In this episode, Bill and Marty, discuss the importance of completion in coaching and personal growth. They explain the concepts of IFS and ontological coaching, and share practical examples from their experiences. The conversation touches on the significance of acknowledging beginnings and endings, understanding the impact of unresolved experiences, and the transformational potential of completing the past. They also explore questions that prompt reflection on positive influences, appreciations, learnings, and addressing incompletions. This engaging episode offers invaluable insights for leaders, coaches, and anyone seeking to leverage the power of completion for a more empowered future.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Hosts
01:15 Understanding Ontological Coaching
03:14 Distinguishing Coaching from Consulting
04:33 The Importance of Completion
06:01 Personal Reflections on Completion
08:00 Completion in Coaching Practice
10:05 Reflecting on the Podcast Journey
19:07 Appreciating the Podcast Experience
28:34 Shifting Perspectives on Transformation
29:00 The Burden of Incompletions
30:34 The Completion Process
31:26 Exploring Resentment and Letting Go
31:56 Lessons from Leadership Coaching
34:13 Embracing Feedback and Growth
35:58 The Importance of Completion in Relationships
37:26 Reflecting on Public Speaking and Personal Growth
40:16 Looking Ahead to Future Possibilities
44:50 Addressing Incompletions and Moving Forward
48:47 The Role of Forgiveness in Completion
50:07 Wrapping Up the Conversation
Links and References:
• ‘What Got You Here Won't Get You There’ by Marshall Goldsmith - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401301304
• Leadership Coaching Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/leadershipcoachingpodcast/
• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/
• Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - www.partsworkpractice.com
• Podcast Feedback Form: https://forms.gle/RRXFKZ9z6Y43S5WFA
• Do you use IFS in a leadership position? Would you like to be a guest on our podcas
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