Let's Talk About Death with Benny and Dr. Nick

Let's Talk About Death with Benny and Dr. Nick

From a fourth-generation funeral home come the voices of youthful identical twins who fearlessly tackle a subject often considered taboo: Death. Following in his funeral director father's footsteps, Benny Capaul brings a modern perspective to the profession, while Dr. Nick Capaul, a psychologist, offers insights into helping people cope with loss. With a shared upbringing surrounded by the funeral profession, they’ve gained extensive experience and knowledge. Their distinct perspectives and humor blend effortlessly, making discussions about funeral planning, grieving, and death truly engaging and entertaining. In their words, "If you're not talking about death, you're not living." Get in on the conversation by emailing your questions to: letstalkaboutdeathpod@gmail.com Check Out the Let's Talk About Death doc FREE on TUBI: https://tubitv.com/tv-shows/200094100/s01-e03-let-s-talk-about-death If you like what you're hearing and you want to help support the podcast, check out: www.buymeacoffee.com/letstalkaboutdeath Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

August 13, 2025 53 mins

In this emotional episode, Dr. Nick and Benny talk with Kyla Thomson, mother of Bella Brave, about life after the loss of her 10-year-old daughter. Kyla shares her journey of grief, the challenges of navigating such a profound loss, and how she is dedicated to continuing Bella’s legacy. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about love, resilience, and honoring a child’s memory.


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Dr. Nick and Benny react to the shocking new HBO Max series The Mortician. Benny breaks down the wild story and shares his thoughts on it from a funeral professional’s perspective. ***Spoiler Alert***

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May 7, 2025 28 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick explore how funeral professionals and grief specialists can help people realize that "death is beautiful", even in the depths of loss. Dr. Nick introduces the concept of the "installation of hope"—the moment when someone begins to believe in life after grief—and analyzes how specialists can do better at guiding others toward that light.

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April 9, 2025 27 mins

Benny hosts solo and welcomes guest Jennifer Newberg, who shares her story of becoming a widow after her husband unexpectedly passed away during a vacation. She opens up about the shock, grief, and how that life-altering moment inspired her to create a retreat to support other widows through their healing journeys.


Learn more about the retreat at: itslifey.com/widow-retreat


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Dr. Nick and Benny discuss the importance of personal boundaries at funerals and why not everyone wants to be hugged. They explore the need to “read the room” before offering physical comfort and share tips on how to support grieving individuals in a way that respects their space. Tune in for an insightful conversation on navigating grief with sensitivity.

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January 15, 2025 29 mins
Cappaulli joins Benny to chat about their bands The Boy Detective and Dad's On Couches.  They discuss how it helps prevent burn out from happening, while working in the funeral profession.

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December 25, 2024 30 mins
Benny, Dr. Nick and producer Kelley have some fun playing a game of Christmas trivia. Season's greetings to all!

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Dr. Nick and Benny welcome Bill Ratner, one of America’s best-known voice actors, a published writer, poet, storyteller, and performance artist, who opens up about how experiencing significant death in his life inspired him to find solace and expression through writing poetry books. Explore the connection between grief and creativity in this heartfelt discussion. 

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Exciting news! The Let's Talk About Death doc is now streaming FREE on Tubi. Get an inside look at the Capaul's story operating a fourth-generation funeral home, striving to break the stigma surrounding discussions on death.  Tune in now and enjoy Let's Talk About Death from the comfort of your home!

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October 30, 2024 32 mins
Benny and Cappaulli discuss the nuances of responding to death announcements on social media. They offer tips for showing genuine support, choosing words carefully, and avoiding emojis that might come across as insensitive.

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October 16, 2024 37 mins
Benny, Dr. Nick and Producer Kelley continue the conversation about common myths surrounding funerals and burial practices. From common misconceptions to widespread misunderstandings, they debunk popular myths and provide clarity on what really happens in the funeral profession.

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September 25, 2024 34 mins
Benny, Dr. Nick and Producer Kelley dive into common myths surrounding funerals and burial practices. From common misconceptions to widespread misunderstandings, they debunk popular myths and provide clarity on what really happens in the funeral profession. 

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Benny chats with Dr. Nick about his new plan to incorporate social work into his role as a funeral professional. He explains the motivations behind it and his goals for making a positive impact in the community.

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July 24, 2024 22 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick discuss the emotional journey of letting go of pets, offering guidance, support, and personal stories to help listeners navigate this difficult process.

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July 3, 2024 30 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick explore the complexities of neurodivergent grief.

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Big Brother Cappaulli shares an update on his second year of studying mortuary science. Tune in to hear all the brothers come together for some laughs about "grief bones" and an engaging conversation.

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May 22, 2024 23 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick delve into the profound question: who is a funeral truly for? Join them as they examine its significance for both the living and the deceased.

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Benny and Dr. Nick welcome special guest Anna Adams, the founder of the International Doula Life Movement, to discuss the Tree of Life Conference the twins will be speaking at and and explore the topic of becoming a death doula.

Register Now to see the Capaul twins speak at the conference: https://www.internationaldoulalifemovement.com/tree-of-life-conference/

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April 10, 2024 24 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick discuss the burning question...is it ok to laugh at a funeral?

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March 13, 2024 25 mins
Benny and Dr. Nick explore Freud's Eros and Thanatos theory, suggesting that human behavior is driven by life and death instincts. Join us as we unravel the fascinating intricacies of these primal drives and their profound impact on the human psyche.

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