Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

***TOP 10% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST*** Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together? If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve. Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives. What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships. When I began leading my clients through this process, a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE. If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships. Join The Facebook Group We're growing & so are you. So, we might as well grow together, Babes!! We've just launched our Facebook Community and we'd love for you to join us. Visit www.FYRCommunity.com, answer a few simple questions (so we know you're not a bot 🤖), and you're in! Subscribe To The Newletter Interested in connecting on a deeper level? Join the Become The ONE community: a safe-space for like-mined women, all learning how to call-in the love and life they deserve while focusing on their own growth and transformation. If you KNOW you’ve got some work to do and are ready to face your relationship missteps, you’re ready to Become The ONE. Visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist and sign up today.

Episodes

November 28, 2025 30 mins

Forget Ciara’s prayer. In this week’s episode of Fix Your Relationships, we’ll confront the mindset that could be blocking you from experiencing better relationships.

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re getting what you’re getting in relationships because of the prayers you’ve been praying, this episode will give you the confidence to pray bold, audacious prayers for the amazing relationship God wants you ...

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Just because you haven’t had the best luck with relationships doesn’t mean that you can’t find the love that you’re meant to have. Yep, relationships can be tough. But guess what?? So are you.

In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, we’ll explore the common challenges faced by high-achieving women who struggle in their relationships. If you’re having trouble finding “the one,” consistently picking the...

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As women, we sometimes find it hard to prioritize our needs ahead of everyone else’s. But when it comes to our romantic relationships, focusing on YOU might just be the best thing you can do.

In today’s podcast, I’ll walk you through how prioritizing your own needs, self-work, and wellness might actually be the BEST THING FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. I’ll also share how joining The ONE Within 30-Day Reset and ...

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Recovering from an affair is one of the most difficult things for couples go through. But take it from me . . . YOU CAN RECOVER, and your relationship CAN survive!

On today’s episode of Fix Your Relationships podcast, we’ll talk about affairs, who’s to blame, who should be taking ownership and what BOTH parties need to do in order for the relationship to recover. NEWSFLASH: It’s gonna take a lot of work.

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What if there was a way to fix your relationships BEFORE 2026? And what if you could see the results of that transformation in as few as 30 days?

On today's episode, I'm unveiling my new course, The ONE Within 30-Day Reset: a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to help women, just like you, learn to effortlessly attract the love you deserve while focusing on your own growth and transformation.

If you can spare just 5-10 mi...

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Did you keep a diary growing up? I did. And while I don't have those little notebooks anymore, I do remember one thing about the things that I wrote. I was always honest. The feelings that I couldn't express verbally, somehow made their way to the page with little effort.

I never consistently wrote in my diary as a kid but as an adult, who happens to be a therapist and relationship coach, I utilize the process of journaling quite a...

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It has long been my mission to help my people . . . YOU, be more focused on how we tend and care for our body, mind and spirit. This focus and intention is essential for our longevity and happiness, but also, our sanity.

In Part 2 of Beyond The Bubble Bath, I'm giving you even more ideas for being more intentional in your self-care practice. Some fun. Some brash. All, with love. These additional hacks provide a solid foundation for...

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Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with mani-pedis and bubble baths but when it comes to self-care, I think we can go a little deeper.

This week on Fix Your Relationships, you're getting a 2-part episode, and I'm going in on one of my favorite topics: Self-Care. And not just self-care, but what it means to be "intentional" about your self-care practice. If your current self-care routine needs a makeover and you're ready to g...

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October 15, 2025 17 mins

Hey Babes,

The relationship is over and you’re not the type to be alone. You’re eager and ready to put yourself back out there and get boo’d up. (Cuddle weather is fast approaching.)

I’m all for you taking this brave next step but let’s be smart about it. Diving head first into a relationship may not be the best idea, especially if you haven’t taken the time to look at what went wrong in yo...

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Hey Babes,

Do you cringe when thinking about your past relationships? Do you wish you could go back and change things or delete those memories from your brain entirely? Not so fast, sis. Because the key to moving forward in your relationships, may mean going back to where it all began.

In today’s episode of Fix Your Relationships, I’m sharing how exploring your past could give you clues for...

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If you've ever felt unworthy or "not good enough" in your relationship, I've got a WORD for you today. Actually, I have several. If you're feeling as though you don't quite measure up in your relationship or if your partner is constantly asking you to jump through hoops to no avail, I need you to do me a favor. Go to your car. Lock the doors. And turn the volume way up. 

Today's podcast is all about YOU. And you, sweetie, are MORE ...

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If you're anything like me, you've got a to-do list that's a mile long with many items rolling over to the next day. And, the next day. And, the next. It just seems impossible to get it all done. Am I right, or am I right?

This week, I'm having a little come to Jesus with you (and myself) about the real reason we can't seem to get it all done and what we MUST do if we truly intend to handle business.

Lean in, babes, because today, ...

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Are you constantly worried your partner is mad at you? Do you overthink every interaction, wondering if you did or said something wrong? Are stuck in a loop of people pleasing, while disregarding your own boundaries? Friend, you may be experiencing something called "Rejection Sensitivity."

While you may not have heard of this term before, Rejection Sensitivity isn't new. Many folks struggle with feelings of intense emotion, being c...

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Do you struggle to ask for help? Are you stressed out from taking on too many responsibilities? Has your body started to let you know that it won't be putting up with your 💩 too much longer?

If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone. I, too, have been guilty of doing too much. It's not uncommon for super-independent baddies like us, to take on the world and think about our own needs later. But what happens when our bodies s...

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Some of y'all are really trying it???

Imagine . . . hearing one of your homegirls complain about not having the time or the money to do something that would elevate her (scholastically, financially, health-wise) and solve a few of her more pressing challenges.

Now imagine . . . that this same friend, just dropped a huge chunk of change to see her favorite artist in concert. While there is no judgement here, I am giving my girl the ...

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Want to find "The ONE," but don't know what you're doing wrong?

Finding your person is so much simpler than you think. Especially when you know the real reasons its been so difficult. In today's episode, we'll walk through the 6 reasons you haven't found The One and what you can do TODAY to get one step closer to having the love of your life.

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READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navi...

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Do you push your romantic partners away, even when you really want them close? Are you guilty of holding back your feelings, but are resentful of your partner for not reading your mind? If so, you may be sabotaging your relationship.

In today's episode, we'll explore the 5 ways in which you may be sabotaging your relationship. Understanding the "why" is the necessary first step of improve present and future relationships.

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Are you in a relationship that's been over for some time, but you just can't bring yourself to leave? Have you ever wondered why you stay in romantic relationships when it's crystal clear they're not going anywhere? Well it's time you got some answers, sis.

In today's episode, we'll explore the 9 reasons we stay in dead-end relationships. By episode's end, my hope is that you'll have a better understanding of your patterns and how ...

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Understanding sexual desire is crucial for intimate relationships; especially, when our libido is low. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr. Tiff delves into the complexities of sexual desire, particularly focusing on the causes of low sexual desire among women. If after listening to this episode, you find that you, or someone you love, may be struggling with low sexual desire, you are encourage to seek the help of a medic...

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Many women struggle to find their person, their ideal partner, THE ONE. The good news is, you're not alone. The not so good news is, you may need to make some serious, dare I say drastic, changes in order to find the love of your life.

In this episode of Fix Your Relationship, Dr. Tiff discusses the importance of self-work in finding and maintaining healthy romantic relationships. She emphasizes what you may need to start and stop ...

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