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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, ready for
a bit of an emotional deep dive
today?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Sounds intriguing.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
We're going to be
looking at 50 sad journal
prompts.
Okay, and this is from a blogpost by Lestallion.
You know they're the folks thatmake those journals.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
I bet you're thinking
sad prompts.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, a little bit.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
But it's not about
just wallowing in sadness,
gotcha.
It's about using writing as away to really understand those
blue moments we all have.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
What I find
fascinating is how these prompts
encourage us to go beyond just,you know, saying I feel sad.
They're pushing us to explorethe nuances, all the hidden
wisdom in those feelings.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah, that makes
sense.
It's like they're giving us atoolkit to well almost dissect
sadness and then maybe evenbuild something new.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Exactly From all the
pieces.
It's structured so well too.
The prompts are grouped intofive categories.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Oh interesting.
What are they?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
It's like a map of
the sadscape, understanding your
feelings, relationships.
Then there's loss and changeOkay and self-compassion, and
then hope and moving forward.
I just love that structure.
It feels more like a journeythan just a list of things to
make you cry.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Right, right.
And that journey starts withself-awareness.
Right the understanding yourfeelings prompts.
They really emphasize gettingintimate with your sadness.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
There's one I think
it asks how does sadness feel to
me?
Like a weight, like a fog,something else?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Oh yeah, I love that
one.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
It's not just
labeling the emotion.
It's about actually feeling itin your body, finding that
metaphor that captures itsessence for you.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Yeah, it's like
they're saying hey, get curious
about this sadness.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
It's not just a bad
feeling.
It's like a messenger.
It has a story to tell.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Right.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
And there's another
prompt ask you how you care for
those feelings, and I thinkthat's so important.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
It is yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Because it's easy to
just beat yourself up when you
feel sad.
But what if you treatedyourself like a friend who's
going through a rough time?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
It's such a powerful
shift in perspective and that
ties into the wholeself-compassion piece, which
we'll get into a little bitlater, but even at this early
stage there's that gentle nudgetowards self-kindness.
I think that's crucial.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
It really is Okay.
Let's move on to relationshipsbecause, let's face it, those
can bring up a lot of sadness.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
There's a prompt in
here about writing to someone
you miss deeply things you wishyou could tell them.
Gosh, I'm already getting tearyeyed just thinking about it.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah that one hit me
hard too.
It really highlights howjournaling is such a safe space
to express emotions, especiallythe emotions that might be
difficult or even impossible toyou know convey in real life.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Sometimes just that
act of expression, even if it's
just on paper, can be socathartic.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Like you're giving
yourself permission to just feel
those feelings fully, withoutjudgment, and maybe in that
process you discover somethingnew about yourself or about that
relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Exactly, and some of
these prompts in this category.
They encourage you to dig evendeeper into those relationship
dynamics.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Oh, interesting.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Like there's one
about forgiveness, not
necessarily for the other person, but for yourself.
Because, let's be honest,holding on to that anger, that
resentment, it just hurts usmore than anyone else.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
That's so true.
All right, now for the heavystuff Loss and change.
This is a category thateveryone can relate to.
The prompt that really stoodout to me asked about something
you've lost recently A person, aplace, even a part of yourself.
It's a reminder that loss comesin many forms.
It touches every part of ourlives.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
What I think is
brilliant about that prompt is
it doesn't shy away from thepain of loss, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
It invites you to
lean into those feelings, to
explore that emptiness that'sleft behind, maybe even discover
a new appreciation for what youhad.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
It's acknowledging
the full spectrum of emotions
that come with loss, not justthe sadness, the anger, the
confusion, maybe even a sense ofgratitude for having that
connection at all.
Right, and you know what'sinteresting, even though loss is
often seen as such a negativeexperience, it can be a catalyst
for really profound growth.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Absolutely.
Think about the caterpillarbecoming a butterfly.
You know it's death and rebirth.
It's through that process thatsomething beautiful emerges.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Wow, that's a
powerful analogy.
It makes me think about howjournaling can help us work
through those transitions inlife and find meaning in all the
chaos.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, reframing loss
not as an ending but as a
transformation.
And sometimes thosetransformations, they lead us to
unexpected and beautifuldestinations.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So we've explored the
depths of sadness, the
complexities of relationships,the transformative power of loss
.
But where do we go from here?
How do we find the strength tomove forward?
That's what we'll be exploringin part two of our deep dive
into these 50 sad journalprompts.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
You know, it's really
striking me as we keep looking
at these prompts, that they'renot just about processing
sadness.
It's about understandingourselves better.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Yeah, it's like
holding up this mirror.
To our inner world, exactlyRevealing those hidden corners
that we try to avoid.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
And sometimes the
things we find there.
They can be surprising, evenunsettling.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Oh, absolutely.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
But through that
process of exploration.
That's how we heal.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
One that really
resonated with me asks if my
sadness could speak, what wouldit say?
It's so powerful, you know, tothink about giving it a voice.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I love that Like
you're engaging in a dialogue.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
With your sadness.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yeah, and so just
trying to make it go away.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Push it down Exactly
and through that dialogue maybe
you discover something, amessage, a lesson.
It might even have a gift foryou, A gift from sadness.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I know.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Sounds
counterintuitive, but I think
there's truth to that.
Sometimes our greatestchallenges can lead to these big
breakthroughs.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Absolutely, and these
prompts, they encourage us to
look at sadness differently, notas an enemy, but maybe as an
ally, a guide on thisself-discovery journey.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, let's talk
about the self-compassion
category, because I think thisis where things get really
interesting.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I think so too.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
These prompts remind
us that it's okay to not be
perfect.
It's okay to make mistakes.
You deserve kindness andunderstanding, especially from
yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
There's this.
One asks what would I say to afriend who is feeling how I feel
right now?
Such a good way to look at itfrom a different angle.
It forces you to step outsideof that self-criticism and tap
into the empathy that we oftenhave more for other people.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
It's like offering
that same compassion and
understanding to yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Right.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
And that can be so
healing.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's a reminder that
we are worthy of love and
kindness, even when we'restruggling.
Sometimes, the most lovingthing is just acknowledging our
pain and being gentle withourselves.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
There are so many
that encourage us to use our
senses too.
Oh, yeah, like there's one thatasks you to describe the taste,
the smell, even the texture ofyour sadness.
Such a different way toapproach it, don't you think?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
It is, yeah, because
it takes you out of your head
and into your body Exactly, andthat's so important.
When it comes to processingemotions, we often try to
intellectualize everything,right, but sometimes the best
way to understand them is tojust feel them fully in your
physical being.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, like you're
giving your sadness a physical
form, a shape, a texture.
Yeah, and maybe in that processyou release some of that pent
up energy.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
And by engaging with
those senses you can also access
a deeper level of creativityand insight.
Think about poets, artists.
They use sensory language toevoke those emotions, to create
those powerful images.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
It's like these
prompts are encouraging us to
become artists, artists of ourown emotions, using words, using
images, expressing what we feelin a way that feels real and
you know what I find sofascinating.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Even though these
prompts are all about sadness,
they can lead you to a place ofjoy and gratitude.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I'm curious about
that.
How can sadness lead to joy?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
well, when you allow
yourself to feel everything, all
your emotions, without judgingyourself, without resisting, you
open yourself up to a greatercapacity for experience.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Like expanding your
emotional range.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Exactly and when you
can hold both the sadness and
the joy.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
The darkness and the
light.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, you create this
balance in your inner world.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Harmony.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
And from that place.
That's where you can trulyappreciate the beauty of life,
even in the middle of all thechallenges.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
It's like building up
your resilience, your ability
to go through hard things andcome out stronger Exactly so.
We've talked about cultivatingself-compassion, engaging with
our senses and finding the giftsthat are hidden within sadness.
But how do we actually putthose things into practice?
How do we use this newawareness to actually create a
more fulfilling, joyful life?
(08:36):
That's what we're going to beexploring in the last part of
our deep dive into these 50 sadjournal prompts.
All right, so we've gone deepinto sadness, explored how it
connects to us and the worldaround us, and even seen how it
can have hidden gifts.
But how do we move fromunderstanding sadness to, I
don't know, actually using it tomake a change?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Yeah, that's the real
question, the hope and moving
forward section.
That's where the rubber meetsthe road.
I think there's this one promptthat asks what small step can I
take today to honor my sadnessbut also move towards a brighter
future?
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Oh, I like that.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
It acknowledges that
you need to allow yourself to
feel sad, but it also empowersyou to do something about it.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
It's like, hey, it's
okay to feel this, but you're
not stuck.
Yeah, there's a way out, andeven the smallest steps matter.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Exactly.
And when it feels like too much, you know, to even think about
doing something.
There's another prompt thatsays what's one thing I'm
looking forward to?
Oh yeah, and how does it remindme that sadness is temporary?
Focusing on that little bit ofhope.
Even if it seems small, it canbe so powerful.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
It's like changing
your perspective from what's
wrong to what's right.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
From what's missing
to what's still possible.
It's really striking me howthese prompts are all about
taking control of your ownhealing.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
It is.
It's not about waiting forsomeone else to fix things.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Or for things to just
magically get better.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Right.
It's about realizing you havethe power to choose how you
respond.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
And create a better
life for yourself.
There's one that asks what aresome things that make me happy?
How can I have more of those inmy life?
It's not about ignoring thesadness.
It's about actively finding joyat the same time.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Yeah, it's about
finding those little sparks of
joy and, I don't know, helpingthem grow, and that's where
being creative can really help.
Oh, how so?
There's a prompt that talksabout exploring your sadness
through art, music, dance,anything that feels right for
you.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
That makes so much
sense.
I've always found that,channeling my emotions into
something creative, it can be sofreeing.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Like writing or
painting.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Even just singing my
heart out.
It can be so cathartic.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
It's like you're
turning those heavy emotions
into something beautiful,something that has meaning, and
by doing that, you're not justhealing yourself, you might even
be inspiring other people.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
So, as we wrap up
this deep dive, I feel hopeful.
Sadness isn't something to beafraid of.
It can teach us and help usgrow.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
It's like we've been
given this map to understand our
emotions with all the ups anddowns, and we have a compass to
point us towards somethingbetter.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
And, most importantly
, we've been reminded that
everyone feels sad.
By facing it with courage andcompassion, we can heal and
create a world where everyoneunderstands each other better.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
So, to everyone
listening, grab a journal, pick
a prompt and start writing.
You might be surprised what youlearn and how strong you really
are.
Thanks for joining us on thisdeep dive.