not no.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Yeah, is.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
I have worked golf tournaments and I've worked
those things because I used tobe a BevCart girl.
Okay.
So I'm not completelyunfamiliar, I've just never been
an athlete.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, A scramble is.
I've become a professionalscramble golf player where you
get a team of three people Okay,this one is four.
So I was the quote unquotecelebrity who joined the team.
So every team's got a celebrityand I was with the Lucchese
team which are fancy boots.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
Yeah, that's a.
That's a nice team to be on.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
Did you get me any boots?

Speaker 2 (04:09):
I didn't even get boots, I would have you know.
I was yeah, I was hoping to getsome, but I didn't get any.
Lucchese, if you're listening,uh, I'll just keep wearing my
Tacovas until then.
Yeah, they said it wasn't arival though I asked them.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
I go, are takova's like your rival?
And they said no.
I mean, I feel like when you'rea luke casey, you don't have a
rival.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yeah, luke casey they said takova has actually been
good for them because it'sbrought more attention to the
boot game oh, absolutelyanything.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
What is it?
What's it saying?
Iron sharpens, iron, yeah ironsharpens iron yeah yeah, there
we go.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
So, anyway, the sc.
Uh.
So the fun thing about it andthat's why the tournaments are
always set up this way you don'tplay your own ball the entire
hole, which takes forever.
So say me, you, easton, are ona team for a scramble.
We would all drive the ball andthen we would take the best
drive and then we'd all hit thatshot.

(05:06):
Take that best shot makes it goa little quicker, quicker.
You obviously score low, soit's just fun all the way around
.
But there's also, with charityevents and these type of
tournaments, they always do likecrazy, like it's obviously to
raise money, so it's like allright, if you pay, you know,
five hundred dollars on thishole, then you can start on like
five feet from the hole, or ifyou is that how chuck cheated?

(05:28):
that's how mostly everybodythere it's like they always get
like an insanely low numberbecause they're the richest yes,
it's like yeah hey, use theweapons that you got right right
, that's the part I don't like.
I'm like I wish we could justlike do charity separate and do
like just the golf separate,because it's always rex ryan.
Do Ryan?
Do you know Rex Ryan?
Yes, yeah, he wins every yearand well yeah exactly.

(05:54):
His house is literally onGovernor's Club, and if you've
never been to Governor's Club inTennessee, I'm trying to get a
job there actually are you?
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
I have a lot of downtime coming up and I've been
contemplating what I am goingto do and I just feel like I
have to do something, like I'mnot, I don't know.
It's like do I focus onsomething that will maybe help
my career?
Do I do something mindless,just to kind of like make money
and keep a routine?
And if you have any advice, letme know, but Governor's Club is
something that came up.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
I love it.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
I mean, obviously they need bartenders and servers
and BevGuard girls.

Speaker 2 (06:26):
They do.
Yeah, yeah, that's a goodcourse.
It's a nice little community.

Speaker 3 (06:30):
But tell people who don't know what Governor's Club
is.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
I mean it's probably the nicest houses in.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
Tennessee, for sure.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
But who lives in there.
There are a lot of countrysingers.
Think got a big old house there.
I know a few other people whodo.
You know who?

Speaker 3 (06:50):
lives there.
No, that's why I was asking you, I don't know yeah I've.
I've only been there one time,yeah, and I didn't like
participate in anything.
I didn't go into any of thefacilities.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
I was genuinely asking you like I don't know
much about I know what thegovernor's club is, but I don't
know yeah, I mean, it's justoutrageous mansions, that line,
the course.
So like you're playing down thefourth hole and it's just like
on both sides of the fairway arejust outrageous houses, so
which I don't know if I'd likethat.
It depends where your house islocated, because I mean, balls

(07:19):
are going everywhere that's fair.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
But what do you care?
You have that much money,you'll just replace it yeah, of
course you care, though itdoesn't matter.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
I mean, you got some little kids out there too yeah,
that's fair.
Safety, safety, yeah, first butanyways, we lost um scrambles
the way to play and shut on yourteam like did you know?

Speaker 3 (07:40):
just look at the employees.
Yeah, okay yeah, so you mean totell me that chuck was a
celebrity for one team?

Speaker 2 (07:47):
yeah, leading them to cheating yes oh, good job,
proud of you so it's also likeyou know, guys from n sync
backstreet boys, whichapparently I didn't know this.
This might be t.
I'm gonna get chris kropatrickon here.
There's a little beef betweenthe NSYNC and Backstreet Boys,
like legit.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
I mean, I feel like this started around like 97.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
No, I know, but there's a couple of guys who
don't like each other.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
I would imagine.
I mean, how could you not thinkthat they were like direct
competitors?

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, but I mean.

Speaker 3 (08:26):
It was.
You were either team NSYNC oryou were team Backstreet Boy.
Yeah, I don't know, you werenot a small girl, teenage girl,
during this time, like I was,but like that's the least
surprising thing I've heard allday.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Of course they have beef.
I mean no, not of course it'syeah.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
I mean, course it's.
Yeah, I mean, even years latertoo, you don't have beef with
someone.
That not necessarily that youwake up and you like actively,
you know, act on it, but youdon't get back to someone you're
like fuck that guy yeah, I mean, I think it's just funny to see
it in like real life.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Did you?
Did you watch that documentary?

Speaker 3 (08:57):
yeah, okay, what's the guy's name?
Dirty pop yeah, what's his name.
I cannot remember his name.
It's escaping me, but yes.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
But yes, is it Bruce or something Perlman?

Speaker 3 (09:07):
What?
Can you look it up?
Dirty Pop on Netflix.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
I think it's Perlman.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
Yeah, that sounds familiar, but I got to be honest
with you, I've been watching alot of TV lately, so I think my
brain is rotting a little bit,but Am I looking?
The main guy, the guy that wasin charge of like starting in
sync and backstreet boy, andthen he was caught in like a
money laundering scandal yes,stealing their money.
Lou perlman, lou perlman, okaylou, I wanted to call him gus.

(09:33):
I don't know why gus and louwhatever backstreet boys and in
sync left him quite early onlike a lot of the documentary
kind of follows after those boybands were created with like 98
degrees and then a one directionwasn't, were they in there?
I don't think so, like a slewof boy bands that I had never
heard of, to be honest, but theyapparently had very large,

(09:53):
international, successfulcareers, so I don't know.
You should watch it, I mean I ama sucker for those kind of
things.
I love to see the behind thescenes of anything.
But it wasn't as dark as someother documentaries that we've
had pop out of the 90s, so butit's just.
I I don't understand.
Like anytime I watch a conartist or like a scheming that
has to do with, like how theygot away with millions of

(10:15):
dollars.
I'm like first of all, theballs on this guy.
I feel guilty.
If I like accidentally, I don'teven know like don't return my
grocery cart.
I can't imagine I know, Millionsand you're just screwing people
out of their money Like you.
Obviously, when it'sdocumentary style, you get to
see and hear the people that aredirectly affected, so it makes

(10:35):
it so much worse.
But it's just like how arepeople managing to pull that off
?

Speaker 2 (10:41):
It's, but they, they apparently don't they do for a
while but, like you know, whenthe highs are high they're high.
Oh my God, it's like thelifestyle that they're living.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
It's kind of like, okay, well, if you live fast,
it's like you got more out ofmaybe 10 years and a lot of
people get out of a lifetime.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
So same thing with like Bernie Madoff.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yes, that's insane as well.
Insane, and then but all ofthese people are also part of it
, like it's not just one person.
It's one person who kind ofstarts the ball rolling, but
think about all the people thathave to either.
I mean be lied to or turn ablind eye to, and I don't know.
Money obviously does weirdthings to people.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
It's money and power.
When you're at the top likethat, money talks.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
I can't believe that it still happens.
I mean, I know that sounds dumbto say, but it's just like we
got cameras everywhere.
Everything's traceable, allthis stuff, and people are still
trying to like rob banks Idon't.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
Yeah, that's probably not as common anymore, but
unless you're just an idiot,unless you're just an idiot,
which most of them are.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
Yes, so but that's what I'm saying.
Okay.
So I guess what I'm saying isthe comparison is like yeah,
you're gonna try and rob a bank,you're an idiot.
But people who like laundermoney and get away with it for
decades and or you know whateverthey're doing, illegal, that's
they're not an idiot.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
They're actually exceptionally smart because
they're two steps ahead ofeveryone else would you launder
money and if you had say youcould get $50 million in the
next couple of years and youcould enjoy that for 20 years
and then you get caught.
So you get from now until 20years.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
Okay, so I'd be I don't know dude 54?
.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
But you have right now 20 years to enjoy the what I
say 50 million dollars.
I don't know.
I think could you live a prettygood life for the next 20 years
?

Speaker 3 (12:30):
yeah, with 50 million like I'm out, I'll see you guys
later yeah I think, especiallybecause I don't have children,
so I would just choose toultimately not have children and
just live an insane life.
Probably wouldn't even make itthe 20 years if I had $50
million to be honest, but yeah,I guess I'd consider it.
All right, yeah, if that makesme a bad person, okay.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
Because I think about that too.
It's like so many people getcaught and they're like older
guys.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm like they did it.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
They did it.

Speaker 3 (12:57):
They already lived the fast life.

Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah, and they got to be the guy for years, years.
Weird.
But then you talk about beingthe guy.
It's like jeffrey epstein, whoeverybody apparently knew that
everyone, everybody knew what hewas doing, but it was just all
powerful people so he had likeso much blackmail dirt on
everybody and so nobody would doanything, and people still

(13:20):
don't do anything.
I feel like it's like not atall.
What happened to giselle orwhat's her?

Speaker 3 (13:25):
name she's out, she's around.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah, she's chilling and like whatever happened to
that, she was her right hand manlike setting everything up.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Yes, arguably I don't want to say like more powerful,
but I feel like, especially inan environment that is catering
towards young girls, probablyway more influential, that I
mean again power, because theytalk about in the documentaries,
how all the politicians bothtowards young girls, probably
way more influential.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
I mean again power, because they talk about in the
documentaries how all thepoliticians both sides of the
aisle, they were all like on theaisle.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
Both sides of the aisle internationally.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
Not even just America .

Speaker 2 (13:55):
Yeah, like the Prince or King.
What is it?
Prince Charles, Prince Charles.

Speaker 3 (14:00):
I mean his name has been thrown around.
I feel like in every timeEpstein's name has been brought
up, and I mean all of theAmerican politicians and also
just pop culture icons yeah,weird, anybody with money.
Money's bad, money's a badthing.
Do you think money changespeople?

Speaker 2 (14:20):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
Okay, so I think money just brings out who you
are.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
I saw.
Well, it's funny to say,because I saw a tiktok yesterday
or today dan brazilian right,he's the guy who is, has all
this money, flies around in jetsand lives this lavish lifestyle
with 20 different girls all thetime okay and he admitted he

(14:46):
was talking about how he used tonot have money and girls didn't
want him and that's what hewanted.
And then he I think he and thecrazy thing is he like inherited
money from his family.
Then he started playing pokerand if you just look at his
instagram, he's just known forliterally the most outrageous

(15:06):
videos, like he'll be sitting ina room smoking, drinking and
there's like 20 naked chicksaround him.
But he had anyways.
He had said that he wanted or.
Everybody treats him differentwhen he had money and when you
can get girls.
So I do think it changes you,but to your point.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
Yeah, I, I do, I mean , do I mean, I guess?
yes, sure, it changes a bit ofyou, but I just feel like when
you have money, you often don'thear the word no, and if you,
are surrounded by yes, men, it'sa slippery slope and I think
that it's almost as if you'relike just being unchaperoned,
like now you are the one callingthe shots and it's just like
all of those decisions, likethat decision power was inside

(15:46):
you.
Now you just have the freedomto do it.
So I just feel like, becausethere's a lot of rich people out
there who I'm sure good peoplenot every rich person is a bad
person so it's like no, I thinkthose people were innately that
and now it's just highlightedbecause they have access to
everything yeah, yeah, becauseyou look at probably the normal
rich people.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
They probably lived a normal life, worked hard and
their upbringing or whatever.
They just never really changed.
And then you have people, yeah,who just take advantage of that
power.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
But I think also, the money is one thing, but I feel
like some people crave fame orthey crave attention, like this
guy that you're talking aboutcraves the attention of a woman,
like I think it just depends onwhat is inside you.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
It just spills out when you all of a sudden have
unlimited access.
So that guy was insecure aboutwomen not being into him and now
it's all his brand is.
So, it's just like that wasthere, that was there the whole
time.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
And he you know um, like that's a video.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
Yeah, I mean, that's what I picture.

Speaker 2 (16:59):
Like everywhere he goes and I don't even know how
these girls they're probablygetting paid.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
Yeah, yeah, he just pays them to go travel with them
and have fun goes, and I don'teven know how these girls,
they're probably getting paidfat stacks yeah he just pays
them to go travel with them andhave fun I mean listen, what if
they're having?
What if that's the secret tolife and we just don't know?
It's just paying forcamaraderie.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
I don't know, yeah it doesn't look like they're
having a bad time, I can tellyou that.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
No well, especially the girls.
They probably just made likesix new best friends and they
made, however many thousands ofdollars Right, he's probably
buying them whatever purse theywant, you know like.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, good for you, girl.
Yeah, and then going back home.

Speaker 3 (17:35):
To their husband, to their husband, and using that
100 grand, they just made fortheir children.

Speaker 2 (17:40):
Yeah, I remember there was actually a girl that,
um she I don't know if she slidinto my DMs this was years ago
and I was talking to her for alittle bit and then I she like
mentioned something about thatand I was like looking at her
page and she was like sayingthat she was like one of his

(18:01):
girlfriends or something.

Speaker 3 (18:02):
How many are there?

Speaker 2 (18:02):
And I know, and I was like, oh, all right, Well, this
is uh cut it off right there.

Speaker 3 (18:08):
Yeah, I mean it was, it was uh was she still
currently on the roster or wasthis I?

Speaker 2 (18:12):
think she was still currently on the roster.
Like she just started to hitlike she was in a relationship,
but to focus on her maybe tofocus on her or to get married
or to have kids or whatever, andI was like, yeah, this is kind
of a little sticky situationhere came out unscathed.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
Proud of you yeah, thank you, sam cat unscathed
you're welcome yeah, but I dothink money changes people my
uncle just turned 97, damn 97,my 97.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
My grandma's 90s Got to be 90.
Close to it.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
My grandma just turned 89 yesterday.

Speaker 2 (18:50):
Yeah, happy birthday.
Yeah, she's still going strong.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Yeah, she lives with my parents.
She has like a mother-in-lawsuite, so it's nice that when I
go home I get to see her Justlike right there, watching the
game show network, drinking hercoffee, hanging out with her dog
.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
You know what and you think about 99 so long.
But then, in the grand schemeof life, once get deep, that is
so short.
There was a long time beforeyou were born.
There's going to be a long timeafter you die.

Speaker 3 (19:16):
And it never stops.
I have been down this rabbithole since I mean, I just turned
34.
And I obviously aging is aprivilege.
I know that that's like my.
I love that I found my firstgray hair and I was like kind of
excited.
I know that sounds weird, but Iwas just like I don't know.
You hear about these thingsyour whole life and now I'm
finally doing it.

(19:37):
But it's just I go oscillateback and forth, exactly like
you're saying.
I'm just like, oh my God, I'm34.
I feel like I should know more,I should be doing more, I
should have a family, I shouldbe living on a farm, like I
don't know, I should have beendoing all these things.
But then I think like I'm only34, in the same breath, in the
same thought, and it's just aweird chapter to enter, because

(19:58):
I feel like this is the firsttime.
Okay, your 20s, you think you'rean adult, but like if you're in
your twenties and you'relistening, you're fine.
Everybody's confused,everybody's figuring it out,
everybody's moving at adifferent pace.
I feel like it's so scattered.
Things kind of start to maybeeven out a bit in your early
thirties, but even still, yourearly thirties is the first
chapter where I feel like peopleexpect you to know what's going

(20:19):
on.
So there's still a grace period, and now I feel like I've
entered my mid thirties and it'slike, all right, you should not
that you should know what'sgoing on, cause I feel like
everybody doesn't know what'sgoing on.
But when I I hate when I'm in asituation and I look around and
I'm the adult, and that happensmore and more each year, and I
just feel like, oh, I don't wantto be the oldest one in the

(20:41):
room, I don't want to be the onethat's in charge, but like
because you remember that personused to think they're old.
Yes.
Yeah absolutely, and it's likeI don't know, it's just a weird
I just it's a weird time in lifeand I feel like millennials are
really the first generationthat has.
I'm not saying they're thefirst generation to maybe delay
getting married and havingchildren.

(21:02):
Maybe generations before us didit, but it wasn't as widely
known.
We didn't have TikTok andInstagram and all these things
that celebrate choosing to bechildless or choosing to be
single or choosing whatever youchoose.
So I feel like it's just alittle more of like an open
navigation, but it doesn't makeit any less weird.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
Right.
Yeah, I think recently, in thelast year or so, I've gotten to
the point where I can recognizeI'm not that young anymore, like
what you said.
You said I'm still kind of likeyou know, I feel like I got a
lot of time left, but also atthe same time, like you're still
kind of going back and forth.
I'm like, no, I'm, I'm on the,not the other side, but I don't,

(21:42):
do you think you're midlife?

Speaker 3 (21:44):
uh, according to uh, no no, I didn't say according to
statistics.
I said do you think you'remidlife?

Speaker 2 (21:51):
um, no, I hope not.
Um, but if you want to go offthe statistics, do you know what
the average lifespan of a manis right now?

Speaker 3 (22:03):
62 years old that would be really young.
Well, I thought you were goingto give me a shocking statistic.
That's why.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Well, it is shocking to me 74.8.
And 2022, the average lifeexpectancy for men in the United
States was 74.8.
And 2022 the average lifeexpectancy for men in the united
states was 74.8, which isalmost six years less than the
average life expectancy forwomen, which is 80.2.

(22:31):
All right, so 74.8 divided bytwo is 37.8.
And I just turned 38.
That's crazy.
So I am statistically in amidlife crisis.
So here we are.

(22:52):
I decided to have a baby in amidlife crisis.
Life expectancy in the US hasbeen declining in recent years
2019, it was 78.8, 2020 was 77,2021 was 73.2 and then it went
up to 74.8.
Wild, how is that number not upto?

(23:13):
Well, of course, I mean there'sso many, but you would think,
as time goes on and technologyevolves, but also people get
greedy and put weird shit inyour food and everything else in
the universe to make money.
Yeah.
And medicine.
It's like you can.
You don't even know what tobelieve.
You know like is there a curefor cancer?

(23:34):
Do we believe that?
How is there not?
Is it due to pot?

Speaker 3 (23:41):
I mean, let's get our tinfoil hats on, yeah but
here's the thing is that healthypatients aren't paying patients
oh, I know so I don't know.
I always keep that in the backof my mind.
I try not to be a conspiracytheorist.
I it feels I mean I've talkedabout this before on here just
like trying to switch dailyproducts that I use to non-toxic
and and also just eating wholefoods.

(24:04):
Now I was just readingsomething that you know they
have to list the ingredients onthe back of whatever you're
eating and so they would hidethings that are like bad for you
under different, very confusing, almost like scientific names.
And so then people caught on tothat.
They started educating thepublic.
Like hey, this word actuallymeans oil.
I don't know, you know what Imean.

(24:25):
Like this means shards of glass.
Like some of the stuff is soridiculous that you're like
there's no way this is in myfood.
And so people started to catchon to that.
So now they have said they havechanged said name, like
whatever the chemical name is tosomething different, to confuse
consumers.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Again for us to start all over and then kind of
figure out what the ingredientsare yeah, and then it's like
also you got to look at otheringredients.
That are the very tiny littlewords at the bottom, not on the
main nutrition label it'sexhausting.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
sometimes I feel so overwhelming, though, like I try
not to go down a rabbit hole onthat, because I'm just like
there's only so much I cancontrol.
I don't want to be, first ofall, I don't want to be, the
person that almost causes moreharm, like the whole point of
this is to do good, to liketreat my body well, to live
longer, like we're talking about.
So I think if you go too far inone direction, though, then

(25:17):
it's almost likecounterproductive now I'm so
stressed about ingredients andnatural, clean, non-toxic that
like I'm mentally deterioratingmyself.
And then not only that, but thenthe people around you, you all
you know that person, the personwho's like a strict vegan or a
person who's a strict somethingand like it has to be the only
thing that's about that, like itbecomes their whole persona.
I don't want to be that girl.

(25:38):
I just want to like live withmy chickens on a farm and like
dance out.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
And sometimes that's the best way.
Look at your grandmother.
She wasn't a vegan.
No, she wasn't staying awayfrom having a good time.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
I do love when they interview people like in nursing
homes, or have made it say pasta hundred.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
What's the secret to life?
They're always precious andthey're like what's the secret
to life?
Secret to life, yeah, they'realways precious and they're like
what do you regret?
Those are always sad.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
I always feel like they say nothing.
No, they're like I have noregrets.
Isn't that the cliche answer?

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Everybody has regrets .

Speaker 3 (26:12):
What's your biggest regret, Sean?

Speaker 2 (26:14):
Ooh, my biggest regret.
Wow, that's deep.

Speaker 3 (26:19):
Well, you brought it up.
Everybody has regret.
Open and honest in the boothwith Sean Booth.
What is your biggest?

Speaker 2 (26:29):
regret, regret, damn.
I don't know.
That's a good one, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
That's a good one.
I feel like every regret thatI've had has ultimately worked
out.
So it's just I know that soundscheesy, but I think that's just
how life works is that onething doesn't go away that you
predicted, or maybe you didsomething that you regret and
it's like yeah, but if thatwouldn't happen, then this
wouldn't happen, and it's likewe've already moved't happen,

(27:01):
then this wouldn't happen, andit's like we've already moved
past it and great things havecome from it.

Speaker 2 (27:04):
So it's kind of hard to right pick a regret like that
unless I mean, unless you'vedone something no, like anything
that's been like dumb or stupid.
It's like, oh, that's just lifeyeah everybody screws up.
It's not like.
I think about that every daylike, oh my god I wish I didn't
do that.
I didn't do that.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
Do you ever find yourself thinking like how could
I have thought that way?

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Yeah, For some stuff.
I guess.
I mean, like I was trying tothink of regret, like obviously
I love being a father so muchand I'm, like you know, after
talking about the lifeexpectancy of a man and me being
midway there and being 38 andnow just having a kid, do I
regret not having kids earlier?
And I'm like, no, I don't,because then I wouldn't have
locks Right, and then also Idon't know if I'd be as good of

(27:45):
a father I think I would, but Idon't know if I would maybe
appreciate it as much as I donow, as maybe somebody who's
younger and you know youngtwenties and they get married,
have a baby, and it's just kindof like just happens, where I'm
like you know, I was in a spotI'm like I don't know if I'm
going to have kids.
I always wanted to, but sothat's when you know you say

(28:08):
there's always kind of asolution to your regret.

Speaker 3 (28:13):
Yeah, I definitely, like actually almost verbatim
had this conversation last nightover dinner about being older,
quote unquote older beforefinding a husband or before
finding children.
I think that, oh my God, canyou hear my stomach right now?
No, oh my God, sorry, ok, um, Ithink that since I have waited

(28:44):
so long or maybe not on my ownterms, but I will appreciate if
it ever does come true and if itever does happen, I will
appreciate it so much more andso differently than I would have
had it worked out when I was 24, 25, 27, 28, 30, 31.
You know, I think that I have adifferent perspective on
relationships.
I am a different person.
I've had all this time topretty much do exactly what I

(29:05):
want live selfishly.
So I feel like I will never ifit ever does work out for me, I
will never feel like man.
I wish I would have been ableto do that before kids yeah
which I think is common.
I think it's like okay, but thenyou know, once the kids are out
of the house, then then we'lldo this type of thing, and I've
just really been able to check alot of boxes that maybe people

(29:25):
who had families earlier haven'tbeen able to now, granted,
they've been able to check allof these boxes that I haven't
been.
So it is like a work of balancebut, I think my mindset is so
different and also just likeemotional maturity.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Yeah, that's a big one.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
And, just like you know, sometimes I think back to
some things.
I'm like, oh God, it makes mecringe.
Of course, but it's also, justlike I can't blame myself
because I didn't know any betterRight, but it is.
It is weird to think like Imean, I don't know if you've
seen the meme- that's just likeno one on the planet I have less

(30:01):
in common with than whoever wasmaking my 2008 facebook
statuses, and I feel that in mycore I know.
Yes, of course, some things arethe same yeah, I've always been,
you know yeah the idea of whatI am right but, like, the inner
workings are much, much, muchdifferent, weird though you're
like, who was that person?

Speaker 2 (30:16):
like what was that person thinking?
Because you were full-on, youthought that that was the right
thing at the moment the actualfuck, samantha so there is like,
obviously, you know it's likepick your poison.
If, um, you get married andhave a family at a younger age,
then you have the argument thatyou are able to enjoy your later
years of life.
Sure, right.

(30:36):
But then there's the argumentit's like well, you can also
enjoy your earlier years ofbeing selfish right which is
what the position I'm in.
I don't look at my life andbeing like I wish I'd done that.
It's like no, I've done so muchyeah, I'm like content with that
and having a kid now, where I'mable to be less selfish and

(30:58):
it's a completely differentmindset where I think, if I had
a kid at 24, I am a person whohas always been I want more,
more, more, more, more, moresuccess, more of this, more of
that, more, more, more.
But now it's just like.
No, I want more for my son andthat's the more.

(31:19):
And how can I do that for him?

Speaker 3 (31:22):
yeah, it's still motivation.

Speaker 2 (31:24):
It's just for someone else yeah, which is uh a crazy
weird feeling so how are yougoing?

Speaker 3 (31:33):
I mean, I don't mean this to sound like how are you
going to explain yourself, but,um, how are you going to explain
your life?
And I know and I hear yourstomach, oh my goodness, I'm so
sorry uh your stomach's tryingto explain it for you yeah, but
how are you going to explain,like reality tv and what that

(31:54):
was?
I mean, I think eventually,obviously, he'll grow into being
an adult and get it, but I knowthat what is gonna?

Speaker 2 (32:00):
happen as a child I know because I just like think
about when is he gonna realizethat his dad lived this crazy
life and he's gonna have accessto a million different articles
and a lot that aren't true andgossip uh sites and it's like at
the his fingertips.
You can just google his dad'sname and be like, oh shit yeah

(32:23):
that's weird.
That's a weird feeling to sitwith, because I'm also.
You know.
When you say, do you regretanything?
You know I look at the biggerdecisions in my life that I've
made.
You know I've gone back andforth with being on that show.
I don't regret that.
Do I regret proposing at theend of it?
in the moment, I didn't regretit yeah um, and that led me into

(32:50):
a direction where I'm at now.
So it's like, yeah, for a whileI thought I regretted it, like
I knew I probably shouldn't haveproposed in the moment, went
ahead and did it anyways.
But a lot of good stuff camefrom that.
So I probably would have had acompletely different life if I
didn't Like there are parts ofthat show where I thought about

(33:10):
leaving, like whether there wasthree guys left, four or five,
like that really thing aboutlike packing up my bags and just
going home, which then whatwould have happened with my life
?
Would I have just gone back toworking for the insurance
company?
I wouldn't, cause they fired mewhen I went on the show, but you
know, I'd go back to work at anine to five or, and it's just

(33:32):
because I ended up, you knowwith Caitlin that you know I had
all these other opportunitiescome.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
Right.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
And then what I've opened the gym and like so many
different things, and then Iwould, I wouldn't have met dre
there and wouldn't have logs andjust I don't know the regret
thing.
I don't think I'll ever regretanything unless it's like
something really bad that youcould have had control over yes
right and there's and there'snot a lot.
But there's learningopportunities for everything.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
And that's how you grow, you regret things.
You're like, oh shit, I got todo that differently next time.
But I don't know.
Long answer short.
The reality thing is going tobe tough for Lox, but I'm going
to be open and honest about itwith him.
I want to be able to talk withhim more and communicate with
him as much as possible abouthis feelings do you?

Speaker 3 (34:27):
will you approach the subject or will you wait for
him to come to you?

Speaker 2 (34:30):
no, I'll approach it.
I'll probably get ahead of thatone like before he goes to
school, I mean.
But also I'm like in when hegoes to school, and what?
When do we think this will comeabout?
Like 10 years from now, whenhe's 10?

Speaker 3 (34:45):
I yeah, I have no idea how it will present itself,
but I just feel like it willnot even be from kids.
Organically, it will be a kid'smom exactly says something
they're like my mom said thatyour dad did that yeah, and
locks is gonna be like what?
Yeah, exactly he's like Ipromise my dad's not cool, like
you know.
Yeah, yeah, like any other oh,yeah, it's, it's weird.

Speaker 2 (35:07):
Yeah, I don't know.
That's how I think it willhappen too, my mom said that she
met your dad better like yeah,it's that is a weird yeah, it's
just like how like santa clausis found out between kids.
My mom said that santa clauswasn't weird or real.
Then they come home and likeshit and in this instance he's
gonna be like hey, my mom saidthat your dad was running butt
naked down the fairway on livetv, or got really drunk on live

(35:32):
tv, or you know it's gonna belike uh, yeah, or was sounds
like him, but I'm not sure yeah,or it's like you know.
He was in a spot in the airportwith this girl.
Like weird stuff.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
But then again, I feel like, will they even know
that much?
I feel like it will be veryvague.
So then Lox will be like my dad.
What?

Speaker 2 (35:52):
Yeah, I'm just hoping , like by the time that, like 10
years, like hopefully all thatGoogle history is just deleted,
right, that's how that works.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
Yeah, I think it's just every decade.
They delete all of the history.

Speaker 2 (36:04):
Yeah, so we're good.
I don't know how would you feelabout that.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
About what.
Like if that was your, if youwere in my situation, I mean, I
feel like the same exact thingthat you said I'd be super
honest and answer any questionsthey had.
I feel like I would get outahead of it and let them know to
an extent, though, because Ifeel like why rock the boat if

(36:28):
it's not rocking type of thing?
So like if, in 10 years fromnow, maybe it won't be relevant
conversation or maybe nobodywill realize that.
I don't know, but I feel likethe pace that social media is
going and has continued likethat's just a naive thing to
think.
I think, if anything,everything will be even more
accessible somehow in 10 years.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
I know that's what I try and figure out too.
Like my social media now, Ilove posting family things and
videos and pictures of locks,and a large reason why I do that
is so he can look back one dayand be like that's cool.

Speaker 3 (37:05):
It's like a baby book .
It's like a baby book.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
Yeah, but it's like you know, the other night was so
special.
Walking out on the soccer fieldfor Nashville MLS team with him
was so cool.
He's never gonna remember itbut he's gonna have really cool
photos and videos.
You know that so cool.
He's never going to remember it, but he's going to have really
cool photos and videos.
Yeah.
You know that's cool.
So things like that I want tosave and I wonder if he's going

(37:28):
to be able to scroll back in 10,12 years from now.
I mean, he could be listeningto this podcast episode 10 years
from now.
He might be listening right now.
What's up?

Speaker 3 (37:37):
Lox, go and clean your room years from now, he
might be listening right nowwhat's up, go and clean your
room like that's terrifying tothink about.

Speaker 2 (37:43):
How long are podcasts gonna be around?
Is there gonna be spotify?
Is there gonna be?

Speaker 3 (37:45):
yeah all that stuff there's got to be a variation of
it, but I think that thingswill change, just like they have
over the last 10 years.
But then again, I can't go downthat wormhole because we've
already questioned our existenceand how long we're gonna live.
Now we gotta question what'squestion?
What's going to happen withinthose years?

Speaker 2 (38:00):
But it's so weird, right?
Because think about yourparents.
I can think of maybe like twoor three photos that I've seen
of my dad and my mom togetherwhen they were younger.
That's it no videos, no podcast, no YouTube videos, no articles
, nothing, no social media.
They didn't have that.
So we're kind of like the firstgeneration to have to deal with

(38:23):
that with our kids.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, I can't wait till the first generation of
grandmas are just out there likerapping, ludicrous.
It's just like what's up.

Speaker 2 (38:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
I love that idea.
We've never experienced that.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
Yeah, so you don't have any regrets either, then
we've never experienced that.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
Yeah, so you don't have any regrets either, then no
, my biggest regret until againthe same thing.
Like everything worked out solike why would I question it?
But my biggest regret was notmoving to nashville sooner you
know, so you moved it.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
But again, if you moved sooner, exactly I know.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
So it did all work out.
Obviously I achieved or I have,I'm still achieving, I'm in the
middle of doing, uh, thingsthat I only dreamed about like
10 years ago.
But I think my regret ties tothe fact that I was waiting for
a boy.
Yeah, I was waiting for him.
I was waiting for him to beready.
I was waiting.
I just felt like I was therefor I before I came to nashville

(39:18):
out of college.
I spent five years before Imoved here and I would have
liked it to have been like three.
Now, in the grand scheme oflife, did those two years really
make or break me?
No, because ultimately I madeit work.
But I do look back on that andI just I think that's why I'm so
sensitive when it comes todating now of feeling like
someone's wasting my time Right,I'm like, which is hyper

(39:41):
sensitive to that.
I'm like, hey, let me know, justlet me know, it isn't going to
work Big girl and like we got it, I got it I, and I think that
also comes with, like theemotional maturity of it, right
I?
I understand that I'm noteverybody's like cup of tea, but
I feel like if you're wastingmy time, I'm wasting your time.
What are we accomplishing?

(40:01):
We're only doing a disserviceNow don't swing too far in
another direction.
Sammy.
How about you calm down andgive them a chance, feel it out.
Don't be so like almost anxiousabout it.
I kind of get ahead of myself.
So I feel like that's the onlyregret that I can come up with
but, even still.
I don't really regret it, that'sso cliche, but I think that,

(40:27):
similarly to how I was sayingthat if I were to ever find a
husband, my appreciation wouldbe different, I think that since
I feel like I hit my strideprofessionally I wouldn't even
say later, because I don't thinkthat people hit their stride
professionally in their 20s veryoften but I just feel like I
found a, an industry that reallyaccepts me for who I am and I

(40:49):
feel like I can thrive in a lotof different departments within
it.
And that was not my first stopout of college trying to find
jobs, like I felt like otherpeople, even if they didn't get
a job in their major, whichnobody really does, that I just
felt like everyone around me wasreally making strides in work
and like enjoying what they weredoing or getting promotions,

(41:12):
making way more money than me,and I felt behind in that, where
now I feel like, but if Iwasn't ready, maybe I wouldn't
have been at the right place atthe right time, met the right
people, said the right thing,proved myself the way I did
because I wouldn't have beenready to yeah I wouldn't have
known any better.
I would have been like toobubbly and looking for the party

(41:35):
, not realizing that, likesomeone has to plan said party.
You want to be that girl.

Speaker 2 (41:39):
You want to be the girl that goes home, yeah I know
, I don't know, it's weird, yeahit's like the butterfly effect.

Speaker 3 (41:46):
You ever seen that movie, oh?

Speaker 2 (41:47):
yeah, oh yeah, I do.
There's part of me that regretsdrinking so much.
Yeah, yeah.
But then also I'm like man.
I had some really good times,but also and it's always
something I struggled withbecause I'm I've always been
kind of health conscious andlike very much, uh you know,
into my physical abilities andplaying sports.

(42:09):
So even though I'd party my assoff, I'd always like think in
my head that I was working sohard that it would kind of.
But also me and my buddies talkabout now we're like man.
Imagine if we didn't drink asmuch or smoke as much when we
were in college and partied asmuch, like we just played soccer
, worked out and partied.

Speaker 3 (42:28):
But you didn't know any better you didn't.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
But looking back, you like you had that short time of
your life to be at like yourpeak physical ability yes, like,
imagine, if you actually likedialed in your nutrition I would
love to go back and be a juniorolympic gymnast with a 34 year
old brain yeah, exactly.
So that's about everything likeyeah about food nutrition.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
I mean just everything I thought about
calorie intake and all this shitmakes me nauseous.
Now, do I think that it was acollaborative effort between
coaches and society and everyone?
Yeah, yes, but like, can youimagine if you went back and
you're a college athlete, butbut with the brain you have now?
Oh, I know, oh.

Speaker 2 (43:09):
Yeah, yeah, and it's- .

Speaker 3 (43:11):
Even for just like a week.

Speaker 2 (43:13):
Even things as far as like handling pressure.
Yes, like I remember like inhigh school sports or college.
It's like you would get nervousor you would think that if you
fucked up here it was the end ofthe world.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
It's like no, it's like the amount of pressure that
I'd be able to handle now andnot let it get to me.
Yeah, it's so much moredifferent.
And pressure and also like uh,I mean, I know again it sounds
cliche, but just like knowingyourself, like knowing how, what
makes me feel better, whatmakes me feel worse, what makes
me feel faster, quicker,whatever it may be.
Yeah, I know those things somuch better now than when I was
in college yeah, of coursethat's so infuriating.
I know they say like what is it?

Speaker 2 (43:54):
yeah, you're so young your brain is so underdeveloped
.
So, yeah, I think drinkingbecause that was like every
weekend, sure, 20s, sure everyweekend moving nashville, every
weekend we're partying andthat's.
You know.
I'm like damn, how much damagedid I do to my body in that?

(44:14):
And like, again, I've alwaysbeen very conscious of it and
I've always felt like I wasbetter than most of my friends
and was able to turn it off andthen, you know, dial it in
during the week.
But I don't know, I'm like youknow, I've been sober now for
almost two years and that's onething I don't regret you know I
got it out of my quote unquotesystem, but that could be that

(44:38):
would lean more towards regretis spending that much time
drinking, even when I'mtraveling, going to places and
going to cool spots, and maybenot taking it all in as much.
Yeah.
But then I'm like you know, youhave great times.

Speaker 3 (44:57):
Yes, it makes for a good story, good memories, yeah.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
Yeah, that you remember.

Speaker 3 (45:01):
Right, but I get that , yeah.
Introspective today.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
Very introspective.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
What are you doing for Labor Day?

Speaker 2 (45:16):
Just being a dad.
Dre's out of town this weekend.
She's on a bachelorette partyand her mom's in town helping
out.
She's been here for a week ortwo, which is great, so just
really watching locks it's likecrunch time for the new gym
right now.
So we got a million thingsgoing on there and a couple

(45:40):
celebrations parties thisweekend.
Yeah, a little bit everything.
What about you?

Speaker 3 (45:46):
I got a little bit of work and a lot of relaxation.
Yeah, I've kind of hintedtowards uh, now that we're
making it through august, I am,yeah, a little bit of everything
.
What about you?
I got a little bit of work anda lot of relaxation.
Yeah, I've kind of hintedtowards.
Now that we're making itthrough August, I am going to
slow down a lot off the road,which I'm very excited for, but
I'm also weirdly anxious about.
Like I said, I'm trying to finda job or something to do in my
free time, but just got one showquick one day.

(46:08):
And then I'm going to startbecause, also, I am a basic
white girl.
I know you make fun of me allthe time, but I don't care
because.

Speaker 2 (46:14):
I love being basic.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
Emphasis on the basic .
I'm trying to be tender.
No, I'm just kidding.
And September means it'sGilmore Girls season, so I'm
going to start that from episodeone, season one.
I love watching it in the fall,so I'm going to start that from
episode one, season one.
I love watching it in the fallCrisp air and nice pumpkin

(46:36):
candles and baking and leavesand I just love it.
I'm ready.
It's going to probably be 99degrees, so I'm going to just
turn my AC down and keep thewindow shut.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
Pretend yeah, it's supposed to be over 100 today.
Do you ever think about justdoing your own work?
What?

Speaker 3 (46:48):
do you mean?

Speaker 2 (46:49):
Being an entrepreneur making your own business.
What would I do?
You tell me Exactly no.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (46:54):
There's nothing.
You see Like my brain's alwayslike, ooh, I don't like.
There's nothing you see whenyou're on the road or during
your job where you're like Icould maybe do that or do this.
There's nothing you'd want tostart If somebody gave you said
hey, sam.

Speaker 3 (47:10):
Kat, I got a million dollars for you to start your
own business right now.
No, nothing, not right now.
Ask me in six years.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Why six years?

Speaker 3 (47:16):
Because I have a five-year plan.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Oh, get out of here with a five-year plan.

Speaker 3 (47:20):
Okay, I have a five-year outline of what I
would like, the direction Iwould like to go, things that I
would like to achieve.

Speaker 2 (47:26):
Million dollars isn't available for you in five years
.
I got a million dollars rightnow.
What do you want to start?
There's nothing.

Speaker 3 (47:34):
I want to build a home with chickens and a garden
and be a homemaker.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
But then you, you're not going to be making any money
.

Speaker 3 (47:41):
You asked me what I wanted to do with the million
dollars to be an entrepreneur.
A homemaker is an entrepreneur.
Your home is your business I'dlike to invest in that you're
not bringing in income how manystay-at-home moms are bringing
in income from their homes rightnow?

Speaker 2 (47:56):
well, they have millions there's.
There's a big piece of thatthat you're missing you asked me
.

Speaker 3 (48:02):
We're living in in la la land right now I'm I'm
meeting you halfway, so you'resaying I don't.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
What I'm saying is nothing.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
I would like to invest a million dollars in for
my own business.
I have nothing.
I have no interest in being anentrepreneur.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
I have no, you're just saying that you had anxiety
, like figuring out what youwant to do and get it like no,
no, I just, I really love aroutine yeah even if it's the
most chaotic routine you've everseen.

Speaker 3 (48:26):
I understand like.
I love the.
I love the balance of like Iwould never, well, never, say
never but I would not enjoy anine to five right now, this
chapter in my life.
I love that.
My job is all over the placeand I'm traveling the world.
I'm seeing different people,I'm literally in a different
state every day.
But when I look at my calendar,I have a routine of how I'm
going to kind of taper out myweek to accommodate the

(48:46):
extensive travel Coming up.
I don't have the extensivetravel, so when I'm off the road
I don't have work, so when I'mat home I'm working on house
projects, coming and doing thispodcast with you, making sure
that I'm seeing everyone'schildren, making sure that I'm
seeing all of my friends, makingsure that I'm working out,
buying the right foods, like allthose boring things and
establishing some sort of aroutine, and I'm not going to

(49:09):
have the travel to build thatroutine around.
So it's kind of like Ooh,there's a gap in my schedule.
I should fill this.
That doesn't mean that I want tostart my own freaking business.
It's like a couple months inthe holidays Like I could use
some relaxation.
I don't sleep much.
All right, entrepreneur, I'mgoing to invest in my sleeping.
That's what I'm gonna use yourmillion dollars for, all right

(49:31):
there we go.
Sam cask gonna start do youthink that everybody wants to be
an entrepreneur?

Speaker 2 (49:35):
no, I don't, I, I know that I, I just didn't.
I was just questioning, if youdid I have no interest in that I
was having this conversationyesterday, where nashville is
such an entrepreneur city.
It's like people come here,start their own thing or try to
make it and work for themselves,and it's got to be one of the
biggest cities for doing that.
So I was just curious if you'vehad any thoughts or had any

(49:58):
ideas or something where you'relike I want to do that If you
saw a need for it.

Speaker 3 (50:03):
I have an affinity to being number two.
Okay, I would love to be thevice president of someone, like
if I shared a vision withsomeone, whatever that may be.
And that's the thing is that,like I don't have a specific
goal, I don't have a specificdream.
Like I want to be a gym owner,I don't know.
Like I enjoy the media and thetraveling and I love country

(50:23):
music and I love Nashville and Ilove all of those things, but
I'm open to a lot.
But if I linked up with someonewho had a dream and they're
just like I need a right-handman to help me with the
logistics and the planning tomake my dream come true, that's
what I like.
I don't know that I I thrive inlike You're gonna be, like I
thrive in helping other people,because that sounds douchey, but
like I really do like helpingother people, I like not being

(50:50):
the one in charge, I like beingthe one.
That's like helping the personin charge yeah, make the
decisions.
Being that confidant was justlike you know, we are in a tough
space.
What do you think I should do?
That is something that wouldspeak more to me leaps and
bounds, more than being anentrepreneur myself.

Speaker 2 (51:03):
All right.
Well, there you have it.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
Is that weird?

Speaker 2 (51:06):
Nope, oh Is that weird Nope.
Oh, okay, You're weird though.

Speaker 3 (51:09):
Yeah, but I like that .
Yeah, it's working well for meso far.

Speaker 2 (51:12):
We think so we like it.
Well, everybody stay weird outthere.
We appreciate you tuning in.
You can find us anywhere youlisten to podcasts on YouTube.
We'll be back next week.
Team on three.