In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful listener submissions about dating challenges, online reputation, and moving on after heartbreak. They offer no-nonsense advice on handling public shaming in online groups, building momentum with a newly single neighbor, and recovering from a whirlwind romance that ended abruptly. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help men reflect and grow in their dating lives.
Show Notes:
00:00 – Introduction
- Gracie and Tracy welcome listeners and celebrate 38 weeks of the podcast.
- Quick banter about pregnancy timelines and podcast milestones.
02:00 – Listener Submission #1: Anthony’s Story
- Anthony shares his experience of being publicly shamed in a women’s Facebook group after a breakup.
- Gracie and Tracy discuss the origins and current state of “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups.
- Advice on handling online defamation, reclaiming self-trust, and whether to pursue legal action.
- Key takeaway: Let your integrity and self-awareness guide you, and don’t let drama-filled groups define your dating future.
25:00 – Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating Journal
- Gracie and Tracy introduce their new journal for single men, available on Amazon.
- The journal helps track dates, reflect on experiences, and build self-awareness.
28:00 – Listener Submission #2: Alex’s Story
- Alex, new to dating, wonders if he missed his chance with a neighbor after helping her through a tough time.
- The hosts discuss the importance of momentum, meaningful interactions, and not overthinking timing.
- Advice: Focus on genuine conversations, set healthy boundaries, and don’t attach expectations to every interaction.
40:00 – Listener Submission #3: Jake’s Story
- Jake describes a fast-moving, long-distance romance that ended suddenly after a deep connection.
- Gracie and Tracy explain “emotional fast-tracking” and the risks of future-tripping in new relationships.
- Advice: Let relationships unfold at a natural pace, integrate emotional lessons, and practice patience as you move forward.
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