Jesus Fix It with Jess & Steph!

What happens when Christian dating expectations collide with reality? Join hosts Jess and Steph for a candid, no-holds-barred conversation about navigating relationships as believers in today's world.

From opposite sides of the relationship spectrum – Jess as a divorced single woman approaching 50 and Steph as a newlywed in her 40s – they share raw truths about their journeys. Jess opens up about the surprising challe...

Church hurt transcends mere offense or discomfort. It encompasses betrayal, judgment, manipulation, exclusion, and sometimes even abuse at the hands of fellow believers or church leadership. In this raw and honest conversation, Jess and Steph share their personal journeys through church hurt, from the subtle exclusion after divorce to the blatant marginalization as single adults in family-focused congregations.

Jess reveal...

Faith meets real life in this heartfelt summer catch-up episode where Jess and Steph tackle life's unexpected turns with honesty, vulnerability, and plenty of laughter.

Jess opens up about her upcoming knee replacement surgery - initially bringing tears not of relief but of concern about letting others down. After suffering with knee pain for five years, she's reached a turning point where health has become her p...

Summer sunshine brings a brief pause to the Jesus Fix It podcast as hosts Jess and Steph check in with listeners during their mid-summer break. The Spirit FM team has been extraordinarily busy with community events, though Jess reveals she's been sidelined by knee problems that may require surgery soon.

Despite the temporary hiatus, excitement bubbles beneath the surface as the hosts share glimpses of what's comi...

The conversation continues with a challenging question: How do we love those claiming Christianity while living lifestyles contradicting biblical teachings? Pastor Tate responds with grace-filled wisdom: "Sanctification is a process. I believe there are people who are genuine followers of Jesus Christ who are still jacked up in their sin." This perspective sets the stage for a remarkable story of unconventional ministry.<...

Wrestling with how to love someone living contrary to biblical teaching while maintaining your faith convictions may be one of the most challenging situations Christians face today. 

Pastor Jonge Tate joins us to tackle this difficult conversation with wisdom, grace, and biblical clarity. What begins as a discussion about a real situation in their church community quickly reveals that multiple families are navigating these...

Your mental health matters to God. This raw, heartfelt conversation peels back the layers of shame and stigma that often prevent Christians from seeking the help they desperately need.

Jess courageously shares her darkest moments as a newly divorced single mom—days spent hiding under covers, barely functioning, believing her depression was simply something to "get over." The turning point came through a song on S...

We tackle a topic that's often judged or ignored in women's circles: it's okay to not want to be a mom. Society places enormous pressure on women to have children, but nearly half of childless adults in America say they never want kids – and that number is growing.

• Jess's sister knew early on that motherhood wasn't for her, though she's a loving aunt and nurturing in other ways
• Steph s...

We explore the significance of Easter as a season of renewal and what it means to let Jesus breathe new life into areas of our lives that seem beyond repair. Through personal stories and biblical insights, we discuss how pride often prevents us from experiencing restoration and why sometimes feeling the hurt is necessary for healing.

Do you have relationships that seem beyond repair? Projects abandoned on the shelf? Habits you ...

In this episode, Jess and Stephanie get real about the crazy world of dating for women over 35. From navigating double standards and uncomfortable questions to the strange misunderstandings that often arise, they share candid thoughts on what it's really like to date at this stage in life. And, of course, no conversation would be complete without a
deep dive into the world of Christian dating apps. They tackle everyth...

What happens when men drop the tough-guy act and actually show up for each other? In this eye-opening conversation with guest Ben, we dive deep into what authentic male friendship looks like beyond surface-level church groups.

Ben shares the moving origin story of his unusual men's group, which began in 2008 when he committed to weekly meetings with a friend whose wife had died by suicide. Dominoes and baseball games ...

Celebrating Women's History Month by honoring the remarkable women who've shaped both world history and our personal journeys. From Susan B. Anthony securing our right to vote to Rosa Parks standing firm for justice in 1955 to Amelia Earhart breaking aviation barriers in 1932, these historical trailblazers remind us of the relatively recent struggles women faced for basic rights and opportunities.

But perhaps mor...

Could your closet be the key to understanding your deeper emotional ties? Join Jess and Steph as we humorously unpack the sentimental attachments that make parting with personal belongings so challenging. From cherished band memorabilia to well-worn book collections, our conversation turns clutter into a canvas for storytelling and self-reflection. We'll share creative solutions like turning old t-shirts into quilts, offering ...

What happens when love and faith intersect in a world that's often divided? Join us as we explore this profound intersection, sharing stories and insights that challenge the status quo. Through heartfelt discussions, we express our concerns about the growing negativity on social media and the struggle to maintain kindness and respect, even among believers. February, a month often associated with love, serves as a poignant remi...

Join us for a heartfelt and humorous episode of the Jesus Fix It podcast as we explore the insightful world of love languages. Jess and Steph share personal stories and insights into how understanding the five love languages can transform relationships and bring deeper meaning to self-love. From words of affirmation to acts of service, they delve into the power of small gestures and the importance of respecting each other's bo...

Is it wrong to crave the allure of luxury, or can you satisfy your style desires without splurging your savings? On today's Jesus Fix It podcast, we dig deep into the heart of "dupe culture" and how it’s reshaping fashion and lifestyle choices. Remember when toting a Guess or Coach bag was the ultimate status flex? We share a nostalgic laugh over those days while exploring how today's savvy shoppers are replacin...

Join us for an engaging and heartfelt episode as we celebrate new beginnings and welcome Steph as a permanent co-host of the Jesus Fix It podcast! As we embrace the fresh start of a new year, we discuss our aspirations for 2025, focusing on personal goals and the universal longing for peace and harmony. We express our heartfelt gratitude to our listeners for their unwavering support through the podcast's changes and invite eve...

Growing up, the magic of waking up to a blanket of fresh snow was unbeatable, but the struggle of shoveling and navigating icy roads was a stark reality check. In this episode of the Jesus Fix It Podcast, we reflect on those mixed feelings about winter's wonderland. We embrace the enchantment of snow days, where warm drinks and beloved holiday movies provide the perfect cozy escape, while also acknowledging the practical chall...

In this engaging and honest podcast, Stephanie and Jess dive into the complexities of cultural understanding, addressing stereotypes, misconceptions, and sometimes awkward but necessary questions about race, culture, and identity. With humor and warmth, they create a safe space to explore topics like Black hair care, cultural appropriation, food habits, and the nuances of language when discussing race. They share personal stories a...