Ep.9 The Magic of Soothing Cries: A Dad's Guide to Calming Your New Baby

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Ever wondered if there's a hidden meaning behind your baby's cries? Tune into this episode of Instructions Not Included, where we unlock the secret language of baby cries based on Priscilla Dunstan's theory. We'll guide you through identifying whether your baby is hungry, tired, uncomfortable, or just needs some cuddling. Get ready to become an expert in decoding those heart-wrenching wails with practical tips on how to address each need effectively and compassionately.

But that's not all—we'll also equip you with essential soothing techniques that every new dad should have in their arsenal. From the calming effects of skin-to-skin contact and gentle rocking to the magic of white noise, you'll find multiple ways to comfort your little one. Plus, we emphasize the importance of patience, self-care, and teamwork with your partner. Listen, share your thoughts in the comments, and join our supportive community. You're not alone on this journey; you're doing a great job, dad!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome back to Instructions Not Included.
This is episode nine the Magicof Soothing Cries.
This is a dad's guide tocalming your new baby.
Let's get it.
Yeah, this dang car lifedoesn't come with a manual.

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It doesn't come with a way togo.
The instructions not included.
Stay tuned any topics wediscuss, we can use it.
And this dang car life doesn'tcome with a way to go.
It doesn't come with a manual.
Yeah, you can search.
I swear back now Like Jay-Z,the blueprint parenthood

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soothing a crying baby.
Soothing a crying baby.
Yes, it can seem like anever-ending battle, but trust
me, you do have the power to beyour little one's ultimate
comforter.
First off, let's start bydecoding the cry.
Let's talk about those babycries.
Look, they can be a symphony ofneeds hunger, discomfort,

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tiredness or simply wanting tobe held.
Here's some tips to help youdecipher those cries.
Observe the cry.
Is it a high-pitched cry, alow-pitched cry, a whine or a
gurgling sound?
In 2006, oprah Winfrey featureda guest on her show by the name

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of Priscilla Dunstan, a womanwho said she had unlocked what
she calls the secret language ofbabies.
It said that this language canbe heard within the first three
months after your baby is born.
The five sounds include Neck,which is hungry.
Ow, which is sleepy.

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He Equals discomfort.
Air.
He, he Equals discomfort.
He, he, he, he, he, he, air.
I know what that means.

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Yeah, you know what that is.
That means air Means lower gas,air, air, air, air, air, air,
air, air, air, air.
And F equals bird.

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Ah.
Since this theory, severalparents have found these crying
cues to be very helpful.
However, some parents weren'table to identify the sounds and
deemed this technique to beuseless for them.

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However, I do believe this is agreat starting point, but just
know that each cry might have adifferent meaning.
Check the basics.
Is your baby hungry, tired orhas a dirty diaper?
Rule out these common culprits.
First, trust your instincts.
You know your baby better thananyone.

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Go with your gut and trydifferent soothing techniques.
Remember every baby isdifferent, so what works for one
might not work for another.
Here's some ideas the power oftouch, skin-to-skin contact,
gentle rocking or swaddling canbe incredibly soothing.

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White noise, machine, soft humor pacifiers and soothers.
These could be helpful for somebabies, but avoid them if your
partner is breastfeeding, justto prevent that nipple confusion
.
The art of distraction Sometimesthe change of scenery or
playful interaction can distractyour baby from their discomfort

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.
Patience is key.
Remember, dads, soothing acrying baby takes patience.
It might feel like an endlessloop, but your calm presence is
crucial.
Don't hesitate to ask for helpfrom your partner or other
family members if you need abreak.
Quick quote the most importantthing a father can do for his

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children is love their mother.
Theodore Hesburgh.
Children just love their mother.
Theodore Hesburgh.
Dads the ability to soothe acrying baby is a superpower.
It builds trust, strengthensyour bond and creates a sense of
security for your little one.
You've got this, dads.
Of course, before I get out ofhere, as always, questions for

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the dads.
Question one dads to be, whatare your biggest fears about
soothing crying baby?
Question number two how do youplan to balance soothing your
baby with your own needs forrest and self-care?
And question number three whatare some creative ways you can

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involve your partner in thesoothing process?
Remember, dads, every baby isdifferent and what works for one
might not work for another, butdon't be afraid to experiment
and find out what soothes yourlittle one.
So keep going.
I'm proud of you.
You're doing a great job.
Don't forget to like andsubscribe to Instructions Not

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Included for more dad-centricadvice and support.
Also share your soothingtechniques and tips in the
comments below.
Other than that, I'll see younext time.
That's why we say I and I.

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There's a unity thing.
No, I need to.
You're all one Sweet fight baby.