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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever get the feeling
like there's a younger you maybe
like eight years old, stillkind of hanging around inside,
and I don't mean in a spooky way, Ha ha.
It's more like ever notice howyou react to stuff.
Maybe it's rooted in thoseearly experiences.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
You know that's what
we're diving into today in our
child work Exactly.
It's wild how those early joysand hurts especially the hurts
can stick with us.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
It's like having this
hidden blueprint Right and the
hurts can stick with us.
It's like having this hiddenblueprint Right and get this.
We're using 50 journal promptsto heal your inner child by
Lestallion as our guide.
I'm excited about this one.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Me too.
But I find interesting is thatLestallion doesn't just throw
out this idea of healing, shemakes it practical.
You know, 50 specific prompts.
That's a lot, but it's like atoolbox for self-reflection,
right Like toolbox forself-reflection, right Like
journaling, is huge for thiskind of work.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
It's your space to
process no judgment.
Have you ever noticed how likea strong reaction you have to
something?
Sometimes it's like, well, whoa, this is coming from somewhere
deeper.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
All the time Say you
weren't allowed to express anger
as a kid.
Yeah, maybe it wasn't safe.
Fast forward and bam, you shutdown in conflicts.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
It's like that
younger self is calling the
shots even now.
So how does healing this innerchild even work?
Are we talking time travel here?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Uh-huh, I wish Huh.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
The Stallion talks
about reparenting the inner
child, basically Acknowledgingthose unmet needs from back then
Offering compassion to thatyounger you so not like trying
to be the perfect parent now,more like understanding where
they were coming from.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Exactly Recognizing
those tough experiences.
Well, they shaped you, butyou're also capable and
resilient because of them.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I like that.
A little grace goes a long way.
You know, Lestallion evenmentions Jungian psychology.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Yeah, carl Jung.
He explored these things calledarchetypes, right Universal
patterns in our minds, and thepure eternus, the eternal child,
is especially relevant.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Okay, break that down
.
For us, eternal child Soundskind of intense.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Think of it as the
part of us that craves joy,
playfulness, but also holdsthose old wounds Two sides of
the same coin, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Makes sense.
Yeah, so that's where thesejournal prompts come in like a
roadmap back to ourselves.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Exactly, lestallion
gives us 50, each one designed
to open up a dialogue with thatyounger part of us 50.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
She even organizes
them into categories which I
appreciate Discovering joy,embracing feelings, forgiving
and letting go, self-acceptanceand love and creating a new path
.
We've got a lot to unpack.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
We do.
But the cool thing is it's achoose your own adventure kind
of thing.
Some will resonate more thanothers.
It's about your uniqueexperience.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
So many prompts, so
little time.
I thought maybe we could eachpick a couple that really jumped
out and, you know, really getinto them.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Love it.
It's not about checking boxes,right, it's about depth.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Totally Okay From
Discovering Joy.
This one's simple but powerful.
What was your favorite game toplay as a child?
Seems basic, but what do youthink it can unlock?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
It's like a time
machine to pure joy.
Not just the memory itself, butwhat was it about that game?
What lit you up?
It reminds us adults need playtoo.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
It's so true.
For me it was Legos.
For hours I was in my own worldbuilding spaceships, whatever
that feeling of I don't knowcreative flow.
We lose that sometimes.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Totally.
We get so goal-oriented weforget how to just be.
You know the stallions ontosomething here.
Tapping into that childlikepart can bring back the joy in
simple things, even as adults.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Yes, permission to
not be so serious all the time.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Okay, one more that
grabbed me From Embracing
Feelings, what feelings werehard for you to express as a
child.
How do you handle that emotionnow?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Ooh, that's a good
one.
Gets right to the heart of howour past shapes us.
Like, say, sadness was taboo inyour family.
You learned to bottle it upThen, bam, as an adult
vulnerability is terrifying.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
It's like we don't
just magically outgrow that
stuff, do we?
And, on the flip side, creatingthat safe space for kids now to
feel their feelings, that'shuge.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Absolutely Not about
good or bad emotions, but
healthy ways to deal with them.
And look not to blame ourparents.
They did what they knew, but wecan break the cycle right.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah, but sometimes
that means facing some tough
stuff, which I guess is whereforgiving and letting go comes
in.
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Forgiveness.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's not saying what
happened was okay.
It's more like letting go ofthe anger we're carrying.
Otherwise, it's like drinkingpoison and expecting the other
person to die.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Right.
Holding on to that just hurtsus more in the end.
There's a prompt here.
What grudges are you holdingonto that affect your inner
child?
Easy to brush off, kid stuff,but it sticks with us, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Big time.
Lestallion talks aboutvisualizing like comforting that
younger you.
Yeah Sounds kind of out there,but powerful imagery right.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
It is, and that
brings us to self-compassion,
which I feel like that's key toall this inner child work.
It's funny, right we'resupposed to just magically know
how to love ourselves, butnobody really teaches us that.
It feels pretty key to healingthat inner child, though, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Huge and it's not
about being perfect.
It's more like radicalacceptance, flaws and all you
know to remember that promptabout qualities we loved in
ourselves as kids.
It's like how can we nurturethat person again?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
It's true, Kids are
kind of awesome that way, Like
so free to be themselves.
Then we grow up and yeah,expectations and all that.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
And that's why this
work is so powerful.
Right, it's like reclaimingthose lost parts, finding wonder
again in everyday things.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Not being childish,
but that open-hearted way kids
see the world Love it.
Okay, last section inLestallion's book Creating a New
Path.
It's like we've reflected.
Now what actions can we take?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Exactly this prompt
got me.
How can you make your livingspace more comforting for your
inner child?
Kind of a cool thought, right.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Never thought of it
like that.
Like what does that even looklike?
My inner child wants beanbagchairs everywhere.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Maybe Could be color
plants, a cozy reading nook,
whatever sparks that joy, thatplayfulness.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
And it doesn't have
to be stuff right.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Lestallion also talks
about activities, nature,
creativity, even goofing off.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yes, prioritizing joy
, making it a habit.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
It's like remembering
what makes us feel alive again.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Exactly and through
all this being gentle with
ourselves.
Healing is not a straight lineRight.
Ups and downs happen, but themore we can tap into that inner
kindness, the more we heal.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
This has been such a
great, deep dive.
We've talked about howchildhood impacts us, the power
of journaling andself-compassion as a superpower.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
And we just scratched
the surface.
Lestallion's book's got evenmore for anyone wanting to dive
deeper into this whole innerchild thing.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Seriously check it
out.
50 Journal Prompts to Heal yourInner Child.
So much good stuff in there.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
And remember it's
never too late to connect with
that younger you.
They're waiting.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Love that.
Thanks for joining us on thisjourney inward everyone.
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