(#168) When We Disagree but Still Grow Together

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Not every conversation has to end in silence or shouting. In this episode of Kyle Talks, we explore the power of good conversations, the kind that build bridges even when we disagree. You’ll learn why meaningful dialogue is so important for mental health, relationships, and society, plus practical tools to turn tense exchanges into constructive ones. From listening with curiosity to using “I feel” statements, this episode is your guide to transforming conflict into connection.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why meaningful conversations boost wellbeing and strengthen relationships
• The science of being heard and how it changes our brain and body
• The key ingredients of a “good” conversation even in the middle of disagreement
• Practical tools for active listening, asking better questions, and staying calm under pressure
• How to use vulnerability and validation to lower defensiveness
• Ways to pause, reset, and re-enter conversations that get tense
• Why shared goals can reframe disagreement as collaboration

Resources & Articles Mentioned:

• Just one quality conversation boosts daily well-being — University of Kansas
• How to Stay Open and Curious in Hard Conversations — Greater Good Science Center
• The Art of the Difficult Conversation — Liane Davey
• What Are I-Statements? — VerywellMind
• 10 Tips for Difficult Workplace Conversations — WellRight
  
  

Action Steps for Listeners:

1. Pick one conversation this week where you expect some disagreement.
2. Try asking at least one curiosity-driven question.
3. Replace a “you always…” with an “I feel…” statement.
4. After the conversation, reflect: what went well, what felt hard, what surprised you?

Listener Challenge:
Think about the last time you had a conversation that left you feeling energized instead of drained. What made it work? Share your story with me at [your contact info] or tag me on social with #KyleTalks.

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