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Tess Masters (00:00):
Oh, Anna, I am so
excited to get into women's
health with you. And I want to
start with your personal story
of going into menopause early,
because this is personal for you
your work.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (00:11):
It is very
personal and and thank you for
having me, Tess, and I love to,
you know, to help other women go
through the journey they didn't
have to deal with the messes
that I dealt
Unknown (00:21):
with. Yeah, we've had
some great conversations over
the years,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (00:25):
absolutely,
absolutely, and part of my
personal story is post
traumatically, having
experiencing infertility at age
39 going through several rounds
of fertility therapies and the
highest doses of injectable
medications and not having any
ovarian response, and then being
diagnosed with early menopauseat 39 years old, and that led me
on a healing journey around the
world. Actually did come to
Australia, and it spent a couple
months there, and then I went to
Ubud in Bali, just so many
amazing serendipitously, meeting
amazing healers, but as a result
of that journey and digging into
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Eastern and traditionalmedicines, combining it with my
medical knowledge, and really, I
say the grace of God restore
like reverse, the early
menopause diagnosis, and then
naturally, I conceived a child I
was told I would never be able
to have when I was 41 years 41
years old. And so that really
like through that experience andreally changed the way I looked
at health and healing and my job
as a physician and inspired me
to like, you know, takes more
than hormones to fix our
hormones the body is so powerful
we can be healthier tomorrow
than we are today. And so I'm
now 59 years old. Turned 59 last
(01:49):
month, and I am just like, Ifeel like I'm healthier than I
was in my 30s.
Tess Masters (01:54):
I feel that way
too. It is so extraordinary when
you're able to take charge of
your health like this. So I want
to talk about this. It takes
more than your hormones to fix
your hormones, because what you
teach is so holistic and so
wonderful. But before we talk
about that, I want to go back to
what you were saying about thisinfertility in your 30s and
reversing your early menopause
diagnosis, because somebody
listening might be going, what?
Oh, come on. You know, that's
snake oil, but it is possible.
So what did
Dr. Anna Cabeca (02:26):
you do? Well,
you know, for me, it was the
adaptogen so that I ended up
incorporating into my mighty
maca formula. Maca when I went
to Peru in 2006 and they said,
if you're infertile, drink maca.
If you're tired, drink maca, and
then they would elbow my husband
at the time and say, it's the
Peruvian Viagra, like, okay,let's have some maca.
Tess Masters (02:47):
But doesn't know
what Maca is like us. Let's talk
about this amazing route.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (02:53):
Yeah, so Maca
is indigenous to Peru, and it
grows at a high altitude, like
11,000 feet, 9000 feet and above
in the Andes in Peru. And it's a
root that has specific proteins.
They're called maca Enes, and
they're very specific to
Peruvian maca, Chinese maca, is
not the same. And it also is
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rich in arginine, whichincreases nitric oxide
formation, which is how, which
increases blood flow, and that's
how Viagra works. I was like,
Huh? There may be some science
to this, right, you know, and
so, and it's adaptogenic. It's
adrenal adaptogens, probably
also a genetic adaptogen. So
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whether you're an overdrive orunderdrive, so whether you're
wired or tired, it really comes
in and helps support your body,
natural hormonal production and
detoxification, and it's been
shown to improve sexual you
know, all aspects of sexual
function decrease. Hot flashes.
Be protective, breast
protective. Be antiinflammatory. It has so many
good aspects to it that I was, I
was, you know, really committed
to taking it, but like you I
mean, if it doesn't taste good,
I'm not gonna do it.
Tess Masters (04:10):
Is assertive, you
know, she's a bully, and you can
put a little bit in, and it
dramatically changes the flavor
profile of smoothies and shakes,
and that's typically how, you
know, we put it in bliss balls
and all kinds of other things.
But it can really take over. So
that is something that was a bit
of a triumph for you, is makingit taste good,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (04:31):
yeah, and
adding other antioxidants and
good extracts, fruit extracts,
and like mangosteen and
pomegranate and acerola cherry
and, yeah, different blends of
greens and detoxifiers and all
those things to like, I might
make this powerful because I
don't want to take a handful of
pills. But if I can take this asa shot or put it in my
smoothies, perfect.
Tess Masters (04:55):
You have it in
capsules too now,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (04:58):
and I do. I
have it in capsules without
steam. Yeah, yeah. So it's, it's
yeah, really, really handy,
Tess Masters (05:05):
yeah. And that is
not the only thing that you did,
because we don't want to be
telling the story that, oh, I
just took a supplement and my
menopause woes were over, right?
That was one of the many things
that you did. So let's talk
about your your keto fix, and
some of the, you know, the
oxytocin and all these otherthings that you recognize were
part of the magic puzzle,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (05:30):
yeah, well, and
additionally, right? So it's,
it's definitely working with
nutrition, and I say medicinal
foods or medicinal menus. And
for me, that incorporates the
Keto green, what I call keto
green aspect. And this means low
carbohydrate, but healthy carbs,
like our our complex carbs from
like cruciferous vegetables,like broccoli, cauliflower,
cabbage, broccoli sprouts and
beet greens and Macas in the
cruciferous family, as a matter
of fact. So these help with
estrogen detoxification. That's
powerful. So these medicinal
foods, I start to incorporate
more of these, and to get my you
(06:10):
know, and to really driveinsulin down, to decrease
insulin resistant because that
will interfere with pregnancy
and fertility and ovarian it
increases ovarian aging. So we
don't want that. So intermittent
fasting became key. And high
quality protein and healthy fats
or hormones are made from fat,
are made from cholesterol. Sothis concept of a healthy, keto,
green nutrition plan with
intermittent fasting was part of
was was part of this puzzle,
these pieces to the puzzle that
I found, and of course, like the
most important thing is when I
think of, like our hormones, I
think of this hormonal
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hierarchy, and created thishormonal hierarchy where
oxytocin is our Queen Mother of
hormones, right? It is our queen
mother. It is, you know, the
hormone of love connection. It
is scientifically been shown to
be anti inflammatory, to be
regenerative, repair muscles to
support the immune system, to
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support brain health. And wethink of the characteristics of
oxytocin, we think, I think of
the Blue Zones. I think of what
were the character, what are the
characteristics in the blue
zones that contribute to their
longevity. And it's community.
It's healthy relationships, long
lasting marriages. It's, it's,
you know, having good faithbased practice, whatever it may
be, like a spiritual practice or
faith based or meditative
practice. It's getting out in
nature, doing things you enjoy
doing with people, you enjoy
doing them with all of that
increases oxytocin. I think
that's the secret sauce, to be
(07:52):
honest,
Tess Masters (07:54):
how you teach
about oxytocin, because we're
just not talking about it
enough. So thank you for the
work that you're doing with
that. So can we just get into
the weeds a little bit so, so
dear listener, you understand
exactly what oxytocin is, so you
talked about it being the love
connection hormone. Can we talkabout how we where oxytocin
plays a role in our life, like
in childbirth, orgasm, things
like that. Can you just talk us
through that? And then the
relationship with insulin and
how they work in consult with
each other or with cortisol,
yeah, sorry, cortisol and
(08:32):
oxytocin, pardon me. And then Iwant to talk about the blood
sugar piece with the insulin,
and how it all comes together.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (08:37):
Yeah, yeah. So
and it like this. Hormonal
hierarchy is so key, because we
get everything works together,
but with oxytocin. As an
obstetrician, I learned about
oxytocin. I injected oxytocin in
my patients during labor,
Pitocin. If you ever received
Pitocin during labor, that's
oxytocin that helps stimulatecontractions. When we
breastfeed, we increase
oxytocin, and that helps, again,
this bonding. I think about how
nature made us to imprint. I
think, you know, I've had
children now, so I think about
this a lot, but not only as an
obstetrician, but the incredible
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effect of these hormones when,you know, when we're in, we
stimulate oxytocin, we It
stimulates contractions and we
go through labor. It's a natural
analgesic and amnestic. So in
other words, it makes you forget
the pain that you actually
experience. So otherwise, we'd
only have ever one child. It's
(09:35):
so true, but oxytocin is part ofthat. And then you get this
child, and you're like, oh my
god, I never knew love. Felt
like I could feel this kind of
love, but that's bonding that
helps you protect and nurture
and care for this child, as well
as every time you nurse or
breastfeed, that oxytocin
secreted, and that's furtherimprinting. And we know oxytocin
early in life. You know from
touching you. Mean, cuddling,
nursing a child is associated
with less addictive behavior,
better social adaptation,
relationship skills decreased,
you know, autoimmune disease and
I mean, that's powerful. That's
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powerful. We're designed thatway, and oxytocin is produced.
There was a study Paul Zach did.
Dr Paul Zach, PhD, did, looking
at oxytocin, and he studied
different situations and checked
to see what increased oxytocin
the most. So he went to this
wedding, and he checks an entire
bridal party, and the person
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with the highest oxytocin was, Idon't think it should surprise
anyone, but was the bride? The
highest oxytocin was the bride.
But guess who had the second
highest oxytocin?
Unknown (10:50):
Oh, I don't know.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (10:53):
The mother of
the bride. Probably was gonna
say that, and then I second
guessed myself, was not the
groom. It was not it was the
mother of the bride. And I think
that is so cool. And I think of
the traditional societies. I
really studied world medicine
and societies and what helps us,
you know, survive wars andconflicts and trauma and grief
and and child loss and all those
things when we think of these
traditional societies and the
wedding, like the wedding of
like an Indian or Arab family,
there's like hundreds of people
at this wedding. Like 500 600
people. Your whole community's
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there. Everyone's involved,everyone's dancing, there's
music. Both increase oxytocin,
good community. So you're like
building, you're creating this
bath in oxytocin to further
foster bonding, and I think that
has to play a role in longevity
of relationships. Yeah.
Tess Masters (11:50):
Oh, I love that
term oxytocin bath. So how can
we bathe ourselves in oxytocin
throughout the day?
Dr. Anna Cabeca (12:00):
Yeah, and this
is where I like to say we need
to micro dose oxytocin
throughout the day. I love that.
And the beautiful thing is, like
the best pharmacy in the world
is our own body. We make this
oxytocin, and we make it not
just in our uterus and our womb.
The way we produce oxytocin is
certainly, we have glands thatproduce oxytocin, predominantly
in the pituitary, but the heart
has both oxytocin receptors and
produces oxytocin. So hence this
love, this powerful, energetic
force within us, this you know,
it produces oxytocin and also
has receptors for oxytocin. And
so in, you know, in my trauma,
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and you hear the word heartache,I mean I had felt that
heartache, that heartbreak, that
complete constrictor of my
heart. And I think it's that
effect of loss of oxytocin or
that profound love and a high
cortisol antagonistic effect on
our oxytocin receptors. But the
heart really does like it hurt,
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it hurt and so and other places,like with vaginal distension, so
with intercourse, with
childbirth, that increases
oxytocin, stomach distension. So
having a full moon, I'm happy
and well fed that full stomach.
Having a full stomach increases
oxytocin. Oh yes, it does. Yes,
it does. And so that's why, like
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that fasting, or thatintermittent fasting and not
snacking, is really important.
So you can really feel that,
that happy fullness, you know,
Matt, happy shift versus, if
we're eating like regularly all
day, I think that allowing that
constrictor contraction and then
that expansion like that
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increases oxytocin. Definitelyhappier, definitely happier. And
then, of course, positive touch
and thoughts, spiritual
practice, prayer, gratitude,
walking, you know, doing things
you love, gardening, enjoying
nature, singing, dancing, music,
all of those things increase
oxytocin throughout our body. We
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have receptors throughout ourbody and touch receptors
physically on our body. With
that stimulation, positive touch
increases oxytocin, including a
head wrap. Oh, my God, I love
going to my hairdresser and
getting a head wrap.
Tess Masters (14:28):
So do I a head
massage? I could have one of
those all day, every day. So
hugging, having sex, you know,
how do we stroke ourselves, if
we live alone, for example, and
you are aiding your getting
these oxytocin hits, micro
dosing throughout the day.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (14:48):
Well,
definitely too. The research
shows that having a pet
increases oxytocin. So
playfulness of a pet, I don't
know how much. With cats, I'm
not a cat person, but with dogs,
definitely. Definitely the
research is there with dogs, and
they greet you very happily, but
being able to even stroke, youknow, like an animal, like a cat
or dog and horses looking eye
eye to eye with another living
being, whatever that living
being is, that is a way to
increase oxytocin, but even like
positive touch, you know, in the
shower with yourself. You know,
self pleasuring a huge way to
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increase oxygen. No partner, noproblem. Yeah, and and again,
doing activities and meditation,
we talked about sound baths and
how that can mean, you know,
sound baths can feel
physiologically levitating, and
it can increase oxytocin. So
those are that part of that
stimulation of our innate
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sensation systems increaseoxytocin without shopping.
Tess Masters (15:52):
That definitely
shopping, watching Dancing,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (15:58):
absolutely I
was like, sometimes I prescribe
for my patients, watch My Big
Fat Greek Wedding.
Unknown (16:04):
I watch shits Creek if
I want to get a hit of oxytocin
throughout the day, I'm jumping
on my rebounder watching shits
Creek because I'm jumping myself
and I laughing my head off. It's
amazing.
Tess Masters (16:15):
So we want to talk
about cortisol, because we don't
talk about these control
hormones, enough and this
relationship between cortisol
and oxytocin. So when our sex
hormones, these predictive
hormones, decline as we age, our
cortisol levels rise. So can you
talk us through that and why
(16:37):
it's so important to bemonitoring and recognizing when
we're experiencing elevated
stress?
Dr. Anna Cabeca (16:44):
Yeah,
absolutely. And I want to put
this in context, because when
they think of our hormone
hierarchy and all our hormones,
like melatonin, even vitamin D
as a really misnamed, it's more
of a pro hormone, estrogen,
DHEA, I mean, even progesterone
and pregnenolone. I like to give
the example of like a universitysetting. All the students of the
University are like these
hormones. They each have their
own roles, passions, purposes,
talents, gifting, direction,
etc. But the regulatory hormones
that control in a way lead to to
control them, to modulate them,
are like the professors at the
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university, and this iscortisol, insulin and
adrenaline. So if you've ever
had a professor come in or a
teacher come in, hungover, high,
whatever, and they're like, turn
the lights out, play a movie.
There's chaos in the classroom,
right? Versus a really good
professor that's instructing
you're inspired, right? That'sdifferent. We want to keep these
hormones in optimum function,
and as our reproductive hormones
decline, insulin and cortisol
increase. And these are
catabolic hormones. They break
us down. They work against our
physiology. And what I found
through my own trauma and PTSD
(17:59):
and I had to go to the researchbecause I was feeling
disconnected. I was feeling the,
you know, the I say, the
physiology of divorce. I knew I
had loved my husband, but I no
longer felt love for him. I
loved my work, but I was burnt
out, and I dreaded going in. And
that's that physiology when
cortisol is winning. Becausewhen cortisol goes up, oxytocin
gets suppressed, because, again,
you're in high stress, no time
to love on your enemy, right?
They don't coexist at those high
levels together. So you're in
this high stress survival state.
And so cortisol goes up,
oxytocin goes down. And contrary
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oxytocin, when you increaseoxytocin, cortisol goes down.
There's the fluctuations
throughout the day of of
cortisol, but when you're in
chronic everyday stress for a
long time, or post traumatic
stress, the Para ventricular
nucleus area of the brain says,
okay, cortisol, you're frying me
out. I'm going to suppress youbecause you're like catabolism.
I'm breaking down muscle,
breaking down bone, very acidic,
and so it says, Okay, we got to
suppress you, and you come into
this dangerous but oxytocin
stays suppressed. So this
physiology, and this is very
well described in PTSD, everyday
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trauma, post pandemic stress,what this feels like is that
isolation. Your world's getting
smaller. You're withdrawing from
the world. More you don't feel
pleasure. You have anhedonia,
lack of feelings of pleasure.
You're less connected. You burnt
out. As I say, it's the
physiology of depression,
Physiology of divorce, and it'sphysiologic. I want to give the
example of a patient like once I
learned this, I started
implementing, okay? What did I
need to do to increase oxytocin
in my own life? How can I help
my patients? And I had a male
patient come in to see me. I
always give guys credit, because
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if they come to see agynecologist, you know, they got
to have a good sense of self,
right?
Unknown (19:55):
Absolutely. How many
men come to see
Dr. Anna Cabeca (19:59):
you period?
Usually the wife send me, but
this guy, because he had trauma
and he'd heard my story, yeah,
he came in to see me, and he
goes, and he was in his mid 30s,
and he'd been in a train
accident, and since that train
accident, everything in his life
was like, he recovered
physically. But he said, youknow, like, I I know I love my
wife, I love my kids, but I am
so detached from them. I'm so
disconnected. I'm so detached. I
feel like, you know, I you know,
like, I don't feel love for
them, like, intellectually I
know, like I I did love them,
but I don't feel it anymore. And
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you know, I hate my work. I'velost my friends. I'm really
struggling. And so we looked at
his, you know, traumatic
experience, the trauma of the
train accident, but also how
that affected a traumatic brain
injury, and how that could have
impacted him too. So addressing
these areas, I really talked to
him about oxy I did my oxytocinquiz and and and, you know,
coached him on increasing
oxytocin and, and I also
prescribed him at that point
oxytocin for a short time, over
three, three to six months, to
kind of get him out of this.
Like to get him feeling again
and try to do these things. But
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he totally turned his lifearound, like reconnected with
his I was playing with his
daughter, reconnected with his
wife. Was happy and joyful
again. Was like purposeful. His
passions were back. And if we
understand that physiology, like
we say, physiology affects
behavior, behavior can also
affect physiology. So if we knowthat making that, if you don't
feel like about making that
effort to go out and play, go to
the playground, get on the swing
with your daughter. I mean, you
know, do these activities,
things that you enjoy,
incorporate that into your life.
Laughter. What funny movies can
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you watch? What can you dotogether that makes you laugh?
And do, you know, put yourself
in that space. Plus, I will say
a spiritual practice is key too.
Then you're producing more of
that oxytocin again, and you
will defeat cortisol. I also
make people check their urine
pH, and when he checked his his
urine pH was very acidic, so itshould be greater than seven
ideally when we wake up and when
we go to bed. But his was really
acidic. So just by monitoring
his Ph, he could see where his
nutrition, his lifestyle, his
oxytocin increasing behaviors
could come. Could improve his
urine PA, you improve that
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alkalinity because oxytocin isalkalinizing. Cortisol is
acidifying. So there's a way you
know to measure and then you
improve your guy, you know, you
improve your physiology and that
that just shifts everything.
Tess Masters (22:50):
And you know, we
don't again talk about this
enough that stress manifests as
inappropriate and in excessive
inflammation in the body, like
you were talking about that acid
creates inflammation, and
inflammation is the root of all
disease, which progresses to
chronic disease. And that's just
the formula. That's the rub oflife, right? But it is. It's
just so important to talk about
this. We were talking about Bali
before we hit record, about how
you're going there. And I
remember, I went to this
laughing workshop, and we all
just stood there and started to
laugh, and we were in a circle,
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and everybody just was laughingfor an hour. I literally felt
like I had taken the greatest
drug on planet Earth, just from
laughing and hearing other
people laugh like when James
Lipton asked, you know, in
inside the actor studio, what's
the greatest sound? And someone
says, The Sound of people
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laughing. I so relate to that.And so I love what you're saying
about cultivating a mindful
practice of putting yourself in
a sense of play, in a in a state
where you are enjoying yourself
and you are in community with
others, and it is a mindful
practice that we need to
actually, actively and
consciously seek out thoseopportunities and put ourselves
in that space.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (24:13):
I want to
emphasize that, especially
listeners that think that, okay,
well, you know. And I want to
just be honest and say the you
know that put PTSD, put me into
a state of depression and
suicidal ideation and complete
disconnect and burnout. And this
they are, you know, definitely
the nutrition, the Keto, green,all that was important, but the
oxytocin, increasing practices
focusing on gratitude, on
positivity, reframing how I
thought and saw myself in the
world. That was like pulling
myself up by my bootstraps, you
know, into another vibration,
another energetic vibration. And
(24:52):
I think that was that is so keyso that micro, you know,
throughout the day, we can do
that, and we find sometimes we
have to make up the. Things
that, because when you're in
that dark for me, certainly, and
I know with many of my patients
that are in this state of dark
depression, it can feel like,
oh, there's nothing I like aboutmyself or nothing I like in the
world. And you're in that
really, that suppress that
physiologic state, and it's
dangerous, but you can say
there's always something like,
I'm breathing, I have a strong
body, I have good legs, I can
walk. I have a bed, you know, a
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pillow on my bed that I cansleep on. There's a blue skies
today. And you just start, like,
finding these things that you
will overlook because you're in
this dark place. And you just
start finding these things and
gradually, gradually, I promise
you, it brings you out of the
for me, I like to say the pits
of hell definitely brought meout of the pits of hell.
Tess Masters (25:49):
It can feel very,
very dark. So is that where you
start with your patients and
your community? Because
listener, you may be feeling in
that place and going well,
that's all fine to say,
gratitude, gratitude, but I feel
in such a pit that I don't even
know how to take the first step.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (26:14):
Yeah, I and it
is, it is this whole piece
together. But I will tell you,
like in my book, at the hormone
fix, there's a daily activity
log, and this is something I
give my patients. I give my my
members in magic menopause and
breeze program. I give them this
checklist, this questionnaire,
(26:35):
this daily, I say daily activitylog to go through on a daily
basis to focus on these
positivity factors. So it's,
like, it's in my book, and it,
you know, I start with, what are
you grateful for? And, like,
that's a key part, like, what
are you grateful for? And I want
you to document it every day.
(26:57):
And then what's your cheer word?I have clients choose a cheer
word, because, you know, I got a
great absorber observer of
people. I love to watch people.
I like to look at their
expressions. And this is
something I've learned in that
healing journey, because we were
on this flight to Australia, and
I, yeah, it was great. We wereon this
Unknown (27:15):
long flight, so you got
a lot of time to think it's
Dr. Anna Cabeca (27:19):
a long flight.
And I have, like, my I had two
kids with me and my husband, and
actually he wasn't, like I
thought, he didn't have a seat
on the flight, so turned out he
ended up in first class. Didn't
tell us halfway through the
plane ride. But anyway, so it's
me and the girls. I don't know
where it's my you know, where myhusband is, like, he his seat
got taken or whatever. And I'm
on this flight now from LA to
Australia, and this guy's like,
oh, again, I was struggling with
the kids. And I'm like, I'm
sorry. He's like, Oh, no
worries. And, you know, no
worries, let me help you. And he
(27:56):
was like, this Australian, itwas very happy. He had lovely
smile lines and laugh lines. And
I was like, Ah, how interesting.
Because, like in his language,
we say hello. In America, you
guys say, you know, like, no
worries, or what do you what do
you say when you say hello, good
day, good day. And that brings a
(28:16):
smile to your face. So you havealready built into your language
this positivity and so, like,
you want laugh lines and smile
lines. So I
Tess Masters (28:26):
know and women are
trying to get rid of them. Ah,
they're trying to erase them. I
just don't understand that. I
like to have a map of where I've
been.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (28:37):
I definitely, I
definitely am with you, and I
want them to be smile lines and
laugh lines? Yeah, I get it. If
they're frown lines, get rid of
them. But if they're laugh lines
and smile lines, I'm all for it.
And so the second thing is the
cheer word. Like, what word that
you say, it brings a smile to
(28:57):
your face, but also ends with asmile, right? So, like, is it my
granddaughter and Alisa, you
know? Like it leaves you with a
smile. And the word smile the
good day, no worries. You know
these, like, find a word you
know that leaves a smile, makes
you smile and and use it
throughout the day. Put it you
(29:19):
know, and really start shiftingyour physiology. We know, like,
you know, 20 years ago, we may
have said, this is soft science.
This is not this is well founded
research that shifts our
neurotransmitters, our
physiology and our energetic
potential. So cheer work so, and
then you know, who did you
connect with, and what's youroxytocin activity? So on my
checklist for clients, I think
it's so important that we do
that so that we're focusing on
the positive instead of the
negative all the time. And so
like, if we can shift our
physiology with that, that's
important. And I had a patient
(29:57):
recently, and she was in. Ashe's 37 she had three kids at
home, and she was very anxious.
Had brain fog. She'd always have
her mom on the phone when we
talk, so she her mom could take
notes. And she was having, you
know, weight gain issues and and
I and I asked her, I said, you
know, I'd been working with her
(30:19):
for a couple months before Iasked her this question, so I
learned to ask it a learned to
ask it a lot earlier. But I
said, What are you doing for
fun? What do you do for play?
What brings you joy? And she
goes, or what have you done that
you really love doing? And she
said, I love dancing. I love
dancing to music. And I used todance as a girl, and I loved it.
And I said, Well, do you think
you could do that again? She
goes, actually, there's a place
not far from where I dropped my
kids off to school that I maybe,
I'll, I'll check into and so
when I saw her back like, I
think it was two or three months
(30:53):
later. First of all, she didn'tput her mom on the phone. She
goes, I am feeling so much
better. I mean, we've done her
hormones, her labs, or new
vitamins, all that stuff.
Nothing was moving the needle.
She goes, I feel so much better.
I'm at peace with myself. I'm so
much more organized and happy.
So what are you doing? I'mtaking dance lessons two to
three times.
Tess Masters (31:13):
Oh yes, dancing
makes me so happy. And I do a
static dance. I go to five
rhythms once a week. It's a non
negotiable part of my self care,
and it just shifts your state.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (31:26):
You gotta do
that
Tess Masters (31:28):
incredibly
powerful and, oh, I can so
relate to what you're saying.
And what I love so much about
your work is this holistic
approach that, yes, you're
working with hormone
replacement, you're also talking
about diet and oxytocin and love
practices and intimacy and all
these things. And it's aboutfinding and putting these pieces
of the puzzle together. I want
to ask you about cortisol and
this relationship with belly fat
and weight gain that you teach
so beautifully in your community
about this relationship with
cortisol and the ability to
manage your weight when you're
(32:09):
going through perimenopause and
Dr. Anna Cabeca (32:10):
menopause.
Yeah, so everything we can do to
increase oxytocin and reset our
circadian rhythm is going to
help us manage cortisol. So we
think about this too, and when
we have, when we are pushing
that cortisol pedal, that
cortisol increases glucose in
your body, which then include
increases insulin, which willdrive glucose to increase fat.
And we really see it in the
waistline. So we say the we see
waste gain in this perimenopause
menopausal period, because of
this imbalance in cortisol and
increase in insulin driving that
fat into, you know, increase in
fat and and that's critical to
(32:55):
understand. So we're looking at,I look at them together, and
like, let's create insulin
sensitivity. Let's manage
cortisol. And when you do, you
actually do see that, you know,
hourglass figure come back and
think that's really important.
And also because with the gut,
with as our hormones are
shifting in the gut, we have ashift in our gut microbiome. So
we really have to put more
effort into keeping our gut
healthy. So with the foods we're
eating, with the nutrients that
we're putting in our body, the
probiotics, if needed, and
fermented foods, and prebiotics
and post biotics, we talk about
(33:33):
all these things because we havesuch a in America anyway, like a
very corrupted diet. So you
really have to put effort into
having these healthy practices
rebuilt, to rebuild our gut, and
that also helps with estrogen
metabolism and detoxification.
So we know these things, so they
kind of work in hand in hand,
(33:56):
but when that cortisol is goingup, we see that increasing
glucose, you become more insulin
resistant and you store more
fat. So the key concepts of of
alkalinizing, intermittent
fasting, low carbohydrate
eating, like medicinal foods and
herbs and spices, they were, you
know, like whoever thought about
(34:17):
digging up garlic, right? It hasmedicinal properties.
Tess Masters (34:22):
I could put, I
sometimes I put garlic in a
smoothie, just FYI, not a whole
garlic clove. But, well, if I'm
doing a gazpatro style smoothie,
yes, but oh gosh. I mean some, I
can eat a clove of garlic like a
tablet. It's so fabulous.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (34:36):
Maybe I'm gonna
go cook some right now. Just the
Tess Masters (34:39):
bomb diggity, and
it just makes everything taste
amazing, too. But yeah, look
Unknown (34:44):
this, this, this
Tess Masters (34:46):
insulin resistance
and and our focus on blood
sugar. That's why I went earlier
when we were talking, I just
went, Oh, this relationship
between oxytocin and insulin. It
was really cortisol, but I just
had insulin on the brain because
I just was reminding myself. To
ask you about this blood sugar
piece, because it is. It's suchan important indicator of health
at any age, but for women over
40 and perimenopause and
menopause, regulating our blood
sugar is just paramount. And so
many women get diagnosed with
pre diabetes over 40, so talk us
through, why this blood sugar,
cortisol, oxytocin, this kind of
(35:26):
relationship. And for those ofyou that are listening and not
watching on YouTube, Anna's been
holding up this this hierarchy
chart. So you may want to go
back and take a look at it.
Anna, do you mind holding it up
again if you want to go over to
YouTube and actually watch it.
It's a really, really just quick
overview of the hormonehierarchy, which I love so much.
So why do we need to be paying
attention to our blood sugar?
Dr. Anna Cabeca (35:53):
It is so
critically important. And you
know, I'm like OB GYN by
training. I triple boarded in
integrative medicine and
regenerative medicine.
Regenerative Medicine, but my
original training is all in OB
GYN. So my first experience with
glucose management was in
gestational diabetes and bloodsugar management in pregnancy.
Why does pregnancy become a
state of increasing of like,
risk for diabetes? What is
happening in pregnancy? It's not
that we're eating more, that
much more, but what's really
going on. And so that
combination of hormones and
(36:28):
becoming insulin resistant andthe physiology of pregnancy was
really always fascinated me. And
so in working is and then in
midlife, what's happening as
we're becoming as I myself, you
know, experience what my
patients came in, experience
like they come in say, Dr Anna,
I've gained 510, 20 pounds
without doing anythingdifferent. And as a young, you
know, Doctor, I was like, sure
you're not doing anything. I
didn't say that to him, of
course, but sure you're not
doing anything different. You
know. I'll check your thyroid.
I'll check these things, but,
you know, but surely there's
(37:02):
something you're doingdifferent. You wouldn't just
gain weight. And then I was 48
and had already lost 80 pounds,
you know, I'd been well over.
Lost those 80 pounds, kept them
off for several years, and then
I started gaining weight,
literally without doing anything
different. In this time frame,
47 to 48 gained 20 poundswithout doing anything
different. And for anyone who's
lost a significant amount of
weight and starts gaining, you
don't like I was I going to be
300 pounds before this stop?
Like, what is happening here?
And that's when I realized, you
know, that importance, we're
(37:35):
losing our anabolic hormones, orbone building, muscle building
hormones, and were becoming more
insulin resistant. Plus I was in
really high stress. I still had
that PTSD, so that cortisol
increasing glucose. And this is
really, I think this is where
everyone needs to be their own
Nancy Drew their own detective.
(37:55):
I love those books. Oh, my God.I love red. Everyone, at least
couldn't get my daughters to
read them very much I would read
to them, but yeah, until they're
on their own. Yeah. But so good,
so good, right? So good. Those
little hints and clues Nancy
Drew made me a better doctor. I
love it. So with waiting and
(38:21):
really trying to figure outwearing continuous glucose
monitor really helped me
understand several things. First
of all, like I've been doing
Keter green and, you know, was
trying to understand what was
going on, checking urine pH. And
I would be in ketosis and have
an alkaline urine pH when I get
up, and then have my black cupof coffee and be acidic. Well,
that made sense, because
caffeine, coffee is a very
acidic and if I'm doing that on
an empty stomach, that made
sense, but I would be bumped out
of ketosis. I'm like, Wait, this
is zero calories. This is my
double espresso. I mean, there
(38:57):
is zero calories in this andacidic orgy. It's an acidic
orgy, and that it that caffeine
increases cortisol, and so was
bumping up my blood sugar, and
so like, that's destructive. And
then another time, I'm Do you
know, I go in, I lecture to a
group, an audience of several
100 people, and I go in fasting
(39:22):
because my brain's clearer, butI was wearing my continuous
glucose monitor during this
time, and afterwards, I look at
my monitor, and my blood sugar
had gone up to one from like low
80s to 150 fasted because I was
so stressed and nervous, so that
and so when your glucose goes
up, your insulin is going to go
(39:46):
up. So when cortisol goes up, itdrove up my that stress, because
I was fasted, drove up my
glucose, drove up my cortisol
drove up my glucose. Then, of
course, the insulin, and then it
came down, but it stayed up for
30. Minutes, 30 minutes at 150
and I was like, wow, that was
insane, but that helped me, help
my patients, that helped meadjust things so that you can be
physiologic and physiologically
more balanced and and add in
those extra alkalinizers at
going to really support my body
during those high stress times,
and you're bringing up
Tess Masters (40:22):
in a really
important point, that we think
that blood sugar is all about
the food that we eat, and there
are so many factors that affect
our blood sugar that have
nothing to do with food stress
being a really big one. And you
know, really, the message of
this whole conversation is all
roads lead back to the gut andoxytocin. And so I want to ask
you about sex, because talk
about sex because you are the
girlfriend doctor and so many
women struggle with intimacy and
connection and feeling
disconnected and pain during
intercourse, and you are helping
so many women with this. So
(41:07):
listener, you may beexperiencing this where you
don't want to have sex. You've
got low libido. It really,
really hurts. You're thinking,
Am I ever going to enjoy sex
again?
Unknown (41:16):
Oh, Dr, Anna, to the
rescue.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (41:20):
I'm here for
you. I'm not afraid to talk
about it. And I would say I'm
the sexual health expert, not
the relationship or technique
expert. Let me just put in a
disclaimer. But I mean, it's so
important, because our health
span should equal our lifespan,
but it should also equal our sex
span. I mean, sexual health isabout a lot more than sex. When
I looked at this intimacy drive
desire, you know, divorce rate,
gray divorces, what's going on
there, and, and, and this
disconnect in relationships, the
sexless marriage, what's
happening and what ages that
affects and, and I really looked
(41:56):
at this and said, Okay, when itcomes to intimacy and desire,
what, what is really interfering
with that? If we can narrow it
down simplistically, what are
the key three things that
interfere with that? And so I
came up with the three Ds. Can
you guess what they are? Oh,
just tell me, Dick is not one of
them that does not affect thatis not one, but it comes to
three issues, issues of desire,
disconnect and discomfort, these
three things. So what are the
things that can affect our
desire? It can be many things,
right? Relationship, stress,
medications, pandemic stress. I
mean, it can be a lot of things
(42:40):
that affect desire and thedisconnect. We talk about
oxytocin, cortisol, connection,
disconnection, so that's a key
piece, and that affects our
relationships. And the third
being discomfort. And as we age
and we have or, you know, even
postpartum, if we've had
episiotomies or repairs or
tears, it can be very painfulfor a long time, like opposite
OB, GYN, but I also had really
big baby and tore in a very bad
way. Didn't have sex for a year
after that, and so but when we
age, we have dryness, a change
in the decrease in the
elasticity. If we're not
addressing it, we'll have a
(43:17):
decrease in the elasticity painwith intercourse, a loss of
pleasure and orgasm and that
discomfort, if it hurts, every
time you do something, why would
you do it? Why would you do it?
You wouldn't your partner,
please. Your partner to power
through, and then it builds
resentment, well, and there's
mirror neurons, right? If ithurts, I'm powering through.
Those mirror neurons to your
partner are like, wait, you
know, she's not having pleasure.
There's a disconnect. There's
mirror neurons here that are
happening and what he like. I
teach this in my secrets and
science of sexual desire
(43:52):
masterclass. But the key secret,like, the number one turn on for
a guy is her turn on his
partner's turn on. Yeah. So your
joy, your pleasure, your
happiness. Sex is for you, not
for him. If you're having sex,
it's for you. It is all about
you. Like tap into your
pleasure. That is the like that
is the best turn on for you andyour partner. But that that's a
key piece of it. And so
addressing genital urinary
syndrome of menopause. I call it
that GSM. Now I think it's
getting such terrible
terminology that we use for
women. I mean, like a woman over
35 when I was 41 and had a
(44:31):
child, my diagnosis was elderly,multigravida. I mean, like, it's
just her geriatric pregnancy,
you have these terrible
terminology drugs
Unknown (44:40):
that have been created
by men, typically, totally,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (44:43):
totally, I
would call it something else,
like, you know, robin's eggs,
or, I don't
Tess Masters (44:49):
know, geriatric
pregnancy. I mean, you're
technically in a geriatric
pregnancy.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (44:56):
Totally, after
age 35 you're, yeah, yeah. Yeah,
and, and so, like, you know,
like, this is, it's such an
important association to make.
So we wouldn't look at this,
these changes. And I always look
at, you know, the, what are our
pleasure zones? Are clitoris to
anus? I mean, tremendous amount
of nerve endings in theclitoris, over 8000 more than
our fingertip, right? So we've
got these incredible nerve
endings that clitoris is
specifically designed for
pleasure. God gave it to us for
pleasure. We are designed that
way for pleasure. Anatomically,
that is our pleasure. It does
(45:30):
not, you know, it does not havean age limit on that pleasure
zone. And so keeping it healthy
is part of our, you know, I
mean, that's like, part of our
right to keep it healthy. And
the vulva, the anal tissue,
again, nerve endings around the
anus, very sensitive, can be an
erogenous zone for many. And
then the the vaginal openingitself, the vulva vestibule, I
mean, that can atrophy, shrink
and and we lose that elasticity
within the vagina, the rogation,
the natural folds. And so you
we, I have found we have to add
hormones back to that area, or
pro hormones, and that's one of
the reasons I created my
(46:08):
product, jova.
Tess Masters (46:10):
Yeah, about jewel.
I mean, happy vulva, happy life,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (46:19):
right?
Absolutely, yes. Oh
Tess Masters (46:23):
my gosh. More and
more women are recognizing the
importance of vaginal estrogen.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (46:29):
Yes, and I
think this is the important
piece. Vaginal estrogen is good,
but for me, like vaginal DHEA is
even better, but also because
we're focusing on the vagina.
Now, great, but what about the
poor clitoris who's like
focusing on that like, so we've
got to add back hormones. I
created jova with plant Alpinerose plant stem cells and DHEA
for that, and emollients to
drive the ingredients deep into
the tissue for that.
Rejuvenating, you know, age
reversing, youth, youthful, you
really help with blood flow,
help with nourishment of that of
those tissues, these vital,
(47:09):
this, I say, most prime realestate of our body, right? So
even it's important, and it goes
beyond like talk about sex and
sexual health, but the issues
that create debilitation are
those vaginal infections, the
odor, the urinary infections,
urinary tract asymptomatic.
Urinary tract infections and
(47:30):
incontinence issues lead to thatmidnight walk to their that 2am
walk to the bathroom, and loss
of balance and fall as we get
older, leading to a broken hip.
So, like, I was saying, Okay,
what's the best things I can do
to prevent my kids putting me in
a nursing home when I'm older?
Like, okay,
Unknown (47:51):
pay attention to my
clitoris.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (47:53):
That's right,
the urethra, clitoris, vagina.
Like, forget that. We keep that
area healthy, because I don't
want to deal with, you know,
getting put in a nursing home,
and the straw that breaks a
caregiver's back is
incontinence. Think about that.
And vaginal estrogen doesn't
significantly help withincontinence, but DHEA and
testosterone both do. Bulbar and
vaginally applied, it makes a
huge difference. Look, I
Tess Masters (48:19):
have put so many
women in our skinny 60 community
onto jewelba, because it's such
a huge percentage of people when
we send out our questionnaire at
the beginning of our program,
and a lot of it's about
nutrition for our dietitians,
but so many women, when we ask
about what are some of the
obstacles to you feeling likeyou're in great health. It's I
am not. I'm not having sex
because it's pain during
intercourse. I don't I feel
disconnected. I'm not. I'm not
experiencing intimacy and joy
and all the things we've been
talking about. And so I send
them on over to you, over to Dr
(48:57):
Anna, and this product isliterally life changing. I use
it every day. I know you use it
every day. So let's dive in a
little bit more about how we
apply it and why it's so great,
and why you feel the difference
when you don't use it.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (49:15):
Yeah, yeah.
Definitely, because we want to
restore the anatomy. I know many
people are listening, not
watching. But have my handy
pelvis here, and the like
external vulvar anatomy, you
know, again, the clitoris
perfectly designed with good
blood flow and nerve endings
over 8000 we know, and theentire vulvar tissue is very
vascular. It's thin, it's
mucosal, and so it can so
applying it, clitoris to anus
like you, you know, for some
people that I just say, massage
it in, just like you massage any
cream in, anywhere or whatever,
but the skin care for your
(49:50):
pelvic area is critical tooptimal health. So clitoris to
anus, massage it in. If you're
adverse to that at this time,
we'll get you over it, I
promise. But you could put it.
On toilet paper and wipe with
it. For some of my clients that
have elderly, elderly parents
that they're caring for, they'll
do that. They'll make sure thatthey can wipe with it. But to
put it on daily, because that's
just gonna regenerate. You can
put it on the vaginal orifice.
You can use it during before or
before or during sex. It's
perfectly safe for a male
partner where estrogen you want
to avoid immediate contact of
(50:29):
estrogen with your male partner,unless he needs some estrogen,
give him some but
Tess Masters (50:35):
I love that you're
drawing the distinction between
vaginal estrogen and vaginal
DHEA. It's I just think this
product is so extraordinary, and
so you do, you do? You put it on
in the evening. You put it on.
That's when you put it on. I do
in the morning. You put it on in
the morning.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (50:52):
I do for me, I
do it in the morning as part of
my morning routine. And it's,
that's just part of my routine.
But I tell clients like, are you
an early bird or a night owl?
Which? What are you more strict
on with your routine? If you're
both great, but like, choose,
you know, either morning or
evening. It's fine at eithertime.
Tess Masters (51:12):
I like to be super
clean down there, and then I can
get in there with my finger and
go clitoris, vagina to anus,
like you said, and it's this
little ritual. It's wonderful.
And you know, it is so important
to talk about sex and to get
comfortable with talking about
our bodies, and you're so
(51:38):
comfortable and put people atease and give a safe space to be
able to do that. So thank you,
because it this is such an
important part of it that we
want to be enjoying sex as older
women, your sex life is not
over. You know, in your 20s and
30s, in fact, gosh, my friends
in their 50s, 60s and 70s say
(51:59):
that their sex lives are betternow than they were in these
right? I know, Hello, yeah, yes,
yeah. It's, it's, it's a
beautiful, beautiful thing, and
that
Dr. Anna Cabeca (52:11):
increases
oxytocin, that keeps that
intimacy and connection, and
that is longevity, yeah, yeah,
and we
Tess Masters (52:17):
don't we. Most
people are embarrassed to talk
about masturbation. So I loved
how you said that earlier, when
we were talking about oxytocin
bars and getting these oxytocin
micro doses throughout the day,
that masturbation is a beautiful
thing if you have a partner or
if you don't have a
Dr. Anna Cabeca (52:33):
partner, right?
I like to use the word self
pleasuring. Okay, let's use self
pleasuring, because I look at
the origins of the word master
patient, and so it is self
pleasure. I love that, yeah,
self pleasuring, right? Because
that's what I'm doing. I am self
pleasuring. And that is
important, right? That isimportant. It's like the
caressing, taking care of your
body. You know we were take care
of our faces, we take care of
our teeth. And, you know, the
vaginal vulvar health is as
important as our oral health and
that sexual peace, that being
able to express yourself, what
(53:11):
you like, feel empowered. And Ithink that's what I honestly
menopause, you know, gives us
that freedom and that lack of
tolerance, like I want. I'm
speaking my truth, and you know,
this is the time to speak my
truth, and what am I feeling?
How does this feel? What do I
like? And start expressing that
(53:32):
in and outside the bedroom like,you know, really start Express
like I always tell clients that
are uncomfortable. Just start
like, if you have a partner or
not, but what do you like doing?
How does it make you feel what
you know like, even if you're
washing dishes? What is it? What
are you feeling? What can you
bring pleasure into thatexperience? Can you be very
present with that experience?
Can you make it a meditation?
And how can I lie it thinking
Tess Masters (53:56):
about self
pleasure is a meditation,
because if you don't understand
your own body and what you like
and you have a relationship with
your own pleasure, how can you
communicate and share your
pleasure with another in
intimate connection? So Kerry
koligie, who I was interviewing
(54:18):
on the podcast, talked about howshe realized through somatic
practices and tantric practices
that her pleasure was her own.
It pleasure wasn't something
that somebody else gave to her,
and that's a really important
shift in thinking for us,
because we think of sex as, oh,
you know, a man's gonna give it
(54:39):
to me, or a woman's gonna giveit to me, or whatever our sexual
preferences are, but what you're
saying is so on point, and it
really deeply resonates with me
that we really do need to be
cultivating this practice of
self pleasure like we're
brushing our teeth.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (54:55):
I like how you
said self pleasure as a
meditation that feels good.
Good.
Tess Masters (55:00):
That feels good,
man, that feels yummy. Yeah,
that just feels really
delicious. Oh, gosh, I gave
something to you.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (55:08):
Oh, I love
that,
Unknown (55:12):
because you've given me
so many great tips and and and
sayings and oh gosh, you've just
got so many
Tess Masters (55:21):
things that have
just helped So myself and so
many people in our community, I
want to ask you about hormones.
So we've been talking about a
lot of this lifestyle stuff, but
you are an OB GYN, you know? And
you do, you know, you do work
with hormones. So for a
listener, dear listener,
(55:44):
somebody who is afraid to eventhink about hormone replacement
because of that ridiculous study
that, thank God, has been
debunked. Now, what would you
say about seeking out, you know,
a really get great OB, GYN,
who's trained in menopause like
you, that actually understands,
because the OB GYN that
delivered our babies may not bethe OB GYN that's appropriate
for us in our 40s, 50s and 60s,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (56:09):
right? Or maybe
a naturopath or a functional
medicine provider. I mean, they
really, I always tell clients,
is that, first of all, you know,
there's no age limit on feeling
your best. We've got to do it
takes more than hormones to fix
your hormones. So do these
lifestyle factors? The keto
green method for me, you know,following Tess, getting plans
and programs. I mean, that's so
foundational, that is key. And
now, when it comes to hormone,
this is the icing on the cake,
and that we can use it for
longevity. And I always like to,
you know, I'm, I'm on the you
know, I want to optimize, but I
(56:42):
want, like, I'm going to use lowlevels of hormones, especially
after menopause and but optimize
it and really work with all
these other aspects. I want our
adrenals to function. I want to
keep our ovaries functioning as
long as possible. I want to keep
our thyroid functioning
healthfully as long as possible,
our heart, all of our brain. Imean, all of these things is so
critically important now, when
it comes to hormones, I always
tell clients, like, would there
be an age limit? Like, if, if
you're a certain age, you know,
do they ever say, oh, we need to
stop your thyroid hormone, or at
a certain age, we need to stop
(57:15):
your insulin, I mean, theseother bioidentical hormones. Why
are we saying at a certain age
we have to stop
Unknown (57:21):
this because we're
specifically conditioned that
it's
Dr. Anna Cabeca (57:25):
not science. It
is not science. It is not based
in science. And if we look at
the synthetic medications, like
if I use bioidentical post
menopause, I like transdermal,
not oral estrogen, we can do
oral progesterone, that's fine,
bioidentical and not the
synthetic. So it really is like
this massaging. And I tellclients, I can, first, you want
to optimize health and do this
in a healthy way, because how
our hormones detox are key. But
secondly, like, call a
compounding pharmacy. You guys
have compounding pharmacies in
Australia, right? Yes. Call a
compounding pharmacy and say,
(57:59):
who's doing hormones reallywell, not too much, not too
little. Who's doing hormones
really well? Like, who? When
your patients come in, they've
they look good, they feel good,
they're getting, like, who's
doing hormones really well? And
for women, specifically, and
your age, and be very specific,
versus men. And you know, arepumping pellets into someone you
know, you want to do it in a
restorative and supportive way.
So who's doing it? Wow. And
compounding pharmacists will
know, and they'll give you
names, yeah.
Tess Masters (58:30):
And I love the way
that you think about hormone
replacement as a supplement, not
the one fix. And your book, the
hormone fix, is about this
holistic, this holistic view of
and optimizing, rather than
balancing, this term of
optimizing your hormone
function.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (58:54):
Oh, gosh, I
could talk to you and it's, it's
those foundations, right? It's
good night's sleep. It's
detoxifying, supporting liver,
kidney, bowel function, having
those daily bowel movements,
clean air, clean water, good
community, good relationships,
positivity, all those things
like that comes into reallyimportant comes into play. It
was
Tess Masters (59:16):
really
interesting. What you were
saying before about how you had
that patient come in and she was
taking hormones and doing some
of these other things, and it
wasn't moving the needle until
you talked about the oxytocin
piece and putting some of these
lifestyle practices into play.
And then everything shifted forher. Everything, yeah, and gosh.
I mean, can we it's so
Dr. Anna Cabeca (59:38):
important,
because you have hormone
clinics, you know, on corners
now, and they're not even seeing
a patient, and they're like,
Okay, we'll just, you know, send
you these hormones for me. I
can't practice that way. No,
that's why I want everyone to be
educated to understand the
fundamentals. 99% is ournutrition. Lifestyle, it really
is, and that 1% that can be the
icing, you know, the icing on
the cake, but that is, I mean,
it's really and I think more and
more as I tap into what I love
doing, and getting out in
nature, and being with my
animals, being with spending
(01:00:18):
time with my daughters, youknow, and doing things, playing
pickleball. I mean, doing things
I love doing.
Unknown (01:00:24):
I knew you're a
pickleball player.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:00:27):
Used to be a
very I used to have a tennis
court. Yes, gone,
Tess Masters (01:00:34):
well there. I mean
the studies about racket sports
and how it really helps with
brain health, the hand eye
coordination and longevity. It's
so powerful. So if you're not
playing a racket sport, get to
it. I mean, it's to it. We're
tennis people. I mean, we are
just hardcore tennis people.
It's so amazing. But Pickleballis really gaining Semen
straiter, which is amazing. But,
yeah, pickleball, my goodness,
that man that created it for his
kids. I mean, who knew that
story? Isn't it brilliant? It's
so incredible. I just want to
ask you, though, just to pick up
on what you were saying about
(01:01:07):
why you prefer bioidenticalhormones as opposed to synthetic
hormones. I know some listeners
are going to write in, and I
won't have followed up with that
with you, so I just want to make
sure we cover it.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:01:18):
Yeah, I want to
give you the research on that,
because, you know, this is the
area I train physicians and
hormones and longevity
management. But what do we know?
We know from the studies, from
the Hearst trial to the Women's
Health Initiative study and the
follow up studies, that oral
progestins have a negativecardiovascular profile and also
associated with an increased
risk of breast cancer, and it
gets small, but increased so,
but oral micronized
progesterone, or bioidentical
progesterone does not so why
would we choose a more inferior
now? Sometimes, like, there's
(01:01:51):
reasons that they're, you know,we need to use a synthetic for
one reason or not, but I haven't
written a prescription for in
synthetic hormone in 20 years
now, and so we're able to able
to get good results. And then
oral estrogens, the the study
with Women's Health Initiative,
they use Premarin. Now, even
with this oral estrogen, it didnot increase the risk of breast
cancer. So like that, fear was
unfounded. It was the progestin,
the Provera, which is a toxic
progestin, that increased the
risk and and had negative
cardiovascular profile. The oral
estrogen did increase drop
strokes. So we think, Okay,
(01:02:29):
well, then why would I use oralestrogen in a post menopausal
woman or someone at risk? We can
use transdermal the patches. We
can use vaginal we can use
compounded creams. There's gels
and sprays that are bioidentical
that have bioidentical estradiol
in it. So there are ways that we
can, we can use bioidentical
estrogens transdermally, and weknow that has a safe
cardiovascular profile. And Dr
Forney, I followed his work from
2005 through 2010 and in In he
published, and in the middle in
2008 he published a study
looking at 88,000 women who were
on different forms of progest,
progestins and progesterone. And
(01:03:17):
he found that in this 88,000woman study published in 2008 so
a long time now y'all, they
looked at Oral micronized
progesterone did not increase
the risk of breast cancer, but
the progestins did with the
pregnant and nor pregnant
derivative. So like a pregnant
derivative would be Provera, a
(01:03:38):
nor pregnant derivative would benor a thin drone. So the
pregnants were the worst, with a
three to four times increased
risk. And the nor pregnant
derivatives like norethindra had
a, you know, two to three times
increased risk or so, but oral
micronized progesterone had a
zero increased risk. And so we
look at these things and say,Okay, well, when we do it
safely. As provider, and I work
with clients with breast cancer,
with all kinds, like people that
no one wants to touch you like I
want to work with clients to
empower their health, to create
bodies inhospitable to cancer,
that are thriving and
(01:04:12):
energetically positive and andjust loving life. And so the you
know, I think that there's so
much misinformation the
literature, progesterone and
progestins were used
interchangeably. They're
different molecules completely.
And when I look at the mother
hormones I use, I'm holding up
(01:04:33):
my balance cream because I putpregnant alone and progesterone
in it, because they are both
mother hormones, and I put some
tripeptide for anti aging,
reducing age spots and wrinkles
and stuff. Because if you're
gonna put a cream on right,
Tess, you want it to like,
Unknown (01:04:47):
yeah, yeah, yeah.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:04:52):
Well, you I
know myself, then I will use it,
right? I will use it. So look,
we
Tess Masters (01:04:58):
often discount
transderm. Application, yeah, so
incredibly powerful. And you
know,
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:05:06):
if you have a
healthy gut, right? Oh, God,
Tess Masters (01:05:10):
we're so on the
same wavelength here. I was
absolutely going to bring this
up. The healthy gut piece is so
key to all of this, healthy gut,
healthy life, health. You know,
you know, if your guts in
trouble, your health's in
trouble. We know this, and this
detoxification piece that you
were talking about earlier, thatwe think it's all about more
estrogen. More estrogen, more
more more and more is just more,
and it can irritate, disrupt and
overwhelm the body. So I just
want to reiterate with you again
about how important this
detoxification piece is with
estrogen and progesterone and
(01:05:43):
these sex hormones. Oh, it's
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:05:45):
critical. It's
critical because it's like, you
won't just keep putting oil in
your engine without ever
changing the filter. Never do
that when I just thinking about
that, because my car has the oil
light on, like, I just want put
oil in. I'm like, you can't do
without changing the filter.
Okay, so, and it's the sametruth, the truth is with us too,
like, so you have to detox the
liver is so powerful, and now,
like, there's an epidemic of
fatty liver, even in kids,
support the liver. And you, you
know you have to support the gut
microbiome, like it's been
destroyed from antibiotics and
(01:06:22):
pesticides and herbicides anddifferent things. So we really
have to work on on this, you
know, really organic nature of
organic bodies that are also
energy bodies, and the energetic
nature of our energy bodies. And
that piece like, you know, I
think all of this makes a
difference. Joe Dispenza did a
study looking at the gutmicrobiome and in a week of
core, a week of the his course
is usually a week long, and they
do meditations every day for
seven days. They did a pre and
post test and found an
improvement in all, all of the
participants in their gut
microbiome. Now they're all
(01:06:58):
eating at the same, you know,hotel or close by, or wherever
they're at, you know, but there
was an improvement in the gut
microbiome. I don't necessarily
think people eat healthier when
they eat out. I think they less
healthy potentially, when they
eat out. So to have those
results showing through that
week of meditation, positivity,oxytocin, increasing practice of
meditation, good community. You
know, you're doing something
good. You're in these healing
circles and all that good stuff
that that affect your microbiome
that quickly. I think that's
really powerful information. We
can shift it between not just
(01:07:33):
what we eat, but all the otherthings that we talk about and
love doing. Yeah.
Tess Masters (01:07:41):
I mean, gosh, I'm
just gonna do the big
celebration of oxytocin.
Unknown (01:07:46):
I love, I love how
everyone on your team now has
the oxytocin signature in their
email. It's just all about
oxytocin. And so thank you
Tess Masters (01:07:58):
for for shining a
light on that and really putting
it in the spotlight where it
belongs, because it's just so
it's so beautiful.
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:08:06):
Well, it's,
it's the most important. And
I'll add one more thing on the
gut discussion. But I found out
early in my practice that, like,
for some women, like they I'm
using creams, but they're not
getting, you know, they're not
getting the benefit. Or I'm
using a topical patch or a gel,
or whatever it is, and you knowthey weren't getting the better.
They go higher and higher doses.
I'm like, what's going on? And
then when I learned about the
gut, I'm like, Oh, they're
bloating, they're constipated,
their guts unhealthy. And like,
if your if your guts unhealthy,
your skin's not a good
(01:08:39):
transmitter. So we'll bypass tothe vagina temporarily while we
are, you know, our other ways,
until we get that gut healthy.
But if your guts not healthy,
you're not healthy, right? You
won't absorb the hormones as
well.
Tess Masters (01:08:53):
That is the thing,
isn't it? That whole thing, if
you are what you eat, it's
technically not accurate. You're
literally what you digest and
absorb. And if your gut is not
in place, you know, not in
balance, we can't absorb things.
And we want to be, you know,
absorbing things through the
skin effectively. Oh yeah, look.I mean gut health, gut health,
gut health. That is the center
of everything that we do, and I
know it's very central to
everything you do as well. It's
just thank I'm so grateful that
more and more people are
realizing the importance of the
gut microbiome. Oh, Anna, I wish
(01:09:26):
I was coming to Bali with you.
Unknown (01:09:30):
Just hug it out and
have like this oxytocin
celebration, right? I mean, I
just
Tess Masters (01:09:34):
love Ubud so much.
So I always close every episode
with the same question, which
is, for someone who has a dream
in their heart and doesn't feel
like they have what it takes to
make it happen, what would you
say?
Dr. Anna Cabeca (01:09:47):
Right? I think
the most important thing is I
would touch base with that and
say, Where am I limiting myself?
I would think of that. And I
think to NASA, they say, you
know, the sky is not the limit,
because we've proven that.
Right? I've. Into space. So the
sky is not the limit, and I
would play with if I didn't havethese limitations, if I didn't
have to think of how it would
happen, what would I create in
my life without the how and like
dare to dream. I just say dare
to dream. So important.
Tess Masters (01:10:20):
Thank you. I feel
like a plant has been watered.
Yeah.