Another Reason I LOVE Rejection!

Rejection might be the most valuable gift you're not embracing. In this refreshing exploration of why being turned down is actually a powerful catalyst for success, we challenge the conventional fear of rejection that holds so many of us back from our greatest potential.

Have you ever noticed that successful people often share one common trait? They move quickly. While others are deliberating whether the glass is half-full or half-empty, they've already sold it. This episode unpacks why speed of action—not perfection or careful planning—is frequently the determining factor in achieving your goals. I share my personal philosophy: "Why would I go slowly? Time is running out." Rather than creating anxiety, this perspective brings freedom and fearlessness.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Let it Be Easy with Susie Moore.
If you've been listening tothis podcast for any length of
time or if you're inself-coaching society and you've
done my rejection challengeswith me, maybe you've read my
articles around rejection orhear me speak on other podcasts

(00:24):
about it.
I love this topic and today Ihave a fresh thought around it.
Another reason I love rejectionright, I joke that I'm
rejection proof.
But is it a joke?
I don't know.
Try and reject me.
Okay, here is my thought.
I do have this feeling.
It's a powerful, positivefeeling of momentum inside of me

(00:48):
that I just go for it.
I spot an opportunity orsomething sparks my curiosity,
or I have an idea and I act.
I swear that so much of successis just speed.
When someone else is stillthinking about it, I've already
done it.
You know, there's a joke that Iheard.
It's like, while you guys werearguing if the glass was half

(01:08):
full or half empty, I sold itRight.
It's like go, go, go.
Why would I go slowly?
I think this so often.
Why would I go slowly?
Like time is running out?
I don't mean to be like, oh,your life is short, hurry.
You know, feel stressed now.
No, this allows me to feel theopposite really free, really
uninhibited, really fearless insome ways.

(01:30):
Right, time is running out.
We don't have to go slowly.
Why would we?
It doesn't make any sense to me.
And if you've got big dreams andbig plans and I know you have
because you're here here'sanother reason a rejection is
good, okay, because if you'regoing for it, whatever your it
is maybe you're online dating,maybe you're trying for a

(01:51):
completely different career,maybe you're seeking out new
business opportunities thereason you want to do a lot of
this right is, you know, reallylean towards volume is not only
does success create, does volumecreate the conditions where
success can take place, butvolume counts, right, just going
for it.
Going for it matters.

(02:11):
And if you are rejected whichyou will be, no matter who you
are.
In fact, I was just listeningto someone who's a billionaire
and she said that her feelingsare really hurt if her friends
don't invite her to certainevents where she can speak.
She's like sometimes I stillget that feeling of like, well,
I'm not chosen, this woman who'sa billionaire, who's really

(02:32):
well known.
So this is it, my friends.
This is the refreshing, new,different thought about
rejection that I just love.
Okay, because if you're goingfor it, if you're taking risks,
if you're forging ahead, youwill be rejected probably
hopefully a lot, because this isalso evidence that you are
taking action right.
It means that you're brave, butrejection right.

(02:55):
Another reason it's so great isthat you know what's not for
you.
Isn't that great to know now?
Isn't that so great to know now?
Sometimes, I think the bestexample of reviewing this is
actually in a relationship.
So I can tell you that no oneever says, no one ever said, no
one ever.

(03:15):
No one ever says you know, Ijust that relationship that
didn't work out.
I wish I gave it six moremonths.
You know that relationship thatwas toxic or unhealthy.
I just, I wish, I just, I wishI just stuck it out for six more
months.
I wish I could have caused somemore pain.
I wish I could have been morestressed out If someone cut you
loose and didn't want to dateyou anymore because the
relationship was a mess.

(03:36):
Isn't that a gift?
Isn't that like a huge thankyou?
I don't go slowly because I knowthe temporary nature of our
lifetime and I want to fulfillmy potential while I'm here.
As a result, I take a lot ofaction.
The volume is high andtherefore, just by nature of

(03:56):
numbers, my rejection rate isalso high.
But when it comes to gettingeverything I want to be, do or
have, I would say I'm prettycontent.
A lot of things have happenedjust because I'm willing to go
for it.
And those times that I've beenrejected, someone said no, I
didn't get an opportunity, Ididn't get a meeting, I wasn't

(04:16):
chosen.
It's great for me to knowsooner, isn't it?
I'm having this conversationwith a friend.
Once she was figuring out likeher relationship it wasn't a
great one and I was like, look,it's great that you know this
now versus you know like, 10years married, right, good to
know now.
This information is wonderful.
The sooner the better.

(04:40):
So if I put myself forward forsomething and they say no, thank
you, it's great.
It frees me up, it saves metime and make sure, it ensures
that my focus and attention goin the directions where they are
wanted, where I can make animpact and a difference.
If this won't help you loverejection, I don't know what can
.
My friends, what can you go fortoday and celebrate, even when,
and you will, if you go for alot, get a no Until tomorrow, my

(05:06):
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