Ep21 | Meltdowns & Mom Shame: The Fear Special Needs Moms Carry in Public Spaces

We’re back inside the junk drawer, and this time we’re going deeper.

After recording Episode 19, we realized something important: fear is not just one item in the drawer. It’s a whole messy category. Each version of fear we face as special needs and extreme parenting moms deserves its own spotlight.

 

In Episode 19, we focused on the fear rooted in grief—grieving the life you thought you or your child would have.

 

If you missed that one, definitely go back and listen: Click here for Episode 19

But in this episode, we’re shifting to another deeply personal fear:

 The fear of being judged in public. The fear that your child’s meltdown will cause strangers to label you a “bad mom.” The fear that other people think your parenting is the problem, when really, you're doing everything you can just to make it through the day.

 

We’re unpacking the stress of restaurants, stores, and public spaces that make you feel like you’re constantly under a microscope—and the emotional toll that takes on a mama's heart.

Whether your child has Autism, Down syndrome, trauma-related behavior, sensory issues, or is just having a hard day... we get it. We’ve been there. And we’re done apologizing for surviving.

 

𝗠𝗮𝗺𝗮, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲. 𝗚𝗼𝗱’𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘄𝗲. Tune in as we share how leaning into His strength can turn even the messiest, most stressful days into moments of peace and joy.

💕 𝗟𝗲𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗸𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗷𝘂𝗻𝗸 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝗴𝗶𝗿𝗹. 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲.

 

👂🏼Why You Should Listen

👉 You’ve ever dreaded going out in public with your child

👉You feel the weight of judgment from strangers, family, or even friends

👉You need permission to let go of the shame and guilt

👉You want relatable encouragement and faith-filled truth from two moms who get it

 

🗝️Key Takeaways

🩷Fear of judgment is a heavy, daily burden for special needs moms

💜We often carry the weight of other people’s opinions more than we should

💛Bad behavior ≠ bad parenting. Meltdowns ≠ failure.

🩷You are doing the best you can. And that’s enough. It doesn't matter what other's think.

💜God’s opinion is the only one that matters—and He chose YOU for this child

 

📲𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪, 𝗟𝗜𝗞𝗘, 𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗘, 𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗧𝗔𝗚 𝗮 𝗠𝗔𝗠𝗔 who needs this encouragement today 💗

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