Episode 49: Solving The Wrong Problem

In this episode of the Leadership Coaching Podcast, hosts Bill and Marty discuss the concept of solving the wrong problem. Inspired by Marty's book, 'Leadership as Relation,' they explore how clients often misidentify their issues and how proper observation and questioning can lead to true solutions. They share personal anecdotes and examples, from addressing forgetfulness at a networking event to understanding deeper issues beyond surface-level problems. This episode emphasizes the importance of the scientific method in leadership and self-improvement.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:36 Reading from Marty's Book

03:16 Discussing the Book's Impact

05:16 Exploring Different Leadership Styles

06:05 Marty's Writing Journey

07:53 Coaching Session Example

09:27 Personal Experiences with Problem Solving

14:41 The Importance of Identifying the Right Problem

16:31 Socratic Method and Problem Solving

19:36 Bill's Journey with Alcoholics Anonymous

22:56 The Struggle of Sobriety

23:27 Realizing the True Problem

24:08 Understanding Hypotheses and Theories

25:38 The Importance of Evidence

26:57 Personal Reflections on Sobriety

28:37 The Power of Beliefs

32:14 Challenging Deep-Seated Beliefs

37:27 Quality Over Quantity in Business

39:43 The Connection Between Money and Happiness

40:41 Final Thoughts on Scientific Thinking

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Links and Resources:

• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/

• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/

• Listening is the Key, Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/

• Marty’s new book, Leadership as Relation - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO

• Marty’s earlier book, Listen… Till You Disappear - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd

• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - www.partsworkpractice.com