Episode 65: Difficult People

In this episode, Bill and Marty explore the complexities of dealing with difficult individuals. Through a candid discussion, they unveil personal experiences and strategies for improving relationships. Inspired by Marty's enlightening newsletter titled 'Difficult People', the conversation starts by examining how personal growth can change perceptions of others. The dialogue touches on themes of deep listening, presence, and understanding one's internal reactions. Listeners will learn how mutual respect and curiosity can transform challenging interactions. The episode also promotes the therapeutic power of writing and provides actionable advice for fostering meaningful connections.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Difficult People

00:14 Personal Experiences with Difficult People

00:33 Newsletter Insights and Key Quotes

02:37 The Power of Being Heard

06:43 Reflecting on Personal Growth

09:23 Writing as a Tool for Self-Reflection

15:06 Understanding and Managing Difficult People

19:45 Examples and Personal Stories

28:23 Political Conversations and Difficult People

35:13 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

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Links and References:

• Leadership Coaching Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/leadershipcoachingpodcast/

• ‘Parenthood’ series on Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/ca/title/70157304

• ‘The Road Less Stupid’ by Keith J. Cunningham - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984659269

• Marty’s article: https://mailchi.mp/listeningisthekey/difficult-people

• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/

• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/

• Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/

• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO

• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd

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