Safe, Sane, Consensual: Safety in Play Starts Here

Today’s bonus episode is a foundational one. We’re talking about something that is absolutely essential in every corner of the kink world—Safety in Play.


This isn’t just about avoiding physical harm—although we’ll talk about that, too—it’s also about protecting your emotional and psychological safety. Because let’s be real: kink has the potential to be deeply healing or deeply harmful, depending on how we handle it.


So whether you’re brand new to this space or have decades of leather under your belt, I invite you to settle in and maybe even take some notes. Because today we’re talking about how to play smart, safe, and sexy.


In this bonus episode, I discuss:

  • Quick Book Recs for the Curious Kinkster
  • Trigger Warning
  • Safety 101 – The Essentials
  • Red Flags to Watch For


Kink isn’t just about domination, submission, or power. It’s about trust. Vulnerability. Intimacy. Transformation.

But none of that can happen without safety.


So here are a few journal prompts to reflect on after today:

  • What does safety feel like in your body?
  • What are your current boundaries—and do your play partners know them?
  • What’s your plan for emotional safety—during and after a scene?

Grab my FREE ⁠Kink Play Safety Checklist⁠


Website: ⁠Kink Your Way

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