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November 21, 2024 41 mins

In this episode of Let's Talk Love, Robin is joined by world-renowned trauma expert Dr. Frank Anderson to explore society’s growing awareness of trauma and the path to healing. Dr. Anderson shares insights from his memoir, To Be Loved, reflecting on his personal journey and the power of storytelling in trauma recovery. Together, they discuss the complexities of therapy, real-life applications of therapeutic insights, and the dynamics of trauma bonding within families. Dr. Anderson helps us understand trauma responses, the four T’s of trauma healing, and the transformative nature of the healing process. Emphasizing forgiveness as a personal choice and the necessity of reclaiming one’s power, this conversation illuminates the journey of self-awareness, self-love, and the collective effort essential for healing.

Takeaways:

  • Trauma awareness has significantly increased in recent years.
  • Storytelling can be a powerful tool for healing.
  • Healing often occurs outside of traditional therapy settings.
  • Trauma bonding can complicate family dynamics.
  • Thanking our trauma responses can change our internal world.
  • The four T's of trauma healing are essential for recovery.
  • Healing can happen through sharing experiences.
  • Forgiveness is a personal choice, not an obligation.
  • Ignoring our wisdom often keeps us connected to unhealthy relationships.
  • Transforming trauma involves corrective experiences.
  • Taking back your power is crucial after trauma.
  • Healing is a lifelong journey, not a destination.


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Links:

To Be Loved https://tr.ee/ZtpAr5plNR

https://www.traumainstitute.com/

https://www.frankandersonmd.com/


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Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.

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