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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey there, hi, it's Jacqueline here.
Welcome back to another liverecording of Just Women Talking
Shit, where I am going to shootthe shit and smoke, because
that's just how we roll aroundhere.
So there's so much tea to catchup on y'all, oh my god.
So not too long ago, Iannounced my pivot, right, I
announced the pivot, and then Iwas just claiming I'm here to
(00:24):
shake some shit up, right, andso I made that big announcement.
What was it like three, fourweeks ago?
I don't know, it wasn't thatlong ago.
And so much has changed.
Have y'all noticed, have younoticed, a shift in my company?
I want to share what I haveshifted.
Nicole, can you hear me?
Can you leave me a comment?
Let me know that the mic ispicking everything up, please,
please, I'm gonna light my smoke, but everything shifted because
(00:48):
I made just a few solidadjustments.
They were energetic adjustmentsand then very strategic
adjustments.
So if you're new here, that'sgood.
As long as we have sound, I'mgood.
And how cool that you'relistening to this from work.
I love that so much.
So what was I saying?
(01:14):
Oh fuck, the adjustments thatwere made were both energetic
and really just somepsychological adjustments.
So if you have been around for aminute, then you already know I
am a woman of authenticity.
I am not afraid to fail forwardand fall flat on my face, flat
on my ass, and I will evenfeature it so that you don't
feel alone in this crazy journeyof one being a human.
(01:37):
Being a human is hard.
There's no set rule book, noguidebook, right.
We're all just fucking up andfiguring it out.
So if you've been here for aminute, you already know occurs
like a seller, right?
Not a seller, a sailor.
The southern in me is comingout and I just really don't.
I don't give a fuck, becauseI've finally entered this era of
(02:00):
life where I truly am ready todo what I call get paid to exist
.
And getting paid to exist meansthat you are not hiding who the
fuck you are anymore, right?
You're not hiding who you are,what you want, what your desires
are, what your dreams are, whatyour goals are, the type of
partner you want, theexpectation of income that you
expect to have every month.
(02:21):
I now have an energeticbaseline of $10,000 cash months,
meaning that I an energeticbaseline of $10,000 cash months,
meaning that I have a minimumof $10,000 cash at the end of
each month, after expenses,after everything, right?
So as you grow, as they say,new levels, new devils, right?
(02:42):
You start to realize that theshifts that you make, they're
not even big shifts.
That's the thing.
They're not even huge shifts.
It's just like a series ofshifts over time that it had to
happen that way.
Do you know what I mean?
You had to go through that.
You had to block yourself inthat moment to learn that lesson
.
You had to lose that job, youhad to lose that partner, you
(03:05):
had to fuck up and hurt thatperson.
Unfortunately, maybe it wasn'tintentional, but in life's grand
scheme of things, if you'reable to pull yourself back and
see things like a wide angleright, not so close up and
intimate then you're able to seethat all of it makes sense.
Then you're able to see thatall of it makes sense.
And so what I realized inmaking so I've far exceeded
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$11,000 in cash, but just sothat I can put it in what I feel
like is just more digestible.
And so we can keep up with thecommon theme of just simplicity,
right, I'm averaging about athousand dollars a day, and so
in 11 days I brought in, with mycoaching company, $11,000 cash.
So sales were 13 somethingright, and so we got fees and we
have all these other things,but I wanted at least $10,000
(03:54):
cash to hit my account and so in11 days we did $11,000 cash and
, to be honest, I've never seenoutside of I would say, student,
student loans oh my hairStudent loans or some kind of
loan that you have to get for avehicle.
I've never gotten to play witha lot of money at once.
Do you know what I mean?
Coming at me quickly, and so Iwas really scared I wasn't going
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to be able to hold on to it.
But, fun fact, life prepared me.
The universe, god and source,and my angels, angels and
everybody.
They prepared me Because do youknow what I experienced right
before that?
Almost an entire year of drought, an entire year of figuring out
how to nurture myself, how tolet go of things that were
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actually bringing me money butnot bringing me joy.
I had to let go of a dependableincome.
I had to come out to my husbandand tell him I'm not perfect
and I'm really struggling.
And there's a reason that I amretracting and that I'm so
depressed, and it's because I'mnot aligned and I had to go
through this whole journey.
This whole past year has beenthis journey of just radical
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exception, of who the fuck I amand what I want, and not feeling
guilty for that.
And it's been a year of drought, a year of doubt, but a year of
massive and radical acceptanceof nobody's going to get this
for me except for me.
Right, and I pinpointed througha lot of meditation, a lot of
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prayer, a lot of just sitting bymyself with myself out here,
and there's a reason I'm sittingout here for today's podcast
episode.
I want to just show you all realquick where I sit in gratitude
almost every single day of mylife to work, even when it's
cold.
I just recently invested in aheated blanket.
This makes me happy.
I look forward to work when Iget to sit out and smoke my weed
(05:43):
I'm sorry, my cannabis andbecause that sounds, I don't
know, maybe that won't get me introuble.
I would just better quittalking now.
But I sit out here and Ipartake in my medicine We'll say
that my green medicine is whatI call it and I exist, sorry
about that.
I exist as I am, as fucked up asI am, as chronically ill as I
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am, and sorry about that, Iexist as I am, as fucked up as I
am, as chronically ill as I am,and I take the good days.
I don't take them for granted.
I take the good days and Ifucking run with them.
I'm going to be at the gym, I'mgoing to be out there spreading
joy, I'm going to be buyingpeople coffee, I'm going to be
opening doors.
And so the biggest shift I madeafter I found out funny story
(06:25):
too, by the way, I'm going totell you all this in a minute
but the funniest thing happenedwhenever it comes to HD, where
are my human design buffs at?
Where are you?
Raise your hand, tell me whatyour HD is, what is your
authority?
Tell me all the things, and I'mgoing to come back and tell you
this story.
So, in this radical acceptanceof I'm fucking tired, I'm sick
(06:47):
and tired of feeling bad, thatI'm sick and tired all the time.
I'm sick and tired of feelingsick and tired, yes, but why do
I beat myself up over that?
Why do I make that a bad thing?
And so I really started to leaninto my story, hopping on here
and sharing my story, sharingthe tears, sharing the wisdom,
sharing the fuck ups, sharingthe behind the scenes.
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So when I'm in flow, even if Idon't feel well physically,
mentally sometimes, I'm in flow.
And so I really took a lot ofthe pressure off of myself to
quit having a schedule, such atough schedule, that I knew I
couldn't abide by.
I've retracted and I've pulledback from a lot of coaching
calls.
I've had to set a lot ofboundaries and it's really been
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tough because I'm afraid thatpeople will think it has
something to do with them andthat they're too much and that
they're just inadequate.
But it's not.
It's everything to do with me.
I'm figuring out that I don'tdo well with a lot of what feels
like restricted structure.
So, for instance, I said youknow what I'm going to hop on
(07:51):
today and I'm behind on mypodcast episodes.
I had to shift from, but youalways get it done.
Right, I had to shift from theguilt to, but you always get it
done.
Maybe it's not in the mosttimely manner, maybe you don't
always stick to the strictest ofschedules, but when you show up
, jacqueline, you really show up.
Have you noticed that?
And so I started to speak tomyself in a way that I wish
(08:15):
someone would speak to me, andit's really come down to
nurturing that inner child andadmitting all that I want and
all that I'm worthy of.
And so, in having theseconversations with myself, it's
been a really huge shift,radical acceptance.
And so this is your permissionslip too.
If you want a life of wealth andyou don't want to have to work
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super fucking hard for it in thelong run, here's your
permission slip.
Will it take two or three,maybe five years of radical
commitment?
Absolutely.
Will you have to skip out ongoing out for drinks with your
friends when it sounds funAbso-fucking-lutely?
Will it be worth it in the end?
(08:57):
Better bet your sweet tits itwill be, because while everybody
else is still grinding andhustling in their 40s 50s,
having mid-life crises, you'llbe so grounded in who the fuck
you are because you did, you putin the time.
You saw past the fun nights andyou thought fun nights sound fun
(09:21):
.
Having some drinks sounds fun,I don't know.
I also think it'd be reallybomb to have a nice house and a
nice entertainment area, maybe areally nice back porch that
overlooks some water.
I also think that'd be prettyfucking cool so I can host those
events in a classy, legacy way,right?
(09:43):
So it really comes down to theboundaries and sometimes like
that's really hard having thoseconversations and then also
allowing yourself to honor howyou respond to the boundaries
and how you have to take time toyourself to sometimes not
respond Right.
So the past I would say 30 days, because when I talked to one
(10:05):
of my coaches I was on herpodcast on Friday, which I'll
let you guys know when it comesout.
But if you want to check herpodcast out, it's called
manifest manifest mad money withYolanda Boyran and she's a.
She's a seven figure.
That's so cool to say she's aseven figure coach and she does
it.
I've copied a lot of what shedoes and it's working for me, as
(10:29):
you see, but she does it in away that are so fully aligned
and that is so no bullshit andso magnetic that she gets paid
to exist Right, and that issomething that I just want to
share.
I want to continue to share allthe behind the scenes, all of
the tips and the tricks and theno gatekeeping Right, and it
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really did start with.
The biggest shift I made wasenergetically backing myself up
and protecting myself in a waythat it feels good to me.
I don't want to feel anxiousall the time about my business.
I already feel anxious with mymental illness, and my mental
illness thrives on the worry ofthings like having to hop on a
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call, knowing that I don't knowwhat the fuck I'm going to feel
like that day.
It's so hard too for me tocommit sometimes and I would say
95% of the time to an event sosimple such as a Zoom call that
I know is going to last an houror two hours.
But it's different knowing thatmaybe I'm planning a retreat a
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year from now and I canenergetically prepare for that.
I don't know what that's about.
I'm figuring it out.
I'm not saying that it's pretty.
I'm not saying it's sexy.
I'm not saying that it's kind,even for the people that are on
the receiving end.
But I know that I have to keepmyself safe and I've got a lot
of life that I don't tell youall about because it's not a.
(11:55):
I don't want to appear as a bigleader.
There are some things I have tokeep private for my own sanity
and figure them out on my own,without any outside opinion or
reflection on their how theywould solve it, how they would
handle it.
I need to figure these thingsout on my own right, and so it
comes with a lot of energeticboundaries, and the thing that
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controls us most right now arethese phones.
So you'll see that if you textme, you'll see that if you try
to call me, if I make contact inyour phone, I share with
everybody my status.
I'm on do not disturb most ofthe time unless I know.
I have a client call that Icommitted to, that I've been
able to energetically preparefor, and a lot of it does have
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to do with and it sounds reallyfucking shitty.
If I'm not getting paid.
Sometimes it's not reasonenough to hop on a call, because
I've got so many demons of myown that I'm flushing out behind
the scenes.
I've got my debt that I'mfiguring out.
I've got my debt that I'mfiguring out.
I've got my health that I'mfiguring out.
So I literally budget my energyat this point and I think it's
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been a huge fucking shiftbecause I'm not available to
everybody anymore and I want youto take that away from this.
In your business, in your life,in your relationships, you are
not available to everybodybecause everybody will not put
that same amount of work intoyou.
Yes, I'm trying so hard toprotect my mental health and
being on these phones does nothelp me.
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It's so ironic because I'vebuilt something so beautiful
right here in this nook on thisphone Well, not this phone, this
is a new phone but with thisdevice that has allowed me to
find my identity, to build theconnections, yes, but I don't
want to be on it all the time.
I don't want to be on zoomcalls, just I don't, and I have
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to respect that and have tohonor that.
So a lot of working with melooks like voice messaging back
and forth.
It looks like, as soon as youhave an idea, send me a text,
send me a message.
It doesn't mean I'm respondingright away and if you get a
response out of me quickly, knowthat I'm available for that
right then, but that I mightdisappear in a few minutes
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because, well, we've got fivekids.
I've got a husband who worksfrom home who I can't ignore,
who needs my attention.
I've got my mom and her husbandwho have cancer, and a sister
with mental illness that I worryabout every fucking day of my
life.
I've got family in Hattiesburgdon't really know how they're
doing.
I've got cousins that are infoster care right now that I
live for and I just worry aboutthem all the time.
I worry about my mom's health,so I can't.
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There's a way that we're goingto build this, and so that is a
huge shift that I've made isnon-negotiables in my energy,
right.
Another huge shift that I madeand that I think that you can
also benefit from if you'rebuilding a coaching business, if
you're building a creatorbusiness.
Creator businesses could looklike you build courses, you have
a podcast, you are a UGCcreator or you have an online
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service provider business whereyou literally go out and serve.
Notice that all these thingsyou're giving, you're giving
yourself, you're giving yourtime, you're giving your energy,
you're giving your knowledge,your wisdom, your life
experience.
You are reiterating all of thelife lessons that you can't
really put a value on, and thenyou're packaging it and putting
a value on, and so you can'texceed that energetic value that
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you felt you deposited intothat bank.
If you're not getting more outof it, then you will eventually
experience burnout, and so moneyis just energy, and that's what
I teach all my clients ismoney's energy, and so if your
energy is not high, your incomewill not be high, and what I
mean by high energy is not we'rejumping around and we're happy
all the time.
It's energy.
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Being high is a sense ofalignment, it's a higher depth
of consciousness.
Right, you're, in a way, closerto God.
You're listening to themessages.
You're respecting your feelings, because your feelings are
feedback.
You're honoring the boundariesthat God has instilled in your
heart that make you uneasy.
You're not letting people walkall over you anymore.
You're not over exceeding yourenergy and putting yourself on
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the back burner anymore, andyou'll start to notice that
whenever you honor that, thingsstart to flow and you start to
find your people and all thethings and we've went through
this over and over again.
Your vibe attracts your, but ifwe don't get grounded in that
now, you will not build thesix-figure business that is
sustainable.
I'm not saying you won't builda six-figure business.
I'm saying it won't besustainable.
You won't build a seven-figurebusiness.
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I'm not there yet and I'm notsitting here trying to shit you
and tell you I'm there yet.
I'm telling you that I know howto make $1,000 at minimum a day
.
That's what I'm here to tellyou.
And so if I'm going to liveanother thousand days, you do
the math and that's what beingpaid to exist means.
And so, in order to implementthis in your business, so that
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you can benefit from this veryquickly, get really solid in all
of that that I just told you.
And then we're going to talkabout the second thing.
As I relight because y'all knowI talk and then it goes out,
and so we've got a fun gamegoing on right now and I think
it's just going to be part ofthe fun Jacqueline vibe of just
women talking shit in our livesin general.
(17:02):
But we're going to play a gameand I want everyone to start
counting, because it's so funny,how many times this
motherfucker is going to go out.
And on the last live I think wecounted eight, eight times.
Between the time that westarted the conversation to the
time I ended, I think I had torelay eight times, and so it's
kind of a fun game.
(17:22):
Oh, how many times?
Anyway, taking bets, how manytimes is it going to be?
This is number two, and I justwant to say do not drink to this
game because you may get fuckedup.
Number two.
So number one wasnon-negotiables in my energy,
non-negotiables in my income.
I raised my prices tremendously, I was going to raise them and
quit thinking.
(17:44):
I was given.
I kept, I was spent myself onsale, and so many of you are
doing this too.
High tickets is the way to go,and I kept.
I was spent myself on sale andso many of you are doing this
too.
High ticket's the way to go,and you have low ticket offers
that lead them into that.
It's the way to go.
You can create an experiencearound anything.
You can create a high ticketexperience around anything.
I literally just came up withthe best business idea for my
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brother and I'm going to helphim do it.
I'm going to pitch it to himand he's not going to help him
do it.
I'm going to pitch it to himand he's not going to be able to
say no, because I'm going toallow him an avenue to get paid
to exist by doing his marketingfor him.
So what I did was, outside ofthe non-negotiables, outside of
saying this is my new energeticminimum, this is my new cash
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month minimum, I raised myprices and I made it super
valuable to raise my prices.
So I was selling my things for$47 a pop energetic blueprints,
$47 a pop doing extremelyextended payment plans for
Stripe that I may not get myfull invoice back for and so I
was taking a lot of risks and Iwas operating from a place of
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need, and so I finally figuredout a way, through some help,
through some guidance, throughsome trial and error.
For anybody drinking I'm nottrying to get you drunk, so I'm
going to try to keep this lit,but I just said you know what,
fuck it.
And I packaged it in a way thatwas so irresistible.
And here's the thing, I didn'twait to test any of it.
I went out there and I justwent ahead and talked to people.
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I already built relationshipswith People that I already knew
trusted me, some that I'd workedwith before, some I was working
with at the moment, based onjust and here's the thing
scrappy situations.
I stopped thinking that I had tohave my product suite all
worked out, and everyconversation that I started with
serving, I figured out whereare you in life right now, how
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have you been, how are the kids?
And I fucking made realconnections.
Lots of these people I alreadyhave connections with because I
show up in a way that peopleidentify with.
I'm real as fuck.
I'm not going to sit here andsugarcoat it, but I'm also not
going to be a dick.
I'm human right.
I know how to treat a person, Iknow how to read the room, and
so I took this skill set, thisgift of I'm good at building
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community.
I'm good at making people feelloved.
I'm good at people makingpeople feel seen, and I'm good
at doing that through the DMs.
I'm good at making people feelseen, and I'm good at doing that
through the DMs.
I'm good at doing that throughtext.
I'm good at doing that throughvoice messages because I'm
introverted as fuck.
A lot of people don't know thatabout me.
I'm introverted as fuck.
Or on number three, if I canfind the lighter.
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So, with having all of theanxiety around phone calls, cold
DMs, sales calls, why not buildit the way you fucking want to
build it and do it in a way thatmakes you happy, in a way that
positions you as somebody theywant to be around?
And so I've learned to packagemy energy in a way that I can
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leverage it so that I'm notdrained, because I'm an empath
y'all, I'm an empath, I'm amanifesting generator.
3-5, which means I go, go, go,go up here Doesn't mean I can go
, go, go, go out here.
I get very tired very easily.
I've said it over and overagain.
And I've Sarah, ms Sarah.
She has helped me so much withadmitting to the chronic
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illnesses and finally justcoming out and saying, yeah,
it's not who I am, but it'sdefinitely part of my journey,
it's part of my story.
It's the whole fucking reason Istarted all of this.
It's the whole reason I wantedto work online.
It's the whole reason I startedworking online.
It's the whole reason I startedMLMs network marketing
companies because I knew Icannot work at a desk job like a
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normal fucking person.
With as much as I hurt everysingle day of my life mentally
and physically, I can't do it orI will wind up dead.
I will dig myself an earlygrave.
I will put my nail in my owncoffin because I do not do well
under stress.
I do not do well faking it.
I do not do well with smalltalk, with conversations that
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are just in, in my frank opinion, and, speaking to the depths of
my soul, empty as fuck.
I'm not here for that.
That is a waste of my time.
I'm here to talk with you aboutwhat the fuck you want out of
this life, so that I can helpyou do that.
I have figured out.
I'm a visionary strategist, butI can't overexert myself, right
(22:22):
?
And so how are you packagingyourself up to appear to be for
everyone when really what youshould be doing in your business
is going behind the scenes andtalking to those people that you
notice are rooting for you,that, when you do put something
out, vote on the polls, askquestions, open your emails what
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about those people Everyone'sso worried about?
Vanity followers?
How fast can I grow my account?
I fucking did it.
I started this account asspiritual support system.
Spiritual support system wassomething that I thought that
everyone in the fucking worldneeded and they do, and you do
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but you don't need it at everyphase of your life.
It takes a pivotal bone, cold,shaking, gut wrenching moment to
know that you need spiritualsupport system.
It is at a certain point inyour life where you have
surrendered and you've triedeverything and you are in
radical acceptance of who youare the good, the bad, the ugly
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before you're ready forspiritual support system.
So in my mind, it was foreverybody.
And again I was trying to speakto everybody, trying to please
everybody, right?
And that wasn't fully alignedfor me.
You're not for everybody, sowhere are you packaging yourself
for everybody?
And so what I did, and what youcan do too, is get in the
conversations, girl, go have theDMs, slide into the DMs.
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What you'll find is thesepeople are waiting on you,
they're fucking waiting on youto notice them, to say, hey, I
see your content, I think you'reincredible, I feel like we
would be friends in real life,and what you'll find is that
they're watching and waiting forthe invitation to come into
your world.
And that's what I found is thatI was packaging myself in a way
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that was asking for permission,when really, deep down, is a
coach, if you really know yourshit and you own your shit and
you show up unapologetically andyou're like I'm here to lead a
million dollar movement, baby,the rest of them can go fuck
themselves.
While I laugh myself to thebank and I help people on such
an intentional level thatchanges their lives.
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That's what my retreat does,that's what my podcast does,
that's what being around me does.
People will tell you when youget around me, and if you are
blessed to be on a phone callwith me, it's a moment.
Well, I bond with you, it's thesoul connection, and I don't
give that away freely anymore.
And so where are you givingyourself away freely and where
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can we step back and go?
Wait, where have I been leakingmy energy and where have I been
building this in a way that Idon't want to build it, in a way
that's not sustainable?
Because what happens is weoverthink the whole thing and we
think about the whole legacyand the empire that we want to
build, and the biggest thing wedo is we get caught in this oh
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fuck, this scroll of comparison,and it's so big in the coaching
industry, so big in the contentcreation industry.
We compare our content.
Why isn't it getting saves?
Why isn't it getting likes andshares?
Come on y'all.
Does that really fucking matter?
No, what matters is is theconversation with that woman who
rolled out of bed this morningand wasn't sure how the fuck she
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was going to make it throughthe day, and then you wrote her
and she said I needed that.
Thank you, because she feltalone, because she, too, is
looking for what you're lookingfor, and so the second thing I
did, and that you can do too, isto quit packaging yourself for
everyone.
Go have a conversation with thepeople that they need you, they
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really do, and they want towork with you and they want to
be in your energy and you gofind them and you make it your
conviction and your crusade tofind them, because the most
selfish thing you can do and mypost, was it?
Touched base on this today themost selfish thing you can do is
sit there and ignore the gifts.
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Some of us have so many fuckinggifts and ignore them because
we, we were conditioned to thinkthat you're too much, you're
too emotional.
I cannot tell you.
Fucking many times I've heardthat you're in your head sounds
nice, but you need a real job.
To dim your light in a worldthat is so dark is a true
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disservice to humanity and togod, the creator in this
universe itself.
It really and it took this pastyear of problems in my marriage,
going through some of theroughest moments of having to
really stare at myself andfigure out why this wasn't
working, why I wasn't making themoney, why I wasn't making the
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impact, having to come to termswith even though I didn't
realize it, energetically doingit for the wrong reasons.
I didn't realize that until Irealized that I hadn't accepted
that I was trying to prove somepeople wrong.
I held onto this guilt, thissurvivor's guilt as well of my
daughter's dad not being here,and then just my family.
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I'm breaking generationalcurses.
Most of my family is dad notbeing here, and then just my
family.
I'm breaking generationalcurses.
Most of my family is below thepoverty line and lives off of
welfare and will forever liveoff of welfare and never
understand what it's like tohave this sense of freedom and
that they can overcome theirodds and that they can have this
too.
And so it came down to thisconviction that having
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conversations is where theconversions are at, but it's
also where change happens, andso the shift that I made, and
that you can make too, is to goout there and have more
conversations, because, at theend of the day, you're in your
fucking head about it.
And, at the end of the day, ifyour heart is in the right place
and you're genuinely justtrying to make a connection with
somebody, get to know them.
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And if the opportunity presentsitself for you to be their
friend or be their mentor, whois just a few steps ahead of
them and can guide them, if thatopportunity presents itself,
you will know, and they willknow, that God will show you the
way through your feelings,because your feelings are
feedback, through nudges becausethat's your intuition and
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through coincidences and signsthat are clues that you're on
the right track.
If you could just trust thatand you could go into each
conversation with seeingyourself as this beautiful gift
from God, just imagine yourselftaking this gift to them and
then opening it and imagine theoutcome of if they work with you
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.
How can you have to presentyourself through these
conversations as the solution?
Because I just why else wouldGod, why else would the universe
, why else would source?
Why would it keep popping up inyour reality?
Really, stop and think aboutthat else with the universe, why
else with source?
Why would it keep popping up inyour reality?
Really, stop and think aboutthat.
Why would a feeling on yourheart, something that you
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daydream about in your dreamdreams and that you think about
and you just keep getting thesesigns and these signals and all
these people and God winks?
Why, if it's not meant for you,if there's no lust behind it
and you really do have a goodpure and you are here to help
humanity, how selfish would thatbe?
And I had to start seeingmyself as I'm a fucking gift.
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God works through me, and so Istarted having the conversations
and I only had to sign.
Oh, by the way, this money thatI've made.
Oh, by the way, this money thatI've made.
It was only a portion of it.
I've set it up in a way that Iwill get more in the new year
that I've not even accounted for.
How cool is that?
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There's about another 5K that Ialready know.
I have come the new year and sowouldn't it be cool to feel so
appreciated in what you do, butalso see the impact through the
transformations your clients get, like they see for themselves.
My community will tell you.
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Some of them are on here rightnow.
It doesn't take very many.
You get somebody on your sideand you help them, and word of
mouth and your energy and youjust committing to the end
result, releasing the timeline,hopping on you know, episodes,
whatever it is that you'retrying to build, hopping on and
just believing in it before youeven see the results.
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You will get results unless yougive up or you're not good at
it.
I'm just going to be real, okay, is it like American?
Like?
I'm going to be real, okay, isit like American?
Like I'm going to bullshit you.
I'm going to be the Simon whenit comes to like if good at this
, you can and you have the rightstrategy and you don't fucking
give up, you will make money.
You.
You do things you love and itdoesn't have to feel like a
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strain or like look forward toit, but you have to that that
that thing I did.
You have to have thoseboundaries, and that's
boundaries with yourself too,babe, that's boundaries.
I said that today I was gonnaactually not work, I was gonna
take care of myself, becauseI've been going five solid days
this week and I'm starting toresent my work, and I know that
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it's not the work, it's actuallyI'm resenting overexerting
myself and I'm resenting how Ifeel right now.
So boundaries.
And then two, the conversationswith conviction and selling
yourself in a way that it'scustomizable.
So I've customized my energy,but the way that I sold to these
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people was just throughconversations, y'all, and I
crafted a custom package forthem.
That does not sound hard, doesit?
No, it's not hard.
And then the third thing I didwas let me think of what.
The third thing I did was oh,the payment plans.
I made it super accessible towork with me in a way that it
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was affordable, in a monthly waythat it wasn't going to stress
them out.
If, for some reason, it didn'twork which is it will work I
don't allow myself to work withpeople that I don't think it
will work.
Like I'm that person that'sgoing to take your money Fuck
that.
If I wanted to do that, I wouldjust be selling extremely
passive courses.
I wouldn't be selling highticket.
I wouldn't be involved with mycommunity.
You know what I mean.
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Like there's air.
There's a lot of things thatyou got to work through to make
sure that it's gonna work foryou, right, but you also have to
make a super accessible likewhere that?
So there are so many peoplethat want to work with you but
maybe they don't have the creditor the funds up front.
So, like again, it goes back tobeing resourceful.
So that was the third thing.
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I got super fucking resourcefulright, and they are a lifetime.
We got alarms going off.
So those were.
Those were the three majorshifts I made.
Uh, everything else is morelike.
If you think about content,strategy and stuff like that, my
content did shift.
If you want to learn about that,just comment a free course and
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I'll send you the free course on.
It's a three like very steps.
It was.
It had a lot to do with this.
That is in the podcast episode.
But if you're listening to thepodcast episode on my website or
through wherever you get yourpodcasts just women talking shit
, audience members who arelistening.
I love you so fucking much,just going to say that.
But second, you can just checkthe show notes for the free
(33:32):
course.
But for anybody watching rightnow, which I just saw, we got
Moonshine Collective on here.
We got the Chronic Confessions.
I saw some beautiful othersouls on here.
We are approaching light.
Number four for anybody keepingcount, all y'all do is comment
or DM free course.
This free course is going totell you exactly how, or the
changes I made in three steps tomake $7,650 in 72 hours.
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It was actually less than 72hours, but it felt weird to just
like pop a random number.
So three days is really what itwas three days and I was able
to took all that cash, and soafter that it was $11,000 cash
in 11 days, and so it's justgoing up.
I'm at $18,000 right now andit's only been three weeks, and
so this course is so fuckinggood.
(34:18):
It is just, and I want you tonotice.
Notice as well the simplicity ofhow I have this set up.
It's a Google doc that feedsyou into a loom video screen
recording, which I don't eventhink I show my face, because
I'm a total fucking introvert.
I'm very choosy with my energy,right.
But also at the time I hadn'thad a whole like I'd have a new
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camera and I just got myself anew phone, all these things.
I was like no, we're just not,we're not going to stress about
that, and let that hold me back,because I don't look good in
the camera for what it is it's.
The lens is like busted.
I don't want people to have to.
It would be a distraction.
Do you know what I mean?
And so I didn't let that holdme back and I put this thing
together and I said, fuck it,we're going to fuck up and fail
forward and make money while wedo it.
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We're going to learn while weearn.
And that's what I did is I puttogether a Google doc with a
quick 15 minute training videoand you could literally go and
replicate this in your own way.
Please do not steal myintellectual property by any
means.
I'll get that to you, babe.
You may actually have a DMalready, because I have systems
set up and I believe it's justsend it to you automatically.
(35:25):
Just let me know if it doesn't.
And I say that because I havenot tested it on a live stream
yet.
But I, I, oh God, what was Isaying?
I don't know.
It's just super simple.
It'll show you how to do all ofthat.
And again, I'm going to saythis before I hop off.
You can literally apply what Ido to anything.
Okay, I'm gonna tell you thequick story.
(35:46):
I only have 5% my battery andthe way this is plugged up.
I can't charge it because I'vegot an attachment for the
microphone.
What are we on?
Number six?
See, this is fun.
We're going to have some coffeereal quick and then I'm going
to get back to my story beforewe hop off.
Also, if you live near aStarbucks and you'd like a free
Starbucks, let me know I'll sendyou one.
(36:06):
Sorry, starbucks, let me knowI'll send you one.
Sorry about the call.
I didn't expect that.
That will for sure get editedout of the episode, but comment
Starbucks and I'll send you someStarbucks, because I love
Starbucks and I want to share itwith everybody.
Please excuse us.
While we have not a technicaldifficulty, I really hope I
haven't busted any of y'all'sears out with this microphone.
You need more Starbucks.
I got you One second.
Alright.
(36:27):
Queen of authenticity Whoops,queen of authenticity is back.
I really encourage y'all to beauthentic as fuck to itself.
No, we're not back.
Ok, we're back.
(36:48):
What I was saying I put this outfor a minute was that the free
course information that I giveyou.
I'm not dying.
I hope we've got a reallyfucking badass retreat in Sedona
, but I have to make it to.
Let me live until then, justuntil checkout.
Okay, I live until then.
This is wild Y'all.
That didn't.
That happened.
Sorry about that, anyway, okay.
So what I was saying was thiscourse Oops, are you afraid of
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heights?
This course that I've created, Ireally want to implement it and
, like I'm implemented, I'mdoing a case study with my best
friend and I'm going to show youall how anybody can do this
through with any niche, likelike moonshine.
(37:29):
Collective I know that youdon't have an actual tangible
product yet, ok.
Collective, I know that youdon't have an actual tangible
product yet, okay.
What most people should bedoing is, in order to get paid
to exist, still be gathering,gathering and stuff.
You know they'll be buildingtowards something.
So the free course that youwill get to check out it's a 15
minute video to walk you througheverything.
Um, it's just kind of like whatit's like to work with me and my
program that is coming out.
(37:50):
It's an evergreen program,launches January 15th and you
get lifetime access to it.
It's pretty much coaching withme for the rest of your life and
anything that is marketingcontent getting paid to exist,
so you'll always be in the loopof new marketing trends, what's
doing well, and access to likeall the ongoing live streams
(38:11):
that I do twice a week.
So this free course is apreview to that.
But what I want to share withyou as I'm hopping off and I say
that a lot y'all notice I'mhopping off and it's like 45.
This is called a SouthernGoodbye.
If you're not familiar with ityet, get used to it, because
it's a thing you should see usat holidays by turns into two
hours and then your mama willcall you on the way home to tell
(38:36):
you what.
What should I tell you?
It's, it's.
Get used to it.
That's all I'm saying.
Get used to it.
But it's just a preview intothat, and so the thing I wanted
to share with y'all is.
I was talking to my husbandearlier and I told him I've been
looking out at our backyardwhich is looking kind of janky.
You know, at this point we havenot had the money.
We have been living in creditcard debt.
We're about to pay off one ofour credit cards that's what I'm
(38:58):
working towards and that one'sgot fucking just $16,000 on it
alone.
And then I'm getting like I'vecaught up in my business stuff,
all these things that I'm doingand you know, help people that I
love behind the scenes sendgifts, it's the holiday giving
season, right, and all thesethings.
But I was, I was talking to him.
I was like now, once we getcaught up on some things, I know
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and I've noticed that sinceI've started making money, he
doesn't object to anything.
I say Now that he's seen thephysical evidence, like in bank
account, his stress levels aredown, just everything is
shifting everything.
So it's it's a testament thatmoney does make life a lot
easier, right, and so, becausethat's what I figured out and I
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think I was feeding into wayearlier on in this episode was
that I figured out that I wasletting money control my
happiness If it wasn't in theaccount.
If my account was red, I letthat dictate my external
happiness, and a lot of us dothat within our businesses,
within our companies, within ourlives, within our relationships
.
If we don't see the depositswhether that be financial
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deposits, whether that be energydeposits, love deposits, health
deposits, fitness deposits,like immediate we tend to give
up.
But that's the thing is is haveto believe it before you see it
.
This whole I'll believe it whenI see it is the exact reason
you're not seeing it, and Ialways use this as an example
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and we're going to get back tomy story about the whole
business thing, because I got tobe quick.
It's about to.
I don't want it to end, butthink.
The example that always comes tomind for me is you think about
great movement leaders likeMartin Luther King, jr, gandhi
Throw some out there for mey'all and just think about the
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trials, the tribulations.
I mean the fucking lack ofrespect and the degradation.
People were inhumane to themand they didn't fucking give up
on their dream.
They did not give up on thecrusade, the mission, because
when you have a vision and whenyou finally accept that, you
know what?
Some of us might be chosen.
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Some of us are natural bornleaders and it's okay.
It's okay to take pride in thatand to fulfill that prophecy in
this lifetime.
Because I bet you were a workerbee back when, I mean, I was a
prostitute at least three timesin my past lives.
That was a weird ass dreamy'all.
But what I'm saying is that inthis lifetime, yes, exactly,
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it's to want to lead a movementand to fulfill your prophecy.
Yes, exactly Like it's it's towant to lead a movement and to
fulfill your prophecy.
All right, so the free course.
I was talking to my husband andI was looking around and I was
like I'm ready to when, when itdries out out here, cause it's
been raining a lot when it driesout, I'm going to take a
garbage bag and I'm going to getrid of all this shit and the
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kids are going to freak out, butwe're going to replace it with
new, good quality stuff.
And I told her.
I said, mother Teresa, yes,ma'am, but where would we be
without these great people?
I'm not saying you're the nextJesus.
I'm not saying you have to besacrilegious.
I'm not saying you have to be adick to get there.
I'm saying that some of us aremeant to change the world and it
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is responsibility to do that.
Okay, but I was thinking aboutit and I was like I want to.
In doing this, I want to utilizesomeone that is really good at
what they do.
That needs things like thethrough, like monetary right,
because that gives us confidencewhen we do something and we get
paid for it.
It gives you confidence and sothat's why a lot of business
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owners are very, very and pivot,re-pivot, do all these things
because they're not truly owningtheir zones of genius and then
charging well, what they'reworth for it, right.
And when we do raise our pricesand do things like that and we
don't see immediate feedbackthrough people saying you know
what I'm, work with you orinvoice me, or then you tend to
give up.
But like I'm thinking, like Iknow what I want to do, I want
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my brother to build the boys aminiature house in our backyard,
big for them but little on likeadults, right, I want my
brother.
How, how beautiful of anexperience is that going to be?
I said and I want because Iknow he's going to do it and he
will do it.
He would do it for free if Iasked him to.
But there's no fucking way.
I want him to see what he iscapable of and what people will
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pay him for, and I want to payhim a lot of money I want to pay
him like $5,000.
And I want to record theprocess.
I want him to do the blueprintswith my children and I want to
document that because one it'sgoing to be something.
First off, he's my brother andthis is just beautiful fucking
memories, right.
But second, my kid's going tolook back on that.
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Third, they're part of thatprocess and that, right, there,
is going to be the mostmemorable part that they take
with them being part of that,and then the memories they build
while building it, but thememories they build inside of it
.
To be part of that and then tobe able to go back and look at
that.
And that's when it hit me.
I can literally take anypassion, I can take any skill
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set and I can turn it into highticket.
So that is a high ticketservice for my brother, right?
Do you see how we can get paidto exist?
You just got to get in front ofthe right people that want your
stuff.
So I wanted to share that withyou because I feel like a lot of
people aren't sure, can Ibenefit from your services?
Absolutely you can, if you'vegot drive, determination.
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You are a skill set that I canteach you to market in demand
and you own that shit and you'reactually good at it and you get
results.
Absolutely, you can get paid toexist.
I can teach you to have money.
You can have one stream ofincome that's bringing you
$10,000.
Another stream that's bringingyou $20,000.
Babe, you are limitless.
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Limitless, so fun.
I love what I do so much and myclient, sarah, has helped me
with that.
I'm just realizing like whatgenius I am and what you know to
it is the fact that I'm achronic illness baby and I've
had so much time to think thatI've not, I've not known what I
want to be when I grow up and soI've tried a million jobs that
have been around people that Idon't know how they got there.
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But actually now I do becausethey're just committed and
stayed there long enough and, Iguess, had some good ideas and
didn't give up, whereas I optedout because I can't stay in an
environment for very long andput up with bullshit and
nonsense and sign my life awayAt the hope of maybe one day
I'll get to travel.
I mean, babies know like no.
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We don't want to wait someday.
We want to feel like normalpeople.
We want to do this shit now.
I love you all so much.
I wish that all these commentswould stay.
I don't think they do, though.
All right, thank you so muchfor listening to me.
I think you're all amazing.
If you need me, if you want tochat, my inbox is open.
I'm so here for you.
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I'm so here for your success.
I think you're fucking amazingand I cannot wait to help you
get paid, to exist in whatevercapacity feels good for you.
Sometimes we do have to pivotAbsolutely.
I'm so grateful for all thepivots, because they led right
back to where I was supposed tobe.
It all led back to my zone ofgenius.
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I had to try it all out.
You've got to try it all outbefore you figure out what's for
you Fell forward.
Don't be afraid to fuck it upy'all.
In fact, fuck it up faster.
Can I get comments?
I'm going to fuck it up faster.
That should be like your newmotto let's fuck it up faster
because that's the quickest wayto succeed.
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Go listen to this bitch.
She's crazy, she's fun.
She's exactly what we need inthe industry right now, because
I really do believe that I am.
(46:56):
I think that we need a womanlike me, and I'm ready to fully
fucking own that.
Okay, I'm playing small.
Y'all Tired of playing small.
I'm ready to go out with a bangand I am so excited to see who
all I get to take with me, whoall trust themselves enough to
let me lead them, enough to bepart of this crusade, because
(47:18):
all of you who who tag along.
I just know it's going to be awild ride and that it is going
to be the best memories made,and we're going to have
documentation of it.
Not everybody can say that Ilove you so much.
I'll see y'all later.
Bye.
Hey there, hi, it's Jacqueline here.
Welcome back to another liverecording of Just Women Talking
Shit, where I am going to shootthe shit and smoke, because
that's just how we roll aroundhere.
So there's so much tea to catchup on y'all, oh my god.
So not too long ago, Iannounced my pivot, right, I
announced the pivot, and then Iwas just claiming I'm here to
(00:24):
shake some shit up, right, andso I made that big announcement.
What was it like three, fourweeks ago?
I don't know, it wasn't thatlong ago.
And so much has changed.
Have y'all noticed, have younoticed, a shift in my company?
I want to share what I haveshifted.
Nicole, can you hear me?
Can you leave me a comment?
Let me know that the mic ispicking everything up, please,
please, I'm gonna light my smoke, but everything shifted because
(00:48):
I made just a few solidadjustments.
They were energetic adjustmentsand then very strategic
adjustments.
So if you're new here, that'sgood.
As long as we have sound, I'mgood.
And how cool that you'relistening to this from work.
I love that so much.
So what was I saying?
(01:14):
Oh fuck, the adjustments thatwere made were both energetic
and really just somepsychological adjustments.
So if you have been around for aminute, then you already know I
am a woman of authenticity.
I am not afraid to fail forwardand fall flat on my face, flat
on my ass, and I will evenfeature it so that you don't
feel alone in this crazy journeyof one being a human.
(01:37):
Being a human is hard.
There's no set rule book, noguidebook, right.
We're all just fucking up andfiguring it out.
So if you've been here for aminute, you already know occurs
like a seller, right?
Not a seller, a sailor.
The southern in me is comingout and I just really don't.
I don't give a fuck, becauseI've finally entered this era of
(02:00):
life where I truly am ready todo what I call get paid to exist
.
And getting paid to exist meansthat you are not hiding who the
fuck you are anymore, right?
You're not hiding who you are,what you want, what your desires
are, what your dreams are, whatyour goals are, the type of
partner you want, theexpectation of income that you
expect to have every month.
(02:21):
I now have an energeticbaseline of $10,000 cash months,
meaning that I an energeticbaseline of $10,000 cash months,
meaning that I have a minimumof $10,000 cash at the end of
each month, after expenses,after everything, right?
So as you grow, as they say,new levels, new devils, right?
(02:42):
You start to realize that theshifts that you make, they're
not even big shifts.
That's the thing.
They're not even huge shifts.
It's just like a series ofshifts over time that it had to
happen that way.
Do you know what I mean?
You had to go through that.
You had to block yourself inthat moment to learn that lesson
.
You had to lose that job, youhad to lose that partner, you
(03:05):
had to fuck up and hurt thatperson.
Unfortunately, maybe it wasn'tintentional, but in life's grand
scheme of things, if you'reable to pull yourself back and
see things like a wide angleright, not so close up and
intimate then you're able to seethat all of it makes sense.
Then you're able to see thatall of it makes sense.
And so what I realized inmaking so I've far exceeded
(03:33):
$11,000 in cash, but just sothat I can put it in what I feel
like is just more digestible.
And so we can keep up with thecommon theme of just simplicity,
right, I'm averaging about athousand dollars a day, and so
in 11 days I brought in, with mycoaching company, $11,000 cash.
So sales were 13 somethingright, and so we got fees and we
have all these other things,but I wanted at least $10,000
(03:54):
cash to hit my account and so in11 days we did $11,000 cash and
, to be honest, I've never seenoutside of I would say, student,
student loans oh my hairStudent loans or some kind of
loan that you have to get for avehicle.
I've never gotten to play witha lot of money at once.
Do you know what I mean?
Coming at me quickly, and so Iwas really scared I wasn't going
(04:15):
to be able to hold on to it.
But, fun fact, life prepared me.
The universe, god and source,and my angels, angels and
everybody.
They prepared me Because do youknow what I experienced right
before that?
Almost an entire year of drought, an entire year of figuring out
how to nurture myself, how tolet go of things that were
(04:39):
actually bringing me money butnot bringing me joy.
I had to let go of a dependableincome.
I had to come out to my husbandand tell him I'm not perfect
and I'm really struggling.
And there's a reason that I amretracting and that I'm so
depressed, and it's because I'mnot aligned and I had to go
through this whole journey.
This whole past year has beenthis journey of just radical
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exception, of who the fuck I amand what I want, and not feeling
guilty for that.
And it's been a year of drought, a year of doubt, but a year of
massive and radical acceptanceof nobody's going to get this
for me except for me.
Right, and I pinpointed througha lot of meditation, a lot of
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prayer, a lot of just sitting bymyself with myself out here,
and there's a reason I'm sittingout here for today's podcast
episode.
I want to just show you all realquick where I sit in gratitude
almost every single day of mylife to work, even when it's
cold.
I just recently invested in aheated blanket.
This makes me happy.
I look forward to work when Iget to sit out and smoke my weed
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I'm sorry, my cannabis andbecause that sounds, I don't
know, maybe that won't get me introuble.
I would just better quittalking now.
But I sit out here and Ipartake in my medicine We'll say
that my green medicine is whatI call it and I exist, sorry
about that.
I exist as I am, as fucked up asI am, as chronically ill as I
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am, and sorry about that, Iexist as I am, as fucked up as I
am, as chronically ill as I am,and I take the good days.
I don't take them for granted.
I take the good days and Ifucking run with them.
I'm going to be at the gym, I'mgoing to be out there spreading
joy, I'm going to be buyingpeople coffee, I'm going to be
opening doors.
And so the biggest shift I madeafter I found out funny story
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too, by the way, I'm going totell you all this in a minute
but the funniest thing happenedwhenever it comes to HD, where
are my human design buffs at?
Where are you?
Raise your hand, tell me whatyour HD is, what is your
authority?
Tell me all the things, and I'mgoing to come back and tell you
this story.
So, in this radical acceptanceof I'm fucking tired, I'm sick
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and tired of feeling bad, thatI'm sick and tired all the time.
I'm sick and tired of feelingsick and tired, yes, but why do
I beat myself up over that?
Why do I make that a bad thing?
And so I really started to leaninto my story, hopping on here
and sharing my story, sharingthe tears, sharing the wisdom,
sharing the fuck ups, sharingthe behind the scenes.
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So when I'm in flow, even if Idon't feel well physically,
mentally sometimes, I'm in flow.
And so I really took a lot ofthe pressure off of myself to
quit having a schedule, such atough schedule, that I knew I
couldn't abide by.
I've retracted and I've pulledback from a lot of coaching
calls.
I've had to set a lot ofboundaries and it's really been
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tough because I'm afraid thatpeople will think it has
something to do with them andthat they're too much and that
they're just inadequate.
But it's not.
It's everything to do with me.
I'm figuring out that I don'tdo well with a lot of what feels
like restricted structure.
So, for instance, I said youknow what I'm going to hop on
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today and I'm behind on mypodcast episodes.
I had to shift from, but youalways get it done.
Right, I had to shift from theguilt to, but you always get it
done.
Maybe it's not in the mosttimely manner, maybe you don't
always stick to the strictest ofschedules, but when you show up
, jacqueline, you really show up.
Have you noticed that?
And so I started to speak tomyself in a way that I wish
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someone would speak to me, andit's really come down to
nurturing that inner child andadmitting all that I want and
all that I'm worthy of.
And so, in having theseconversations with myself, it's
been a really huge shift,radical acceptance.
And so this is your permissionslip too.
If you want a life of wealth andyou don't want to have to work
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super fucking hard for it in thelong run, here's your
permission slip.
Will it take two or three,maybe five years of radical
commitment?
Absolutely.
Will you have to skip out ongoing out for drinks with your
friends when it sounds funAbso-fucking-lutely?
Will it be worth it in the end?
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Better bet your sweet tits itwill be, because while everybody
else is still grinding andhustling in their 40s 50s,
having mid-life crises, you'llbe so grounded in who the fuck
you are because you did, you putin the time.
You saw past the fun nights andyou thought fun nights sound fun
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.
Having some drinks sounds fun,I don't know.
I also think it'd be reallybomb to have a nice house and a
nice entertainment area, maybe areally nice back porch that
overlooks some water.
I also think that'd be prettyfucking cool so I can host those
events in a classy, legacy way,right?
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So it really comes down to theboundaries and sometimes like
that's really hard having thoseconversations and then also
allowing yourself to honor howyou respond to the boundaries
and how you have to take time toyourself to sometimes not
respond Right.
So the past I would say 30 days, because when I talked to one
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of my coaches I was on herpodcast on Friday, which I'll
let you guys know when it comesout.
But if you want to check herpodcast out, it's called
manifest manifest mad money withYolanda Boyran and she's a.
She's a seven figure.
That's so cool to say she's aseven figure coach and she does
it.
I've copied a lot of what shedoes and it's working for me, as
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you see, but she does it in away that are so fully aligned
and that is so no bullshit andso magnetic that she gets paid
to exist Right, and that issomething that I just want to
share.
I want to continue to share allthe behind the scenes, all of
the tips and the tricks and theno gatekeeping Right, and it
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really did start with.
The biggest shift I made wasenergetically backing myself up
and protecting myself in a waythat it feels good to me.
I don't want to feel anxiousall the time about my business.
I already feel anxious with mymental illness, and my mental
illness thrives on the worry ofthings like having to hop on a
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call, knowing that I don't knowwhat the fuck I'm going to feel
like that day.
It's so hard too for me tocommit sometimes and I would say
95% of the time to an event sosimple such as a Zoom call that
I know is going to last an houror two hours.
But it's different knowing thatmaybe I'm planning a retreat a
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year from now and I canenergetically prepare for that.
I don't know what that's about.
I'm figuring it out.
I'm not saying that it's pretty.
I'm not saying it's sexy.
I'm not saying that it's kind,even for the people that are on
the receiving end.
But I know that I have to keepmyself safe and I've got a lot
of life that I don't tell youall about because it's not a.
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I don't want to appear as a bigleader.
There are some things I have tokeep private for my own sanity
and figure them out on my own,without any outside opinion or
reflection on their how theywould solve it, how they would
handle it.
I need to figure these thingsout on my own right, and so it
comes with a lot of energeticboundaries, and the thing that
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controls us most right now arethese phones.
So you'll see that if you textme, you'll see that if you try
to call me, if I make contact inyour phone, I share with
everybody my status.
I'm on do not disturb most ofthe time unless I know.
I have a client call that Icommitted to, that I've been
able to energetically preparefor, and a lot of it does have
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to do with and it sounds reallyfucking shitty.
If I'm not getting paid.
Sometimes it's not reasonenough to hop on a call, because
I've got so many demons of myown that I'm flushing out behind
the scenes.
I've got my debt that I'mfiguring out.
I've got my debt that I'mfiguring out.
I've got my health that I'mfiguring out.
So I literally budget my energyat this point and I think it's
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been a huge fucking shiftbecause I'm not available to
everybody anymore and I want youto take that away from this.
In your business, in your life,in your relationships, you are
not available to everybodybecause everybody will not put
that same amount of work intoyou.
Yes, I'm trying so hard toprotect my mental health and
being on these phones does nothelp me.
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It's so ironic because I'vebuilt something so beautiful
right here in this nook on thisphone Well, not this phone, this
is a new phone but with thisdevice that has allowed me to
find my identity, to build theconnections, yes, but I don't
want to be on it all the time.
I don't want to be on zoomcalls, just I don't, and I have
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to respect that and have tohonor that.
So a lot of working with melooks like voice messaging back
and forth.
It looks like, as soon as youhave an idea, send me a text,
send me a message.
It doesn't mean I'm respondingright away and if you get a
response out of me quickly, knowthat I'm available for that
right then, but that I mightdisappear in a few minutes
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because, well, we've got fivekids.
I've got a husband who worksfrom home who I can't ignore,
who needs my attention.
I've got my mom and her husbandwho have cancer, and a sister
with mental illness that I worryabout every fucking day of my
life.
I've got family in Hattiesburgdon't really know how they're
doing.
I've got cousins that are infoster care right now that I
live for and I just worry aboutthem all the time.
I worry about my mom's health,so I can't.
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There's a way that we're goingto build this, and so that is a
huge shift that I've made isnon-negotiables in my energy,
right.
Another huge shift that I madeand that I think that you can
also benefit from if you'rebuilding a coaching business, if
you're building a creatorbusiness.
Creator businesses could looklike you build courses, you have
a podcast, you are a UGCcreator or you have an online
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service provider business whereyou literally go out and serve.
Notice that all these thingsyou're giving, you're giving
yourself, you're giving yourtime, you're giving your energy,
you're giving your knowledge,your wisdom, your life
experience.
You are reiterating all of thelife lessons that you can't
really put a value on, and thenyou're packaging it and putting
a value on, and so you can'texceed that energetic value that
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you felt you deposited intothat bank.
If you're not getting more outof it, then you will eventually
experience burnout, and so moneyis just energy, and that's what
I teach all my clients ismoney's energy, and so if your
energy is not high, your incomewill not be high, and what I
mean by high energy is not we'rejumping around and we're happy
all the time.
It's energy.
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Being high is a sense ofalignment, it's a higher depth
of consciousness.
Right, you're, in a way, closerto God.
You're listening to themessages.
You're respecting your feelings, because your feelings are
feedback.
You're honoring the boundariesthat God has instilled in your
heart that make you uneasy.
You're not letting people walkall over you anymore.
You're not over exceeding yourenergy and putting yourself on
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the back burner anymore, andyou'll start to notice that
whenever you honor that, thingsstart to flow and you start to
find your people and all thethings and we've went through
this over and over again.
Your vibe attracts your, but ifwe don't get grounded in that
now, you will not build thesix-figure business that is
sustainable.
I'm not saying you won't builda six-figure business.
I'm saying it won't besustainable.
You won't build a seven-figurebusiness.
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I'm not there yet and I'm notsitting here trying to shit you
and tell you I'm there yet.
I'm telling you that I know howto make $1,000 at minimum a day
.
That's what I'm here to tellyou.
And so if I'm going to liveanother thousand days, you do
the math and that's what beingpaid to exist means.
And so, in order to implementthis in your business, so that
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you can benefit from this veryquickly, get really solid in all
of that that I just told you.
And then we're going to talkabout the second thing.
As I relight because y'all knowI talk and then it goes out,
and so we've got a fun gamegoing on right now and I think
it's just going to be part ofthe fun Jacqueline vibe of just
women talking shit in our livesin general.
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But we're going to play a gameand I want everyone to start
counting, because it's so funny,how many times this
motherfucker is going to go out.
And on the last live I think wecounted eight, eight times.
Between the time that westarted the conversation to the
time I ended, I think I had torelay eight times, and so it's
kind of a fun game.
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Oh, how many times?
Anyway, taking bets, how manytimes is it going to be?
This is number two, and I justwant to say do not drink to this
game because you may get fuckedup.
Number two.
So number one wasnon-negotiables in my energy,
non-negotiables in my income.
I raised my prices tremendously, I was going to raise them and
quit thinking.
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I was given.
I kept, I was spent myself onsale, and so many of you are
doing this too.
High tickets is the way to go,and I kept.
I was spent myself on sale andso many of you are doing this
too.
High ticket's the way to go,and you have low ticket offers
that lead them into that.
It's the way to go.
You can create an experiencearound anything.
You can create a high ticketexperience around anything.
I literally just came up withthe best business idea for my
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brother and I'm going to helphim do it.
I'm going to pitch it to himand he's not going to help him
do it.
I'm going to pitch it to himand he's not going to be able to
say no, because I'm going toallow him an avenue to get paid
to exist by doing his marketingfor him.
So what I did was, outside ofthe non-negotiables, outside of
saying this is my new energeticminimum, this is my new cash
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month minimum, I raised myprices and I made it super
valuable to raise my prices.
So I was selling my things for$47 a pop energetic blueprints,
$47 a pop doing extremelyextended payment plans for
Stripe that I may not get myfull invoice back for and so I
was taking a lot of risks and Iwas operating from a place of
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need, and so I finally figuredout a way, through some help,
through some guidance, throughsome trial and error.
For anybody drinking I'm nottrying to get you drunk, so I'm
going to try to keep this lit,but I just said you know what,
fuck it.
And I packaged it in a way thatwas so irresistible.
And here's the thing, I didn'twait to test any of it.
I went out there and I justwent ahead and talked to people.
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I already built relationshipswith People that I already knew
trusted me, some that I'd workedwith before, some I was working
with at the moment, based onjust and here's the thing
scrappy situations.
I stopped thinking that I had tohave my product suite all
worked out, and everyconversation that I started with
serving, I figured out whereare you in life right now, how
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have you been, how are the kids?
And I fucking made realconnections.
Lots of these people I alreadyhave connections with because I
show up in a way that peopleidentify with.
I'm real as fuck.
I'm not going to sit here andsugarcoat it, but I'm also not
going to be a dick.
I'm human right.
I know how to treat a person, Iknow how to read the room, and
so I took this skill set, thisgift of I'm good at building
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community.
I'm good at making people feelloved.
I'm good at people makingpeople feel seen, and I'm good
at doing that through the DMs.
I'm good at making people feelseen, and I'm good at doing that
through the DMs.
I'm good at doing that throughtext.
I'm good at doing that throughvoice messages because I'm
introverted as fuck.
A lot of people don't know thatabout me.
I'm introverted as fuck.
Or on number three, if I canfind the lighter.
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So, with having all of theanxiety around phone calls, cold
DMs, sales calls, why not buildit the way you fucking want to
build it and do it in a way thatmakes you happy, in a way that
positions you as somebody theywant to be around?
And so I've learned to packagemy energy in a way that I can
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leverage it so that I'm notdrained, because I'm an empath
y'all, I'm an empath, I'm amanifesting generator.
3-5, which means I go, go, go,go up here Doesn't mean I can go
, go, go, go out here.
I get very tired very easily.
I've said it over and overagain.
And I've Sarah, ms Sarah.
She has helped me so much withadmitting to the chronic
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illnesses and finally justcoming out and saying, yeah,
it's not who I am, but it'sdefinitely part of my journey,
it's part of my story.
It's the whole fucking reason Istarted all of this.
It's the whole reason I wantedto work online.
It's the whole reason I startedworking online.
It's the whole reason I startedMLMs network marketing
companies because I knew Icannot work at a desk job like a
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normal fucking person.
With as much as I hurt everysingle day of my life mentally
and physically, I can't do it orI will wind up dead.
I will dig myself an earlygrave.
I will put my nail in my owncoffin because I do not do well
under stress.
I do not do well faking it.
I do not do well with smalltalk, with conversations that
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are just in, in my frank opinion, and, speaking to the depths of
my soul, empty as fuck.
I'm not here for that.
That is a waste of my time.
I'm here to talk with you aboutwhat the fuck you want out of
this life, so that I can helpyou do that.
I have figured out.
I'm a visionary strategist, butI can't overexert myself, right
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?
And so how are you packagingyourself up to appear to be for
everyone when really what youshould be doing in your business
is going behind the scenes andtalking to those people that you
notice are rooting for you,that, when you do put something
out, vote on the polls, askquestions, open your emails what
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about those people Everyone'sso worried about?
Vanity followers?
How fast can I grow my account?
I fucking did it.
I started this account asspiritual support system.
Spiritual support system wassomething that I thought that
everyone in the fucking worldneeded and they do, and you do
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but you don't need it at everyphase of your life.
It takes a pivotal bone, cold,shaking, gut wrenching moment to
know that you need spiritualsupport system.
It is at a certain point inyour life where you have
surrendered and you've triedeverything and you are in
radical acceptance of who youare the good, the bad, the ugly
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before you're ready forspiritual support system.
So in my mind, it was foreverybody.
And again I was trying to speakto everybody, trying to please
everybody, right?
And that wasn't fully alignedfor me.
You're not for everybody, sowhere are you packaging yourself
for everybody?
And so what I did, and what youcan do too, is get in the
conversations, girl, go have theDMs, slide into the DMs.
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What you'll find is thesepeople are waiting on you,
they're fucking waiting on youto notice them, to say, hey, I
see your content, I think you'reincredible, I feel like we
would be friends in real life,and what you'll find is that
they're watching and waiting forthe invitation to come into
your world.
And that's what I found is thatI was packaging myself in a way
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that was asking for permission,when really, deep down, is a
coach, if you really know yourshit and you own your shit and
you show up unapologetically andyou're like I'm here to lead a
million dollar movement, baby,the rest of them can go fuck
themselves.
While I laugh myself to thebank and I help people on such
an intentional level thatchanges their lives.
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That's what my retreat does,that's what my podcast does,
that's what being around me does.
People will tell you when youget around me, and if you are
blessed to be on a phone callwith me, it's a moment.
Well, I bond with you, it's thesoul connection, and I don't
give that away freely anymore.
And so where are you givingyourself away freely and where
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can we step back and go?
Wait, where have I been leakingmy energy and where have I been
building this in a way that Idon't want to build it, in a way
that's not sustainable?
Because what happens is weoverthink the whole thing and we
think about the whole legacyand the empire that we want to
build, and the biggest thing wedo is we get caught in this oh
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fuck, this scroll of comparison,and it's so big in the coaching
industry, so big in the contentcreation industry.
We compare our content.
Why isn't it getting saves?
Why isn't it getting likes andshares?
Come on y'all.
Does that really fucking matter?
No, what matters is is theconversation with that woman who
rolled out of bed this morningand wasn't sure how the fuck she
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was going to make it throughthe day, and then you wrote her
and she said I needed that.
Thank you, because she feltalone, because she, too, is
looking for what you're lookingfor, and so the second thing I
did, and that you can do too, isto quit packaging yourself for
everyone.
Go have a conversation with thepeople that they need you, they
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really do, and they want towork with you and they want to
be in your energy and you gofind them and you make it your
conviction and your crusade tofind them, because the most
selfish thing you can do and mypost, was it?
Touched base on this today themost selfish thing you can do is
sit there and ignore the gifts.
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Some of us have so many fuckinggifts and ignore them because
we, we were conditioned to thinkthat you're too much, you're
too emotional.
I cannot tell you.
Fucking many times I've heardthat you're in your head sounds
nice, but you need a real job.
To dim your light in a worldthat is so dark is a true
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disservice to humanity and togod, the creator in this
universe itself.
It really and it took this pastyear of problems in my marriage,
going through some of theroughest moments of having to
really stare at myself andfigure out why this wasn't
working, why I wasn't making themoney, why I wasn't making the
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impact, having to come to termswith even though I didn't
realize it, energetically doingit for the wrong reasons.
I didn't realize that until Irealized that I hadn't accepted
that I was trying to prove somepeople wrong.
I held onto this guilt, thissurvivor's guilt as well of my
daughter's dad not being here,and then just my family.
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I'm breaking generationalcurses.
Most of my family is dad notbeing here, and then just my
family.
I'm breaking generationalcurses.
Most of my family is below thepoverty line and lives off of
welfare and will forever liveoff of welfare and never
understand what it's like tohave this sense of freedom and
that they can overcome theirodds and that they can have this
too.
And so it came down to thisconviction that having
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conversations is where theconversions are at, but it's
also where change happens, andso the shift that I made, and
that you can make too, is to goout there and have more
conversations, because, at theend of the day, you're in your
fucking head about it.
And, at the end of the day, ifyour heart is in the right place
and you're genuinely justtrying to make a connection with
somebody, get to know them.
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And if the opportunity presentsitself for you to be their
friend or be their mentor, whois just a few steps ahead of
them and can guide them, if thatopportunity presents itself,
you will know, and they willknow, that God will show you the
way through your feelings,because your feelings are
feedback, through nudges becausethat's your intuition and
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through coincidences and signsthat are clues that you're on
the right track.
If you could just trust thatand you could go into each
conversation with seeingyourself as this beautiful gift
from God, just imagine yourselftaking this gift to them and
then opening it and imagine theoutcome of if they work with you
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.
How can you have to presentyourself through these
conversations as the solution?
Because I just why else wouldGod, why else would the universe
, why else would source?
Why would it keep popping up inyour reality?
Really, stop and think aboutthat else with the universe, why
else with source?
Why would it keep popping up inyour reality?
Really, stop and think aboutthat.
Why would a feeling on yourheart, something that you
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daydream about in your dreamdreams and that you think about
and you just keep getting thesesigns and these signals and all
these people and God winks?
Why, if it's not meant for you,if there's no lust behind it
and you really do have a goodpure and you are here to help
humanity, how selfish would thatbe?
And I had to start seeingmyself as I'm a fucking gift.
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God works through me, and so Istarted having the conversations
and I only had to sign.
Oh, by the way, this money thatI've made.
Oh, by the way, this money thatI've made.
It was only a portion of it.
I've set it up in a way that Iwill get more in the new year
that I've not even accounted for.
How cool is that?
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There's about another 5K that Ialready know.
I have come the new year and sowouldn't it be cool to feel so
appreciated in what you do, butalso see the impact through the
transformations your clients get, like they see for themselves.
My community will tell you.
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Some of them are on here rightnow.
It doesn't take very many.
You get somebody on your sideand you help them, and word of
mouth and your energy and youjust committing to the end
result, releasing the timeline,hopping on you know, episodes,
whatever it is that you'retrying to build, hopping on and
just believing in it before youeven see the results.
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You will get results unless yougive up or you're not good at
it.
I'm just going to be real, okay, is it like American?
Like?
I'm going to be real, okay, isit like American?
Like I'm going to bullshit you.
I'm going to be the Simon whenit comes to like if good at this
, you can and you have the rightstrategy and you don't fucking
give up, you will make money.
You.
You do things you love and itdoesn't have to feel like a
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strain or like look forward toit, but you have to that that
that thing I did.
You have to have thoseboundaries, and that's
boundaries with yourself too,babe, that's boundaries.
I said that today I was gonnaactually not work, I was gonna
take care of myself, becauseI've been going five solid days
this week and I'm starting toresent my work, and I know that
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it's not the work, it's actuallyI'm resenting overexerting
myself and I'm resenting how Ifeel right now.
So boundaries.
And then two, the conversationswith conviction and selling
yourself in a way that it'scustomizable.
So I've customized my energy,but the way that I sold to these
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people was just throughconversations, y'all, and I
crafted a custom package forthem.
That does not sound hard, doesit?
No, it's not hard.
And then the third thing I didwas let me think of what.
The third thing I did was oh,the payment plans.
I made it super accessible towork with me in a way that it
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was affordable, in a monthly waythat it wasn't going to stress
them out.
If, for some reason, it didn'twork which is it will work I
don't allow myself to work withpeople that I don't think it
will work.
Like I'm that person that'sgoing to take your money Fuck
that.
If I wanted to do that, I wouldjust be selling extremely
passive courses.
I wouldn't be selling highticket.
I wouldn't be involved with mycommunity.
You know what I mean.
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Like there's air.
There's a lot of things thatyou got to work through to make
sure that it's gonna work foryou, right, but you also have to
make a super accessible likewhere that?
So there are so many peoplethat want to work with you but
maybe they don't have the creditor the funds up front.
So, like again, it goes back tobeing resourceful.
So that was the third thing.
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I got super fucking resourcefulright, and they are a lifetime.
We got alarms going off.
So those were.
Those were the three majorshifts I made.
Uh, everything else is morelike.
If you think about content,strategy and stuff like that, my
content did shift.
If you want to learn about that,just comment a free course and
(33:08):
I'll send you the free course on.
It's a three like very steps.
It was.
It had a lot to do with this.
That is in the podcast episode.
But if you're listening to thepodcast episode on my website or
through wherever you get yourpodcasts just women talking shit
, audience members who arelistening.
I love you so fucking much,just going to say that.
But second, you can just checkthe show notes for the free
(33:32):
course.
But for anybody watching rightnow, which I just saw, we got
Moonshine Collective on here.
We got the Chronic Confessions.
I saw some beautiful othersouls on here.
We are approaching light.
Number four for anybody keepingcount, all y'all do is comment
or DM free course.
This free course is going totell you exactly how, or the
changes I made in three steps tomake $7,650 in 72 hours.
(33:56):
It was actually less than 72hours, but it felt weird to just
like pop a random number.
So three days is really what itwas three days and I was able
to took all that cash, and soafter that it was $11,000 cash
in 11 days, and so it's justgoing up.
I'm at $18,000 right now andit's only been three weeks, and
so this course is so fuckinggood.
(34:18):
It is just, and I want you tonotice.
Notice as well the simplicity ofhow I have this set up.
It's a Google doc that feedsyou into a loom video screen
recording, which I don't eventhink I show my face, because
I'm a total fucking introvert.
I'm very choosy with my energy,right.
But also at the time I hadn'thad a whole like I'd have a new
(34:40):
camera and I just got myself anew phone, all these things.
I was like no, we're just not,we're not going to stress about
that, and let that hold me back,because I don't look good in
the camera for what it is it's.
The lens is like busted.
I don't want people to have to.
It would be a distraction.
Do you know what I mean?
And so I didn't let that holdme back and I put this thing
together and I said, fuck it,we're going to fuck up and fail
forward and make money while wedo it.
(35:01):
We're going to learn while weearn.
And that's what I did is I puttogether a Google doc with a
quick 15 minute training videoand you could literally go and
replicate this in your own way.
Please do not steal myintellectual property by any
means.
I'll get that to you, babe.
You may actually have a DMalready, because I have systems
set up and I believe it's justsend it to you automatically.
(35:25):
Just let me know if it doesn't.
And I say that because I havenot tested it on a live stream
yet.
But I, I, oh God, what was Isaying?
I don't know.
It's just super simple.
It'll show you how to do all ofthat.
And again, I'm going to saythis before I hop off.
You can literally apply what Ido to anything.
Okay, I'm gonna tell you thequick story.
(35:46):
I only have 5% my battery andthe way this is plugged up.
I can't charge it because I'vegot an attachment for the
microphone.
What are we on?
Number six?
See, this is fun.
We're going to have some coffeereal quick and then I'm going
to get back to my story beforewe hop off.
Also, if you live near aStarbucks and you'd like a free
Starbucks, let me know I'll sendyou one.
(36:06):
Sorry, starbucks, let me knowI'll send you one.
Sorry about the call.
I didn't expect that.
That will for sure get editedout of the episode, but comment
Starbucks and I'll send you someStarbucks, because I love
Starbucks and I want to share itwith everybody.
Please excuse us.
While we have not a technicaldifficulty, I really hope I
haven't busted any of y'all'sears out with this microphone.
You need more Starbucks.
I got you One second.
Alright.
(36:27):
Queen of authenticity Whoops,queen of authenticity is back.
I really encourage y'all to beauthentic as fuck to itself.
No, we're not back.
Ok, we're back.
(36:48):
What I was saying I put this outfor a minute was that the free
course information that I giveyou.
I'm not dying.
I hope we've got a reallyfucking badass retreat in Sedona
, but I have to make it to.
Let me live until then, justuntil checkout.
Okay, I live until then.
This is wild Y'all.
That didn't.
That happened.
Sorry about that, anyway, okay.
So what I was saying was thiscourse Oops, are you afraid of
(37:09):
heights?
This course that I've created, Ireally want to implement it and
, like I'm implemented, I'mdoing a case study with my best
friend and I'm going to show youall how anybody can do this
through with any niche, likelike moonshine.
(37:29):
Collective I know that youdon't have an actual tangible
product yet, ok.
Collective, I know that youdon't have an actual tangible
product yet, okay.
What most people should bedoing is, in order to get paid
to exist, still be gathering,gathering and stuff.
You know they'll be buildingtowards something.
So the free course that youwill get to check out it's a 15
minute video to walk you througheverything.
Um, it's just kind of like whatit's like to work with me and my
program that is coming out.
(37:50):
It's an evergreen program,launches January 15th and you
get lifetime access to it.
It's pretty much coaching withme for the rest of your life and
anything that is marketingcontent getting paid to exist,
so you'll always be in the loopof new marketing trends, what's
doing well, and access to likeall the ongoing live streams
(38:11):
that I do twice a week.
So this free course is apreview to that.
But what I want to share withyou as I'm hopping off and I say
that a lot y'all notice I'mhopping off and it's like 45.
This is called a SouthernGoodbye.
If you're not familiar with ityet, get used to it, because
it's a thing you should see usat holidays by turns into two
hours and then your mama willcall you on the way home to tell
(38:36):
you what.
What should I tell you?
It's, it's.
Get used to it.
That's all I'm saying.
Get used to it.
But it's just a preview intothat, and so the thing I wanted
to share with y'all is.
I was talking to my husbandearlier and I told him I've been
looking out at our backyardwhich is looking kind of janky.
You know, at this point we havenot had the money.
We have been living in creditcard debt.
We're about to pay off one ofour credit cards that's what I'm
(38:58):
working towards and that one'sgot fucking just $16,000 on it
alone.
And then I'm getting like I'vecaught up in my business stuff,
all these things that I'm doingand you know, help people that I
love behind the scenes sendgifts, it's the holiday giving
season, right, and all thesethings.
But I was, I was talking to him.
I was like now, once we getcaught up on some things, I know
(39:18):
and I've noticed that sinceI've started making money, he
doesn't object to anything.
I say Now that he's seen thephysical evidence, like in bank
account, his stress levels aredown, just everything is
shifting everything.
So it's it's a testament thatmoney does make life a lot
easier, right, and so, becausethat's what I figured out and I
(39:39):
think I was feeding into wayearlier on in this episode was
that I figured out that I wasletting money control my
happiness If it wasn't in theaccount.
If my account was red, I letthat dictate my external
happiness, and a lot of us dothat within our businesses,
within our companies, within ourlives, within our relationships
.
If we don't see the depositswhether that be financial
(40:01):
deposits, whether that be energydeposits, love deposits, health
deposits, fitness deposits,like immediate we tend to give
up.
But that's the thing is is haveto believe it before you see it
.
This whole I'll believe it whenI see it is the exact reason
you're not seeing it, and Ialways use this as an example
(40:22):
and we're going to get back tomy story about the whole
business thing, because I got tobe quick.
It's about to.
I don't want it to end, butthink.
The example that always comes tomind for me is you think about
great movement leaders likeMartin Luther King, jr, gandhi
Throw some out there for mey'all and just think about the
(40:43):
trials, the tribulations.
I mean the fucking lack ofrespect and the degradation.
People were inhumane to themand they didn't fucking give up
on their dream.
They did not give up on thecrusade, the mission, because
when you have a vision and whenyou finally accept that, you
know what?
Some of us might be chosen.
(41:04):
Some of us are natural bornleaders and it's okay.
It's okay to take pride in thatand to fulfill that prophecy in
this lifetime.
Because I bet you were a workerbee back when, I mean, I was a
prostitute at least three timesin my past lives.
That was a weird ass dreamy'all.
But what I'm saying is that inthis lifetime, yes, exactly,
(41:25):
it's to want to lead a movementand to fulfill your prophecy.
Yes, exactly Like it's it's towant to lead a movement and to
fulfill your prophecy.
All right, so the free course.
I was talking to my husband andI was looking around and I was
like I'm ready to when, when itdries out out here, cause it's
been raining a lot when it driesout, I'm going to take a
garbage bag and I'm going to getrid of all this shit and the
(41:46):
kids are going to freak out, butwe're going to replace it with
new, good quality stuff.
And I told her.
I said, mother Teresa, yes,ma'am, but where would we be
without these great people?
I'm not saying you're the nextJesus.
I'm not saying you have to besacrilegious.
I'm not saying you have to be adick to get there.
I'm saying that some of us aremeant to change the world and it
(42:09):
is responsibility to do that.
Okay, but I was thinking aboutit and I was like I want to.
In doing this, I want to utilizesomeone that is really good at
what they do.
That needs things like thethrough, like monetary right,
because that gives us confidencewhen we do something and we get
paid for it.
It gives you confidence and sothat's why a lot of business
(42:34):
owners are very, very and pivot,re-pivot, do all these things
because they're not truly owningtheir zones of genius and then
charging well, what they'reworth for it, right.
And when we do raise our pricesand do things like that and we
don't see immediate feedbackthrough people saying you know
what I'm, work with you orinvoice me, or then you tend to
give up.
But like I'm thinking, like Iknow what I want to do, I want
(42:56):
my brother to build the boys aminiature house in our backyard,
big for them but little on likeadults, right, I want my
brother.
How, how beautiful of anexperience is that going to be?
I said and I want because Iknow he's going to do it and he
will do it.
He would do it for free if Iasked him to.
But there's no fucking way.
I want him to see what he iscapable of and what people will
(43:20):
pay him for, and I want to payhim a lot of money I want to pay
him like $5,000.
And I want to record theprocess.
I want him to do the blueprintswith my children and I want to
document that because one it'sgoing to be something.
First off, he's my brother andthis is just beautiful fucking
memories, right.
But second, my kid's going tolook back on that.
(43:41):
Third, they're part of thatprocess and that, right, there,
is going to be the mostmemorable part that they take
with them being part of that,and then the memories they build
while building it, but thememories they build inside of it
.
To be part of that and then tobe able to go back and look at
that.
And that's when it hit me.
I can literally take anypassion, I can take any skill
(44:04):
set and I can turn it into highticket.
So that is a high ticketservice for my brother, right?
Do you see how we can get paidto exist?
You just got to get in front ofthe right people that want your
stuff.
So I wanted to share that withyou because I feel like a lot of
people aren't sure, can Ibenefit from your services?
Absolutely you can, if you'vegot drive, determination.
(44:27):
You are a skill set that I canteach you to market in demand
and you own that shit and you'reactually good at it and you get
results.
Absolutely, you can get paid toexist.
I can teach you to have money.
You can have one stream ofincome that's bringing you
$10,000.
Another stream that's bringingyou $20,000.
Babe, you are limitless.
(44:49):
Limitless, so fun.
I love what I do so much and myclient, sarah, has helped me
with that.
I'm just realizing like whatgenius I am and what you know to
it is the fact that I'm achronic illness baby and I've
had so much time to think thatI've not, I've not known what I
want to be when I grow up and soI've tried a million jobs that
have been around people that Idon't know how they got there.
(45:12):
But actually now I do becausethey're just committed and
stayed there long enough and, Iguess, had some good ideas and
didn't give up, whereas I optedout because I can't stay in an
environment for very long andput up with bullshit and
nonsense and sign my life awayAt the hope of maybe one day
I'll get to travel.
I mean, babies know like no.
(45:32):
We don't want to wait someday.
We want to feel like normalpeople.
We want to do this shit now.
I love you all so much.
I wish that all these commentswould stay.
I don't think they do, though.
All right, thank you so muchfor listening to me.
I think you're all amazing.
If you need me, if you want tochat, my inbox is open.
I'm so here for you.
(45:53):
I'm so here for your success.
I think you're fucking amazingand I cannot wait to help you
get paid, to exist in whatevercapacity feels good for you.
Sometimes we do have to pivotAbsolutely.
I'm so grateful for all thepivots, because they led right
back to where I was supposed tobe.
It all led back to my zone ofgenius.
(46:13):
I had to try it all out.
You've got to try it all outbefore you figure out what's for
you Fell forward.
Don't be afraid to fuck it upy'all.
In fact, fuck it up faster.
Can I get comments?
I'm going to fuck it up faster.
That should be like your newmotto let's fuck it up faster
because that's the quickest wayto succeed.
(46:35):
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If you're listening to it live,share the video and your
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Go listen to this bitch.
She's crazy, she's fun.
She's exactly what we need inthe industry right now, because
I really do believe that I am.
(46:56):
I think that we need a womanlike me, and I'm ready to fully
fucking own that.
Okay, I'm playing small.
Y'all Tired of playing small.
I'm ready to go out with a bangand I am so excited to see who
all I get to take with me, whoall trust themselves enough to
let me lead them, enough to bepart of this crusade, because
(47:18):
all of you who who tag along.
I just know it's going to be awild ride and that it is going
to be the best memories made,and we're going to have
documentation of it.
Not everybody can say that Ilove you so much.
I'll see y'all later.
Bye.
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