March 17, 2025 • 22 mins
🎙️ Podcast Description: Spring Break or Mom’s Breaking Point?
Mama, let’s be real—spring break for kids = fun. Spring break for moms? More like survival mode! Whether you’re juggling work and kids, managing teens home alone, or navigating snack attacks every five minutes, this episode is your Spring Break Survival Guide.
💡 In this episode, we’re covering:
✅ How to set expectations (so you don’t lose your mind before Wednesday)
✅ Fun & budget-friendly activities—even if you’re working!
✅ Mom survival hacks (because YOU deserve a break, too!)
📢 Plus! We’ve got a fun challenge for you—snap a pic of something you did from this episode and share it in our It’s A Single Mom Thing Facebook Group using #SpringBreakSurvivalMoments!
📍 Need prayer? Call our 24-hour prayer line: 855-822-PRAY—we’re here for you, mama!
🙏 A special thank you to Westshore Services FL HVAC for sponsoring our Raise & Rally Pickleball Tournament—supporting single moms and their kids!
🔔 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or iHeartRadio so you never miss an episode.
🎙️ Spring break doesn’t have to break you, mama—press play and let’s make this week work for YOU! 💪✨
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to it's a Single Mom Thing, the show for
single moms by single moms.
This is Sherri, your host, andI am happy you are here today.
Remember it's a single momthing and not the single thing
that stops you.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
All right, mama, let's talk about the wild ride
that is called Spring Break,because, let's be real, it's
less break and more.
Brace yourself.
The kids are home, the routineis gone, the snack supply is
under attack and your patience,well, let's just say it's
hanging in there like a loosehair in a biscuit.
(00:37):
For kids, spring Break equalsnonstop fun.
For moms, oof, it's a countdownto chaos.
If you've ever found yourselfstaring at your calendar
thinking, how am I going tosurvive a whole week of this?
Well, you're not alone.
But here's the good news youdon't have to just survive
(00:59):
spring break, you can actuallyenjoy it.
Shocking, I know right.
So in today's episode, we'recovering one how to set the tone
so you, my sisters, don't breakbefore spring break is over.
Two, fun, budget-friendlyactivities that won't drain your
wallet or your sanity.
And three, we'll cover a momsurvival hack, because, well,
(01:23):
you deserve breaks too.
So grab that cold brew coffee,put the snacks on a very hot
shelf and let's dive in together, turning spring break from
stressful to strategic.
Spring break not break down,even if you're working.
All right, mamas, if you'relistening to this in real time,
(01:44):
chances are you are in the thickof spring break madness.
Some of you are at homenavigating endless snack
requests, while others of youare at work trying to stay
productive while getting theproverbial mom I'm bored text
from your teenager.
And then there's some of youwho are juggling drop-offs and
pickups from spring break camps.
(02:05):
No matter what your situationlooks like, one thing is for
sure you set the tone for thisweek.
So here's our little mindsetshift.
Spring break can either breakyou or be a breakthrough in how
you manage time, expectationsand stress.
And here's how we're going todo that.
(02:26):
Step number one we're going toset expectations for you and
your kids.
So the first set of mamas I'mtalking to, those are the ones
that are working and have kidshome alone.
Here's some things that I wantyou to incorporate in your week.
Number one I want you to make aplan together, and that is with
your kids and or teens, whoeveris home alone.
(02:48):
And remember teens love theirindependence, but structure will
help.
Incorporate daily check-ins,have a morning plan and an
afternoon recap to stayconnected with them, and then
also set some screen time limits.
If they binge all day, you knowthe attitude will follow when
you come home.
(03:08):
And here's a pro tip have aboredom plan.
Have them write a list ofthings that they can do before
they text you and this is amust-have A chore accountability
.
Incorporate a spring break rule.
If they're home all day, theyhave to contribute to the
household.
Sign one task per day likelaundry, dishes, vacuuming or
(03:30):
organizing, and then three havean accountability tip.
This.
What's great about this is thatit ties chores to privileges.
I don't know whether they havethe Wi-Fi password or not, but
maybe withholding, maybe youchange the Wi-Fi password on
them and they earn it as aprivilege.
And another privilege could betheir gaming time and or outings
(03:51):
.
So the next group of mamas Iwant to talk to are the ones
that are home with them.
You, my ladies, are going toneed to embrace structure, but
keep it loose.
One fun thing per day approachis what I'm talking about, and
this keeps them entertainedwithout overwhelming.
You Also give them someindependence.
(04:12):
Not every moment has to bestructured.
Let them figure it out how toentertain themselves and then be
mindful to also schedule somequiet time.
This is a non-negotiable.
Whether it's a movie, a book, anap or some quiet games,
everyone gets a chance to reset.
Now for my mamas who are workingfrom home with kids around.
(04:34):
You need some extra supporthere, and you're going to do
that by setting boundaries fromwhen you are available.
Something as simple as a redlight or green light sign can
help the kids know when they caninterrupt you.
Create a mom's office hoursplan so that kids can ask
questions or talk to you duringbreaks, not every five minutes.
(04:57):
And also, girl, if you don'thave them, get some noise
canceling headphones, which willbecome your new best friend.
And then also give yourselfpermission to take breaks.
Step outside, stretch or take alunch break with your kids so
that they feel connected to you.
And then, lastly, manageexpectations with your boss or
(05:18):
clients.
If possible, let them know thatyou are juggling both work and
kids one week this spring break.
Mama, whether you're workingoutside the home, inside the
home or running all the things,the key is boundaries.
I hope that's what you've heardhere and that you need to put
in boundaries that give yourkids structure, but also give
yourself grace.
(05:42):
Now number two we're going tostep into action.
Step number two, and that isset house rules, because chaos
is not an option here.
So let's be real.
If they can negotiate latercurfews and unlimited Wi-Fi,
they can handle a contract.
Key rules that I want you toestablish with them and I hope
you got some pen and paper handyNumber one friends Friends over
(06:03):
or nah.
Pen and paper handy.
Number one friends, friendsover or nah.
Decide in advance what'sallowed, who, when and how long.
Number two time check when youat.
Set a rule about how long theycan be out and when they need to
check in.
Three meals and snacks.
They can't eat you out of houseand home.
(06:24):
So preset some meals, slashsnack bins.
Four social media and gaminglimits Because listen, tiktok
black holes, they are real.
And number five chores First,fun later.
If they want privileges, theyneed to pull their weight, not
(06:46):
you pulling your hair out ofyour head.
And number five spring breakbedtime rules.
Just because there's no schooldoes not mean we're throwing the
clock out the window.
Oh yes, we went there.
You need to set a realisticbedtime that gives them freedom
but doesn't turn them into sleepdeprived gremlins.
(07:09):
Now, with older kids, weeknightversus weekend rules.
If they want to stay up late,they need to still be functional
humans the next day.
So tie bedtime to morningresponsibilities, late nights
you know they equal early chores.
The key here is settingexpectations before things go
(07:31):
off the rails.
A little prep now equals awhole lot of sanity later.
Step three plan, but don't overplan.
Yes, a schedule helps, butdon't overdo it.
Have a plan with a littleflexibility built into it.
Do a little backbend with it.
Okay, a daily anchor activityis one thing to look forward to.
(07:55):
That's something that you canincorporate, and that might be a
game night, outdoor adventureor even a movie.
And then you also want to havesome quiet time for everyone,
because, yes, even big kids needsome chill mode and listen.
Mama, our kids need to do alittle throwback here, and that
is, they need to go outside andplay and make it mandatory, even
(08:17):
if it's just a walk, whichmeans fresh air, which equals
sanity, savior for your sister.
You see, mamas, mamas, youcan't control everything, but
you can create an environmentwhere spring break doesn't drive
you up the wall.
So let's make this week workfor you, no matter what your
(08:37):
schedule looks like.
Spring break fun withoutbreaking the bank.
All right, mama.
So we've tackled theexpectations.
So now let's talk about thereal challenge, and that's
keeping these kids entertainedwithout draining your energy or
your bank account, because let'sbe real the way these kids act.
You think spring break wassupposed to be some luxury
(08:59):
vacation, but here's thenewsflash we are not the cruise
director and this house is notan all-inclusive resort.
The good news here is that fundoesn't have to be expensive.
It's all about creativity,resourcefulness and a little bit
of trickery, aka making themthink they're having the time of
(09:20):
their lives while you keep yoursanity intact.
So here's how we're going to dothat.
Number one themed at-home days,because structure equals sanity
.
And remember, we're not goingto over-structure, but we are
going to put some structure in.
You don't need a rigid schedule, but a little daily thing keeps
the I'm bored complaints incheck.
(09:43):
Do things like a Make it Monday,and that could be DYI, crafts,
slime making, baking or fortbuilding challenges.
And then let's roll into aTasty Tuesday.
Let the kids plan and prep ameal or try a fun snack
experiment.
And oh, look out for Water.
Wednesdays, that's sprinklers,water, balloon fights, car wash
(10:04):
fun or a mini beach day.
And of course, every girl lovesa throwback Thursday.
Introduce them to yourchildhood.
That could include fun boardgames, old school movies, 90s
dance parties, depending on howold you are.
And then let's finish it offwith field trip Friday.
That's libraries, museum freedays, nature parks or farmer's
(10:26):
markets.
So, mamas, the trick here is toname the day Suddenly.
Then they will think it's anevent and not just another
Tuesday at home.
Now listen, I got you workingmamas in here as well, so this
can also work for you too.
These don't have to be all dayactivities.
Pick one to do when you gethome A 30 minute family game or
(10:47):
night backyard fun.
Well, that can go a long way.
Use these as an eveningincentive.
Finish your chores or schoolpacket.
If they brought some homeworkhome and tonight is a tasty
Tuesday dinner night, involvethem in the planning.
Let them get things set upwhile you're at work so it's
ready to go when you get home.
And then do a weekend catch-upIf weekdays are just too
(11:10):
jam-packed.
Make Saturday a field trip.
Friday replacement Mamas, youdon't have to entertain them
24-7.
Just one intentional activity inthe evening can create
connection and keep them busy,and may I suggest dinner at the
table with them.
Number two DYI spring breakcamp Swap kids and save your
(11:35):
sanity.
Before you panic at the thoughtof entertaining kids 24-7, you
don't have to do it alone.
Partner with another mom or twoand rotate kid duty One mom
takes the kids Monday, anotheron a Wednesday, etc.
Etc.
Kids get fun plus social timeand you, my dear, you, get a
(12:00):
break, or at least a few hoursof peace.
You see, mamas helping othermamas equals the real spring
break win.
Call it the mom tribe survivalplan Now for the working moms.
This can work for you too,believe it or not If you have
time off.
Team up with another mom to swapdays If you're working, seeing
if another mom friend his homeand can do an afternoon activity
(12:20):
with them, then return thefavor on the weekend or even an
evening.
You see, mamas, helping mamamasequals the real spring break
win.
Call it the Mom Trap SurvivalPlan.
Number three free and cheaplocal adventures, because your
tax dollars well, they alreadypaid for them and that could be.
(12:42):
Number one public libraries,which has free story times,
craft events and scavenger hunts.
Two state parks and naturetrails, some fresh air hiking
and energy burning activities.
Number three community centers,rec centers and museums.
Many offer free days duringschool breaks.
And number four how about, Idon't know, home Depot or Lowe's
(13:05):
?
They have kids workshops,hands-on DIY fun for free, which
you know that always means me.
You see, listen, if you'repaying taxes, you might as well
let Uncle Sam give your kidssome entertainment.
Now, working moms, this canwork for you too.
Evening walks at the park Letthe kids burn off energy while
(13:28):
you decompress from the day.
Saturday adventure days Use theweekend for a fun outing that
you didn't have time for duringthe week.
Library trips after work, Idon't know.
Pick out some books, grab amovie and turn it into a cozy
movie night.
Listen, and this goes for youtoo.
If you're paying taxes, youmight as well let Uncle Sam give
(13:50):
your kids some moreentertainment.
And number four outdooradventure challenges Turn the
chaos into a competition Might.
I suggest the Great SandcastleShowdown who can build the
biggest, most creativesandcastle?
Or the Nature Scavenger HuntFind the coolest rock, the
biggest leaf, creativesandcastle.
Or the nature scavenger huntFind the coolest rock, the
(14:11):
biggest leaf or the weirdest bug.
And this was my favorite.
I've done this with my friendsand that is a kickball and field
day games.
Invite a few families for afriendly showdown Because, let's
be honest, wearing them out.
That is the real strategy here.
Now for working moms, this canwork for you too.
(14:33):
Weekend fun or an after dinnerchallenge A 20-minute scavenger
hunt before bedtime.
Yes, set it up for them beforework.
Leave them a scavenger huntlist and let them send you
updates throughout the day,because, let's be honest,
wearing them out is the strategyhere.
Now, number five, this is momhack.
(14:56):
And this is when, in doubt,give them a mission.
See, something like secret spymission at the grocery store.
They have to find the cheapestbrand of an item.
Oh, that could be some fun.
Or two, how about the Legomaster challenge?
Set a build a theme.
Like they have to build towers,vehicles or even animals.
(15:16):
Like they have to build towers,vehicles or even animals.
And then, of course, no springbreak isn't complete without
random acts of kindness day.
Deliver a surprise treat or anote to a neighbor.
You see, kids love feeling likethey have a mission, so give
them one that keeps themoccupied while you sip your
coffee in peace.
Now, working moms, you guessedit.
(15:39):
This can work for you too.
How about you set up achallenge before work and let
them show you the results whenyou get home Use missions to
keep teens and preteens engagedinstead of glued to their
screens all day?
Kids love feeling like theyhave a mission, so give them one
that keeps them occupied, justlike the moms that are home, so
(16:02):
you could sip your coffee inpeace at work.
Now we're going to move into ournext section, and this is Mom's
Survival Guide Keeping yourSanity Intact.
So listen up, mamas.
We've got the kids entertainedright, or at least a game plan
for it.
But let's talk about you,because if you're running on
(16:25):
empty, burned out and countingdown the days till school starts
back, guess what?
Spring break will feel like apunishment instead of a time to
connect and reset.
So here's the reality check.
You matter too.
You can't pour from an emptycup, and your kids don't need a
perfect mom.
They need a present one.
(16:45):
So let's make sure you don'tlose yourself in the madness,
and here's how we're going to goabout doing that.
Number one give yourselfpermission to take breaks.
You don't have to entertainthem 24-7.
We have covered that before andI'm going to keep saying that
because you need to remember it.
It is okay to step away andbreathe, because here's a mom
(17:06):
truth If your job gave you zerobreaks, you'd quit, right.
Well, guess what?
Mom life is a full-time job, sotake the breaks when you need
them, quick, mom.
And here's some quick mom breakideas.
In case you need some, howabout a 10-minute walk alone?
Lock the front door behind you,please, make sure you have your
(17:27):
key if necessary.
Or sit in your car with a snackand no sharing.
Put on noise-cancelingheadphones and pretend you can't
hear them.
Or even four, you could swapkid duty with a friend so you
both get a break.
Mama taking a break isn'tselfish, it is strategic.
A burned-out mom helps no one.
(17:49):
Number two screen time guilt.
You need to let it go Because,listen, you are not a bad mom
for letting your kids watch amovie while you breathe.
Now, I didn't mean like all day, okay.
A well-placed Disney plusmarathon equals some self-care.
Let's just not have it be a 24,all day marathon.
(18:11):
It's about balance, notextremes.
You're not babysitting themwith screams, you're using them
strategically.
Screen time equals mom time, souse it to nap, journal, pray or
just sit in peace, or even getback to that coffee that you
haven't able to drink yet.
You see, jesus went up to themountains to rest so you can let
(18:33):
your kids watch Bluey for anhour.
Number three tag team the fun.
You're not alone in this.
Okay and that is one thing thatwe always talk about on every
podcast is that you're not alone, so don't be alone.
Spring break doesn't mean youhave to do it all alone.
Get creative with how you sharethe load.
Do trade play dates, take turns, hosting kids, so each mom gets
(18:59):
some time off.
Let older kids step up, givethem responsibilities to help
with their younger siblings.
And how about getting thegrandparents, the aunties, the
uncles to pitch in, because ittakes a village.
Remember, this is not the momOlympics.
You don't have to prove you cando it all.
(19:19):
Number four power hour.
Schedule some quiet time foreveryone.
We've talked about this alittle bit in the beginning, but
let's reinforce that, becausespring break is not an all day
free for all.
Every mom deserves rest, evenif it's during the day.
Declare a power hour.
Kids get books, puzzles orindependent play while you
(19:40):
recharge.
Even the big kids can havechill mode no phones, no loud
music, just rest time.
Protect your peace.
If it means bribing them withice cream for good behavior, so
be it.
You don't have to survive springbreak on fumes.
Schedule some sanity, mama, andhere's where we'll close.
(20:01):
Survive and thrive.
All right, mama, you made itthrough another episode and if
you play your cards right, youjust might make it through
spring break without losing yourmind.
Just remember, set the tone,create structure, but be
flexible.
Keep the kids engaged withoutemptying your wallet and, most
(20:21):
importantly, take care of youtoo.
So here's your homework.
Number one set one clearexpectation with your kids today
, whether it's bedtime, choresor screen time.
Number two pick one fun,budget-friendly activity and
make it happen.
And finally, number three planone moment for yourself because,
(20:46):
well, mama, you deserve it.
Remember, this isn't just aboutsurviving spring break.
It's about shifting from springbreak to mom's breaking point,
to actually enjoying the momentsthat matter.
We want to see you in action.
Did you try a fun activity?
Set some new boundaries orfinally get that mom break you
(21:07):
needed.
Snap a pic and share it on ourit's a Single Mom Thing Facebook
group.
Let's celebrate the wins, thebig and the small, because you
are rocking it, mama.
Use the hashtag Spring Break,survival Moments.
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Until next time, keep yourfaith strong, your coffee
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Have a wonderful week andremember it's a single mom thing
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It's a Single Mom Thing.
I hope you enjoyed our timetogether.
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notes.
Welcome to it's a Single Mom Thing, the show for
single moms by single moms.
This is Sherri, your host, andI am happy you are here today.
Remember it's a single momthing and not the single thing
that stops you.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
All right, mama, let's talk about the wild ride
that is called Spring Break,because, let's be real, it's
less break and more.
Brace yourself.
The kids are home, the routineis gone, the snack supply is
under attack and your patience,well, let's just say it's
hanging in there like a loosehair in a biscuit.
(00:37):
For kids, spring Break equalsnonstop fun.
For moms, oof, it's a countdownto chaos.
If you've ever found yourselfstaring at your calendar
thinking, how am I going tosurvive a whole week of this?
Well, you're not alone.
But here's the good news youdon't have to just survive
(00:59):
spring break, you can actuallyenjoy it.
Shocking, I know right.
So in today's episode, we'recovering one how to set the tone
so you, my sisters, don't breakbefore spring break is over.
Two, fun, budget-friendlyactivities that won't drain your
wallet or your sanity.
And three, we'll cover a momsurvival hack, because, well,
(01:23):
you deserve breaks too.
So grab that cold brew coffee,put the snacks on a very hot
shelf and let's dive in together, turning spring break from
stressful to strategic.
Spring break not break down,even if you're working.
All right, mamas, if you'relistening to this in real time,
(01:44):
chances are you are in the thickof spring break madness.
Some of you are at homenavigating endless snack
requests, while others of youare at work trying to stay
productive while getting theproverbial mom I'm bored text
from your teenager.
And then there's some of youwho are juggling drop-offs and
pickups from spring break camps.
(02:05):
No matter what your situationlooks like, one thing is for
sure you set the tone for thisweek.
So here's our little mindsetshift.
Spring break can either breakyou or be a breakthrough in how
you manage time, expectationsand stress.
And here's how we're going todo that.
(02:26):
Step number one we're going toset expectations for you and
your kids.
So the first set of mamas I'mtalking to, those are the ones
that are working and have kidshome alone.
Here's some things that I wantyou to incorporate in your week.
Number one I want you to make aplan together, and that is with
your kids and or teens, whoeveris home alone.
(02:48):
And remember teens love theirindependence, but structure will
help.
Incorporate daily check-ins,have a morning plan and an
afternoon recap to stayconnected with them, and then
also set some screen time limits.
If they binge all day, you knowthe attitude will follow when
you come home.
(03:08):
And here's a pro tip have aboredom plan.
Have them write a list ofthings that they can do before
they text you and this is amust-have A chore accountability
.
Incorporate a spring break rule.
If they're home all day, theyhave to contribute to the
household.
Sign one task per day likelaundry, dishes, vacuuming or
(03:30):
organizing, and then three havean accountability tip.
This.
What's great about this is thatit ties chores to privileges.
I don't know whether they havethe Wi-Fi password or not, but
maybe withholding, maybe youchange the Wi-Fi password on
them and they earn it as aprivilege.
And another privilege could betheir gaming time and or outings
(03:51):
.
So the next group of mamas Iwant to talk to are the ones
that are home with them.
You, my ladies, are going toneed to embrace structure, but
keep it loose.
One fun thing per day approachis what I'm talking about, and
this keeps them entertainedwithout overwhelming.
You Also give them someindependence.
(04:12):
Not every moment has to bestructured.
Let them figure it out how toentertain themselves and then be
mindful to also schedule somequiet time.
This is a non-negotiable.
Whether it's a movie, a book, anap or some quiet games,
everyone gets a chance to reset.
Now for my mamas who are workingfrom home with kids around.
(04:34):
You need some extra supporthere, and you're going to do
that by setting boundaries fromwhen you are available.
Something as simple as a redlight or green light sign can
help the kids know when they caninterrupt you.
Create a mom's office hoursplan so that kids can ask
questions or talk to you duringbreaks, not every five minutes.
(04:57):
And also, girl, if you don'thave them, get some noise
canceling headphones, which willbecome your new best friend.
And then also give yourselfpermission to take breaks.
Step outside, stretch or take alunch break with your kids so
that they feel connected to you.
And then, lastly, manageexpectations with your boss or
(05:18):
clients.
If possible, let them know thatyou are juggling both work and
kids one week this spring break.
Mama, whether you're workingoutside the home, inside the
home or running all the things,the key is boundaries.
I hope that's what you've heardhere and that you need to put
in boundaries that give yourkids structure, but also give
yourself grace.
(05:42):
Now number two we're going tostep into action.
Step number two, and that isset house rules, because chaos
is not an option here.
So let's be real.
If they can negotiate latercurfews and unlimited Wi-Fi,
they can handle a contract.
Key rules that I want you toestablish with them and I hope
you got some pen and paper handyNumber one friends Friends over
(06:03):
or nah.
Pen and paper handy.
Number one friends, friendsover or nah.
Decide in advance what'sallowed, who, when and how long.
Number two time check when youat.
Set a rule about how long theycan be out and when they need to
check in.
Three meals and snacks.
They can't eat you out of houseand home.
(06:24):
So preset some meals, slashsnack bins.
Four social media and gaminglimits Because listen, tiktok
black holes, they are real.
And number five chores First,fun later.
If they want privileges, theyneed to pull their weight, not
(06:46):
you pulling your hair out ofyour head.
And number five spring breakbedtime rules.
Just because there's no schooldoes not mean we're throwing the
clock out the window.
Oh yes, we went there.
You need to set a realisticbedtime that gives them freedom
but doesn't turn them into sleepdeprived gremlins.
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Now, with older kids, weeknightversus weekend rules.
If they want to stay up late,they need to still be functional
humans the next day.
So tie bedtime to morningresponsibilities, late nights
you know they equal early chores.
The key here is settingexpectations before things go
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off the rails.
A little prep now equals awhole lot of sanity later.
Step three plan, but don't overplan.
Yes, a schedule helps, butdon't overdo it.
Have a plan with a littleflexibility built into it.
Do a little backbend with it.
Okay, a daily anchor activityis one thing to look forward to.
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That's something that you canincorporate, and that might be a
game night, outdoor adventureor even a movie.
And then you also want to havesome quiet time for everyone,
because, yes, even big kids needsome chill mode and listen.
Mama, our kids need to do alittle throwback here, and that
is, they need to go outside andplay and make it mandatory, even
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if it's just a walk, whichmeans fresh air, which equals
sanity, savior for your sister.
You see, mamas, mamas, youcan't control everything, but
you can create an environmentwhere spring break doesn't drive
you up the wall.
So let's make this week workfor you, no matter what your
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schedule looks like.
Spring break fun withoutbreaking the bank.
All right, mama.
So we've tackled theexpectations.
So now let's talk about thereal challenge, and that's
keeping these kids entertainedwithout draining your energy or
your bank account, because let'sbe real the way these kids act.
You think spring break wassupposed to be some luxury
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vacation, but here's thenewsflash we are not the cruise
director and this house is notan all-inclusive resort.
The good news here is that fundoesn't have to be expensive.
It's all about creativity,resourcefulness and a little bit
of trickery, aka making themthink they're having the time of
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their lives while you keep yoursanity intact.
So here's how we're going to dothat.
Number one themed at-home days,because structure equals sanity
.
And remember, we're not goingto over-structure, but we are
going to put some structure in.
You don't need a rigid schedule, but a little daily thing keeps
the I'm bored complaints incheck.
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Do things like a Make it Monday,and that could be DYI, crafts,
slime making, baking or fortbuilding challenges.
And then let's roll into aTasty Tuesday.
Let the kids plan and prep ameal or try a fun snack
experiment.
And oh, look out for Water.
Wednesdays, that's sprinklers,water, balloon fights, car wash
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fun or a mini beach day.
And of course, every girl lovesa throwback Thursday.
Introduce them to yourchildhood.
That could include fun boardgames, old school movies, 90s
dance parties, depending on howold you are.
And then let's finish it offwith field trip Friday.
That's libraries, museum freedays, nature parks or farmer's
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markets.
So, mamas, the trick here is toname the day Suddenly.
Then they will think it's anevent and not just another
Tuesday at home.
Now listen, I got you workingmamas in here as well, so this
can also work for you too.
These don't have to be all dayactivities.
Pick one to do when you gethome A 30 minute family game or
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night backyard fun.
Well, that can go a long way.
Use these as an eveningincentive.
Finish your chores or schoolpacket.
If they brought some homeworkhome and tonight is a tasty
Tuesday dinner night, involvethem in the planning.
Let them get things set upwhile you're at work so it's
ready to go when you get home.
And then do a weekend catch-upIf weekdays are just too
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jam-packed.
Make Saturday a field trip.
Friday replacement Mamas, youdon't have to entertain them
24-7.
Just one intentional activity inthe evening can create
connection and keep them busy,and may I suggest dinner at the
table with them.
Number two DYI spring breakcamp Swap kids and save your
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sanity.
Before you panic at the thoughtof entertaining kids 24-7, you
don't have to do it alone.
Partner with another mom or twoand rotate kid duty One mom
takes the kids Monday, anotheron a Wednesday, etc.
Etc.
Kids get fun plus social timeand you, my dear, you, get a
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break, or at least a few hoursof peace.
You see, mamas helping othermamas equals the real spring
break win.
Call it the mom tribe survivalplan Now for the working moms.
This can work for you too,believe it or not If you have
time off.
Team up with another mom to swapdays If you're working, seeing
if another mom friend his homeand can do an afternoon activity
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with them, then return thefavor on the weekend or even an
evening.
You see, mamas, helping mamamasequals the real spring break
win.
Call it the Mom Trap SurvivalPlan.
Number three free and cheaplocal adventures, because your
tax dollars well, they alreadypaid for them and that could be.
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Number one public libraries,which has free story times,
craft events and scavenger hunts.
Two state parks and naturetrails, some fresh air hiking
and energy burning activities.
Number three community centers,rec centers and museums.
Many offer free days duringschool breaks.
And number four how about, Idon't know, home Depot or Lowe's
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?
They have kids workshops,hands-on DIY fun for free, which
you know that always means me.
You see, listen, if you'repaying taxes, you might as well
let Uncle Sam give your kidssome entertainment.
Now, working moms, this canwork for you too.
Evening walks at the park Letthe kids burn off energy while
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you decompress from the day.
Saturday adventure days Use theweekend for a fun outing that
you didn't have time for duringthe week.
Library trips after work, Idon't know.
Pick out some books, grab amovie and turn it into a cozy
movie night.
Listen, and this goes for youtoo.
If you're paying taxes, youmight as well let Uncle Sam give
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your kids some moreentertainment.
And number four outdooradventure challenges Turn the
chaos into a competition Might.
I suggest the Great SandcastleShowdown who can build the
biggest, most creativesandcastle?
Or the Nature Scavenger HuntFind the coolest rock, the
biggest leaf, creativesandcastle.
Or the nature scavenger huntFind the coolest rock, the
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biggest leaf or the weirdest bug.
And this was my favorite.
I've done this with my friendsand that is a kickball and field
day games.
Invite a few families for afriendly showdown Because, let's
be honest, wearing them out.
That is the real strategy here.
Now for working moms, this canwork for you too.
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Weekend fun or an after dinnerchallenge A 20-minute scavenger
hunt before bedtime.
Yes, set it up for them beforework.
Leave them a scavenger huntlist and let them send you
updates throughout the day,because, let's be honest,
wearing them out is the strategyhere.
Now, number five, this is momhack.
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And this is when, in doubt,give them a mission.
See, something like secret spymission at the grocery store.
They have to find the cheapestbrand of an item.
Oh, that could be some fun.
Or two, how about the Legomaster challenge?
Set a build a theme.
Like they have to build towers,vehicles or even animals.
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Like they have to build towers,vehicles or even animals.
And then, of course, no springbreak isn't complete without
random acts of kindness day.
Deliver a surprise treat or anote to a neighbor.
You see, kids love feeling likethey have a mission, so give
them one that keeps themoccupied while you sip your
coffee in peace.
Now, working moms, you guessedit.
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This can work for you too.
How about you set up achallenge before work and let
them show you the results whenyou get home Use missions to
keep teens and preteens engagedinstead of glued to their
screens all day?
Kids love feeling like theyhave a mission, so give them one
that keeps them occupied, justlike the moms that are home, so
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you could sip your coffee inpeace at work.
Now we're going to move into ournext section, and this is Mom's
Survival Guide Keeping yourSanity Intact.
So listen up, mamas.
We've got the kids entertainedright, or at least a game plan
for it.
But let's talk about you,because if you're running on
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empty, burned out and countingdown the days till school starts
back, guess what?
Spring break will feel like apunishment instead of a time to
connect and reset.
So here's the reality check.
You matter too.
You can't pour from an emptycup, and your kids don't need a
perfect mom.
They need a present one.
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So let's make sure you don'tlose yourself in the madness,
and here's how we're going to goabout doing that.
Number one give yourselfpermission to take breaks.
You don't have to entertainthem 24-7.
We have covered that before andI'm going to keep saying that
because you need to remember it.
It is okay to step away andbreathe, because here's a mom
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truth If your job gave you zerobreaks, you'd quit, right.
Well, guess what?
Mom life is a full-time job, sotake the breaks when you need
them, quick, mom.
And here's some quick mom breakideas.
In case you need some, howabout a 10-minute walk alone?
Lock the front door behind you,please, make sure you have your
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key if necessary.
Or sit in your car with a snackand no sharing.
Put on noise-cancelingheadphones and pretend you can't
hear them.
Or even four, you could swapkid duty with a friend so you
both get a break.
Mama taking a break isn'tselfish, it is strategic.
A burned-out mom helps no one.
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Number two screen time guilt.
You need to let it go Because,listen, you are not a bad mom
for letting your kids watch amovie while you breathe.
Now, I didn't mean like all day, okay.
A well-placed Disney plusmarathon equals some self-care.
Let's just not have it be a 24,all day marathon.
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It's about balance, notextremes.
You're not babysitting themwith screams, you're using them
strategically.
Screen time equals mom time, souse it to nap, journal, pray or
just sit in peace, or even getback to that coffee that you
haven't able to drink yet.
You see, jesus went up to themountains to rest so you can let
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your kids watch Bluey for anhour.
Number three tag team the fun.
You're not alone in this.
Okay and that is one thing thatwe always talk about on every
podcast is that you're not alone, so don't be alone.
Spring break doesn't mean youhave to do it all alone.
Get creative with how you sharethe load.
Do trade play dates, take turns, hosting kids, so each mom gets
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some time off.
Let older kids step up, givethem responsibilities to help
with their younger siblings.
And how about getting thegrandparents, the aunties, the
uncles to pitch in, because ittakes a village.
Remember, this is not the momOlympics.
You don't have to prove you cando it all.
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Number four power hour.
Schedule some quiet time foreveryone.
We've talked about this alittle bit in the beginning, but
let's reinforce that, becausespring break is not an all day
free for all.
Every mom deserves rest, evenif it's during the day.
Declare a power hour.
Kids get books, puzzles orindependent play while you
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recharge.
Even the big kids can havechill mode no phones, no loud
music, just rest time.
Protect your peace.
If it means bribing them withice cream for good behavior, so
be it.
You don't have to survive springbreak on fumes.
Schedule some sanity, mama, andhere's where we'll close.
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Survive and thrive.
All right, mama, you made itthrough another episode and if
you play your cards right, youjust might make it through
spring break without losing yourmind.
Just remember, set the tone,create structure, but be
flexible.
Keep the kids engaged withoutemptying your wallet and, most
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importantly, take care of youtoo.
So here's your homework.
Number one set one clearexpectation with your kids today
, whether it's bedtime, choresor screen time.
Number two pick one fun,budget-friendly activity and
make it happen.
And finally, number three planone moment for yourself because,
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well, mama, you deserve it.
Remember, this isn't just aboutsurviving spring break.
It's about shifting from springbreak to mom's breaking point,
to actually enjoying the momentsthat matter.
We want to see you in action.
Did you try a fun activity?
Set some new boundaries orfinally get that mom break you
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