Leadership Parenting

In this episode, we delve into the powerful role that automated negative thoughts (ANTs) play in shaping our mental health and provide you with a comprehensive understanding of how ANTs can trigger detrimental emotional reactions.

We also look at  practical techniques to help us work with our thoughts.  These strategies are designed to combat negative emotional responses and foster a resilient, positive mental atmosphere. By master...

Ever found yourself in the throes of frustration, fists clenched, and patience worn thin? We've all been there, and in this episode, I pull back the curtain on the elusive art of frustration tolerance. It's not just about biting your tongue or counting to ten; it's a journey through the emotional wilderness that teaches us resilience, patience, and adaptability. Patience isn't just a virtue—it's a skill, an...

Every day, we have to handle our feelings while trying to do the things that we feel are most important to us. I call this being emotional driven or value driven- and it actually matters which way we decide to go.  Do we prioritize values or emotions?  This choice is something few of us are even aware that we can make. Because emotions come quickly and often, we will do anything to avoid the painful ones, maybe even at the expense ...

We all face moments when life's demands seem to eclipse our capacity to cope. A great framework to understand when this is happening is that of the Window of Tolerance: a tool that's crucial for maintaining our emotional equilibrium. In this episode, we talk about what the Window of Tolerance is, how you know you have been bumped out of it and how to get back into it! I share strategies that range from mindfulness practic...

Empathy has the power to help us understand, connect and feel some of the emotions that other people are feeling around us. This is a great skill to have, but it also has a little bit of a dark side. Today, we're talking about how we can use empathy in a way that protects both us and others.

I explore how empathy can help us connect and understand others, but also how it can lead us into a trap of judgement and emotional challe...

The art of empathy is more than just a concept; it's a practice that, when applied to our relationships, can transform the way we support our loved ones. We discuss the four attributes of empathy and how to implement them, particularly in moments of distress, whether it's a child feeling rejected or a partner misunderstood. Listen in to learn more about empathy and how to use this tool to increase or connection and streng...

We all know how challenging it can be to feel confident in a society that constantly shifts the goalposts of beauty ideals.  Finding beauty beyond the mirror and nurturing self-worth that transcends our physical appearances is the key to survival.  In todays episode, we’re talking about how our children are watching us, picking up on our cues, and, sometimes without us even realizing it, they're learning to navigate their...

As a therapist and mother, I've observed the transformation of parenting styles from enforcing strict obedience to embracing individuality. Have you ever felt caught up in this transition, unsure of which path to take? We're journeying through this together in today’s podcast, where we explore the delicate equilibrium every family seeks between guiding our children and also nurturing ourselves. By revisiting the historica...

Have you ever stopped to consider how your casual remarks could sculpt your child's self-image? In to days episode we explore  how our words, especially those spoken within earshot of our little ones, can leave an indelible mark on their developing sense of self.  Throughout our journey as parents, we often find ourselves in a delicate dance, balancing the need for candidness with the preservation of our children's trust....

Have you ever stood in the chaos of a store aisle, grappling with your child's melting down, feeling the weight of judging eyes on you? handling disrespect without losing our cool is a universal parenting challenge. In todays episode we’re talking about why our kids get disrespectful and some ways we can handle it. 
Our children are learning about the world and their emotions, so it's essential to approach their emoti...

If I told you I had the magic pill to help you sleep better, hurt less, have more energy, and protect your brain- would you be interested? Well, today, I’m going to give the prescription to get this magical cure for almost everything that ails you.  

I'll share compelling research that demonstrates the substantial benefits of exercise for managing chronic conditions, boosting brain function, and improving mental health. This c...

You know what the perfect Valentine is that every person is just dying to receive. It's an I love you from ME to ME. 
Wait, did you think I was going to say I love you from YOU to ME?   Well, in today’s podcast episode, we're talking about the gift of love that only we can give to ourselves. Every day, I work with people who need more love in their life. One thing I've found is that there's a special kind of...

In this episode we look at the magic of self-awareness. Even top business leaders are putting a spotlight on self-awareness these days, and we should too as parents. We chat about understanding our own feelings, thoughts, and behaviors, observing them without judgment, and recognizing our bodies as emotional indicators. We share tips on nurturing emotional intelligence and the role of mindful awareness in helping us and our kiddos ...

What does it take to be a resilient mom? 
This was a question a woman asked me not long ago as we sat together on an airplane flight. The answer is a beautiful overview of what we are doing here as we study resilience together. In this episode, I unfold the five core practices that empower resilient moms, beginning with the transformative power of self-awareness. Understanding our thoughts and emotions isn't just self-impr...

Ever wonder why a plate full of vibrant veggies can make you feel like a superhero, while a sugar-laden snack leaves you crashing faster than a toddler’s temper tantrum? As a therapist and mom, I've seen firsthand how the dinner table can become a powerful tool for shaping not only our children's health but our emotional resilience as well. This episode peels back the layers of how proper nutrition can be a game-changer f...

As we're learning to set boundaries. We have to make those hard decisions- who we say yes to and who we say no to. In today's episode, we're learning how we can handle disappointing others as we're setting those boundaries and the
genuine struggle that comes with the territory of saying no.  
I delve into how commitment and fairness can lead us down a path of overextension, and why the fear of judgment o...

Have you ever set a New Year's resolution, only to drop it in just a few weeks? If you have, you're not alone. Today we're talking about setting goals that we care about and that we can reach. We peel back the layers of motivation and look at how shifting our drive from fear to love can create a sustainable path to success. We also talk about the concept of tiered goal setting, a compassionate approach that accommoda...

As moms, we're in charge of everything, and when life gets busy, we can just run out of gas. In today's episode, we're talking about ways to put a little gas in our own tanks. This episode is your permission slip to put yourself at the top of your to-do list. Join me as I unpack the "self-care five plan"—my personal game-changer for infusing self-care into the chaos of motherhood. You'll hear how small...

Ever noticed how your thoughts can sometimes feel like the captain of your ship, steering your emotions and behaviors? It's a universal phenomenon. Negative thoughts, although uncomfortable, are part of our existence, serving as our brain's personal bodyguard. However, it's important to remember that we don't have to believe everything we think. 

This week, I’m taking you on a journey to understand and manage th...