Ep 24: Parenting Regret, Grown-Up Kids & Grace For Mistakes (Ours & Theirs)

Ever walk away from a conversation with your adult child thinking, “Well… I blew that.”? Yeah, us too. 🙋‍♀️

In this deeply personal episode, Deena & Christina get vulnerable about some recent parenting moments that didn’t go as planned and how God used them not to shame, but to gently show how He parents us.

From mom guilt to emotional landmines and the tug-of-war between truth and tenderness, we’re digging into the junk drawer of what it looks like to parent adult children through God’s grace… even when we’re still healing ourselves.

We’re not here to hand out parenting advice. We’re here to hold space, remind you that you’re not alone, and maybe even help you take a deep breath today. 💗

 🗝️ Key Takeaways from Episode 24:

🩷 Real talk on what it feels like to mess up with your grown kids

💜 Not every phone call with your adult child needs to turn into a sermon or a lecture about what they "need "to do.

💛 Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is: “How can I support you right now?”

🩷Your own healing journey can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations for your kids.

💜 Mom guilt is real, but so is God's gentle correction and grace.

💛 The emotional cost of parenting from exhaustion and how to shift it.💜 Being their safe space is more important than being right.

💛 God is still parenting us and using our mistakes to mold us into more compassionate moms.

 

 𝗠𝗮𝗺𝗮, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲. 𝗚𝗼𝗱’𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘄𝗲. 💕𝗟𝗲𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗸𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗷𝘂𝗻𝗸 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝗴𝗶𝗿𝗹. 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲.

 

🎧𝗧𝗨𝗡𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗮𝘀 𝘄𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗚𝗼𝗱'𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲.

 

 👉  𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪  𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗮𝗴 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗺𝗮 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆! 👯💜🩷

 

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