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October 10, 2024 27 mins

Author, Be The Weight Behind The Spear

This week on Ira’s Everything Bagel Podcast, host Ira Sternberg dives deep into a compelling conversation with Colonel Joshua M. McConkey, M.D., author of the acclaimed book, Be The Weight Behind The Spear.

Dr. McConkey’s Leadership Ethos: Be The Weight Behind The Spear

The episode opens with Dr. McConkey explaining the inspiration behind his book’s title, Be The Weight Behind The Spear. He reveals how this concept serves as his personal leadership philosophy, emphasizing the importance of supporting those at the forefront. Throughout his distinguished career, Dr. McConkey has extensively worked with military personnel who embody the “tip of the spear,” putting themselves in harm’s way to defend our nation. His book delves into the critical role played by the “weight behind the spear” – those who provide the essential support structure that empowers our frontline heroes to succeed.

Leadership in the Age of COVID-19

Dr. McConkey expresses his concerns about the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on the younger generation. He observes a decline in face-to-face communication skills and a sense of entitlement among some youth. He attributes this, in part, to a lack of strong leadership development during these formative years.

Building a Stronger Community: Everyone Has a Role to Play

Dr. McConkey passionately advocates for fostering a more engaged citizenry. He emphasizes the importance of getting everyone involved in their communities, fostering a sense of shared purpose and responsibility.

Addressing the Mental Health Crisis in America

The conversation sheds light on the concerning rise in mental health issues across the United States. Dr. McConkey, an ER doctor with over 20 years of experience, offers valuable insights into this critical public health challenge.

Why Social Media Might Not Be the Answer for Our Youth

Dr. McConkey sheds light on his decision to restrict his children’s access to social media accounts. He expresses his concerns about the potential negative influences of social media on young minds, particularly when it comes to social interaction and mental well-being.

From Winning the Lottery to Leading in Iraq: Dr. McConkey’s Life-Changing Experiences

The podcast delves into Dr. McConkey’s fascinating life journey. He shares the story of how he “won the lottery” (referring to a fortunate turn of events) and how his experiences serving in Iraq profoundly impacted him as a person.

Holding Kids Accountable: A Cornerstone of Strong Leadership

Dr. McConkey underscores the importance of holding children accountable for their actions. He emphasizes that this fosters responsibility, resilience, and essential life skills.

Empowering Teachers: Building the Next Generation of Leaders

The episode highlights Dr. McConkey’s strong advocacy for empowering teachers. He recognizes the crucial role educators play in shaping young minds and believes they deserve greater support and resources.

Mentorship for the “COVID Generation”: Building Bridges, Not W

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