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September 21, 2024 43 mins

For centuries, society has viewed substance abuse through a narrow, judgmental lens, often labeling it a moral failure, social incompetence or lack of self-control. This dangerous misconception, rooted in elitist ideologies and systemic viewpoints, caused countless families to suffer in silence, isolated and fractured. It wasn’t until 1980, with the recognition of substance abuse as a mental health disorder being identified in the third edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-III) that eyes of many became wide opened for true healing to begin. Although this determination allowed for true healing to begin for many substance abusers and their primary caregivers, for others who had been suffering for decades there was irreparable damage. 

In this compelling episode, we sit down with Neil Shovlin, a man, father, and husband of immigrant heritage who courageously shares his family's powerful story of overcoming the devastating impact of substance abuse. Neil opens up about how Al-Anon became the lifeline that helped his family break through harmful societal assumptions, allowing them to heal together. With raw vulnerability, he talks about the faith and resilience it took to push past systemic ideologies that dehumanized those struggling with addiction and their loved ones.

Neil's story goes beyond addiction; it's about dismantling toxic, long-standing beliefs and embracing compassion and self-justice. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or simply someone seeking truth, this conversation will inspire you to challenge outdated perspectives and see individuals and families as the invaluable treasures they are. Tune in for an honest, heart-opening conversation that breaks down the barriers of shame and judgment, offering a message of hope, love and true restoration from a defender of self-justice. 

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