April 6, 2025 • 62 mins
What if the answers you've been searching for are already within you?
5/1 emotional Manifesting Generator, Elysia Skye, intuitive business coach & creator of The Brilliance Method, joins us for a deeply resonant conversation about trusting your intuition and choosing love over fear. As a manifesting generator who has officiated over a thousand weddings, produced countless shows, and transformed her life after a cancer diagnosis at 24, Elysia shares how reconnecting with our inner guidance system can revolutionize our decision-making.
We explore the fundamental difference between decisions rooted in love versus those stemming from fear. Your intuition, Elysia explains, resides in your heart—not your head or gut as commonly believed. By tuning into your heart center and noticing whether you feel lightness or heaviness around choices, you can begin distinguishing between fear-based reactions and intuitive knowing.
The conversation weaves through practical methods for strengthening your intuition: reducing distractions (like turning off social media notifications), honoring your natural energetic cycles, and documenting instances when your intuition proved correct. We also dive into Human Design, examining how emotional authorities can navigate their decision-making process by riding emotional waves rather than seeking immediate clarity.
Perhaps most powerfully, Elysia leaves us with the wisdom to "be the lighthouse, not the lifesaver"—standing strong in our light to help others find their way rather than jumping into the darkness to save them. This approach not only serves others more effectively but preserves our own energy and wellbeing.
Ready to trust yourself more deeply and make decisions from a place of love rather than fear? This conversation will reconnect you with the wisdom you've had all along.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hello, welcome back to the podcast.
So today we are joined with Iam joined with Alicia Skye.
She's a 5'1 emotional generator, manifesting generator, so we
know that we're always going tointerweave human design in here
and she's an intuitive businesscoach from the Brilliance Method
(00:24):
.
And today we're really going tohave I mean, we were talking
about it before we started it'sgoing to be a very intuitively
led conversation.
So it's kind of hard to prefacewhat we're going to be talking
about, but we're going to betalking about the intuition.
We're going to be talking aboutchoosing love over fear.
We're going to be talking abouta lot of spirituality things.
(00:44):
If you're watching the YouTubevideo, you know that she's
pulling a card right now.
So I'm going to stop talkingand let you introduce yourself,
let us know what card you justpulled, and then we will get
into the conversation.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Oh my gosh.
Okay, so I, as you kicked itoff, I pulled yes, I'm using
Rebecca Campbell's deck today,the Trust, your Light deck, and
this is yes.
It says just say yes, I'mtrying to get it to focus.
So these it looks like onewoman and it's every angle of
her and she's receiving divineinformation and her hands are
(01:19):
open and her hands are in prayerpose above her head with this
beautiful pyramid of light.
So it's a confirmation.
Her hands are in prayer poseabove her head with this
beautiful pyramid of light.
So it's a confirmation.
And my hit on that for everyonelistening and watching is
whatever you're being led toconnected to this conversation
today, of choosing love andlistening to your intuition,
like yes, yes, yes, even ifyou've been quote unquote wrong
(01:42):
in the past or have mademistakes we all have.
My story is hilariously messy,hot mess, express and we get
exactly where we need to get inperfect time.
So, yes, you can trust yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
That's the message, babe, right there, love it, yeah
, love it.
I love card bowls.
I should do this before everypodcast.
Honestly, you're inspiring me.
Right, let's do it.
I love card bowls.
I should do this before everypodcast.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Honestly, you're inspiring me Right, let's do it.
Just add it to the hey seasontwo mid mid season.
Here we go, so I might pullothers as we're going Well.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, let me.
Let me give you a moment tointroduce yourself.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Oh, thank you, darling.
So I'm Alicia sky.
Hello, I'm an intuitive.
I help people with business,especially creative and
spiritual entrepreneurs.
People come to me forcompassionate communication.
That's a big one, workingthrough boundaries, life purpose
Life purpose is a bigconversation that I have all the
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time, especially when you're inan entrepreneurial space.
But I work with a lot ofcorporate teams who are not
entrepreneurs, but obviouslythere are some entrepreneurs
there and team leaders, managers, vps.
I do a lot of mindfulnessworkshops and consulting from a
perspective of stress reductionand trusting and listening to
your intuition.
So I just play in this world.
It's really fun.
A fun fact I've officiated overa thousand weddings.
(03:01):
Yeah right, I'm not currentlyofficiating.
It's not something you cannecessarily call me and book me
for, but I'm always open to aconversation.
I can refer you to some greatpeople.
But through that and also myown beautiful marriage of a
million years, I help with loveas well, like love and
relationships, and it all comesback to communication,
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communications, requirements,boundaries.
What do we want more of what'sworking?
Do more of that, not keeplooking at what we want less of.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Oh my gosh, there's so many places we can go here,
absolutely Choosing love andfocusing on love.
Actually, it's really funny thatyou say this, because that's
something that I've kind of beenmeditating on recently is
focusing more on what's goingright in my life, what, what am
I loving in my life right now?
Because I actually have this notthat I planned on talking about
(03:53):
this, but it's coming up.
I have this epiphany that I waslike I have spent so many years
of my life focusing on spendingso much time in the future or
the past and focusing on what Iwould have changed in my past
and, if I would have changed it,how my life would have been
different.
Or focusing on the future wheredo I want to be in my business
and how many clients do I wantto have and where do I want to
(04:16):
be living and where do I want tobe in my relationship and what
I realized is I'm spending solittle time right here and
appreciating everything that Ihave going on right now in my
life, every blessing, everythingthat I have to feel so grateful
for because we have so muchgood happening every single day
in our lives and really, likeyou're saying, kind of focusing
(04:37):
on what am I loving right now inmy life, because we're kind of
conditioned to want the nextthing to be running after the
next thing.
And there's nothing wrong withhaving goals right, but really
we can get stuck in not beingsatisfied with where we are.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Totally and I need to nail on the head with the word
conditioned.
We are so conditioned and it'sno longer just a Western thing
or a US citizen thing Like wejust are striving, striving.
There is so much pressure fromsociety, from family, and you
know, truly, whatever our own asGay Hendricks calls them, our
(05:20):
hidden barriers to success, likefear about shining others, or
you know we're going to bejudged, or like why is it that
we're playing small over andover and not pursuing that zone
of genius in our purpose right,which I like to call our unique
brilliance, because we all havethat spark.
So, whatever you want is yours.
It's just up to you to createit.
(05:41):
And you know, connect withamazing humans like Hannah and
myself to help you get out ofyour own way, to have it.
And just the fact that, hannah,you have been aware enough to go
, oh, I'm craving the presentmoment, like you're already
course correcting.
You're already doing it and youknow, for some people they'll
(06:04):
ask me, like, what's the bestway to practice mindfulness?
And obviously there's things wecan do to get into our body.
Our body is such a great anchorfor mindfulness, like if you
rub your hands together and thenyou feel the tingle in your
palms.
You just sit there for a momentor you tune into a part of the
body that you don't alwaysnotice, like space between your
fingers or your toes or the backof your ear, like, can you
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actually feel if you're wearingunderwear?
right Like those kinds of things.
It just helps you drop in andit doesn't have your brain
thinking about multiple thingsat once.
But, truly, I don't seegratitude as a buzzword.
I see gratitude as a pathway tomindfulness, to being present.
And if anyone is rolling theireyes at the idea of, well, okay,
(06:48):
to get more present, I justhave to focus on what I'm
grateful for.
I've been doing that for 20years, girl.
It's not working.
Shift it slightly and go okay,instead of what am I grateful
for?
And write 20 things you'regrateful for and repeat that
list over and over until you're,you know, sick of it.
Just pick one thing and writethree reasons why.
When we get into the why, thenwe start to connect more deeply,
(07:13):
not just to that gratitude, butto our purpose and as humans
and creatives and you know, justbuzzing around people we like
to know why.
It's you know, when our parentstell us to do something because
I said so, that doesn't work onanybody.
No especially adults.
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So it helps us to know why.
So connect to your why and it'sgoing to always keep you more
present.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
I love that.
I do think that there's a lotof kind of Hmm, I love that.
I do think that there's a lotof kind of overkill on gratitude
(08:03):
.
It because then you arespending a little bit more time
in that gratitude and spending alittle bit more time with that,
versus just the list a hundredthings that you feel grateful
for right now, which probably iscan get repetitive as well.
But I want to.
I want to hear, I want to learna little bit more about you,
(08:25):
and I love connecting topeople's stories, and that's
really how we connect to people.
So I want to hear.
You made a comment that youhave a funny background and hot
mess express, so let's hear allof that.
And then I really do want toget back to talking about
purpose and discovering ourpurpose talking about purpose
(08:46):
and discovering our purpose.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Okay, yeah, and that's all going to come out
through this story.
So I, since I was a little girl, I just there's a couple of
things that I always loved and Ithink for anyone who's looking
at their life purpose, they cando some inventory to notice what
they've always been drawn to.
And you know, I've always lovedmusic, but I never wanted to be
a musician, even though, like Ikind of I'm like a really poor
(09:09):
drummer, like I'm not good atthe drums, but I like playing
the drums, I can keep a beat, uh, and I I realized that was from
a past life, in the ezekieltribe, scribing, channeling,
like just just receiving divineinformation, and we would listen
to music at a four, four countwhen we we would channel, when
we would chant, when we wouldwrite.
So I'm very connected to justthose beats and that timing.
(09:31):
So, as a little kid, just askingmy mother curious questions mom
, what's, what's, what's outsideour galaxy, you know?
And she's like multiplegalaxies.
Well, how big does that go?
It goes on infinitely.
This broke my five-year-oldbrain.
I'm like, why am I even askingthese questions?
So, just like curiosity, youknow, I've just just been a
seeker since birth and, uh, Ilove to heal, I love to
(09:54):
entertain, I love to laugh likeyou, and I have already laughed
so much just in, even before wehit record, you know, and and we
can lean into that energy ofjoy.
No matter what energy levelwe're at, no matter how we're
feeling, no matter how muchsleep we got, we don't have to
always be at a 10.
Like, I'm not at a 10.
Coming on the show like thatwould scare everybody, right?
Like I'm just going to meet youat like a peaceful four and
(10:15):
we'll go up and down, you know.
So just understanding and beingaware of energy.
Since I was a kid, my mom and Iused to rub our hands together
and then we would hold them upand we would feel the tingle and
we would notice each other'senergy and we would pull it back
as far as we could until wecouldn't feel it anymore.
So I want to give so muchpraise, gratitude and just
(10:37):
credit to my mom, who is nolonger with us, but she raised
me as a young kid to just beobsessed with weird shit
crystals and chanting andmultiple different types of
religions and love andforgiveness and it's not weird
(10:58):
at all.
But to other kids it was weird.
You know, I was like looking atthe moon and writing little
spells and love notes to theuniverse, while other kids yes,
I played with Barbies and allthat.
But another thing, too is whenI had dolls, I always was like
it wasn't about who are wemarried to and how many kids did
we have.
It was okay, this Barbie's anurse and this Barbie's a
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teacher, and now they're friendsand they're talking about work
and how many people did theyhelp?
Just it's so cute and it's solame and it's like the sweetest
way that I grew up.
I feel so fast forward, moved toLos Angeles when I was 19 to be
a movie star and had beenvisualizing over and over and
over for many years, like myOscar speech and my acceptance
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speech and all those things, andI got my Screen Actors Guild
card and I booked some thingsand long story short, I wound up
getting breast cancer when Iwas 24.
And that took me on like it waslike you know, I just hear like
the tire screech, like likelike now we're turning this way.
(12:03):
We're turning this way.
It doesn't mean you're notgoing to entertain and receive
awards and accolades.
It just might look differentera, might look different for a
while.
So I had to embrace what doesthis look like and why did I get
sick?
And my mother didn't die ofbreast cancer.
My grandmother had a stage oneat one point she had a
lymphectomy.
(12:23):
Later it came back.
It was just different than mine.
So I went into a journey of selfto understand why did this
happen to me, and especially at24, a fresh 24, it was like a
week after I turned 24, thecomment I heard over and over
and over was you're so young,you're so young to have cancer.
And they were right.
(12:44):
So why did I get sick, right,why did you get cancer?
People are asking me, why doyou have a family history?
And as I studied more in thegenetics, you know it's actually
a very small percentage who, iftheir family has it, they have
it, and I'm like, oh, that'sinteresting, you'd think it was
bigger but, you know that's setme on my journey, hannah, of
fear and love and fear and loveand what is the difference?
(13:06):
And I got into A Course inMiracles and really that's a
philosophy on practicingforgiveness.
It aligned very well with theBuddhist stuff.
My mom raised me with theJewish stuff.
My family raised me with Likeit's all just, I'm not any
religion, I'm all of them kindof you know so then, uh, let's
(13:29):
see how do I wrap this up, as Iwas no longer in front of the
camera because I was goingthrough chemo, radiation,
multiple surgeries my hair keptchanging.
I tried, I tried.
I remember I auditioned for theshow and it was for a Luke
Perry show while he was stillaround and the casting director
was like are you wearing a wig?
Why are you wearing a wig?
And I was like, oh man, I'm notfooling anybody, like even
(13:51):
though I had some cute wigs.
But I just, I just realized Ineed to take a break.
I need to shift gears, like Ineed to.
I can't keep going the way Iwas going.
So, ultimately, why did I getcancer?
Not dealing with trauma, frombeing a kid?
Stress, putting other people'sopinions above my own, seeking
outside validation all the time,thinking my industry was more
(14:12):
important than my own mentalhealth or my wellbeing, and
people pleasing to death,fawning nonstop Just all that
stuff kind of came to a haltwhen I was healing Cause.
I just couldn't do it.
I was like, oh my God, I'm somuch more peaceful not having to
prove myself all the time.
What's this about?
Like that's a lesson in yourtwenties.
(14:32):
Most people learn a lot later,I think.
Yeah, so, um, from there, I wasstill in the industry, but I
wasn't in front of the camera asmuch.
I was producing shows for otherpeople great comedians.
I was friends with YouTubehappened 2006.
We got some branded deals.
I did that all the way upthrough almost 2020.
2019, I started producingonline courses, got back more
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into the educational space,which was really fun, and then I
produced a bunch of my owncourses and in the meanwhile, I
told you, I officiated over athousand weddings.
That was like side hustle,because I didn't want to bartend
anymore and people were comingto the house to get readings and
healings.
I was just doing it all liketotal gypsy woman.
So long story longer almostdone.
(15:21):
Where we're at now is the lastfew years focusing on the
brilliance method.
I created a curriculum of howdid I do it?
How did I heal?
How did I find soulmate love?
How have I brought in so muchmoney?
How come every business I touchturns to gold?
I asked myself all thosequestions, how did I do it?
And it really came down tolearning to listen to and trust
your intuition and taking actionand releasing fear.
(15:42):
I have a whole module aroundfear versus love and what that
looks like.
So now, what do I do?
I play, I play.
I just led this like goddesscamp.
I do readings.
I have a coaching membership.
I have my podcast.
Like I've still producedcontent for a nonprofit because
it's fun for me.
I do what I feel motivated andinspired to do and I'm so
blessed.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Thank you for sharing all that.
You are such a classic Manny,jen.
I do everything that I meanthat's.
We have so many similarities inour story, but one of the
similarities is I do so manydifferent things and manifesting
generators tend to like to bestimulated by different things,
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and that doesn't always have tobe work.
It can be having one job andthen having a bunch of hobbies.
But for you and me, we both do.
For you and I, we both do a lotof different things.
But thank you for sharing yourstory.
I love that and I love that youare able to reflect and then
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hone in this curriculum of howdo I do this, how did I build
this life and how can I, how canothers replicate that system?
How can I, how can othersreplicate that system?
I'm very curious to dive intothe intuition and and and
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building your uh, building yourintuition and have a
conversation around that,because that's something that I
talk a lot about.
It's it's something personallythat I really love to talk about
, but it's also one of the mostlarge questions that I get from
clients and in my community iswhat is your intuition?
Let's start there and then howthe heck do I build it?
Speaker 2 (17:34):
so our intuition is a sense just like any other and
it can be just as strong as anyother.
So when I say other, I mean andit can be just as strong as any
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other.
So when I hearing and taste andall that, and over time, one
second puppies, puppies arepuppies are saying hi to
everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
I don't think we can hear them Over time.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
You know, quick, quick history lesson as and this
is not an anti-men comment atall I love men.
Women were taken out of roles ofpower and not as respected and
trusted.
And you know there's a reason.
They call it the woman'sintuition.
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And men got very afraid ofpowerful women coming together
in groups and containers andcollectives and doing quote
unquote magic.
But it's manifestation andhealing and all the things that
we do, like you and me, yourguests, many people listening
and from it was hey, don'tlisten to yourself, listen to
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this person in charge, and whenyou know whether it's the person
at the front of the, the castleor the church or anywhere else.
Uh, and again, I'm notanti-religion, I I love them all
.
I love all the things that workabout them.
I don't love the things thatare judgy and shitty about them.
So we were told don't trustyourself, trust someone else and
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put your dollar there in thatbowl, right, and you know so.
Fast forward all these thousandsof years later now, you know,
with the tech technological boom, years later now, you know,
with the tech technological boom, obviously, the industrial
revolution, um, you know, in thelast hundred years, we are
distracted.
We are so distracted.
We have so much to do.
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Going back to what we firststarted talking about, there is
so much pressure to produce,produce, produce.
And that is not how the seasonswork.
We right, amen.
We are not supposed to justalways be creating and producing
.
There's a reason for rest, andit's not just eight hours at
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night or less for most people,right?
So from an intuitiveperspective, we really have
three cycles that we are in allthe time.
So now we're kind of leaninginto how do you, how do you tap
into it more right?
Anything you want me to expandon or clear up around, like what
is intuition?
it's just no I love it, yeah,okay, great.
(20:37):
So, um, now, when we noticewhat energetic cycle we're in,
we're either in create, maintainor destroy.
And if destroy feels toomasculine or scary, just say let
go.
And that doesn't mean that wecan't be.
You know, if you're creativeand your job is to create 365
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days a year, it doesn't mean youcan't work.
It just means when you noticeyour energetic flow, like, for
example, if you're an author andyou're like I've got writer's
block, do you or are you just ina period of maintain or let go,
right, there has to bereflection and rest and
inspiration.
That's why vacation is soimportant.
We receive so much growththrough travel, through
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connection, through just daysoff with our family and our pets
, just playing and reading andresting.
We get so many ideas.
I get more ideas when I'm quiet, doing nothing than when I'm
actively searching for them same.
So, when we start to honor andnotice the cycles we're in, our
intuition will get louder, inconjunction with practicing more
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mindfulness in our life,actively choosing to reduce
distractions in our life, whichfor me.
I have my social medianotifications off on my phone,
so sure sometimes I miss shit,like I got tagged in a story.
It's expired.
I don't know what it was, I'msure it was cute.
This shit, like I got tagged ina story.
It's expired.
I don't know what it was, I'msure it was cute.
But you know a little FOMO hereand there.
(22:07):
But I have so much peace in mylife that my phone is not
constantly going off, or when Iopened my phone there's not a
ton of notifications.
And you know, maybe I opened myphone to call someone or text
someone and then now, 30 minuteslater, I'm looking at all the
TikToks everybody sent me.
Like doesn't work for my brainso I had to just turn off the
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notifications.
But we're already fightingagainst, you know, chemicals in
our food and EMFs and noiseoutside and noise inside, you
know, in our home and in our ownbodies.
So, and not to mention, a lotof people deal with chronic pain
or fatigue or headaches and wecan have a whole nother episode
about how wellness is connectedto our intuition.
(22:48):
And I'm so glad people aretalking about the nervous system
now and um you know, as we getolder, we're going to start
talking about hormones and allthat stuff.
That's like all connected.
But when we can slow down,truly like you just had let out
that sigh like even justthinking about it, everybody,
(23:08):
just take a breath right now andconnect to the peace in your
own being, because that's all wereally want.
That's why we're trying to makeso much money and why we're
trying to accomplish things andachieve those goals.
We just want peace.
So what if we reverse, engineerthis ship and call in more
(23:31):
peace to begin with and thenstart to manifest our life, hear
our intuition more clearly,honor the cycles that we're in
and just trust.
So I'm asking everyone to havesome faith.
If you're feeling like, oh mygosh, all the bills are due, I
don't have enough money, she'stelling me just to chill.
I'm not telling you to donothing, but sometimes when if,
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let's say, you're trying to geta job and you're sending a
hundred resumes a day onLinkedIn using an easy apply,
wondering why am I not hearingfrom anyone?
It's like that's still amindless activity, like pause.
Who deserves your time and yourbrilliance?
Craft the perfect letter,connect to who they are, find
them, send them a message likeget in front of people.
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That's part of the reason why Ireached out to you to be on
your podcast.
I was like I want to get infront of your people.
I love you and what you do,like your people get me and I
love them.
So, like, actively, use yourintuition to go.
Who should I be spending timewith right now?
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Just, over and over and over, trust yourself and it
becomes a process of trustingyourself.
I like to have my clientsjournal.
I call it the you were rightjournal, and every time you get
a hit, you were right aboutsomething, something worked out.
Cause, like you said earlier,it's so easy to focus on what's
not working, you know, and, inaddition to what we were talking
about and where things wentwrong, like what if we actually
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just keep a log of what wentright and you're thinking about
someone and then they text youlike that's a little little
sonar ping between, that's apsychic moment, yeah Right, so
keep, keep a journal.
There's so many ways to developyour intuition and some of it
is in my course and other.
There's some great teachers Ican recommend in addition to
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myself, but it starts with you.
It starts with slow down,listen, take note, don't rush.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Don't rush.
I'm listening to a book and shewas talking a little bit about
building your intuition orstrengthening your inner voice,
whatever it is, whatever youwant to call it and one of the
words that really stuck out tome was she said sink, like,
cause she she would talk maybe alittle bit about like praying
too right, like the whole.
(25:50):
Everything is so connected.
So the whole idea of like, whenwe kneel to pray or we get on
our knees to pray, sink either.
Sink into your couch, sink intoyour chair, just like that
breath that we took.
Whenever you slow down, you'regoing to innately take that like
listen, like you're saying,just listen, because, at least
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for me, I don't know about youand we can talk about this in
terms of human design.
I have a open crown, definedajna center.
So, like, one of my head headcenters is defined, one is
undefined.
Both of yours are undefined, bythe way.
Um, but for me, I can get verystuck in.
(26:41):
How do I build my intuition?
Like, give me the, theblueprint or what, what am I
supposed to do?
Just tell me what to do and youknow, like endlessly googling
or or scrolling and trying tofind the answer.
But something that you said isthe answer is in you.
You have the answer already.
You don't have to be scrollingto find it.
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You already know the perfectjob for you.
And we are.
Sometimes we just do kind ofwaste time, mindlessly applying
or mindlessly reaching out topeople.
What if I just took a pause andthought about I like that,
who's worth my time?
That's a bold, that's a boldtopic change like, that's a
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switch.
Who's worth my brilliance?
And what do I have?
What do I uniquely possess?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
you were born with so many gifts.
Thank you for that.
You know kind of reframing thattoo, in such a simple way.
We came in with talent andgifts and you know curiosities,
like I talked about being alittle kid, right, what are you
drawn to?
And I think another thinginspired by what you just said
is we will build our intuition.
(27:56):
It'll just become stronger andmore innate the more we trust it
.
Yeah, it's, it's like.
You know, you can see becauseyou keep seeing it, validates it
right, and then, as we getolder, we don't see as well.
We're like oh, we start to losefaith in it.
So it works the other way too.
You know, right now, don't?
We can't really see ourintuition, like, does that?
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How does it work in my life?
So, just by acknowledging it,using it, tapping into it, even
in little ways, you know like,okay, well, my brain is saying I
should do this, but I just feel, right, I feel in my body and
you know, from a human designperspective and I'd love you to
talk more about this we areeither physically feeling or
emotionally feeling, and I thinkI'm an emotional decision maker
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versus a physical feelingdecision maker.
But, one of the things I tell myclients is if you can't make a
decision, stand up right.
Stand up and notice where yourbody leans.
Does it lean towards thedecision or away from the
decision?
When you think about thepresent moment decision Like,
for example, if someone's reallyhaving a hard time in a
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relationship you know you don'tsay should I leave this
relationship.
You say I'm no longer in thisrelationship or I'm in a new
beautiful relationship.
Like make a present momentstatement and notice if your
body just ever so gently startsto lean one way or the other
towards it.
If you're more of a physicaldecision maker.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
if it's harder for you to see, my mom used to say
this and I use this.
I borrowed it from her, adoptedit from her, but I use it with
my clients often is how do youfeel?
As if you like picture that youput yourself in that situation.
So so let me give an example.
(29:39):
Um, leaving a relationship,right, how do you feel if you
left that relationship?
Notice how it feels in yourbody to imagine letting go of
that relationship.
Of course there's going to befear.
We're not talking about thefear.
But if you, it's, oftentimesespecially as a sacral authority
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.
So I'm not really sure how itis with other authorities,
because I'm only in my body, butwith a sacral authority,
oftentimes it's my immediateresponse.
Or if you just have a definedsacral center, so you also have
a defined sacral center, eventhough you're an emotional
authority.
But oftentimes it's thatimmediate, like how would you
feel leaving this relationship?
How would you feel leaving thisjob?
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How would you feel living in la, I don't know whatever it is,
and notice how your body feels,notice what comes, comes up.
Do you feel lighter, do youfeel heavier?
The fear thing, I think.
Maybe, maybe you'll havesomething to say about this.
The fear thing can be trickybecause we can get stuck in fear
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and think that it's ourintuition.
So how do we?
Do you have anything, any tipsand tools of how can we navigate
?
Oh, this is fear versus.
This is my intuition.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Yes, and before I do, I just want to say I love what
you just said and you'reinviting people to notice if
there's relief in that decision,right.
So when Hannah said, do youfeel lighter Like, do you
actually feel relief?
Do you feel relief or do youfeel loss?
You know there could be reallysomething there.
You know something to fight foror something to let go of.
(31:21):
So, um, yes, how do we know ifit's fear or intuition?
So this is going to lead usinto talking about choosing fear
or love, cause I always like tochoose love.
So, first and foremost, ourintuition resides in our heart.
It really does.
Now, if you are clairvoyant,meaning you see it, or
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claircognizant, you just kind ofknow it, which kind of sounds
like a loud thought.
Clairaudient, you hear it.
Whatever it is, I'm moving myhands all around my head.
That doesn't mean yourintuition is in your head, it's
actually in your heart, right.
When you're clairvoyantlyseeing things, you're actually
seeing it with your heart andthen it like projects this movie
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up into your third eye.
That's how that works.
So and I've mentored andstudied under a lot of great
mystics and healers and teachersthey have all said the same
thing and I believe it to betrue.
Your intuition is in your heart,so I'm going to, I'm going to
die on that hill and from thatperspective, if you, in case
anyone doesn't agree, I meanpeople call it a gut feeling,
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but it's actually not in yourgut.
They call it a gut feelingbecause our gut is the only
other place in our body.
We have brain cells besides ourbrain.
That's why we call it a gutfeeling.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
But, again.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
That's a deception because we're not actually
thinking, we're feeling.
So move to your heart, thatheart center where you feel that
beautiful bright green light,that heart chakra in your chest.
Some people see it as pink.
That's totally cool with me andfront and back, left and right,
tuning more into.
How can I feel into this moreso when we are feel into this
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more so when we are askingourselves a question to make a
decision?
Is this an intuitive hit or isthis fear?
The most common thing wherepeople get stuck is trying to
tune in for someone they love.
I have a lot of moms who are myclients and if their child has
lumps and bumps, scrapes,breakups, all the things that's
like.
Sometimes they're like I'm tooclose to it, I can't, I don't, I
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don't know, right, totally getthat.
Sometimes I get so scared aboutthe most random shit having to
do with my husband and it's nottrue, right, like cause he goes
on tour.
He's a musician, is he going tobe?
Okay, he recently just left togo produce a record in Vegas and
I had just kept getting theweirdest feeling.
I'm like I don't want him to goon this trip.
I don't want him to go on thistrip.
(33:42):
But when I sat down and Ilistened and I'm like, okay, is
this fear or is this myintuition?
I tuned into my heart.
Did my heart feel light?
Did my head feel heavy?
If it's fear, it's probablyyour head or anywhere else your
head, your shoulders, uh, thatkind of thing.
(34:05):
But if you can lean in and go,okay, how does my heart feel
about this?
My heart center, it's like he'sfine, like he's not gonna die
on this trip, like maybe it'snot gonna be everything he wants
and like if he didn't go itmight be better, but for some
reason he's going and he's gonnabe okay.
So I'm not gonna intervenebecause he trusts me.
If I said to him honey, don'tget on that plane, that's the
last thing you want Alicia totell you is don't get on that
plane, right, you'll cancel yourflight.
It'll be really annoying.
So I'm like he can go.
(34:28):
He did the, he did the songs inVegas and then he flew to LA to
teach a seminar at MusiciansInstitute and he got COVID.
He picked up COVID in LA andhere we are in 2025.
And for it just fucking knockedhim down.
He was down for like seven,eight days.
He said it was one of the worststrands he'd ever experienced.
(34:50):
So that was my hit.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
That was what my hit was, but it wasn't Duncan on the
plane, you know.
And so he had to cancel aseminar, was such a bummer
because Musicians Institute paidfor advertising and all that
stuff and he was disappointed.
He really wanted to teach thisclass, but it was okay, and he
got to spend eight days in WestHollywood at our friend's
apartment house sitting and justlive his best life ordering
delivery no here, so um.
(35:14):
So that's just a little exampleof where I had to practice this
myself recently.
So you drop it into your heart,you can also notice your body
language if you're like, oh mygosh, I'm so worried about this
thing, are you now?
Did you instinctively hold yourheart or hold your head?
If you were holding your head,it's probably.
But if you're like, no, I justI don't feel good about this,
(35:37):
notice your language, I don'tfeel good about this, versus I
think this is gonna suck right.
Thinking it, it's fear.
If you're feeling it might notbe fear, okay.
So it just takes practice overand over.
But again, if you consistentlyacknowledge your intuition,
listen to it, take note of it,you just start to trust it more
(36:00):
and if you're too close to it,phone a friend.
That's what we're here for.
Book a session with me orsomeone else who can help you,
just tune in a little bit.
But I'd rather everybody trustthemselves truly trust
yourselves and does that answeryour question?
Because we can start talkingabout fear and love.
Speaker 1 (36:18):
Yeah, please, let's Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Okay, so fear versus love?
What does this even mean andhow is it connected to our
intuition?
So we're going to get even morespiritual now.
Strap in.
Folks Love it, I believe.
So try this on.
We have our ego and we have ourspirit.
They are coexisting in our body, in our being, and our spirit
(36:47):
is eternal right.
Our soul is at home and lovealways knows the truth about
everything, never left.
Our spirit is on this like funjourney, being human over and
over and over, and growing andlearning lessons and all that
stuff, right?
So I have this tattoo that saysremember your soul, remember who
you are, remember where you are.
(37:08):
It's not even where you camefrom, it's where you are.
We are at home in love and thiscollective consciousness.
So why do we have this ego?
What is this ego?
A lot of people are like undothe ego, we hate the ego.
I'm like look, it's cool, I'mcool with the ego.
It's hard to.
It's hard to have a lifewithout one and, depending on
the different lifetimes you'velived, you might need to build
up a little bit of an ego.
(37:29):
That's something that a masterteacher told me once.
Like you could.
She's.
Like you've been a teacher,you've been a nun, you've done
this.
You've been a teacher, you'vebeen a nun, you've done this.
You've had a couple oflifetimes where you were a total
asshole.
But like, you're here in thislifetime to build up your ego
and I'm like oh interesting, Ithought the whole point was to
undo the ego, right, but itreally depends on where you've
come from and where you've beenand it doesn't mean I don't many
(38:07):
mistakes.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
I've hurt people, I'm human.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I've done, done all the things, so, but not not this
being about me.
Our ego cannot survive withouta body.
It needs a body.
It has no reason for existenceoutside of the body.
anytime our life is at riskbecause it means the end for the
ego where our spirit or, if youwant to call it, your soul,
that's okay, this is eternal,this is love.
If, if you explode tomorrow,your soul's cool, it's like all
(38:30):
right, I'll get back on the bus,we're gonna do it again, let's
try again next time.
Right Does not require the bodyto live on.
So all this fear comes up fromthe ego going oh, don't make
that investment, don't take thatrisk, don't date that kind of
person.
You know you're very safe withthis other kind of person, right
, this person is like travels alot more and they spend more
(38:51):
money in weird ways.
Or maybe they like to have morefun.
You're so much safer in yourbubble.
Stay safe, stay safe, playsmall, play small.
Right, your ego wants you tojust have a very simple life
because it means maybe you'lljust live a long time and it'll
get to be here a lot longer,where your spirit is like go for
it, dream big, go to theconcert, buy the flight, date
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that weirdo like it.
Right, live, learn, get hurt,play, fail around and find out
like your spirit is having somuch fun.
And when we make a choice, anychoice, from a place of fear,
who's the one in charge?
hmm, yeah, yeah, right, whenwe're making a choice from a
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place of love, love and imaginethere's only two emotions love
and fear.
Yeah, every quote unquote.
Positive emotion is under love.
Yeah, passion and joy andsweetness and all those things,
it's all under love.
Every quote unquote.
Negative emotion is under fear.
Jealousy, anger, frustration,judgment, like why?
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Why do we feel any of thosethings?
Because we're afraid ofsomething.
I'm jealous because I'm afraidthey're going to leave me or I'm
afraid I'm not good enough.
I'm judging this person becauseI'm afraid I don't have enough.
Right, what is this?
Enough, we are enough, we areperfect.
Love Can't be any more enoughthan perfection.
Yeah, but the ego is notperfect.
(40:23):
Love the ego's, you know,that's where the hot mess
express comes in to go.
Yeah, you probably want to keepdrinking and gossip about your
friends and just like, staysmall and stay home, but don't
drink too much because we don'twant to die.
Yeah, right, it's like all that, right, and we can talk about
addiction another time.
But when we choose love, we areleaning into our spirit when we
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choose fear we are leaning intothe ego, and when I say choose,
I mean like make a decision fromthat place.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Right, and that connects to the intuition,
because our spirit, I think ourspirit, if you think of like
right, father, son, holy ghost,like your spirit and, uh, in
terms of religion, I thinkyou're like we talk about, like
(41:21):
God, god's spirit lives withinus.
I think that's your, yourspirit also, um, and that's
where the intuition lives,because it's kind of our
intuition is always rooted inlove.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
Yes, absolutely so.
Like if we accept a job or acontract or take on a new client
and it doesn't feel right.
But we're doing it from a placeof fear and look, you got, we
got to make're doing it from aplace of fear and look, we got
to make money, we got to pay ourbills.
Sometimes there are interimjobs or clients to get us to
where we need to go.
So we're not doing it becauseyou know we're not going for our
(41:59):
dreams.
We're doing it consciously togo.
You know what, like in 2019,when I took that job doing
course creation, I was like Ijust want to w2 for a while
because I've been 10 99 for solong I want a w-2 so I can buy a
house and I want it to be easy.
So, like I did it from a placeof love, even though it felt
counterintuitive to what Iwanted to be doing, wasn't very
(42:21):
glamorous, it wasn't in healingarts and it wasn't in hollywood
entertainment, but I'm like itjust made sense, even though
it's weird, right.
So that was one of those momentswhere I had to distill down and
go is this from fear or is thisfrom love?
It's love.
I want to buy a house and Iwant it to be easy.
So there we go.
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Not the only way to buy a house, everybody.
Just so you know, you can buy ahouse as a independent
contractor self-employed.
I've done it many times sincethen, but you know I wanted this
one to be easy, so we're incharge of what our life looks
like.
Every single thing is a choice,even how we feel.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
Let's talk about that with your emotional authority.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Let's talk about that with your emotional authority.
Well, what's?
Speaker 1 (43:14):
your hit on that from .
I don't you know you know moreabout human design than I do,
yeah, yeah so.
So let me explain.
I've talked about emotionalauthorities before, but if this
happens to be your first podcastyou're listening to, so in
human design we have ourdecision making process how we
best make decisions, ourdecision-making process, how we
best make decisions, andeveryone has a different
authority and, alicia, yours isan emotional authority.
(43:36):
It actually makes up about 54%of the population are emotional
authorities.
So a large majority ofauthorities are emotional
authorities and that simplymeans that you have a defined
solar plexus center in humandesign.
So if you're looking at yourhuman design chart, the triangle
on the right that kind of comesout is going to be colored in.
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So having an emotionalauthority one of the things that
we talk a lot about is ridingthat emotional wave.
Because emotional authorities,because it's defined any defined
center simply means that youhave a direct connection to that
.
The energy of that center sohaving the solar plexus is our
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emotional center rules ouremotions.
You have direct connection toyour emotions.
Versus me, on the other hand, Ihave an undefined emotional
center, so one will argue that Ican feel other people's
emotions just as strong as myown, and I have a harder time
(44:42):
feeling my own emotions.
Like what am I actually feelinghere?
I also tend to run away fromfeeling my emotions.
So that might be a defined andundefined thing as well, or
maybe just everyone does that, Idon't know.
But emotional authorities, youhave that direct connection.
So, being able to tune into youremotion and allowing yourself
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to feel it through, kind of likewhat you just said, when you're
going through the process ofthinking about I want to buy a
house and do I take this job,allowing yourself to feel all of
the emotions around it, becauseyou're probably I mean a big
life decision, you're gonna feelso many different emotions.
It's not just going to beexcitement, it's not just going
(45:25):
to be fear.
Can I allow myself to movethrough these emotions simply by
allowing myself to feel them?
Maybe talk about them withsomeone safe, if that's what you
need, if you're more of thatlike outward processor before I
make a decision process,emotional authorities do very
(45:51):
well giving themselves a littlebit more time and then you're
going to find your own process.
So I love how like we can blendthese two together and say for
emotional authorities givingyourself that time to dive into.
Am I making this out of love?
Am I feeling this fear?
It's okay to be feeling thefear.
We all feel fear, butrecognizing this emotion is fear
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.
These emotions are love.
And what emotions are love andwhat decision can I make there
that's rooted in love?
It's going to be a little bitof a I mean for everyone.
It's going to be a process, butfor emotional authorities
especially, it's going to be alittle bit of a.
I mean for everyone it's goingto be a process, but for
emotional authorities especially, it's going to be a little bit
more of a journey.
Also, the last thing I'll sayabout emotional authorities is
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80% sure is others 100% sure.
So, like the sacral center I'mtalking about how I have a
defined sacral center, my hitsabout how I have a defined
sacral center, my hits,intuitive hits tend to be pretty
quick and in the moment.
If you're a sacral or a splenicauthority, it's always going to
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be in the moment.
Like I was talking to you aboutseason two of my podcast and it
was like one day I'm like, yep,this is it.
Like, this is the moment.
I didn't plan it.
It was literally like Monday orTuesday that I have this hit
and then I recorded the episodeand posted it on Sunday Like,
hey, we're going into season two.
It wasn't a thing that Iplanned for weeks and weeks.
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So sacral authorities, splenicauthorities, are going to be
pretty much in the moment and wetend to be as we build this
muscle, as we build ourintuitive muscle, we're going to
be like, okay, this is like I'm195 to 100% sure this is true.
Emotional authorities tend tobe like they might feel other
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emotions as well, as like Ichoose, I know that this is the
right decision for me, but theremight always be that little bit
of indecision or like fear.
If this is the right decision,does that resonate with you?
Because I mean, you've done somuch work on your decision
making process.
I'm curious how that resonateswith being an emotional
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authority.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Yeah, it does.
I feel like I can make a prettyquick decision.
I feel like I can make a prettyquick decision, but I have to
be in my own energy.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
If I'm around other people and of course there's
going to be like gates involvedand all that stuff then I might
be making a decision about, well, what's also best for them or
what do they want for me, right?
So it really helps me from apsychic reader perspective
because when I'm in someoneelse's energy then I can tap
into well, what's best for them.
Like that actually makes itsuper easy for myself.
(48:38):
I just sit with it for a minuteSometimes.
I just know, you know, I just Ijust know.
When I come back to it it waspretty much always the first hit
anyway, even if I spent acouple of days mulling something
over.
So learning to trust thatbecause I feel it in my heart.
But you know, sometimes I'lljust wash my hands, get in the
shower, go on a walk.
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I have so much clarity when I'mby myself and that is really,
really helpful for people likeme.
And maybe that's a undefinedemotional center kind of thing
too, to just like ask yourselfhow much of this is mine.
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Like how much right.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
How much of this idea , this energy, this stress, this
anxiety, like how much of thisis mine.
And I think some people confusethat with just being empathic.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (49:27):
Right, but then they're not taking into account
their human design or theirsensitivity or anything like
that.
And and then you know, like Isaid before, there's
environmental effects.
If you haven't slept a lot,you're over caffeinated, you're
eating like shit.
Maybe you're a new mom.
You know you just got a lotgoing on.
Do whatever you can to lockyourself away for five minutes
(49:49):
and breathe ground yourself.
I have a great groundingmeditation I'm happy to share
with your audience and get intoyour own energy.
I think no matter defined orundefined right, just find that
peace for yourself and then gofrom there.
And when you start to trustyourself and make intuitive
decisions that don't seemlogical and they work out, you
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fall in love with listening toyour intuition.
It just becomes fun, like youtrust it, the same way you trust
if your GPS is telling you togo a certain way.
Speaker 1 (50:19):
Thank you for sharing that.
I love that because it's verytrue and I think that we can get
kind of overwhelmed in thebeginning stages of it, like
this feels very uncomfortablebecause anything that we start
that's new is going to beuncomfortable.
But, just like any muscle thatwe develop, it becomes more
habitual and fun.
(50:41):
Like you said, it can be reallyfun and be curious and have fun
with it.
Those are like two of the bestgifts that we can give ourselves
, no matter what the topic is Becurious.
Be curious about yourrelationship, be curious about
how you respond to your job, becurious about your intuition and
have fun with it.
(51:01):
How can I have fun with it?
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
Wow, yeah, that curiosity piece is important,
especially what if you're, whatif you need to find out about
something that's not so exciting?
Right, just like to be awitness, like a third person
perspective of your own life, onoccasion is helpful, and to go
just gonna see how this playsout, mm, hmm, sometimes that's
(51:30):
necessary and you know, and Itry to make it fun as much as I
can, and I remember one of myteachers saying to me you know,
alicia, you have a gift thatyou'll see things for people you
don't like to see, and that'snot always fun.
I was doing a group readingrecently at a business retreat
and this woman started talkingabout a family member and I knew
(51:51):
the exact age that this familymember I believe, anyway, that
is, they're going to pass awayand she started talking about
this family member and then shestarted talking about how she's
worried they're going to passaway and I was like, well, how
old are they?
And she said a couple yearsyounger than the number I saw.
So then I didn't have to say, ohyeah, they're gonna die in two
years, right?
What I said was well, what abeautiful opportunity to lean
(52:13):
into a little bit of this worryand alchemize it into love and
just go spend extra time withthem, right?
So if anyone here is intuitivewe all are.
But if you do it professionallyor you, your friends tend to
lean on you for it.
Whether or not you do itprofessionally, if somebody asks
you a question you are guidedto not answer directly.
(52:34):
That's okay.
It doesn't mean you're lesspsychic or you're less talented
or powerful or professional like.
that's where the I think that'swhere all my coaching experience
comes in I've gotten so manydifferent coaching
certifications, and where thecompassionate communication
piece comes in, because there'smany abusive intuitives out
there who just say shit theyprobably shouldn't say or they
(52:55):
shouldn't say it the way theysaid it, and that's true in the
coaching industry too.
So you know, there's ways toshare news with people that's
loving, and I encourage everyoneto do that, no matter what you
do for a living loving and Iencourage everyone to do that,
no matter what you do for aliving, Absolutely, yeah, I mean
(53:17):
such a good, such a good point.
Speaker 1 (53:18):
I want to share one more thing about your human
design chart that I just thinkis so fascinating, and then I
have one final question.
So when I'm looking at yourhuman design chart and we're and
we're having theseconversations, you have along
the lines of we were talkingabout defined and undefined
centers.
We all have either colored incenter or it's going to be not
colored in and you have yourspleen is undefined.
(53:40):
Our spleen is our center ofintuition.
So I had a human design expertcome on my podcast before and
one of the things that I lovedthat her perspective was is it's
in our open centers orundefined centers that we're
here to learn lessons, maybealchemize like I would love to
(54:04):
hear like play with thecommonalities between that as
well?
You've really cultivated thislife of leaning into and
embodying your intuition, and Imean, when we're talking in
terms of undefined like, youmagnify.
So our undefined centers.
(54:25):
People that have defined spleencenters like you're going to
act as a mirror and magnifytheir definedness, their energy.
So it's really cool that youkind of have that in there as
well, but I don't know.
That's one of the reasons thatI love human design is just
looking at these little aspects.
For me, my only open center so Ihave no defined gates is my
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root center.
So a lot of my business is ingrounding and a lot of my
business is somatic work,getting back into our body,
using human design as a tool todo that as well.
But it makes so much sense tome once I figured that out,
Cause I'm like that's that'swhere we have the biggest
lessons to learn and we oftenteach and lead and serve people,
(55:11):
our community, in the lessonswhere we went through like this
shit, or where we've struggled,not struggled, but you know,
like gone through the most inthat area, because I can only
help you as far as I've beenhelping myself or as far as I've
helped myself.
So anyway, I really wanted toshare that.
(55:31):
In your chart I always findjust one little piece at the end
of episodes and I love thatabout your chart.
I think that's reallyinteresting.
Speaker 2 (55:39):
Thank you.
It's nice to hear I'm onpurpose.
And yeah, it's true.
Every big move I've made in mylife was connected to an
intuitive hit.
Speaker 1 (55:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (55:52):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (55:54):
Love it.
So, before the last questionwhere can people find you?
Where do you hang out the most,if they want to follow up and
continue learning from you?
Speaker 2 (56:04):
Thanks, love.
I am on Instagram, I'meverywhere at Alicia sky, so
that's my handle on all socialsand I try to dabble a little bit
in every place LinkedIn andFacebook and all the places.
And my website is my name,alicia skycom.
There's an E at the end of sky,so you'll see it in the episode
(56:25):
description.
And, yeah, I have a coachingmembership and my clients just
call it like psychic hour.
Right, it's just a membershipto just come and ground, set an
intention, connect and I'll tunein for people whatever it is
they need.
And sometimes they ask me somebusiness strategy stuff because
I've built so many successfulbusinesses.
So it's kind of a hybrid ofintuition and practical as far
(56:49):
as the membership goes.
And it's very affordable.
At the time we're recordingthis, it's $100 a month and
there's four live calls.
So the price could go up can'tsay when, but as of now that's
what I'm charging and I justwant it to be super easy for
people and my podcast, theBrilliance Method, available,
where all podcasts are, andYouTube, red coral universe is a
(57:11):
great place to watch shows.
So, um, yeah.
Speaker 1 (57:15):
Love it and I will link all of that below.
I also would love to link thatgrounding meditation.
That sounds really fun, so I'lllink that below in the
description as well.
Um so, last question we'regoing to hop on our mini TED
Talk.
If you were standing on a stageand you had 30 seconds or a
minute to share one message,what would that message be?
Speaker 2 (57:40):
Be the lighthouse, not the lifesaver.
The lighthouse is a strongbeacon shining in every
direction for people to findtheir way and stand tall and
strong beside them.
A lifesaver is a flimsy pieceof foam that gets tossed out
into a cold ocean where peoplegrab onto them, push them under
(58:03):
the water.
They're probably cold andscared and yelling and they're
sharks and it's terrifying.
The water they're probably coldand scared and yelling and
they're sharks and it'sterrifying.
And when we are being alifesaver, we're trying to fix
people, save people, versusstand next to them and shine and
lead by example.
And I did a lot of fixing andsaving in my life and I think
(58:24):
the only exception to this is ifyou are a surgeon or an
ambulance driver.
But we can all help more peoplewhen we lead by example and
shine our light, versus jumpinto the darkness with them.
Speaker 1 (58:37):
I love that.
Thank you, Look at you soprepared.
You're welcome.
Thank you so much for coming onthis show.
This was a really funconversation.
Speaker 2 (58:46):
My pleasure, hannah, thanks for having me.
Can't wait to keep sharing andyou'll be on mine.
Speaker 1 (58:51):
Yes, yes, we'll talk soon about that.
Yes, we will.
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye,bye, bye, bye.
Speaker 2 (58:55):
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
Hello, welcome back to the podcast.
So today we are joined with Iam joined with Alicia Skye.
She's a 5'1 emotional generator, manifesting generator, so we
know that we're always going tointerweave human design in here
and she's an intuitive businesscoach from the Brilliance Method
(00:24):
.
And today we're really going tohave I mean, we were talking
about it before we started it'sgoing to be a very intuitively
led conversation.
So it's kind of hard to prefacewhat we're going to be talking
about, but we're going to betalking about the intuition.
We're going to be talking aboutchoosing love over fear.
We're going to be talking abouta lot of spirituality things.
(00:44):
If you're watching the YouTubevideo, you know that she's
pulling a card right now.
So I'm going to stop talkingand let you introduce yourself,
let us know what card you justpulled, and then we will get
into the conversation.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Oh my gosh.
Okay, so I, as you kicked itoff, I pulled yes, I'm using
Rebecca Campbell's deck today,the Trust, your Light deck, and
this is yes.
It says just say yes, I'mtrying to get it to focus.
So these it looks like onewoman and it's every angle of
her and she's receiving divineinformation and her hands are
(01:19):
open and her hands are in prayerpose above her head with this
beautiful pyramid of light.
So it's a confirmation.
Her hands are in prayer poseabove her head with this
beautiful pyramid of light.
So it's a confirmation.
And my hit on that for everyonelistening and watching is
whatever you're being led toconnected to this conversation
today, of choosing love andlistening to your intuition,
like yes, yes, yes, even ifyou've been quote unquote wrong
(01:42):
in the past or have mademistakes we all have.
My story is hilariously messy,hot mess, express and we get
exactly where we need to get inperfect time.
So, yes, you can trust yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
That's the message, babe, right there, love it, yeah
, love it.
I love card bowls.
I should do this before everypodcast.
Honestly, you're inspiring me.
Right, let's do it.
I love card bowls.
I should do this before everypodcast.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Honestly, you're inspiring me Right, let's do it.
Just add it to the hey seasontwo mid mid season.
Here we go, so I might pullothers as we're going Well.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, let me.
Let me give you a moment tointroduce yourself.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Oh, thank you, darling.
So I'm Alicia sky.
Hello, I'm an intuitive.
I help people with business,especially creative and
spiritual entrepreneurs.
People come to me forcompassionate communication.
That's a big one, workingthrough boundaries, life purpose
Life purpose is a bigconversation that I have all the
(02:39):
time, especially when you're inan entrepreneurial space.
But I work with a lot ofcorporate teams who are not
entrepreneurs, but obviouslythere are some entrepreneurs
there and team leaders, managers, vps.
I do a lot of mindfulnessworkshops and consulting from a
perspective of stress reductionand trusting and listening to
your intuition.
So I just play in this world.
It's really fun.
A fun fact I've officiated overa thousand weddings.
(03:01):
Yeah right, I'm not currentlyofficiating.
It's not something you cannecessarily call me and book me
for, but I'm always open to aconversation.
I can refer you to some greatpeople.
But through that and also myown beautiful marriage of a
million years, I help with loveas well, like love and
relationships, and it all comesback to communication,
(03:23):
communications, requirements,boundaries.
What do we want more of what'sworking?
Do more of that, not keeplooking at what we want less of.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Oh my gosh, there's so many places we can go here,
absolutely Choosing love andfocusing on love.
Actually, it's really funny thatyou say this, because that's
something that I've kind of beenmeditating on recently is
focusing more on what's goingright in my life, what, what am
I loving in my life right now?
Because I actually have this notthat I planned on talking about
(03:53):
this, but it's coming up.
I have this epiphany that I waslike I have spent so many years
of my life focusing on spendingso much time in the future or
the past and focusing on what Iwould have changed in my past
and, if I would have changed it,how my life would have been
different.
Or focusing on the future wheredo I want to be in my business
and how many clients do I wantto have and where do I want to
(04:16):
be living and where do I want tobe in my relationship and what
I realized is I'm spending solittle time right here and
appreciating everything that Ihave going on right now in my
life, every blessing, everythingthat I have to feel so grateful
for because we have so muchgood happening every single day
in our lives and really, likeyou're saying, kind of focusing
(04:37):
on what am I loving right now inmy life, because we're kind of
conditioned to want the nextthing to be running after the
next thing.
And there's nothing wrong withhaving goals right, but really
we can get stuck in not beingsatisfied with where we are.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Totally and I need to nail on the head with the word
conditioned.
We are so conditioned and it'sno longer just a Western thing
or a US citizen thing Like wejust are striving, striving.
There is so much pressure fromsociety, from family, and you
know, truly, whatever our own asGay Hendricks calls them, our
(05:20):
hidden barriers to success, likefear about shining others, or
you know we're going to bejudged, or like why is it that
we're playing small over andover and not pursuing that zone
of genius in our purpose right,which I like to call our unique
brilliance, because we all havethat spark.
So, whatever you want is yours.
It's just up to you to createit.
(05:41):
And you know, connect withamazing humans like Hannah and
myself to help you get out ofyour own way, to have it.
And just the fact that, hannah,you have been aware enough to go
, oh, I'm craving the presentmoment, like you're already
course correcting.
You're already doing it and youknow, for some people they'll
(06:04):
ask me, like, what's the bestway to practice mindfulness?
And obviously there's things wecan do to get into our body.
Our body is such a great anchorfor mindfulness, like if you
rub your hands together and thenyou feel the tingle in your
palms.
You just sit there for a momentor you tune into a part of the
body that you don't alwaysnotice, like space between your
fingers or your toes or the backof your ear, like, can you
(06:25):
actually feel if you're wearingunderwear?
right Like those kinds of things.
It just helps you drop in andit doesn't have your brain
thinking about multiple thingsat once.
But, truly, I don't seegratitude as a buzzword.
I see gratitude as a pathway tomindfulness, to being present.
And if anyone is rolling theireyes at the idea of, well, okay,
(06:48):
to get more present, I justhave to focus on what I'm
grateful for.
I've been doing that for 20years, girl.
It's not working.
Shift it slightly and go okay,instead of what am I grateful
for?
And write 20 things you'regrateful for and repeat that
list over and over until you're,you know, sick of it.
Just pick one thing and writethree reasons why.
When we get into the why, thenwe start to connect more deeply,
(07:13):
not just to that gratitude, butto our purpose and as humans
and creatives and you know, justbuzzing around people we like
to know why.
It's you know, when our parentstell us to do something because
I said so, that doesn't work onanybody.
No especially adults.
(07:35):
So it helps us to know why.
So connect to your why and it'sgoing to always keep you more
present.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
I love that.
I do think that there's a lotof kind of Hmm, I love that.
I do think that there's a lotof kind of overkill on gratitude
(08:03):
.
It because then you arespending a little bit more time
in that gratitude and spending alittle bit more time with that,
versus just the list a hundredthings that you feel grateful
for right now, which probably iscan get repetitive as well.
But I want to.
I want to hear, I want to learna little bit more about you,
(08:25):
and I love connecting topeople's stories, and that's
really how we connect to people.
So I want to hear.
You made a comment that youhave a funny background and hot
mess express, so let's hear allof that.
And then I really do want toget back to talking about
purpose and discovering ourpurpose talking about purpose
(08:46):
and discovering our purpose.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Okay, yeah, and that's all going to come out
through this story.
So I, since I was a little girl, I just there's a couple of
things that I always loved and Ithink for anyone who's looking
at their life purpose, they cando some inventory to notice what
they've always been drawn to.
And you know, I've always lovedmusic, but I never wanted to be
a musician, even though, like Ikind of I'm like a really poor
(09:09):
drummer, like I'm not good atthe drums, but I like playing
the drums, I can keep a beat, uh, and I I realized that was from
a past life, in the ezekieltribe, scribing, channeling,
like just just receiving divineinformation, and we would listen
to music at a four, four countwhen we we would channel, when
we would chant, when we wouldwrite.
So I'm very connected to justthose beats and that timing.
(09:31):
So, as a little kid, just askingmy mother curious questions mom
, what's, what's, what's outsideour galaxy, you know?
And she's like multiplegalaxies.
Well, how big does that go?
It goes on infinitely.
This broke my five-year-oldbrain.
I'm like, why am I even askingthese questions?
So, just like curiosity, youknow, I've just just been a
seeker since birth and, uh, Ilove to heal, I love to
(09:54):
entertain, I love to laugh likeyou, and I have already laughed
so much just in, even before wehit record, you know, and and we
can lean into that energy ofjoy.
No matter what energy levelwe're at, no matter how we're
feeling, no matter how muchsleep we got, we don't have to
always be at a 10.
Like, I'm not at a 10.
Coming on the show like thatwould scare everybody, right?
Like I'm just going to meet youat like a peaceful four and
(10:15):
we'll go up and down, you know.
So just understanding and beingaware of energy.
Since I was a kid, my mom and Iused to rub our hands together
and then we would hold them upand we would feel the tingle and
we would notice each other'senergy and we would pull it back
as far as we could until wecouldn't feel it anymore.
So I want to give so muchpraise, gratitude and just
(10:37):
credit to my mom, who is nolonger with us, but she raised
me as a young kid to just beobsessed with weird shit
crystals and chanting andmultiple different types of
religions and love andforgiveness and it's not weird
(10:58):
at all.
But to other kids it was weird.
You know, I was like looking atthe moon and writing little
spells and love notes to theuniverse, while other kids yes,
I played with Barbies and allthat.
But another thing, too is whenI had dolls, I always was like
it wasn't about who are wemarried to and how many kids did
we have.
It was okay, this Barbie's anurse and this Barbie's a
(11:19):
teacher, and now they're friendsand they're talking about work
and how many people did theyhelp?
Just it's so cute and it's solame and it's like the sweetest
way that I grew up.
I feel so fast forward, moved toLos Angeles when I was 19 to be
a movie star and had beenvisualizing over and over and
over for many years, like myOscar speech and my acceptance
(11:43):
speech and all those things, andI got my Screen Actors Guild
card and I booked some thingsand long story short, I wound up
getting breast cancer when Iwas 24.
And that took me on like it waslike you know, I just hear like
the tire screech, like likelike now we're turning this way.
(12:03):
We're turning this way.
It doesn't mean you're notgoing to entertain and receive
awards and accolades.
It just might look differentera, might look different for a
while.
So I had to embrace what doesthis look like and why did I get
sick?
And my mother didn't die ofbreast cancer.
My grandmother had a stage oneat one point she had a
lymphectomy.
(12:23):
Later it came back.
It was just different than mine.
So I went into a journey of selfto understand why did this
happen to me, and especially at24, a fresh 24, it was like a
week after I turned 24, thecomment I heard over and over
and over was you're so young,you're so young to have cancer.
And they were right.
(12:44):
So why did I get sick, right,why did you get cancer?
People are asking me, why doyou have a family history?
And as I studied more in thegenetics, you know it's actually
a very small percentage who, iftheir family has it, they have
it, and I'm like, oh, that'sinteresting, you'd think it was
bigger but, you know that's setme on my journey, hannah, of
fear and love and fear and loveand what is the difference?
(13:06):
And I got into A Course inMiracles and really that's a
philosophy on practicingforgiveness.
It aligned very well with theBuddhist stuff.
My mom raised me with theJewish stuff.
My family raised me with Likeit's all just, I'm not any
religion, I'm all of them kindof you know so then, uh, let's
(13:29):
see how do I wrap this up, as Iwas no longer in front of the
camera because I was goingthrough chemo, radiation,
multiple surgeries my hair keptchanging.
I tried, I tried.
I remember I auditioned for theshow and it was for a Luke
Perry show while he was stillaround and the casting director
was like are you wearing a wig?
Why are you wearing a wig?
And I was like, oh man, I'm notfooling anybody, like even
(13:51):
though I had some cute wigs.
But I just, I just realized Ineed to take a break.
I need to shift gears, like Ineed to.
I can't keep going the way Iwas going.
So, ultimately, why did I getcancer?
Not dealing with trauma, frombeing a kid?
Stress, putting other people'sopinions above my own, seeking
outside validation all the time,thinking my industry was more
(14:12):
important than my own mentalhealth or my wellbeing, and
people pleasing to death,fawning nonstop Just all that
stuff kind of came to a haltwhen I was healing Cause.
I just couldn't do it.
I was like, oh my God, I'm somuch more peaceful not having to
prove myself all the time.
What's this about?
Like that's a lesson in yourtwenties.
(14:32):
Most people learn a lot later,I think.
Yeah, so, um, from there, I wasstill in the industry, but I
wasn't in front of the camera asmuch.
I was producing shows for otherpeople great comedians.
I was friends with YouTubehappened 2006.
We got some branded deals.
I did that all the way upthrough almost 2020.
2019, I started producingonline courses, got back more
(14:58):
into the educational space,which was really fun, and then I
produced a bunch of my owncourses and in the meanwhile, I
told you, I officiated over athousand weddings.
That was like side hustle,because I didn't want to bartend
anymore and people were comingto the house to get readings and
healings.
I was just doing it all liketotal gypsy woman.
So long story longer almostdone.
(15:21):
Where we're at now is the lastfew years focusing on the
brilliance method.
I created a curriculum of howdid I do it?
How did I heal?
How did I find soulmate love?
How have I brought in so muchmoney?
How come every business I touchturns to gold?
I asked myself all thosequestions, how did I do it?
And it really came down tolearning to listen to and trust
your intuition and taking actionand releasing fear.
(15:42):
I have a whole module aroundfear versus love and what that
looks like.
So now, what do I do?
I play, I play.
I just led this like goddesscamp.
I do readings.
I have a coaching membership.
I have my podcast.
Like I've still producedcontent for a nonprofit because
it's fun for me.
I do what I feel motivated andinspired to do and I'm so
blessed.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Thank you for sharing all that.
You are such a classic Manny,jen.
I do everything that I meanthat's.
We have so many similarities inour story, but one of the
similarities is I do so manydifferent things and manifesting
generators tend to like to bestimulated by different things,
(16:28):
and that doesn't always have tobe work.
It can be having one job andthen having a bunch of hobbies.
But for you and me, we both do.
For you and I, we both do a lotof different things.
But thank you for sharing yourstory.
I love that and I love that youare able to reflect and then
(16:50):
hone in this curriculum of howdo I do this, how did I build
this life and how can I, how canothers replicate that system?
How can I, how can othersreplicate that system?
I'm very curious to dive intothe intuition and and and
(17:10):
building your uh, building yourintuition and have a
conversation around that,because that's something that I
talk a lot about.
It's it's something personallythat I really love to talk about
, but it's also one of the mostlarge questions that I get from
clients and in my community iswhat is your intuition?
Let's start there and then howthe heck do I build it?
Speaker 2 (17:34):
so our intuition is a sense just like any other and
it can be just as strong as anyother.
So when I say other, I mean andit can be just as strong as any
(18:11):
other.
So when I hearing and taste andall that, and over time, one
second puppies, puppies arepuppies are saying hi to
everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
I don't think we can hear them Over time.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
You know, quick, quick history lesson as and this
is not an anti-men comment atall I love men.
Women were taken out of roles ofpower and not as respected and
trusted.
And you know there's a reason.
They call it the woman'sintuition.
(18:46):
And men got very afraid ofpowerful women coming together
in groups and containers andcollectives and doing quote
unquote magic.
But it's manifestation andhealing and all the things that
we do, like you and me, yourguests, many people listening
and from it was hey, don'tlisten to yourself, listen to
(19:07):
this person in charge, and whenyou know whether it's the person
at the front of the, the castleor the church or anywhere else.
Uh, and again, I'm notanti-religion, I I love them all
.
I love all the things that workabout them.
I don't love the things thatare judgy and shitty about them.
So we were told don't trustyourself, trust someone else and
(19:33):
put your dollar there in thatbowl, right, and you know so.
Fast forward all these thousandsof years later now, you know,
with the tech technological boom, years later now, you know,
with the tech technological boom, obviously, the industrial
revolution, um, you know, in thelast hundred years, we are
distracted.
We are so distracted.
We have so much to do.
(19:54):
Going back to what we firststarted talking about, there is
so much pressure to produce,produce, produce.
And that is not how the seasonswork.
We right, amen.
We are not supposed to justalways be creating and producing
.
There's a reason for rest, andit's not just eight hours at
(20:17):
night or less for most people,right?
So from an intuitiveperspective, we really have
three cycles that we are in allthe time.
So now we're kind of leaninginto how do you, how do you tap
into it more right?
Anything you want me to expandon or clear up around, like what
is intuition?
it's just no I love it, yeah,okay, great.
(20:37):
So, um, now, when we noticewhat energetic cycle we're in,
we're either in create, maintainor destroy.
And if destroy feels toomasculine or scary, just say let
go.
And that doesn't mean that wecan't be.
You know, if you're creativeand your job is to create 365
(21:01):
days a year, it doesn't mean youcan't work.
It just means when you noticeyour energetic flow, like, for
example, if you're an author andyou're like I've got writer's
block, do you or are you just ina period of maintain or let go,
right, there has to bereflection and rest and
inspiration.
That's why vacation is soimportant.
We receive so much growththrough travel, through
(21:23):
connection, through just daysoff with our family and our pets
, just playing and reading andresting.
We get so many ideas.
I get more ideas when I'm quiet, doing nothing than when I'm
actively searching for them same.
So, when we start to honor andnotice the cycles we're in, our
intuition will get louder, inconjunction with practicing more
(21:47):
mindfulness in our life,actively choosing to reduce
distractions in our life, whichfor me.
I have my social medianotifications off on my phone,
so sure sometimes I miss shit,like I got tagged in a story.
It's expired.
I don't know what it was, I'msure it was cute.
This shit, like I got tagged ina story.
It's expired.
I don't know what it was, I'msure it was cute.
But you know a little FOMO hereand there.
(22:07):
But I have so much peace in mylife that my phone is not
constantly going off, or when Iopened my phone there's not a
ton of notifications.
And you know, maybe I opened myphone to call someone or text
someone and then now, 30 minuteslater, I'm looking at all the
TikToks everybody sent me.
Like doesn't work for my brainso I had to just turn off the
(22:27):
notifications.
But we're already fightingagainst, you know, chemicals in
our food and EMFs and noiseoutside and noise inside, you
know, in our home and in our ownbodies.
So, and not to mention, a lotof people deal with chronic pain
or fatigue or headaches and wecan have a whole nother episode
about how wellness is connectedto our intuition.
(22:48):
And I'm so glad people aretalking about the nervous system
now and um you know, as we getolder, we're going to start
talking about hormones and allthat stuff.
That's like all connected.
But when we can slow down,truly like you just had let out
that sigh like even justthinking about it, everybody,
(23:08):
just take a breath right now andconnect to the peace in your
own being, because that's all wereally want.
That's why we're trying to makeso much money and why we're
trying to accomplish things andachieve those goals.
We just want peace.
So what if we reverse, engineerthis ship and call in more
(23:31):
peace to begin with and thenstart to manifest our life, hear
our intuition more clearly,honor the cycles that we're in
and just trust.
So I'm asking everyone to havesome faith.
If you're feeling like, oh mygosh, all the bills are due, I
don't have enough money, she'stelling me just to chill.
I'm not telling you to donothing, but sometimes when if,
(23:55):
let's say, you're trying to geta job and you're sending a
hundred resumes a day onLinkedIn using an easy apply,
wondering why am I not hearingfrom anyone?
It's like that's still amindless activity, like pause.
Who deserves your time and yourbrilliance?
Craft the perfect letter,connect to who they are, find
them, send them a message likeget in front of people.
(24:18):
That's part of the reason why Ireached out to you to be on
your podcast.
I was like I want to get infront of your people.
I love you and what you do,like your people get me and I
love them.
So, like, actively, use yourintuition to go.
Who should I be spending timewith right now?
Speaker 1 (24:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Just, over and over and over, trust yourself and it
becomes a process of trustingyourself.
I like to have my clientsjournal.
I call it the you were rightjournal, and every time you get
a hit, you were right aboutsomething, something worked out.
Cause, like you said earlier,it's so easy to focus on what's
not working, you know, and, inaddition to what we were talking
about and where things wentwrong, like what if we actually
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just keep a log of what wentright and you're thinking about
someone and then they text youlike that's a little little
sonar ping between, that's apsychic moment, yeah Right, so
keep, keep a journal.
There's so many ways to developyour intuition and some of it
is in my course and other.
There's some great teachers Ican recommend in addition to
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myself, but it starts with you.
It starts with slow down,listen, take note, don't rush.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Don't rush.
I'm listening to a book and shewas talking a little bit about
building your intuition orstrengthening your inner voice,
whatever it is, whatever youwant to call it and one of the
words that really stuck out tome was she said sink, like,
cause she she would talk maybe alittle bit about like praying
too right, like the whole.
(25:50):
Everything is so connected.
So the whole idea of like, whenwe kneel to pray or we get on
our knees to pray, sink either.
Sink into your couch, sink intoyour chair, just like that
breath that we took.
Whenever you slow down, you'regoing to innately take that like
listen, like you're saying,just listen, because, at least
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for me, I don't know about youand we can talk about this in
terms of human design.
I have a open crown, definedajna center.
So, like, one of my head headcenters is defined, one is
undefined.
Both of yours are undefined, bythe way.
Um, but for me, I can get verystuck in.
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How do I build my intuition?
Like, give me the, theblueprint or what, what am I
supposed to do?
Just tell me what to do and youknow, like endlessly googling
or or scrolling and trying tofind the answer.
But something that you said isthe answer is in you.
You have the answer already.
You don't have to be scrollingto find it.
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You already know the perfectjob for you.
And we are.
Sometimes we just do kind ofwaste time, mindlessly applying
or mindlessly reaching out topeople.
What if I just took a pause andthought about I like that,
who's worth my time?
That's a bold, that's a boldtopic change like, that's a
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switch.
Who's worth my brilliance?
And what do I have?
What do I uniquely possess?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
you were born with so many gifts.
Thank you for that.
You know kind of reframing thattoo, in such a simple way.
We came in with talent andgifts and you know curiosities,
like I talked about being alittle kid, right, what are you
drawn to?
And I think another thinginspired by what you just said
is we will build our intuition.
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It'll just become stronger andmore innate the more we trust it
.
Yeah, it's, it's like.
You know, you can see becauseyou keep seeing it, validates it
right, and then, as we getolder, we don't see as well.
We're like oh, we start to losefaith in it.
So it works the other way too.
You know, right now, don't?
We can't really see ourintuition, like, does that?
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How does it work in my life?
So, just by acknowledging it,using it, tapping into it, even
in little ways, you know like,okay, well, my brain is saying I
should do this, but I just feel, right, I feel in my body and
you know, from a human designperspective and I'd love you to
talk more about this we areeither physically feeling or
emotionally feeling, and I thinkI'm an emotional decision maker
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versus a physical feelingdecision maker.
But, one of the things I tell myclients is if you can't make a
decision, stand up right.
Stand up and notice where yourbody leans.
Does it lean towards thedecision or away from the
decision?
When you think about thepresent moment decision Like,
for example, if someone's reallyhaving a hard time in a
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relationship you know you don'tsay should I leave this
relationship.
You say I'm no longer in thisrelationship or I'm in a new
beautiful relationship.
Like make a present momentstatement and notice if your
body just ever so gently startsto lean one way or the other
towards it.
If you're more of a physicaldecision maker.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
if it's harder for you to see, my mom used to say
this and I use this.
I borrowed it from her, adoptedit from her, but I use it with
my clients often is how do youfeel?
As if you like picture that youput yourself in that situation.
So so let me give an example.
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Um, leaving a relationship,right, how do you feel if you
left that relationship?
Notice how it feels in yourbody to imagine letting go of
that relationship.
Of course there's going to befear.
We're not talking about thefear.
But if you, it's, oftentimesespecially as a sacral authority
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.
So I'm not really sure how itis with other authorities,
because I'm only in my body, butwith a sacral authority,
oftentimes it's my immediateresponse.
Or if you just have a definedsacral center, so you also have
a defined sacral center, eventhough you're an emotional
authority.
But oftentimes it's thatimmediate, like how would you
feel leaving this relationship?
How would you feel leaving thisjob?
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How would you feel living in la, I don't know whatever it is,
and notice how your body feels,notice what comes, comes up.
Do you feel lighter, do youfeel heavier?
The fear thing, I think.
Maybe, maybe you'll havesomething to say about this.
The fear thing can be trickybecause we can get stuck in fear
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and think that it's ourintuition.
So how do we?
Do you have anything, any tipsand tools of how can we navigate
?
Oh, this is fear versus.
This is my intuition.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Yes, and before I do, I just want to say I love what
you just said and you'reinviting people to notice if
there's relief in that decision,right.
So when Hannah said, do youfeel lighter Like, do you
actually feel relief?
Do you feel relief or do youfeel loss?
You know there could be reallysomething there.
You know something to fight foror something to let go of.
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So, um, yes, how do we know ifit's fear or intuition?
So this is going to lead usinto talking about choosing fear
or love, cause I always like tochoose love.
So, first and foremost, ourintuition resides in our heart.
It really does.
Now, if you are clairvoyant,meaning you see it, or
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claircognizant, you just kind ofknow it, which kind of sounds
like a loud thought.
Clairaudient, you hear it.
Whatever it is, I'm moving myhands all around my head.
That doesn't mean yourintuition is in your head, it's
actually in your heart, right.
When you're clairvoyantlyseeing things, you're actually
seeing it with your heart andthen it like projects this movie
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up into your third eye.
That's how that works.
So and I've mentored andstudied under a lot of great
mystics and healers and teachersthey have all said the same
thing and I believe it to betrue.
Your intuition is in your heart,so I'm going to, I'm going to
die on that hill and from thatperspective, if you, in case
anyone doesn't agree, I meanpeople call it a gut feeling,
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but it's actually not in yourgut.
They call it a gut feelingbecause our gut is the only
other place in our body.
We have brain cells besides ourbrain.
That's why we call it a gutfeeling.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
But, again.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
That's a deception because we're not actually
thinking, we're feeling.
So move to your heart, thatheart center where you feel that
beautiful bright green light,that heart chakra in your chest.
Some people see it as pink.
That's totally cool with me andfront and back, left and right,
tuning more into.
How can I feel into this moreso when we are feel into this
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more so when we are askingourselves a question to make a
decision?
Is this an intuitive hit or isthis fear?
The most common thing wherepeople get stuck is trying to
tune in for someone they love.
I have a lot of moms who are myclients and if their child has
lumps and bumps, scrapes,breakups, all the things that's
like.
Sometimes they're like I'm tooclose to it, I can't, I don't, I
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don't know, right, totally getthat.
Sometimes I get so scared aboutthe most random shit having to
do with my husband and it's nottrue, right, like cause he goes
on tour.
He's a musician, is he going tobe?
Okay, he recently just left togo produce a record in Vegas and
I had just kept getting theweirdest feeling.
I'm like I don't want him to goon this trip.
I don't want him to go on thistrip.
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But when I sat down and Ilistened and I'm like, okay, is
this fear or is this myintuition?
I tuned into my heart.
Did my heart feel light?
Did my head feel heavy?
If it's fear, it's probablyyour head or anywhere else your
head, your shoulders, uh, thatkind of thing.
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But if you can lean in and go,okay, how does my heart feel
about this?
My heart center, it's like he'sfine, like he's not gonna die
on this trip, like maybe it'snot gonna be everything he wants
and like if he didn't go itmight be better, but for some
reason he's going and he's gonnabe okay.
So I'm not gonna intervenebecause he trusts me.
If I said to him honey, don'tget on that plane, that's the
last thing you want Alicia totell you is don't get on that
plane, right, you'll cancel yourflight.
It'll be really annoying.
So I'm like he can go.
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He did the, he did the songs inVegas and then he flew to LA to
teach a seminar at MusiciansInstitute and he got COVID.
He picked up COVID in LA andhere we are in 2025.
And for it just fucking knockedhim down.
He was down for like seven,eight days.
He said it was one of the worststrands he'd ever experienced.
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So that was my hit.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
That was what my hit was, but it wasn't Duncan on the
plane, you know.
And so he had to cancel aseminar, was such a bummer
because Musicians Institute paidfor advertising and all that
stuff and he was disappointed.
He really wanted to teach thisclass, but it was okay, and he
got to spend eight days in WestHollywood at our friend's
apartment house sitting and justlive his best life ordering
delivery no here, so um.
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So that's just a little exampleof where I had to practice this
myself recently.
So you drop it into your heart,you can also notice your body
language if you're like, oh mygosh, I'm so worried about this
thing, are you now?
Did you instinctively hold yourheart or hold your head?
If you were holding your head,it's probably.
But if you're like, no, I justI don't feel good about this,
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notice your language, I don'tfeel good about this, versus I
think this is gonna suck right.
Thinking it, it's fear.
If you're feeling it might notbe fear, okay.
So it just takes practice overand over.
But again, if you consistentlyacknowledge your intuition,
listen to it, take note of it,you just start to trust it more
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and if you're too close to it,phone a friend.
That's what we're here for.
Book a session with me orsomeone else who can help you,
just tune in a little bit.
But I'd rather everybody trustthemselves truly trust
yourselves and does that answeryour question?
Because we can start talkingabout fear and love.
Speaker 1 (36:18):
Yeah, please, let's Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Okay, so fear versus love?
What does this even mean andhow is it connected to our
intuition?
So we're going to get even morespiritual now.
Strap in.
Folks Love it, I believe.
So try this on.
We have our ego and we have ourspirit.
They are coexisting in our body, in our being, and our spirit
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is eternal right.
Our soul is at home and lovealways knows the truth about
everything, never left.
Our spirit is on this like funjourney, being human over and
over and over, and growing andlearning lessons and all that
stuff, right?
So I have this tattoo that saysremember your soul, remember who
you are, remember where you are.
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It's not even where you camefrom, it's where you are.
We are at home in love and thiscollective consciousness.
So why do we have this ego?
What is this ego?
A lot of people are like undothe ego, we hate the ego.
I'm like look, it's cool, I'mcool with the ego.
It's hard to.
It's hard to have a lifewithout one and, depending on
the different lifetimes you'velived, you might need to build
up a little bit of an ego.
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That's something that a masterteacher told me once.
Like you could.
She's.
Like you've been a teacher,you've been a nun, you've done
this.
You've been a teacher, you'vebeen a nun, you've done this.
You've had a couple oflifetimes where you were a total
asshole.
But like, you're here in thislifetime to build up your ego
and I'm like oh interesting, Ithought the whole point was to
undo the ego, right, but itreally depends on where you've
come from and where you've beenand it doesn't mean I don't many
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mistakes.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
I've hurt people, I'm human.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I've done, done all the things, so, but not not this
being about me.
Our ego cannot survive withouta body.
It needs a body.
It has no reason for existenceoutside of the body.
anytime our life is at riskbecause it means the end for the
ego where our spirit or, if youwant to call it, your soul,
that's okay, this is eternal,this is love.
If, if you explode tomorrow,your soul's cool, it's like all
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right, I'll get back on the bus,we're gonna do it again, let's
try again next time.
Right Does not require the bodyto live on.
So all this fear comes up fromthe ego going oh, don't make
that investment, don't take thatrisk, don't date that kind of
person.
You know you're very safe withthis other kind of person, right
, this person is like travels alot more and they spend more
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money in weird ways.
Or maybe they like to have morefun.
You're so much safer in yourbubble.
Stay safe, stay safe, playsmall, play small.
Right, your ego wants you tojust have a very simple life
because it means maybe you'lljust live a long time and it'll
get to be here a lot longer,where your spirit is like go for
it, dream big, go to theconcert, buy the flight, date
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that weirdo like it.
Right, live, learn, get hurt,play, fail around and find out
like your spirit is having somuch fun.
And when we make a choice, anychoice, from a place of fear,
who's the one in charge?
hmm, yeah, yeah, right, whenwe're making a choice from a
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place of love, love and imaginethere's only two emotions love
and fear.
Yeah, every quote unquote.
Positive emotion is under love.
Yeah, passion and joy andsweetness and all those things,
it's all under love.
Every quote unquote.
Negative emotion is under fear.
Jealousy, anger, frustration,judgment, like why?
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Why do we feel any of thosethings?
Because we're afraid ofsomething.
I'm jealous because I'm afraidthey're going to leave me or I'm
afraid I'm not good enough.
I'm judging this person becauseI'm afraid I don't have enough.
Right, what is this?
Enough, we are enough, we areperfect.
Love Can't be any more enoughthan perfection.
Yeah, but the ego is notperfect.
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Love the ego's, you know,that's where the hot mess
express comes in to go.
Yeah, you probably want to keepdrinking and gossip about your
friends and just like, staysmall and stay home, but don't
drink too much because we don'twant to die.
Yeah, right, it's like all that, right, and we can talk about
addiction another time.
But when we choose love, we areleaning into our spirit when we
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choose fear we are leaning intothe ego, and when I say choose,
I mean like make a decision fromthat place.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Right, and that connects to the intuition,
because our spirit, I think ourspirit, if you think of like
right, father, son, holy ghost,like your spirit and, uh, in
terms of religion, I thinkyou're like we talk about, like
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God, god's spirit lives withinus.
I think that's your, yourspirit also, um, and that's
where the intuition lives,because it's kind of our
intuition is always rooted inlove.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
Yes, absolutely so.
Like if we accept a job or acontract or take on a new client
and it doesn't feel right.
But we're doing it from a placeof fear and look, you got, we
got to make're doing it from aplace of fear and look, we got
to make money, we got to pay ourbills.
Sometimes there are interimjobs or clients to get us to
where we need to go.
So we're not doing it becauseyou know we're not going for our
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dreams.
We're doing it consciously togo.
You know what, like in 2019,when I took that job doing
course creation, I was like Ijust want to w2 for a while
because I've been 10 99 for solong I want a w-2 so I can buy a
house and I want it to be easy.
So, like I did it from a placeof love, even though it felt
counterintuitive to what Iwanted to be doing, wasn't very
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glamorous, it wasn't in healingarts and it wasn't in hollywood
entertainment, but I'm like itjust made sense, even though
it's weird, right.
So that was one of those momentswhere I had to distill down and
go is this from fear or is thisfrom love?
It's love.
I want to buy a house and Iwant it to be easy.
So there we go.
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Not the only way to buy a house, everybody.
Just so you know, you can buy ahouse as a independent
contractor self-employed.
I've done it many times sincethen, but you know I wanted this
one to be easy, so we're incharge of what our life looks
like.
Every single thing is a choice,even how we feel.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
Let's talk about that with your emotional authority.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Let's talk about that with your emotional authority.
Well, what's?
Speaker 1 (43:14):
your hit on that from .
I don't you know you know moreabout human design than I do,
yeah, yeah so.
So let me explain.
I've talked about emotionalauthorities before, but if this
happens to be your first podcastyou're listening to, so in
human design we have ourdecision making process how we
best make decisions, ourdecision-making process, how we
best make decisions, andeveryone has a different
authority and, alicia, yours isan emotional authority.
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It actually makes up about 54%of the population are emotional
authorities.
So a large majority ofauthorities are emotional
authorities and that simplymeans that you have a defined
solar plexus center in humandesign.
So if you're looking at yourhuman design chart, the triangle
on the right that kind of comesout is going to be colored in.
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So having an emotionalauthority one of the things that
we talk a lot about is ridingthat emotional wave.
Because emotional authorities,because it's defined any defined
center simply means that youhave a direct connection to that
.
The energy of that center sohaving the solar plexus is our
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emotional center rules ouremotions.
You have direct connection toyour emotions.
Versus me, on the other hand, Ihave an undefined emotional
center, so one will argue that Ican feel other people's
emotions just as strong as myown, and I have a harder time
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feeling my own emotions.
Like what am I actually feelinghere?
I also tend to run away fromfeeling my emotions.
So that might be a defined andundefined thing as well, or
maybe just everyone does that, Idon't know.
But emotional authorities, youhave that direct connection.
So, being able to tune into youremotion and allowing yourself
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to feel it through, kind of likewhat you just said, when you're
going through the process ofthinking about I want to buy a
house and do I take this job,allowing yourself to feel all of
the emotions around it, becauseyou're probably I mean a big
life decision, you're gonna feelso many different emotions.
It's not just going to beexcitement, it's not just going
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to be fear.
Can I allow myself to movethrough these emotions simply by
allowing myself to feel them?
Maybe talk about them withsomeone safe, if that's what you
need, if you're more of thatlike outward processor before I
make a decision process,emotional authorities do very
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well giving themselves a littlebit more time and then you're
going to find your own process.
So I love how like we can blendthese two together and say for
emotional authorities givingyourself that time to dive into.
Am I making this out of love?
Am I feeling this fear?
It's okay to be feeling thefear.
We all feel fear, butrecognizing this emotion is fear
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.
These emotions are love.
And what emotions are love andwhat decision can I make there
that's rooted in love?
It's going to be a little bitof a I mean for everyone.
It's going to be a process, butfor emotional authorities
especially, it's going to be alittle bit of a.
I mean for everyone it's goingto be a process, but for
emotional authorities especially, it's going to be a little bit
more of a journey.
Also, the last thing I'll sayabout emotional authorities is
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80% sure is others 100% sure.
So, like the sacral center I'mtalking about how I have a
defined sacral center, my hitsabout how I have a defined
sacral center, my hits,intuitive hits tend to be pretty
quick and in the moment.
If you're a sacral or a splenicauthority, it's always going to
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be in the moment.
Like I was talking to you aboutseason two of my podcast and it
was like one day I'm like, yep,this is it.
Like, this is the moment.
I didn't plan it.
It was literally like Monday orTuesday that I have this hit
and then I recorded the episodeand posted it on Sunday Like,
hey, we're going into season two.
It wasn't a thing that Iplanned for weeks and weeks.
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So sacral authorities, splenicauthorities, are going to be
pretty much in the moment and wetend to be as we build this
muscle, as we build ourintuitive muscle, we're going to
be like, okay, this is like I'm195 to 100% sure this is true.
Emotional authorities tend tobe like they might feel other
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emotions as well, as like Ichoose, I know that this is the
right decision for me, but theremight always be that little bit
of indecision or like fear.
If this is the right decision,does that resonate with you?
Because I mean, you've done somuch work on your decision
making process.
I'm curious how that resonateswith being an emotional
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authority.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Yeah, it does.
I feel like I can make a prettyquick decision.
I feel like I can make a prettyquick decision, but I have to
be in my own energy.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
If I'm around other people and of course there's
going to be like gates involvedand all that stuff then I might
be making a decision about, well, what's also best for them or
what do they want for me, right?
So it really helps me from apsychic reader perspective
because when I'm in someoneelse's energy then I can tap
into well, what's best for them.
Like that actually makes itsuper easy for myself.
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I just sit with it for a minuteSometimes.
I just know, you know, I just Ijust know.
When I come back to it it waspretty much always the first hit
anyway, even if I spent acouple of days mulling something
over.
So learning to trust thatbecause I feel it in my heart.
But you know, sometimes I'lljust wash my hands, get in the
shower, go on a walk.
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I have so much clarity when I'mby myself and that is really,
really helpful for people likeme.
And maybe that's a undefinedemotional center kind of thing
too, to just like ask yourselfhow much of this is mine.
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Like how much right.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
How much of this idea , this energy, this stress, this
anxiety, like how much of thisis mine.
And I think some people confusethat with just being empathic.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (49:27):
Right, but then they're not taking into account
their human design or theirsensitivity or anything like
that.
And and then you know, like Isaid before, there's
environmental effects.
If you haven't slept a lot,you're over caffeinated, you're
eating like shit.
Maybe you're a new mom.
You know you just got a lotgoing on.
Do whatever you can to lockyourself away for five minutes
(49:49):
and breathe ground yourself.
I have a great groundingmeditation I'm happy to share
with your audience and get intoyour own energy.
I think no matter defined orundefined right, just find that
peace for yourself and then gofrom there.
And when you start to trustyourself and make intuitive
decisions that don't seemlogical and they work out, you
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fall in love with listening toyour intuition.
It just becomes fun, like youtrust it, the same way you trust
if your GPS is telling you togo a certain way.
Speaker 1 (50:19):
Thank you for sharing that.
I love that because it's verytrue and I think that we can get
kind of overwhelmed in thebeginning stages of it, like
this feels very uncomfortablebecause anything that we start
that's new is going to beuncomfortable.
But, just like any muscle thatwe develop, it becomes more
habitual and fun.
(50:41):
Like you said, it can be reallyfun and be curious and have fun
with it.
Those are like two of the bestgifts that we can give ourselves
, no matter what the topic is Becurious.
Be curious about yourrelationship, be curious about
how you respond to your job, becurious about your intuition and
have fun with it.
(51:01):
How can I have fun with it?
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
Wow, yeah, that curiosity piece is important,
especially what if you're, whatif you need to find out about
something that's not so exciting?
Right, just like to be awitness, like a third person
perspective of your own life, onoccasion is helpful, and to go
just gonna see how this playsout, mm, hmm, sometimes that's
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necessary and you know, and Itry to make it fun as much as I
can, and I remember one of myteachers saying to me you know,
alicia, you have a gift thatyou'll see things for people you
don't like to see, and that'snot always fun.
I was doing a group readingrecently at a business retreat
and this woman started talkingabout a family member and I knew
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the exact age that this familymember I believe, anyway, that
is, they're going to pass awayand she started talking about
this family member and then shestarted talking about how she's
worried they're going to passaway and I was like, well, how
old are they?
And she said a couple yearsyounger than the number I saw.
So then I didn't have to say, ohyeah, they're gonna die in two
years, right?
What I said was well, what abeautiful opportunity to lean
(52:13):
into a little bit of this worryand alchemize it into love and
just go spend extra time withthem, right?
So if anyone here is intuitivewe all are.
But if you do it professionallyor you, your friends tend to
lean on you for it.
Whether or not you do itprofessionally, if somebody asks
you a question you are guidedto not answer directly.
(52:34):
That's okay.
It doesn't mean you're lesspsychic or you're less talented
or powerful or professional like.
that's where the I think that'swhere all my coaching experience
comes in I've gotten so manydifferent coaching
certifications, and where thecompassionate communication
piece comes in, because there'smany abusive intuitives out
there who just say shit theyprobably shouldn't say or they
(52:55):
shouldn't say it the way theysaid it, and that's true in the
coaching industry too.
So you know, there's ways toshare news with people that's
loving, and I encourage everyoneto do that, no matter what you
do for a living loving and Iencourage everyone to do that,
no matter what you do for aliving, Absolutely, yeah, I mean
(53:17):
such a good, such a good point.
Speaker 1 (53:18):
I want to share one more thing about your human
design chart that I just thinkis so fascinating, and then I
have one final question.
So when I'm looking at yourhuman design chart and we're and
we're having theseconversations, you have along
the lines of we were talkingabout defined and undefined
centers.
We all have either colored incenter or it's going to be not
colored in and you have yourspleen is undefined.
(53:40):
Our spleen is our center ofintuition.
So I had a human design expertcome on my podcast before and
one of the things that I lovedthat her perspective was is it's
in our open centers orundefined centers that we're
here to learn lessons, maybealchemize like I would love to
(54:04):
hear like play with thecommonalities between that as
well?
You've really cultivated thislife of leaning into and
embodying your intuition, and Imean, when we're talking in
terms of undefined like, youmagnify.
So our undefined centers.
(54:25):
People that have defined spleencenters like you're going to
act as a mirror and magnifytheir definedness, their energy.
So it's really cool that youkind of have that in there as
well, but I don't know.
That's one of the reasons thatI love human design is just
looking at these little aspects.
For me, my only open center so Ihave no defined gates is my
(54:48):
root center.
So a lot of my business is ingrounding and a lot of my
business is somatic work,getting back into our body,
using human design as a tool todo that as well.
But it makes so much sense tome once I figured that out,
Cause I'm like that's that'swhere we have the biggest
lessons to learn and we oftenteach and lead and serve people,
(55:11):
our community, in the lessonswhere we went through like this
shit, or where we've struggled,not struggled, but you know,
like gone through the most inthat area, because I can only
help you as far as I've beenhelping myself or as far as I've
helped myself.
So anyway, I really wanted toshare that.
(55:31):
In your chart I always findjust one little piece at the end
of episodes and I love thatabout your chart.
I think that's reallyinteresting.
Speaker 2 (55:39):
Thank you.
It's nice to hear I'm onpurpose.
And yeah, it's true.
Every big move I've made in mylife was connected to an
intuitive hit.
Speaker 1 (55:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (55:52):
Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (55:54):
Love it.
So, before the last questionwhere can people find you?
Where do you hang out the most,if they want to follow up and
continue learning from you?
Speaker 2 (56:04):
Thanks, love.
I am on Instagram, I'meverywhere at Alicia sky, so
that's my handle on all socialsand I try to dabble a little bit
in every place LinkedIn andFacebook and all the places.
And my website is my name,alicia skycom.
There's an E at the end of sky,so you'll see it in the episode
(56:25):
description.
And, yeah, I have a coachingmembership and my clients just
call it like psychic hour.
Right, it's just a membershipto just come and ground, set an
intention, connect and I'll tunein for people whatever it is
they need.
And sometimes they ask me somebusiness strategy stuff because
I've built so many successfulbusinesses.
So it's kind of a hybrid ofintuition and practical as far
(56:49):
as the membership goes.
And it's very affordable.
At the time we're recordingthis, it's $100 a month and
there's four live calls.
So the price could go up can'tsay when, but as of now that's
what I'm charging and I justwant it to be super easy for
people and my podcast, theBrilliance Method, available,
where all podcasts are, andYouTube, red coral universe is a
(57:11):
great place to watch shows.
So, um, yeah.
Speaker 1 (57:15):
Love it and I will link all of that below.
I also would love to link thatgrounding meditation.
That sounds really fun, so I'lllink that below in the
description as well.
Um so, last question we'regoing to hop on our mini TED
Talk.
If you were standing on a stageand you had 30 seconds or a
minute to share one message,what would that message be?
Speaker 2 (57:40):
Be the lighthouse, not the lifesaver.
The lighthouse is a strongbeacon shining in every
direction for people to findtheir way and stand tall and
strong beside them.
A lifesaver is a flimsy pieceof foam that gets tossed out
into a cold ocean where peoplegrab onto them, push them under
(58:03):
the water.
They're probably cold andscared and yelling and they're
sharks and it's terrifying.
The water they're probably coldand scared and yelling and
they're sharks and it'sterrifying.
And when we are being alifesaver, we're trying to fix
people, save people, versusstand next to them and shine and
lead by example.
And I did a lot of fixing andsaving in my life and I think
(58:24):
the only exception to this is ifyou are a surgeon or an
ambulance driver.
But we can all help more peoplewhen we lead by example and
shine our light, versus jumpinto the darkness with them.
Speaker 1 (58:37):
I love that.
Thank you, Look at you soprepared.
You're welcome.
Thank you so much for coming onthis show.
This was a really funconversation.
Speaker 2 (58:46):
My pleasure, hannah, thanks for having me.
Can't wait to keep sharing andyou'll be on mine.
Speaker 1 (58:51):
Yes, yes, we'll talk soon about that.
Yes, we will.
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye,bye, bye, bye.
Speaker 2 (58:55):
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
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