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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever feel like you
and your daughter are well
living in different worlds.
You know like you're bothwriting chapters of the same
story but haven't quite figuredout how to bring those
narratives together.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh, absolutely.
I think every parent feels thatway at some point.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Yeah, it's like a
universal struggle, right?
So today we're diving into aunique approach to bridging that
gap mother-daughter journaling.
And just to be clear, we're nottalking about keeping separate
diaries here.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Right, it's more
about using prompts, you know,
those little conversationstarters, to really spark some
meaningful dialogue.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Exactly, and that's
what really intrigued me about
this blog post we found onLestallion, you know the journal
company.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Oh yeah, they have
some cool stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Right, so the post is
called 50 Mother-Daughter
Journal Prompts and I have toadmit I was a little skeptical
at first.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Like could something
as simple as a list of prompts
actually make a difference.
Well, and the blog post reallydigs into this the beauty of
this approach is that itencourages intentional
communication.
We're not just jotting downdaily events, but really using
those prompts as springboardsfor deeper conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
That's a good way to
put it because, let's be honest,
those conversations might nothappen organically in the
day-to-day chaos of life.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Right, exactly.
And when you're both respondingto the same prompt, you get
this incredible glimpse intoeach other's perspectives.
It's like building a bridgebetween your inner worlds, one
prompt at a time.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I love that visual
and it's so important,
especially as kids get older, tocreate that safe space for
vulnerability.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Absolutely, and the
article emphasizes that.
This isn't about perfectgrammar or, you know, writing a
prize-winning essay.
It's about authentic expression.
However, that looks for you andyour daughter.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Totally.
It's about capturing those raw,honest thoughts and feelings.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
And the prompts
themselves are categorized in a
way that encourages differenttypes of conversations.
Take the memories andreflections category, for
example.
Imagine revisiting a cherishedchildhood memory together, but
this time you're writing aboutit from both of your unique
perspectives.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Oh, wow, that's
fascinating.
Just thinking about it, Iremember a time when my daughter
and I were reminiscing about afamily trip we took to the beach
.
She vividly remembered buildingsandcastles with her dad and I
was like really, Because all Ican remember is you collecting
seashells for hours.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Huh, that is so
perfect, though, right Same trip
, completely differentexperiences, and it highlights
the beauty of this journalingpractice.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
You get to see those
different lenses, those
different perspectives, even onshared memories.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
And in doing so you
gain this deeper understanding
of each other.
You start to see the world, oreven just those shared
experiences, through eachother's eyes.
It's pretty powerful.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
And it doesn't have
to be, you know, just the
sunshine and rainbows memorieseither.
Right the challenges and growthcategory, that one really stood
out to me.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Oh for sure it's
tempting to shy away from the
tough stuff, but let's be real.
Every relationship has itsbumps in the road, and
acknowledging those workingthrough them together, that's
where the real growth happens.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Totally agree.
But it can be so hard to evenstart those conversations
sometimes.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You're telling me.
I remember this one time mydaughter was having a really
rough time with a friend and myinstinct was to jump in with
advice.
You know, try to fix it.
But then I realized that's thelast thing she wants from her
mom.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh, 100 percent Been
there.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Right.
So instead I suggested we trysomething different.
We each took our journals and Isuggested we each write about a
time when we felt left out ormisunderstood.
Yeah, you know, just tap intothat feeling of being on the
outside.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Wow, that's brilliant
because it creates that sense
of shared experience, thatempathy, without her feeling
pressured to share the detailsif she's not ready.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Exactly, and the
funny thing is, just by me
sharing my own story first, itkind of opened the door for her.
She actually did end up writingabout what was going on with
her friend and it led to thiswhole conversation about
friendship dynamics and how tocope with those tricky
situations.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
It's amazing how
those little journal prompts can
unlock these biggerconversations, these deeper
layers of connection.
And, you know, thinking aboutthe future can be just as
powerful.
Right, the hopes and dreamscategory really piqued my
interest.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Oh, I love that
category.
It's such a great reminder todream big, not just for
ourselves, but for our daughterstoo.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
And to support each
other's aspirations, whatever
they may be.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I'm thinking about
that prompt.
If fear were no obstacle, whatwould you pursue with your
daughter?
That one really makes you thinkoutside the box doesn't it?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Suddenly?
You're not just planning thenext grocery run.
You're like should we backpackthrough Europe, write a novel
together?
The possibilities are endless.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
See, now you're
speaking my language.
But in all seriousness, even ifthose dreams never fully
materialize, the act of dreamingtogether, of envisioning that
shared future, that's whatstrengthens the bond, it
reinforces that belief in eachother's potential.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
A hundred percent
agree.
And you know, all this talkabout dreams and aspirations
always gets me thinking aboutgratitude.
What role does gratitude playin all of this, in this
mother-daughter journalingpractice?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
role does gratitude
play in all of this, in this
mother-daughter journalingpractice?
Such a good point because it'sso easy to get caught up in the
daily grind, to focus on what'slacking rather than what we're
grateful for Right, and luckilythe gratitude and appreciation
category in this blog post ischock full of prompts that
really nurture that sense ofthankfulness.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
It's about shifting
that focus, encouraging mothers
and daughters to recognize andappreciate all the wonderful
things they bring to eachother's lives, both big and
small.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
It's those little
things you know, like that
prompt.
What's one quality you admirein your daughter.
It can be such a powerfulreminder of the incredible young
woman she's becoming.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Absolutely, and it
works both ways.
Imagine your daughterresponding to a prompt like
what's something your mom doesthat makes you feel loved.
Those words written down becomethese treasured keepsakes.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
It's like building a
treasure chest of love and
appreciation, one journal entryat a time and, let's be honest,
we could all use a little moreof that in our lives.
But let's be realistic, for asecond.
Life gets busy, schedules getcrazy.
How can we actually incorporatethis you know, this whole
mother-daughter journaling thinginto our already jam-packed
lives?
Speaker 2 (06:07):
It's true.
We can't expect to, you know,block off an hour every evening
for deep journaling sessions.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Right, life gets in
the way it always does, but I
think the beauty of this is thatit doesn't have to be this huge
time commitment.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Exactly, even just a
few minutes, a couple of times a
week.
It's about quality overquantity, wouldn't you say?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Absolutely.
It's about making it a ritual,something you both look forward
to, even if it's just for a fewstolen moments in the chaos of
the day.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I love that Stolen
moments of connection.
And speaking of connection, youknow what really struck me
about this blog post.
It ends on such a powerful noteconnection.
You know what really struck meabout this blog post?
It ends on such a powerful note.
It asks how do you envisionyour relationship evolving with
your daughter in the years tocome?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
It really makes you
pause, doesn't it?
Because it forces you to thinklong term, beyond the day-to-day
.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
You know the homework
battles and the teenage angst.
It's about the bigger picture,right?
What kind of relationship areyou building for the long haul?
And it's a good reminder thatthese relationships, they're not
static.
They're constantly evolving.
Constantly, which is beautifulbut also, you know, a little
scary, because we don't have allthe answers and we don't need
to.
I think that's the beauty ofthis whole journaling practice
it's not about forcing outcomes,it's about creating space for
(07:20):
those authentic connections tounfold naturally.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
So well said, and
this blog post, with its 50
prompts, it's like it gives youa starting point, a framework.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Like a compass.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Exactly Guiding you
towards deeper connection and
understanding.
So for those listening who areready to embark on their own
journaling adventure, definitelycheck out the full list of
prompts on listallioncom.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
It's a treasure trove
of conversation starters.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
We want to hear from
you.
Yes, tell us about yourexperiences.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
What resonated with
you?
Did anything surprise you?
Share your stories with us onsocial media.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Because, just like
journaling, can open up those
lines of communication betweenmothers and daughters, sharing
our experiences with others.
Well, it helps us connect andlearn and grow as well.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Couldn't dream more.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Well, on that note,
thanks for joining us on this
deep dive into the world ofmother-daughter journaling.
Until next time.