INTUITIVE MESSAGE: Are You Prioritizing Your Family’s Needs Above Your Own

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Episode Transcript

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Hi, my name is Elise Lebeau.
I'm the Left Right Intuitive and I havereceived an anonymous intuitive message
and I'm wondering if it's for you.
Today's message is for someone whois having a lack of balance between
what you want and what you perceiveas what other people want and It's

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interesting because I don't feel thatit's Necessarily that people are saying
to you you need to do this and thatyou feel obligated to do it It feels
more like you think people want certainthings from you and you spend a lot of
time and energy fulfilling these needs.

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Now part of the problem is thatsome of these needs are not really
what the people around you want.
So if you were to be able to articulatein words, Hey, I'm doing this because I
think you want me to do that, that personwould say, oh, well I, I didn't realize
that, and that's not really what I want.
And this is important because

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there's an easy to clarify confusion.
Just if you, if you verbalize.
You know, why you do what you do,although I feel like one of the issue is
that you're not necessarily clear thatyou do certain things for other people.
So I feel like thismight not be conscious.
I don't have access to your consciousness,even as a professional intuitive,

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so I don't know your thoughts.
I'm not reading your thoughts.
I'm reading your energy, whichis kind of the hard drive,
you know, on your computer.
It, the thoughts leave a traceeventually when, when you
have them over and over again.
And that's why I can read other peopleis because I read basically the trace
that's left behind through repetition.
So if you have a fleeting thought,I'm not going to be able to see that.

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But if you, you think aboutsomething for a long time,
that's going to leave a trace.
And this is what I'm seeing islinked to that imbalance in your
life and the pain in your foot.
Is that there are things thatyou're not even aware you're doing
them for other people's benefit.
And they're not really aware of it either,I feel, because it's not been verbalized.

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And given a choice, they might say, ohyeah, I appreciate that you, I don't
know, always unload the dishwasher.
But they might also say,well, I don't mind doing that.
You know, I don't mind doing it.
So maybe you could do something elseinstead that I do mind doing, right?
So a redistribution.
Would bring more balance in,in your immediate relationship.

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So I feel like this is, this is acircumstance that's happening either
with your partner, your husband,your boyfriend, or with your child.
There's a lot of male energy aroundyou, so I'm guessing you have a
husband and maybe a male child.
And you are very dedicated totheir well being, well being.
Okay, so the first thing is if youcan spend some time asking yourself,

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you know, why am I doing this?
Is it for me or is it for someone else?
And if it's someone else, canyou confirm with them that
this is something they want?
And once you have that information,whether or not they want that, then
it's time to ask the tough question,which is, Is this something that
prioritizes their happiness above yours?

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And this is another imbalance whereeven when somebody does make a
request, you know, can you do this?
You have the ability and the powerand it's okay for you to say no,
this doesn't resonate with me.
You know, this is not somethingthat feels right for me to do.

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You know best what makes youhappy, and what brings joy in
your life, and what feels fair.
So, you know, nobody wantsto do laundry, maybe.
And if you split the task equally betweenyou and your partner and or your son,
you end up having a good distribution.

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Everybody's doing some stuffthey don't like, but there's
also stuff they don't mind.
And it's fun to figure out,Oh, I actually don't mind doing
this, but I really hate that one.
Can we trade?
It's like trading a Halloween candy.
And this will bring anotherkind of balance in your life.
Okay, so, and the third aspect ofbalance that is missing is that

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you spend an inordinate amountof time and energy thinking
about other people's wellbeing
and very little timeand energy on your own
this is a non sustainable pattern,meaning that over the course of your

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life, and it can be very gradual, butover the course of your life, you're
going to start accumulating debt.
Or draining your battery, you know,and that debt is going to look like
resentment or just being angry in general.
You don't really know why,having spite being jealous.

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So basically these, these negativethoughts, powerful negative thoughts
will start popping up in your lifebecause you don't have balance about
how you generate and radiate well being.
Because the way that the systemis meant to work is that when you

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focus on being happy in your ownlife, eventually you will overflow.
And the people around you benefit fromthat because you, first of all, you
become a great influence on them ofbeing happy, but then they also benefit
because as you overflow, you developa lot of goodwill towards them because
you're full and you have, you feel happyin your life and you feel balanced,

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you feel that your needs are met.
And then this overflowallows you to also expand.
And include them, and so you canhelp meet some of their needs, right?
And as a family unit,that's really awesome.
It's a really sustainable system,especially because it's contagious.
So as you start to do that, it's morelikely that the people in your family

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will also start to overflow like this.
And then it becomes avery sustainable system.
But if there's one person who'sconstantly kind of discharging their
battery or emptying their batteryto recharge others, that, that's
going to lead to a dead battery.
And you can only jumpstart thosebatteries so many times before
you've really, they're flat dead.

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And when you run out of energy using asystem that, that was not sustainable
it's really hard to come back from that.
Because then, there's a vacuum there thatis filled with those very strong negative
emotions that I talked about earlier.
So this is the thirdarea that needs balance.
1) You are doing things for othersand they don't even know, or

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2) Others are asking you to dothings and they don't resonate
with you but you do it anyway, and
3) You put their well being above yours.
Those are the three places in yourlife right now where there's imbalance.
And You know, knowing what the problem is,is most of the solution in my experience.
Now that you've heard this message,your logical mind is going to start

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thinking, "Oh, yeah, I could see that,I wonder what I could do about that."
And it's going to come up with solutions.
You don't have to do anything.
You don't have to force it.
You just, just by hearing thismessage articulated in words,
now your brain can process this.
You can ask yourself, where can Iget more balance today in my life?

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You know, I post all of these intuitivemessage on my intuitive community for
logical women at leftbrainintuition.com.
I'd love for you to join the conversation.
All right, that's all I'mgetting for you today.
I hope this was helpfuland I'll talk to you soon.