Kingdom Sexuality

Kingdom Sexuality

You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like: •⁠ ⁠Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage? •⁠ ⁠How can we keep passion alive years later? •⁠ ⁠What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want? With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life. Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.

Episodes

November 24, 2025 56 mins
Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home. Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off Unite & I...
Mark as Played
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like: - what actually happens at a retreat? - how much does it cost?, - what if your spouse doesn't want to go? - how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away? Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off Unite & Ignite for the rest of 2025!  Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: ...
Mark as Played
November 10, 2025 37 mins
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace. Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off ...
Mark as Played
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life. Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off Unite & Ignite for the rest of 2025!  Watch the episode on YouTube!! Episodes: Previous e...
Mark as Played
October 27, 2025 31 mins
Use the code SPICE IT UP to get 50% off Unite & Ignite for the rest of 2025!  Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Episodes: Sleep & Sex Episode Our Products: 30 Prayer For Your Spouse bundle  Resources: Awaken Love ...
Mark as Played
October 20, 2025 32 mins
Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again! Use the code SPICEITUP to get 50% off Unite & Ignite for the rest of 2025!  Watch the episode on YouTube!! Episodes: Condom Episode Our Products: Figuring Out What I Like Guide S...
Mark as Played
Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources Mentioned: Everlywell My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link BeLovedF...
Mark as Played
This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!  In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reaches even the most...
Mark as Played
September 29, 2025 31 mins
This episode is sponsored by ⁠Brooklyn Bedding⁠! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Episodes Mentioned: ...
Mark as Played
This episode is sponsored by ⁠Brooklyn Bedding⁠! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! This week, we sit down with Greer Jones to talk neurodivergence in marriage. She shares about ADHD, autism, sensory differences, and how those things can impact a sex life. Greer shares her story, practical tools, and hope-filled tips to help couples stay connected and thrive despite differences. Watch the e...
Mark as Played
This episode is sponsored by ⁠Brooklyn Bedding⁠! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! In this special Q&A, Alana and Tiera are answering real questions sent in by women! Everything from navigating pregnancy and postpartum intimacy, to boosting confidence in your husband, to finally figuring out foreplay and orgasms. You’re not alone in your questions, so let’s unpack them together! Watch the ...
Mark as Played
This episode is sponsored by Brooklyn Bedding! Go to brooklynbedding.com, promo code KINGDOM for 30% off sitewide! This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind closed doors. Links from today’s e...
Mark as Played
September 1, 2025 31 mins
We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Higher Desire Wife episode Lower Desire Husband episode ...
Mark as Played
Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Dwell Audio Bible App: use our link for 25% off! Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1 Episode 247: Is This Normal Part 2 Beat...
Mark as Played
This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Click here to get Dwell for 25% off! Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!  Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every relational need, or how to take the fir...
Mark as Played
August 11, 2025 25 mins
Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sig...
Mark as Played
August 4, 2025 24 mins
We’re back with Part 2 of your “Is this normal?” questions!! Diving into everything from awkward initiations and feeling overstimulated to newlywed fears, ADHD moments in bed, and tricky emotional dynamics. Plus, you'll get the final results of the 'pimple popping poll' at the end! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Awaken Love Book Episode 189: With Josh Spurlock Episode 166: Initiating 101...
Mark as Played
July 28, 2025 42 mins
In this episode, we're tackling all your “Is this normal?” questions. From quick finishes and tingling after orgasm to clean-up quirks and unexpected turn-ons. It’s real talk, no shame, and lots of “oh wow, us too!” moments. (At least, some of us...) You’re not as weird as you think, we promise. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Splash Blanket: code KINGDOM for 10% off! Jess Seitz : Pain Fr...
Mark as Played
You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Episode 220: The Why Behind This Evree - use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! When She Is The One Addict...
Mark as Played
What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: ⁠⁠Join Unite...
Mark as Played

Popular Podcasts

    If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

    Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang

    Ding dong! Join your culture consultants, Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, on an unforgettable journey into the beating heart of CULTURE. Alongside sizzling special guests, they GET INTO the hottest pop-culture moments of the day and the formative cultural experiences that turned them into Culturistas. Produced by the Big Money Players Network and iHeartRadio.

    Crime Junkie

    Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.

    The Breakfast Club

    The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, And Charlamagne Tha God!

    Dateline NBC

    Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

Advertise With Us
Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.