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November 7, 2023 67 mins

Step into the world of kink with us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey alongside Alesandra Madison, a passionate advocate and educator in the realm of alternative lifestyles. Join us as we explore Alesandra's personal path of self-discovery, acceptance, and empowerment within the world of kink. In this episode, we'll delve into the importance of education, consent, and destigmatization, and how Alesandra is breaking barriers to create a more inclusive and understanding society.


Alesandra Madison is a renowned BDSM educator and kink advocate, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra helps new and experienced kinksters overcome vanilla frustrations by creating a thrilling Dom/sub dynamic that makes BDSM a way of life. She is a 24/7 submissive and has over a decade of experience in the lifestyle. She is OBSESSED with teaching new and experienced Doms and subs how to make their lives more fulfilling through BDSM, and over 7,000 students have taken her online courses and trainings.


We discussed:

3:23 About Alesandra and why she created Dom Sub Living.

7:27 How she got started in the BDSM lifestyle and what drew her to become an educator and advocate for it.

12:29 Community (munches, dungeons, events)

16:11 How she identified the need for BDSM education and what motivated her to fill that gap.

22:29 Some of the most rewarding experiences she’s had as an educator, and how she’s seen BDSM positively impact people's lives.

29:23 Strategies she has found most effective in reaching and connecting with "her people". - Meet people where they are, self-acceptance, authentic.

38:09 What role technology plays in her business, and how she leverages it to reach a wider audience.

44:26 Circle (Community platform, virtual events, and courses)

51:49 Challenges she faced when starting her business in the BDSM education industry, and how she overcame them.

58:14 Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs who are interested in starting a business in adult education. - Long game, be authentic, show up, keep going, celebrate your wins.

1:04:36 Dom Sub Living News – Podcast launch of the Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast.


In February 2023, I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and as a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit.


Episode Resources:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/domsubliving

Instagram: domsubliving

Website: https://www.domsubliving.com

Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook

https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/having-a-morning-routine-for-waking-up-in-a-submissive-mindset-workbook

Overcoming Mindset Hurdles in Your D/s Journey https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkyourway/episodes/Overcoming-Mindset-Hurdles-in-Your-Ds-Journey-e26ahmg


Affiliate Resources (if you purchase from my links below I will earn a commission at no cost to you):


If you want to find the perfect partner for your BDSM lifestyle, watch Alesandra’s workshop here. 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner here https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/


5 Ways to Help Your Partner Be More Dominant, Submissive, or Kinky.

https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart


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