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December 17, 2025 • 61 mins

Handcrafted Pleasure: The Legacy and Lifestyle Behind The Kink Shop


In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron and Ben from the Kink Shop discuss the intersection of community, craftsmanship, and kink culture. They explore their personal journeys into kink, the importance of education and consent, and the Kink Shop's philosophy of being 'by kinksters for kinksters.' The conversation highlights the significance of quality in kink products and the role of community in fosteringa safe and enjoyable kink experience.


Key Takeaways:

  • The Kink Shop has thrived for over 25 years due to itsstrong community ties.
  • Ben's journey into kink began with his first event atFolsom Street Fair.
  • Leann's introduction to kink came after a long vanillamarriage and self-discovery.
  • Both Ben and Leann emphasize the importance ofexploring kink together with partners.
  • The Kink Shop prioritizes customer service and treatscustomers like family.
  • Education is crucial for safe and enjoyable kinkexperiences.
  • Negotiation and consent are fundamental aspects ofkink play.
  • The Kink Shop aims to provide quality products with alifetime warranty.
  • Ben expresses a desire to expand the Kink Shopinternationally, particularly in Europe.
  • Leann's podcast reaches a global audience, helping toconnect kinksters worldwide.


đź•› Timestamps

00:00 Handcrafted Pleasure for Over 25 Years

00:24 Greetings and Introduction to Ben and The KinkShop

01:48 The Kink Shop: Family-Owned, Handcrafted Toys

04:02 Ben's Kink Journey

07:13 Leann's Path to Kink

10:25 Shared Experiences in Kink Relationships

13:12 Kinktoberfest and Learning Together

17:05 Kink Shop Philosophy: By Kinksters for Kinksters

22:23 Quality and Craftsmanship in Kink Toys

27:05 Education and Safety in Kink Play

31:42 Navigating Safe Words and Scene Endings

32:09 Understanding Top and Bottom Headspaces

33:17 The Importance of Education in Kink

35:31 Exploring Sensuality and Intention in Play

37:14 The Role of Education and Resources in Kink

39:07 Negotiation and Safety in Kink Dynamics

40:24 The Risks and Responsibilities of Kink

43:20 Creating a Safe and Educational Kink Environment

44:48 Personalizing the Kink Experience

50:21 Kink and BDSM Resources and Education forWriters and Readers

54:28 Kink and BDSM Coaching

55:32 Future Aspirations for the Kink Shop

59:47 Connecting with the Kink Shop


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Episode Resources:


Guest:

Ben, a proud kinkster, seasoned sales pro, and futureco-owner of The Kink Shop—a multi-generation, family-owned company that’s been handcrafting toys for over 25 years. Known for their thuddy impact toys, stingy sensations, and electro delights, The Kink Shop has become a cornerstone ofkink culture across the U.S.

Connect with Ben:

Website: https://thekinkshop.com/

Email: tks@joytrust.org

Facebook: thekinkshop

Twitter x @TheKinkShop

Fetlife: TheKinkShop

 

About your host:

Leann Herron is a Kink-AwareProfessional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. 

Connect with Leann Herron:

Kink Your Way

Website: https://kinkyourway.com

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/

Finding Resilience with Leann Website:

https://findingresiliencewithleann.com


🔑 Keyword Tags

Kink, BDSM, community, craftsmanship, education, consent, intimacy, identity, pleasure, toys


📣 Hashtags

#education #sexpositive #consentculture #podcastinterview #community #lifetimewarranty #exploration #customerservice

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