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May 20, 2024 32 mins

Everybody is talking about boundaries. But do you know where to draw the line? What's reasonable? In today's podcast, I share 30 boundary violations you may not know you're making along with a strategy to help you figure out others.


Podcast Highlights

  • Being aggressive with service workers
  • Stalking
  • Doing what you please rather than risking a "no"
  • Urging children to kiss or hug adults
  • Sharing someone's information without their consent
  • Criticizing, nitpicking or judging others
  • Pressuring others to share their thoughts, feelings or beliefs
  • Withholding love or affection to punish them
  • Manipulating someone's emotions to gain power or control
  • Joking, teasing or making demeaning comments
  • Using big emotions to dominate or control
  • Pressuring someone to forgive
  • Reading private correspondence
  • Undermining confidence
  • Challenging someone's beliefs of lifestyle
  • Using mind games to manipulate or control
  • Not allowing someone to speak
  • Asking personal questions
  • Pressuring someone for physical contact
  • Ignoring requests for alone time
  • Calling or texting too much
  • Exposing someone to triggering content without their consent
  • Ignoring deadlines or meeting times
  • Overcommitting or piling things onto one person
  • Working during nonwork hours
  • Using someone's belongings without permission
  • Not cleaning up after yourself in a shared space
  • Not paying your bills on time
  • Engaging in romantic relationships with someone who doesn't have equal power
  • Not standing up for yourself


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