Just Try'n To Stay Married Today

When you just try’n stay married, somethings gotta give or somebody’s gotta go. At least that’s what Neil and Phyllis say. You share a bed, a house, a child, do we really have to share hobbies?

If you just try’n stay married today, one of y’all go find something to do without the other one calling to check up on you. Even if your wedding vows include the words, “two become one,” they did not mean for you to take that literally.

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What is it about staying in your lane that you don’t understand? Neil and Phyllis are trying to figure that out. Phyllis doesn’t know what her lane is and Neil says, “I’m just gone shut up.” Staying in your lane while married is not easy and none of that happy wife, happy life shit either.

The best way to stay in your lane, as a married couple, is to trust that your spouse knows best, FOR THEM. If you’re gonna get bossy about it, y...

Neil is the adventurous foodie in the family and Phyllis is the creature of habit. When two such people have to decided on a meal, nobody eats on time. So they're just try'n to stay married before dinner.

Neil does the grocery shopping, cooking, and the dishes and Phyllis can’t decide what to eat. I bet if he stops cooking she’ll figure it out quick, fast, and in a hurry. But would they make it to anniversary number 21.

Whe...

Money and marriage is one thing. Business and marriage takes it up a notch. Neil and Phyllis owned and operated Bigmista’s together for over ten years.

It was the most stressful time of their marriage and yet they still find the ability to shack off the dumb shit.

They can laugh about it now but you can be sure there were thoughts of divorce dancing through their heads like sugarplums at Christmas.

Give a listen and get a laugh i...

What is it about family when you’re just try’n to stay married today? Sometimes family and marriage just don’t mix.

Neil and Phyllis made some hard decisions about extended family when they got married. If parents and step parents are still very much in the picture who gets to live with you? If you run away from home, can your spouse find you?

You can pick your nose but you can’t pick your family outside of marriage. Marry the righ...

There is no rule that says you have to vacation together to stay married. At least that’s how Neillis (Neil & Phyllis) feel about it.

Pack your bags and join our host, Neil & Phyllis Strawder, as they air some of their dirty laundry about vacationing. While Neil wants to run around chase’n flavors, Phyllis wants to sit and watch the world go by. Listen as they weather the memories of vacations.

Neil wants to travel the worl...

This episode starts with Neil and Phyllis discussing gender roles in their marriage. This has nothing to do with the gender you identify with so take that shit somewhere else. This is about laundry, dishes, and other household hatery.

And if that weren't enough Phyllis shows off how badly she needs to go back to geography class. It's amazing she doesn't get lost from the bedroom to the kitchen. Nevertheless, she is all ...

Adulting and marriage leads to household bills. Who's gonna make sure they get paid is anybodies guess. It's not that hard when you have a joint account.

Everybody knows finances are a hot button subject in any relationship. You need a whole lotta trust when it comes to keeping the lights on and the water running. Folks will trust you with their life before they trust you with there money.

And if you think money and marriag...

Neil and Phyllis, or Neillis as they've been called, don't do the Valentine's thing. Their marriage has survived 20 years without cards, flowers, and candy. In their book, staying married does not hinge on some made-up holiday for consumerism. In this episode, Neil and Phyllis talk about staying married despite the year-round challenges of matrimony and they do it all with a laugh. They don't celebrate Valentine...

Ever feel like marriage is more of a NASCAR race than a romantic stroll in the park? Well buckle up, buttercup, because Neil and Phyllis are tackling the tricky topic of competition in the marital lane. From budgeting battles to parenting pitstops, this episode is a hilarious and honest look at how couples can navigate the urge to one-up each other.

• Financial Face-Off: Trust is the ultimate when managing money. Learn how Neil...

Dust off your vows, honeybees, because Neil and Phyllis are spilling the tea on the secret ingredient to a long-lasting marriage: letting go. Buckle up for a laugh-a-minute ride as they dissect past baggage (like Neil's choice in women) and confess their most ahem endearing quirks. No jealousy tantrums (okay, maybe just a few), no silent treatments (Phyllis talks enough for both of them!), just raw, hilarious honesty about the ...

Twenty years, bottles of whiskey, and a shared bank account. Neil and Phyllis are living proof that marriage is less rom-com and more buddy-cop sitcom. Tune in for their wildly unfiltered take on surviving in the trenches of married life, with bonus lessons on co-running a business without accidentally setting the shop on fire (metaphorically speaking, hopefully).

In this episode, prepare for:

• Commitment is a Four-Letter Word...