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December 3, 2025 112 mins

Conscious Kink, Community, and Connection - The Kink Collective


In this conversation, host Leann Herron speaks with Cat Ormeand Joshua Rodriguez, co-founders of the Kink Collective, about the transformative power of kink as a path to healing and empowerment. They discuss the importance of community, the philosophy of 'people before kink', and the necessity of education in navigating kink safely. The Kink Collective offersvarious programs aimed at fostering personal exploration, connection, and understanding within the kink community. They emphasize the significance of body mapping and communication in creating safe and fulfilling experiences inkink.


In this conversation, Cat and Joshua explore the intersections of BDSM, personal responsibility, communication, and consent within BDSM practices. They emphasize the importance of self-advocacy, negotiation techniques for safer scenes, and the role of mentorship in kink communities. The discussion also delves into the integration of trauma and kink, the redefinition ofmasculinity, and the creation of safe spaces for vulnerability. Theconversation concludes with insights on personal growth and the importance of education in navigating these complex topics.


Key Takeaways:

  • BDSM is a valid contribution to somatic healing arts.
  • Personal responsibility is crucial in BDSM practices.
  • Communication is key; partners should not expect mind reading.
  • Negotiation is essential for safety and consent in BDSM.
  • Mentorship is vital for newcomers in kink communities.
  • Trauma can inform one's experience in kink and BDSM.
  • Redefining masculinity is important for personal growth.
  • Creating safe spaces allows for vulnerability and healing.
  • Education is necessary for understanding and navigating kink.


🕛 Timestamps

00:00 Greetings and Introduction of Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez

02:37 The Mission of the Kink Collective

04:55 Community and Connection in Kink

08:29 People Before Kink Philosophy

11:10 The Importance of Educational Spaces

14:26 Navigating Kink Safely

19:07 Healing Through Kink Practices

23:35 Finding Your Voice in Kink

27:43 Programs Offered by the Kink Collective

35:28 The Power of Perspective-Based Learning

37:22 Healing Through Kink Program

39:15 Body Mapping: Understanding Our Sensations

43:57 Navigating Limitations in BDSM

46:49 Personal Responsibility in BDSM Relationships

01:01:02 The Role of Mentorship in BDSM

01:03:09 MITPISA - Negotiation Tools for Safety in BDSM

01:17:13 The Importance of Follow-Up and Communication

01:19:23 Navigating Grief and Trauma in Kink

01:31:38 Redefining Masculinity and Identity

01:44:15 Creating Safe Spaces for Men to Share


Episode Resources:

 

Guests: Cat Orme and Joshua Rodriguez –Co-founders of Kink Collective

Kink Collective is a place where curiosity is met with respect, and every journey is built on honesty and understanding. Find the support and community to explore meaningful connections and profound self-discovery.

Connect with Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez:

Website: https://kinkcollective.net/

 

About your host:

Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. 

 

Connect with Leann Herron:

Kink Your Way

Website: https://kinkyourway.com

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/

 

Finding Resilience with Leann

Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com

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