Journey To 30

Journey To 30

There’s no perfect roadmap for life, parenting, or marriage—but after 30 years together, we’ve learned a few things along the way. Through highs and lows, laughter and lessons, one thing has remained constant: our deep love and unwavering commitment to each other. Join us on this 30-week journey as we share the real, raw, and redemptive moments that have shaped our marriage. From practical wisdom to hilarious mishaps, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to build a love that lasts. Buckle up—this road trip is one you don’t want to miss! This is our “Journey To 30”!

Episodes

June 14, 2025 1 min

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Pssst... dear listener...guess what? This isn't a full episode! I know, I know, you're thinking, what's up with that? Well we're releasing this potshot because we want to jump back in here with us later today as Gary and Tammy release this full episode titled, "You're Valuable: The Father's Day Edition". There's something special about the inf...

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In this episode Gary and Tammy explore the terrain of relationships that can potentially be dangerous to the marriage. You'll find that relationships, whether it's friendships with those who are the same gender as you or opposite sex friendships, can be beneficial if used properly. But they can also be dangerous if they aren't given guard rails. You know with these two the...

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June 1, 2025 80 mins

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One thing is for sure, your children are always watching. That's not a bad thing at all it's just truth. This week Gary and Tammy are interviewing babies A & B, Shai Salter-Presely and Shameria Salter-Roland. This one is enough to make you think and laugh as their children recount the things they encountered growing up as children. Gather your family around this episode for...

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May 25, 2025 59 mins

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One of the most daunting tasks for parents would have to be learning how to allow your children to become. It's not that you we don't trust, sometimes its just that letting go can be difficult. This week Gary and Tammy relive some of the trying times as parents learning how to navigate the terrain of parenting newly adult children and some of the hard lessons learned along the ...

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May 18, 2025 105 mins

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This week Gary and Tammy delve into the hard conversation of how to deal with your spouse when they are not oaky. You won't always be the best version of yourself. the blessing though is when you have your spouse who sticks it out with you no matter what state of mind you're in. But the truth is moments like that are built over time and generally happen right out the gate. Let&...

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May 15, 2025 69 mins

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This week Gary and Tammy have brought along two of their faves in the entire world, their two youngest children Sierra and Sanaya and a cameo by their oldest grandchild, Brooklyn! This episode deals with the viewpoint of their children as they discuss their parents and how they saw them. Let's jump into this conversation. This ought to be good!

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May 11, 2025 44 mins

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This week Gary and Tammy are digging into the notion of being different and how we can be better because of it. Just as the man and the woman are anatomically different they are also different intellectually, emotionally and psychologically. These differneces help to paint the montage we know as marriage. Let's jup right in this episode there's a lot to unpack! 

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May 4, 2025 6 mins

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Sometimes when you see people who are moving at a high rate of speed it's easy to understand their sacrifice! This week we are the poster children for tired. Everyday this week it's been up by 4am, out the door by 4:30am, work our entrepreneurial pursuit then our part time jobs, all while still pastoring, parenting a high school senior and still being a spouse! We is tiiiieeedd...

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April 27, 2025 52 mins

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Because of how we're wired we can tend to think certain things don't matter. Well that may not be true. There are acts of kindness and  thoughtful gestures you may be foregoing not realizing your spouse really needs it. Let's jump into this episode and explore how leaving the little things out may dismantle the marriage. But your thoughtful inclusion of the things your spo...

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April 20, 2025 45 mins

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One of the greatest gifts one spouse can gift to another is to support what the other wants to do unwaveringly. As a spouse you should be your spouse's greatest cheerleader especially when the steam in that engine does not have to come from you. You must remember it's not just "my dream" it's actually "our dream" driven by my spouse. With that in mind t...

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April 13, 2025 49 mins

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Over these, almost thirty years, Gary and Tammy have found that love is more than just a notion. It is a result of love enveloped in honesty delivered to the sender in a way that allows for deep intimacy. Without this faction actively functioning in the marriage the growth of the marriage is always in jeopardy. Pull out your note taking devices, take a listen at this episode and let&apos...

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April 6, 2025 47 mins

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You and your spouse are two people from two worlds, but you've been tasked to make one together. Not only do locations have to change but the language that has to be spoke shifts. This episode will really challenge you as a listener to engage your spouse in a much different way. There will come a time when you must adopt and adapt in your language then there will be times where you ...

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March 30, 2025 53 mins

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One of the greatest lessons we've learned is that strength is not quantified by velocity of your voice nor by the swing of a fist. Rather it is recognized by a true understanding of oneself, their willingness to grow and develop and by one's allowance to give place for the same kind of growth in your spouse. Here's an episode you can't afford to miss. Let's jump ...

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March 23, 2025 53 mins

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There is so much to be experienced in a marriage between both husband and wife. So much that it literally takes a lifetime to unpack. One of the components in this experience is compromise. Without it there's not the full understanding of what your spouse brings to the table. This episode is so good you have to pull out the popcorn, grab your spouse and be sure to take copious note....

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March 16, 2025 42 mins

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For some the destination seem to their goal. But we've learned in life the destination isn't the goal...it's the journey! This episode gives you the opportunity to see how our journey got started...the highs, the lows...all while keeping it lighthearted and engaging! Let's jump right in, I promise you there's a lot here! 

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March 9, 2025 52 secs

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There’s no perfect roadmap for life, parenting, or marriage—but after 30 years together, we’ve learned a few things along the way. Through highs and lows, laughter and lessons, one thing has remained constant: our deep love and unwavering commitment to each other.

Join us on this 30-week journey as we share the real, raw, and redemptive moments that have shaped our marriage. From practica...

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