February 17, 2025 • 47 mins
Meet the remarkable Sarah Hester Ross, a musical comedian who transformed the pandemic’s limitations into a soaring career. Her viral presence on TikTok and Instagram has opened doors to an Amazon Prime show, where she uses her platform to tackle serious topics like women’s and human rights. With humor and unmistakable charisma, Sarah turns controversy into art, inviting us to laugh while pondering essential societal issues. Her fearless spirit shines as she challenges norms and entertains a devoted following.
Next, we explore the hilarious realities of sharing snacks and the joys (or cons) of parenthood. Sarah shares how the struggle of sharing snacks inspired parts of her comedy and why she’s personally glad to skip the parenting experience. Meanwhile, Alethea reflects on the sacrifices of motherhood, acknowledging the challenges and rewards that come with it. This segment offers a fun yet thought-provoking take on societal norms, emphasizing the strength, humor, and resilience of women navigating life’s complexities.
Finally, we dive into Sarah Hester Ross’s vibrant world of musical comedy, exploring her unique flair for parody and viral hit, "Vibrators are a Girl’s Best Friend.” She reveals the creative process behind her unforgettable performances and discusses the role of social media in amplifying diverse voices. We also chat about how growing up in Florida shaped her comedic style and what’s next for her, including upcoming tour dates and collaborations. This episode encourages listeners to embrace their passions and walk confidently on their unique paths to greatness.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, shine like glitter.
Let the light in your life getbigger.
I'm in the spotlight, I'm thewinner, big and bright like a
diamond on a shard.
Oh yeah, you won't stop.
What's up everybody and welcometo In the Passenger Seat with
(00:24):
me, alethea Crimmins Baby, todayin the passenger seat, I am
super, super excited tointroduce you to this amazing
woman.
You have seen her on severalviral videos on TikTok Instagram
.
She now has a show on AmazonPrime and baby, now she is here
(00:46):
in the passenger seat with me.
If you have not heard of thisamazing woman, I don't know
where the hell y'all been.
So just let me give you asample of who she is and what
you're going to get today.
Roll that clip, baby.
I know what a lot of you arethinking.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
You're like oh, I know what a lot of you are
thinking.
You're like oh, she's aman-hating feminist and I don't
hate men, I don't.
I just don't believe theyshould own property, call me
old-fashioned Introducing thistalented phenomenal do-not-head
(01:33):
sarah, thank you so much forhaving me.
I'm so excited.
I am such a fan of yours, sowhen you ask me to be.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, no, I'm a fan of yours.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours, I'm afan.
I'm a fan.
I'm a fan.
Okay, okay, we're fans and Ilove this car thing.
This is so perfect.
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Because you are in the passenger seat.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You're in the passenger seat with me.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
High five.
I'm a passenger, princess, yes,okay.
So for anybody who's beenliving under a rock for like the
past three, four, five years,can you please tell everybody
who you are?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I'm a bitch.
First of all, I was just goingto go straight to you.
A bad one, a bad bitch, baby.
Okay, just be honest witheverybody, right, because you
have to fuck Matt.
My name is Sarah Soros.
I am a musical comedian,cabaret star.
(02:42):
I got on TikTok during thepandemic and I've been
performing my entire life.
But during the pandemic it wasjust like a right place, right
time, you know, and I got alleyes and these numbers started
growing and I'm so grateful andI got to meet people like you
(03:03):
and like collab and deal withthat.
And up to this point, I am atouring musical comedian and I
live here in Las Vegas.
This is where I am right now.
It's it's in the outskirts ofVegas, so it's not super fancy
to be able to show you where Iam, but that's where I am based
(03:26):
in Las Vegas.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Oh listen, I freaking like I love you so much because
what you do is fucking genius.
Like you'll take thecontroversial shit of the world
and you put it to song and theshit is hilarious.
(03:49):
I'm like this woman is a genius.
This woman is a genius and Ilove the fact that you are a
fiery ass redhead.
Like that just makes you sofucking hot.
Like, like I just need to, likeyou're so hot.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Say more please.
Okay, not like.
Yeah.
I always like to say I get totalk about serious subjects and
things that are very topical,obviously of the day and of the
shit show that's going on rightnow, but because I put it into
song, it's like like music helpsthe feminism go down a little
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bit.
You know what I mean, and so Iget away with talking about a
lot of stuff because beforeuntil it takes people a minute
to realize what I'm talkingabout because it's got a little
catchy tune to it.
So I I love that I can get awaywith stuff like that and, um,
it's important to me, it'simportant to me that I'm not
(04:50):
just talking fluff, because it'svery easy to do that.
It's very especially on socialmedia, just to, like, you know,
get I get eyeballs on you justby like spouting like surface
stuff.
But because I'm singing it, Iget to talk about like real
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things and things that areimportant to me, like women's
rights, like human rights, and Iget away with it and I love it.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And in the best possible way, and the one thing
that made me it was it was somany things, but the main thing
that made me follow you was Iwas like she don't give a fuck
and I love it, like like you.
You literally you, you don'tcare and you're so passionate
(05:45):
about what you do and what yousay and it's meaningful.
Now people will think he's aman hater, like she.
She's a man hater.
Can we address that just forjust a minute?
So are you a man hater?
Come on for just a minute.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Are you a man hater?
Come on.
No, no, and I actually talkabout this in my show.
I'm touring a new hour rightnow and I'm really excited
hopefully workshopping this newshow.
It's a little different from myhour that's on Amazon Prime and
(06:29):
Apple TV.
It's a little bit more cabaretand less stand-up.
So I'm really excited aboutthis new direction that I'm
taking in my show.
And I talk about this, the ideathat I don't I get why people
think that I hate men so much.
And it's not because I hate men, it's just because I love women
(06:51):
so much, like I just.
And the idea that our societywas created by men for men, was
created by men for men and withone of its prime reasons is to
(07:12):
push women down so far that theystay silent, they stay
complacent.
And because they know our power, they know that when we speak,
we are, we have power.
They know that when we act, ithappens, and so that's just one
of the main underliningprinciples of everything that I
(07:34):
do.
So that's why the man hatingbubbles up, because the society
is, you know, raising men tohigher heights, and my goal is
to raise women and to encouragewomen.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You basically do the same shit that I do Absolutely.
Because I started out like mymain goal was women, women,
women, women, women.
Because we are some badassbitches, absolutely.
And the world has been sleepingon us.
Wake the fuck up.
Yes, wake up.
(08:17):
We are here and you do theexact same thing, but you do it
in such a genius way, bitch.
When you said I put thelaughter back in man slaughter,
bitch, I lost it.
I said what I was like, what hewas like.
(08:42):
I put the laughter back inman's slaughter.
I was like what he was like.
I put the laughter back inman's slot.
I was like this bitch, but wait, as a mom, I didn't know you
were a mom.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I love that, yes.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I have three kids.
Oh wow, they're like adults now.
Thank you for your cervix.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
No, thank you.
We childless women appreciateyour cervix.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
This is exactly.
Had I heard your song prior toopening my legs, had I heard
your song prior to opening mylegs, bitch, my pussy was a six,
I mean like it was a ten, and Iwas like a five and a half
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because I had children.
And you made so much sensecause you was like I don't want
no, like I don't want no babiesbecause I don't want to share my
snacks.
Like that touched my soulPeriod.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
It touched my soul.
It's not rocket science.
I just don't want to share myfood.
How about that?
I was like I was like.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
And then you were like I don't need my children
watching me pee.
I was like my God, yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
It's so funny because I get more mothers liking that
song than childless women, and Ithink I do.
I think that mothers are goingto get it even more than you
know women without children orlike child-free women and
families and I just love that.
(10:31):
I love that because, at the endof the day, I do believe that
moms have the best sense ofhumor.
Oh yeah, because what y'all gothrough from the span of time
that you have children and yourlife, like if you're a good mom,
is about your, your childrenand your family and taking care
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of them.
You life is just one bigfucking joke, like you know what
I mean, and to survive you haveto be like God.
This is a joke, right?
You guys are kidding me and Ifirmly believe that the mothers
have the best sense of humors wedo, Because life is just like
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boom, boom, boom.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Kids are the gift that keeps on giving.
I love my children.
I love them I do, but in themom handbook they said that when
your children turn 18, thatthey were going to exit the
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building when your children turn18.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
That is what the mother handbook said okay, you
got some tag alongs huh themother handbook is a fucking
liar cause.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I have my 19 year old son living with me and then my
daughter, who was in Washington,has now returned, and she has
returned with a package.
So now, so now I have my son,my daughter and my grandbaby
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living with me.
The handbook is false.
Do not believe the handbook,gay.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
This is a fucking lie .
Oh my gosh, how old is yourgrandbaby?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Seven months and I could just eat him, I bet.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Oh my gosh, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
As a mom like you have to find the humor in all
this and I told my wife.
I said I feel like we're in ahouse with teenagers again, like
what the fuck is going on.
Oh no, like I just had to fussat them.
I was like do I need to make achore chart?
(13:03):
One of you bitches better washthe dishes.
I don't care who wash the damngosh bless your heart.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
I'm so, I'm, so I'm, I mean, I'm not sorry, but I am
sorry, you know what I mean,because they're not sorry, I
know I'm like I don't want to be, like, oh, I'm sorry, because
it's like they're children andyou're obviously a lovely mom
and you are, they're welcome inyour home at any time.
But it's just like, bitch, yousaid, you said, you said it, you
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were gonna, and now they'reback and now I no longer have my
own snacks, I'm I'm sharingclothes again.
Like what is going on no, so didyou have an empty house for a
bit for?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
well, my, my, my son, my youngest son.
He was like mom, I'm just, youknow, I'm, I'm just not leaving.
So I'm just letting you knownow that I'm just going to be
here and he was like could wediscuss this?
Is this is an open discussionand I was just like oh, okay,
well, okay, oh no.
(14:28):
And then I heard your song andI was like yeah, yeah, even now,
yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Oh my gosh, I love it oh, my gosh, I love it.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
And then you made another song, that kind of I
felt like I was being underattack and I wanted to tell you
to your face to get out myfucking business and leave me
alone.
Okay, I don't need to be inyour business.
So I just wanted to take thisopportunity to tell you mind
your damn business, because Ishould not have been swallowed.
(15:12):
Okay, oh, no, which one are you?
Which one are you?
Nope, nope.
Just just let me say this whenyou were running down that list,
I was like, oh, no, oh now.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
now let's, let's be real.
Everyone their own list, sogive me some of yours.
People don't know.
I have a song called Some Folksand the idea is that it's a
list of pet peeves that I don'twish people dead.
That's not my style, I'm notgoing to, you know.
(16:02):
But you know, I do believe thattheir mom and dad could have,
you know, been a little bit moresexy about it as well, because
I think it's a fun.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
I start off well when I'm being petty.
When I'm being petty or whenI'm being shady, I do start off
like a lot of my sentences withno offense.
That's so funny.
(16:36):
That's so funny.
I was like shut up shut up.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Is she watching me?
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I'm a witch I know, do I do?
I have a list do?
Speaker 2 (16:56):
I have a list.
It's just like what your petpeeves like.
Obviously they're not likesuper serious.
No, because.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I don't like people that eat like cows, Like why do?
I have to listen to you eat.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Oh yeah, swallowed Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Like why do I have to listen to you eat?
Like I don't want to have tolisten to you eat.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
That's definitely one Ew gross.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
And if I'm singing in my car and I'm singing my song
in my car, that is not your cueto start singing with me.
This is my moment.
I am with am Whitney right now,then I would totally be on your
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list because I would beharmonizing the shit with you
and I'd be like do it, and I'djust be like it's not a do it,
why are you singing right now?
Like, let me, you're probablythat person that like goes and
sings karaoke, but like you canreally sing, and so like people
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can be like this bitch.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
I have learned, I have learned my lesson.
Yeah, people, that they say ifyou can actually sing and if
you're like a professionalsinger, you shouldn't be going
to karaoke.
So the only time I do karaokeis when I'm super drunk, super
drunk, and then I, you know,will probably act a fool and it
(18:37):
will be fine.
Girl, I agree, I'm not, I'm not.
Karaoke is not my stage, it'snot for stage, it's not for me,
it's my.
Get it, I get it, I get it?
Speaker 1 (18:51):
how did you come up with musical comedy and just
mash this to and just have this,this to and just have this
beautiful marriage that I havenot seen done like because,
because it made me do myresearch, I'm like, well, does
(19:12):
anybody else have a musicalcomedy?
And so how?
How in the hell did you say I'mgonna make a musical comedy?
Yeah, and just how did it evencome about?
Speaker 2 (19:24):
It stems from the fact that my main gig here in
Las Vegas is dueling pianos.
I work at a dueling piano barat the New York New York Hotel
and Casino.
I've been doing that for about12 years and a concept of the
dueling pianos.
There's a lot of comedy andimprov involved in the in that
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gig, in the show, and when Istarted doing it as a musician I
realized that the comedy aspectwas something that I thrived in
and so I started writing my ownbits and my song and um songs
that I would do in the show.
But it wasn't my show, it was adueling piano show.
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It was all requests, sing-alongkind of vibe, and I just kept
writing bits and kept writingsongs, mostly parody songs,
which you know my big ones arelike vibrators are a girl's best
friend instead of diamonds area girl's best friend.
You know things like that,things that's silly, like you
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keep the melody and you changethe words to something funny or
silly, and I just realized thatit was kind of a niche of mine
and so when I got online duringthe pandemic, I started putting
out more original comedymaterial and it just kind of
took off.
And what was your?
Speaker 1 (20:48):
first viral?
What was, what did?
Do you remember what was whatyour first?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Oh yeah it was definitely.
Writers are a girl's bestfriend.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Yeah, for, and yes, I'm going to put you on the spot
for those, those that don'tknow how.
How does it go?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
okay, um, a kiss on the hand may be quite
continental, but vibrators are agirl's best friend.
A partner is great, but theywon't always get you to that.
Oh God, please, or help youfind your old face.
Love is great, but it's a fact.
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Sometimes they don't know whereyour G-spot is.
It's true and sad.
Whether big or black or smallor fast, these cocks always will
ask Vibrators are a girl's bestfriend.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
I love you.
You are a fucking baby.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
I did that and that was my first viral video, you
know, because people would shareit and they would duet it and
they would like react to it liveand stuff like that.
And it just went everywhere.
And that was one of the veryfirst parodies that I wrote for
dueling pianos and it still isone of the one of my favorites
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to do in my piano show.
But yeah, so, and I love it.
I've gotten vibrator collabdeals from it.
Yes, it's been pretty fun.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
How does your mind work to come up with these
jingles?
How does your mind?
Because the shot, the fuck up.
I was like, yes, you need tohave a mic on.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yeah, I don't.
I really don't know.
I want to say that if I thinksomething is funny and it makes
me giggle, and putting it tomusic is just going to enhance
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it.
I do take a lot of inspirationfrom TikTok and Instagram, like
when people are like if I see afunny meme, I'm like oh, that's
funny, how can I rework that andtweak it and put it into?
music and song Florida man, yes,florida man.
Yes, that's a big one.
Yeah, and if your audiencedoesn't know what Florida man is
, uh, uh, it's a popular memefrom the two thousands where you
would enter the words Floridaman and your birthday into a
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Google search and up pops acrazy story about a Florida man
that you know hid syringes inhis butthole, but when they were
removed, when he was gettingarrested, he said they weren't
his.
So where did they come from?
Yeah, no, he was just.
He's holding it for a friendright in a very special place in
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a very, very special place, butagain mine though the stories
are funny, but then you put themto song and then and people can
sing along and it's yeah it.
It just enhances it to adifferent level.
And now I do them live, whichis really fun.
In my live shows I have theaudience yell out their
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birthdays and I'll look up thedate and it's so and it's so fun
and people really enjoy it andlike it and it's silly, and and
I grew up in Florida enjoy itand like it and it's silly and.
And florida I grew up inflorida.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
I was born and raised in tampa, florida, so I know
the uh ridiculousness of floridaand I just get a kick out of it
I know a lot of people thatmight be like, oh my god, like
how did she take that leap tojust go out and do this?
How?
How did she find the self-worthor the like self-esteem to just
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put yourself out there?
Because stand up is hard, likeany comedian will say,
especially for a woman.
Yeah, stand up is hard, yeah.
So how did you say, like, okay,I don't care, like I'm gonna
put myself out there?
What would you say to someonewho's like maybe I want to do
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that, but I'm nervous aboutputting myself out out?
How did you say, okay, sarah,fuck it.
Yeah, I'm gonna do it.
Like what was that wholeprocess?
You know?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
for anybody who is thinking about wanting to do it,
the the only suggestion andthat I would have is just to to
find, find like-minded peopledoing what you're doing, or
doing what you want to do, or,um, you love their content and I
would say, follow them like,find out their circle, find out,
(25:58):
reach out to them, see if theywould introduce you to open mics
to the people that they workwith.
Nine times at a sorry, I'mgoing to step back seven times
out of 10, uh, people arewilling to, to help and not
gatekeep.
There are people out there, um,you know, feel like if they
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give, they lose.
I am, I'm not one of thosepeople.
Uh, I would encourage people toreach out to me if they see
something that I'm doing andthey're like, oh, I love this,
how do I get involved?
I mean, dm me, dm me and ask meand maybe I can put you in
contact with the right people,the right context.
Are you thinking about doing?
Speaker 1 (26:41):
stand-up.
What you're saying is that if Ihappen to, hypothetically, if I
was hypothetically in likeVegas next weekend and like you
were in Vegas next weekend,hypothetically like we can go to
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brunch and like do some somebad bitch, shit, bitch yes, we
can do that absolutely.
I would adore that, so I guessI need to give you my number,
because that's gonna happenthat's gonna definitely happen,
absolutely.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That's going to definitely happen, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Yes, yes, oh my God, yes, like, cause you it's also I
love, how?
Well, let me not say it, let meask you first, but I know that
I've heard you do songs based onthe negative comments that you
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get.
Oh, yeah, I get.
And people are like, how didyou?
You're the most positive person, I know.
How do you get negativecomments?
Oh honey, oh honey.
Yeah, I know how I deal withthe haters, because.
But but like, how do you doingwhat you do?
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How do you deal with all thenegativity that comes your way?
How do you deal with all thelike naysayers that's like how
did she get her own show and howdoes she get to to do and why
does she have this and she's noteven that funny?
Like, how do you deal with it?
Speaker 2 (28:33):
I mean I would.
I would be lying if I said thatit didn't affect me.
You know, um, I have learned tocompartmentalize a little bit
and see the positivity in it,the toxicity that is social
media.
Even negative comments end upbeing a good thing for you, the
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creator, because it pushes youout into the algorithm and it
and it and it makes you moreseen.
So there, there are parts of methat, as an entertainer that
I've been, um, being, I guess,judged since I was a small child
.
Because that's entertainment.
You put yourself on a platformand, uh, it, it, it's the idea
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that it's like well, I, how canI expect it to not happen?
I'm putting myself out there.
So I, and I like to find thecomedy in it.
I like to pick out thesehorrendous comments and do at
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them and be like, you know,write a song about it or
something like, use it.
You know, you've just given itto me.
Now I can use it for my benefit.
I love this and, yeah, it's noteasy.
I would be lying if I said,yeah, so, oh, it's fine, it just
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rolls off my back, that's it'sI'm.
I'm hoping other people can dothat.
I, I'm a sensitive soul, uh,but, um, I do believe it comes
with the territory becausepeople, you know haters are
going to hate man and there'snothing we you know, haters are
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going to hate man and there'snothing we.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
There's nothing we can do about it.
So the the best part, the onlyway to deal with it in my mind
is to has all her shit togetherand you are just happiness.
Honey, were you always that?
Were you always this?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
you know that's a good question.
I feel like in the past 10years I have gotten stronger in
who I am.
I was raised very conservativeand meekness and gentleness was
a prerequisite for me as a girland in my family and in the
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belief system that I was raisedin, and I never fit that mold.
I always struggled a lot withthat and it was a contention
between my family and me.
I was always too loud or tooopinionated.
We're sisters yeah, I believethat we are my love and I just
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think that that's naturally whoI am.
And so when I deconstructed mymind out of that and not
thinking that that is the onlyway, the right way that women
need to be this, to be loved orto be seen or to be not seen, it
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freed me to be who I really am,and who I really am is a loud,
badass bitch and same.
I've got.
I've got thoughts.
I'm not always right.
I mean I'm close, but I'm notalways right and I get that.
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I'm still learning and growingand changing.
Honestly, you know, as a as awhite woman who grew up around
mostly white people and the ideaTikTok has revolutionized my
mindset about what feminismreally is and including women of
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color and in my everyday lifeand thought.
I am a new person because ofTikTok, because I have gleaned
from creators like you and womenlike you and sitting back and
listening and learning andletting other women speak.
(33:22):
I know that I have.
I have a thought and opinionand and a and a platform and I
like to share that with with you.
Know people, specifically womenof color in our society that
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have not been pushed to thefront because of what they look
like, and it's time that morewomen that look like me do that.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Can I just say I love you even more for that and I
thank you for that video thatyou made and you said and it it.
(34:13):
Usually I laugh my ass off when, when I see you, but this one
touched me deep because yourstory is similar to mine.
And you were like if they thinkthat you're too much, go find
less.
And I was like, and I was like,yeah, yeah, yeah.
(34:40):
And I listened to that onrepeat for like day, like every
time, especially when I wouldtalk to my mom and she's, and
I'm just like go find less.
I'm just like go find less.
Yeah, If I am too much, go findless.
Speaker 2 (35:02):
I'm not making you be with me, I'm not making you
(35:22):
hear me to listen to us wants toforce, and I think that we're.
We're so beyond that in thesense of I'm going to speak and
if you want to listen, I'm goingto keep talking, but if not,
like bye, because there arepeople out there that want to
listen, that want to uh that,that take what you have to say
(35:47):
as gold and knowledge and and uhwisdom, and if, if, if they are
not the ones to do it, someoneelse will.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
And you have proven that.
You have proven that doing whatyou're doing and I don't know
how many times you've heard this, but I'm going to tell you
again I am so proud of you again.
(36:23):
I am so proud of you like I,like I'm so, like I was
screaming.
I was like she's like I wasscreaming, like I was like, oh
my god, like and she's on mypodcast like she's like I was,
like I was like I was sogenuinely proud of you and I
just feel like you are going tojust and your mouth to God's
(36:46):
ears, listen.
I know I'm so tired.
I saw all the many, many shows.
So what do you have Speaking ofthe many, many shows?
So what do you have?
Speaking of the many, manyshows?
Yeah, tell us what you havecoming up next.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
Like, where will you be so that we can know, I'll be
in Seattle at the end ofFebruary and then I'm doing a
small UK tour.
I'll be in London and Liverpooland Leeds and I'm very excited
because I know we've beencursing but and I know how
(37:23):
people feel about it but my songI'm Serving Cunt is kind of a
big deal over in the UK becausethey don't have the negative
connotation that America does.
Yes, so I'm really excited tojust like dive into that.
But so, yeah, the tour is being.
(37:47):
New dates are added all thetime.
So I tell people to go to thelink in my bios on social media
at Sarah Hester Ross and put intheir city or state and when I
go there I will send a messagejust to them to let them know.
(38:09):
So I'm just trying to grow thatand if people want to see me
live and that's, and I don'thave their city on my tour
scheduled, then they should dothat.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Oh, yeah, yeah, cause if you get close to Louisiana I
will definitely be there, likeif I have to drive what yeah,
like, oh you're going to beclose Also, maybe that'll give
you an opportunity to try somestand-up.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
You can open for me, girl.
I made it because, listen,maybe, maybe we can put
something together.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
Girl.
We have to talk about itwhenever I'm in Vegas next
weekend.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Okay, okay, okay.
That'll make our brunch awrite-off, because we'll talk
about work Perfect, smarter nothotter.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
So we are going to play a little game right quick,
you have to say the first thingthat comes to your head no, no
thinking, just okay okay, Idon't think too much.
Anyways, that's favorite bodypart boob.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
Why did I just say one?
Speaker 1 (39:45):
though, because, because you're like, you're like
left one is bigger than youryeah, because because of your
heart.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I don't know if that's true, but that's what
I've always been saying.
Speaker 1 (39:55):
It's more like supple , I don't know.
Okay, my left bone, if youcould eat one food for the rest
of your life Sushi we are twins.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
We are twins.
I love sushi.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
Twins man crush.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
Didn't we discuss this already?
I don't really.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
I was like I do think that would stump you.
Okay, wait, Woman crush.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Oh well, yeah, Woman crush.
You know, wow, woman crush.
Oh well, yeah, woman crush.
Alfina crimons, of course.
Okay, I'm just yes, stop it,stop it, woman.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
my favorite, my favorite body part is hardening
but just my left one, what yourlady would your lady would is
getting hard okay oh my gosh ohmy god, this is the best podcast
(41:16):
episode that's for.
I think I'll be like what thefuck is wrong with these bitches
.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
I know everything, and that's what makes us perfect
.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Literally, things wrong with us oh, my god, oh, if
you had one piece of advice togive to a girl or a woman, but
specifically a girl.
I don't know where I belong, Idon't know who I am, but I know
(41:52):
that I'm destined to dosomething like what would you
tell her to motivate her to livein her greatness?
Be single be single.
Speaker 2 (42:07):
No, seriously, I mean and this is coming from someone
who has rarely been single myentire life and the idea of and
it's not about not wanting arelationship you can want a
relationship, you can want to.
But if your desire is to focuson you and your goals, your
(42:32):
career, like your goals, yourcareer, being single lets you do
that properly, because you'renot having to think of other
people, You're not having tothink of a man or or or a
partner, You're not having tothink about kids.
Wait, I say wait.
Society tells us to like getmarried, get married, have kids.
(42:55):
And I say no, I have kids.
And I say no.
I say wait.
I say wait as long as you can.
Focus on you, for as long asyou possibly can.
If those are your desires andwants and needs, then go for it.
Go for it.
But if you are trying to growyourself, your career, your
goals, stay single as long aspossible.
(43:17):
That's what I think where wereyou?
Speaker 1 (43:20):
I know where was, where was I for me, where, where
, where the hell were you?
Because, girl, listen y'all,y'all, little wait, let me get
the, the term that you, becausethe way I died, you said crotch,
(43:40):
wait, what is it?
Speaker 2 (43:43):
Crotch goblins, yes, crotch goblins?
Speaker 1 (43:48):
All three of them would probably not.
They might have been swallowed,I don't know.
They might have been swallowed.
Maybe I love it know they mighthave been swallowed.
Maybe I love it.
That's fantastic, thank you,thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for gracingus with your fabulous red-headed
(44:09):
presence.
Thank you, girl.
I'm about to go die.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
You would look fantastic as a redhead.
What I mean?
The blonde suits you very well,but yeah, red baby I'm gonna
have to test that out.
Speaker 1 (44:29):
I'm gonna have to test this theory out, y'all,
because sarah said it first.
So that means that I gotta goand I'm into the fold.
I'm gonna have to y'all whaty'all think.
Yes, we gonna see.
Yes for all of those that needto find you and follow you,
(44:50):
because they want more of thatleft boob action oh my gosh,
like one boob action where, ohmy gosh, I'm so like one boob
and I gave about one, just one,not the two, not that one, this
one, what is?
where can they get morefabulosity?
That is sarah hester ross.
(45:12):
Where can they find this badbitch and all of her bad
bitchiness?
Speaker 2 (45:17):
I'm all over social media Instagram, tiktok, blue
Sky Threads, youtube.
Every single handle is at SarahHester Ross, so you can find me
anywhere online and if I'mcoming near to you, a city of
you, and you want to see me live, please.
It's a really fun show and I'mreally excited about this new
(45:41):
creation that I'm kind of takingI am excited for you, like I
said, you are doing, and you aredoing it extremely, extremely
(46:02):
well.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
you are the definition of being great in
they fucking face and I love itthank you, thank you so much
doing more of it.
Sarah has to run everybody.
Thank you so much for beinghere again.
(46:24):
Guys like subscribe comment.
Go find Sarah.
Go and find her.
See where the hell she at.
Is she coming to a city nearyou?
It is worth the listen.
Go and look for her musicalcomedy show on amazon prime baby
(46:45):
, she is everything andeverything is.
She is the shit, the whole shit, and nothing but the white, the
shit, shit, okay, the shit.
So I need you to go out thereand be great, like Sarah is
being great.
She is walking in her greatnessand you can too.
(47:08):
I know that you can.
She stepped out and she made itand you can too.
So go out there there, do that,be great in your own face so
that you can be phenomenal inyour haters face and, as always,
y'all have a good day onpurpose you.
Yeah, shine like glitter.
Let the light in your life getbigger.
I'm in the spotlight, I'm thewinner, big and bright like a
diamond on a shard.
Oh yeah, you won't stop.
What's up everybody and welcometo In the Passenger Seat with
(00:24):
me, alethea Crimmins Baby, todayin the passenger seat, I am
super, super excited tointroduce you to this amazing
woman.
You have seen her on severalviral videos on TikTok Instagram
.
She now has a show on AmazonPrime and baby, now she is here
(00:46):
in the passenger seat with me.
If you have not heard of thisamazing woman, I don't know
where the hell y'all been.
So just let me give you asample of who she is and what
you're going to get today.
Roll that clip, baby.
I know what a lot of you arethinking.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
You're like oh, I know what a lot of you are
thinking.
You're like oh, she's aman-hating feminist and I don't
hate men, I don't.
I just don't believe theyshould own property, call me
old-fashioned Introducing thistalented phenomenal do-not-head
(01:33):
sarah, thank you so much forhaving me.
I'm so excited.
I am such a fan of yours, sowhen you ask me to be.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, no, I'm a fan of yours.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours.
No, I'm a fan of yours, I'm afan.
I'm a fan.
I'm a fan.
Okay, okay, we're fans and Ilove this car thing.
This is so perfect.
I like it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Because you are in the passenger seat.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You're in the passenger seat with me.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
High five.
I'm a passenger, princess, yes,okay.
So for anybody who's beenliving under a rock for like the
past three, four, five years,can you please tell everybody
who you are?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
I'm a bitch.
First of all, I was just goingto go straight to you.
A bad one, a bad bitch, baby.
Okay, just be honest witheverybody, right, because you
have to fuck Matt.
My name is Sarah Soros.
I am a musical comedian,cabaret star.
(02:42):
I got on TikTok during thepandemic and I've been
performing my entire life.
But during the pandemic it wasjust like a right place, right
time, you know, and I got alleyes and these numbers started
growing and I'm so grateful andI got to meet people like you
(03:03):
and like collab and deal withthat.
And up to this point, I am atouring musical comedian and I
live here in Las Vegas.
This is where I am right now.
It's it's in the outskirts ofVegas, so it's not super fancy
to be able to show you where Iam, but that's where I am based
(03:26):
in Las Vegas.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Oh listen, I freaking like I love you so much because
what you do is fucking genius.
Like you'll take thecontroversial shit of the world
and you put it to song and theshit is hilarious.
(03:49):
I'm like this woman is a genius.
This woman is a genius and Ilove the fact that you are a
fiery ass redhead.
Like that just makes you sofucking hot.
Like, like I just need to, likeyou're so hot.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Say more please.
Okay, not like.
Yeah.
I always like to say I get totalk about serious subjects and
things that are very topical,obviously of the day and of the
shit show that's going on rightnow, but because I put it into
song, it's like like music helpsthe feminism go down a little
(04:29):
bit.
You know what I mean, and so Iget away with talking about a
lot of stuff because beforeuntil it takes people a minute
to realize what I'm talkingabout because it's got a little
catchy tune to it.
So I I love that I can get awaywith stuff like that and, um,
it's important to me, it'simportant to me that I'm not
(04:50):
just talking fluff, because it'svery easy to do that.
It's very especially on socialmedia, just to, like, you know,
get I get eyeballs on you justby like spouting like surface
stuff.
But because I'm singing it, Iget to talk about like real
(05:12):
things and things that areimportant to me, like women's
rights, like human rights, and Iget away with it and I love it.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And in the best possible way, and the one thing
that made me it was it was somany things, but the main thing
that made me follow you was Iwas like she don't give a fuck
and I love it, like like you.
You literally you, you don'tcare and you're so passionate
(05:45):
about what you do and what yousay and it's meaningful.
Now people will think he's aman hater, like she.
She's a man hater.
Can we address that just forjust a minute?
So are you a man hater?
Come on for just a minute.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Are you a man hater?
Come on.
No, no, and I actually talkabout this in my show.
I'm touring a new hour rightnow and I'm really excited
hopefully workshopping this newshow.
It's a little different from myhour that's on Amazon Prime and
(06:29):
Apple TV.
It's a little bit more cabaretand less stand-up.
So I'm really excited aboutthis new direction that I'm
taking in my show.
And I talk about this, the ideathat I don't I get why people
think that I hate men so much.
And it's not because I hate men, it's just because I love women
(06:51):
so much, like I just.
And the idea that our societywas created by men for men, was
created by men for men and withone of its prime reasons is to
(07:12):
push women down so far that theystay silent, they stay
complacent.
And because they know our power, they know that when we speak,
we are, we have power.
They know that when we act, ithappens, and so that's just one
of the main underliningprinciples of everything that I
(07:34):
do.
So that's why the man hatingbubbles up, because the society
is, you know, raising men tohigher heights, and my goal is
to raise women and to encouragewomen.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You basically do the same shit that I do Absolutely.
Because I started out like mymain goal was women, women,
women, women, women.
Because we are some badassbitches, absolutely.
And the world has been sleepingon us.
Wake the fuck up.
Yes, wake up.
(08:17):
We are here and you do theexact same thing, but you do it
in such a genius way, bitch.
When you said I put thelaughter back in man slaughter,
bitch, I lost it.
I said what I was like, what hewas like.
(08:42):
I put the laughter back inman's slaughter.
I was like what he was like.
I put the laughter back inman's slot.
I was like this bitch, but wait, as a mom, I didn't know you
were a mom.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I love that, yes.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I have three kids.
Oh wow, they're like adults now.
Thank you for your cervix.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
No, thank you.
We childless women appreciateyour cervix.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
This is exactly.
Had I heard your song prior toopening my legs, had I heard
your song prior to opening mylegs, bitch, my pussy was a six,
I mean like it was a ten, and Iwas like a five and a half
(09:38):
because I had children.
And you made so much sensecause you was like I don't want
no, like I don't want no babiesbecause I don't want to share my
snacks.
Like that touched my soulPeriod.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
It touched my soul.
It's not rocket science.
I just don't want to share myfood.
How about that?
I was like I was like.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
And then you were like I don't need my children
watching me pee.
I was like my God, yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
It's so funny because I get more mothers liking that
song than childless women, and Ithink I do.
I think that mothers are goingto get it even more than you
know women without children orlike child-free women and
families and I just love that.
(10:31):
I love that because, at the endof the day, I do believe that
moms have the best sense ofhumor.
Oh yeah, because what y'all gothrough from the span of time
that you have children and yourlife, like if you're a good mom,
is about your, your childrenand your family and taking care
(10:54):
of them.
You life is just one bigfucking joke, like you know what
I mean, and to survive you haveto be like God.
This is a joke, right?
You guys are kidding me and Ifirmly believe that the mothers
have the best sense of humors wedo, Because life is just like
(11:17):
boom, boom, boom.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Kids are the gift that keeps on giving.
I love my children.
I love them I do, but in themom handbook they said that when
your children turn 18, thatthey were going to exit the
(11:41):
building when your children turn18.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
That is what the mother handbook said okay, you
got some tag alongs huh themother handbook is a fucking
liar cause.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I have my 19 year old son living with me and then my
daughter, who was in Washington,has now returned, and she has
returned with a package.
So now, so now I have my son,my daughter and my grandbaby
(12:15):
living with me.
The handbook is false.
Do not believe the handbook,gay.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
This is a fucking lie .
Oh my gosh, how old is yourgrandbaby?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Seven months and I could just eat him, I bet.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Oh my gosh, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
As a mom like you have to find the humor in all
this and I told my wife.
I said I feel like we're in ahouse with teenagers again, like
what the fuck is going on.
Oh no, like I just had to fussat them.
I was like do I need to make achore chart?
(13:03):
One of you bitches better washthe dishes.
I don't care who wash the damngosh bless your heart.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
I'm so, I'm, so I'm, I mean, I'm not sorry, but I am
sorry, you know what I mean,because they're not sorry, I
know I'm like I don't want to be, like, oh, I'm sorry, because
it's like they're children andyou're obviously a lovely mom
and you are, they're welcome inyour home at any time.
But it's just like, bitch, yousaid, you said, you said it, you
(13:42):
were gonna, and now they'reback and now I no longer have my
own snacks, I'm I'm sharingclothes again.
Like what is going on no, so didyou have an empty house for a
bit for?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
well, my, my, my son, my youngest son.
He was like mom, I'm just, youknow, I'm, I'm just not leaving.
So I'm just letting you knownow that I'm just going to be
here and he was like could wediscuss this?
Is this is an open discussionand I was just like oh, okay,
well, okay, oh no.
(14:28):
And then I heard your song andI was like yeah, yeah, even now,
yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Oh my gosh, I love it oh, my gosh, I love it.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
And then you made another song, that kind of I
felt like I was being underattack and I wanted to tell you
to your face to get out myfucking business and leave me
alone.
Okay, I don't need to be inyour business.
So I just wanted to take thisopportunity to tell you mind
your damn business, because Ishould not have been swallowed.
(15:12):
Okay, oh, no, which one are you?
Which one are you?
Nope, nope.
Just just let me say this whenyou were running down that list,
I was like, oh, no, oh now.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
now let's, let's be real.
Everyone their own list, sogive me some of yours.
People don't know.
I have a song called Some Folksand the idea is that it's a
list of pet peeves that I don'twish people dead.
That's not my style, I'm notgoing to, you know.
(16:02):
But you know, I do believe thattheir mom and dad could have,
you know, been a little bit moresexy about it as well, because
I think it's a fun.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
I start off well when I'm being petty.
When I'm being petty or whenI'm being shady, I do start off
like a lot of my sentences withno offense.
That's so funny.
(16:36):
That's so funny.
I was like shut up shut up.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Is she watching me?
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I'm a witch I know, do I do?
I have a list do?
Speaker 2 (16:56):
I have a list.
It's just like what your petpeeves like.
Obviously they're not likesuper serious.
No, because.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I don't like people that eat like cows, Like why do?
I have to listen to you eat.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Oh yeah, swallowed Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Like why do I have to listen to you eat?
Like I don't want to have tolisten to you eat.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
That's definitely one Ew gross.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
And if I'm singing in my car and I'm singing my song
in my car, that is not your cueto start singing with me.
This is my moment.
I am with am Whitney right now,then I would totally be on your
(17:48):
list because I would beharmonizing the shit with you
and I'd be like do it, and I'djust be like it's not a do it,
why are you singing right now?
Like, let me, you're probablythat person that like goes and
sings karaoke, but like you canreally sing, and so like people
(18:12):
can be like this bitch.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
I have learned, I have learned my lesson.
Yeah, people, that they say ifyou can actually sing and if
you're like a professionalsinger, you shouldn't be going
to karaoke.
So the only time I do karaokeis when I'm super drunk, super
drunk, and then I, you know,will probably act a fool and it
(18:37):
will be fine.
Girl, I agree, I'm not, I'm not.
Karaoke is not my stage, it'snot for stage, it's not for me,
it's my.
Get it, I get it, I get it?
Speaker 1 (18:51):
how did you come up with musical comedy and just
mash this to and just have this,this to and just have this
beautiful marriage that I havenot seen done like because,
because it made me do myresearch, I'm like, well, does
(19:12):
anybody else have a musicalcomedy?
And so how?
How in the hell did you say I'mgonna make a musical comedy?
Yeah, and just how did it evencome about?
Speaker 2 (19:24):
It stems from the fact that my main gig here in
Las Vegas is dueling pianos.
I work at a dueling piano barat the New York New York Hotel
and Casino.
I've been doing that for about12 years and a concept of the
dueling pianos.
There's a lot of comedy andimprov involved in the in that
(19:46):
gig, in the show, and when Istarted doing it as a musician I
realized that the comedy aspectwas something that I thrived in
and so I started writing my ownbits and my song and um songs
that I would do in the show.
But it wasn't my show, it was adueling piano show.
(20:08):
It was all requests, sing-alongkind of vibe, and I just kept
writing bits and kept writingsongs, mostly parody songs,
which you know my big ones arelike vibrators are a girl's best
friend instead of diamonds area girl's best friend.
You know things like that,things that's silly, like you
(20:29):
keep the melody and you changethe words to something funny or
silly, and I just realized thatit was kind of a niche of mine
and so when I got online duringthe pandemic, I started putting
out more original comedymaterial and it just kind of
took off.
And what was your?
Speaker 1 (20:48):
first viral?
What was, what did?
Do you remember what was whatyour first?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Oh yeah it was definitely.
Writers are a girl's bestfriend.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Yeah, for, and yes, I'm going to put you on the spot
for those, those that don'tknow how.
How does it go?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
okay, um, a kiss on the hand may be quite
continental, but vibrators are agirl's best friend.
A partner is great, but theywon't always get you to that.
Oh God, please, or help youfind your old face.
Love is great, but it's a fact.
(21:29):
Sometimes they don't know whereyour G-spot is.
It's true and sad.
Whether big or black or smallor fast, these cocks always will
ask Vibrators are a girl's bestfriend.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
I love you.
You are a fucking baby.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
I did that and that was my first viral video, you
know, because people would shareit and they would duet it and
they would like react to it liveand stuff like that.
And it just went everywhere.
And that was one of the veryfirst parodies that I wrote for
dueling pianos and it still isone of the one of my favorites
(22:09):
to do in my piano show.
But yeah, so, and I love it.
I've gotten vibrator collabdeals from it.
Yes, it's been pretty fun.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
How does your mind work to come up with these
jingles?
How does your mind?
Because the shot, the fuck up.
I was like, yes, you need tohave a mic on.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yeah, I don't.
I really don't know.
I want to say that if I thinksomething is funny and it makes
me giggle, and putting it tomusic is just going to enhance
(23:01):
it.
I do take a lot of inspirationfrom TikTok and Instagram, like
when people are like if I see afunny meme, I'm like oh, that's
funny, how can I rework that andtweak it and put it into?
music and song Florida man, yes,florida man.
Yes, that's a big one.
Yeah, and if your audiencedoesn't know what Florida man is
, uh, uh, it's a popular memefrom the two thousands where you
would enter the words Floridaman and your birthday into a
(23:24):
Google search and up pops acrazy story about a Florida man
that you know hid syringes inhis butthole, but when they were
removed, when he was gettingarrested, he said they weren't
his.
So where did they come from?
Yeah, no, he was just.
He's holding it for a friendright in a very special place in
(23:47):
a very, very special place, butagain mine though the stories
are funny, but then you put themto song and then and people can
sing along and it's yeah it.
It just enhances it to adifferent level.
And now I do them live, whichis really fun.
In my live shows I have theaudience yell out their
(24:11):
birthdays and I'll look up thedate and it's so and it's so fun
and people really enjoy it andlike it and it's silly, and and
I grew up in Florida enjoy itand like it and it's silly and.
And florida I grew up inflorida.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
I was born and raised in tampa, florida, so I know
the uh ridiculousness of floridaand I just get a kick out of it
I know a lot of people thatmight be like, oh my god, like
how did she take that leap tojust go out and do this?
How?
How did she find the self-worthor the like self-esteem to just
(24:51):
put yourself out there?
Because stand up is hard, likeany comedian will say,
especially for a woman.
Yeah, stand up is hard, yeah.
So how did you say, like, okay,I don't care, like I'm gonna
put myself out there?
What would you say to someonewho's like maybe I want to do
(25:17):
that, but I'm nervous aboutputting myself out out?
How did you say, okay, sarah,fuck it.
Yeah, I'm gonna do it.
Like what was that wholeprocess?
You know?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
for anybody who is thinking about wanting to do it,
the the only suggestion andthat I would have is just to to
find, find like-minded peopledoing what you're doing, or
doing what you want to do, or,um, you love their content and I
would say, follow them like,find out their circle, find out,
(25:58):
reach out to them, see if theywould introduce you to open mics
to the people that they workwith.
Nine times at a sorry, I'mgoing to step back seven times
out of 10, uh, people arewilling to, to help and not
gatekeep.
There are people out there, um,you know, feel like if they
(26:21):
give, they lose.
I am, I'm not one of thosepeople.
Uh, I would encourage people toreach out to me if they see
something that I'm doing andthey're like, oh, I love this,
how do I get involved?
I mean, dm me, dm me and ask meand maybe I can put you in
contact with the right people,the right context.
Are you thinking about doing?
Speaker 1 (26:41):
stand-up.
What you're saying is that if Ihappen to, hypothetically, if I
was hypothetically in likeVegas next weekend and like you
were in Vegas next weekend,hypothetically like we can go to
(27:03):
brunch and like do some somebad bitch, shit, bitch yes, we
can do that absolutely.
I would adore that, so I guessI need to give you my number,
because that's gonna happenthat's gonna definitely happen,
absolutely.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That's going to definitely happen, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Yes, yes, oh my God, yes, like, cause you it's also I
love, how?
Well, let me not say it, let meask you first, but I know that
I've heard you do songs based onthe negative comments that you
(27:47):
get.
Oh, yeah, I get.
And people are like, how didyou?
You're the most positive person, I know.
How do you get negativecomments?
Oh honey, oh honey.
Yeah, I know how I deal withthe haters, because.
But but like, how do you doingwhat you do?
(28:12):
How do you deal with all thenegativity that comes your way?
How do you deal with all thelike naysayers that's like how
did she get her own show and howdoes she get to to do and why
does she have this and she's noteven that funny?
Like, how do you deal with it?
Speaker 2 (28:33):
I mean I would.
I would be lying if I said thatit didn't affect me.
You know, um, I have learned tocompartmentalize a little bit
and see the positivity in it,the toxicity that is social
media.
Even negative comments end upbeing a good thing for you, the
(28:53):
creator, because it pushes youout into the algorithm and it
and it and it makes you moreseen.
So there, there are parts of methat, as an entertainer that
I've been, um, being, I guess,judged since I was a small child
.
Because that's entertainment.
You put yourself on a platformand, uh, it, it, it's the idea
(29:18):
that it's like well, I, how canI expect it to not happen?
I'm putting myself out there.
So I, and I like to find thecomedy in it.
I like to pick out thesehorrendous comments and do at
(29:39):
them and be like, you know,write a song about it or
something like, use it.
You know, you've just given itto me.
Now I can use it for my benefit.
I love this and, yeah, it's noteasy.
I would be lying if I said,yeah, so, oh, it's fine, it just
(30:01):
rolls off my back, that's it'sI'm.
I'm hoping other people can dothat.
I, I'm a sensitive soul, uh,but, um, I do believe it comes
with the territory becausepeople, you know haters are
going to hate man and there'snothing we you know, haters are
(30:46):
going to hate man and there'snothing we.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
There's nothing we can do about it.
So the the best part, the onlyway to deal with it in my mind
is to has all her shit togetherand you are just happiness.
Honey, were you always that?
Were you always this?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
you know that's a good question.
I feel like in the past 10years I have gotten stronger in
who I am.
I was raised very conservativeand meekness and gentleness was
a prerequisite for me as a girland in my family and in the
(31:23):
belief system that I was raisedin, and I never fit that mold.
I always struggled a lot withthat and it was a contention
between my family and me.
I was always too loud or tooopinionated.
We're sisters yeah, I believethat we are my love and I just
(31:50):
think that that's naturally whoI am.
And so when I deconstructed mymind out of that and not
thinking that that is the onlyway, the right way that women
need to be this, to be loved orto be seen or to be not seen, it
(32:16):
freed me to be who I really am,and who I really am is a loud,
badass bitch and same.
I've got.
I've got thoughts.
I'm not always right.
I mean I'm close, but I'm notalways right and I get that.
(32:36):
I'm still learning and growingand changing.
Honestly, you know, as a as awhite woman who grew up around
mostly white people and the ideaTikTok has revolutionized my
mindset about what feminismreally is and including women of
(33:00):
color and in my everyday lifeand thought.
I am a new person because ofTikTok, because I have gleaned
from creators like you and womenlike you and sitting back and
listening and learning andletting other women speak.
(33:22):
I know that I have.
I have a thought and opinionand and a and a platform and I
like to share that with with you.
Know people, specifically womenof color in our society that
(33:42):
have not been pushed to thefront because of what they look
like, and it's time that morewomen that look like me do that.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Can I just say I love you even more for that and I
thank you for that video thatyou made and you said and it it.
(34:13):
Usually I laugh my ass off when, when I see you, but this one
touched me deep because yourstory is similar to mine.
And you were like if they thinkthat you're too much, go find
less.
And I was like, and I was like,yeah, yeah, yeah.
(34:40):
And I listened to that onrepeat for like day, like every
time, especially when I wouldtalk to my mom and she's, and
I'm just like go find less.
I'm just like go find less.
Yeah, If I am too much, go findless.
Speaker 2 (35:02):
I'm not making you be with me, I'm not making you
(35:22):
hear me to listen to us wants toforce, and I think that we're.
We're so beyond that in thesense of I'm going to speak and
if you want to listen, I'm goingto keep talking, but if not,
like bye, because there arepeople out there that want to
listen, that want to uh that,that take what you have to say
(35:47):
as gold and knowledge and and uhwisdom, and if, if, if they are
not the ones to do it, someoneelse will.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
And you have proven that.
You have proven that doing whatyou're doing and I don't know
how many times you've heard this, but I'm going to tell you
again I am so proud of you again.
(36:23):
I am so proud of you like I,like I'm so, like I was
screaming.
I was like she's like I wasscreaming, like I was like, oh
my god, like and she's on mypodcast like she's like I was,
like I was like I was sogenuinely proud of you and I
just feel like you are going tojust and your mouth to God's
(36:46):
ears, listen.
I know I'm so tired.
I saw all the many, many shows.
So what do you have Speaking ofthe many, many shows?
So what do you have?
Speaking of the many, manyshows?
Yeah, tell us what you havecoming up next.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
Like, where will you be so that we can know, I'll be
in Seattle at the end ofFebruary and then I'm doing a
small UK tour.
I'll be in London and Liverpooland Leeds and I'm very excited
because I know we've beencursing but and I know how
(37:23):
people feel about it but my songI'm Serving Cunt is kind of a
big deal over in the UK becausethey don't have the negative
connotation that America does.
Yes, so I'm really excited tojust like dive into that.
But so, yeah, the tour is being.
(37:47):
New dates are added all thetime.
So I tell people to go to thelink in my bios on social media
at Sarah Hester Ross and put intheir city or state and when I
go there I will send a messagejust to them to let them know.
(38:09):
So I'm just trying to grow thatand if people want to see me
live and that's, and I don'thave their city on my tour
scheduled, then they should dothat.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Oh, yeah, yeah, cause if you get close to Louisiana I
will definitely be there, likeif I have to drive what yeah,
like, oh you're going to beclose Also, maybe that'll give
you an opportunity to try somestand-up.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
You can open for me, girl.
I made it because, listen,maybe, maybe we can put
something together.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
Girl.
We have to talk about itwhenever I'm in Vegas next
weekend.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Okay, okay, okay.
That'll make our brunch awrite-off, because we'll talk
about work Perfect, smarter nothotter.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
So we are going to play a little game right quick,
you have to say the first thingthat comes to your head no, no
thinking, just okay okay, Idon't think too much.
Anyways, that's favorite bodypart boob.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
Why did I just say one?
Speaker 1 (39:45):
though, because, because you're like, you're like
left one is bigger than youryeah, because because of your
heart.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I don't know if that's true, but that's what
I've always been saying.
Speaker 1 (39:55):
It's more like supple , I don't know.
Okay, my left bone, if youcould eat one food for the rest
of your life Sushi we are twins.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
We are twins.
I love sushi.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
Twins man crush.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
Didn't we discuss this already?
I don't really.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
I was like I do think that would stump you.
Okay, wait, Woman crush.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Oh well, yeah, Woman crush.
You know, wow, woman crush.
Oh well, yeah, woman crush.
Alfina crimons, of course.
Okay, I'm just yes, stop it,stop it, woman.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
my favorite, my favorite body part is hardening
but just my left one, what yourlady would your lady would is
getting hard okay oh my gosh ohmy god, this is the best podcast
(41:16):
episode that's for.
I think I'll be like what thefuck is wrong with these bitches
.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
I know everything, and that's what makes us perfect
.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Literally, things wrong with us oh, my god, oh, if
you had one piece of advice togive to a girl or a woman, but
specifically a girl.
I don't know where I belong, Idon't know who I am, but I know
(41:52):
that I'm destined to dosomething like what would you
tell her to motivate her to livein her greatness?
Be single be single.
Speaker 2 (42:07):
No, seriously, I mean and this is coming from someone
who has rarely been single myentire life and the idea of and
it's not about not wanting arelationship you can want a
relationship, you can want to.
But if your desire is to focuson you and your goals, your
(42:32):
career, like your goals, yourcareer, being single lets you do
that properly, because you'renot having to think of other
people, You're not having tothink of a man or or or a
partner, You're not having tothink about kids.
Wait, I say wait.
Society tells us to like getmarried, get married, have kids.
(42:55):
And I say no, I have kids.
And I say no.
I say wait.
I say wait as long as you can.
Focus on you, for as long asyou possibly can.
If those are your desires andwants and needs, then go for it.
Go for it.
But if you are trying to growyourself, your career, your
goals, stay single as long aspossible.
(43:17):
That's what I think where wereyou?
Speaker 1 (43:20):
I know where was, where was I for me, where, where
, where the hell were you?
Because, girl, listen y'all,y'all, little wait, let me get
the, the term that you, becausethe way I died, you said crotch,
(43:40):
wait, what is it?
Speaker 2 (43:43):
Crotch goblins, yes, crotch goblins?
Speaker 1 (43:48):
All three of them would probably not.
They might have been swallowed,I don't know.
They might have been swallowed.
Maybe I love it know they mighthave been swallowed.
Maybe I love it.
That's fantastic, thank you,thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for gracingus with your fabulous red-headed
(44:09):
presence.
Thank you, girl.
I'm about to go die.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
You would look fantastic as a redhead.
What I mean?
The blonde suits you very well,but yeah, red baby I'm gonna
have to test that out.
Speaker 1 (44:29):
I'm gonna have to test this theory out, y'all,
because sarah said it first.
So that means that I gotta goand I'm into the fold.
I'm gonna have to y'all whaty'all think.
Yes, we gonna see.
Yes for all of those that needto find you and follow you,
(44:50):
because they want more of thatleft boob action oh my gosh,
like one boob action where, ohmy gosh, I'm so like one boob
and I gave about one, just one,not the two, not that one, this
one, what is?
where can they get morefabulosity?
That is sarah hester ross.
(45:12):
Where can they find this badbitch and all of her bad
bitchiness?
Speaker 2 (45:17):
I'm all over social media Instagram, tiktok, blue
Sky Threads, youtube.
Every single handle is at SarahHester Ross, so you can find me
anywhere online and if I'mcoming near to you, a city of
you, and you want to see me live, please.
It's a really fun show and I'mreally excited about this new
(45:41):
creation that I'm kind of takingI am excited for you, like I
said, you are doing, and you aredoing it extremely, extremely
(46:02):
well.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
you are the definition of being great in
they fucking face and I love itthank you, thank you so much
doing more of it.
Sarah has to run everybody.
Thank you so much for beinghere again.
(46:24):
Guys like subscribe comment.
Go find Sarah.
Go and find her.
See where the hell she at.
Is she coming to a city nearyou?
It is worth the listen.
Go and look for her musicalcomedy show on amazon prime baby
(46:45):
, she is everything andeverything is.
She is the shit, the whole shit, and nothing but the white, the
shit, shit, okay, the shit.
So I need you to go out thereand be great, like Sarah is
being great.
She is walking in her greatnessand you can too.
(47:08):
I know that you can.
She stepped out and she made itand you can too.
So go out there there, do that,be great in your own face so
that you can be phenomenal inyour haters face and, as always,
y'all have a good day onpurpose you.
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