In this episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin sits down with Dr. Christie Kederian, Relationship Therapist, Celebrity Matchmaker, and Author of 10 Dates to Your Soulmate, for a thoughtful and enlightening discussion on navigating the modern dating world. Together, they explore the importance of self-awareness, intentionality, and observation while dating and in building lasting relationships.
Dr. Christie shares insights from her book, offering impactful dating strategies, such as saying YES to second dates, observing potential partners in different contexts, and recognizing concerning behaviors like love bombing. The conversation also touches on the evolving dynamics of online dating, the significance of premarital counseling, and the impact of mental health and family dynamics on relationship success. Whether you're new to dating or working toward deeper connections, this episode provides empowering advice to approach love with clarity and confidence.
Takeaways:
- Great relationships are created, not found.
- The dating process requires observation over expectation.
- First dates should be short to maintain momentum.
- Second dates are for deeper connection.
- Chemistry develops through genuine interactions.
- Understanding oneself is crucial in dating.
- Pay attention to Red Flags in early stages.
- Effective communication is key in relationships.
- Understanding someone's reactions reveals their values.
- Be Aware before Emotionally investing in someone.
- Commitment bias leads to overlooking red flags.
- Premarital counseling helps address important questions.
- Aligning visions for the future is essential.
- Mental health discussions are necessary for partnership.
- Family dynamics play a significant role in relationships.
- Past relationship insights foster personal responsibility.
- Defining relationships provides security and clarity.
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Links:
Book - https://drchristiekederian.com/10-dates-to-your-soulmate
Website - www.drchristiekederian.com
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Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
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