March 25, 2025 • 46 mins
What really happens when a spiritual awakening meets business life?
Today, I sit down with Ellyn Katherine Shamalov, a powerful quantum healer who shares her journey from living in pain and hiding her gifts… to finding deep healing and helping other entrepreneurs do the same.
Ellyn opens up about how her struggles with anger, depression, and IBS led her down a spiritual path that changed everything. Once afraid of being judged, she finally stepped into her truth—and that’s when her business started to bloom.
She didn’t just heal her body—she found the courage to help others heal too.
She introduces us to her Quantum Enlightenment System—a method she received as a divine download in the shower (yes, really!)—that blends ancient wisdom with real-life tools for business owners who want to align with who they really are.
Your Takeaways:
1. Healing yourself helps your business grow. Ellyn shows how facing your emotions and embracing your truth can unlock the clients and impact you’re meant for.
2. Every emotional trigger is a lesson. Your biggest challenges are actually clues to your next level—if you’re willing to look deeper.
3. You don’t have to force success. When you're in alignment with your true self, the right clients, ideas, and results flow with ease.
Ellyn's Gift: Schedule a free high-vibe life blueprint call (value of $300) t at https://calendly.com/mc-healing/blueprint
Tune in and discover how your energy and truth are your greatest business tools.
Want to attract aligned clients with less hustle and more heart?
Follow @nkbizguru on Instagram and get access to Nikisha’s 5-Star SCALE™ Framework at her More Profit, Less Chaos masterclass.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Leading Her Way with your host and
business guru, Nakesha King.
This podcast is the ultimatedestination for women, creative
entrepreneurs, who want to breakfree from burnout.
If you are overwhelmed byclient demands and feel like
you're doing this all alone, you, my friend, are in the right
(00:23):
place alone.
You, my friend, are in theright place Now.
Let's dive in for steps to takeback your time and simplify
your workflow.
All right, Nikisha, take itaway.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
All right.
Hello, gorgeous, hello everyone.
Thank you so much for joiningus today on Business Essentials
Academy, and one of our gueststhat we have is Ellen Katrin,
and she is here because she isan amazing spiritual truth
leader in your business and shehas the way of doing some
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amazing things, and I would lovefor you to get to know a little
bit more about her, as I willbe as well, and she sometimes
guides us through vibrations andenergy and the things we put
out in the world and how itaffects us on our personal and
business journey.
So, catherine, if you don'tmind sharing a little bit of
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what you do, and how did youstart doing what you do?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Well, first I want to say thank you for having me on
the show and it's reallyexciting to share because when I
think about the progress thatI've made where I started to
where I am now, it is truly anamazing journey.
It was hard when you're in it,but when you look at it you're
like, oh my God, everything hadto happen.
So I am a quantum healer andenlightenment mentor, and that
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started with my own healing.
You know, for a very long timeI was a very angry person when I
was younger.
You know my mom took me totherapists to see why I was so
angry.
Nobody knew it was.
I was so bad that I was indenial of the anger because I've
already wore this mask that Ifeel I just was attached that
people would see Happy BubblyEllen, and you know I would just
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be a certain way.
But for whatever reason aroundmy home and other people, I was
just angry.
And and other people I was justangry.
And you know I met my husband,who was my catalyst, I feel, in
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my life, and you know I had alot of spiritual gifts that were
activated when I was very young, but I was so scared of them
that I ended up locking them ina closet.
And so, when I met my husband,he and I were watching some
spiritual shows and learningmore about spirituality, and it
activated something within me.
It was like something just wokeup and my intuition started to
open up.
And then I had, like thesevoices in my head, which was my
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intuition, but I didn'tunderstand it, because it's like
one good and one bad, or as welike to perceive it as good or
bad.
There were two opposites.
And so it's funny because, youknow, I'm in the shower and I'm
receiving all these downloadsand thinking where the hell is
this coming from?
So I just started Googlingeverything and I saw on
spiritual websites, people weretalking about the things that I
was channeling, and back then Ididn't know I was channeling, so
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I um, I went with it.
You know, we were watchingthese shows and we made a
promise that while we weredating, that we were always
going to better ourselves.
And so in our marriage, when wegot married a year later, um, oh
, my God, um, oh my God.
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Shit hit the fan fast.
I was so angry and we werefighting all the time and he was
triggering the hell out of me.
I was triggering the hell outof him and we were just like we
need to do something before weget a divorce.
So we ended up going to theseemotional healing retreats.
I did some inner child work andyada yada, and you know from
those things it wasn't like sucha profound change.
So we continue to go to thesedifferent retreats to see if
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there's other ways that we canheal, and there was one in
Florida that was just blew mymind.
It turned out to be somethingthat I've used now in my
business, and so it was thisreverend who channeled the seven
life lessons and he doesspiritual counseling as well as
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other healing modalities likeraking some other things to
detox the body and move theenergy around.
So we were there for 10 daysand it was amazing because I
felt so clear and I understoodabout the seven life lessons and
it just so happened to be thathe was doing a course on the
seven life lessons after theretreat, which is what we ended
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up staying for.
So it was very divinely guidedand when I was talking to my
husband about how we werefeeling, I thought, wow, I feel
so light, I feel so free.
I feel like my mind wasn'tchit-chattering, you know it was
, everything was so peaceful andI said we have to bring this
back to New York.
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So when I came home, and ofcourse the business name that I
heard was Higher Vibrations.
So when I came home, I rightaway opened up a business of
Higher Vibrations and you know Iwas following.
I right away opened up abusiness of high vibrations and
you know I was followingwhatever I was going with.
But I'm going to say, and first, and I took the life lessons
and I said, ok, I need tounderstand how this applies to
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my life.
So I started to look at all ofthe emotions and the things that
happen in my life and Iconnected the dots with the life
lessons based on what I learned, because each life lessons has
three to six different emotionsattached to them.
However, the way he taught usthere was that every experience
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taught us a certain life lesson,and so I used that first and I
said, okay, so this experiencetaught me this lesson, that
lesson and whatever.
Then I applied it to IBSbecause I wanted to see how I
can heal my IBS that I hadthrough understanding the life
lessons.
So I connected the dots ofwhich life lessons and it was
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like a no brainer.
She was like duh when I saw it.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
How can you?
Speaker 3 (06:22):
not see this now.
It was like a no-brainer.
She was like duh when I saw it.
How can you not see this now?
So it was very apparent of whatwas causing IBS in the stomach,
in our creation center, rightIn the what is it called?
Soloplexes and within thatcenter of fire we have.
That's where the IBS is andthat's where separation comes
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from.
That's one of the life lessonsand so that made total sense
with the abandonment issues Iwent through and everything.
So the other part was with the,but I was afraid to be myself, I
was afraid to be woo-woo, I wasafraid for it to be so
spiritual that and what peoplenow call woo-woo that people
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were not going to be able tolook at this, because I knew
that my mission was to helpawaken humanity and a lot of
people who are dealing withsuffering and sicknesses and
illnesses are those people whoneed to wake up and stop just
looking at the physical signs,but also the underlying, the
root cause, which is theemotional, the energy that is
causing these physical ailments.
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So that's been this world and itreally is, because the team,
the angelic team that I workwith is not from this world and
it took me a very long time toaccept that, because I thought
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that that was crazy and Ithought that who am I to be
working with a team like this?
And then, when I realized whatthe spiritual truth was, that I
am inviting a physical vesseland I came here for a mission
and I have, I see the power thatI'm working with.
So I had to really just acceptthat I am incarnated here for
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this particular reason.
It's in my soul, blueprint andeverything and information that
I channeled.
The modality that they helpedme put together is really
powerful.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Super powerful.
Now let me go back to when youwere on the retreat and you
learned the seven processes.
I think I may have it wrong orright, I don't remember.
Seven life lessons.
Yeah, seven life lessons.
There we go, thank you.
What are the seven life lessons?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Separation, judgment, control, forgiveness, identity,
divine guidance andunconditional love and so right
so I want to just point out that, as I'm talking to you, this is
the information that's comingthrough.
The life lessons that I wasworking with when it comes to me
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being where I am to for mybusiness is number one divine
guidance.
Accepting the fact that that isdivine guidance, that team that
I'm working with, acceptingthat I have that team.
Accepting that, um, we're notalone in this process and that
there is a bigger mission.
It's just connected.
So then you know they're hereto assist you when you ask for
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help right, exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
And then what you also work with is seven light
blessings, with separation,because that was part of your
IBS.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
And I healed the IBS because I understood that I'm
not separate from God.
God is not a man in the sky.
I'm sorry if people believethat and that's fine if they do,
but the belief that there is aman in the sky or not, there's
still a higher power.
So we're going to look at thatconcept of there being a higher
power, there being a biggermission, a grander scheme of
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things, right Of why we're hereand what we're meant to do and
experience and be.
And so when we look at that, atseparation in the stomach area
is where we would feel the morethe most discord and
disconnection, because it's thewomb, it's the creation center.
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And so, coming to the idea ofI'm not separate from God, God
is like sparks, right, and everyspark went into a body.
So you can say you are a God ina physical body.
So, having the idea of knowingthat you have that power that
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God has, you are not separatebecause you are one with it.
So you are.
So you are in a sense, you know, not abandoned.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Right and I have agreements with you in regards
to that, because I know for meGod is energy, and that's not
only for all around me andoutside.
God has created me and I'm apart of God, like I'm very close
to those beings and I no longerbelieve there's a man in this
path.
I don't believe it's a man, sofor me, that's just something
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I've come across.
What I liked is about what yousaid about you being and this is
something I created new becauseour former neighbor, our
podcast, was leading her way,but we updated it over the
summer for Bee Academy BusinessEssentials.
But I also am a very how can Iexpress this?
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I am all about being you.
You are special.
You were made for a purpose anda reason, so, in alignment of
that, I completely understand itand I love the fact that when
people discover themselves, theycan just be them and no one
else.
And sometimes, like you said,it took courage because you felt
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like you were on a journey ofwhat people call right, an
manifestation.
But you also have to know whenyou're here to serve a purpose.
You're not here at times toserve a purpose for everyone,
but the people you call to serveRight In our Bible we
understand people were called toserve a certain group of people
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, not the world.
They didn't have to worry abouteveryone, they just had to
serve who they were placed toserve.
So whenever I hear woo-woo, Ialways think it's woo-woo for
someone who don't believe.
But it's okay, because that'snot who you're here to serve.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
White, black, black.
Well, I do want to saysomething that came up when you
were speaking about that andit's actually funny because this
never came to me before.
So you know, my husband and Iwe didn't have good boundaries,
and it comes to the boundarieseven in your, like shit.
I'm going to have to, and itwas heavy.
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I'm going to have to help theworld.
Now I have to wake everybody upand you interject into people
who are not ready for themessage.
And that's where I started,because that's what I thought I
had to do.
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And as I progressed in my ownhealing and my journey with my
business, I realized there's atarget audience for a reason,
and it's who you feel aligned toserve, because that's who
you're meant to serve.
And even with my clients, who Iam serving, I have a boundary
and I don't just interject andgive them information when I
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want to.
I need to first feel if they'reready to hear that, and I need
to.
Most of the time.
I ask them if they're willingto hear it, Because sometimes
people don't want to hear it andeven if they're working with
you and they're open toreceiving the service, sometimes
they're still closed off.
So you have to have thatboundary.
And that's what I learned was wedidn't have those boundaries in
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the beginning and so I was just, like you know, going there and
it caused a lot of stressbecause, again, it was very
heavy, felt like I had this bigmission and that I was supposed
to do this, and it was harderfor me to get my business going
because all I was doing wasputting more pressure on myself
and not bringing the rightenergy into what I was doing and
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how I was doing it.
Number one not bringing theright energy because of the
pressure and it's like, oh myGod, I have to help everybody.
That type of energy is verystatic and it does not call in
the right people or call inpeople to you.
It pushes people away.
And number two, I wasn't talkingto the right people, so I'm
also giving the message to thewrong people who don't hear me,
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and then it also caused that,and then that that in turn
causes you to feel lack becauseyou're like shit, what?
I'm not making any money andnow I'm suffering in my business
.
So there has to be thatboundary of understanding who
you're serving and why you'reserving them and if it's in
alignment with what you aredoing.
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Also, the other stagnant part,static part was that I wasn't in
alignment with what I was doing.
I wasn't, I was hiding myself,I was trying to do it in a
healthcare aspect and that didnot align with me, but I
continued to do it because Ithought that's what would reach
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people.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Right, you weren't really being you because you
figured I have to kind of tweetthis so the message could be
heard, because you're trying toeveryone.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
And it did the opposite.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Exactly?
Do you remember what year inyour business did you have the
revelation of not speaking tothe right market?
And when you had thatrevelation, what did you do
differently?
How did you accept it and startshowing up?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Oh, that it did not take me a short time, let's just
say because I was too Likenarrow minded.
So I started the business in2017 or 2016.
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I can't remember one of thoseand I was going on.
My most of my business has beenme learning all about the
business strategies and allthese things and how to attain
clients and all that nonsense,and doing it all the, I'm going
to say the three-dimensional way, right, and the not in
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alignment way.
And when I learned that thosethings didn't work, I started
going into manifestation.
I said, okay, let me trymanifestation.
How can I manifest people?
And that, in a way, was likespiritual bypassing, because I
wasn't looking at what I neededto work on on myself.
And so then, when I decided,all right, now I got to look a
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different way because myadversation is not enough
fucking working for me.
So let me go in a differentdirection now.
Sorry for the cussing.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
We'll put explicit on this one.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
I said, okay, you know what.
Now I got to figure out what'sgoing on here.
So then I started looking moreat myself in a different way and
then I did some more of thehealing work and then I got very
depressed because the healingwork that I did was so
superficial but somethinghappened and I got super, super
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depressed.
Was so superficial, butsomething happened and I got
super, super depressed and I wasso depressed that I was
actually suicidal.
But I had a child and I had myhusband and I thought like I
can't, I can't just leave, eventhough I wish I, I really wish I
did.
I wasn't suicidal to the pointwhere I was ready to do
something.
I was just like more crying togo home because I was like I'm
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not home, this is not my place,I don't want to be here anymore,
I don't know why I'm here andthat's all me knowing what my
mission is, but really notaccepting that power.
Right, I wasn't accepting that.
There was this power that Ineeded to collect, back and step
into in order for me to backand step into, in order for me
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to go out there.
There was too much fear.
So for the life of me, prior tome getting depressed.
I kept on hearing that I had todo this healing modality to
actually receive it and I didn'ttrust it because I thought that
it was crazy and it wasbasically light body work.
I don't know if you ever heardof that, but it's etheric
surgery on the light body and Ithought it was nuts and I didn't
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believe it.
I was actually angry about what.
What that was?
It's basically clearing out.
There are certain structures inour light body and our Merkaba,
which is our ascension, ourvehicle of ascension.
Everybody has it.
It's a soul blueprint, it'spart of the soul blueprint and
it's meant to to the structures.
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It's actually funny.
The structures in place areactually meant to separate you
from the light because, part ofyou, being in a dense body, you
can't be connected to the light,otherwise you won't be dense
too much light.
It becomes very light.
So, um, there's structures inplace.
There's also programs andcontracts that are with some of
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those structures and otherstructures that have been given
in past lives, um, and evenprior to being in a physical
human form, when we're in thatother realm.
There are also structures thatare replaced there as part of
the programs and contracts andthings that might've happened
that are placed in our field.
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All of that creates thisdisconnect with your God
frequency and it holds thosebelief programs in place,
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emotions, traumas, everything inplace, so that you continue to
experience that.
I said why the hell would wechoose to come here with
structures that are going tostop us from reaching our, our
godly self makes no sense at all.
This is bullshit.
And that's literally what Ikept saying.
And then one day I heard it'snot just this life, it's past
lives, this is from past livesthat came along and and I
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thought, okay, this is crazy.
Fine, maybe one day I'll do it,and I never did.
When I got depressed again, thatcame to me and I said, all
right, I have no choice at thispoint because I'm, I don't, I'm,
I'm maxed out.
I did so many different healingmodalities.
Nothing freaking really helpedme.
Now I got to figure this outout, so I did it and we were on
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kind of like the fast track,because you're really supposed
to wait like three, four monthsin between.
I'm like I'm not doing that.
I can't.
I have a kid and I have ahusband.
I gotta get my shit together.
So she decided to work with meand we did it every two weeks,
um and so, wow, I one day justgot up and I started working out
.
This was, I think, after sixweeks, possibly six weeks.
(21:43):
Yes, it was six weeks, becauseit could not be longer.
My parents and everybody wasdriving me nuts, I remember, but
they I got up one day and I wasjust like on the treadmill and
I heard to hit record, to startrecording.
And I'm like I don't even knowwhat I'm recording, but okay, so
I started recording and then Ijust had all this stuff channel
through me about my healing,about what I was going through,
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all my raw experiences, my lifelessons that were involved with
this.
And then later on I heard thiswas a podcast, the Blue Blood
Wisdom podcast.
Why, I don't know, but I justhad all this information.
I thought, all right, here goesmy podcast.
So I was just guided into mybusiness and so I knew that
there was something there.
So later on, as I continue to gointo my life this is coming to
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answer your question I receivedthe Quantum Enlightenment system
as a download.
It was basically a combinationof everything that has somewhat
helped me throughout my journey,but then a mixture of the life
lessons and the blueprint ofwhat I initially received for
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myself.
The blueprint is basicallytelling me that I was meant to
be a teacher, that I'm meant tohave this higher power to assist
people in coming into theirconsciousness, into their truths
, stuff like that.
And so I used all of that andcreated this quantum
enlightenment system because itwas a download.
When I was in the shower, itwas like that missing piece that
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I had no idea I was looking forand it finally dawned on me
that this is a bigger thing.
This is a bigger thing.
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This is a bigger thing.
So it's like three years laterwhen I realized this powerful
thing that I was just givenbecause when I was in the shower
and all of a sudden somethingjust hit me I received this
download I ran out of the shower, I started putting everything
together, but I was guidedbecause I was just being guided
to do everything.
I started putting everythingtogether, but I was guided
because I was just being guidedto do everything.
I realized this was a healingmodality.
I didn't know how powerful, Ididn't know what it was.
I started testing it on somefriends and then kind of started
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moving things around andshaping it more to understand
how it worked and then I did acase study.
Even in my case study that'swhen I started was like 2020.
So it took me three years tostep into a part of it.
Another year and a half to stepinto accepting that I was here
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to teach the teachers because Ithought it was just like
humanity.
But then when I looked at mysoul blueprint again, it said
he'll teach the teachers.
So it's those other people whoare helping humanity in their
way, and my goal is to help themso that they can have this
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advanced modality and also haveeven if they're not using the
modality, but even for them tobe clear and in a different
state of consciousness for themto be able to use, you know,
their abilities to help otherpeople in a better way.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
So, in doing this as a business and to help teachers
and provide this gift that youreceived, and to help teachers
and provide this gift that youreceived, what have you been
doing in your business toconnect with those individuals
so that they can hear andunderstand you?
Right, because, like you said,everyone this is not for
everyone.
Everyone won't hear andunderstand what you're saying if
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they're not for you, but thepeople for you will.
But how do you know who theyare?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I have been going on podcast interviews and right now
I'm actually in the stages ofrefiguring that portion of my
business because I've beenconcentrating mainly on podcast
interviews and summits and, youknow, speaking internationally
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and stuff like that.
And while doing that, it was anopportunity for me because even
though I accepted and this isthe funniest part even though I
accepted me working withteachers, I then started
receiving people who were notteachers and people who were.
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It was so funny before Iaccepted it because I looked at
it and this is what helped meaccept it and it's just images
coming into my mind.
So that's why I cut myself off.
But before I accepted it, I sawthroughout all the people that
I was working with.
They were all healers andteachers, eft practitioners,
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whatever.
They were all people already inthat light.
Right, they've already steppedinto their own modalities or you
know their businesses.
And then, when I started toaccept it, I started to receive
people who were not in thebusiness and who wanted to leave
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their jobs so they can feelhappier and expand on their
growth.
They're people who just startedto maybe not just started, but
who have been going to Reiki anddifferent healing modalities
and haven't really received toomuch of a shift or
transformation and decided nowwe're going to go to Ellen
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because they found me somehowand said, okay, we're ready to
take this up a notch, we'reready to take this to the next
level.
And so those are the people wholeft their jobs and, you know,
while working with me andstarting their own business and
or enhancing whatever they'redoing, if they're in their own
business, into a more, somethingmore spiritual, or using
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whatever they've learned into adifferent way.
So it's kind of to me, it'smore of I'm just going with the
flow of where I'm called to go.
And so if I'm getting aninvitation to speak somewhere, I
feel into the energy to see arethese people the people that
I'm meant to work with?
And if it doesn't feel inalignment with me, then I don't
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go.
And the same for summits.
If I'm invited to speak at asummit, if I don't feel in
alignment with the energy, Idon't accept every single offer,
even though that would be great.
I feel like there has to besome sort of alignment and so
that's what I go with.
I feel into the energy to seenot just the profession or what
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they're doing, or if they're mytarget, I do look at the target
to see if that's also analignment, but mainly it's the
energy and the feeling of it.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Usually when people connect with you, is there a
certain word phrase, statementyou make that they get an aha
moment.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
I mean, it's, I guess , looking at everything as a
lesson is what you know theywould say If I say okay, look at
it in this perspective and thisis the lesson, or there's a
lesson here, what's the lesson?
Speaker 2 (29:16):
So, you're learning what life experience is.
Yes, that's what you do toconnect and help them connect
with your teaching.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
Right.
So every experience in our lifeis going to give us some kind
of emotion, not every experience.
If it does, and there's atrigger there, because an
emotion is a sort of trigger.
If there's a trigger there,that's your lesson.
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There's's one of the lessons.
Like I said earlier, there'sthree to seven, three to six
different um emotions attachedto each of the life lessons and
the seven lessons, and so whenyou're feeling an emotion, you
need to ask yourself like, whatis this teaching me, right?
So in one of my programs that Ijust put together, I actually
(30:10):
decided to go into and teachpeople about the lessons, the
life lessons, for them tounderstand what emotions that
they're carrying and what is itattached to.
So on a daily basis, you can goand say, okay, I'm feeling
anxiety, let me see what thislesson is.
And when you think of thelesson, then you can look at it
(30:31):
and say, oh, okay, so this isteaching me fear or whatever.
This is teaching me this.
I'm going to now understand itbetter, and the way you do it is
by reflection meditation,asking yourself questions in
meditation to try to understandwhy the lesson is coming up,
(30:53):
where it's coming from, whereit's stemming from, if there's
an original event, if there's,because obviously these come in
so many different ways.
So I just want to touch on thatfor a little bit, just to let
you know something that came tome which was really, really
interesting.
When we look at our lives,right, everything in our life
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outside of us is basically amirror of what is inside of us.
So if it's a mirror, then thatmeans that we obviously need to
work on that internal aspect ofourselves in order for us to be
able to manifest somethingdifferent.
So, when you're manifestingsomething, you're asking the
(31:37):
universe, god or whatever thisis what I desire and then,
because you're asking If it justcame to us and there's no point
of us being on Earth, right,because we could have just done
that when we're in the differentdimension, the point here is to
clear out the block, and theblock is a limiting belief
program.
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It could be a trauma from apast life, it could be a
contract from a past life orcurrent life.
Whatever it is, it is showingup to be cleared, and so people
don't see that there's atribulation that just came after
you asked for something, andthat's because it's meant to
clear the block.
(32:19):
And an example of me, looking atmy, looking at my mirror.
I said to myself OK, so I'vebeen abandoned as a child
emotionally from my mother andphysically from my father.
And I said to myself OK, soI've been abandoned as a child
emotionally from my mother andphysically from my father.
And I said, ok, so if I, as ababy, experienced abandonment,
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that means I must have abandonedmyself.
Ok, but how can I abandonmyself as a child, as a baby?
It's impossible.
Ok, so this is now dating to apast life.
So, when you think about itright, there's the past life
where, or many lives where I'veabandoned myself and I came back
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and experienced the same thingand created that as a child,
because there was that energythat came along with me that
needed to be cleared.
I don't know why I had to sharethat, but I heard to share that
, so I'm sick.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
I used to hear that because, first and foremost,
right, anytime we share anything, everyone's not going to a
second believe it because, beinghere, we have different
religious beliefs, differentspirituality beliefs Right, and
the community gets to choosethat.
We get to choose what we wantto believe For me.
I knew I had past lives basedon dreams I had.
(33:42):
That was not of my current life, but I came to understand it.
I had a dream when I wasyounger and it would always be
weird because it was a dreamthat it was no movie I was
watching, there was nothingassociated with this dream for
me to have it.
But then I realized.
So I personally have found thatbelief to be, in my opinion,
(34:05):
fact, and it's my fact.
It's not the world's fact.
I don't know what anyone elsebelieves, but what you're saying
about that contract or thatspirit or that energy that comes
into your new life with you,that is understandable, because
where I am today, I had to gothrough my experience to clean
that up that energy, to get fromwhere I was to where I am.
(34:29):
But I had to first be aware ofit.
I had to know what washappening.
If I didn't know what washappening, I couldn't repair it,
fix it, work on it, andrepetitive things would keep
happening to me from that energy.
But I wasn't aware of it.
But once I became aware of it,because I chose to, I had to
(34:52):
make that choice, just like somany other business
entrepreneurs have to make achoice, because the energy
doesn't differentiate betweenyour personal and your business.
Absolutely what you have iswhat you had and it shows up
anywhere.
It goes to parenthood,relationship, single, whatever
(35:15):
it is, friendships, anyrelationship.
So when I decided that I wastired of it, I had to do the
work, and doing the work was notI don't believe in hard and
easy, it just is work.
I could say that today.
In the past it must have beenreally hard, but in some
people's life it wasn't hard oreasy, it was just I had to do
(35:37):
something different.
And that's when you reach rightOne small, simple step.
Do something different if youdesire something different.
So when you share your story andwhat you've had to say, because
you felt like you were beingcalled to say it, you speaking
to me, I'm not confused by whatyou say.
I might ask for clarity becauseI don't practice this, but it's
(36:01):
not new to me and that's okay.
What our community listening tothis don't know is that we're
meeting for the first time.
This is not a conversationwe've ever had in the past.
I didn't know Ellen's likemental theory, like ideas,
theories, like this is not it.
But I'm very open to anyonecoming on the show that I've
(36:21):
said yes to to know that I cansupport them in whatever they
say and I get final say onwhatever goes out to the world.
But I thought that you saidthat because there are people
who are challenged, don't knowwhy.
They don't know why, in theirmind, their life has been hard.
Hearing this this might givethem an aha moment, which is
(36:43):
what I'm all about.
Yes, thank you, and that is whywe share what we share without
getting in the way of it.
It's not my job to get in theway of a message and the message
is not for everyone.
They're for one person, right,and that's okay.
It doesn't need to be foreveryone.
You know what I mean.
When I show up, there is oneperson who's going to get the
(37:05):
message and I've done my jobExactly.
I agree with you.
Not everyone gets the messagebecause it've done my job by
that.
I agree with me.
I can once get the message,because it's not for everyone
and I'm okay with that.
I've come to that okay place,just like how you come to your
okay place, so I love thatyou're.
It's weird because it feelslike your chakra, or whatever it
(37:26):
is, has opened up when you werewatching that spiritual show,
because the flow of informationbecame heavy for you and yes, it
is heavy at first because youdon't know how to manage it
because there are moments youfeel like you are alone, because
everyone else may not beexperiencing what you are.
Or understand it, and that'sokay, or support it Right
(37:49):
Because of their belief system,right Systems.
People don't realize they'rejust limitations you've been
given.
You don't even get to choosethem.
Someone is eager to you and nowyou got to figure out if it
does serve you or not and youget to choose whatever you
desire.
That's what I love aboutbusiness.
One, you can niche down.
You don't have to speak to theworld.
(38:10):
Two, you are able to connectwith the people you need to and
they will understand you.
They will know that you're forthat.
And guess what?
Even when you work with them,they will outgrow you and move
on, and it is cool.
You know what I mean.
So being a part of the businessworld, being an entrepreneur, a
(38:30):
small business owner this issomething I want the audience to
always be mindful of, becausethere is someone listening to
this message right now and going.
I feel alone because the thingI have in me I don't even know
how to express.
People won't understand me, me.
(38:51):
But you sharing today allowsthem to know they're not alone
and there are other people whofeel the same way, who can
understand and relate.
But once you accept who you'resupposed to be, that's when the
girl power begins.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
Absolutely, absolutely.
I can't say, I can't even addanything to that, because that
is just 100% truth.
You can't be anybody else,because then, if you're not
yourself, you're not going toattract what you're looking for.
And the whole point of comingback to a body is to come fully
(39:23):
back to yourself.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, and that's the thing I've learned.
I've accepted that my pastlives was not as great as this
one.
I had to book a lot to get towhere I am today.
So I'm excited about the otherones, but I would never have a
recollection of this one.
It would be like a sperm momentand my dreams that show me my
(39:45):
past life, with me exiting that.
My dreams were the type that Iwas taken out of the world and
that's the dreams I've had.
I've seen me in differentbodies, forms, because dreams
never put you in the form you'rein Like.
I've always dreamed about myfamily, but they don't look like
my family.
Yeah, I don't know, people havethe energy.
(40:06):
Yeah, they are not my.
They feel like my daughter.
They feel like my husband.
They don't look like my husbandand daughter.
It's a very but if peoplereally pay attention to their
dreams and they will they alwaysfeel like it, but they don't
really look like it.
It's a very amazing thing.
I looked into it and I choosethat.
I don't need to.
I am just aware of it and youinto it and I choose that I
(40:29):
don't need to, I am just awareof it.
Speaker 3 (40:33):
And you know it.
Yes, and it's knowing it.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
It's trusting it.
Yes, and that is it.
I don't question it because Idon't need to.
It's not something I need toquestion.
I know who I am.
I am an average, much as girlsshould be in having a human
experience.
I mean, I know how amazing itis, but that's why I get to show
up in the world, because I'veaccepted who I am and I stand
Part of identity.
Speaker 3 (40:57):
Yes, having a life lesson yes.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
We are going to close up, but I wanted to know you
have I know we're going to shareand I'll know how people can
connect with you somethingyou're offering In your social
media.
Do you speak about theSOT7-like things?
Speaker 3 (41:17):
I had a podcast, like I said.
It's still up on Spotify, Ibelieve.
So the Bluebird Wisdom podcast.
I was sharing my rawexperiences on a daily basis or
whatever basis.
I was going through things andlearning how to apply the life
lessons to those experiences.
(41:39):
I do teach it a little bitdifferently now.
So the program that I'm goingto be talking about well, the
program that I'm going to betalking about, the program that
I'm talking about now is it'sabout a five or six week program
based on oscillating yourmanifestations, and it's a live
five or six week program, for wemeet once a week for two hours
(42:04):
for women Right now I might openup to men later.
I'm actually working on casestudies for men with men right
now for the quantumenlightenment system to see if
that system would help with thecollective instead of just women
.
So right now, the ManifestationAccelerator program is called
(42:25):
Queen of your Heart and it'sbasically meant to.
It's like a self-discoveryjourney.
You learn how to be yourself,how to come back to yourself, so
that you can manifest a betterlife and learn about the lessons
that are coming anyway, so youcan stop the karmic cycle so
(42:48):
much for joining me today andsharing this information with
our community.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
I am happy to meet you, hear about what you're
doing, understanding a littlebit of who you are, where you
came from, understanding andpeople don't realize this.
No one in this world don't havea story.
Every one of us have a story.
Every one of us had things thatwere way in time or many times
(43:15):
where we were down and we had todig ourselves out because no
one else was able to.
But in order for us to digourselves out, we had to start
trusting ourselves first andforemost.
So when you got out of yourdepression, there was a choice
to make.
Yes, you had a husband, yes,you had a child, but you decided
(43:36):
to live for yourself becauseyou knew you had a purpose.
And sometimes people don'trealize they have a bigger
purpose.
When we use the word biggerpurpose, please understand it
doesn't mean you have to takeover the world.
It can easily be a moment thatyou have to be where you have to
be to save someone else, to saya word to someone else, and
(43:58):
that is it.
We always think purpose isbigger.
We think we need to be hereuntil 100 years, but, as you
know there is no guarantee tolife.
We come in as different agesacross the board, but sometimes
it's for a purpose.
That purpose we really neverunderstand.
You never know, it's okay.
You can understand it if youchoose to, but if you don't,
(44:19):
it's okay too.
It's up to you to do whateveryou desire to do.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
But I just want to say that purpose I believe
there's mission and purpose.
The divine mission isultimately what you're meant to
do for humanity, or if you'remeant to serve in that way,
right.
But then purpose is to grow.
(44:44):
Everyone's life purpose is togrow and to learn.
Life purpose is to grow and tolearn.
So, as you live, that is yourpurpose to be here.
You are not.
If you are not in a you, okay.
So let me just say thisEveryone is worthy of a purpose
and everyone is worthy of adivine mission because of the
fact that you're here.
You being here is alreadysaying you're worthy.
(45:05):
And with that I also want tosay that I do want to offer a
complimentary Akashic reading tothose who are interested in
getting some more clarity onwhat their divine mission is,
and I can offer that in theAkashic records, so they can
text me.
I'm ready.
You know, I want my purpose orI want my divine mission, or
(45:28):
they can text me.
I want clarity.
You can put that in your shownotes, which is one.
Speaker 2 (45:32):
But it's me if I don't have it here, so you could
send me that information andwe'll add it to the show notes.
Speaker 3 (45:38):
Okay, so I want clarity.
You can text that to561-862-2932.
And then we can set up a freereading.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
Thank you so much for sharing.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Thank you.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you, thank you forjoining us today on Leading Her
Way.
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Welcome to Leading Her Way with your host and
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This podcast is the ultimatedestination for women, creative
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All right, Nikisha, take itaway.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
All right.
Hello, gorgeous, hello everyone.
Thank you so much for joiningus today on Business Essentials
Academy, and one of our gueststhat we have is Ellen Katrin,
and she is here because she isan amazing spiritual truth
leader in your business and shehas the way of doing some
(01:00):
amazing things, and I would lovefor you to get to know a little
bit more about her, as I willbe as well, and she sometimes
guides us through vibrations andenergy and the things we put
out in the world and how itaffects us on our personal and
business journey.
So, catherine, if you don'tmind sharing a little bit of
(01:23):
what you do, and how did youstart doing what you do?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Well, first I want to say thank you for having me on
the show and it's reallyexciting to share because when I
think about the progress thatI've made where I started to
where I am now, it is truly anamazing journey.
It was hard when you're in it,but when you look at it you're
like, oh my God, everything hadto happen.
So I am a quantum healer andenlightenment mentor, and that
(01:54):
started with my own healing.
You know, for a very long timeI was a very angry person when I
was younger.
You know my mom took me totherapists to see why I was so
angry.
Nobody knew it was.
I was so bad that I was indenial of the anger because I've
already wore this mask that Ifeel I just was attached that
people would see Happy BubblyEllen, and you know I would just
(02:17):
be a certain way.
But for whatever reason aroundmy home and other people, I was
just angry.
And and other people I was justangry.
And you know I met my husband,who was my catalyst, I feel, in
(02:38):
my life, and you know I had alot of spiritual gifts that were
activated when I was very young, but I was so scared of them
that I ended up locking them ina closet.
And so, when I met my husband,he and I were watching some
spiritual shows and learningmore about spirituality, and it
activated something within me.
It was like something just wokeup and my intuition started to
open up.
And then I had, like thesevoices in my head, which was my
(03:00):
intuition, but I didn'tunderstand it, because it's like
one good and one bad, or as welike to perceive it as good or
bad.
There were two opposites.
And so it's funny because, youknow, I'm in the shower and I'm
receiving all these downloadsand thinking where the hell is
this coming from?
So I just started Googlingeverything and I saw on
spiritual websites, people weretalking about the things that I
was channeling, and back then Ididn't know I was channeling, so
(03:24):
I um, I went with it.
You know, we were watchingthese shows and we made a
promise that while we weredating, that we were always
going to better ourselves.
And so in our marriage, when wegot married a year later, um, oh
, my God, um, oh my God.
(03:49):
Shit hit the fan fast.
I was so angry and we werefighting all the time and he was
triggering the hell out of me.
I was triggering the hell outof him and we were just like we
need to do something before weget a divorce.
So we ended up going to theseemotional healing retreats.
I did some inner child work andyada yada, and you know from
those things it wasn't like sucha profound change.
So we continue to go to thesedifferent retreats to see if
(04:10):
there's other ways that we canheal, and there was one in
Florida that was just blew mymind.
It turned out to be somethingthat I've used now in my
business, and so it was thisreverend who channeled the seven
life lessons and he doesspiritual counseling as well as
(04:31):
other healing modalities likeraking some other things to
detox the body and move theenergy around.
So we were there for 10 daysand it was amazing because I
felt so clear and I understoodabout the seven life lessons and
it just so happened to be thathe was doing a course on the
seven life lessons after theretreat, which is what we ended
(04:54):
up staying for.
So it was very divinely guidedand when I was talking to my
husband about how we werefeeling, I thought, wow, I feel
so light, I feel so free.
I feel like my mind wasn'tchit-chattering, you know it was
, everything was so peaceful andI said we have to bring this
back to New York.
(05:15):
So when I came home, and ofcourse the business name that I
heard was Higher Vibrations.
So when I came home, I rightaway opened up a business of
Higher Vibrations and you know Iwas following.
I right away opened up abusiness of high vibrations and
you know I was followingwhatever I was going with.
But I'm going to say, and first, and I took the life lessons
and I said, ok, I need tounderstand how this applies to
(05:36):
my life.
So I started to look at all ofthe emotions and the things that
happen in my life and Iconnected the dots with the life
lessons based on what I learned, because each life lessons has
three to six different emotionsattached to them.
However, the way he taught usthere was that every experience
(05:58):
taught us a certain life lesson,and so I used that first and I
said, okay, so this experiencetaught me this lesson, that
lesson and whatever.
Then I applied it to IBSbecause I wanted to see how I
can heal my IBS that I hadthrough understanding the life
lessons.
So I connected the dots ofwhich life lessons and it was
(06:20):
like a no brainer.
She was like duh when I saw it.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
How can you?
Speaker 3 (06:22):
not see this now.
It was like a no-brainer.
She was like duh when I saw it.
How can you not see this now?
So it was very apparent of whatwas causing IBS in the stomach,
in our creation center, rightIn the what is it called?
Soloplexes and within thatcenter of fire we have.
That's where the IBS is andthat's where separation comes
(06:46):
from.
That's one of the life lessonsand so that made total sense
with the abandonment issues Iwent through and everything.
So the other part was with the,but I was afraid to be myself, I
was afraid to be woo-woo, I wasafraid for it to be so
spiritual that and what peoplenow call woo-woo that people
(07:13):
were not going to be able tolook at this, because I knew
that my mission was to helpawaken humanity and a lot of
people who are dealing withsuffering and sicknesses and
illnesses are those people whoneed to wake up and stop just
looking at the physical signs,but also the underlying, the
root cause, which is theemotional, the energy that is
causing these physical ailments.
(07:36):
So that's been this world and itreally is, because the team,
the angelic team that I workwith is not from this world and
it took me a very long time toaccept that, because I thought
(08:00):
that that was crazy and Ithought that who am I to be
working with a team like this?
And then, when I realized whatthe spiritual truth was, that I
am inviting a physical vesseland I came here for a mission
and I have, I see the power thatI'm working with.
So I had to really just acceptthat I am incarnated here for
(08:27):
this particular reason.
It's in my soul, blueprint andeverything and information that
I channeled.
The modality that they helpedme put together is really
powerful.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Super powerful.
Now let me go back to when youwere on the retreat and you
learned the seven processes.
I think I may have it wrong orright, I don't remember.
Seven life lessons.
Yeah, seven life lessons.
There we go, thank you.
What are the seven life lessons?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Separation, judgment, control, forgiveness, identity,
divine guidance andunconditional love and so right
so I want to just point out that, as I'm talking to you, this is
the information that's comingthrough.
The life lessons that I wasworking with when it comes to me
(09:19):
being where I am to for mybusiness is number one divine
guidance.
Accepting the fact that that isdivine guidance, that team that
I'm working with, acceptingthat I have that team.
Accepting that, um, we're notalone in this process and that
there is a bigger mission.
It's just connected.
So then you know they're hereto assist you when you ask for
(09:40):
help right, exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
And then what you also work with is seven light
blessings, with separation,because that was part of your
IBS.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
And I healed the IBS because I understood that I'm
not separate from God.
God is not a man in the sky.
I'm sorry if people believethat and that's fine if they do,
but the belief that there is aman in the sky or not, there's
still a higher power.
So we're going to look at thatconcept of there being a higher
power, there being a biggermission, a grander scheme of
(10:14):
things, right Of why we're hereand what we're meant to do and
experience and be.
And so when we look at that, atseparation in the stomach area
is where we would feel the morethe most discord and
disconnection, because it's thewomb, it's the creation center.
(10:34):
And so, coming to the idea ofI'm not separate from God, God
is like sparks, right, and everyspark went into a body.
So you can say you are a God ina physical body.
So, having the idea of knowingthat you have that power that
(10:56):
God has, you are not separatebecause you are one with it.
So you are.
So you are in a sense, you know, not abandoned.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Right and I have agreements with you in regards
to that, because I know for meGod is energy, and that's not
only for all around me andoutside.
God has created me and I'm apart of God, like I'm very close
to those beings and I no longerbelieve there's a man in this
path.
I don't believe it's a man, sofor me, that's just something
(11:30):
I've come across.
What I liked is about what yousaid about you being and this is
something I created new becauseour former neighbor, our
podcast, was leading her way,but we updated it over the
summer for Bee Academy BusinessEssentials.
But I also am a very how can Iexpress this?
(11:51):
I am all about being you.
You are special.
You were made for a purpose anda reason, so, in alignment of
that, I completely understand itand I love the fact that when
people discover themselves, theycan just be them and no one
else.
And sometimes, like you said,it took courage because you felt
(12:12):
like you were on a journey ofwhat people call right, an
manifestation.
But you also have to know whenyou're here to serve a purpose.
You're not here at times toserve a purpose for everyone,
but the people you call to serveRight In our Bible we
understand people were called toserve a certain group of people
(12:32):
, not the world.
They didn't have to worry abouteveryone, they just had to
serve who they were placed toserve.
So whenever I hear woo-woo, Ialways think it's woo-woo for
someone who don't believe.
But it's okay, because that'snot who you're here to serve.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
White, black, black.
Well, I do want to saysomething that came up when you
were speaking about that andit's actually funny because this
never came to me before.
So you know, my husband and Iwe didn't have good boundaries,
and it comes to the boundarieseven in your, like shit.
I'm going to have to, and itwas heavy.
(13:08):
I'm going to have to help theworld.
Now I have to wake everybody upand you interject into people
who are not ready for themessage.
And that's where I started,because that's what I thought I
had to do.
(13:29):
And as I progressed in my ownhealing and my journey with my
business, I realized there's atarget audience for a reason,
and it's who you feel aligned toserve, because that's who
you're meant to serve.
And even with my clients, who Iam serving, I have a boundary
and I don't just interject andgive them information when I
(13:51):
want to.
I need to first feel if they'reready to hear that, and I need
to.
Most of the time.
I ask them if they're willingto hear it, Because sometimes
people don't want to hear it andeven if they're working with
you and they're open toreceiving the service, sometimes
they're still closed off.
So you have to have thatboundary.
And that's what I learned was wedidn't have those boundaries in
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the beginning and so I was just, like you know, going there and
it caused a lot of stressbecause, again, it was very
heavy, felt like I had this bigmission and that I was supposed
to do this, and it was harderfor me to get my business going
because all I was doing wasputting more pressure on myself
and not bringing the rightenergy into what I was doing and
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how I was doing it.
Number one not bringing theright energy because of the
pressure and it's like, oh myGod, I have to help everybody.
That type of energy is verystatic and it does not call in
the right people or call inpeople to you.
It pushes people away.
And number two, I wasn't talkingto the right people, so I'm
also giving the message to thewrong people who don't hear me,
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and then it also caused that,and then that that in turn
causes you to feel lack becauseyou're like shit, what?
I'm not making any money andnow I'm suffering in my business
.
So there has to be thatboundary of understanding who
you're serving and why you'reserving them and if it's in
alignment with what you aredoing.
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Also, the other stagnant part,static part was that I wasn't in
alignment with what I was doing.
I wasn't, I was hiding myself,I was trying to do it in a
healthcare aspect and that didnot align with me, but I
continued to do it because Ithought that's what would reach
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people.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Right, you weren't really being you because you
figured I have to kind of tweetthis so the message could be
heard, because you're trying toeveryone.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
And it did the opposite.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Exactly?
Do you remember what year inyour business did you have the
revelation of not speaking tothe right market?
And when you had thatrevelation, what did you do
differently?
How did you accept it and startshowing up?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Oh, that it did not take me a short time, let's just
say because I was too Likenarrow minded.
So I started the business in2017 or 2016.
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I can't remember one of thoseand I was going on.
My most of my business has beenme learning all about the
business strategies and allthese things and how to attain
clients and all that nonsense,and doing it all the, I'm going
to say the three-dimensional way, right, and the not in
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alignment way.
And when I learned that thosethings didn't work, I started
going into manifestation.
I said, okay, let me trymanifestation.
How can I manifest people?
And that, in a way, was likespiritual bypassing, because I
wasn't looking at what I neededto work on on myself.
And so then, when I decided,all right, now I got to look a
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different way because myadversation is not enough
fucking working for me.
So let me go in a differentdirection now.
Sorry for the cussing.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
We'll put explicit on this one.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
I said, okay, you know what.
Now I got to figure out what'sgoing on here.
So then I started looking moreat myself in a different way and
then I did some more of thehealing work and then I got very
depressed because the healingwork that I did was so
superficial but somethinghappened and I got super, super
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depressed.
Was so superficial, butsomething happened and I got
super, super depressed and I wasso depressed that I was
actually suicidal.
But I had a child and I had myhusband and I thought like I
can't, I can't just leave, eventhough I wish I, I really wish I
did.
I wasn't suicidal to the pointwhere I was ready to do
something.
I was just like more crying togo home because I was like I'm
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not home, this is not my place,I don't want to be here anymore,
I don't know why I'm here andthat's all me knowing what my
mission is, but really notaccepting that power.
Right, I wasn't accepting that.
There was this power that Ineeded to collect, back and step
into in order for me to backand step into, in order for me
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to go out there.
There was too much fear.
So for the life of me, prior tome getting depressed.
I kept on hearing that I had todo this healing modality to
actually receive it and I didn'ttrust it because I thought that
it was crazy and it wasbasically light body work.
I don't know if you ever heardof that, but it's etheric
surgery on the light body and Ithought it was nuts and I didn't
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believe it.
I was actually angry about what.
What that was?
It's basically clearing out.
There are certain structures inour light body and our Merkaba,
which is our ascension, ourvehicle of ascension.
Everybody has it.
It's a soul blueprint, it'spart of the soul blueprint and
it's meant to to the structures.
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It's actually funny.
The structures in place areactually meant to separate you
from the light because, part ofyou, being in a dense body, you
can't be connected to the light,otherwise you won't be dense
too much light.
It becomes very light.
So, um, there's structures inplace.
There's also programs andcontracts that are with some of
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those structures and otherstructures that have been given
in past lives, um, and evenprior to being in a physical
human form, when we're in thatother realm.
There are also structures thatare replaced there as part of
the programs and contracts andthings that might've happened
that are placed in our field.
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All of that creates thisdisconnect with your God
frequency and it holds thosebelief programs in place,
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emotions, traumas, everything inplace, so that you continue to
experience that.
I said why the hell would wechoose to come here with
structures that are going tostop us from reaching our, our
godly self makes no sense at all.
This is bullshit.
And that's literally what Ikept saying.
And then one day I heard it'snot just this life, it's past
lives, this is from past livesthat came along and and I
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thought, okay, this is crazy.
Fine, maybe one day I'll do it,and I never did.
When I got depressed again, thatcame to me and I said, all
right, I have no choice at thispoint because I'm, I don't, I'm,
I'm maxed out.
I did so many different healingmodalities.
Nothing freaking really helpedme.
Now I got to figure this outout, so I did it and we were on
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kind of like the fast track,because you're really supposed
to wait like three, four monthsin between.
I'm like I'm not doing that.
I can't.
I have a kid and I have ahusband.
I gotta get my shit together.
So she decided to work with meand we did it every two weeks,
um and so, wow, I one day justgot up and I started working out
.
This was, I think, after sixweeks, possibly six weeks.
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Yes, it was six weeks, becauseit could not be longer.
My parents and everybody wasdriving me nuts, I remember, but
they I got up one day and I wasjust like on the treadmill and
I heard to hit record, to startrecording.
And I'm like I don't even knowwhat I'm recording, but okay, so
I started recording and then Ijust had all this stuff channel
through me about my healing,about what I was going through,
(22:10):
all my raw experiences, my lifelessons that were involved with
this.
And then later on I heard thiswas a podcast, the Blue Blood
Wisdom podcast.
Why, I don't know, but I justhad all this information.
I thought, all right, here goesmy podcast.
So I was just guided into mybusiness and so I knew that
there was something there.
So later on, as I continue to gointo my life this is coming to
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answer your question I receivedthe Quantum Enlightenment system
as a download.
It was basically a combinationof everything that has somewhat
helped me throughout my journey,but then a mixture of the life
lessons and the blueprint ofwhat I initially received for
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myself.
The blueprint is basicallytelling me that I was meant to
be a teacher, that I'm meant tohave this higher power to assist
people in coming into theirconsciousness, into their truths
, stuff like that.
And so I used all of that andcreated this quantum
enlightenment system because itwas a download.
When I was in the shower, itwas like that missing piece that
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I had no idea I was looking forand it finally dawned on me
that this is a bigger thing.
This is a bigger thing.
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This is a bigger thing.
So it's like three years laterwhen I realized this powerful
thing that I was just givenbecause when I was in the shower
and all of a sudden somethingjust hit me I received this
download I ran out of the shower, I started putting everything
together, but I was guidedbecause I was just being guided
to do everything.
I started putting everythingtogether, but I was guided
because I was just being guidedto do everything.
I realized this was a healingmodality.
I didn't know how powerful, Ididn't know what it was.
I started testing it on somefriends and then kind of started
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moving things around andshaping it more to understand
how it worked and then I did acase study.
Even in my case study that'swhen I started was like 2020.
So it took me three years tostep into a part of it.
Another year and a half to stepinto accepting that I was here
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to teach the teachers because Ithought it was just like
humanity.
But then when I looked at mysoul blueprint again, it said
he'll teach the teachers.
So it's those other people whoare helping humanity in their
way, and my goal is to help themso that they can have this
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advanced modality and also haveeven if they're not using the
modality, but even for them tobe clear and in a different
state of consciousness for themto be able to use, you know,
their abilities to help otherpeople in a better way.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
So, in doing this as a business and to help teachers
and provide this gift that youreceived, and to help teachers
and provide this gift that youreceived, what have you been
doing in your business toconnect with those individuals
so that they can hear andunderstand you?
Right, because, like you said,everyone this is not for
everyone.
Everyone won't hear andunderstand what you're saying if
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they're not for you, but thepeople for you will.
But how do you know who theyare?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I have been going on podcast interviews and right now
I'm actually in the stages ofrefiguring that portion of my
business because I've beenconcentrating mainly on podcast
interviews and summits and, youknow, speaking internationally
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and stuff like that.
And while doing that, it was anopportunity for me because even
though I accepted and this isthe funniest part even though I
accepted me working withteachers, I then started
receiving people who were notteachers and people who were.
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It was so funny before Iaccepted it because I looked at
it and this is what helped meaccept it and it's just images
coming into my mind.
So that's why I cut myself off.
But before I accepted it, I sawthroughout all the people that
I was working with.
They were all healers andteachers, eft practitioners,
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whatever.
They were all people already inthat light.
Right, they've already steppedinto their own modalities or you
know their businesses.
And then, when I started toaccept it, I started to receive
people who were not in thebusiness and who wanted to leave
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their jobs so they can feelhappier and expand on their
growth.
They're people who just startedto maybe not just started, but
who have been going to Reiki anddifferent healing modalities
and haven't really received toomuch of a shift or
transformation and decided nowwe're going to go to Ellen
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because they found me somehowand said, okay, we're ready to
take this up a notch, we'reready to take this to the next
level.
And so those are the people wholeft their jobs and, you know,
while working with me andstarting their own business and
or enhancing whatever they'redoing, if they're in their own
business, into a more, somethingmore spiritual, or using
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whatever they've learned into adifferent way.
So it's kind of to me, it'smore of I'm just going with the
flow of where I'm called to go.
And so if I'm getting aninvitation to speak somewhere, I
feel into the energy to see arethese people the people that
I'm meant to work with?
And if it doesn't feel inalignment with me, then I don't
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go.
And the same for summits.
If I'm invited to speak at asummit, if I don't feel in
alignment with the energy, Idon't accept every single offer,
even though that would be great.
I feel like there has to besome sort of alignment and so
that's what I go with.
I feel into the energy to seenot just the profession or what
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they're doing, or if they're mytarget, I do look at the target
to see if that's also analignment, but mainly it's the
energy and the feeling of it.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Usually when people connect with you, is there a
certain word phrase, statementyou make that they get an aha
moment.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
I mean, it's, I guess , looking at everything as a
lesson is what you know theywould say If I say okay, look at
it in this perspective and thisis the lesson, or there's a
lesson here, what's the lesson?
Speaker 2 (29:16):
So, you're learning what life experience is.
Yes, that's what you do toconnect and help them connect
with your teaching.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
Right.
So every experience in our lifeis going to give us some kind
of emotion, not every experience.
If it does, and there's atrigger there, because an
emotion is a sort of trigger.
If there's a trigger there,that's your lesson.
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There's's one of the lessons.
Like I said earlier, there'sthree to seven, three to six
different um emotions attachedto each of the life lessons and
the seven lessons, and so whenyou're feeling an emotion, you
need to ask yourself like, whatis this teaching me, right?
So in one of my programs that Ijust put together, I actually
(30:10):
decided to go into and teachpeople about the lessons, the
life lessons, for them tounderstand what emotions that
they're carrying and what is itattached to.
So on a daily basis, you can goand say, okay, I'm feeling
anxiety, let me see what thislesson is.
And when you think of thelesson, then you can look at it
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and say, oh, okay, so this isteaching me fear or whatever.
This is teaching me this.
I'm going to now understand itbetter, and the way you do it is
by reflection meditation,asking yourself questions in
meditation to try to understandwhy the lesson is coming up,
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where it's coming from, whereit's stemming from, if there's
an original event, if there's,because obviously these come in
so many different ways.
So I just want to touch on thatfor a little bit, just to let
you know something that came tome which was really, really
interesting.
When we look at our lives,right, everything in our life
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outside of us is basically amirror of what is inside of us.
So if it's a mirror, then thatmeans that we obviously need to
work on that internal aspect ofourselves in order for us to be
able to manifest somethingdifferent.
So, when you're manifestingsomething, you're asking the
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universe, god or whatever thisis what I desire and then,
because you're asking If it justcame to us and there's no point
of us being on Earth, right,because we could have just done
that when we're in the differentdimension, the point here is to
clear out the block, and theblock is a limiting belief
program.
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It could be a trauma from apast life, it could be a
contract from a past life orcurrent life.
Whatever it is, it is showingup to be cleared, and so people
don't see that there's atribulation that just came after
you asked for something, andthat's because it's meant to
clear the block.
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And an example of me, looking atmy, looking at my mirror.
I said to myself OK, so I'vebeen abandoned as a child
emotionally from my mother andphysically from my father.
And I said to myself OK, soI've been abandoned as a child
emotionally from my mother andphysically from my father.
And I said, ok, so if I, as ababy, experienced abandonment,
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that means I must have abandonedmyself.
Ok, but how can I abandonmyself as a child, as a baby?
It's impossible.
Ok, so this is now dating to apast life.
So, when you think about itright, there's the past life
where, or many lives where I'veabandoned myself and I came back
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and experienced the same thingand created that as a child,
because there was that energythat came along with me that
needed to be cleared.
I don't know why I had to sharethat, but I heard to share that
, so I'm sick.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
I used to hear that because, first and foremost,
right, anytime we share anything, everyone's not going to a
second believe it because, beinghere, we have different
religious beliefs, differentspirituality beliefs Right, and
the community gets to choosethat.
We get to choose what we wantto believe For me.
I knew I had past lives basedon dreams I had.
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That was not of my current life, but I came to understand it.
I had a dream when I wasyounger and it would always be
weird because it was a dreamthat it was no movie I was
watching, there was nothingassociated with this dream for
me to have it.
But then I realized.
So I personally have found thatbelief to be, in my opinion,
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fact, and it's my fact.
It's not the world's fact.
I don't know what anyone elsebelieves, but what you're saying
about that contract or thatspirit or that energy that comes
into your new life with you,that is understandable, because
where I am today, I had to gothrough my experience to clean
that up that energy, to get fromwhere I was to where I am.
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But I had to first be aware ofit.
I had to know what washappening.
If I didn't know what washappening, I couldn't repair it,
fix it, work on it, andrepetitive things would keep
happening to me from that energy.
But I wasn't aware of it.
But once I became aware of it,because I chose to, I had to
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make that choice, just like somany other business
entrepreneurs have to make achoice, because the energy
doesn't differentiate betweenyour personal and your business.
Absolutely what you have iswhat you had and it shows up
anywhere.
It goes to parenthood,relationship, single, whatever
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it is, friendships, anyrelationship.
So when I decided that I wastired of it, I had to do the
work, and doing the work was notI don't believe in hard and
easy, it just is work.
I could say that today.
In the past it must have beenreally hard, but in some
people's life it wasn't hard oreasy, it was just I had to do
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something different.
And that's when you reach rightOne small, simple step.
Do something different if youdesire something different.
So when you share your story andwhat you've had to say, because
you felt like you were beingcalled to say it, you speaking
to me, I'm not confused by whatyou say.
I might ask for clarity becauseI don't practice this, but it's
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not new to me and that's okay.
What our community listening tothis don't know is that we're
meeting for the first time.
This is not a conversationwe've ever had in the past.
I didn't know Ellen's likemental theory, like ideas,
theories, like this is not it.
But I'm very open to anyonecoming on the show that I've
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said yes to to know that I cansupport them in whatever they
say and I get final say onwhatever goes out to the world.
But I thought that you saidthat because there are people
who are challenged, don't knowwhy.
They don't know why, in theirmind, their life has been hard.
Hearing this this might givethem an aha moment, which is
(36:43):
what I'm all about.
Yes, thank you, and that is whywe share what we share without
getting in the way of it.
It's not my job to get in theway of a message and the message
is not for everyone.
They're for one person, right,and that's okay.
It doesn't need to be foreveryone.
You know what I mean.
When I show up, there is oneperson who's going to get the
(37:05):
message and I've done my jobExactly.
I agree with you.
Not everyone gets the messagebecause it've done my job by
that.
I agree with me.
I can once get the message,because it's not for everyone
and I'm okay with that.
I've come to that okay place,just like how you come to your
okay place, so I love thatyou're.
It's weird because it feelslike your chakra, or whatever it
(37:26):
is, has opened up when you werewatching that spiritual show,
because the flow of informationbecame heavy for you and yes, it
is heavy at first because youdon't know how to manage it
because there are moments youfeel like you are alone, because
everyone else may not beexperiencing what you are.
Or understand it, and that'sokay, or support it Right
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Because of their belief system,right Systems.
People don't realize they'rejust limitations you've been
given.
You don't even get to choosethem.
Someone is eager to you and nowyou got to figure out if it
does serve you or not and youget to choose whatever you
desire.
That's what I love aboutbusiness.
One, you can niche down.
You don't have to speak to theworld.
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Two, you are able to connectwith the people you need to and
they will understand you.
They will know that you're forthat.
And guess what?
Even when you work with them,they will outgrow you and move
on, and it is cool.
You know what I mean.
So being a part of the businessworld, being an entrepreneur, a
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small business owner this issomething I want the audience to
always be mindful of, becausethere is someone listening to
this message right now and going.
I feel alone because the thingI have in me I don't even know
how to express.
People won't understand me, me.
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But you sharing today allowsthem to know they're not alone
and there are other people whofeel the same way, who can
understand and relate.
But once you accept who you'resupposed to be, that's when the
girl power begins.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
Absolutely, absolutely.
I can't say, I can't even addanything to that, because that
is just 100% truth.
You can't be anybody else,because then, if you're not
yourself, you're not going toattract what you're looking for.
And the whole point of comingback to a body is to come fully
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back to yourself.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, and that's the thing I've learned.
I've accepted that my pastlives was not as great as this
one.
I had to book a lot to get towhere I am today.
So I'm excited about the otherones, but I would never have a
recollection of this one.
It would be like a sperm momentand my dreams that show me my
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past life, with me exiting that.
My dreams were the type that Iwas taken out of the world and
that's the dreams I've had.
I've seen me in differentbodies, forms, because dreams
never put you in the form you'rein Like.
I've always dreamed about myfamily, but they don't look like
my family.
Yeah, I don't know, people havethe energy.
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Yeah, they are not my.
They feel like my daughter.
They feel like my husband.
They don't look like my husbandand daughter.
It's a very but if peoplereally pay attention to their
dreams and they will they alwaysfeel like it, but they don't
really look like it.
It's a very amazing thing.
I looked into it and I choosethat.
I don't need to.
I am just aware of it and youinto it and I choose that I
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don't need to, I am just awareof it.
Speaker 3 (40:33):
And you know it.
Yes, and it's knowing it.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
It's trusting it.
Yes, and that is it.
I don't question it because Idon't need to.
It's not something I need toquestion.
I know who I am.
I am an average, much as girlsshould be in having a human
experience.
I mean, I know how amazing itis, but that's why I get to show
up in the world, because I'veaccepted who I am and I stand
Part of identity.
Speaker 3 (40:57):
Yes, having a life lesson yes.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
We are going to close up, but I wanted to know you
have I know we're going to shareand I'll know how people can
connect with you somethingyou're offering In your social
media.
Do you speak about theSOT7-like things?
Speaker 3 (41:17):
I had a podcast, like I said.
It's still up on Spotify, Ibelieve.
So the Bluebird Wisdom podcast.
I was sharing my rawexperiences on a daily basis or
whatever basis.
I was going through things andlearning how to apply the life
lessons to those experiences.
(41:39):
I do teach it a little bitdifferently now.
So the program that I'm goingto be talking about well, the
program that I'm going to betalking about, the program that
I'm talking about now is it'sabout a five or six week program
based on oscillating yourmanifestations, and it's a live
five or six week program, for wemeet once a week for two hours
(42:04):
for women Right now I might openup to men later.
I'm actually working on casestudies for men with men right
now for the quantumenlightenment system to see if
that system would help with thecollective instead of just women
.
So right now, the ManifestationAccelerator program is called
(42:25):
Queen of your Heart and it'sbasically meant to.
It's like a self-discoveryjourney.
You learn how to be yourself,how to come back to yourself, so
that you can manifest a betterlife and learn about the lessons
that are coming anyway, so youcan stop the karmic cycle so
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much for joining me today andsharing this information with
our community.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
I am happy to meet you, hear about what you're
doing, understanding a littlebit of who you are, where you
came from, understanding andpeople don't realize this.
No one in this world don't havea story.
Every one of us have a story.
Every one of us had things thatwere way in time or many times
(43:15):
where we were down and we had todig ourselves out because no
one else was able to.
But in order for us to digourselves out, we had to start
trusting ourselves first andforemost.
So when you got out of yourdepression, there was a choice
to make.
Yes, you had a husband, yes,you had a child, but you decided
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to live for yourself becauseyou knew you had a purpose.
And sometimes people don'trealize they have a bigger
purpose.
When we use the word biggerpurpose, please understand it
doesn't mean you have to takeover the world.
It can easily be a moment thatyou have to be where you have to
be to save someone else, to saya word to someone else, and
(43:58):
that is it.
We always think purpose isbigger.
We think we need to be hereuntil 100 years, but, as you
know there is no guarantee tolife.
We come in as different agesacross the board, but sometimes
it's for a purpose.
That purpose we really neverunderstand.
You never know, it's okay.
You can understand it if youchoose to, but if you don't,
(44:19):
it's okay too.
It's up to you to do whateveryou desire to do.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
But I just want to say that purpose I believe
there's mission and purpose.
The divine mission isultimately what you're meant to
do for humanity, or if you'remeant to serve in that way,
right.
But then purpose is to grow.
(44:44):
Everyone's life purpose is togrow and to learn.
Life purpose is to grow and tolearn.
So, as you live, that is yourpurpose to be here.
You are not.
If you are not in a you, okay.
So let me just say thisEveryone is worthy of a purpose
and everyone is worthy of adivine mission because of the
fact that you're here.
You being here is alreadysaying you're worthy.
(45:05):
And with that I also want tosay that I do want to offer a
complimentary Akashic reading tothose who are interested in
getting some more clarity onwhat their divine mission is,
and I can offer that in theAkashic records, so they can
text me.
I'm ready.
You know, I want my purpose orI want my divine mission, or
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they can text me.
I want clarity.
You can put that in your shownotes, which is one.
Speaker 2 (45:32):
But it's me if I don't have it here, so you could
send me that information andwe'll add it to the show notes.
Speaker 3 (45:38):
Okay, so I want clarity.
You can text that to561-862-2932.
And then we can set up a freereading.
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Thank you so much for sharing.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Thank you.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you, thank you forjoining us today on Leading Her
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