The Myth and Realities of Venus Pt. 1

[Spanish Interview]

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Today we share a Spanish interview with Koreatown gay elder Venus.  It is a honest conversation with Venus about his life migrating from El Salvador to the U.S., and what Los Angeles in the 80s was like for him. Due to the length our interview, we have decided to break it into two parts. 

In this first part of our conversation, you will hear Venus talk about his upbringing in his grandmother’s bakery, the relationship with his mother, and opinions on queer identity.

In the snippet to begin the episode, Venus spoke about his home birth. Halfway out during birth, The midwife who delivered Venus thought he was female. This was believed because of his positioning. Once fully out, the midwife realized he was male. From there he says, “There is where the myth of my life begins, I’ve been happy being gay." 

We began the first part of our conversation talking about what Venus had for breakfast and how she learned how to make make tamales from her homeland of El Salvador.