In this conversation, Robin and Terri Cole explore the concept of High-Functioning Codependency (HFC), examining HFC behaviors and the emotional costs they bring to relationships and personal well-being. Terri shares insights from her book Too Much, highlighting how easily we can become overly responsible for others' crises and the importance of self-awareness and self-care. Together, they unpack the toll HFC takes, from burnout to diminished intimacy. Terri offers empowering strategies for recovery, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering deeper self awareness and healing.
Takeaways:
- High Functioning Codependency is often misunderstood and overlooked.
- Many high-achieving individuals do not identify as codependent.
- Recognizing the traits of HFC is crucial for self-awareness.
- The cost of HFC includes burnout and lack of joy in life.
- Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.
- Intimacy can suffer in relationships affected by HFC.
- Recovery from HFC involves learning to receive and ask for help.
- Self-discovery is a key component of overcoming HFC.
- It's never too late to create the life and relationships you desire.
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Watch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready
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Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
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