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March 3, 2025 13 mins

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In this episode, we're diving into the LawyerJulie TikTok post that stirred up quite the conversation: my take on why women should never be full-time stay-at-home moms—at least not without a backup plan.  Watch the video here: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie/video/7466149689814011178

We break down the financial and personal risks of stepping out of the workforce, the long-term implications of giving up a career, and why independence is key (even if you never need it).

We also tackle some of the top comments and criticisms, including the "Who hurt you?" response. Spoiler: No one, but life experience and years in family law have shown Julie how quickly things can change. Plus, we discuss social security benefits, postnups, and how couples can proactively protect a stay-at-home spouse’s future.

Oh, and trolls? We see you. And we’re not losing sleep.

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Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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