Joy Meets Pain
This engaging series confronts the multifaceted nature of family dynamics, Join Dr. Dorcas Matowe, an experienced family therapist, as she delves into the profound complexities of family life in the Joy Meets Pain Podcast. Tackling themes like forgiveness, sibling bonds, and the dark realities of murder and incest. With heartfelt personal stories and insightful guest interviews, Dr. Matowe provides a compassionate space for listeners to navigate their own family challenges. Discover the joys and pains that unite us all in this thought-provoking exploration of what it means to be family.
Episodes
In this mother-daughter episode, Dr. Dorcas sits down with her mother Margaret to explore the beautiful, enduring friendships Margaret has had that have stood the test of time. From laughter-filled memories to quiet acts of loyalty, they unpack the values, habits, and unspoken rules that helped sustain these connections through decades of life’s ups and downs. Whether you're reflecting on your own friendships or curious about h...
Friendships evolve—through seasons of joy, loss, transition, and growth. In this episode, we unpack how friendships shift over time, the difference between situational and soul-level connections, and how to keep meaningful relationships strong.
Have you ever wondered how you took on a specific role in your family? Were you the peacemaker, the comedian, the good child, the ignored child? Join Dr. Dorcas and cohost Taffy as they begin to break down some of these family roles.
What do simmering sauces and strong relationships have in common? Dr. Nicole says—everything! In this informative episode, we chat about why couples who cook together stay together. From kitchen communication skills to family recipes, Dr. Nicole shares why the stovetop might just be the new date spot. Grab your aprons and your partner—it’s time to spice things up in and out of the kitchen!
In this episode, I sit down with my mother for an intimate conversation about motherhood—what it has meant to her, how it has shaped her, and the lessons she’s gathered through the years. From the joys to the challenges, we explore her honest reflection. It’s a rare glimpse into her perspective and a meaningful reminder of the value of short yet meaningful conversations about intergenerational values.
Episode Summary
In this powerful episode, we welcome Dr.Michelle Pledger, an educator, speaker, and advocate whose work centers on culturally responsive living and teaching. Michelle shares how integrating mindfulness into daily life and classroom practice can deepen cultural awareness, foster genuine connections, and create spaces where all identities are honored.
As the Founder of Living for Liberation and Director of Liberati...
In this heartwarming episode, Dr. Dorcas and cohost Taffy take a joyful stroll down memory lane as they share some of their most cherished family moments. From spontaneous laughter to traditions that shaped their childhoods, they reflect on the people, places, and experiences that brought them joy and connection. Join us for a feel-good conversation filled with love, laughter, and the beauty of family bonds—big and small.
Guest Host: Ms. Taffy, a health and fitness enthusiast currently based in Germany.
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Secrets have a way of unraveling, and when infidelity is exposed within a family, the impact can be profound and far-reaching. In this episode, we dive into the emotional, psychological, and relational fallout of secret affairs—how they shape trust, redefine relationships, and leave lasting scars. Join us as we explore real stories, expert...
Every family has its secrets—some whispered through generations, others buried so deep they threaten to stay hidden forever. In this episode, we explore the impact of family secrets on relationships, identity, and healing. From long-lost relatives to hidden pasts, we dive into the stories that shape us, the truths we fear, and the freedom that comes with breaking the silence. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on the power of ...
In honor of Black History Month, this episode of Joy Meets Pain shines a spotlight on remarkable Black individuals across the globe—leaders, innovators, and advocates whose words and actions have left a lasting impact. From groundbreaking entrepreneurs in Africa to athletes and activists using their platforms for change, I’m celebrating the people who inspire me and sharing their powerful stories. Join me as we honor their contribu...
In this episode, Dr. Matowe goes beyond the clichés to explore the deeper, more complex facets of love—self-love, friendship, family bonds, and the quiet, everyday acts that define true connection. How do we express love in ways that truly matter? Whether you’re celebrating with a partner, cherishing time alone, or questioning the meaning of it all, this conversation will leave you with a richer understanding of love in all its for...
In Part 2 of Love Without a Price Tag, I continue my conversation with the Indian couple from episode 7 and invite my mother to share her insights on the tradition of bride price. You can actively participate by completing the one-question poll on YouTube.
In Part 1 of this 2 part episode, Dr. Dorcas Matowe is joined by an inspiring Indian couple who chose to redefine what marriage means by following their hearts over tradition.
Tune in to Part 2, Episode 8 as we explore how the couple broke the of tradition of the dowry system, which led to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Join me as I unpack standout moments of 2024—the triumphs that inspired, the challenges that tested, and the lessons to carry forward. From cultural shifts to personal breakthroughs, this episode reflects on a year that was anything but ordinary. Don’t miss my take on the year’s defining stories and what they mean for the future.
Whether you're a foodie, a dreamer, or just looking for a dose of inspiration, this episode serves up a hearty helping of passion, resilience, and the transformative power of following your heart.
In this heartfelt episode, we explore the unique and enduring bond between two brothers who have uncovered the secret to a truly remarkable sibling relationship. Forget sibling rivalry—these two reveal the keys to supporting each other through life’s ups and downs, celebrating each other’s successes, and growing closer as friends. From the lessons they’ve learned to the strategies they use to strengthen their connection, this episo...
Dr. Dorcas Matowe welcomes Shas Matowe, founder of Powerfull Inc., for an intimate conversation on the far-reaching impact of cancer. Shas shares her personal journey, from her mother’s breast cancer diagnosis in 2014 to her passing in 2017, exploring how this experience reshaped her life. Together, they discuss how movement serves as medicine, connecting us to our bodies and emotions in profound ways. This inspiring discussion ...
In this debut episode, host Dorcas Matowe opens up about the importance of knowing your birth story. Joined by her mother, Margaret Matowe, they share intimate details of Dorcas' birth—revelations that only came to light a year ago. Together, they reflect on how these discoveries have shaped Dorcas' understanding of herself and her journey.
Do you know your story? What are you fighting for in life?
Welcome to the Joy Meets Pain podcast. I'm your host, Doctor Dorcas Matowe, a family therapist who has worked with children, couples, individuals, and families for decades.
I cannot tell you how many times I've heard people say my family is the worst, or I'm too embarrassed to talk about my family, or no family is like mine.
Well guess what, listeners? All families have 'ishness'. foolishness, happiness, shadiness, loneliness, fo...
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