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July 3, 2025 30 mins

Picture this: You're standing in front of 40 business owners, your hands are shaking, your voice is trembling, and you're watching everyone's confused faces as you completely bomb your presentation. That was me 11 years ago – and it was the best thing that ever happened to my career. If you've ever put yourself out there in a bigger way and it didn’t go as well as you’d hoped, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • The exact moment my worst presentation became the catalyst for my entire speaking career
  • Why your brain perceives uncomfortable situations as life-or-death (and how to override this response)
  • The 5-step process to transform imperfect moments into massive growth opportunities
  • How to shift from emotional avoidance to emotional processing when things go wrong
  • Why putting yourself out there imperfectly serves you better than waiting for perfection
  • The simple reframe that turns "this happened to me" into "this happened for me" 
  • How to chase discomfort instead of avoiding it (and why this accelerates your growth)
  • Real strategies for having your own back when your inner critic goes into overdrive

Stop letting fear of imperfection keep you small. Your most cringe-worthy moments aren't signs to quit – they're invitations to level up. When you learn to see every "failure" as data and every uncomfortable feeling as your next area of growth, you'll stop avoiding opportunities and start embracing them. Your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of that thing you're afraid to do imperfectly.

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