December 7, 2025 • 66 mins
A love story with sharp corners lands in our inbox: a 28-year-old mom hires a private investigator to track child support, catches feelings, and then discovers he once dated her mother and is tied to her best friend’s pregnancy. What starts as comfort and chemistry turns into a tangle of secrets, court papers, and a rushed engagement that raises more questions than it answers.
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SPEAKER_00 (05:21):
How's everybody doing out there?
Y'all good?
Hopefully everybody's having agood day.
No, I am.
Hope you guys had a goodholiday.
I know I did.
(05:41):
Want to welcome y'all to theshow.
The show is called Let's TalkAbout It.
I am the icon.
Bit of a weird letter today, butnot uh this letter.
Made some sense with any gate,it didn't.
(06:03):
I don't know what the hell'sgoing on here.
So we will just take it as it isand go with it like that.
So I'm currently streaming ontwo platforms, Twitch TV and
BuzzCast.
So hopefully my audience onTwitch TV can hear me.
If not, let me know.
Any event.
(06:25):
Had a long week, long workfulweek.
Still ain't won a lottery yet.
I keep calling the lotterypeople and they keep getting my
damn ticket wrong.
Oh my gosh, this shit is gettingridiculous, isn't it?
I mean, prices going upeverywhere.
You know, you can't make anhonest living.
(06:47):
Seems like the more money youmake, the more problems you get
with the money.
I'd be damned.
I mean, I don't know how it isin other countries, but Jesus.
Any event, we have a lettercoming from Miss Rachel.
She is from Arkansas, she's 28,and she is currently what I
(07:08):
thought might have been somekind of sick fetish, but as we
get to the letter, we will seethat maybe it is, maybe it
isn't.
Who knows?
So without further ado, let'sget into the show.
Let's do this.
(07:29):
This letter is entitled DatingMy Mom's Ex, which is what I
didn't want to call it, butthat's what she called it.
Because as I get to the ending,you'll just figure out what I
wanted to call it.
Because clearly this ain't theshit I wanted to call it.
But, anyways, this letter's kindof jumping everywhere, it's kind
of jumping all over.
It's not me, it's Miss Rachelthat she wrote.
(07:51):
And Miss Rachel, if you'relistening, yeah, we're gonna try
to get to this letter the bestway we possibly can.
So, without further ado, oh holdon here.
Crap.
Jesus.
This stuff on my desk.
Let's get into it.
Okay, so here we go.
(08:13):
Hi Khan, my name is Rachel.
I'm 28 from Arkansas.
I'm a single parent of athree-year-old daughter.
I currently move to Birmingham,Alabama, where it seems that
where it seems that it has beengoing well up until a man I met,
a man I met that is 40 yearsold.
(08:33):
And yes, I know there's a 20years age difference, I'm not
judging.
So he's kind, he's gentle, andit seems that he is just what
I've been looking for in a man.
Let's be honest, my taste in menhaven't been the best, so I
decided to upgrade my standardas well as maturity.
SPEAKER_02 (08:48):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (08:49):
The father of my daughter is a bad boy, and
that's what I like.
Until you started verballyabusing, um until you started
being getting verbally abusive.
We were together for threeyears, and I found out that it's
just not just not he's just notthe one for me.
He doesn't see his daughter andis currently on a child support
order.
He's currently living inHuntsville, Alabama.
(09:10):
That's kinda odd.
He lives in Huntsville, Alabama.
You're in Birmingham, Alabama.
Okay, let's keep it moving.
He has a new girlfriend, so yes,I decided to stay close to him
because he will take care of hisdaughter, and I want to know his
every move.
So I hired a PI in hopes ofunderstanding what he is doing
because I want what is owed toour daughter, Bailey, because
(09:32):
it's not fair.
Okay.
Why should I endure in all thesechild care expenses when I
thought we would be a family andhave a good life together?
But I will continue to make suremy daughter is taken care of by
any means necessary.
But this is not the reason forthe letter.
The reason is I met a guy whowas currently my PI, and it
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seems that we've been spending agreat deal of time together.
And I must say it's he's quite agentleman.
Oh Jesus, here we go.
Okay.
One night I was feeling downabout my whole situation, and I
decided to go to his office andliterally poured my heart out to
him.
He listened and he understoodwhat I was going through.
Did he though?
Did he?
I don't know.
Did he?
(10:16):
He said there are good days andthat there are bad days.
Which one am I?
That is kind of the corniestshit I've ever heard.
Which days are you?
Good days or bad days?
Whatever, let's keep it going.
So I told him, All my days arebad, because I have a child that
doesn't know her father, and mytastes in men are just horrible.
So we said that there are thereare brighter days ahead, and
(10:38):
that sometimes you have to lookfor what's right in front of
you.
That ain't the corniest shitI've ever heard, but that might
have worked.
So I did.
And we started to make out.
Well, that was quick, wasn't it?
That was quick.
So I did.
We started to make out before Iknew it we were having sex in
his office on the couch.
I did not know that this iswhere he lives as well, but it's
okay.
Really?
You didn't know?
(10:59):
Really?
God, I really like knowing moreabout this guy.
I think he's the one for me, andwe started dating, and he's
really interested me so muchthat I started to work
part-time, part-time night inhis office while he's doing out
doing his PI work.
Okay, let me stop right here.
You started you were workingpart-time nights in his office
while he's out doing PI work.
(11:21):
Do PIs even have a nighttimesecretary?
I don't know.
I've never heard of that.
I knew a guy that was a PI, butI don't know if he lived in his
office.
But awkward, I don't know.
Whatever, let's keep this thinggoing.
So I thought I would organizesome files and I came across
some files and some photos,which I was confused about.
(11:41):
The picture was of my mother anda file that I'm assuming that
she used to do some PI work.
I didn't say anything about ituntil I talked to my mom, which
I was careful not to tell herwho I was dating, or that I had
seen the file.
As it turns out, the guy I wasdating also dated my mom back in
the day.
Jesus Lord, this isn't a tingleshit.
(12:03):
Um okay.
She told me that they dated fora few years and that it ended
badly because at that time hewasn't a PI.
In my mom's opinion, he was acon man, fake ass wannabe, that
easy that could easy sweet talkany woman into what he wanted.
I don't see that going anywhere,but okay.
So I asked her what happened.
How did they meet?
(12:24):
She said he was working at a cardealership when they met.
He dressed like he owned theplace, portrayed himself as an
owner, but later found out hewas nothing more than a
sanitation worker.
And he was dressed like thatbecause he had just come from
court.
Jesus, oh whatever.
You know, these letters as Iread them, you know, when I
first read them, I just can't Ican't understand or fathom the
(12:46):
the the things that peoplewrite.
And I'm really gonna try to givemy honest opinion about this,
but I don't know what I can sayor what I can do because my
opinions are full of sarcasm andfull of just sarcasm.
So here we go.
Okay, so we're okay.
Uh-huh.
(13:06):
So I asked her what happened.
She said okay, I read that part.
Okay.
But she didn't care.
She thought he was a one, butshe told me how he said he
didn't have kids, but laterfound out that he has four kids,
and that was the reason for himgoing to court because his child
support is tearing his ass up,as well as it should be.
As well as it should be.
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And she said that he has oneaway, which is number five,
because wait for it, the fifthone is the daughter of my mom's
best friend, which was onepoint, which was one point my
bestie, Angela.
Yes, you heard that right.
So not only did the mother datehim, but he currently has a
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child with the best friend ofMiss Rachel, which is Angela.
We haven't spoken since highschool because he's uh we
haven't spoken since high schoolbecause she was caught up with
my boyfriend and she said thatthey were just best friends.
Wait, hold on.
And that she said that they werejust best friends, but until the
(14:10):
day I s still I don't believeher.
Let me read that again.
We haven't spoken since highschool because she was caught up
with my boyfriend, and that shesaid that we were just just
friends, but till this day Istill don't believe her.
We were close growing up, andthat she tried to lie to me and
say that they were rehearsingfor a school play in the scene
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that involved a kiss.
Okay, I believe that.
So I was like, yeah, whatever.
Turns out she was telling thetruth because the guy I dated is
now gay and happily married tohis husband.
Oh Jesus, and I was not sorry,but because I knew I seen it
with my own eyes.
So I know that I was making theright decision.
Are you out of your damnegg-sucking salamander mind?
(14:55):
If your best friend is tellingyou that it was just a kiss for
a rehearsal play, which I canpretty much attest to that, then
why not leave it at that?
I mean, I'm trying to figure outwhat indication gave you that
she was lying to you.
I mean, it was a school play andit was good.
I don't understand.
Jesus Lord, I don't know.
We're gonna get to this laterthough.
(15:16):
But come to find out, the guythat she kissed is gay now and
he's happily married to hishusband.
So yeah, right.
So I asked my mom what happenedto my best friend Angela, and
how did she meet this guy?
She said that he was startinghis career as a P.I.
wanted to hire Angela as hissecretary, and that she said
that he said that he had abright future, and they ended up
(15:38):
in a hotel sleep together, andthat he and that he showed up
six months ago, and he asked tomarry him, and she said yes.
Oh, Jesus.
My mom was on fire becauseAngela is 27 and tried to warn
my friend Angela, but Angeladidn't care.
She wanted a better life, so hepromised to give it to her.
(16:00):
My mom said Esther, Angela'smom, had called her very pissed
off and upset because Ron hadbroken off.
Oh, Lord of mercy, had brokenoff the engagement because he
met someone.
And I was thinking, like, thisfool met someone is now cheating
on me and my best friend.
Oh, what the hell is this?
What the hell is this letter?
(16:20):
He'll write some weird shit tome.
We're gonna get through thisthough.
So I didn't say anything becauseRon had asked me to marry him,
so I said yes, Icon.
I'm so excited.
And I know that he's the one forme.
He told me that he loves me andthat he could be the father my
daughter never had.
You mean the father he's neverbeen to his children?
SPEAKER_02 (16:41):
Okay.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (16:43):
So is it wrong to be happy with him?
I mean, sure, he has he has hada not so good life, but I feel
that we are connected on a levelthat he understands me.
Do you though?
Do you?
I'm sorry, y'all.
I can't get to this letterwithout making some kind of some
kind of sarcastic commentsbecause when I read this, I was
like, is this chick serious?
What the hell?
(17:07):
Here's the other part that gotme.
I understand that he has a babyon the way, but I'm not sure who
the woman is.
Really?
You don't know?
Really, you don't know who thewoman is?
Oh my god.
I haven't asked him anythingabout his past because it's none
of my business.
Again, what the hell is yourproblem?
(17:27):
I wanted a fresh start in lifebecause my child father surely
doesn't want to be with me, andso I wanted to be happy and
married.
At what cost did you want to behappy and married?
I know this is difficult when hegoes back to meet my mom, and I
told her that I have a surprisefor her when I return in the
spring.
So, Icon, I need your honestopinion on how I should move
forward.
(17:47):
I really love him and I knowthat we were meant to be
together.
Okay, here are my thoughtsbefore we get to the questions
that I asked Miss Angela.
Um I don't know if this is real.
I don't know if this is somekind of screwed up individual
who's clearly clearly hasemotional issues or something,
(18:09):
but I think this is a yeah, thisis a cluster.
Ugh.
Cluster fuck.
A serious clusterfuck.
I think she picked the wrongdamn title of this letter.
The title of this letter shouldhave been A Web of Damn Lies.
Real talk.
I mean, this is just ridiculous.
Who in the hell?
Oh my gosh.
(18:29):
Gee, this is some shit you won'teven see about on the TV or or
not really somebody that you Imean, I don't really know this
chick, but she's from Arkansas.
So, no, that doesn't say a lotabout arc and people in
Arkansas.
Let's not get it twisted becauseeverybody has their own bag of
shit, right?
They do.
(18:50):
Any event, I proceeded to askMiss Rachel's Rochelle some
questions.
And here's the question that Ihad.
I said, Do you seriously notunderstand who the baby mama is?
She says, No, I didn't.
I'm gonna tell you who the damnbaby mama is.
It's your bestie, or was yourbestie, okay?
Because clearly, if this nutsaid the same shit to you and
(19:13):
said the same thing to uh herand they ended up in a hotel,
clearly this you guys have nogoals in life as to being happy.
You want to just and the crazything is this guy's like 48
years old and you are 28 and sheis 27.
So clearly, I'm not sure whatwhere the hell y'all live in
Arkansas, but clearly it can'tbe that damn bad where y'all
(19:36):
want to go for the older guy whoclearly oh my god, what is this
guy's MO?
Because I thought at one pointin time, I thought that it was
just a I thought it was kind ofsick because but then she didn't
say if they knew this guy fromback in the day, so they didn't
say if they knew him or if theywere um I don't know, because
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it's kind of weird.
How would you date the mother?
And then you go from the motherto the best friends to your to
the mother's daughter's bestfriend, which is Angela.
I'm trying to figure out howthat even happened.
In any event, I asked her, haveyou since spoken to Angela?
She said yes.
(20:19):
They talked for hours, but spenthalf of that arguing about what
happened in high school.
That sounds like that might havebeen more of you than her.
Because I'm pretty sure thatconversation probably went like,
I've tried to tell you that Iwasn't we weren't romantically
involved, it was a play, but youdidn't want to believe me, so
you want to take this kiss andblow it out of proportion, which
I think is what your habit is,is that you're blowing something
out of proportion that doesn'treally seem to fit the mo of
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your bestie Angela.
Because it seems like if youguys have been friends for a
very long time, I don't thinkshe would do that to you because
she obviously didn't end up withthe guy.
I mean, gotta admit, she didn'tend up with the guy.
The guy's not he's married to aman.
Hello.
And I asked her, was sheserious?
(21:04):
She said, Yes, why are youasking?
I'm asking you that because thisdamn letter does not make any
damn sense to me.
You are jumping all over thedamn place.
You first you are you moved toBirmingham, Alabama, because he
is in Huntsville, Alabama.
Well, that's only like maybemaybe an hour drive.
Maybe.
I mean, I've been through bothparts of Alabama, Montgomery,
(21:26):
Huntsville, uh, Birmingham, andthey are not really that far in
distance.
So you're trying to keep tabs onsomebody.
Oh, Jesus Christ.
I asked her this question too aswell, and I asked, Was she
pregnant?
Because if she was pregnant,that really was gonna throw a
whole wretch into the whole damnplans of what I had to say.
She said no.
I said, Do you plan to have morekids with Ron?
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She said no, but he wants more,but I told him no because I
don't want to be a single motherif this doesn't work out.
Really?
You don't want to be a singlemother if this doesn't work out?
Newsflash, you're already asingle mother.
Because clearly he's not thefather.
And I'm gonna tell you why he'snot the father, because this
dumbass has four damn kids, oneon the way that he had just came
from court, which I'm for whichI'm sure was about child
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support.
So, what in the hell are youthinking?
This guy, okay, let's getthrough it.
Let's get through it.
Are you still together with Mr.
Ron?
She said, Yes, I really lovehim.
Okay.
Have you talked to him about hispast?
No, but he was summoned, he wasserved as summons for family
court again.
Jesus Lord, this guy must be.
(22:31):
He's 40 years old.
Who the hell needs to tell youto take care of your own damn
kids?
And you're 48 years old.
What is his life?
Anyways.
Clearly in my mind, there's alot of red flags.
A lot of red flags.
I asked her the most importantquestion.
Does he live with you?
No, he wanted to stay living inseparate homes, so I'm good with
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that.
Really?
You're good with that?
Okay.
Alright.
Let me give me a drink rightquick, we're gonna get through
this.
So you're fine with him livingin the place where he works
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because you work there as well.
He can't be no legit PI.
He's got to be playing PI inorder for him to either get laid
or to find young, attracting,naive women, women as yourself.
Because clearly, if it didn'twork out with the older woman,
which was your mother, and hedecided to ground downgrade
while you decided to upgrade,clearly this man is not mature
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as you think he is.
I don't think this guy is thatmature.
I honestly don't.
I think this is a guy just he'sjust a dog looking for a bone,
and he's got one girl pregnant,which is 27, he's 48.
Oh my gosh.
Oh Jesus.
And he's got four other kids.
I don't even know what the otherbaby's mamas are or what they're
consisting of, but clearly youhave some deep-seated rooted
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issues, and that you should getaway from this.
The fact that you're dating yourmom's ex is a clearly a red
flag.
You think you're gonna strollinto back to Arkansas with this
man on your arm?
You are clearly on something.
You are clearly on somethingvery bad.
And I only say that in arespectful way because what you
are doing is I don't know ifit's unheard of, but it's
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unheard of to me.
I've never seen this shitbefore, I've only seen this shit
on TV.
But never when I thought I'd getsomebody that would write to me
and say that they're datingtheir mother's ex.
Okay, you're a grown woman, he'sa grown man, you're 28, he's 48,
20 year age difference.
I was more concerned on I'mreally much more concerned on
why he has the pictures of yourmother.
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I don't know if this man triedto play this ploy and to say, I
don't even know if you knew thisguy when he was dating your mom,
which in my opinion, I think hedid know you.
And to me, it's kind of sick.
I don't know if how my listenersfeel, but to me it's kind of
sick because I'm not datingnobody's daughter.
(25:09):
Um, that I dated the mother,because that's just sick.
The fact that he is dating youand got your best friend
pregnant really says not a lotabout you and her, you and him.
Because clearly, if you two arebest friends, and I'm pretty
sure I'm almost 100% positivethat this man has seen you and
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your best friend.
To me, that's a problem.
To me, that's an issue.
To me, I can't really say it'spedophilia because you guys are
older now and you're bothadults.
To me, it's just sick.
I wouldn't know no I that's likeme um scoping out one of my
daughter's friends and waitingfor them to get older, and then
to say, hey, let no hell to theno lord, no, no.
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I almost threw it from my mouthand got mad.
I don't understand how this isgoing to work because this isn't
going to work, because thereason why it's not going to
work is because this guy seemslike he has a web of lies and
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you're tangled in that web oflies.
And when you're tangled in a webof lies, it's only gonna be more
that's gonna come out.
I mean, you only know of thefour damn kids plus the five
that you know of.
I'm starting to think who hisother baby mamas are.
I mean, if he's still going tochild support, if he's going to
uh court for child support,clearly the kids could be older,
they could be, I don't know, uh,because you didn't really say
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the fact that it doesn't matteris you're not you're not putting
your you're not asking all theright questions.
You want to let this ride.
I wouldn't let none of this shitride.
I would tell your mother,because if your mother tried to
tell your best friend not tohook up with him, and clearly
she didn't listen, but she gotpregnant by the dumbass guy, and
then they were engaged to getmarried, and now you're engaged
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to get married to him.
What does that wedding unlooklike?
Man, and you guys don't evenlive together.
That's even more because helives at his his place of
business, which is a PI firm.
Which hold on.
If I can imagine, it's somesmall little shanty office
building not sitting on top ofno business, but he's got an
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open office area space, he's gota sofa.
Oh Lord of mercy.
I'm trying to figure out whatthis guy did in life because you
said that your mom met this guyas a sanitation worker and he
was dressed and he was comingfrom court.
I've never seen a sanitationworker that clean that would
come to clean a dealership in aclean suit like that.
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I wish I'd seen a picture ofthis because that would have
taken me back.
But your mom said that clearlyhe wasn't that she thought he
was the one, and now you thinkhe's the one for you.
Make that make sense.
How do you think this guy's theone for you when this guy's got
four of the kids one on the wayby your bestie, and he can't
even take care of it?
You want him to be the fatherthat you want him to be to your
daughter?
Are you freaking kidding meright now?
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I mean, seriously, make thatshit make sense.
Oh my gosh.
I am seeing this as a huge redflag.
I not only think you shouldleave this guy, I think you
should run back to home toArkansas to live with your
mother and make amends with yourbest friends because clearly you
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have some issues where you thinkthat, and I'm sorry if I'm
jumping all over the place, butyou're blaming your best friend
for the loss of your boyfriend,which clearly I don't think that
was gonna be her fault.
I think it's much more yourfault because you took a kiss
that was from a high school playtoo seriously.
Let me tell you something.
In a high school play, there aresome high schools that it is a
kiss, and not only is there akiss that the parents have to be
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okay about it, the students,which are number one, have to be
okay with it.
So it's not like they weregetting busy on stage and it
turned into a whole uh teen pornthing.
It was a kiss.
I've seen it, I haven't done it,but I was in a play that the
main two co-stars or the mainstars kissed each other, no big
deal.
It's a play, and if it got ravereviews on it, big whoopy
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fucking deal.
I don't mean lose my shit here,but this letter is pissing me
the hell off because I don'tunderstand how you could sit
here and blame everybody butyourself.
And if you're blaming others foryour downfall, well, clearly you
need to take a look in themirror because clearly this is
nobody's fault but yours.
Now, I don't know the situationabout you and your child's
father, and if he moved away toum Huntsville and you're in
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Birmingham, or I said thatright, yeah, did I?
SPEAKER_02 (29:29):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (29:30):
And if he doesn't see his child, and if he's under
a court order, then I don'tknow.
I don't know what to tell you.
But my suggestion to you is thatyou need to take a hard look in
the mirror because dating yourmom's ex says a lot.
And I know when your mom, whenyou decide to bring him home, or
that's the other thing I didn'task.
I don't know if he knows yourmom.
(29:52):
I should have asked thatquestion, that should have been
the important question.
Well, because if this guy knowswho your mother is, but knows
you too as well.
What does that say?
You still want to be with thisguy?
What the hell is wrong with you?
I mean, there's plenty of fishout there in the city, plenty.
I mean, so this guy's 48 yearsold, that's fine, but he is
keeping a lot of secrets fromyou that in the end I think
(30:13):
you're gonna get hurt, you'regonna get hurt, you're gonna be
pissed off, and you're gonna beright back to square one.
Let's face it, you're already asingle mother because this child
is not his, clearly not his.
So, it's not his child.
Um, you're talking about he saidthat he can be the father that
he's never been to yourdaughter.
But how in the hell is thatpossible when he has five other
(30:35):
damn kids?
Four kids, one on the way.
If he's not taking care of thesewomen, I'm trying to pick up
what his life is.
You must have been grippingthrough life.
If you're 48 years old and youhave four kids, man, I really
wish I knew how old these kidswere.
But obviously, he thinks he'ssome kind of Casanova, some kind
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of James Bond, some kind ofladies' man, some kind of shit
like that.
How in the hell is that evenpossible?
Oh my gosh.
Never mind the age differencebecause you're a grown-ass
woman.
I'd have been a lot more pissedoff if you said you were 18 or
17 and he was 48.
I'd have been a lot more pissedoff about that.
(31:15):
But you're in a grown adult, agrown adult who clearly made her
way to uh Birmingham, Alabama.
Obviously, you have a goodpaying job or you have a job,
and now you have two jobsbecause you work in his office
at night, and I'm trying tofigure out what that entails.
Oh, honey, I'm home.
How was work?
Oh, it's good.
I mean, Jesus, Lord in mercy.
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He's the PI, and I'm pretty sureyou're not his only damn client.
So if he's telling you that hewants to, if he wants you guys
to have separate residence, thenI can pretty much sure that baby
number six is on the way fromsomewhere, and you're gonna find
that out sooner than later.
And when you find that out, I'mwondering if you're still gonna
love this man because this manclearly knows what he's doing.
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I would say he's grooming you,but you're a grown-ass woman.
And I mean, I know you're notthat naive to understand that
the child that's on the way isthe is the baby of your best
friend.
I mean, you're clearly not youcan't be this naive, you can't
be this naive, and you can't bethis stupid to sit here and
think to say, Well, I don't knowwho the baby mama is.
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You know exactly who's the babymama.
If your mom is telling you thathe was there six months ago and
your best friend ended uppregnant, uh clearly the due
date is coming up really soon.
So I'm not saying go back andtalk to your bestie well your
ex-best friend Angela becauseI'm pretty sure when she finds
out that you're dating this guy,she's probably gonna flip a damn
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litter so it's like this is likefamily drama that don't even
need to be created.
But the family drama is alreadygonna be there because you
refuse to accept the truth ofthe matter is that this man
dated your mother, he dated yourbest friend, now he's dating
you.
Do you not see what the hell ishappening here?
Do you not see what's going onhere?
I mean, clearly, that is a hugeass red flag to me.
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I mean, shit, y'all might aswell be family.
I mean, it damn sure seems likeyou are any damn way.
Damn.
You got my damn blood boiling,and this ain't even about me.
And I'm just trying to figureout that I would never do
something like that.
I mean, listeners, if you guys,I don't know.
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I I don't think I would ever dosomething like that because
that's crazy, it's crazy workand it's ridiculous.
And honestly, Miss Rachel, Ithink that you should let this
man go.
I know you're probably not gonnalisten to me because you don't
listen to reason anyway, becausewhat you think when people try
to tell you something, you thinkit's probably the best advice
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that you have for yourself andnot what they're telling you.
This is gonna come back to hurtyou, and it's gonna come back to
bite you in the ass so bad thatI think you're gonna end up
being depressed.
I really do.
I don't want that for you.
I don't I just think you need tobe smarter in your decision
making.
I think if you move toBirmingham for a reason, let it
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be that reason.
You should let I'm I mean, I'mstarting to think what you're
paying this guy with.
I'm sure I hope you're notpaying him with sex, but then
again, he's your boyfriend, soclearly the focus is off the
child's father for now, and thefocus is clearly on him because
you said you love him.
Sweetheart, you're 28 years old,you're still young, you still
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have a chance at life, you stillhave a chance to find the one
that is meant for you.
But if you moved to Birmingham,Alabama, I would probably take
that time to get myself togetherand not worry about what this 40
year 48-year-old man is doing.
Thank God that you're notpregnant by him because you are
going to be the next victim.
And you have a three-year-old.
That's the only smart thing yousaid to me is that you don't
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want another child right nowbecause you don't want to be a
single mother.
Again, you are a single mother.
You are.
I mean, I sure don't think thatthis guy has any inclination of
taking care of his kids, andthis can't be just the only job
he has.
Is he he's a PI.
I mean, if he wasn't a PI then,but he's just starting out, I
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don't think he's making thatkind of money.
I honestly don't.
I think he is just a nickel anddime hustler.
I think he is a guy that is downhis luck that can probably sweet
talk any woman, any youngerwoman, because I think the older
women have probably had enoughof his shit.
And they said, uh-uh, we ain'tdrawing, we ain't going this way
no more.
But the fact that you're gettingmarried to this man is
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diabolical.
It's it's really is Oh man.
I don't know what to think aboutthis anymore because it's kind
of.
I don't know.
If my daughters did this, youguys would probably read about
it in the news the next day.
Even though they're grown adult,they're grown, but it just
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doesn't make any sense to me howyou could date a man that dated
your mother.
And if it didn't work out duringyour mother, I would oh my god,
I would really challenge you togo back to your mother.
And I hope you give me an updateon this letter to say, well,
this is what happened, you know,this didn't work out.
Or I would pray now, hopefully,that you would come to your
sense and say that this man isnot the man for you.
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You need to ask this man someserious questions, you need to
know about his past.
Now, and when I'm talking abouthis past, the women that he's
fathered children with, thathe's created these lives with,
you already know of one.
Let's not play with each other,you already know it's one, and
that's your bestie Angela.
And if you tell her that you'regonna get married to him again,
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I can see this argument, I cansee this.
Your mom, if you didn't eventell your mom, and I'm trying to
figure out who are you keepingthe secret for?
Who are you keeping the secretto?
What is this gonna do for youand your family?
Because I'm gonna tell you whatit's gonna do for your mother,
and it's gonna probably breakher damn heart, where she's
probably gonna get pissed offand mad.
She's probably gonna flip thelid.
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I would definitely flip the lid,I would probably go ham.
But I don't know, that's justme.
But I think the situation isjust a bad situation all the way
around.
I think that you should justfocus on yourself and focus on
your child and focus on youbeing happy and letting somebody
come find you.
I think the the the problem istoday with um with the younger
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people is that you guys don'twant to be alone.
I, for the love of you life ofme, can't understand why you
wouldn't want to be alone, whyjump into a relationship this
early?
Why would you have kids thisearly if you know you're not
ready?
Um now I'm not a saint, but Ididn't have kids till after I
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got married.
That's just the way I wanted it.
Now, my sisters, they had kidsbefore they got married, and
they went through a lot ofheartache, a lot of trouble, a
lot of pain.
I don't wish that upon nobody.
The problem is with you youngpeople today, y'all think y'all
need to have somebody just soyou can show people that you're
with somebody.
But showing somebody that you'rewith somebody may not all be
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good because you don't even knowthe person who you're with.
I mean, this person that you'rewith has a full closet full of
skeletons.
Full closet.
You don't know if these women,I'm gonna say these women are
more, but they might be inArkansas because he just started
his PI career.
But I don't understand what theproblem is if you don't want to
be alone, then you're not alonereally because you have your
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daughter.
You're upset that you say it'snot fair.
Well, life is not fair, youknow.
If you're with this guy forthree years, he was verbally
abusive, then I'm not even surehow y'all got a child out of
this.
Maybe some makeup sex, I don'tknow.
But the problem is with today'sgeneration, you guys just don't
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want to be alone.
You guys always want to havesomebody on your arm, and you
always want to be with somebody,no matter what they're about, it
could be good, it could be bad,or it could be somewhere in
between.
You just don't want to be alone.
I don't know what that is.
I don't understand what that'sI'm alone right now.
Now, when my wife died, I wasclearly alone, but that didn't
give me the right to go outthere and start trying to date
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every woman that I came acrossor try to sleep with every woman
that I came across becausethat's not who I am, that's not
what I'm about.
I have morals, I have integrityfor myself, and though someone
may not think I'm the bestlooking man that they've ever
seen, that's fine, I'mcompletely good with that.
But I'm not gonna lower mystandards because I'm alone.
I'm not gonna lower my standardsto say, well, you know, I just
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need to get laid.
I don't.
You know, you young people,y'all want to grow up too damn
quick.
Y'all don't want to take thetime to enjoy life, to live your
life, but y'all want to jumpinto bed with each other.
And then when you have a baby,then he's right out the damn
door.
Or it all goes downhill.
It does.
I've seen it before.
I've yet to see any relationshipin this day and age survive when
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there's a kid in play.
I mean, that whole team was.
A teen mom show on MTV that wasa prime example.
Granted, they did it with mostlywhite folks, but you know, that
was clearly a prime example.
One girl got hooked on drugs,the other one was I don't know,
it was just a it's just it'sjust a shit show.
So in life, being alone is notbad.
Being alone is good becausethat's not only helping you get
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yourself together, but that'senabling you to do better in
life and to set standards andgoals for yourself.
You know, you have athree-year-old daughter.
Think about your three-year-olddaughter.
Think about what if it was yourthree-year-old daughter that was
let's put the let's okay, holdon, let's do it this way.
What if the shoe was on theother foot?
What if you were the mother andyour daughter was dating this
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48-year-old man?
How in the hell would you feelif that was your daughter and
she kept this secret from you?
You would not be happy, youwould be pissed.
I would be pissed.
I mean, I don't know in life.
I understand you were attractedto bad boys.
I get that, I understand that.
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But there are not a lot, there'sthere's not a lot of bad boys in
this world.
Some portray to be, like your48-year-old Ron, who clearly
think he is God's gift of theworld to women, but clearly he
is not.
So you have to ask yourselfthese questions.
You need to sit down and clearlythink about what you're doing.
Is it worth it?
Is it worth going back home?
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Is is he even gonna go with youto go back home?
I don't think he's going to.
You know why?
Because I think oh, I I think ifhe finds out that you and Angela
were best friends, which I'm I'malmost certain that I think he
might know.
I think he might know.
I I think he I don't know.
I think he might know.
The timing of this is toocoincidental.
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The timing of this is just toomuch to not understand how you
cannot put all how you cannotdot the I's and cross the T's on
this.
I don't understand this, not onedamn bit.
I don't, I really don't.
But clearly, this man has anulterior motive.
I don't know what this motiveis, but he's got one young girl
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and now he's got another one.
The only difference is you'renot pregnant and she is.
What is that even gonna looklike?
I mean, if he doesn't see hisother four kids now, is he gonna
see his new child?
I don't think he is.
I don't I don't know what theproblem is with men getting
women pregnant, and it's finethat he wanted to, and then uh
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here's the other thing he wasengaged to your best friend, and
now you're engaged to him.
Jesus, you are if this isn't apot of shit.
I don't know what is becauseit's all bad, it's really bad.
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Oh my gosh.
This is um this is justridiculous.
Because I say it's ridiculousbecause it's just a screwed-up
situation.
The situation is just not gonnahelp itself, the situation is
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ultimately not gonna work itselfout.
The situation is gonna get worseand worse over time because you
let it fester this way becauseof your own selfish needs, and
you're selfish in a way that Idon't understand why you would
be so selfish.
I'm not even sure how you evengot this way.
I'm going back to the bestfriend because I think the best
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friend was true and honest toyou.
But I think you're turningaround and you're playing with
fire because you're not going totell your best friend who you're
dating, even though the guy thatgot her pregnant is the guy that
you're now dating.
It was clearly a deadbeat assfather.
A deadbeat ass father.
And you say that you love him.
Yeah, well, I don't think heloves you.
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I don't.
I think it's just infatuation.
I think it's just him gettinghis rocks off, and he's got a
younger, another, another hotyoung woman instead of taking
the time to take care of hisother responsibilities.
And then the the audacity thathe had to tell you that he could
be the father to your daughterthat she's never had.
Somebody smack me, please.
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So please tell me I'm dreaming.
Please tell me.
I honestly hope that after youhear this podcast, I want an
update.
I hopefully you give me anupdate.
And I'm sorry if you think I'mbeing too hard on you, but
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clearly, if you haven't toldyour friends or your mother,
which doesn't sound like yousaid anything to anybody, that
you're just trying to puteverything together, you have
all the signs in front of you,every single freaking sign in
front of you.
You have everything.
Your mother's told you, yourbestie's pregnant with with his
child.
What more do you need to saythat I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
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let this happen to me, or I'mjust gonna go on and find
somebody else, or I'm just gonnago be alone and take care of my
damn daughter.
Because you gotta figure out,you know, kids mimic what their
parents do, and you don't wantthat for your child.
And I've I'm a firm believer inthat because I've seen that
before.
I've seen my sister-in-law andher daughter, where my
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sister-in-law thinks herdaughter is the most finest
thing walking.
Yeah, she's light-skinned, she'sbeautiful, she's got two kids,
and she's not even freaking 20.
That's that's that's ridiculous.
So, women have to be smarter,women have to be, and there are
some women, no, no, there aremostly women that are smarter,
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and I understand that women inthis day of age, it's kind of
hard to try to find the rightman because I feel the same way
when I was looking for my um formy happiness.
I felt the same way, but youhave to give it time, don't be
so much in a rush.
It is okay to go on dates, it isokay to get to know that person,
but you were talking to thisguy, and then all of a sudden
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you guys started making out youand you guys started having sex.
Clearly, that was his intention.
It was just a matter of timebefore you got roped in.
I'm not sure what he told youabout your child's father.
I don't know.
Some PIs are good, some are not.
I only had the pleasure ofworking with one, and the one
that I worked with, he was inthe up and up.
And then when somebody tried towhen one of his customers tried
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to hit on him, he said, No,ma'am, I don't do that.
I don't do that.
This is strictly business.
And I took him as being aresponsible, a responsible man
because he didn't um he didn'ttake advantage of the situation.
He wanted to truly help hiscustomers try to find what they
needed to know about theirspouses, and he did just that.
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Excuse me, he did just that.
So I'm thinking like this guyclearly ain't working you over,
but he's working a whole lot ofother women over.
I'm trying to figure out whatdid he tell the other women?
You know, what did he tell theother women?
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If he told your friend Angelathat he wanted her to come work
with him, and now look whereshe's at.
She's still at home.
Or I'm thinking she's at home.
Didn't really say that neither.
I got a feeling I didn't ask allthe right questions, but I only
asked the questions that Ithought would have been relevant
to this letter.
So I just think it's bad, it's abad situation.
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I think you should quickly,quickly get yourself away from
it.
You can probably sit back andsay, Well, what do I know?
I don't know anything.
You wrote me.
You wrote me.
I'm giving you my honestopinion.
I don't take anything forgranted.
I don't take any woman forgranted.
Why would I?
You know, I do this podcast, Iam I'm in love with a very
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beautiful woman.
I'm married to a very beautifulwoman.
So why do I need to do that?
And I get all kind of offers.
All kinds of offers.
Do I need to act on them?
No, because I'm not made thatway.
I mean, again, I'm not perfect,I'm not the best man walking
this earth.
I know I have issues withinmyself that I work out and I'm
gonna continue to work out, butat least I'm not taking
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advantage of anybody, especiallynobody as young as well, shit.
Yeah, I know what I'm trying tosay.
I'm not taking advantage of anyof my daughter's friends because
that's not who I am, and itdoesn't matter if they're older
because I've had this happen tome before when I was uh let's
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see, when I was a bus driver andI stopped driving buses.
I think I told you guys a storybefore, but a few years back or
a few might have been 10 yearsago, there was a young lady that
came up to me and she was like,I remember you, you were my bus
driver.
I said, Really?
And I said, uh, okay.
And she said, Well, how are youdoing?
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I said, Are you good?
I said, I'm good.
How about you?
It's like, oh, you know, I'mjust here.
I said, Are you doing anything?
I said, Doing anything likewhat?
I am I'm married.
She's like, that's okay.
She's like, maybe we can just gohave some fun.
I said, Didn't you say I used tobe a bus driver?
No, hell no.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,no.
If you have to start theconversation that I knew you as
you were my bus driver, I don'tthink so.
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Hell to the no.
I don't roll like that, I don'tdo shit like that, and I'm not
desperate like that.
Because clearly, if it's not methat's saying that, somebody
else would have probably actedon that, but that's not who I
am.
I don't need to oh well, how didyou meet this guy?
Oh, he was my bus driver.
Say what he was your what?
No, hell no.
Who the hell?
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I mean, listen.
As a man, as a man, that's justwho I am.
I am not a saint, but I don'tlike to take advantage of women,
and I think any man that takesadvantage of a woman's like
emotional state or her naivetyor whatever, I think it's gonna
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come back to you.
Now, again, I'm not a perfectman, and I don't pretend to be a
perfect man.
I do this podcast to try to helppeople and to try to you know
maybe give my best advice.
I don't make any money off this,I'm not you people send these
letters to me, and I get a lotof these letters.
So, but I think, Miss Rachel,that you should really start to
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reevaluate your life.
I think you should really try toestablish who you are as a young
woman and understand that youhave a daughter.
If your daughter started doingthis and she gets of age, how's
it gonna make you feel?
That's going to piss you off,excuse me, to no point of no
return.
And then you're gonna have theaudacity to throw it up in her
face when clearly I'm not surehow long you're gonna let this
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go on with this guy, but I don'tknow.
I think that um your daughterdeserves someone that's going to
be there for her.
Um, if it's not gonna be herfather, I really would like to
know what happened to herfather.
I don't know.
I can't pass judgment on thisman because I don't know if he
moved away to Huntsville andyou're in Birmingham, clearly it
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had to be for a job.
I don't think it's for a girl.
He might have met the girl whenhe got there.
But Arkansas and Alabama arekind of on the same economy
length or something like that.
But in any event, I think thatyou should um definitely have a
sit-down with Mr.
Ron.
I think you should talk to Ron,but most of all, who I think you
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should talk to is your mother.
You should talk to your motherand you should tell your mother
what is going on.
Is she not gonna be happy?
I don't think she is.
Why?
Because if he wasn't good fromyour mother, he wasn't good for
your best friend, third time's acharm.
He ain't gonna be damn good,he's not he's damn sure not
gonna be good for you.
And that's facts.
That's facts.
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I mean, if you don't think youthink you if you think you're
not gonna get hurt by thissituation, I guarantee you're
already gonna be feeling thehurt.
Because if you're in his officegoing through files and you've
seen the file on your mother,what does that even say?
I mean, you're working part-timein his office, I would get the
hell far away from his office.
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I would move someplace.
I don't know, maybe going backhome may or may not be an
option.
I mean, clearly you have yourown place, you and your
daughter, you followed yourchild's father out there, but
you don't think it's gonna beany kind of reconciliation.
Listen, as hard as it is when awhen you have a child by a man
that you're not married to andyou decide that you want to
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break it off, or you guys arejust calling it quits, it hurts,
it does, it hurts, but you'renot the only one that goes to
this.
How you get through this is howyou just continue to be stronger
and how you continue to be a lotbetter parent towards your
daughter.
Now, I know we don't want ourkids to see us cry or see our
kids see us down, but that'slife.
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But you gotta be strong for yourdaughter, be strong for her and
let her understand that thereare some men that's gonna be
worth it, there are some menthat's not gonna be worth it.
It is gonna be up to you toteach your daughter how to be
that respectful woman because Ithink that you're respectful, I
think that you're just having arough goal of life, and I think
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you just I think you've justbeen hurt, and that this man,
you told him what happened, andthen next thing you guys know,
you guys end up having sex onthe couch of his office.
Jesus, make that make sense.
It's kind of awkward becauseit's awkward because I don't
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know if you guys even still havethe same damn couch.
Thank god I don't know whereyour office is at because I'd
probably put that shit on blast,but I'm not gonna do that
because that's not who I am, butthat's just disgusting.
But you are in his office almostif not every day, and you have
to look at the place where helives where you guys have sex at
but that you work at.
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Is that good for you or is thatI don't know what the hell is
that?
I don't I don't understand it, Idon't get it.
I mean, why would you want to goback to a place where you guys
had sex and you guys have he hascustomers coming in and you're
hearing these customers?
I honestly don't think this guyis like a full a full PI.
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I think he is just someone whois just trying to get his rocks
off, basically.
I think that because you don'tsay if he's as if he's just
starting out, which clearlythat's what I think he's doing.
I think and he was a sanitationworker.
I'm trying to figure out how hegot into the whole PI thing.
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I don't know.
This is just weird to me.
But in any event, Miss Rachel,again, I would challenge you to
get to talk to your mother.
I want you guys to have aserious heart to heart.
I want you guys to talk.
I would also encourage you to,after you talk to your mother,
to reach out to your yourex-best friend, Angela, because
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you have it harder, she's gonnahave it the hardest.
Because if you decide to staywith this man, that's gonna
bring a lot of heartache.
Knowing that you know that he isthe child's father, because you
didn't say that your friendAngela was that way, but I don't
even think she's that way.
I just think she's a young ladythat got caught up in a moment
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and then got taken advantage of,and I think that's very sad.
So I want you to apologize toher.
You should damn sure apologizeto your mother, and then I think
you should break it off with Mr.
Ron.
Actually, let's do it in thisorder.
You should break it off with Mr.
Ron, you should talk to yourmother, then you should talk to
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Angela in that order.
And if you don't think you cando that, then Miss Rachel,
you're not the strongest womanthat I thought you were.
Because clearly, you're gonnabreak a lot of hearts.
And if some relationships aredefinitely gonna end, starting
with you and your mother.
So, if your mom thought this manwas a fake ass con man, then
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clearly you should see what'sright in front of you.
And the fact that he used thosecorny ass lines are just
ridiculous.
So, as I get ready to close theshow out, I want you to let your
heart do the thinking.
Use your heart, use yourintuition.
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I know, I know that since you'veemailed me, I know that you are
having some serious doubts.
I know that you are thinking andthat your mind is on overload
because you're trying to figureout who this woman is.
I'm telling you who this womanis, and if he says otherwise,
he's lying.
And if he does say that's nother, then tell him to take a
blood test.
Because it doesn't make anysense.
Six months ago, that's that'sthat's and I think she might be
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getting ready to be due to havethis baby.
I don't know.
I don't know, but I would talkto Ron.
And if Ron doesn't want to tellyou about his past, and if he
wants to start blaming otherwomen for his downfall in life,
I don't want to say you twodeserve each other because I
don't think you I don't think hedeserves you.
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I think you deserve better.
But I think that you shouldn'tbe so quick to judge a book by
its cover.
And I think you shouldn't justtake one side of the story, and
if you've seen something withyour own eyes, some things ain't
always what they seen.
You know, like you said, thiswas a play.
And I can't really keep goingback to this damn high school
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play, but I think your bestieAngela, if you guys were close
coming up in age, which I'm sureyou were, and I think you missed
that.
I clearly think y'all should getback together, like as best
friends, because I think she'sgonna need the support of her
best friend, just like you'regonna need the support of your
mother.
So, I know the shit has reallyhit the fan, and I know it's
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gonna hit the fan, but itdoesn't have to be a lot of shit
that's gonna hit the fan.
You know, you could say, Well, Igot something to tell you.
You know, I can talk.
It sounds like your mother's areally reasonable woman.
I don't know her, I don't knowyou.
I'm just going by what thisletter is saying.
It sounds like that you want tobring this guy home knowing what
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you know is gonna happen.
I don't know if it's gonna be agood thing or she's gonna be a
future suspect in this untimelymurder.
I don't know.
Because what I can tell you isthat if your mother was hurt by
this man, you're damn sure gonnabe hurt by this man.
The fact that you're dating yourmom's ex is ridiculous.
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It's just doesn't sit well withme.
I can't even fathom that.
I can't.
I mean, I know your friendAngela has had a relationship
with him, but she kind of gets apass because you two don't even
know that he doesn't even tellyou that he's dating you or that
he dated Angela.
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You had to find that out fromyour mother.
And the fact that Angela'smother, Miss Esther, called your
mother pissed off because she'snot getting married now.
What do you think's gonna happenwhen they find out that you're
gonna get married to him?
I I I would say, hey, I hope, Ireally hope and hope and think
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that you think about this.
I really do.
I really hope and think that youjust oh my gosh, just say no,
this ain't for me.
So Miss Rachel, Miss Um Being.
(01:00:00):
A single parent is not that bad.
It's just gonna make you astronger person.
But you don't need the help of aman to be a stronger woman
because you're already astronger woman.
Women are the most strongestwomen on the face of this earth.
They put up with a lot of shit.
And there's no way in hell youshould be putting up with the
shit that you're putting up withbecause you want to be happy.
Don't be selfish.
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Think about your daughter.
Think about your mother.
Think about your best friend.
But most of all, think aboutyou.
Think about how your life can bea lot more better without this
bullshit in your life.
Because you don't need this.
This is not what you this is notwhat you're destined for.
If you're worried about beingwith somebody, trust me and
believe me, somebody's going tocome along for you.
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Somebody better, somebody muchmore qualified, somebody that's
going to make you happy, that'sgoing to love you and your
daughter.
So as I get ready to close theshow, I don't want to say thank
you for listening.
Thank you for my followers.
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Thank you for the letters.
If you guys have any questions,concerns, comment, or you just
want to talk about it, y'allknow what to do.
D6Mpire357 at gmail.com.
Now I know I missed a deadlinelast week of releasing the show,
but I'll be back on track thisweek.
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This week was kind of hectic.
Lord was hectic.
Sister had to move.
But you know, we're good.
We're good now.
Back on track.
I am on TikTok IG.
Link is always in thedescription.
I'm on BuzzCast.
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Keep thinking these two ain'tthe same, but they are.
So, until next time, my friends.
I hope you guys have a greatweek, have a great day.
Unfortunately, I gotta get readyfor work.
Gotta get this job thing going.
You know, but this don't pay thebill, you know.
I don't know.
I can't really sit on a computerall day and talk unless people
really want to talk to me.
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But I do want to say thank youguys for listening.
Thank you guys for the emails,thank you five for the support,
and thank you to my haters aswell.
Because without you, none ofthis is possible.
The hell it ain't.
I'll still keep doing it becausemy haters don't like me, but
it's all good though.
You know, I don't look at lifeas people who want to see me
fail.
(01:02:25):
You know, if you want to see mefail, then hey, keep rooting.
Maybe eventually it won'thappen.
So, but that much energy you putinto me failing, ah, that's just
you having a horrible day.
But I still wish the best foryou.
I wish nothing for the best foranybody who listens to a show.
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So, in any event, but want tosay thank you guys for
listening.
Thank you for the support thatyou guys are showing me.
Again, you can follow me on allmy socials if you want to.
It's up to you, don't reallyhave to.
Or just keep supporting me.
In any event, we're gonna leaveyou guys with this next track.
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Uh, Toby Trainer, Trentner.
It's called Expelled FromSchool.
Awkward.
It's just a track, I don't know.
You know, it's what it is.
So, until next time, my friends,I will holler at y'all later.
How's everybody doing out there?
Y'all good?
Hopefully everybody's having agood day.
No, I am.
Hope you guys had a goodholiday.
I know I did.
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Want to welcome y'all to theshow.
The show is called Let's TalkAbout It.
I am the icon.
Bit of a weird letter today, butnot uh this letter.
Made some sense with any gate,it didn't.
(06:03):
I don't know what the hell'sgoing on here.
So we will just take it as it isand go with it like that.
So I'm currently streaming ontwo platforms, Twitch TV and
BuzzCast.
So hopefully my audience onTwitch TV can hear me.
If not, let me know.
Any event.
(06:25):
Had a long week, long workfulweek.
Still ain't won a lottery yet.
I keep calling the lotterypeople and they keep getting my
damn ticket wrong.
Oh my gosh, this shit is gettingridiculous, isn't it?
I mean, prices going upeverywhere.
You know, you can't make anhonest living.
(06:47):
Seems like the more money youmake, the more problems you get
with the money.
I'd be damned.
I mean, I don't know how it isin other countries, but Jesus.
Any event, we have a lettercoming from Miss Rachel.
She is from Arkansas, she's 28,and she is currently what I
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thought might have been somekind of sick fetish, but as we
get to the letter, we will seethat maybe it is, maybe it
isn't.
Who knows?
So without further ado, let'sget into the show.
Let's do this.
(07:29):
This letter is entitled DatingMy Mom's Ex, which is what I
didn't want to call it, butthat's what she called it.
Because as I get to the ending,you'll just figure out what I
wanted to call it.
Because clearly this ain't theshit I wanted to call it.
But, anyways, this letter's kindof jumping everywhere, it's kind
of jumping all over.
It's not me, it's Miss Rachelthat she wrote.
(07:51):
And Miss Rachel, if you'relistening, yeah, we're gonna try
to get to this letter the bestway we possibly can.
So, without further ado, oh holdon here.
Crap.
Jesus.
This stuff on my desk.
Let's get into it.
Okay, so here we go.
(08:13):
Hi Khan, my name is Rachel.
I'm 28 from Arkansas.
I'm a single parent of athree-year-old daughter.
I currently move to Birmingham,Alabama, where it seems that
where it seems that it has beengoing well up until a man I met,
a man I met that is 40 yearsold.
(08:33):
And yes, I know there's a 20years age difference, I'm not
judging.
So he's kind, he's gentle, andit seems that he is just what
I've been looking for in a man.
Let's be honest, my taste in menhaven't been the best, so I
decided to upgrade my standardas well as maturity.
SPEAKER_02 (08:48):
Okay.
SPEAKER_00 (08:49):
The father of my daughter is a bad boy, and
that's what I like.
Until you started verballyabusing, um until you started
being getting verbally abusive.
We were together for threeyears, and I found out that it's
just not just not he's just notthe one for me.
He doesn't see his daughter andis currently on a child support
order.
He's currently living inHuntsville, Alabama.
(09:10):
That's kinda odd.
He lives in Huntsville, Alabama.
You're in Birmingham, Alabama.
Okay, let's keep it moving.
He has a new girlfriend, so yes,I decided to stay close to him
because he will take care of hisdaughter, and I want to know his
every move.
So I hired a PI in hopes ofunderstanding what he is doing
because I want what is owed toour daughter, Bailey, because
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it's not fair.
Okay.
Why should I endure in all thesechild care expenses when I
thought we would be a family andhave a good life together?
But I will continue to make suremy daughter is taken care of by
any means necessary.
But this is not the reason forthe letter.
The reason is I met a guy whowas currently my PI, and it
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seems that we've been spending agreat deal of time together.
And I must say it's he's quite agentleman.
Oh Jesus, here we go.
Okay.
One night I was feeling downabout my whole situation, and I
decided to go to his office andliterally poured my heart out to
him.
He listened and he understoodwhat I was going through.
Did he though?
Did he?
I don't know.
Did he?
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He said there are good days andthat there are bad days.
Which one am I?
That is kind of the corniestshit I've ever heard.
Which days are you?
Good days or bad days?
Whatever, let's keep it going.
So I told him, All my days arebad, because I have a child that
doesn't know her father, and mytastes in men are just horrible.
So we said that there are thereare brighter days ahead, and
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that sometimes you have to lookfor what's right in front of
you.
That ain't the corniest shitI've ever heard, but that might
have worked.
So I did.
And we started to make out.
Well, that was quick, wasn't it?
That was quick.
So I did.
We started to make out before Iknew it we were having sex in
his office on the couch.
I did not know that this iswhere he lives as well, but it's
okay.
Really?
You didn't know?
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Really?
God, I really like knowing moreabout this guy.
I think he's the one for me, andwe started dating, and he's
really interested me so muchthat I started to work
part-time, part-time night inhis office while he's doing out
doing his PI work.
Okay, let me stop right here.
You started you were workingpart-time nights in his office
while he's out doing PI work.
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Do PIs even have a nighttimesecretary?
I don't know.
I've never heard of that.
I knew a guy that was a PI, butI don't know if he lived in his
office.
But awkward, I don't know.
Whatever, let's keep this thinggoing.
So I thought I would organizesome files and I came across
some files and some photos,which I was confused about.
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The picture was of my mother anda file that I'm assuming that
she used to do some PI work.
I didn't say anything about ituntil I talked to my mom, which
I was careful not to tell herwho I was dating, or that I had
seen the file.
As it turns out, the guy I wasdating also dated my mom back in
the day.
Jesus Lord, this isn't a tingleshit.
(12:03):
Um okay.
She told me that they dated fora few years and that it ended
badly because at that time hewasn't a PI.
In my mom's opinion, he was acon man, fake ass wannabe, that
easy that could easy sweet talkany woman into what he wanted.
I don't see that going anywhere,but okay.
So I asked her what happened.
How did they meet?
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She said he was working at a cardealership when they met.
He dressed like he owned theplace, portrayed himself as an
owner, but later found out hewas nothing more than a
sanitation worker.
And he was dressed like thatbecause he had just come from
court.
Jesus, oh whatever.
You know, these letters as Iread them, you know, when I
first read them, I just can't Ican't understand or fathom the
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the the things that peoplewrite.
And I'm really gonna try to givemy honest opinion about this,
but I don't know what I can sayor what I can do because my
opinions are full of sarcasm andfull of just sarcasm.
So here we go.
Okay, so we're okay.
Uh-huh.
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So I asked her what happened.
She said okay, I read that part.
Okay.
But she didn't care.
She thought he was a one, butshe told me how he said he
didn't have kids, but laterfound out that he has four kids,
and that was the reason for himgoing to court because his child
support is tearing his ass up,as well as it should be.
As well as it should be.
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And she said that he has oneaway, which is number five,
because wait for it, the fifthone is the daughter of my mom's
best friend, which was onepoint, which was one point my
bestie, Angela.
Yes, you heard that right.
So not only did the mother datehim, but he currently has a
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child with the best friend ofMiss Rachel, which is Angela.
We haven't spoken since highschool because he's uh we
haven't spoken since high schoolbecause she was caught up with
my boyfriend and she said thatthey were just best friends.
Wait, hold on.
And that she said that they werejust best friends, but until the
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day I s still I don't believeher.
Let me read that again.
We haven't spoken since highschool because she was caught up
with my boyfriend, and that shesaid that we were just just
friends, but till this day Istill don't believe her.
We were close growing up, andthat she tried to lie to me and
say that they were rehearsingfor a school play in the scene
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that involved a kiss.
Okay, I believe that.
So I was like, yeah, whatever.
Turns out she was telling thetruth because the guy I dated is
now gay and happily married tohis husband.
Oh Jesus, and I was not sorry,but because I knew I seen it
with my own eyes.
So I know that I was making theright decision.
Are you out of your damnegg-sucking salamander mind?
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If your best friend is tellingyou that it was just a kiss for
a rehearsal play, which I canpretty much attest to that, then
why not leave it at that?
I mean, I'm trying to figure outwhat indication gave you that
she was lying to you.
I mean, it was a school play andit was good.
I don't understand.
Jesus Lord, I don't know.
We're gonna get to this laterthough.
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But come to find out, the guythat she kissed is gay now and
he's happily married to hishusband.
So yeah, right.
So I asked my mom what happenedto my best friend Angela, and
how did she meet this guy?
She said that he was startinghis career as a P.I.
wanted to hire Angela as hissecretary, and that she said
that he said that he had abright future, and they ended up
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in a hotel sleep together, andthat he and that he showed up
six months ago, and he asked tomarry him, and she said yes.
Oh, Jesus.
My mom was on fire becauseAngela is 27 and tried to warn
my friend Angela, but Angeladidn't care.
She wanted a better life, so hepromised to give it to her.
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My mom said Esther, Angela'smom, had called her very pissed
off and upset because Ron hadbroken off.
Oh, Lord of mercy, had brokenoff the engagement because he
met someone.
And I was thinking, like, thisfool met someone is now cheating
on me and my best friend.
Oh, what the hell is this?
What the hell is this letter?
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He'll write some weird shit tome.
We're gonna get through thisthough.
So I didn't say anything becauseRon had asked me to marry him,
so I said yes, Icon.
I'm so excited.
And I know that he's the one forme.
He told me that he loves me andthat he could be the father my
daughter never had.
You mean the father he's neverbeen to his children?
SPEAKER_02 (16:41):
Okay.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (16:43):
So is it wrong to be happy with him?
I mean, sure, he has he has hada not so good life, but I feel
that we are connected on a levelthat he understands me.
Do you though?
Do you?
I'm sorry, y'all.
I can't get to this letterwithout making some kind of some
kind of sarcastic commentsbecause when I read this, I was
like, is this chick serious?
What the hell?
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Here's the other part that gotme.
I understand that he has a babyon the way, but I'm not sure who
the woman is.
Really?
You don't know?
Really, you don't know who thewoman is?
Oh my god.
I haven't asked him anythingabout his past because it's none
of my business.
Again, what the hell is yourproblem?
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I wanted a fresh start in lifebecause my child father surely
doesn't want to be with me, andso I wanted to be happy and
married.
At what cost did you want to behappy and married?
I know this is difficult when hegoes back to meet my mom, and I
told her that I have a surprisefor her when I return in the
spring.
So, Icon, I need your honestopinion on how I should move
forward.
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I really love him and I knowthat we were meant to be
together.
Okay, here are my thoughtsbefore we get to the questions
that I asked Miss Angela.
Um I don't know if this is real.
I don't know if this is somekind of screwed up individual
who's clearly clearly hasemotional issues or something,
(18:09):
but I think this is a yeah, thisis a cluster.
Ugh.
Cluster fuck.
A serious clusterfuck.
I think she picked the wrongdamn title of this letter.
The title of this letter shouldhave been A Web of Damn Lies.
Real talk.
I mean, this is just ridiculous.
Who in the hell?
Oh my gosh.
(18:29):
Gee, this is some shit you won'teven see about on the TV or or
not really somebody that you Imean, I don't really know this
chick, but she's from Arkansas.
So, no, that doesn't say a lotabout arc and people in
Arkansas.
Let's not get it twisted becauseeverybody has their own bag of
shit, right?
They do.
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Any event, I proceeded to askMiss Rachel's Rochelle some
questions.
And here's the question that Ihad.
I said, Do you seriously notunderstand who the baby mama is?
She says, No, I didn't.
I'm gonna tell you who the damnbaby mama is.
It's your bestie, or was yourbestie, okay?
Because clearly, if this nutsaid the same shit to you and
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said the same thing to uh herand they ended up in a hotel,
clearly this you guys have nogoals in life as to being happy.
You want to just and the crazything is this guy's like 48
years old and you are 28 and sheis 27.
So clearly, I'm not sure whatwhere the hell y'all live in
Arkansas, but clearly it can'tbe that damn bad where y'all
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want to go for the older guy whoclearly oh my god, what is this
guy's MO?
Because I thought at one pointin time, I thought that it was
just a I thought it was kind ofsick because but then she didn't
say if they knew this guy fromback in the day, so they didn't
say if they knew him or if theywere um I don't know, because
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it's kind of weird.
How would you date the mother?
And then you go from the motherto the best friends to your to
the mother's daughter's bestfriend, which is Angela.
I'm trying to figure out howthat even happened.
In any event, I asked her, haveyou since spoken to Angela?
She said yes.
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They talked for hours, but spenthalf of that arguing about what
happened in high school.
That sounds like that might havebeen more of you than her.
Because I'm pretty sure thatconversation probably went like,
I've tried to tell you that Iwasn't we weren't romantically
involved, it was a play, but youdidn't want to believe me, so
you want to take this kiss andblow it out of proportion, which
I think is what your habit is,is that you're blowing something
out of proportion that doesn'treally seem to fit the mo of
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your bestie Angela.
Because it seems like if youguys have been friends for a
very long time, I don't thinkshe would do that to you because
she obviously didn't end up withthe guy.
I mean, gotta admit, she didn'tend up with the guy.
The guy's not he's married to aman.
Hello.
And I asked her, was sheserious?
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She said, Yes, why are youasking?
I'm asking you that because thisdamn letter does not make any
damn sense to me.
You are jumping all over thedamn place.
You first you are you moved toBirmingham, Alabama, because he
is in Huntsville, Alabama.
Well, that's only like maybemaybe an hour drive.
Maybe.
I mean, I've been through bothparts of Alabama, Montgomery,
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Huntsville, uh, Birmingham, andthey are not really that far in
distance.
So you're trying to keep tabs onsomebody.
Oh, Jesus Christ.
I asked her this question too aswell, and I asked, Was she
pregnant?
Because if she was pregnant,that really was gonna throw a
whole wretch into the whole damnplans of what I had to say.
She said no.
I said, Do you plan to have morekids with Ron?
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She said no, but he wants more,but I told him no because I
don't want to be a single motherif this doesn't work out.
Really?
You don't want to be a singlemother if this doesn't work out?
Newsflash, you're already asingle mother.
Because clearly he's not thefather.
And I'm gonna tell you why he'snot the father, because this
dumbass has four damn kids, oneon the way that he had just came
from court, which I'm for whichI'm sure was about child
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support.
So, what in the hell are youthinking?
This guy, okay, let's getthrough it.
Let's get through it.
Are you still together with Mr.
Ron?
She said, Yes, I really lovehim.
Okay.
Have you talked to him about hispast?
No, but he was summoned, he wasserved as summons for family
court again.
Jesus Lord, this guy must be.
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He's 40 years old.
Who the hell needs to tell youto take care of your own damn
kids?
And you're 48 years old.
What is his life?
Anyways.
Clearly in my mind, there's alot of red flags.
A lot of red flags.
I asked her the most importantquestion.
Does he live with you?
No, he wanted to stay living inseparate homes, so I'm good with
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that.
Really?
You're good with that?
Okay.
Alright.
Let me give me a drink rightquick, we're gonna get through
this.
So you're fine with him livingin the place where he works
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because you work there as well.
He can't be no legit PI.
He's got to be playing PI inorder for him to either get laid
or to find young, attracting,naive women, women as yourself.
Because clearly, if it didn'twork out with the older woman,
which was your mother, and hedecided to ground downgrade
while you decided to upgrade,clearly this man is not mature
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as you think he is.
I don't think this guy is thatmature.
I honestly don't.
I think this is a guy just he'sjust a dog looking for a bone,
and he's got one girl pregnant,which is 27, he's 48.
Oh my gosh.
Oh Jesus.
And he's got four other kids.
I don't even know what the otherbaby's mamas are or what they're
consisting of, but clearly youhave some deep-seated rooted
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issues, and that you should getaway from this.
The fact that you're dating yourmom's ex is a clearly a red
flag.
You think you're gonna strollinto back to Arkansas with this
man on your arm?
You are clearly on something.
You are clearly on somethingvery bad.
And I only say that in arespectful way because what you
are doing is I don't know ifit's unheard of, but it's
(24:26):
unheard of to me.
I've never seen this shitbefore, I've only seen this shit
on TV.
But never when I thought I'd getsomebody that would write to me
and say that they're datingtheir mother's ex.
Okay, you're a grown woman, he'sa grown man, you're 28, he's 48,
20 year age difference.
I was more concerned on I'mreally much more concerned on
why he has the pictures of yourmother.
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I don't know if this man triedto play this ploy and to say, I
don't even know if you knew thisguy when he was dating your mom,
which in my opinion, I think hedid know you.
And to me, it's kind of sick.
I don't know if how my listenersfeel, but to me it's kind of
sick because I'm not datingnobody's daughter.
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Um, that I dated the mother,because that's just sick.
The fact that he is dating youand got your best friend
pregnant really says not a lotabout you and her, you and him.
Because clearly, if you two arebest friends, and I'm pretty
sure I'm almost 100% positivethat this man has seen you and
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your best friend.
To me, that's a problem.
To me, that's an issue.
To me, I can't really say it'spedophilia because you guys are
older now and you're bothadults.
To me, it's just sick.
I wouldn't know no I that's likeme um scoping out one of my
daughter's friends and waitingfor them to get older, and then
to say, hey, let no hell to theno lord, no, no.
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I almost threw it from my mouthand got mad.
I don't understand how this isgoing to work because this isn't
going to work, because thereason why it's not going to
work is because this guy seemslike he has a web of lies and
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you're tangled in that web oflies.
And when you're tangled in a webof lies, it's only gonna be more
that's gonna come out.
I mean, you only know of thefour damn kids plus the five
that you know of.
I'm starting to think who hisother baby mamas are.
I mean, if he's still going tochild support, if he's going to
uh court for child support,clearly the kids could be older,
they could be, I don't know, uh,because you didn't really say
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the fact that it doesn't matteris you're not you're not putting
your you're not asking all theright questions.
You want to let this ride.
I wouldn't let none of this shitride.
I would tell your mother,because if your mother tried to
tell your best friend not tohook up with him, and clearly
she didn't listen, but she gotpregnant by the dumbass guy, and
then they were engaged to getmarried, and now you're engaged
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to get married to him.
What does that wedding unlooklike?
Man, and you guys don't evenlive together.
That's even more because helives at his his place of
business, which is a PI firm.
Which hold on.
If I can imagine, it's somesmall little shanty office
building not sitting on top ofno business, but he's got an
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open office area space, he's gota sofa.
Oh Lord of mercy.
I'm trying to figure out whatthis guy did in life because you
said that your mom met this guyas a sanitation worker and he
was dressed and he was comingfrom court.
I've never seen a sanitationworker that clean that would
come to clean a dealership in aclean suit like that.
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I wish I'd seen a picture ofthis because that would have
taken me back.
But your mom said that clearlyhe wasn't that she thought he
was the one, and now you thinkhe's the one for you.
Make that make sense.
How do you think this guy's theone for you when this guy's got
four of the kids one on the wayby your bestie, and he can't
even take care of it?
You want him to be the fatherthat you want him to be to your
daughter?
Are you freaking kidding meright now?
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I mean, seriously, make thatshit make sense.
Oh my gosh.
I am seeing this as a huge redflag.
I not only think you shouldleave this guy, I think you
should run back to home toArkansas to live with your
mother and make amends with yourbest friends because clearly you
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have some issues where you thinkthat, and I'm sorry if I'm
jumping all over the place, butyou're blaming your best friend
for the loss of your boyfriend,which clearly I don't think that
was gonna be her fault.
I think it's much more yourfault because you took a kiss
that was from a high school playtoo seriously.
Let me tell you something.
In a high school play, there aresome high schools that it is a
kiss, and not only is there akiss that the parents have to be
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okay about it, the students,which are number one, have to be
okay with it.
So it's not like they weregetting busy on stage and it
turned into a whole uh teen pornthing.
It was a kiss.
I've seen it, I haven't done it,but I was in a play that the
main two co-stars or the mainstars kissed each other, no big
deal.
It's a play, and if it got ravereviews on it, big whoopy
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fucking deal.
I don't mean lose my shit here,but this letter is pissing me
the hell off because I don'tunderstand how you could sit
here and blame everybody butyourself.
And if you're blaming others foryour downfall, well, clearly you
need to take a look in themirror because clearly this is
nobody's fault but yours.
Now, I don't know the situationabout you and your child's
father, and if he moved away toum Huntsville and you're in
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Birmingham, or I said thatright, yeah, did I?
SPEAKER_02 (29:29):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_00 (29:30):
And if he doesn't see his child, and if he's under
a court order, then I don'tknow.
I don't know what to tell you.
But my suggestion to you is thatyou need to take a hard look in
the mirror because dating yourmom's ex says a lot.
And I know when your mom, whenyou decide to bring him home, or
that's the other thing I didn'task.
I don't know if he knows yourmom.
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I should have asked thatquestion, that should have been
the important question.
Well, because if this guy knowswho your mother is, but knows
you too as well.
What does that say?
You still want to be with thisguy?
What the hell is wrong with you?
I mean, there's plenty of fishout there in the city, plenty.
I mean, so this guy's 48 yearsold, that's fine, but he is
keeping a lot of secrets fromyou that in the end I think
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you're gonna get hurt, you'regonna get hurt, you're gonna be
pissed off, and you're gonna beright back to square one.
Let's face it, you're already asingle mother because this child
is not his, clearly not his.
So, it's not his child.
Um, you're talking about he saidthat he can be the father that
he's never been to yourdaughter.
But how in the hell is thatpossible when he has five other
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damn kids?
Four kids, one on the way.
If he's not taking care of thesewomen, I'm trying to pick up
what his life is.
You must have been grippingthrough life.
If you're 48 years old and youhave four kids, man, I really
wish I knew how old these kidswere.
But obviously, he thinks he'ssome kind of Casanova, some kind
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of James Bond, some kind ofladies' man, some kind of shit
like that.
How in the hell is that evenpossible?
Oh my gosh.
Never mind the age differencebecause you're a grown-ass
woman.
I'd have been a lot more pissedoff if you said you were 18 or
17 and he was 48.
I'd have been a lot more pissedoff about that.
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But you're in a grown adult, agrown adult who clearly made her
way to uh Birmingham, Alabama.
Obviously, you have a goodpaying job or you have a job,
and now you have two jobsbecause you work in his office
at night, and I'm trying tofigure out what that entails.
Oh, honey, I'm home.
How was work?
Oh, it's good.
I mean, Jesus, Lord in mercy.
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He's the PI, and I'm pretty sureyou're not his only damn client.
So if he's telling you that hewants to, if he wants you guys
to have separate residence, thenI can pretty much sure that baby
number six is on the way fromsomewhere, and you're gonna find
that out sooner than later.
And when you find that out, I'mwondering if you're still gonna
love this man because this manclearly knows what he's doing.
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I would say he's grooming you,but you're a grown-ass woman.
And I mean, I know you're notthat naive to understand that
the child that's on the way isthe is the baby of your best
friend.
I mean, you're clearly not youcan't be this naive, you can't
be this naive, and you can't bethis stupid to sit here and
think to say, Well, I don't knowwho the baby mama is.
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You know exactly who's the babymama.
If your mom is telling you thathe was there six months ago and
your best friend ended uppregnant, uh clearly the due
date is coming up really soon.
So I'm not saying go back andtalk to your bestie well your
ex-best friend Angela becauseI'm pretty sure when she finds
out that you're dating this guy,she's probably gonna flip a damn
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litter so it's like this is likefamily drama that don't even
need to be created.
But the family drama is alreadygonna be there because you
refuse to accept the truth ofthe matter is that this man
dated your mother, he dated yourbest friend, now he's dating
you.
Do you not see what the hell ishappening here?
Do you not see what's going onhere?
I mean, clearly, that is a hugeass red flag to me.
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I mean, shit, y'all might aswell be family.
I mean, it damn sure seems likeyou are any damn way.
Damn.
You got my damn blood boiling,and this ain't even about me.
And I'm just trying to figureout that I would never do
something like that.
I mean, listeners, if you guys,I don't know.
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I I don't think I would ever dosomething like that because
that's crazy, it's crazy workand it's ridiculous.
And honestly, Miss Rachel, Ithink that you should let this
man go.
I know you're probably not gonnalisten to me because you don't
listen to reason anyway, becausewhat you think when people try
to tell you something, you thinkit's probably the best advice
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that you have for yourself andnot what they're telling you.
This is gonna come back to hurtyou, and it's gonna come back to
bite you in the ass so bad thatI think you're gonna end up
being depressed.
I really do.
I don't want that for you.
I don't I just think you need tobe smarter in your decision
making.
I think if you move toBirmingham for a reason, let it
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be that reason.
You should let I'm I mean, I'mstarting to think what you're
paying this guy with.
I'm sure I hope you're notpaying him with sex, but then
again, he's your boyfriend, soclearly the focus is off the
child's father for now, and thefocus is clearly on him because
you said you love him.
Sweetheart, you're 28 years old,you're still young, you still
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have a chance at life, you stillhave a chance to find the one
that is meant for you.
But if you moved to Birmingham,Alabama, I would probably take
that time to get myself togetherand not worry about what this 40
year 48-year-old man is doing.
Thank God that you're notpregnant by him because you are
going to be the next victim.
And you have a three-year-old.
That's the only smart thing yousaid to me is that you don't
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want another child right nowbecause you don't want to be a
single mother.
Again, you are a single mother.
You are.
I mean, I sure don't think thatthis guy has any inclination of
taking care of his kids, andthis can't be just the only job
he has.
Is he he's a PI.
I mean, if he wasn't a PI then,but he's just starting out, I
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don't think he's making thatkind of money.
I honestly don't.
I think he is just a nickel anddime hustler.
I think he is a guy that is downhis luck that can probably sweet
talk any woman, any youngerwoman, because I think the older
women have probably had enoughof his shit.
And they said, uh-uh, we ain'tdrawing, we ain't going this way
no more.
But the fact that you're gettingmarried to this man is
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diabolical.
It's it's really is Oh man.
I don't know what to think aboutthis anymore because it's kind
of.
I don't know.
If my daughters did this, youguys would probably read about
it in the news the next day.
Even though they're grown adult,they're grown, but it just
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doesn't make any sense to me howyou could date a man that dated
your mother.
And if it didn't work out duringyour mother, I would oh my god,
I would really challenge you togo back to your mother.
And I hope you give me an updateon this letter to say, well,
this is what happened, you know,this didn't work out.
Or I would pray now, hopefully,that you would come to your
sense and say that this man isnot the man for you.
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You need to ask this man someserious questions, you need to
know about his past.
Now, and when I'm talking abouthis past, the women that he's
fathered children with, thathe's created these lives with,
you already know of one.
Let's not play with each other,you already know it's one, and
that's your bestie Angela.
And if you tell her that you'regonna get married to him again,
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I can see this argument, I cansee this.
Your mom, if you didn't eventell your mom, and I'm trying to
figure out who are you keepingthe secret for?
Who are you keeping the secretto?
What is this gonna do for youand your family?
Because I'm gonna tell you whatit's gonna do for your mother,
and it's gonna probably breakher damn heart, where she's
probably gonna get pissed offand mad.
She's probably gonna flip thelid.
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I would definitely flip the lid,I would probably go ham.
But I don't know, that's justme.
But I think the situation isjust a bad situation all the way
around.
I think that you should justfocus on yourself and focus on
your child and focus on youbeing happy and letting somebody
come find you.
I think the the the problem istoday with um with the younger
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people is that you guys don'twant to be alone.
I, for the love of you life ofme, can't understand why you
wouldn't want to be alone, whyjump into a relationship this
early?
Why would you have kids thisearly if you know you're not
ready?
Um now I'm not a saint, but Ididn't have kids till after I
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got married.
That's just the way I wanted it.
Now, my sisters, they had kidsbefore they got married, and
they went through a lot ofheartache, a lot of trouble, a
lot of pain.
I don't wish that upon nobody.
The problem is with you youngpeople today, y'all think y'all
need to have somebody just soyou can show people that you're
with somebody.
But showing somebody that you'rewith somebody may not all be
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good because you don't even knowthe person who you're with.
I mean, this person that you'rewith has a full closet full of
skeletons.
Full closet.
You don't know if these women,I'm gonna say these women are
more, but they might be inArkansas because he just started
his PI career.
But I don't understand what theproblem is if you don't want to
be alone, then you're not alonereally because you have your
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daughter.
You're upset that you say it'snot fair.
Well, life is not fair, youknow.
If you're with this guy forthree years, he was verbally
abusive, then I'm not even surehow y'all got a child out of
this.
Maybe some makeup sex, I don'tknow.
But the problem is with today'sgeneration, you guys just don't
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want to be alone.
You guys always want to havesomebody on your arm, and you
always want to be with somebody,no matter what they're about, it
could be good, it could be bad,or it could be somewhere in
between.
You just don't want to be alone.
I don't know what that is.
I don't understand what that'sI'm alone right now.
Now, when my wife died, I wasclearly alone, but that didn't
give me the right to go outthere and start trying to date
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every woman that I came acrossor try to sleep with every woman
that I came across becausethat's not who I am, that's not
what I'm about.
I have morals, I have integrityfor myself, and though someone
may not think I'm the bestlooking man that they've ever
seen, that's fine, I'mcompletely good with that.
But I'm not gonna lower mystandards because I'm alone.
I'm not gonna lower my standardsto say, well, you know, I just
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need to get laid.
I don't.
You know, you young people,y'all want to grow up too damn
quick.
Y'all don't want to take thetime to enjoy life, to live your
life, but y'all want to jumpinto bed with each other.
And then when you have a baby,then he's right out the damn
door.
Or it all goes downhill.
It does.
I've seen it before.
I've yet to see any relationshipin this day and age survive when
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there's a kid in play.
I mean, that whole team was.
A teen mom show on MTV that wasa prime example.
Granted, they did it with mostlywhite folks, but you know, that
was clearly a prime example.
One girl got hooked on drugs,the other one was I don't know,
it was just a it's just it'sjust a shit show.
So in life, being alone is notbad.
Being alone is good becausethat's not only helping you get
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yourself together, but that'senabling you to do better in
life and to set standards andgoals for yourself.
You know, you have athree-year-old daughter.
Think about your three-year-olddaughter.
Think about what if it was yourthree-year-old daughter that was
let's put the let's okay, holdon, let's do it this way.
What if the shoe was on theother foot?
What if you were the mother andyour daughter was dating this
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48-year-old man?
How in the hell would you feelif that was your daughter and
she kept this secret from you?
You would not be happy, youwould be pissed.
I would be pissed.
I mean, I don't know in life.
I understand you were attractedto bad boys.
I get that, I understand that.
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But there are not a lot, there'sthere's not a lot of bad boys in
this world.
Some portray to be, like your48-year-old Ron, who clearly
think he is God's gift of theworld to women, but clearly he
is not.
So you have to ask yourselfthese questions.
You need to sit down and clearlythink about what you're doing.
Is it worth it?
Is it worth going back home?
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Is is he even gonna go with youto go back home?
I don't think he's going to.
You know why?
Because I think oh, I I think ifhe finds out that you and Angela
were best friends, which I'm I'malmost certain that I think he
might know.
I think he might know.
I I think he I don't know.
I think he might know.
The timing of this is toocoincidental.
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The timing of this is just toomuch to not understand how you
cannot put all how you cannotdot the I's and cross the T's on
this.
I don't understand this, not onedamn bit.
I don't, I really don't.
But clearly, this man has anulterior motive.
I don't know what this motiveis, but he's got one young girl
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and now he's got another one.
The only difference is you'renot pregnant and she is.
What is that even gonna looklike?
I mean, if he doesn't see hisother four kids now, is he gonna
see his new child?
I don't think he is.
I don't I don't know what theproblem is with men getting
women pregnant, and it's finethat he wanted to, and then uh
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here's the other thing he wasengaged to your best friend, and
now you're engaged to him.
Jesus, you are if this isn't apot of shit.
I don't know what is becauseit's all bad, it's really bad.
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Oh my gosh.
This is um this is justridiculous.
Because I say it's ridiculousbecause it's just a screwed-up
situation.
The situation is just not gonnahelp itself, the situation is
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ultimately not gonna work itselfout.
The situation is gonna get worseand worse over time because you
let it fester this way becauseof your own selfish needs, and
you're selfish in a way that Idon't understand why you would
be so selfish.
I'm not even sure how you evengot this way.
I'm going back to the bestfriend because I think the best
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friend was true and honest toyou.
But I think you're turningaround and you're playing with
fire because you're not going totell your best friend who you're
dating, even though the guy thatgot her pregnant is the guy that
you're now dating.
It was clearly a deadbeat assfather.
A deadbeat ass father.
And you say that you love him.
Yeah, well, I don't think heloves you.
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I don't.
I think it's just infatuation.
I think it's just him gettinghis rocks off, and he's got a
younger, another, another hotyoung woman instead of taking
the time to take care of hisother responsibilities.
And then the the audacity thathe had to tell you that he could
be the father to your daughterthat she's never had.
Somebody smack me, please.
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So please tell me I'm dreaming.
Please tell me.
I honestly hope that after youhear this podcast, I want an
update.
I hopefully you give me anupdate.
And I'm sorry if you think I'mbeing too hard on you, but
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clearly, if you haven't toldyour friends or your mother,
which doesn't sound like yousaid anything to anybody, that
you're just trying to puteverything together, you have
all the signs in front of you,every single freaking sign in
front of you.
You have everything.
Your mother's told you, yourbestie's pregnant with with his
child.
What more do you need to saythat I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
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let this happen to me, or I'mjust gonna go on and find
somebody else, or I'm just gonnago be alone and take care of my
damn daughter.
Because you gotta figure out,you know, kids mimic what their
parents do, and you don't wantthat for your child.
And I've I'm a firm believer inthat because I've seen that
before.
I've seen my sister-in-law andher daughter, where my
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sister-in-law thinks herdaughter is the most finest
thing walking.
Yeah, she's light-skinned, she'sbeautiful, she's got two kids,
and she's not even freaking 20.
That's that's that's ridiculous.
So, women have to be smarter,women have to be, and there are
some women, no, no, there aremostly women that are smarter,
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and I understand that women inthis day of age, it's kind of
hard to try to find the rightman because I feel the same way
when I was looking for my um formy happiness.
I felt the same way, but youhave to give it time, don't be
so much in a rush.
It is okay to go on dates, it isokay to get to know that person,
but you were talking to thisguy, and then all of a sudden
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you guys started making out youand you guys started having sex.
Clearly, that was his intention.
It was just a matter of timebefore you got roped in.
I'm not sure what he told youabout your child's father.
I don't know.
Some PIs are good, some are not.
I only had the pleasure ofworking with one, and the one
that I worked with, he was inthe up and up.
And then when somebody tried towhen one of his customers tried
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to hit on him, he said, No,ma'am, I don't do that.
I don't do that.
This is strictly business.
And I took him as being aresponsible, a responsible man
because he didn't um he didn'ttake advantage of the situation.
He wanted to truly help hiscustomers try to find what they
needed to know about theirspouses, and he did just that.
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Excuse me, he did just that.
So I'm thinking like this guyclearly ain't working you over,
but he's working a whole lot ofother women over.
I'm trying to figure out whatdid he tell the other women?
You know, what did he tell theother women?
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If he told your friend Angelathat he wanted her to come work
with him, and now look whereshe's at.
She's still at home.
Or I'm thinking she's at home.
Didn't really say that neither.
I got a feeling I didn't ask allthe right questions, but I only
asked the questions that Ithought would have been relevant
to this letter.
So I just think it's bad, it's abad situation.
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I think you should quickly,quickly get yourself away from
it.
You can probably sit back andsay, Well, what do I know?
I don't know anything.
You wrote me.
You wrote me.
I'm giving you my honestopinion.
I don't take anything forgranted.
I don't take any woman forgranted.
Why would I?
You know, I do this podcast, Iam I'm in love with a very
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beautiful woman.
I'm married to a very beautifulwoman.
So why do I need to do that?
And I get all kind of offers.
All kinds of offers.
Do I need to act on them?
No, because I'm not made thatway.
I mean, again, I'm not perfect,I'm not the best man walking
this earth.
I know I have issues withinmyself that I work out and I'm
gonna continue to work out, butat least I'm not taking
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advantage of anybody, especiallynobody as young as well, shit.
Yeah, I know what I'm trying tosay.
I'm not taking advantage of anyof my daughter's friends because
that's not who I am, and itdoesn't matter if they're older
because I've had this happen tome before when I was uh let's
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see, when I was a bus driver andI stopped driving buses.
I think I told you guys a storybefore, but a few years back or
a few might have been 10 yearsago, there was a young lady that
came up to me and she was like,I remember you, you were my bus
driver.
I said, Really?
And I said, uh, okay.
And she said, Well, how are youdoing?
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I said, Are you good?
I said, I'm good.
How about you?
It's like, oh, you know, I'mjust here.
I said, Are you doing anything?
I said, Doing anything likewhat?
I am I'm married.
She's like, that's okay.
She's like, maybe we can just gohave some fun.
I said, Didn't you say I used tobe a bus driver?
No, hell no.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,no.
If you have to start theconversation that I knew you as
you were my bus driver, I don'tthink so.
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Hell to the no.
I don't roll like that, I don'tdo shit like that, and I'm not
desperate like that.
Because clearly, if it's not methat's saying that, somebody
else would have probably actedon that, but that's not who I
am.
I don't need to oh well, how didyou meet this guy?
Oh, he was my bus driver.
Say what he was your what?
No, hell no.
Who the hell?
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I mean, listen.
As a man, as a man, that's justwho I am.
I am not a saint, but I don'tlike to take advantage of women,
and I think any man that takesadvantage of a woman's like
emotional state or her naivetyor whatever, I think it's gonna
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come back to you.
Now, again, I'm not a perfectman, and I don't pretend to be a
perfect man.
I do this podcast to try to helppeople and to try to you know
maybe give my best advice.
I don't make any money off this,I'm not you people send these
letters to me, and I get a lotof these letters.
So, but I think, Miss Rachel,that you should really start to
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reevaluate your life.
I think you should really try toestablish who you are as a young
woman and understand that youhave a daughter.
If your daughter started doingthis and she gets of age, how's
it gonna make you feel?
That's going to piss you off,excuse me, to no point of no
return.
And then you're gonna have theaudacity to throw it up in her
face when clearly I'm not surehow long you're gonna let this
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go on with this guy, but I don'tknow.
I think that um your daughterdeserves someone that's going to
be there for her.
Um, if it's not gonna be herfather, I really would like to
know what happened to herfather.
I don't know.
I can't pass judgment on thisman because I don't know if he
moved away to Huntsville andyou're in Birmingham, clearly it
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had to be for a job.
I don't think it's for a girl.
He might have met the girl whenhe got there.
But Arkansas and Alabama arekind of on the same economy
length or something like that.
But in any event, I think thatyou should um definitely have a
sit-down with Mr.
Ron.
I think you should talk to Ron,but most of all, who I think you
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should talk to is your mother.
You should talk to your motherand you should tell your mother
what is going on.
Is she not gonna be happy?
I don't think she is.
Why?
Because if he wasn't good fromyour mother, he wasn't good for
your best friend, third time's acharm.
He ain't gonna be damn good,he's not he's damn sure not
gonna be good for you.
And that's facts.
That's facts.
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I mean, if you don't think youthink you if you think you're
not gonna get hurt by thissituation, I guarantee you're
already gonna be feeling thehurt.
Because if you're in his officegoing through files and you've
seen the file on your mother,what does that even say?
I mean, you're working part-timein his office, I would get the
hell far away from his office.
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I would move someplace.
I don't know, maybe going backhome may or may not be an
option.
I mean, clearly you have yourown place, you and your
daughter, you followed yourchild's father out there, but
you don't think it's gonna beany kind of reconciliation.
Listen, as hard as it is when awhen you have a child by a man
that you're not married to andyou decide that you want to
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break it off, or you guys arejust calling it quits, it hurts,
it does, it hurts, but you'renot the only one that goes to
this.
How you get through this is howyou just continue to be stronger
and how you continue to be a lotbetter parent towards your
daughter.
Now, I know we don't want ourkids to see us cry or see our
kids see us down, but that'slife.
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But you gotta be strong for yourdaughter, be strong for her and
let her understand that thereare some men that's gonna be
worth it, there are some menthat's not gonna be worth it.
It is gonna be up to you toteach your daughter how to be
that respectful woman because Ithink that you're respectful, I
think that you're just having arough goal of life, and I think
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you just I think you've justbeen hurt, and that this man,
you told him what happened, andthen next thing you guys know,
you guys end up having sex onthe couch of his office.
Jesus, make that make sense.
It's kind of awkward becauseit's awkward because I don't
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know if you guys even still havethe same damn couch.
Thank god I don't know whereyour office is at because I'd
probably put that shit on blast,but I'm not gonna do that
because that's not who I am, butthat's just disgusting.
But you are in his office almostif not every day, and you have
to look at the place where helives where you guys have sex at
but that you work at.
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Is that good for you or is thatI don't know what the hell is
that?
I don't I don't understand it, Idon't get it.
I mean, why would you want to goback to a place where you guys
had sex and you guys have he hascustomers coming in and you're
hearing these customers?
I honestly don't think this guyis like a full a full PI.
(54:29):
I think he is just someone whois just trying to get his rocks
off, basically.
I think that because you don'tsay if he's as if he's just
starting out, which clearlythat's what I think he's doing.
I think and he was a sanitationworker.
I'm trying to figure out how hegot into the whole PI thing.
(54:49):
I don't know.
This is just weird to me.
But in any event, Miss Rachel,again, I would challenge you to
get to talk to your mother.
I want you guys to have aserious heart to heart.
I want you guys to talk.
I would also encourage you to,after you talk to your mother,
to reach out to your yourex-best friend, Angela, because
(55:14):
you have it harder, she's gonnahave it the hardest.
Because if you decide to staywith this man, that's gonna
bring a lot of heartache.
Knowing that you know that he isthe child's father, because you
didn't say that your friendAngela was that way, but I don't
even think she's that way.
I just think she's a young ladythat got caught up in a moment
(55:35):
and then got taken advantage of,and I think that's very sad.
So I want you to apologize toher.
You should damn sure apologizeto your mother, and then I think
you should break it off with Mr.
Ron.
Actually, let's do it in thisorder.
You should break it off with Mr.
Ron, you should talk to yourmother, then you should talk to
(55:55):
Angela in that order.
And if you don't think you cando that, then Miss Rachel,
you're not the strongest womanthat I thought you were.
Because clearly, you're gonnabreak a lot of hearts.
And if some relationships aredefinitely gonna end, starting
with you and your mother.
So, if your mom thought this manwas a fake ass con man, then
(56:17):
clearly you should see what'sright in front of you.
And the fact that he used thosecorny ass lines are just
ridiculous.
So, as I get ready to close theshow out, I want you to let your
heart do the thinking.
Use your heart, use yourintuition.
(56:39):
I know, I know that since you'veemailed me, I know that you are
having some serious doubts.
I know that you are thinking andthat your mind is on overload
because you're trying to figureout who this woman is.
I'm telling you who this womanis, and if he says otherwise,
he's lying.
And if he does say that's nother, then tell him to take a
blood test.
Because it doesn't make anysense.
Six months ago, that's that'sthat's and I think she might be
(57:04):
getting ready to be due to havethis baby.
I don't know.
I don't know, but I would talkto Ron.
And if Ron doesn't want to tellyou about his past, and if he
wants to start blaming otherwomen for his downfall in life,
I don't want to say you twodeserve each other because I
don't think you I don't think hedeserves you.
(57:25):
I think you deserve better.
But I think that you shouldn'tbe so quick to judge a book by
its cover.
And I think you shouldn't justtake one side of the story, and
if you've seen something withyour own eyes, some things ain't
always what they seen.
You know, like you said, thiswas a play.
And I can't really keep goingback to this damn high school
(57:46):
play, but I think your bestieAngela, if you guys were close
coming up in age, which I'm sureyou were, and I think you missed
that.
I clearly think y'all should getback together, like as best
friends, because I think she'sgonna need the support of her
best friend, just like you'regonna need the support of your
mother.
So, I know the shit has reallyhit the fan, and I know it's
(58:07):
gonna hit the fan, but itdoesn't have to be a lot of shit
that's gonna hit the fan.
You know, you could say, Well, Igot something to tell you.
You know, I can talk.
It sounds like your mother's areally reasonable woman.
I don't know her, I don't knowyou.
I'm just going by what thisletter is saying.
It sounds like that you want tobring this guy home knowing what
(58:28):
you know is gonna happen.
I don't know if it's gonna be agood thing or she's gonna be a
future suspect in this untimelymurder.
I don't know.
Because what I can tell you isthat if your mother was hurt by
this man, you're damn sure gonnabe hurt by this man.
The fact that you're dating yourmom's ex is ridiculous.
(58:51):
It's just doesn't sit well withme.
I can't even fathom that.
I can't.
I mean, I know your friendAngela has had a relationship
with him, but she kind of gets apass because you two don't even
know that he doesn't even tellyou that he's dating you or that
he dated Angela.
(59:12):
You had to find that out fromyour mother.
And the fact that Angela'smother, Miss Esther, called your
mother pissed off because she'snot getting married now.
What do you think's gonna happenwhen they find out that you're
gonna get married to him?
I I I would say, hey, I hope, Ireally hope and hope and think
(59:36):
that you think about this.
I really do.
I really hope and think that youjust oh my gosh, just say no,
this ain't for me.
So Miss Rachel, Miss Um Being.
(01:00:00):
A single parent is not that bad.
It's just gonna make you astronger person.
But you don't need the help of aman to be a stronger woman
because you're already astronger woman.
Women are the most strongestwomen on the face of this earth.
They put up with a lot of shit.
And there's no way in hell youshould be putting up with the
shit that you're putting up withbecause you want to be happy.
Don't be selfish.
(01:00:20):
Think about your daughter.
Think about your mother.
Think about your best friend.
But most of all, think aboutyou.
Think about how your life can bea lot more better without this
bullshit in your life.
Because you don't need this.
This is not what you this is notwhat you're destined for.
If you're worried about beingwith somebody, trust me and
believe me, somebody's going tocome along for you.
(01:00:43):
Somebody better, somebody muchmore qualified, somebody that's
going to make you happy, that'sgoing to love you and your
daughter.
So as I get ready to close theshow, I don't want to say thank
you for listening.
Thank you for my followers.
(01:01:03):
Thank you for the letters.
If you guys have any questions,concerns, comment, or you just
want to talk about it, y'allknow what to do.
D6Mpire357 at gmail.com.
Now I know I missed a deadlinelast week of releasing the show,
but I'll be back on track thisweek.
(01:01:23):
This week was kind of hectic.
Lord was hectic.
Sister had to move.
But you know, we're good.
We're good now.
Back on track.
I am on TikTok IG.
Link is always in thedescription.
I'm on BuzzCast.
(01:01:44):
Keep thinking these two ain'tthe same, but they are.
So, until next time, my friends.
I hope you guys have a greatweek, have a great day.
Unfortunately, I gotta get readyfor work.
Gotta get this job thing going.
You know, but this don't pay thebill, you know.
I don't know.
I can't really sit on a computerall day and talk unless people
really want to talk to me.
(01:02:05):
But I do want to say thank youguys for listening.
Thank you guys for the emails,thank you five for the support,
and thank you to my haters aswell.
Because without you, none ofthis is possible.
The hell it ain't.
I'll still keep doing it becausemy haters don't like me, but
it's all good though.
You know, I don't look at lifeas people who want to see me
fail.
(01:02:25):
You know, if you want to see mefail, then hey, keep rooting.
Maybe eventually it won'thappen.
So, but that much energy you putinto me failing, ah, that's just
you having a horrible day.
But I still wish the best foryou.
I wish nothing for the best foranybody who listens to a show.
(01:02:47):
So, in any event, but want tosay thank you guys for
listening.
Thank you for the support thatyou guys are showing me.
Again, you can follow me on allmy socials if you want to.
It's up to you, don't reallyhave to.
Or just keep supporting me.
In any event, we're gonna leaveyou guys with this next track.
(01:03:09):
Uh, Toby Trainer, Trentner.
It's called Expelled FromSchool.
Awkward.
It's just a track, I don't know.
You know, it's what it is.
So, until next time, my friends,I will holler at y'all later.
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