In this episode, I’m breaking down the frustrating pattern when a guy says he wants something serious, but a few months in, he starts to pull away and switches it up.
If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant men (the ones who seem great at first, then go cold as things head towards commitment), this one’s for you.
We’ll talk through:
- Why avoidants actually seem “secure” at first
- What’s actually happening when you’re wanting to check his social media and overanalyzing your last text for the 10th time
- Stop the brain’s rumination on “Why did he do this?”
- What to do when the avoidant comes back after he gets space
- How to start becoming unavailable to avoidant love — and start attracting secure connection
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