Ep.3 Daddy Duty: Essential Pregnancy Appointments for Partners (What to Expect, Questions to Ask)

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Ever wondered how to be the ultimate support system for your partner during pregnancy? Get ready to unlock the secrets of prenatal appointments and discover how dads-to-be can transform these check-ups into powerful bonding experiences. Join me, Claude, on this episode of Instructions Not Included as we break down the essential role fathers play during these appointments. From understanding your baby's development to making sure your voice is heard, you'll gain practical tips and strategies to stay informed, involved, and ready for fatherhood.

Listen as we dive into the art of asking thoughtful questions and learn how to advocate for your partner like a pro. With insights on providing emotional support, engaging with the doctor, and taking meticulous notes, you'll be fully prepared for this exciting journey. Plus, we pose some stimulating questions to the dads out there—what are you eager to teach your child? How are you navigating the complexities of pregnancy? Tune in, interact, and don't miss out on this invaluable guide to making the most of every prenatal appointment. Like, subscribe, and join the conversation on Instructions Not Included!

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Episode Transcript

Claude (00:00):
Welcome to Instructions Not Included.
This is Episode 3, daddy DutyEssential Pregnancy Appointment
for Partners.
Let's get to it, thank you,welcome back dads.
This is Instructions, NotIncluded.
We're on episode three.

(01:00):
Daddy du ty.
I am your host, Claude, andtoday, on Instructions Not
Included, we'll be tacklingimportant topic those prenatal
appointments.
Now, let's be honest, sometimesthese appointments can feel a
little overwhelming, especiallyfor those dads to be.
But listen up.
These visits are crucial foryou to stay informed and

(01:25):
involved in your partner'spregnancy journey.
All right, let's gear up fordaddy duty.
Here's the deal, dads prenatalappointments are more than just
a doc visit for mom.
They are a chance for you toask questions, address concerns
and be an active participant inthe process.

(01:45):
So what could you expect fromthese appointments?
Well, it depends on the stageof the pregnancy, but generally,
you'll hear updates on yourbaby's development.
You'll get a blood test.
You may get some ultrasoundsdone, possibly even get a little
peek at that little one.
While you're getting anultrasound, you know and discuss

(02:09):
any questions that you mighthave.
So it's important to be now ,remember, knowledge is power.
Here's some tips to get themost out of those appointments.
For one come prepared.
Write down any questions youhave you or your partner might

(02:30):
have in advance.
Number two be present.
Pay attention to the doctor'sexplanations and don't hesitate
to ask for clarification.
Number three take notes.
You might not remembereverything, so jot down some key
points and information andadvocate for your partner.

(02:53):
Speak up if you have anyconcerns or if your partner
feels uncomfortable.
Speak up for your partner.
This next section is the art ofasking questions.
One of the best ways to beinvolved is by asking thoughtful
questions.
Here's a few prompts just toget you started.

(03:14):
You can ask general questionslike how's the baby developing?
Are there any risks or concernsat this stage that we may have?
You can ask specific questionslike what kind of prenatal
testing is available?
What are the pros and cons ofeach option?
Ask questions about labor anddelivery, like what are our

(03:37):
birthing options?
You can ask questions aboutparenthood, like what resources
are available to new parents.
Don't be afraid to ask anything.
No question is too small or toobig.
The more informed you are, themore confidently you can support
your partner and prepare foryour new arrival.

(03:58):
Attending prenatal appointmentsisn't just about showing up.
It's about activelyparticipating.
Here's some ways to trulyembrace your daddy duty.
One hold your partner's hand.
Emotional support and comfortduring what could be a complex

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process will really help her out.
Be her voice.
Like I said before, if yourpartner feels shy or overwhelmed
, don't hesitate to speak up forher.
Engage with the doctor, askquestions, express your concerns
and actively listen to thedoctor's advice.
Remember, dads.

(04:40):
Your presence at theseappointments matters.
It shows your commitment toyour partner and excitement for
the journey ahead.
A quick quote Fatherhood islike the greatest adventure I've
ever known.
Read Markham.
Before we close, as always, Ilike to ask the dads a few

(05:03):
questions.
Questions for the dads.
Question number one dads to be,what are you most excited to
teach your child?
Is there a special skill, valueor hobby you can't wait to
share?
Question two beyond thedoctor's appointments and beyond
the doctor's explanations, whatresources have you found

(05:27):
helpful in understanding yourpartner's pregnancy and
preparing for fatherhood?
Question number three imaginethe doctor is explaining a
medical term or procedure youdon't quite understand.
How would you approach thissituation?
Would you ask for clarification, take notes or just research it

(05:49):
later on your own?
All right, in closing, dads,those prenatal appointments
might seem like the doctor'soffice marathon, but remember
there's a chance for you to bethat supportive partner in this
incredible journey.
So show up, ask questions andbe present for your growing

(06:11):
family.
This little miracle isn't justhappening to your partner, it's
happening to the both of you.
So, dads, head over to thecomment section.
Share your experiences.
Don't forget to like andsubscribe to Instructions Not
Included for more pregnancy preptalk designed just for dads.
See you on the next episode.

(06:32):
See you on the next episode.