Let's Talk About It

Let's Talk About It

Patrisha McLean talks with the real experts of domestic abuse--survivors. Patrisha survived a 29 year abusive marriage to a celebrity, and CEO and Founder of Finding Our Voices https://findingourvoices.net/ Music is by Jackie McLean Strack, the host’s daughter.

Episodes

July 11, 2025 57 mins

GUEST: Vicki Murray, owner of Laugh Loud Smile Big bakery

Vicki talks about what kept her silent and what it like to break her silence over 15 years of abuse including strangulation by the man she started dating at 17 years old. 

TOPICS DISCUSSED: Domestic violence strangulation, the abuser calling you crazy, being told by the next wife that he did the same thing to her  


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Guests: Agnes Brackett

Agnes discusses trying to keep her daughter safe from her gun-toting, fire-starting husband.   

Topics discussed: Child Abuse, Guns, Failure of Justice System

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Guests: Darcia and Dezarae – Darcia and Dezarae discuss how the “sweetest man in the world” in prison turned evil upon release.

Topics Discussed: Failed judicial system, strangulation, impact on children

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February 7, 2025 58 mins

Guest: Lilly DesRoberts – Lilly, a 20-year-old UNE Biddeford pre-dental student,  talks about how cyber-stalking and suicide threats by her  boyfriend from high school plagued her first year of college. 

Topics: Life360 cyber-stalking, suicide threats, alcohol, failure of judicial court system 

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Guest: Kerry Smith – Kerry talks about the preventable DV murders of mother and daughter Jennie and Lisa Bailey in Bath. 

Topics include: Police response to DV, Veteran’s Administration response to DV, systemic changes needed

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November 15, 2024 57 mins

Guests: Michelle, Kerry, Amber – Michelle, a communications executive talks about an early marriage that almost killed her. Kerry and Amber talk about their best friends who were murdered by DV this year. 

Topics include: Financial abuse, guns, family impact of abuse  

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November 8, 2024 58 mins

Guest: Melody – Melody, a Mi’kmaq native, realized when she connected with Finding Our Voices that domestic abuse is at the root of her substance abuse as well as incarceration. She talks here about how she transcended both to become a wellbriety coach and published author. 

Topics include: Incarceration, Substance Abuse, Native culture

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October 24, 2024 58 mins

Guests: Anonymous and Jennifer. 

Two-parter about how religion helped to trap both women in domestic abuse and made it harder to get out.

“Anonymous" talks about the Cantor who refused to give her a Get for a divorce, and Jennifer talks about the pious-acting husband who was anything but.

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October 17, 2024 57 mins

Guest: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen. 

Shelly is the author of the memoir Beautiful Ashes: A quest to uncover family secrets and survive the truth. https://www.beautifulashesmemoir.com/books/

Topics: Child abuse, Siblings, Arson

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October 10, 2024 57 mins

Guest: Mary Kamradt, Chief of Staff of Finding Our Voices

Her home was destroyed and dog killed in a fire set by her ex, and her family sided with him.

Topics: Sexual abuse, arson, estrangement from children and grandchildren. 

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September 26, 2024 57 mins

Guests: Ashley and Dezarae.

Ashley talks about how overseas deployments made him increasingly abusive at home. Dezarae talks about being terrorized by a girlfriend. 

Topics: The military, same sex abuse, impact on children

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September 12, 2024 58 mins

Guest: Caroline McKuen

The director of the Presbyterian Advocacy Council talks about her church’s enabling of criminal, financial, and sexual abuse 

Topics: Religious abuse, financial abuse, sexual abuse.

https://www.presbyterianadvocacycoalition.org

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August 22, 2024 58 mins

Guests: Courtney Davis and Jess 

Jess introduced her best friend to him, then grew alarmed as he steadily turned Courtney into a shell of herself

Topics: Sexual abuse, financial abuse, what to do when you are worried for a loved one

Short film on Courtney here.

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Guests: Lora and Jeannine Lauber Oren

A Maine nurse talks about financial abuse continuing with the divorce. Then Jeannine Lauber Oren of Finding Our Voices talks about the Maine law she helped get through to help mitigate financial abuse.

Topics: Financial abuse, sexual abuse, divorce hell

More about Jeannine is here. The law Jeannine helped to pass is here:  H.P. 553 - L.D. 748 law, "An Act To Provide Relief to Survivors of Eco...

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August 9, 2024 57 mins

Guest: Anonymous

What it was like having a childhood that on the outside seemed golden and glamourous, and on the inside was a “living hell”.

Topics: Narcissistic fathers, living a lie, child abuse 

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July 19, 2024 41 mins

Guest: Anonymous

He strangled her and forced her at gunpoint to take a bottle of sleeping pills, and is out on bail pending trial! 

Topics: Strangulation, perpetrator right trumping victim rights, bail reform 

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July 12, 2024 58 mins

Guest: Jolene

No accountability from the courts and police make him scarier and scarier, to her, her children, the police and the public. 

Topics: Criminal court reform, good ol’ boy network, the folly of Batterer’s Intervention 

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April 23, 2024 58 mins

Guests: Jolene, Jennifer, Tiffany, Gina, Sarah, and Mary

Six survivors talk about how holidays are the scariest and most miserable times of the year.

Topics:  The role alcohol plays in abuse, being let down by the court system, child abuse



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April 23, 2024 58 mins

Guest: Randall Liberty,  Maine's Commissioner of Corrections

Randy talks with Patrisha about the impact his father’s violence toward his mother had on him and his brothers. 

Topics: Sons and fathers, sons and mothers, the importance of prison for violent abusers



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Guest: Amy 

Maine officials worked overtime to give full custody of her baby granddaughter to a two-time domestic violence felon. 

Topics: Family court dysfunction, child abuse, grandparental rights 



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