February 3, 2025 • 47 mins
Ever feel like celebrity breakups are running on repeat?
This week, we dive headfirst into the latest gossip bomb: Paige from Giggly Squad and Craig from Southern Charm calling it quits. With cheating rumors swirling, we ask the age-old question—where there’s smoke, is there always fire? Of course, no relationship chat is complete without our own dating disasters, including the make-or-break power of group hangouts. Let’s just say, one couple at game night had us in stitches with their hilariously mismatched answers.
Meanwhile, parenting throws its own curveballs, especially when adult conversations crash into kid ears. Our friend Jess Hartman drops by to share a laugh-out-loud tale involving a 12-year-old, a tampon explanation gone rogue, and a crash course in teen slang like simp and BTA. Somehow, this spirals into a discussion on bucket-list-worthy historical moments—because nothing says family bonding like a debate over inaugurations and awkward puberty talks.
And because we love a good pop culture detour, we jump into everything from Carrie Underwood’s acapella magic to the darkly addictive pull of Squid Game. We also break down the viral fame of a deaf lip reader (seriously, how do they do it?!) and get nostalgic over Detective Stabler’s undeniable charm. Whether we’re debating movie choices, cracking up over relationship quirks, or celebrating badass women on screen, this episode is all about life’s messy, hilarious, and oh-so-relatable moments.
Tune in for the chaos—you won’t regret it!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Jerking Around a podcast that makes you
feel better about yourself,because we're a mess just like
you, and Crystal makes fun of methe whole time and it's great
and it's real Welcome.
(00:24):
Welcome back.
Hello Tyler's challenging us,our pod daddy.
We were like hello To be moreexcited, yeah, and Tisha.
I know what gets me excited isdifferent than what gets her
excited, exactly as we'velearned.
Yeah, yeah, hello, that story'sstupid.
Let's move on.
Let's talk about celebrity.
There's so many things I wantto talk about.
(00:45):
Let's talk about, I think,because we promote Giggly Squad
so much on this podcast.
A lot of people have beenasking me about Paige and Craig,
for sure.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Yes, paige is the host of Giggly Squad.
She was dating Craig, who wason Southern Charm.
They broke up, just recap, andit's big news, big news, big
news right now.
Well then, because?
Why was it big news?
Because she was seen.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Okay, so well there's so many rumors.
There's been rumors on SouthernCharm that Paige cheated on him
.
This was last season.
Like, do you think she cheated?
I don't think a rumor comes outof nothing and I thought that
when it aired I was like why isthere a rumor page cheated on
him?
That's weird.
I always believe a rumor mightnot be the exact rumor, but
there's something there's alwaystruth.
(01:28):
No one's ever said Kyle'scheated on me in my life.
No, like no one.
It's not a rumor because he'snever even putting himself in
that situation.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Well, every time a rumor comes out, some form of it
happened.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Every time.
I'm not saying she did at all,and the gigglers they're coming
for some of the jerkies aregigglers as well, so we are not
trying to piss anyone off, we'regigglers.
Oh, a hundred percent.
I'm obsessed with Paige.
She's probably like my favoritecelebrity in the planet.
Yeah, but supposedly there wasa rumor they cheated, she
cheated, but I think the girlwas just making it up.
That's what.
(02:07):
I was team Paige.
But Paige was at two sportingevents last week which, if you
know Paige and you do listen toGiggly Squad she doesn't like to
leave the house, which, again,I felt like that was a sign they
weren't in a good relationshipbecause they only wanted to be
alone.
And I had guys that, like wedidn't get along when we were
with other people, but we gotalong when we were alone and it
was like a big red flag.
(02:33):
Or I had like ones.
I was embarrassed when we werewith other people, but then
that's not a good sign.
But that thing Jen sent you, ohmy gosh, can you play?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
it.
Oh, it's so funny, isn't it outloud?
Or is it just something youread?
No, I'm gonna play it becauseTisha went through this.
Oh it's so funny she wanted tobe.
You know she loves my bestfriend, jen.
The Spanish is on here.
We're giving her a shout outshe's a jerky that's the wrong
way to say it.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
She loves Mexicans, guys.
She loves I said Spanish.
I love her Mexican morepolitically she says tortilla,
tortilla.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I love Mexican men and food yeah, it's just, it's a
thing.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
I'm not Mexican, but she tries to make him look
Mexican, so I kind of feel likehe is.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You know what I mean?
Yeah, it Not Mexican, but shetries to make him look Mexican
but he's very tan.
So I kind of feel like he is.
You know what I mean?
Yeah it gives you that same vibe?
Yeah, he's not like white andpasty.
I mean nothing against whiteand pasty people.
Kyle, we love you.
Kyle is fully white and pasty.
Okay, here, wait, I'm going toturn this.
(03:37):
It was Cody from Peloton, who'sour favorite.
He's my favorite.
Yeah, don't, ladies, don'tsettle.
You get bangs and an uglyboyfriend.
And my best, one of our bestfriends, tagged me in it because
I went through a phase withbangs and an and an ugly
boyfriend.
So you can't say that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Oh no, just the bangs .
People listen.
We're going to get told thatwas rude.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yeah, that was rude.
He wasn't ugly, just the bangs.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
He just maybe wasn't your real type.
Totally.
You know Everybody's pretty tosomebody.
Totally.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Anyway, I tried to like put on some weight too, to
like fit in with that's so rude.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
No, I just was like eating and drinking.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I was drinking a lot, that's why.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, that whole era was like not good.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, it was dark.
I was drinking too oftenbecause he liked to drink more.
I drank with my ex too, so wewould drink like after work he
would get off work, he had likea stressful job and then he
would drink.
And a stressful job and then hewould drink and like we would
drink a lot and I'm not adrinker at all, which is so
weird that I drink so much.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But in your 20s, you're always drinking, yeah, so
I and then you didn't want tobe in groups.
We went to dinner with them andI was newly dating Kyle, and we
played this game at dinner.
Well, first of all, I don't hewas like your dad, but my
remember.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
My husband, kyle, still talks about the light I
was gonna.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
That's the story I was telling.
You got mad because the lightwas on.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You know, like when you're growing up and your dad
is like you turn on the light inthe car and the dome light and
your dad's like turn it off,it's illegal, it's not illegal,
is it illegal?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
No, I tell my kids that I'm going to get pulled
over, like who knew each otherbetter and we got all of them
right and you got none right.
Wait, you had been togetherthree years.
We had been together two months.
I don't remember that it was sobad.
It was bad.
It was bad, but like I hadboyfriends where when we went in
groups, we didn't get along.
Yeah, it's weird.
If you're in a not relationship, call us.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Get out.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
But Paige, now that she's broken up, she's going to
all these things and doing allthis and I'm like that's who
I've always seen you Well.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I don't think she probably sees that and is so
annoyed because he's probablylike they always get better
after a breakup.
Every guy so annoying.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I know I'm like I really want you to go to church.
They don't.
Then I see him after we breakup.
I know.
I'm like do you want to go tothe gym?
They're like no, after we breakup.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Six pack abs yeah, oh my gosh, I know it's the worst,
I know, but when you're in abad relationship or not even bad
, but just not the right one Idon't feel like you're at your
best.
So then sometimes, when youbreak up, you are.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
The better version of yourself.
So Paige went to a sportingevent with some guy who's a
sports.
I'm trying to get my factsright because I don't really
care, but when I listen I'm likeI need to get this right.
He works in the sports industry.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Is he like marketing or something?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Eh, yeah, I thought he was.
No, I feel like he's like JerryMaguire, that, oh, like an
agent Kind of.
That's kind of how I think it'slike an agency Interesting, but
I could be wrong.
But so everybody was hypedbecause Paige was with this guy
and at the sporting game, at the, what's it called?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
The Eagle.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
The Eagles game yeah, in a box.
Great job with the facts Withthe guy.
I'm really trying to get thefacts right.
And so there was all this talkabout this guy.
I looked him up, I looked upthings.
They follow each other, whichshe's selective on that too.
So then the ex-fiance of theguy just came out this week and
said this we're going to readthe actual.
You want me to read the postTisha's reading, because I can't
(06:55):
read very well.
Okay, cut all.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Regarding what's been out there this past week,
during my relationship,disrespectful messages were sent
to a man who was spoken forwith absolutely no regard or
respect for another woman or herrelationship, insinuating for
him to leave me for her.
As my relationship went on, thebanter continued and I was
purposely made to feel insecureand my relationship was
undermined.
As someone who holds themselvesto such a high standard and
(07:19):
claims to be a girl's girl, heractions contradict this.
I had the courage to leave atoxic situation and, as a girl's
girl myself, I will continue tolift up other women and their
relationships, not try to tearthem down.
For my own good, I refuse tohave anyone lie on my name or
write their own false narrativesabout my life.
It is what it is.
I wish everyone the best.
So this is the girls, the guys,ex-fiance.
(07:40):
How long have they been broken?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
up Jerry Maguire, the sports guy.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Yeah, so this is the girls.
The guys' ex-fiance.
How long have they?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
been broken up.
Jerry Maguire, the sports guyyeah, how long have they been
broken up?
I don't think they've beenbroken up that long.
Well, it's weird If you're anex-fiance, like two years ago,
you're not common.
So she's alleging.
Someone who's a girl's girl andlikes to giggle.
I'm just kidding, it wasn't inthere something.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
And you're saying Paige always says she's a girl's
girl.
Paige always says she's agirl's girl.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
So she's talking about Paige.
Everybody says she's talkingabout Paige Allegedly.
I'm not saying she's talkingabout Paige.
I'm saying, like Prez Hiltonsays, she's talking about Paige.
Yeah, all the people are sayingthis is about Paige.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Well, it's weird If this went on in the relationship
.
How long was this girl DMingthis guy?
So was she DMing him when shewas with Craig?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Because they just broke up, yeah, but that's where
the cheating has come out.
Yeah, someone said publiclythat Paige cheated and then
Paige wrote to them I'll see youin court, yeah.
So I feel like the rumors arefrom something, but I don't
think a girl just breaks up witha guy for no reason out of
nowhere, unless you have like abackup.
Yes, girls are clingers.
Yeah, I like.
The only reason I've everreally done that is because it
(08:44):
was so toxic and bad.
Right, it was like for my owngood, yeah, or I had a guy that
seemed like a better option.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I don't think I've ever had the better option, but
yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Why did you and bangs breakup?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Well, I was like marry me or else.
And then he was like or else,shoot wrong choice.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Well, that would have been right, though If Craig did
that right which maybe he did,I don't know I just think around
the holidays to do a breakupgirls plan, better, well, that
guy and I'm not being mean, butI don't feel like that guy was
that cute compared to Craig no,the new guy so cute that's.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
But that's so funny how beauty is in the eye of the
beholder because it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I just see her with, like an Italian style.
You've always said, said thatI'm an Italian.
He is more Italian.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, and it's just funny though, because, like, if
you're just looking at the two,I'm picking Craig all day, but
she's picking the other guy, andit's just funny.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Well, she says that she glowed up Craig, like Craig
is so good because of her.
I agree with that.
Yeah, well, anyways, that's thealleged truth about what's
going on with Paige.
She's all over the news, though.
That's sad if that's true forthe girl, yeah, but if your
guy's messaging another girl,get out now, totally yeah.
It's not.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
You can't control, and I do think guys make you
feel insecure when you're right,mm-hmm oh every guy oh, if I
had a nickel, well, and I'vedone that, I'm like it is true,
really, no, I do.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I think you're not like I can't divulge more, but
yeah, yeah, when guys I knowwhat you're talking about and we
cannot divulge more.
But guys always act like girlsare crazy and I want to be like
for the crazies it's called likegaslighting right, yeah, yeah,
it's the gaslighting mycheerleaders last year called me
the Because I would teach themto be positive, right, and
they're all.
that's fake.
I'm all no.
Believing in yourself is real.
Yeah, that's not gasoline.
(10:25):
Yeah, but they know the term.
That's funny.
But no, like guys always, I'dbe like to my ex.
Let's call him Peter.
Yeah, I'd be like you're goingto Hooters again tonight.
And it would be like it's'twant you going to Hooters Right.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
You know, Ben says I flip things.
Now, Like when he gets mad atme about something, I flip it
and get mad at him.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
You do do that.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
He's like don't try to flip it you know, you do do
that.
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You're not a big no.
For a while you didn't trusthim fully, like from your own
back, like baggage that's bad,but like past relationships,
yeah.
So I think that was like adefense mechanism and now I feel
like if he says you didsomething you like, listen now
yeah, this was last week, hetold me that.
But that's fine.
What'd you flip?
Let's hear the story.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I can't remember what it was.
He was mad at me aboutsomething and I the car, because
we're still no, there's a lotabout about the car, dealing
with the car.
No, it was something about thepurse, and I know it was
something just like two days agoI can't remember dang it, the
kids.
He was irritated with me and Iflipped and I was like mad at
him and he goes no, no, youcan't flip it, you know?
Yeah, maybe that was real thenyeah, anyways.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
So I mean, yeah, they always act like you're crazy,
like when they're out till threein the morning, and then you're
mad, right, and they're likeyou're crazy and controlling.
I'm like, yeah, I don't thinkany boyfriend should be out till
three in the morning.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
No, it's normal so if that's happening to you, get
out yeah bad bad sign red.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Bad sign Kyle.
My husband is back to being ajerky.
It's really great.
He hasn't really critiqued usthat much, and I listened to the
beginning of last week'sepisode.
Oh my gosh, I gotta tell youthis story.
Usually I tell you storiesbefore we're live, but this
one's live.
So I ran into a friend of ourswho is like an influencer and
she goes to our daughter's cheergym as well, so you know who it
is I'm trying to talk, um, andoh yeah, yeah, I don't think she
(12:19):
cares.
Her name's Jess Hartman.
She has a Instagram, hartmanHaas she's amazing and her
daughter's at her cheer gym.
And she came up and then two ofthe older girls came up you
know that listened to thepodcast.
They're like we listen thisweek and last week Tisha and I
started off about sex, literally.
So they're like this one's alittle naughty because we're
talking about 79 and all that.
Oh, shoot with our husbands,right, and I was like, yeah, I
(12:41):
was naughty, it was about sexand Jess's daughter was.
I forgot like she cause now mykids like we talk about sex at
home.
We joke about like this soundsweird, but my kids are all older
, so like they do weird thingsand we like joke, so I forget
that younger kids don't knowRight.
And she was like we'll see youlater and I grabbed her kid and
I was like oh, I feel so bad.
(13:02):
Yeah, I didn't mean to talkabout it so openly.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Oh yeah, no, because our girls are older and even
like yeah, ben will make jokesabout making out with me and
they're like gross.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Yeah, they all know.
Does Fox know Her son isn'tkindergarten?
I don't think he knows.
No, no, no, that's so little.
And how you shouldn't have sexbefore you're married because
it's complicated.
Yeah, and we both didn't.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
No, yeah, Bear came home last night and he was like
Bear's, your son.
My son, he's 12.
And he's like what's a tampon?
And I was like why?
And he's like, well, this kidcalled me a tampon and I'm like,
I'm like you know, he's like Idon't remember.
So then I was like walking himthrough what a tampon is.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
How did you walk him through?
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Well, I was like.
Well, I was like you know, agirl gets her period.
He's like no, what's a period?
I'm like well, you bleed.
It was just very.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Was he traumatized?
Well, he was just.
You're a tampon.
Why was he calling him that?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
Because he, I don't know they got.
They were just talking crapduring football and just dumb.
Yeah, tampons are weird.
I know I'm like what's wrongwith kids?
That's what I mean.
And how does this kid know whata tampon is?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Broxton, they learned quite some interesting things.
Yeah, BTA, do you know whatthat is?
No, what is that?
Oh, because Broxton said thatthe other day.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Hi Tyler, you know what BTA is.
Oh God, don't you hate whenyou're the only one, yeah, but
to wait, bta but to ask.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I feel like those are the same.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
PTA?
I don't know.
It's something front to back.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Oh no.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Yeah, and like if you got like whipped, you know you
got front to back.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Oh no, this is a horrible story this is awful and
I'm messing it up.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
I'm like yeah, this is awful.
That's what it's called PTA.
I swear it's PTA.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
But what any of the language means.
Yeah, I don't know.
I had to look up something Kensent me the other day and I was
like someone a simp.
I'm like what's a simp?
What's a simp?
A simp is someone who will doanything to be in a relationship
.
Like it's weird.
I'm like what are these terms?
Who's a simp?
It was on our family chat.
Someone called someone a simpor something and I was just like
what are we talking?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
What is it Like to each other.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah, like joking around, but I had to Google.
I have to Google all the things.
It's so weird.
I never heard that.
Yeah, simp, it's like you'll doanything, you'll cut off your
friends, you'll buy girl stuff,anything to be with someone.
Oh, I've been a simp so manytimes.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Yeah, I'm like I don't even think it's hard
watching your kids kind of getlike that.
Though yeah, I'm like, don't bea simp, Do your own thing,
don't worry about someone else.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
It's horrible.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
It's hard.
It's hard just letting them to.
Yeah, okay, moving on, I dowant to talk about the
inauguration yesterday.
Yeah, that was a big day.
Tisha wanted to fly in for it,but she wasn't able to do that.
Pretty amazing.
And I don't always love CarrieUnderwood.
I love her as a person.
I do think the whole face fallthing was weird, yeah, um, and I
(16:08):
like her music, but sometimes Ifeel like it's a lot of yelling
.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Yeah it is a lot of yelling.
I'm like so hard CarrieUnderwood fan, but yesterday I
really thought it was amazingwell, not a lot of people can do
the yelling, so I think she'salways doing it because it's
like I can do this, butsometimes it's a lot yeah, but
so the music wouldn't play foroh beautiful, yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Is that what the song ?
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I don't know the song , what's it called?
Speaker 1 (16:29):
yeah, america the beautiful, yeah and so she stood
there and then just said I'lljust sing it, yeah, and
everyone's like playing hergoing, I'll just sing it, yeah.
And then she sang it acapellaand said before she sang it she
said help me out, guys, if you,if you know it, sing it.
And I thought it was honestlyso beautiful and seeing Biden
and what's her name?
(16:50):
Kamala, yeah, behind themsinging it.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Did they sing it?
They were singing it.
Oh, that's good.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Yeah, I thought it was cool actually to have
everybody singing it.
There's this have you guys seenthe blind or no?
The deaf girl on Instagram thatcan lip read.
She lips reads everything.
So yesterday she she was ripreading at the inauguration.
No, I want to follow her.
Oh, it's amazing, she'll lipread Taylor Swift at the jet at
(17:18):
the football game.
Yeah, and like she's right,cause she's deaf, she reads lips
Right.
And like it's she's in squidgames.
She just posted yeah, oh mygosh.
I mean we're watching it withBroxton and it's like Kyle's,
like this is bad.
But have you watched the umbeast games?
It's so good.
(17:40):
I was watching beast games bymyself the other day.
Mr Beast, yeah, and it's like um, it's about like it's.
It's mocking I don't know ifmocking is the right word, but
it's simulating Squid Games.
But they don't kill them.
On Squid Games, it's peoplethat are in debt.
I can't spell this.
I want to find the girl.
I'll find it for you later.
(18:00):
In Squid Games, it's peoplethat are broke, really broke
like, have gambling debt, andthen they go to this like games
like the Hunger Games, and ifyou live, you're the winner and
you get all the money.
But out of like a hundred one,thousand no one really gets
killed.
It's like you like no, you getmurdered, they kill you and it's
(18:23):
like, yeah, and it's illegal,so that's the thing.
It's like it's far away and noone can find where it's at, and
like there are people that arelike who would go on this?
It's not real.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
This is the Squid.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Games.
The Netflix show oh, it's ashow Squid Games I thought you
were saying it was real BeastGames simulates it but they
don't kill them.
Okay, but it's the same.
They're wearing the numbers,just like Squid Games, and
there's these challenges andyou're gone.
But Squid Game, the firstchallenge is there's this weird
big doll and all you have to dois play red light, green light.
(18:57):
So they're like yeah, this iseasy, a thousand of them out
there.
And the doll turns its head andthen it's like green, and then
its eyes can tell if there'smotion.
And if you move, after its redlight, so blood's going
everywhere and they killeveryone oh my God, yeah.
And After it's red light, theyjust.
So blood's going everywhere andthey kill everyone oh my God,
yeah.
And then red light, oh it's redlight.
If you move on, red light,right, right, and then green,
and then you have to get acrossthe line before the timer runs
(19:19):
out or they just kill you too.
So you don't know anyone diesin this game until the first
game.
And then the people are seeingeveryone die and they're like
shaking, and so if they'rescared and shaking, they're dead
.
They moved.
It's very graphic, it's weird.
A lot of cussing, yeah.
But yes, kyle and I arewatching you, well, you know, if
you can't beat them, join them.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Well, you do like weird shows and movies?
Tell them about your date night.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
We're jumping ahead, but yes, so we had a lot of
cheer this weekend.
So Saturday night we went outto date night and I love Nicole
Kidman.
I just watched a show onNetflix with her.
Did you watch it?
Oh, it was so good.
I'll have to find the name theperfect couple or whatever.
Yeah, it was really good.
Did you watch it?
Yeah, it's from a book, it'sbased off a book.
Thank you, yeah, but she wasnormal in that, she wasn't
(20:06):
anything.
So I thought, ooh, I just lovethat show with her.
Let's go see Baby Girl.
I'll never forget it.
Yeah, baby Girl.
Oh, my gosh, don't bring yourkids to Baby Girl.
We almost brought Broxtonbecause, like rated R, some like
violence.
We're like, yeah, it's violence.
Yeah, I don't know if that'sright either and don't judge us,
so tell what it's about.
(20:26):
Well, Nicole Kidman is awonderful, powerful boss and I
think because I think the themewas she has to run her own
business, so she wants to be runin the bedroom- I feel like you
can identify with thischaracter.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Shut up, no, no.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Maybe I could, but I'm no one's baby girl, I'll
tell you that.
So she runs into this guy andhe has like control.
He's a young guy and he has haslike control over this dog on
the street and it like turnedher on a little bit and it
starts off that she can't reallyget to the happily ever after
with her husband in the bedroom.
Okay, she can't get there forour young listeners.
(21:03):
You'll have to grow up to knowwhat that means but, she can't
get there with her husband.
So it shows how like they weretogether.
Then she went and got hercomputer out and finished, like
that.
So that's like how it starts.
So it's a lot.
And then she sees the guy withthe dog.
Then he's an intern, then hewants her to be his mentor.
So then in their first mentormeeting he's like tell me about
(21:25):
yourself, how'd you get here?
And he's like I think you liketo be told what to do, and it
was like uncomfortable foreverybody.
And she be told what to do.
And it was like uncomfortablefor everybody.
And she's like that'sinappropriate.
And he's like I'm sorry, Ican't control myself, or
whatever.
Yeah, then they kiss in thefirst intern.
So anyways, she becomes hisbaby girl.
They go to a hotel.
Does he call her baby girl?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
through, so how?
Speaker 1 (21:44):
it started is they were at like a meet and greet
for the company, and he sentover a glass of milk milk is not
sexual, I guess it is, I don'tknow why, but so she chugs the
milk like a milk commercial andshe's like very fit.
We've seen her naked body she'snever drinking the whole milk
(22:05):
and she has, like, the milkmustache.
I'm like whoa, are we going toa milk commercial?
And then she like looks at himand goes like.
And then he walked by her andsaid good girl.
And then they meet in the hoteland she's like I'm here to tell
you this is enough and you'rebeing inappropriate.
And he's like you like it.
And then she's like it's notabout that.
So then she like tries to go athim to like and he's like, not
(22:29):
like that.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Get him to like and he's like, not like that.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Get on your knees I.
It's all making sense why youlike this movie now.
No, she gets on her knees.
Then she has to crawl to getcandy from him.
I'm not like that.
Yeah, I just like I do morethan missionary.
That's all the differencebetween her and I.
She's a missionary girl, I'mnot.
It's not like I'm baby girl.
I'm just not a missionary girl.
I like to spice it up, turnaround upside down.
Yeah, that's it Upside down.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
This isn't the circus , Like what.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Baby girl.
So she has to go in the cornerand face the corner.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
I can't see Kyle being like get down, Like yeah,
no, he's way too nice.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
He's not like that.
Yeah, so baby girl was in thecorner.
Then she had to crawl and getthe candy, she had to suck on
the candy and spit it out.
Then it happened.
But the whole relationship,he's just the boss of her.
So then at the end of the sobaby girl sucks.
It's stupid, yeah don't see itbut I keep calling tisha I
wasn't gonna see it, so it's bad.
It's bad.
I'm not gonna moving on.
This is a horrible story.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
It's boring we went on a date on Saturday did you
play baby girl?
No, did you?
Just went to dinner?
Speaker 1 (23:38):
no, no, tisha and I were talking in the car on the
way here that both of us Ialmost called her to go to
dinner in a movie with us, but Iwas like, yeah, she's not
calling me, she gets down withme sometimes.
So then I was like, let's justgo.
But I didn't want to go.
I didn't want to go, you didn'twant to go.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
I fell asleep after the competition and, like I was
so tired and Ben wanted to go,what Perk up your voice?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
man.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
Is it not loud?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Hello, no, After the competition I laid down and for
some reason I fell asleep on thecouch for a little bit and it
was like I was dead.
Yeah, you know, when you wakeup from a nap and you feel like
you got hit by a train.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Baby girl feels like that a lot.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
And Ben wanted to go to dinner and I did not and I
was like let's just door dash.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
And then he was mad, Excuse me Because if I'm home I
have to clean up everything.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
It's not relaxing to me Totally, so I wasn't going to
go.
And then I thought to myselfokay, I'm going to be a good
wife, he really wants me to go.
And I was mad, I was yelling.
I was like what were youyelling?
I was.
We didn't have a reservationwhere he wanted to go I know
he's busy I was like we don'thave a reservation, we're going
to be waiting forever.
I was really nasty and he waslike you're being girl.
(24:49):
And we went and then it endedup being really fun.
We sat at the bar and it waslike so nice to connect and then
we were all loving each other.
Yeah, and an hour prior I was,you know, totally.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So same with us, and I was so I was so grouchy too.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
Right and I was talking to my friend who I cause
I fell asleep so I missedchurch and I was bummed and I
was like, oh, how was church?
And she was like it was aboutsubmitting to your husband.
Did you watch it this weekend?
I'm going to watch it though.
Yeah, us too she said it wasreally good.
No, she said it was good aboutsubmitting.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
And I know it's getting weird after talking
about baby girl.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Now I'm talking about submitting no Like.
If you do this, I'll do that,and I was like well we're not
going to that service.
But I feel like mine is notjust that I do it when I don't
want to, or that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
I will do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I baby girl, all the time.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
But then when I really want something, I'll
throw in some extra fun, becauseshe's mishies, she has to spice
it up by going closet-ies yeah,or window ease.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Window ease yeah, or anal ease.
But I guess the pastor saiddon't do that.
But I'm like, his wife for suredoes that.
Every girl does that I don't dothat.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Every girl but you does that.
Jen Sharp doesn't do that.
Sorry, Jen, I can guaranteeyeah she's like you, though.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
She's wanting it all the time.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
I would like to like ask people, but not on our real
page.
I know I wish we could havelike a poll yeah, do you hold
sex for ransom?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
It's not hold for ransom, it's do you incentivize?
Yeah, that's a way better word.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Yes, it's not ransom, I'll do it.
It's just an incentive.
You give me money, give yourkid back.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
Oh, our friend posted a reel that I thought was so
funny.
It was like I don't cook, Idon't clean, and then he like
had the credit card, like he wasthrowing it away, did you see
it?
Yeah, oh, I thought it was sofunny, it didn't resonate.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
It didn't resonate with me.
Oh I thought it was funny.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
But anyways, no, I didn't get it.
How do you not get it?
You're not gonna have a creditcard if you don't get cooking
and clean.
And then she was like, yes, Ido the cook, and so I thought it
was so funny.
You don't do any of that,though I know why I thought it
was funny.
For those that do no, it soundslike I don't do anything and
(27:04):
this is rude and I do okay, justbecause I'm not eating candy on
my hands and knees like you,you sicko, like what the hell?
Speaker 1 (27:19):
No, I'm dying because I'm trying to like get out of
this, but I can't.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
No, I incentivize, like, hey, we can do some more
fun.
What Like more fun?
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Like candy on the hands and knees?
I don't know.
I'm not opposed to that.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
You wouldn't do that.
No, I wouldn't Well.
No, I wouldn't no, no, no Iwouldn't Stabler?
Speaker 1 (27:38):
No, do the jerkies know about Stabler?
I don't feel like they do.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Did you ever watch?
I don't feel I mean, they'veheard enough watched SVU.
It was like law and order SVUon the TV for 20 something years
.
There was a detective stablerwhich he was cute.
He was cute back in the day hewas, and he was very manly.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
He was a manly guy and I think, honestly, jumping
back to Paige DeSorbo, I loveCraig but I don't think he's
that enough.
He's more Metro.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
And I do think you like either Manly or Metro.
Yeah, Because we have a friendthat's like oh, I like a Metro
who, and I'm like I don't wantto say her name if she doesn't
want me to.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
Okay, mouth it to me.
Oh really, yeah, yeah, I thinksome people do.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Yeah, I don't like Metro.
I don't either.
I like manly.
Yeah, ben is as far Metro asI'll go and he still like hunts
and does manly things.
Yeah, but I like a very manly,okay, so Stabler, so.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Stabler to me was very manly.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
He's killing bad guys .
He's, you know, he's beating uppeople.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
He's like he's getting the bad guys.
He's protecting the baby girl.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
He is, and so I.
When, my husband and I, we werelike messing around with time
and I it was like how did itstart?
Speaker 1 (28:56):
I don't know.
Did he know you like, thoughthe was attractive and was like
I'm detective Stabler here toprotect you?
I don't remember how ithappened and were you like
someone's raping me Kind of?
Speaker 2 (29:07):
No, it was like role playing, but not.
But I was kind of like, ohdon't, my husband will be, or
something like my husband willbe home.
And then he was like Stabler.
And then I was like, okay, youknow, and then he probably liked
how excited I got.
So then it was like thenStabler was there every time,
and then it's like too much.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
You're like it's not the time for Stabler.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like sometimes they try to
go too far, too soon, right.
And it ruins the mood.
Yeah, sometimes like he'll saythings and it like totally like
we'll be in it, and then he'llsay, and it's a step too far.
Yeah, it kills the mood.
I'm like, ooh, don't say that,you know.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
Yeah, but like maybe on Tuesday last week I was in
that zone and it was okay it wasokay.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
Totally it's not.
It's not okay now, yeah, andI'm like shut up, you know I
hate it sometimes, yeah, becauseBen is very vocal and sometimes
I'm like just shut up, you know, I don't want to hear it.
You're messing with my head.
Yeah, I agree.
Well, I'm like somewhere elsein my head that sounds bad.
No, I'm there, but like I don'tneed the narration.
I don't need the narration andthere's a lot of narrating.
Sometimes I know I'm, I don'tneed the narration, I don't need
the narration and there's a lotof narrating.
I'm sweating, I know.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
I'm sweating too.
I don't like the narrationalways either.
Oh, I hate.
Like we know what's happening.
Why do you need to explain it?
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah, and then he's talking about me and that, and
I'm just like this is sodescriptive and just shut up,
you know.
So sometimes I'll be like tokiss, so sometimes I'll just
kiss him to shut him up.
We can't play this.
This is horrible.
This is horrible.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
I'm dying.
This is our best clip, yet Isound like I'm sweating.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
No, I think it's relatable.
I sound like I'm horrible thatI don't like to kiss.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
I think it's relatable.
I'm sweating.
That's why I like it, because Ifelt those things.
Oh, I feel bad.
Oh gosh, it's so funny, but Iknow what you're talking about.
Are you really sweating?
Yeah, because I'm laughing sohard.
Yeah, no, I think that'srelatable.
Sometimes it's too far, toosoon or like yeah, but I have
friends that never have said aword in the bedroom.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Were they just quiet.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Nothing.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Like what do you?
I don't know.
I think a little Is it quietfor you.
No, I feel like some sounds arefine In Baby Girl.
We can't have this be a clip,though, no.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
In Baby Girl.
She goes to the computer andthen she's like there, you know,
and then she's like coveringher own mouth with the other
hand and I'm like, oh my gosh,you're doing it to yourself.
It's not that good that youhave to like cover your own
mouth.
And then I was like it was somuch going on.
I don't like that.
It was like a weird the wholemovie.
You know, when you're like Ineed to go to church when I left
(31:38):
, yeah, like this is what'swrong with the world.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I don't like those movies.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
She was also on all fours licking the milk off the
plate.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Well, someone told us to watch Salt Burn and we
started watching it and it wasso dark and gross.
We turned it off in like a fewminutes.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
I was like that's what's hard about TV shows these
days.
There's nothing, just light,wholesome.
You know the lightest I can get.
I'm watching sell in the city.
I just finished it.
I actually love all the selling, all the selling series.
I like million dollar listing.
Oh, I love it.
You would like it now thatyou're a realtor.
It's interesting Because it'slike not real but it's real, but
it's not.
But it's relatable but it's not.
(32:13):
It's like so good, yeah, I loveselling the city.
The girl who's like the main,she has a team, yeah, and she's
like showing how hard it is tohave a team, and I'm like, yeah,
I totally relate.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
But she, it's wholesome.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah, I mean they say the F word a lot yeah.
Like they are fighting.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
Well, that's why we wanted our podcast because we're
like we want a wholesome, but Idon't feel like it's wholesome.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
now I don't feel like anyone would say it's wholesome
.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
No, but.
I feel like originally that'swhat we wanted.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Yeah, we've gotten way off track then that story
you just told is far fromwholesome.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Should we?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
cut it.
No, we're not cutting.
We're not cutting.
Okay, moving on, but Sellingthe City.
If you haven't watched, it'sreally really good.
Yeah, but there was that oneshow with that.
We really liked that about thetwo girls with the podcast.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
Oh, with the, the sisters, and he was the rabbi.
Yeah, that show was so good.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
Yeah, that was itbins , though, is killing it.
Remember how we talked aboutthis.
This should have aired lastweek.
The whole let them.
Yes, like phenomenon, likeeveryone I've talked to is
reading that book right now.
Talked to three people at thegym last night and they're
reading that book.
Let them by Mel Robbins.
It's really interesting.
Yeah, yeah, I kind of want toread the book now too, cause
it's like they can't get over it.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
But well, someone who read it was is reading.
It was we were talking.
And she said she's like, yeah,when she goes on her tangent
it's kind of boring, but shetells a lot of stories.
I love stories.
And she said the stories are sogood.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Yeah, I'm happy.
I feel like I'm in a let themera right now.
We talked about this on thepodcast and I listen because I'm
the editor these days.
So Tisha likes me to listen, totake out if we say weird things
.
So Tisha likes me to listen, toTake Out if we say weird things
.
But I kind of let them flowsometimes.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
I know I think you're she lies to me.
She's like, oh yeah, we cutthat and then we're not cutting
Stabler.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I'm going to get.
As soon as we're done, she'sgoing to want to cut Stabler.
People are going to think I'm.
No, it was like shoveys and Isometimes wish we would have.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
I know we need to bring back Chevys.
We haven't done it in a whileactually.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Yeah, do you like?
This is between her and Ben.
They do a Chevy.
They Chevy something intosomething.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
Oh my God, this is wrong, and so much yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
One day.
Is that something youincentivize?
Speaker 2 (34:23):
No, that just happens organically.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
Oh, he loves it.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Yeah, a little chubbies, okay, but anyways,
we're talking about Every guyloves a chubby Cause I've had
husbands are sending it to theirwives Like, hey, do the chubby.
You know the clip?
Yeah, like the podcast.
I'm not saying names Really, soif you're not chubbing, get
chubbing, get chub, not shoving,get shoving, get shoving.
They love the shove.
I mean Tyler's saying yeah,kyle wanted the shove, but you
(34:49):
were like I can't reach, I don'tknow.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
I don't see how that adds up.
Now, this will be edited out.
Why?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Because it's talking about you now.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
No, you talked about me last week.
You act like I'm some animal.
You're a baby girl.
I'm not into damn natrix.
No, I'm not into outside.
No, electronics.
No, me neither, or anythinglike that.
No, but I don't know.
Oh, the stories, the let them.
Yes, that's what we're talkingabout.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I actually learn a lot when Ilisten to the podcast.
(35:26):
I'm taking that back to CarrieUnderwood, cause we didn't
finish when she went acapellaand when the music didn't play,
I honestly feel like it was ablessing, right, like sometimes,
in something that you didn'twant to happen, something good
really comes out of it.
And like her singing acapellaand everyone joining in about
America was so beautiful andthat was the song.
(35:46):
Yeah, so beautiful, sobeautiful.
No, but like in the podcast wetalked about, just like
sometimes I make things happen,so I'm trying to do that less.
Right, but with our kidssometimes it's hard, because
there was that clip that wetalked about about why kids
don't have confidence becauseyou do too much for them, right?
Speaker 2 (36:01):
so I feel like is my biggest, one of my biggest
problems, because I didn't havethat growing up.
So I feel like it's an act ofmy love as a mom is to do things
for them, and so I remember somany times not having something.
If I forgot something, it wasnever brought to me, or you know
(36:22):
.
And so if, if I can do that formy kid, I feel like I'm being a
good mom and being the parent Iwish I would have had and I'm
actually hurting them.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I know it's crazy Cause it's again.
I think a lot of things indiscipline is like the word
discipline we were trained.
It's doing what you don't wantto do when you don't want to do
it, right.
And we were talking about likeI've been eating so bad lately,
I've really been off the railsand I think, like discipline is
the world's going to tell mecheesecake is allowed, which we
had this weekend?
I did because we went toCheesecake Factory for our date.
(36:56):
But like I don't feel good aboutmyself when I eat all that crap
.
And I told her this morning Idon't want to do all that.
But like the harder route isalways, usually better, almost
always.
Yeah, we'll always convinceourself otherwise, right, like
today I convinced myself Ididn't have time for the gym,
which I totally could have wokenup earlier.
But and I think with our kidsit's funny you said that I'm
feeling guilty today becauseMaddie forgot a sweatshirt and
(37:19):
it's freezing, yes, and she'slike, can you please bring it to
me, please, please?
And I'm like we really onTuesdays we're so scheduled, we
drop off, you pick me up and weleave, and if we don't leave
right, then because of trafficwe won't make it to the studio.
And I was like, sorry, maddie,and I'm feeling so guilty about
it, right, but I'm like she'sgot to check the weather, she's
got to know what the weather isLike.
She'll survive one cold day,but I was feeling so guilty.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
But I is, let them, she'll be fine, and you just
encouraged me to let them well,I feel like I had to figure
everything out growing up formyself and it made me very
self-sufficient.
And I don't know about theconfidence part, but I guess it
(38:03):
is confidence, like I alwaysknow, like I can figure things
out.
It's like an inner thing I havewhere I'm, like I got it, I
know, even if it's you.
So I don't want to rob my kidsof that feeling in them, a
belief in themselves totally,you know but it's so hard
because you don't think, whenyou're doing things for them,
that that's what you're doing.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
I know I've gone back and forth of the lunches lately
like this is a dumb topic, butI did make their lunches for a
while.
They went with my sister-in-lawwhen we went to Italy a few
years ago and the mornings couldbe like a stressful time when
they were little and when I gotback I remember it being way
easier.
They'd sit out their lunch,they'd start packing their
snacks, they'd pack our lunches.
My sister-in-law when we weregone, because she had five to
(38:47):
six kids with her.
She had to.
She's not doing it.
Yeah, I made them do thatforever.
I'm like this is great.
The mornings were smoother.
They like woke up earlier.
They were way more responsiblethan I thought they would be
Right and I was like, oh, my'llmake the lunches to show there
was a mom here in the morningthat made lunches.
(39:09):
But now sometimes they're like,hey, get that lunch, my water,
I'll see you in the car.
And I'm like, whoa, this thingturned.
Yeah, I don't work for you.
And then sometimes I get madthat I'm doing everything for
everyone, but then I'm doing itLike you always tell me stop,
yeah they're not evenappreciating this thing that I'm
hoping that they appreciateTotally.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
So yeah, why are we doing it?
Speaker 1 (39:33):
I know, so I go back and forth.
My mom didn't help me withhomework and stuff like that and
I'm a little bit like I forsure having learning disability,
for I mean, it's no question.
Um, they tried to put me inlike the special needs classes
for learning to facility, but itwas really great when I was in
elementary school and my momwouldn't let them.
She's like no, I don't want herto like hear that and like know
(39:54):
that and, um, I do think thathelped that.
I didn't.
I just always had to learn tofigure it out Right, I didn't
ever can do good on tests oranything like that.
I don't understandcomprehension really well,
comprehension really well.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
Well, I feel like that with Kennedy.
And she even says to me now,mom, I pretty sure I'm dyslexic.
I'm like, yeah, yeah, you'refine.
But I don't not saying thatanyone that has a dyslexic child
doesn't.
If you're getting them actualhelp, that's great.
I do too.
I had Maddie get some help too.
And Ken's has tutoring, but Idon't think we've addressed the
dyslexia.
But I kind of feel like you dofigure things out.
(40:26):
Remember that.
That, um, I think we've talkedabout it before on the podcast
the, the wrestler that had noarms and no legs.
His mom put him in the in thehigh chair when he was a baby
and just put food in front ofhim and he was crying and she
said, no, he's got to figure itout, because I'm not always
going to be around to to helphim eat.
So I do think there is.
We're just as humans, we canfigure things out, and you do
(40:49):
get confidence when you learn tofigure things out.
So I do think that, like youknow, I don't remember what I
was saying, but you know what Imean.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
When you don't enable them, when you don't help them.
Right, what I did with Maddieoh, with Ken.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
Oh, so that's the thing is, I'm, I'm.
She has to figure it outbecause I'm like she's fine.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Well, that's what I did before real estate.
I was a special ed teacher andI worked with kids with learning
disabilities, so, like I wasthe services that my mom denied.
But so much of what I did withmy kids has helped them to stop
identifying themselves as havinga disability.
Right Back when I first tookover the class, they had to pass
the.
Oh my gosh, all these yearslater, I forget the name of it.
(41:26):
Oh my gosh, all these yearslater, I forget the name of it.
It was a standardized test thateveryone AEPA.
No, I think that's my teachingtest.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Oh, I know what test you're talking about.
Yeah, Is it AEPA?
No, I can't remember what it is.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Something.
It was a test they had to taketo graduate college or high
school and everybody wasfreaking out.
So I worked with kids withlearning disabilities that had
IEPs because they were dyslexicor had.
Some of them had anger issues,Some of them had, you know, all
kinds of disabilities and mywhole goal was it was like
dangerous minds.
I was like you guys, in lifethey're not going to accommodate
for you, Right?
Because a lot of what specialed does is it gives
(41:56):
accommodations to kids withdisabilities, gives them
extended time for homework, itgives them notes on a test, it
gives them take tests in adifferent environment Right, All
great things that do help them,but in life your job doesn't
give you those accommodations.
So my whole semester washelping these kids start working
and we went over the basics andstop making an excuse because
they're like it's not fair, it'snot fair.
(42:18):
Well, that summer I think I had30 kids in the class.
I think I had 25 of them passthe test, yeah, and they were
caught like.
When I saw them at school, theywere like we did it, I'm just
like everyone else and I waslike no one.
I remember one day thenewspaper came out that they
weren't going to change it.
No, the newspaper came out thatthey're going to change it.
If you have an IEP, you don'thave to pass the test.
(42:39):
And my whole class was allexcited and it was like one of
those like crazy days and I waslike, are you going to live like
this your whole life?
Are you going to always need anaccommodation?
And like kids were crying.
It was like a whole thing.
And they took the test likethree weeks later and to find
that they passed and they'relike you're right Now I know I'm
the same as everyone else.
It was like so cool.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Well and a lot of the like.
Like Kennedy might havedyslexia, but or who knows if
she does but so she's not goodat spelling and reading or as
good as, but she has the mostcritical thinking of any child
of mine.
Like, her critical thinking isso good, she's so smart and she
(43:18):
knows a situation, and so I feellike labeling her as not good
in one area it takes away from,like, her strengths.
So I just don't focus on thestrength or focus on that and
let's focus on I'm like, you'resmart, You're great Critical
thinker, great problem solver,figure it out how to get around
it.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Well, it's mind blowing.
What qualified them for specialum accommodations in in when I
taught was that there was a verythere was a big variable
between their strengths andtheir weaknesses.
Not necessarily that these werebad, there was just a big
growth.
So they were super high in onearea and super low in another.
So the fact that there was sucha big variable is actually what
qualified them, not that theywere below average in a certain
(43:58):
area, it was the variablebetween this or that.
But I'm like that's theirgenius.
So if you take kids like ElonMusk who is on the spectrum,
einstein, einstein genius.
So if you take kids like ElonMusk, right, who is on the
spectrum, einstein, einstein,they're so smart in one area.
Stop trying to get them theslower the gap.
Try to stop trying to bridgethe gap.
Just focus where they're strongand go.
Yeah, I watched the doc.
Speaker 2 (44:18):
I feel like school made that all how our school
system's not the best, yeah, andwell, it just made where
everyone had to be at the samebaseline, and the baseline is
wrong, because everyone learnsdifferent and thinks different
and has different strengths.
If there was not that, your kidwouldn't even be labeled with
anything.
Speaker 1 (44:33):
I know I just watched this documentary on Elon Musk.
I just started it and it talkedabout when he was a kid.
His parents worked a lot andhis dad was an engineer and he
just read books and read booksand read books, because that's
all they had.
And he was trying to relate tohis dad so bad to get his
attention that he would readlike engineering books and all
these books, but no one wouldever help him with homework, no
one would ever help him withanything.
So here's kind of that samething.
(44:55):
He became such a genius to tryto relate to his dad that was
never happy with him, right, andhe was alone and he had to
figure everything out on his own.
And now look at him.
So Kennedy, the next Elon, no,but but, me.
I'm good with people and that'slike at work.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
I'm not good at all the things but it's like what
makes you not a good readerbecause you don't fit in their
time, that they just someonemade up a time well, and I don't
get any of the words right yeah, but I mean, why do you get the
words right?
I?
Speaker 1 (45:18):
agree.
Like I don't read now, you readthe.
That's what I mean it's dumb so.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
I, it's, it's all made up, and then the kids are
made to feel like they're notmeeting these made up standards.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Yeah, instead of focus where they can right
that's what's great about likeMontessori schools they focus on
, and even exactly like othercultures and and that's what I'm
saying around the countries.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
They focus on strengths exactly, and it's not
this like baseline that onlyfits a small percentage of the
population you're so right,tishaisha.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
You're so smart, so smart.
One day, I hope to be more likeyou, baby girl.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
Yeah, Come eat this candy out of my hand you little
freak.
Speaker 1 (45:55):
Well, I'm going to really encourage my kids this
week.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 1 (45:57):
And I'm going to be nice to my husband.
That's always our goals.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
And Tisha's going to try the milk.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
No, be an incentive that I offer Stabler.
No, please, please, guys.
A light disclaimer after thisepisode we don't support women
on their knees drinking milkdrink water?
No, but in all honesty, what'swrong with movies like that is
they are disrespecting women.
And true love Stabler isn'tdoing weird things.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
Or it's like showing that that's what a woman wants,
and like a woman doesn't want tobe disrespected or treated like
that.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Yeah, or bossed around, no, or like.
Yeah, we're empowering women,and then we put them on their
knees and baby girl.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
Well, even the movie she was like an empowered woman,
but then it's like she wasn't.
They were trying to, like, ruinher life.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Yeah, they were trying to like ruin her life.
He was trying to like ruin herlife, right, because she and she
had a happy marriage.
That's what was so mind-blowingabout the whole movie is she
had this great husband, right,and it was like just because of
your own weird sexual needs.
Yeah, it was so bad.
I agree it's a horrible movie,so don't go watch it, yeah.
Speaker 2 (47:00):
Or support it, and I know you need to watch better
movies.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:06):
And also, if you like this podcast and you're not
wanting to be a baby girl,please like, follow, share or
please give us a review Review.
Yeah, Welcome to Jerking Arounda podcast that makes you feel
better about yourself, becausewe're a mess just like you and
Crystal makes fun of me all thetime and it's great and it's
real.
Welcome to Jerking Around a podcast that makes you
feel better about yourself,because we're a mess just like
you, and Crystal makes fun of methe whole time and it's great
and it's real Welcome.
(00:24):
Welcome back.
Hello Tyler's challenging us,our pod daddy.
We were like hello To be moreexcited, yeah, and Tisha.
I know what gets me excited isdifferent than what gets her
excited, exactly as we'velearned.
Yeah, yeah, hello, that story'sstupid.
Let's move on.
Let's talk about celebrity.
There's so many things I wantto talk about.
(00:45):
Let's talk about, I think,because we promote Giggly Squad
so much on this podcast.
A lot of people have beenasking me about Paige and Craig,
for sure.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Yes, paige is the host of Giggly Squad.
She was dating Craig, who wason Southern Charm.
They broke up, just recap, andit's big news, big news, big
news right now.
Well then, because?
Why was it big news?
Because she was seen.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Okay, so well there's so many rumors.
There's been rumors on SouthernCharm that Paige cheated on him
.
This was last season.
Like, do you think she cheated?
I don't think a rumor comes outof nothing and I thought that
when it aired I was like why isthere a rumor page cheated on
him?
That's weird.
I always believe a rumor mightnot be the exact rumor, but
there's something there's alwaystruth.
(01:28):
No one's ever said Kyle'scheated on me in my life.
No, like no one.
It's not a rumor because he'snever even putting himself in
that situation.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Well, every time a rumor comes out, some form of it
happened.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Every time.
I'm not saying she did at all,and the gigglers they're coming
for some of the jerkies aregigglers as well, so we are not
trying to piss anyone off, we'regigglers.
Oh, a hundred percent.
I'm obsessed with Paige.
She's probably like my favoritecelebrity in the planet.
Yeah, but supposedly there wasa rumor they cheated, she
cheated, but I think the girlwas just making it up.
That's what.
(02:07):
I was team Paige.
But Paige was at two sportingevents last week which, if you
know Paige and you do listen toGiggly Squad she doesn't like to
leave the house, which, again,I felt like that was a sign they
weren't in a good relationshipbecause they only wanted to be
alone.
And I had guys that, like wedidn't get along when we were
with other people, but we gotalong when we were alone and it
was like a big red flag.
(02:33):
Or I had like ones.
I was embarrassed when we werewith other people, but then
that's not a good sign.
But that thing Jen sent you, ohmy gosh, can you play?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
it.
Oh, it's so funny, isn't it outloud?
Or is it just something youread?
No, I'm gonna play it becauseTisha went through this.
Oh it's so funny she wanted tobe.
You know she loves my bestfriend, jen.
The Spanish is on here.
We're giving her a shout outshe's a jerky that's the wrong
way to say it.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
She loves Mexicans, guys.
She loves I said Spanish.
I love her Mexican morepolitically she says tortilla,
tortilla.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I love Mexican men and food yeah, it's just, it's a
thing.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
I'm not Mexican, but she tries to make him look
Mexican, so I kind of feel likehe is.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You know what I mean?
Yeah, it Not Mexican, but shetries to make him look Mexican
but he's very tan.
So I kind of feel like he is.
You know what I mean?
Yeah it gives you that same vibe?
Yeah, he's not like white andpasty.
I mean nothing against whiteand pasty people.
Kyle, we love you.
Kyle is fully white and pasty.
Okay, here, wait, I'm going toturn this.
(03:37):
It was Cody from Peloton, who'sour favorite.
He's my favorite.
Yeah, don't, ladies, don'tsettle.
You get bangs and an uglyboyfriend.
And my best, one of our bestfriends, tagged me in it because
I went through a phase withbangs and an and an ugly
boyfriend.
So you can't say that.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Oh no, just the bangs .
People listen.
We're going to get told thatwas rude.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yeah, that was rude.
He wasn't ugly, just the bangs.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
He just maybe wasn't your real type.
Totally.
You know Everybody's pretty tosomebody.
Totally.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Anyway, I tried to like put on some weight too, to
like fit in with that's so rude.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
No, I just was like eating and drinking.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I was drinking a lot, that's why.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, that whole era was like not good.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, it was dark.
I was drinking too oftenbecause he liked to drink more.
I drank with my ex too, so wewould drink like after work he
would get off work, he had likea stressful job and then he
would drink.
And a stressful job and then hewould drink and like we would
drink a lot and I'm not adrinker at all, which is so
weird that I drink so much.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But in your 20s, you're always drinking, yeah, so
I and then you didn't want tobe in groups.
We went to dinner with them andI was newly dating Kyle, and we
played this game at dinner.
Well, first of all, I don't hewas like your dad, but my
remember.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
My husband, kyle, still talks about the light I
was gonna.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
That's the story I was telling.
You got mad because the lightwas on.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You know, like when you're growing up and your dad
is like you turn on the light inthe car and the dome light and
your dad's like turn it off,it's illegal, it's not illegal,
is it illegal?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
No, I tell my kids that I'm going to get pulled
over, like who knew each otherbetter and we got all of them
right and you got none right.
Wait, you had been togetherthree years.
We had been together two months.
I don't remember that it was sobad.
It was bad.
It was bad, but like I hadboyfriends where when we went in
groups, we didn't get along.
Yeah, it's weird.
If you're in a not relationship, call us.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Get out.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
But Paige, now that she's broken up, she's going to
all these things and doing allthis and I'm like that's who
I've always seen you Well.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I don't think she probably sees that and is so
annoyed because he's probablylike they always get better
after a breakup.
Every guy so annoying.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I know I'm like I really want you to go to church.
They don't.
Then I see him after we breakup.
I know.
I'm like do you want to go tothe gym?
They're like no, after we breakup.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Six pack abs yeah, oh my gosh, I know it's the worst,
I know, but when you're in abad relationship or not even bad
, but just not the right one Idon't feel like you're at your
best.
So then sometimes, when youbreak up, you are.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
The better version of yourself.
So Paige went to a sportingevent with some guy who's a
sports.
I'm trying to get my factsright because I don't really
care, but when I listen I'm likeI need to get this right.
He works in the sports industry.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Is he like marketing or something?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Eh, yeah, I thought he was.
No, I feel like he's like JerryMaguire, that, oh, like an
agent Kind of.
That's kind of how I think it'slike an agency Interesting, but
I could be wrong.
But so everybody was hypedbecause Paige was with this guy
and at the sporting game, at the, what's it called?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
The Eagle.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
The Eagles game yeah, in a box.
Great job with the facts Withthe guy.
I'm really trying to get thefacts right.
And so there was all this talkabout this guy.
I looked him up, I looked upthings.
They follow each other, whichshe's selective on that too.
So then the ex-fiance of theguy just came out this week and
said this we're going to readthe actual.
You want me to read the postTisha's reading, because I can't
(06:55):
read very well.
Okay, cut all.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Regarding what's been out there this past week,
during my relationship,disrespectful messages were sent
to a man who was spoken forwith absolutely no regard or
respect for another woman or herrelationship, insinuating for
him to leave me for her.
As my relationship went on, thebanter continued and I was
purposely made to feel insecureand my relationship was
undermined.
As someone who holds themselvesto such a high standard and
(07:19):
claims to be a girl's girl, heractions contradict this.
I had the courage to leave atoxic situation and, as a girl's
girl myself, I will continue tolift up other women and their
relationships, not try to tearthem down.
For my own good, I refuse tohave anyone lie on my name or
write their own false narrativesabout my life.
It is what it is.
I wish everyone the best.
So this is the girls, the guys,ex-fiance.
(07:40):
How long have they been broken?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
up Jerry Maguire, the sports guy.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Yeah, so this is the girls.
The guys' ex-fiance.
How long have they?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
been broken up.
Jerry Maguire, the sports guyyeah, how long have they been
broken up?
I don't think they've beenbroken up that long.
Well, it's weird If you're anex-fiance, like two years ago,
you're not common.
So she's alleging.
Someone who's a girl's girl andlikes to giggle.
I'm just kidding, it wasn't inthere something.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
And you're saying Paige always says she's a girl's
girl.
Paige always says she's agirl's girl.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
So she's talking about Paige.
Everybody says she's talkingabout Paige Allegedly.
I'm not saying she's talkingabout Paige.
I'm saying, like Prez Hiltonsays, she's talking about Paige.
Yeah, all the people are sayingthis is about Paige.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Well, it's weird If this went on in the relationship
.
How long was this girl DMingthis guy?
So was she DMing him when shewas with Craig?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Because they just broke up, yeah, but that's where
the cheating has come out.
Yeah, someone said publiclythat Paige cheated and then
Paige wrote to them I'll see youin court, yeah.
So I feel like the rumors arefrom something, but I don't
think a girl just breaks up witha guy for no reason out of
nowhere, unless you have like abackup.
Yes, girls are clingers.
Yeah, I like.
The only reason I've everreally done that is because it
(08:44):
was so toxic and bad.
Right, it was like for my owngood, yeah, or I had a guy that
seemed like a better option.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
I don't think I've ever had the better option, but
yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Why did you and bangs breakup?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Well, I was like marry me or else.
And then he was like or else,shoot wrong choice.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Well, that would have been right, though If Craig did
that right which maybe he did,I don't know I just think around
the holidays to do a breakupgirls plan, better, well, that
guy and I'm not being mean, butI don't feel like that guy was
that cute compared to Craig no,the new guy so cute that's.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
But that's so funny how beauty is in the eye of the
beholder because it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I just see her with, like an Italian style.
You've always said, said thatI'm an Italian.
He is more Italian.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Yeah, and it's just funny though, because, like, if
you're just looking at the two,I'm picking Craig all day, but
she's picking the other guy, andit's just funny.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Well, she says that she glowed up Craig, like Craig
is so good because of her.
I agree with that.
Yeah, well, anyways, that's thealleged truth about what's
going on with Paige.
She's all over the news, though.
That's sad if that's true forthe girl, yeah, but if your
guy's messaging another girl,get out now, totally yeah.
It's not.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
You can't control, and I do think guys make you
feel insecure when you're right,mm-hmm oh every guy oh, if I
had a nickel, well, and I'vedone that, I'm like it is true,
really, no, I do.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I think you're not like I can't divulge more, but
yeah, yeah, when guys I knowwhat you're talking about and we
cannot divulge more.
But guys always act like girlsare crazy and I want to be like
for the crazies it's called likegaslighting right, yeah, yeah,
it's the gaslighting mycheerleaders last year called me
the Because I would teach themto be positive, right, and
they're all.
that's fake.
I'm all no.
Believing in yourself is real.
Yeah, that's not gasoline.
(10:25):
Yeah, but they know the term.
That's funny.
But no, like guys always, I'dbe like to my ex.
Let's call him Peter.
Yeah, I'd be like you're goingto Hooters again tonight.
And it would be like it's'twant you going to Hooters Right.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
You know, Ben says I flip things.
Now, Like when he gets mad atme about something, I flip it
and get mad at him.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
You do do that.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
He's like don't try to flip it you know, you do do
that.
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You're not a big no.
For a while you didn't trusthim fully, like from your own
back, like baggage that's bad,but like past relationships,
yeah.
So I think that was like adefense mechanism and now I feel
like if he says you didsomething you like, listen now
yeah, this was last week, hetold me that.
But that's fine.
What'd you flip?
Let's hear the story.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I can't remember what it was.
He was mad at me aboutsomething and I the car, because
we're still no, there's a lotabout about the car, dealing
with the car.
No, it was something about thepurse, and I know it was
something just like two days agoI can't remember dang it, the
kids.
He was irritated with me and Iflipped and I was like mad at
him and he goes no, no, youcan't flip it, you know?
Yeah, maybe that was real thenyeah, anyways.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
So I mean, yeah, they always act like you're crazy,
like when they're out till threein the morning, and then you're
mad, right, and they're likeyou're crazy and controlling.
I'm like, yeah, I don't thinkany boyfriend should be out till
three in the morning.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
No, it's normal so if that's happening to you, get
out yeah bad bad sign red.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Bad sign Kyle.
My husband is back to being ajerky.
It's really great.
He hasn't really critiqued usthat much, and I listened to the
beginning of last week'sepisode.
Oh my gosh, I gotta tell youthis story.
Usually I tell you storiesbefore we're live, but this
one's live.
So I ran into a friend of ourswho is like an influencer and
she goes to our daughter's cheergym as well, so you know who it
is I'm trying to talk, um, andoh yeah, yeah, I don't think she
(12:19):
cares.
Her name's Jess Hartman.
She has a Instagram, hartmanHaas she's amazing and her
daughter's at her cheer gym.
And she came up and then two ofthe older girls came up you
know that listened to thepodcast.
They're like we listen thisweek and last week Tisha and I
started off about sex, literally.
So they're like this one's alittle naughty because we're
talking about 79 and all that.
Oh, shoot with our husbands,right, and I was like, yeah, I
(12:41):
was naughty, it was about sexand Jess's daughter was.
I forgot like she cause now mykids like we talk about sex at
home.
We joke about like this soundsweird, but my kids are all older
, so like they do weird thingsand we like joke, so I forget
that younger kids don't knowRight.
And she was like we'll see youlater and I grabbed her kid and
I was like oh, I feel so bad.
(13:02):
Yeah, I didn't mean to talkabout it so openly.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Oh yeah, no, because our girls are older and even
like yeah, ben will make jokesabout making out with me and
they're like gross.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Yeah, they all know.
Does Fox know Her son isn'tkindergarten?
I don't think he knows.
No, no, no, that's so little.
And how you shouldn't have sexbefore you're married because
it's complicated.
Yeah, and we both didn't.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
No, yeah, Bear came home last night and he was like
Bear's, your son.
My son, he's 12.
And he's like what's a tampon?
And I was like why?
And he's like, well, this kidcalled me a tampon and I'm like,
I'm like you know, he's like Idon't remember.
So then I was like walking himthrough what a tampon is.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
How did you walk him through?
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Well, I was like.
Well, I was like you know, agirl gets her period.
He's like no, what's a period?
I'm like well, you bleed.
It was just very.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Was he traumatized?
Well, he was just.
You're a tampon.
Why was he calling him that?
Speaker 2 (14:07):
Because he, I don't know they got.
They were just talking crapduring football and just dumb.
Yeah, tampons are weird.
I know I'm like what's wrongwith kids?
That's what I mean.
And how does this kid know whata tampon is?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Broxton, they learned quite some interesting things.
Yeah, BTA, do you know whatthat is?
No, what is that?
Oh, because Broxton said thatthe other day.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Hi Tyler, you know what BTA is.
Oh God, don't you hate whenyou're the only one, yeah, but
to wait, bta but to ask.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I feel like those are the same.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
PTA?
I don't know.
It's something front to back.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Oh no.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Yeah, and like if you got like whipped, you know you
got front to back.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Oh no, this is a horrible story this is awful and
I'm messing it up.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
I'm like yeah, this is awful.
That's what it's called PTA.
I swear it's PTA.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
But what any of the language means.
Yeah, I don't know.
I had to look up something Kensent me the other day and I was
like someone a simp.
I'm like what's a simp?
What's a simp?
A simp is someone who will doanything to be in a relationship
.
Like it's weird.
I'm like what are these terms?
Who's a simp?
It was on our family chat.
Someone called someone a simpor something and I was just like
what are we talking?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
What is it Like to each other.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah, like joking around, but I had to Google.
I have to Google all the things.
It's so weird.
I never heard that.
Yeah, simp, it's like you'll doanything, you'll cut off your
friends, you'll buy girl stuff,anything to be with someone.
Oh, I've been a simp so manytimes.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Yeah, I'm like I don't even think it's hard
watching your kids kind of getlike that.
Though yeah, I'm like, don't bea simp, Do your own thing,
don't worry about someone else.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
It's horrible.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
It's hard.
It's hard just letting them to.
Yeah, okay, moving on, I dowant to talk about the
inauguration yesterday.
Yeah, that was a big day.
Tisha wanted to fly in for it,but she wasn't able to do that.
Pretty amazing.
And I don't always love CarrieUnderwood.
I love her as a person.
I do think the whole face fallthing was weird, yeah, um, and I
(16:08):
like her music, but sometimes Ifeel like it's a lot of yelling
.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Yeah it is a lot of yelling.
I'm like so hard CarrieUnderwood fan, but yesterday I
really thought it was amazingwell, not a lot of people can do
the yelling, so I think she'salways doing it because it's
like I can do this, butsometimes it's a lot yeah, but
so the music wouldn't play foroh beautiful, yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Is that what the song ?
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I don't know the song , what's it called?
Speaker 1 (16:29):
yeah, america the beautiful, yeah and so she stood
there and then just said I'lljust sing it, yeah, and
everyone's like playing hergoing, I'll just sing it, yeah.
And then she sang it acapellaand said before she sang it she
said help me out, guys, if you,if you know it, sing it.
And I thought it was honestlyso beautiful and seeing Biden
and what's her name?
(16:50):
Kamala, yeah, behind themsinging it.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Did they sing it?
They were singing it.
Oh, that's good.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Yeah, I thought it was cool actually to have
everybody singing it.
There's this have you guys seenthe blind or no?
The deaf girl on Instagram thatcan lip read.
She lips reads everything.
So yesterday she she was ripreading at the inauguration.
No, I want to follow her.
Oh, it's amazing, she'll lipread Taylor Swift at the jet at
(17:18):
the football game.
Yeah, and like she's right,cause she's deaf, she reads lips
Right.
And like it's she's in squidgames.
She just posted yeah, oh mygosh.
I mean we're watching it withBroxton and it's like Kyle's,
like this is bad.
But have you watched the umbeast games?
It's so good.
(17:40):
I was watching beast games bymyself the other day.
Mr Beast, yeah, and it's like um, it's about like it's.
It's mocking I don't know ifmocking is the right word, but
it's simulating Squid Games.
But they don't kill them.
On Squid Games, it's peoplethat are in debt.
I can't spell this.
I want to find the girl.
I'll find it for you later.
(18:00):
In Squid Games, it's peoplethat are broke, really broke
like, have gambling debt, andthen they go to this like games
like the Hunger Games, and ifyou live, you're the winner and
you get all the money.
But out of like a hundred one,thousand no one really gets
killed.
It's like you like no, you getmurdered, they kill you and it's
(18:23):
like, yeah, and it's illegal,so that's the thing.
It's like it's far away and noone can find where it's at, and
like there are people that arelike who would go on this?
It's not real.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
This is the Squid.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Games.
The Netflix show oh, it's ashow Squid Games I thought you
were saying it was real BeastGames simulates it but they
don't kill them.
Okay, but it's the same.
They're wearing the numbers,just like Squid Games, and
there's these challenges andyou're gone.
But Squid Game, the firstchallenge is there's this weird
big doll and all you have to dois play red light, green light.
(18:57):
So they're like yeah, this iseasy, a thousand of them out
there.
And the doll turns its head andthen it's like green, and then
its eyes can tell if there'smotion.
And if you move, after its redlight, so blood's going
everywhere and they killeveryone oh my God, yeah.
And After it's red light, theyjust.
So blood's going everywhere andthey kill everyone oh my God,
yeah.
And then red light, oh it's redlight.
If you move on, red light,right, right, and then green,
and then you have to get acrossthe line before the timer runs
(19:19):
out or they just kill you too.
So you don't know anyone diesin this game until the first
game.
And then the people are seeingeveryone die and they're like
shaking, and so if they'rescared and shaking, they're dead
.
They moved.
It's very graphic, it's weird.
A lot of cussing, yeah.
But yes, kyle and I arewatching you, well, you know, if
you can't beat them, join them.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Well, you do like weird shows and movies?
Tell them about your date night.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
We're jumping ahead, but yes, so we had a lot of
cheer this weekend.
So Saturday night we went outto date night and I love Nicole
Kidman.
I just watched a show onNetflix with her.
Did you watch it?
Oh, it was so good.
I'll have to find the name theperfect couple or whatever.
Yeah, it was really good.
Did you watch it?
Yeah, it's from a book, it'sbased off a book.
Thank you, yeah, but she wasnormal in that, she wasn't
(20:06):
anything.
So I thought, ooh, I just lovethat show with her.
Let's go see Baby Girl.
I'll never forget it.
Yeah, baby Girl.
Oh, my gosh, don't bring yourkids to Baby Girl.
We almost brought Broxtonbecause, like rated R, some like
violence.
We're like, yeah, it's violence.
Yeah, I don't know if that'sright either and don't judge us,
so tell what it's about.
(20:26):
Well, Nicole Kidman is awonderful, powerful boss and I
think because I think the themewas she has to run her own
business, so she wants to be runin the bedroom- I feel like you
can identify with thischaracter.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Shut up, no, no.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Maybe I could, but I'm no one's baby girl, I'll
tell you that.
So she runs into this guy andhe has like control.
He's a young guy and he has haslike control over this dog on
the street and it like turnedher on a little bit and it
starts off that she can't reallyget to the happily ever after
with her husband in the bedroom.
Okay, she can't get there forour young listeners.
(21:03):
You'll have to grow up to knowwhat that means but, she can't
get there with her husband.
So it shows how like they weretogether.
Then she went and got hercomputer out and finished, like
that.
So that's like how it starts.
So it's a lot.
And then she sees the guy withthe dog.
Then he's an intern, then hewants her to be his mentor.
So then in their first mentormeeting he's like tell me about
(21:25):
yourself, how'd you get here?
And he's like I think you liketo be told what to do, and it
was like uncomfortable foreverybody.
And she be told what to do.
And it was like uncomfortablefor everybody.
And she's like that'sinappropriate.
And he's like I'm sorry, Ican't control myself, or
whatever.
Yeah, then they kiss in thefirst intern.
So anyways, she becomes hisbaby girl.
They go to a hotel.
Does he call her baby girl?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
through, so how?
Speaker 1 (21:44):
it started is they were at like a meet and greet
for the company, and he sentover a glass of milk milk is not
sexual, I guess it is, I don'tknow why, but so she chugs the
milk like a milk commercial andshe's like very fit.
We've seen her naked body she'snever drinking the whole milk
(22:05):
and she has, like, the milkmustache.
I'm like whoa, are we going toa milk commercial?
And then she like looks at himand goes like.
And then he walked by her andsaid good girl.
And then they meet in the hoteland she's like I'm here to tell
you this is enough and you'rebeing inappropriate.
And he's like you like it.
And then she's like it's notabout that.
So then she like tries to go athim to like and he's like, not
(22:29):
like that.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Get him to like and he's like, not like that.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Get on your knees I.
It's all making sense why youlike this movie now.
No, she gets on her knees.
Then she has to crawl to getcandy from him.
I'm not like that.
Yeah, I just like I do morethan missionary.
That's all the differencebetween her and I.
She's a missionary girl, I'mnot.
It's not like I'm baby girl.
I'm just not a missionary girl.
I like to spice it up, turnaround upside down.
Yeah, that's it Upside down.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
This isn't the circus , Like what.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Baby girl.
So she has to go in the cornerand face the corner.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
I can't see Kyle being like get down, Like yeah,
no, he's way too nice.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
He's not like that.
Yeah, so baby girl was in thecorner.
Then she had to crawl and getthe candy, she had to suck on
the candy and spit it out.
Then it happened.
But the whole relationship,he's just the boss of her.
So then at the end of the sobaby girl sucks.
It's stupid, yeah don't see itbut I keep calling tisha I
wasn't gonna see it, so it's bad.
It's bad.
I'm not gonna moving on.
This is a horrible story.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
It's boring we went on a date on Saturday did you
play baby girl?
No, did you?
Just went to dinner?
Speaker 1 (23:38):
no, no, tisha and I were talking in the car on the
way here that both of us Ialmost called her to go to
dinner in a movie with us, but Iwas like, yeah, she's not
calling me, she gets down withme sometimes.
So then I was like, let's justgo.
But I didn't want to go.
I didn't want to go, you didn'twant to go.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
I fell asleep after the competition and, like I was
so tired and Ben wanted to go,what Perk up your voice?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
man.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
Is it not loud?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Hello, no, After the competition I laid down and for
some reason I fell asleep on thecouch for a little bit and it
was like I was dead.
Yeah, you know, when you wakeup from a nap and you feel like
you got hit by a train.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Baby girl feels like that a lot.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
And Ben wanted to go to dinner and I did not and I
was like let's just door dash.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
And then he was mad, Excuse me Because if I'm home I
have to clean up everything.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
It's not relaxing to me Totally, so I wasn't going to
go.
And then I thought to myselfokay, I'm going to be a good
wife, he really wants me to go.
And I was mad, I was yelling.
I was like what were youyelling?
I was.
We didn't have a reservationwhere he wanted to go I know
he's busy I was like we don'thave a reservation, we're going
to be waiting forever.
I was really nasty and he waslike you're being girl.
(24:49):
And we went and then it endedup being really fun.
We sat at the bar and it waslike so nice to connect and then
we were all loving each other.
Yeah, and an hour prior I was,you know, totally.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So same with us, and I was so I was so grouchy too.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
Right and I was talking to my friend who I cause
I fell asleep so I missedchurch and I was bummed and I
was like, oh, how was church?
And she was like it was aboutsubmitting to your husband.
Did you watch it this weekend?
I'm going to watch it though.
Yeah, us too she said it wasreally good.
No, she said it was good aboutsubmitting.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
And I know it's getting weird after talking
about baby girl.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Now I'm talking about submitting no Like.
If you do this, I'll do that,and I was like well we're not
going to that service.
But I feel like mine is notjust that I do it when I don't
want to, or that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
I will do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I baby girl, all the time.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
But then when I really want something, I'll
throw in some extra fun, becauseshe's mishies, she has to spice
it up by going closet-ies yeah,or window ease.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Window ease yeah, or anal ease.
But I guess the pastor saiddon't do that.
But I'm like, his wife for suredoes that.
Every girl does that I don't dothat.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Every girl but you does that.
Jen Sharp doesn't do that.
Sorry, Jen, I can guaranteeyeah she's like you, though.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
She's wanting it all the time.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
I would like to like ask people, but not on our real
page.
I know I wish we could havelike a poll yeah, do you hold
sex for ransom?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
It's not hold for ransom, it's do you incentivize?
Yeah, that's a way better word.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Yes, it's not ransom, I'll do it.
It's just an incentive.
You give me money, give yourkid back.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
Oh, our friend posted a reel that I thought was so
funny.
It was like I don't cook, Idon't clean, and then he like
had the credit card, like he wasthrowing it away, did you see
it?
Yeah, oh, I thought it was sofunny, it didn't resonate.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
It didn't resonate with me.
Oh I thought it was funny.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
But anyways, no, I didn't get it.
How do you not get it?
You're not gonna have a creditcard if you don't get cooking
and clean.
And then she was like, yes, Ido the cook, and so I thought it
was so funny.
You don't do any of that,though I know why I thought it
was funny.
For those that do no, it soundslike I don't do anything and
(27:04):
this is rude and I do okay, justbecause I'm not eating candy on
my hands and knees like you,you sicko, like what the hell?
Speaker 1 (27:19):
No, I'm dying because I'm trying to like get out of
this, but I can't.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
No, I incentivize, like, hey, we can do some more
fun.
What Like more fun?
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Like candy on the hands and knees?
I don't know.
I'm not opposed to that.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
You wouldn't do that.
No, I wouldn't Well.
No, I wouldn't no, no, no Iwouldn't Stabler?
Speaker 1 (27:38):
No, do the jerkies know about Stabler?
I don't feel like they do.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Did you ever watch?
I don't feel I mean, they'veheard enough watched SVU.
It was like law and order SVUon the TV for 20 something years
.
There was a detective stablerwhich he was cute.
He was cute back in the day hewas, and he was very manly.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
He was a manly guy and I think, honestly, jumping
back to Paige DeSorbo, I loveCraig but I don't think he's
that enough.
He's more Metro.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
And I do think you like either Manly or Metro.
Yeah, Because we have a friendthat's like oh, I like a Metro
who, and I'm like I don't wantto say her name if she doesn't
want me to.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
Okay, mouth it to me.
Oh really, yeah, yeah, I thinksome people do.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Yeah, I don't like Metro.
I don't either.
I like manly.
Yeah, ben is as far Metro asI'll go and he still like hunts
and does manly things.
Yeah, but I like a very manly,okay, so Stabler, so.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Stabler to me was very manly.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
He's killing bad guys .
He's, you know, he's beating uppeople.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
He's like he's getting the bad guys.
He's protecting the baby girl.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
He is, and so I.
When, my husband and I, we werelike messing around with time
and I it was like how did itstart?
Speaker 1 (28:56):
I don't know.
Did he know you like, thoughthe was attractive and was like
I'm detective Stabler here toprotect you?
I don't remember how ithappened and were you like
someone's raping me Kind of?
Speaker 2 (29:07):
No, it was like role playing, but not.
But I was kind of like, ohdon't, my husband will be, or
something like my husband willbe home.
And then he was like Stabler.
And then I was like, okay, youknow, and then he probably liked
how excited I got.
So then it was like thenStabler was there every time,
and then it's like too much.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
You're like it's not the time for Stabler.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like sometimes they try to
go too far, too soon, right.
And it ruins the mood.
Yeah, sometimes like he'll saythings and it like totally like
we'll be in it, and then he'llsay, and it's a step too far.
Yeah, it kills the mood.
I'm like, ooh, don't say that,you know.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
Yeah, but like maybe on Tuesday last week I was in
that zone and it was okay it wasokay.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
Totally it's not.
It's not okay now, yeah, andI'm like shut up, you know I
hate it sometimes, yeah, becauseBen is very vocal and sometimes
I'm like just shut up, you know, I don't want to hear it.
You're messing with my head.
Yeah, I agree.
Well, I'm like somewhere elsein my head that sounds bad.
No, I'm there, but like I don'tneed the narration.
I don't need the narration andthere's a lot of narrating.
Sometimes I know I'm, I don'tneed the narration, I don't need
the narration and there's a lotof narrating.
I'm sweating, I know.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
I'm sweating too.
I don't like the narrationalways either.
Oh, I hate.
Like we know what's happening.
Why do you need to explain it?
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah, and then he's talking about me and that, and
I'm just like this is sodescriptive and just shut up,
you know.
So sometimes I'll be like tokiss, so sometimes I'll just
kiss him to shut him up.
We can't play this.
This is horrible.
This is horrible.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
I'm dying.
This is our best clip, yet Isound like I'm sweating.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
No, I think it's relatable.
I sound like I'm horrible thatI don't like to kiss.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
I think it's relatable.
I'm sweating.
That's why I like it, because Ifelt those things.
Oh, I feel bad.
Oh gosh, it's so funny, but Iknow what you're talking about.
Are you really sweating?
Yeah, because I'm laughing sohard.
Yeah, no, I think that'srelatable.
Sometimes it's too far, toosoon or like yeah, but I have
friends that never have said aword in the bedroom.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
Were they just quiet.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Nothing.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
Like what do you?
I don't know.
I think a little Is it quietfor you.
No, I feel like some sounds arefine In Baby Girl.
We can't have this be a clip,though, no.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
In Baby Girl.
She goes to the computer andthen she's like there, you know,
and then she's like coveringher own mouth with the other
hand and I'm like, oh my gosh,you're doing it to yourself.
It's not that good that youhave to like cover your own
mouth.
And then I was like it was somuch going on.
I don't like that.
It was like a weird the wholemovie.
You know, when you're like Ineed to go to church when I left
(31:38):
, yeah, like this is what'swrong with the world.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I don't like those movies.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
She was also on all fours licking the milk off the
plate.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Well, someone told us to watch Salt Burn and we
started watching it and it wasso dark and gross.
We turned it off in like a fewminutes.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
I was like that's what's hard about TV shows these
days.
There's nothing, just light,wholesome.
You know the lightest I can get.
I'm watching sell in the city.
I just finished it.
I actually love all the selling, all the selling series.
I like million dollar listing.
Oh, I love it.
You would like it now thatyou're a realtor.
It's interesting Because it'slike not real but it's real, but
it's not.
But it's relatable but it's not.
(32:13):
It's like so good, yeah, I loveselling the city.
The girl who's like the main,she has a team, yeah, and she's
like showing how hard it is tohave a team, and I'm like, yeah,
I totally relate.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
But she, it's wholesome.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah, I mean they say the F word a lot yeah.
Like they are fighting.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
Well, that's why we wanted our podcast because we're
like we want a wholesome, but Idon't feel like it's wholesome.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
now I don't feel like anyone would say it's wholesome
.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
No, but.
I feel like originally that'swhat we wanted.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Yeah, we've gotten way off track then that story
you just told is far fromwholesome.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Should we?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
cut it.
No, we're not cutting.
We're not cutting.
Okay, moving on, but Sellingthe City.
If you haven't watched, it'sreally really good.
Yeah, but there was that oneshow with that.
We really liked that about thetwo girls with the podcast.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
Oh, with the, the sisters, and he was the rabbi.
Yeah, that show was so good.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
Yeah, that was itbins , though, is killing it.
Remember how we talked aboutthis.
This should have aired lastweek.
The whole let them.
Yes, like phenomenon, likeeveryone I've talked to is
reading that book right now.
Talked to three people at thegym last night and they're
reading that book.
Let them by Mel Robbins.
It's really interesting.
Yeah, yeah, I kind of want toread the book now too, cause
it's like they can't get over it.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
But well, someone who read it was is reading.
It was we were talking.
And she said she's like, yeah,when she goes on her tangent
it's kind of boring, but shetells a lot of stories.
I love stories.
And she said the stories are sogood.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Yeah, I'm happy.
I feel like I'm in a let themera right now.
We talked about this on thepodcast and I listen because I'm
the editor these days.
So Tisha likes me to listen, totake out if we say weird things
.
So Tisha likes me to listen, toTake Out if we say weird things
.
But I kind of let them flowsometimes.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
I know I think you're she lies to me.
She's like, oh yeah, we cutthat and then we're not cutting
Stabler.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I'm going to get.
As soon as we're done, she'sgoing to want to cut Stabler.
People are going to think I'm.
No, it was like shoveys and Isometimes wish we would have.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
I know we need to bring back Chevys.
We haven't done it in a whileactually.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Yeah, do you like?
This is between her and Ben.
They do a Chevy.
They Chevy something intosomething.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
Oh my God, this is wrong, and so much yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
One day.
Is that something youincentivize?
Speaker 2 (34:23):
No, that just happens organically.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
Oh, he loves it.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Yeah, a little chubbies, okay, but anyways,
we're talking about Every guyloves a chubby Cause I've had
husbands are sending it to theirwives Like, hey, do the chubby.
You know the clip?
Yeah, like the podcast.
I'm not saying names Really, soif you're not chubbing, get
chubbing, get chub, not shoving,get shoving, get shoving.
They love the shove.
I mean Tyler's saying yeah,kyle wanted the shove, but you
(34:49):
were like I can't reach, I don'tknow.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
I don't see how that adds up.
Now, this will be edited out.
Why?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Because it's talking about you now.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
No, you talked about me last week.
You act like I'm some animal.
You're a baby girl.
I'm not into damn natrix.
No, I'm not into outside.
No, electronics.
No, me neither, or anythinglike that.
No, but I don't know.
Oh, the stories, the let them.
Yes, that's what we're talkingabout.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I actually learn a lot when Ilisten to the podcast.
(35:26):
I'm taking that back to CarrieUnderwood, cause we didn't
finish when she went acapellaand when the music didn't play,
I honestly feel like it was ablessing, right, like sometimes,
in something that you didn'twant to happen, something good
really comes out of it.
And like her singing acapellaand everyone joining in about
America was so beautiful andthat was the song.
(35:46):
Yeah, so beautiful, sobeautiful.
No, but like in the podcast wetalked about, just like
sometimes I make things happen,so I'm trying to do that less.
Right, but with our kidssometimes it's hard, because
there was that clip that wetalked about about why kids
don't have confidence becauseyou do too much for them, right?
Speaker 2 (36:01):
so I feel like is my biggest, one of my biggest
problems, because I didn't havethat growing up.
So I feel like it's an act ofmy love as a mom is to do things
for them, and so I remember somany times not having something.
If I forgot something, it wasnever brought to me, or you know
(36:22):
.
And so if, if I can do that formy kid, I feel like I'm being a
good mom and being the parent Iwish I would have had and I'm
actually hurting them.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I know it's crazy Cause it's again.
I think a lot of things indiscipline is like the word
discipline we were trained.
It's doing what you don't wantto do when you don't want to do
it, right.
And we were talking about likeI've been eating so bad lately,
I've really been off the railsand I think, like discipline is
the world's going to tell mecheesecake is allowed, which we
had this weekend?
I did because we went toCheesecake Factory for our date.
(36:56):
But like I don't feel good aboutmyself when I eat all that crap
.
And I told her this morning Idon't want to do all that.
But like the harder route isalways, usually better, almost
always.
Yeah, we'll always convinceourself otherwise, right, like
today I convinced myself Ididn't have time for the gym,
which I totally could have wokenup earlier.
But and I think with our kidsit's funny you said that I'm
feeling guilty today becauseMaddie forgot a sweatshirt and
(37:19):
it's freezing, yes, and she'slike, can you please bring it to
me, please, please?
And I'm like we really onTuesdays we're so scheduled, we
drop off, you pick me up and weleave, and if we don't leave
right, then because of trafficwe won't make it to the studio.
And I was like, sorry, maddie,and I'm feeling so guilty about
it, right, but I'm like she'sgot to check the weather, she's
got to know what the weather isLike.
She'll survive one cold day,but I was feeling so guilty.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
But I is, let them, she'll be fine, and you just
encouraged me to let them well,I feel like I had to figure
everything out growing up formyself and it made me very
self-sufficient.
And I don't know about theconfidence part, but I guess it
(38:03):
is confidence, like I alwaysknow, like I can figure things
out.
It's like an inner thing I havewhere I'm, like I got it, I
know, even if it's you.
So I don't want to rob my kidsof that feeling in them, a
belief in themselves totally,you know but it's so hard
because you don't think, whenyou're doing things for them,
that that's what you're doing.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
I know I've gone back and forth of the lunches lately
like this is a dumb topic, butI did make their lunches for a
while.
They went with my sister-in-lawwhen we went to Italy a few
years ago and the mornings couldbe like a stressful time when
they were little and when I gotback I remember it being way
easier.
They'd sit out their lunch,they'd start packing their
snacks, they'd pack our lunches.
My sister-in-law when we weregone, because she had five to
(38:47):
six kids with her.
She had to.
She's not doing it.
Yeah, I made them do thatforever.
I'm like this is great.
The mornings were smoother.
They like woke up earlier.
They were way more responsiblethan I thought they would be
Right and I was like, oh, my'llmake the lunches to show there
was a mom here in the morningthat made lunches.
(39:09):
But now sometimes they're like,hey, get that lunch, my water,
I'll see you in the car.
And I'm like, whoa, this thingturned.
Yeah, I don't work for you.
And then sometimes I get madthat I'm doing everything for
everyone, but then I'm doing itLike you always tell me stop,
yeah they're not evenappreciating this thing that I'm
hoping that they appreciateTotally.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
So yeah, why are we doing it?
Speaker 1 (39:33):
I know, so I go back and forth.
My mom didn't help me withhomework and stuff like that and
I'm a little bit like I forsure having learning disability,
for I mean, it's no question.
Um, they tried to put me inlike the special needs classes
for learning to facility, but itwas really great when I was in
elementary school and my momwouldn't let them.
She's like no, I don't want herto like hear that and like know
(39:54):
that and, um, I do think thathelped that.
I didn't.
I just always had to learn tofigure it out Right, I didn't
ever can do good on tests oranything like that.
I don't understandcomprehension really well,
comprehension really well.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
Well, I feel like that with Kennedy.
And she even says to me now,mom, I pretty sure I'm dyslexic.
I'm like, yeah, yeah, you'refine.
But I don't not saying thatanyone that has a dyslexic child
doesn't.
If you're getting them actualhelp, that's great.
I do too.
I had Maddie get some help too.
And Ken's has tutoring, but Idon't think we've addressed the
dyslexia.
But I kind of feel like you dofigure things out.
(40:26):
Remember that.
That, um, I think we've talkedabout it before on the podcast
the, the wrestler that had noarms and no legs.
His mom put him in the in thehigh chair when he was a baby
and just put food in front ofhim and he was crying and she
said, no, he's got to figure itout, because I'm not always
going to be around to to helphim eat.
So I do think there is.
We're just as humans, we canfigure things out, and you do
(40:49):
get confidence when you learn tofigure things out.
So I do think that, like youknow, I don't remember what I
was saying, but you know what Imean.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
When you don't enable them, when you don't help them.
Right, what I did with Maddieoh, with Ken.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
Oh, so that's the thing is, I'm, I'm.
She has to figure it outbecause I'm like she's fine.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Well, that's what I did before real estate.
I was a special ed teacher andI worked with kids with learning
disabilities, so, like I wasthe services that my mom denied.
But so much of what I did withmy kids has helped them to stop
identifying themselves as havinga disability.
Right Back when I first tookover the class, they had to pass
the.
Oh my gosh, all these yearslater, I forget the name of it.
(41:26):
Oh my gosh, all these yearslater, I forget the name of it.
It was a standardized test thateveryone AEPA.
No, I think that's my teachingtest.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Oh, I know what test you're talking about.
Yeah, Is it AEPA?
No, I can't remember what it is.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Something.
It was a test they had to taketo graduate college or high
school and everybody wasfreaking out.
So I worked with kids withlearning disabilities that had
IEPs because they were dyslexicor had.
Some of them had anger issues,Some of them had, you know, all
kinds of disabilities and mywhole goal was it was like
dangerous minds.
I was like you guys, in lifethey're not going to accommodate
for you, Right?
Because a lot of what specialed does is it gives
(41:56):
accommodations to kids withdisabilities, gives them
extended time for homework, itgives them notes on a test, it
gives them take tests in adifferent environment Right, All
great things that do help them,but in life your job doesn't
give you those accommodations.
So my whole semester washelping these kids start working
and we went over the basics andstop making an excuse because
they're like it's not fair, it'snot fair.
(42:18):
Well, that summer I think I had30 kids in the class.
I think I had 25 of them passthe test, yeah, and they were
caught like.
When I saw them at school, theywere like we did it, I'm just
like everyone else and I waslike no one.
I remember one day thenewspaper came out that they
weren't going to change it.
No, the newspaper came out thatthey're going to change it.
If you have an IEP, you don'thave to pass the test.
(42:39):
And my whole class was allexcited and it was like one of
those like crazy days and I waslike, are you going to live like
this your whole life?
Are you going to always need anaccommodation?
And like kids were crying.
It was like a whole thing.
And they took the test likethree weeks later and to find
that they passed and they'relike you're right Now I know I'm
the same as everyone else.
It was like so cool.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Well and a lot of the like.
Like Kennedy might havedyslexia, but or who knows if
she does but so she's not goodat spelling and reading or as
good as, but she has the mostcritical thinking of any child
of mine.
Like, her critical thinking isso good, she's so smart and she
(43:18):
knows a situation, and so I feellike labeling her as not good
in one area it takes away from,like, her strengths.
So I just don't focus on thestrength or focus on that and
let's focus on I'm like, you'resmart, You're great Critical
thinker, great problem solver,figure it out how to get around
it.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Well, it's mind blowing.
What qualified them for specialum accommodations in in when I
taught was that there was a verythere was a big variable
between their strengths andtheir weaknesses.
Not necessarily that these werebad, there was just a big
growth.
So they were super high in onearea and super low in another.
So the fact that there was sucha big variable is actually what
qualified them, not that theywere below average in a certain
(43:58):
area, it was the variablebetween this or that.
But I'm like that's theirgenius.
So if you take kids like ElonMusk who is on the spectrum,
einstein, einstein genius.
So if you take kids like ElonMusk, right, who is on the
spectrum, einstein, einstein,they're so smart in one area.
Stop trying to get them theslower the gap.
Try to stop trying to bridgethe gap.
Just focus where they're strongand go.
Yeah, I watched the doc.
Speaker 2 (44:18):
I feel like school made that all how our school
system's not the best, yeah, andwell, it just made where
everyone had to be at the samebaseline, and the baseline is
wrong, because everyone learnsdifferent and thinks different
and has different strengths.
If there was not that, your kidwouldn't even be labeled with
anything.
Speaker 1 (44:33):
I know I just watched this documentary on Elon Musk.
I just started it and it talkedabout when he was a kid.
His parents worked a lot andhis dad was an engineer and he
just read books and read booksand read books, because that's
all they had.
And he was trying to relate tohis dad so bad to get his
attention that he would readlike engineering books and all
these books, but no one wouldever help him with homework, no
one would ever help him withanything.
So here's kind of that samething.
(44:55):
He became such a genius to tryto relate to his dad that was
never happy with him, right, andhe was alone and he had to
figure everything out on his own.
And now look at him.
So Kennedy, the next Elon, no,but but, me.
I'm good with people and that'slike at work.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
I'm not good at all the things but it's like what
makes you not a good readerbecause you don't fit in their
time, that they just someonemade up a time well, and I don't
get any of the words right yeah, but I mean, why do you get the
words right?
I?
Speaker 1 (45:18):
agree.
Like I don't read now, you readthe.
That's what I mean it's dumb so.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
I, it's, it's all made up, and then the kids are
made to feel like they're notmeeting these made up standards.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Yeah, instead of focus where they can right
that's what's great about likeMontessori schools they focus on
, and even exactly like othercultures and and that's what I'm
saying around the countries.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
They focus on strengths exactly, and it's not
this like baseline that onlyfits a small percentage of the
population you're so right,tishaisha.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
You're so smart, so smart.
One day, I hope to be more likeyou, baby girl.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
Yeah, Come eat this candy out of my hand you little
freak.
Speaker 1 (45:55):
Well, I'm going to really encourage my kids this
week.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 1 (45:57):
And I'm going to be nice to my husband.
That's always our goals.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
And Tisha's going to try the milk.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
No, be an incentive that I offer Stabler.
No, please, please, guys.
A light disclaimer after thisepisode we don't support women
on their knees drinking milkdrink water?
No, but in all honesty, what'swrong with movies like that is
they are disrespecting women.
And true love Stabler isn'tdoing weird things.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
Or it's like showing that that's what a woman wants,
and like a woman doesn't want tobe disrespected or treated like
that.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
Yeah, or bossed around, no, or like.
Yeah, we're empowering women,and then we put them on their
knees and baby girl.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
Well, even the movie she was like an empowered woman,
but then it's like she wasn't.
They were trying to, like, ruinher life.
Speaker 1 (46:45):
Yeah, they were trying to like ruin her life.
He was trying to like ruin herlife, right, because she and she
had a happy marriage.
That's what was so mind-blowingabout the whole movie is she
had this great husband, right,and it was like just because of
your own weird sexual needs.
Yeah, it was so bad.
I agree it's a horrible movie,so don't go watch it, yeah.
Speaker 2 (47:00):
Or support it, and I know you need to watch better
movies.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:06):
And also, if you like this podcast and you're not
wanting to be a baby girl,please like, follow, share or
please give us a review Review.
Yeah, Welcome to Jerking Arounda podcast that makes you feel
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