Kinking Out Loud - The FemDom Podcast

Kinking Out Loud - The FemDom Podcast

This is a sex positive podcast, covering a wide variety of topics, but mainly talking about FemDom, submission, kink, intimacy and personal relationships. I explain kink concepts in an easily digestible manner, dispel some myths about FemDom and BDSM, while keeping it positive and entertaining. Settle in and relax while you listen to the lovely, soothing voice of your host, Gothicc Hel. I am also writing dark and paranormal romance with BDSM, under the pen name J.R. O'Brien. Check them out at https://jrobrienbooks.com/

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December 13, 2025 11 mins

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Today's episode is all about consent, or consent to no consent. This is a very hot topic in today's society and always has been. CNC and dark romance have many things in common, most prominently the part when people judge others for being into it. It's a very sensitive topic that many people seem to deeply misunderstand, and I'm here to explain the differences between consent/no consent, fi...

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What if reclaiming a stereotype could lead to personal empowerment and joy? Join me, Gothicc Hel, in this episode of Kinking Out Loud, we explore how the bimbofication kink intersects with themes of degradation, societal perceptions, and the beauty of transformation. Whether you’re curious about incorporating it into your bedroom antics or considering it as a lifestyle, we’ll discuss why becoming a “dumb, sexy...

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October 18, 2023 8 mins

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In this episode I talk about objectification! Something that can be very fun, if you've consented. You'll find out what it is, how to do it, and other types of objectification. Make sure you also check out my new podcast "GothicCast!"

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Welcome to Untied and unrelated, a series of episodes unrelated to bdsm, femdom and kink, where I just talk about whatever I'm thinking about. 

Today; I hate the fact that society says men can't be vulnerable, show emotions and cry. It's very toxic and I think it's something that should change.

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June 18, 2023 20 mins

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You've probably heard "Daddy" used in a sexual context before. But what exactly is DDlg? Why do people do it? There are many misconceptions about this kink, some think it's sexualizing those under 18, some think it's just plain gross, but very few people  know what being a Daddy Dom and little girl actually is. 

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June 16, 2023 9 mins

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Have people told you that you're not a real Domme if you act a certain way? Have you heard that you're not dominant if you make the first move? Maybe you've been told by a perfect stranger that you way of submitting isn't submissive enough... Well, let's talk about that.

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June 13, 2023 8 mins

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I am finally back here and today I'll talk about Obsession. for better or for worse, obsession is a part of all of our lives. Is there such a thing as healthy obsession? Can obsession be a good thing? 

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March 10, 2022 14 mins

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Do you greatly enjoy being told to wash the dishes? Maybe the thought of being a personal driver is very appealing? Do you feel accomplished doing tasks for your FemDomme that seems like everyday chores? Then you might be into service submission!

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March 2, 2022 15 mins

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So you've been looking for a FemDomme for a while, and you haven't really had any luck. Well, do not fret, you're not alone! 

Although I have to disappoint you by saying I'm not looking for subs, I can absolutely help you to find someone else! 

I have 6 years experience as a lifestyle FemDomme, and I've received hundreds of messages from subs wanting to serve. However, only a handful of ...

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February 27, 2022 9 mins

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Have you ever been scammed by someone claiming to be a FemDomme? or maybe you've spent hours talking to someone who turned out to be a catfish? Here are the red flags you should look out for!

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February 26, 2022 8 mins

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In this episode of Kinking Out Loud, I talk about consent! Of course you already know the importance of concent during a BDSM session, but what about before a session even starts? Many people don't even think twice about the importance of consent when you're just getting to know each other. 


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February 25, 2022 7 mins

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Have you ever heard about a "dominant bottom" & "submissive top"? Probably not! I've often met people who do not understand that although these seem like complete contradictions and that I must've meant something else, but in this episode I explain the differences and definitions. Maybe you finally found a label that you've been looking for? 

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February 23, 2022 5 mins

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Many subs seem to think it's more attractive to say they have no limits, when in fact it has the opposite effect. It can be dangerous and shows a lack of understanding of BDSM as a whole.

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February 23, 2022 10 mins

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In this very first episode of "Kinking Out Loud" I talk briefly about how subs tend to approach FemDommes, and the do's and don'ts of it all. Follow my "secret recipe" on how to contact and speak to Dommes and I guarantee a 100% success rate of finding a Domme. follow my podcast to get solid advice and guides on BDSM, from my 6+ Years experience as a Lifestyle FemDomme.



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