Kingdom Sexuality
You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like: • Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage? • How can we keep passion alive years later? • What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want? With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life. Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
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October 13, 2025 • 44 mins
Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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October 6, 2025 • 66 mins
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In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reache...
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September 29, 2025 • 31 mins
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Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage!
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September 22, 2025 • 54 mins
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This week, we sit down with Greer Jones to talk neurodivergence in marriage. She shares about ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and how those things can impact a sex life. Greer shares her story, practical tools, and hope-filled tips to help couples stay connected and thrive despite differences.
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September 15, 2025 • 29 mins
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In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from navigating pregnancy and postpartum intimacy, to boosting confidence in your husband, to finally figuring out foreplay and orgasms. You’re not alone in your questions, so let’s unpack them together!
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September 8, 2025 • 40 mins
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This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind closed doors.
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September 1, 2025 • 31 mins
We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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August 25, 2025 • 44 mins
Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
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August 18, 2025 • 55 mins
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Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every relational need, or how ...
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August 11, 2025 • 25 mins
Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy.
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August 4, 2025 • 24 mins
We’re back with Part 2 of your “Is this normal?” questions!! Diving into everything from awkward initiations and feeling overstimulated to newlywed fears, ADHD moments in bed, and tricky emotional dynamics. Plus, you'll get the final results of the 'pimple popping poll' at the end!
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July 28, 2025 • 42 mins
In this episode, we're tackling all your “Is this normal?” questions. From quick finishes and tingling after orgasm to clean-up quirks and unexpected turn-ons. It’s real talk, no shame, and lots of “oh wow, us too!” moments. (At least, some of us...) You’re not as weird as you think, we promise.
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July 21, 2025 • 35 mins
You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it!
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July 14, 2025 • 30 mins
What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist.
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July 7, 2025 • 29 mins
Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or a Sprinter van- we’ve got tips, laughs, and biblical encouragement to help you connect wherever the moment takes you.
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June 30, 2025 • 23 mins
In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is different, and how to navigate it with confidence, communication, and grace. This one’s full of encouragement for both husbands and wives.
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June 23, 2025 • 38 mins
We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we’re diving into it all. Whether you're single, newly married, or deep in the thick of it, there's something in here for you.
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June 16, 2025 • 34 mins
Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to scheduling sex without the cringe, we’re sharing real talk, roadblock check-ins, and ideas to bring the spark back.
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June 9, 2025 • 31 mins
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Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you tune into deeper connection with your spouse!
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June 2, 2025 • 31 mins
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Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth!
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