52. When Your Spouse With Cancer Pushes You Away

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When your partner has cancer and starts withdrawing, it can feel confusing, frustrating, and even heartbreaking. You might wonder why they’re pulling away, whether it’s about you, or how to bridge the growing emotional distance. In this episode, I break down the real reasons why this happens, from feelings of helplessness to a need for privacy, and what you can do to stay connected—even when words or actions feel distant.

I’ll share practical strategies for holding space, avoiding assumptions, and believing in your partner’s strength while also taking care of yourself. If you’ve been struggling with feeling shut out, this episode will help you navigate it with more understanding, patience, and emotional resilience.

Tune in now, and remember—you are not alone in this. 💙

You'll take away: 

• Why your spouse may be pushing you away – Understand the emotional and psychological reasons behind their withdrawal, from loss of identity to fear, overwhelm, and a need for control.
• How to respond without making it personal – Learn why their distance isn’t about you and how shifting your mindset can prevent resentment and strengthen your connection.
• The power of holding space – Discover how simply being present—without trying to fix or force a conversation—can create a safe emotional environment for your spouse.
• Why believing in their strength matters – See how viewing your partner as resilient, rather than fragile, can change the dynamic of your relationship in a positive way.
• The importance of taking care of yourself – Find out why your emotional well-being is essential, not just for you, but for maintaining a healthy connection with your partner during this difficult time.

As a Resiliency Coach for people who are caregiving for their partner, I'm here to support YOU, the caregiver. Learn more about my work at www.coachmarika.com.